Red flags in a relationship ft. Gayathrie Shankar

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  • @sangeethasomasundaram8027
    @sangeethasomasundaram8027 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Comment section is clean. I wish this kind of non judgmental audience and community stay close ❤

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you! ❤

    • @sangeethasomasundaram8027
      @sangeethasomasundaram8027 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Mercyonair kudos for creating this space

    • @sangeethasomasundaram8027
      @sangeethasomasundaram8027 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@anonfromnowhereinparticula1184 I am feeling sorry for rage and hatred in you. I pray for your mental health

    • @anonfromnowhereinparticula1184
      @anonfromnowhereinparticula1184 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sangeethasomasundaram8027 ya. thanks.
      folks like me are an anachronism today.
      its the day and age of people like you. kazhisadaigal.
      enjoy.

    • @akashmadhavan711
      @akashmadhavan711 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      MERCY PLS INVITE GAYATHRI MORE AND DISCUSS MORE. YOU GUYS COULD DO SOMETHING LIKE MOMENT OF SILENCE POD BY SAKSHI AND NAINA BAHN, COUSAN OF SHEREEN BAHN

  • @abhijithms7373
    @abhijithms7373 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Huge respect for her Super Dad, from bottom of my heart.

  • @KK-tx2cm
    @KK-tx2cm ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Happy to see open n evolved conversation by two women. Gayathrie is so honest!

  • @andriavinithalobo5813
    @andriavinithalobo5813 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Randomly found your channel today and l'm Glad.❤
    Such raw, unfiltered conversation.
    Felt like I was also a part of it

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @meenakshiayyappan5563
    @meenakshiayyappan5563 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is so true, having a conversation on a date not a monologue

  • @priyadharshini4927
    @priyadharshini4927 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg! As women of mid 20's , I could totally relate to this !!!
    90% of this happened in my life 😂. Where in which i learned a lot.

  • @alphahalogaming3123
    @alphahalogaming3123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Neat and clean and Clear
    This video is like Living in Chennai But During 1900s

  • @arulrozariomusic
    @arulrozariomusic ปีที่แล้ว +15

    randomly saw this one on home page. loving this podcast .Great job Mercy

  • @Sara.apr24
    @Sara.apr24 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazed by the way Gayatri spoke.. Complete perception changed compared to on screen presence. Interviewing person way she asking and engaging also is in a nice flow.

  • @AmuthanVethanayagam
    @AmuthanVethanayagam ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Such an amazing conversation. If Gayathri was in Hollywood, would have been an A lister like Julia Roberts.

  • @pooranigiridharan
    @pooranigiridharan ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s absolutely so good mercy !! It felt so real as if I am also a part of the whole conversation. The whole thing felt very close and relatable

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! ❤

  • @siddarthra2202
    @siddarthra2202 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wonderful conversation. Gayathrie is a beaut!

  • @Itzzzshyam
    @Itzzzshyam ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was about to stop watching when the host said she is married and want to talk abt relationships. But this was beautiful. Good one Mercy, rhumba arumai. Gayathrie is so smart and honest. One of the best podcasts ever seen.

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! 😁

  • @ashok8633
    @ashok8633 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please do a podcast with your husband Niketh Bommireddy. Also please discuss how did you guys meet , your love story , what made you guys to get married. Plsssss do a show. It's my humble request. It would be a great idea for growth of your channel too. You and Niketh seem so lovely couple.

  • @prashanthprabhakarannair6326
    @prashanthprabhakarannair6326 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    From Radio to here, glad you found a place to voice your thoughts and we can listen to you & your invitees break into these nice conversations! 🎉

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much :))

  • @aqeelkhan4350
    @aqeelkhan4350 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ah not the early morning Christmas hug I wanted, but the one I needed! On a path of accepting people for what they are, this conversation helped in moulding me a bit. You are doing god's work ma'am, and that presented in such a sweet, calm voice is just chicken soup for the soul! To more empowered women, and more sensitive men! ❤️

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! Merry Christmas to you 😁

    • @aqeelkhan4350
      @aqeelkhan4350 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Mercyonair Merry Christmas to you too Mercy ✨

  • @gayathris2698
    @gayathris2698 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I was soo into this show. Just like Sister's talk
    Loving it ❤

  • @fatimajax2405
    @fatimajax2405 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gayathrie articulates so well🎉❤

  • @ananyasankar6170
    @ananyasankar6170 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So so good! I recently started watching your podcasts and i totally love the way you speak and carry the show! Please do more such videos.. 🫶🫶

  • @sudiptivaradharajan
    @sudiptivaradharajan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    DO A PART 2 WITH GAYATHRIE!!!! SHE IS SUCH A VIBEE!!

  • @rajashreer35
    @rajashreer35 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where were you! How did i miss this channel. Felt like i was a part of this conversation. Glad. Will share it with my people❤

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! 😁

  • @madhumithashankar141
    @madhumithashankar141 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg, Mercy. I loved this episode. I guess I’m going to follow your upcoming episodes too. Totally looking forward to it. I feel these kinda discussions need to be witnessed by the world. Kudos!

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! ❤

  • @jananielango
    @jananielango ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Quality conversations like this are just 🤌❤

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! 😁

    • @jananielango
      @jananielango ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mercyonair you go girl! ❤️

  • @abdulkhadarshaik3970
    @abdulkhadarshaik3970 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good Girls go to Heaven..
    Bad Girls Go Every Where..

  • @VidyaKailasam
    @VidyaKailasam ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a cool podcast! Content and practical conversations

  • @AshwiB21
    @AshwiB21 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish I had this insight way back

  • @vivekravichandran4423
    @vivekravichandran4423 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was not really into podcasts then i randomly came across this video and it was listerally amazing. The convo between you guys was so good! I wish to see more of it please ...

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! 😊

  • @kindsoul11
    @kindsoul11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Cool podcast , was a chill listen

  • @TheKatChatStories
    @TheKatChatStories 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I randomly came across your channel and I almost finished watching all of your content ❤❤

  • @hrithikkumar4294
    @hrithikkumar4294 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn!! I watched both the episodes, actually am curious on what's cooking next... Kudos keep up the good work. Special mention to the audio quality and the art in your background... Hoping to see many more in future!!!❤

  • @vaisshnavivenkatesan8074
    @vaisshnavivenkatesan8074 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love this episode. Casually you girls gave a lot to think about. And yes definitely a very fun episode.

  • @user67196
    @user67196 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Reached the right audience

  • @NavaneethaKrishnanA
    @NavaneethaKrishnanA ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A very important and insightful conversation.

  • @3lok_kommireddy
    @3lok_kommireddy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your podcasts are awesome! So glad for sharing the wisdom

  • @nafees285
    @nafees285 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    title should be "red flags in a GVM movie relationship"

  • @rajashreer35
    @rajashreer35 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Truly a fun convo🎉

  • @abcdabcd8605
    @abcdabcd8605 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    27:47 Amazing

  • @krubha333
    @krubha333 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dad❤️❤️❤️ மானம் உடம்பில் இல்லை

  • @iPanithuli
    @iPanithuli ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m becoming a Podcast person ❤

  • @hariashwin6888
    @hariashwin6888 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wonderful conversation!

  • @nimalm7623
    @nimalm7623 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Randomly caught up with this show and it was really a good one to know different perspective ❤

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you! 😊

  • @rukumaniarulkuppuraju9808
    @rukumaniarulkuppuraju9808 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Gayathrie on point ❤

  • @Nithi3366
    @Nithi3366 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great show...please keep doing❤

  • @sriram-rn3oi
    @sriram-rn3oi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Really loved it ❤

  • @shubikshaganesh
    @shubikshaganesh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved this podcast! Such a well navigated, crisp podcast Mercy! Keep this coming. Such flamboyance and command over language Gayathrie, nice to see a different perspective of someone we’ve only seen on screen open up.

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much! Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @souns101
    @souns101 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was very wholesome ❤

  • @illuminati_editzv
    @illuminati_editzv ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love this one❤❤❤😊

  • @rajalakshmi6411
    @rajalakshmi6411 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Watching on repeat mode ✌️❤️

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much! 😊

  • @bestfriendsachinkalbhorshoes
    @bestfriendsachinkalbhorshoes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Join the business community

  • @darshanm2518
    @darshanm2518 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good one 🕊️✨

  • @keerthana-o5l9w
    @keerthana-o5l9w 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your voice is so soothing ❤

  • @skippertrends
    @skippertrends 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here's a guy's perspective after hearing Mercy & Gayathrie.
    Financial independence is a power. Unfortunately the woke women in mid 20s with financial independence start to abuse it, corrupt themselves and also go on to preach others about feminism, relationships and so on only to regret later in their late 30s. Women need men more in their lives once they hit the mid 30s which they don't realize. Women can't slog like men for ever.
    There is a reason men and women are created differently. They have their own natural traits, purpose in the ecosystem. Men are designed to provide / protect women and offspring and in turn they expect respect. Women are designed to love men and offspring and in turn they expect protection and comfort. That's nature.
    If one gender stops offering the other gender what they seek, not tolerate the other gender's negative traits, exhibit the other gender's traits instead of their own, then the other gender will not see a purpose in engagement and it will result in self-isolation. Be it any gender, the importance of a relationship, the other gender's value can only be realized after you go through the struggles. I find it appalling that women tend to normalize walking out of men and staying single.
    The countries/societies that promote this behavior end up with declining birth rates, reducing labor force/working class and too many old people.

    • @Jhon_wick03
      @Jhon_wick03 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      true words , but idhu feminist and simp pasanga ethukka maattanga

  • @prasha88
    @prasha88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She deserves the best. But where are all the good men ???

  • @qwerty48880
    @qwerty48880 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    5:12 one of my relationship ended ah lol ...how many relationships do u had ?

  • @motheeswarg8448
    @motheeswarg8448 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice meaningful conversation.

  • @raghul6087
    @raghul6087 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i do not know why but i like to watch green flag then red one

  • @bharanisri1823
    @bharanisri1823 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh girls! Where were u in my twenties ?

  • @sandhiyasrinivasan-g3b
    @sandhiyasrinivasan-g3b 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you look bold and clean

  • @jessyk2579
    @jessyk2579 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    18:02
    Do your own stuff! Wash your own cloths, cook your own meal, eat alone, sleep alone,
    they why marry bro?

    • @aqeelkhan4350
      @aqeelkhan4350 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She didn't mean it like that. Each person should be able to do household chores, and not let just one person suffer their whole lives - like how just our moms were made to do the cooking, the cleaning, and the washing part. Marriage/companionship is 50:50 bro, I provide when you're down, you help me if you can when I'm down. ❤️

    • @TheKatChatStories
      @TheKatChatStories 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Marriage is not for getting a maid to do your basic things

    • @Jhon_wick03
      @Jhon_wick03 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheKatChatStories it is not getting a ATM for you either

    • @Jhon_wick03
      @Jhon_wick03 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@aqeelkhan4350 you must be a simp

  • @kumarkotra7471
    @kumarkotra7471 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved this podcast

  • @Nivetha_kp
    @Nivetha_kp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    this
    this is tooo good !

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 😊

  • @ramanr9935
    @ramanr9935 หลายเดือนก่อน

    By the way mercy is beautiful❤

  • @mohanapriya12
    @mohanapriya12 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😍😍😍loved this podcast

  • @rheawinona18
    @rheawinona18 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just giving you ❤❤❤🫡topic 🥰

  • @dharanidharani7054
    @dharanidharani7054 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Feel like fresh❤

  • @shaktishrivithiya496
    @shaktishrivithiya496 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    When you are 30 and still single you will probably not complain about arrange marriages anymore. lol

  • @sharathkumar5536
    @sharathkumar5536 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    aww lovely!

  • @gk-bc4di
    @gk-bc4di ปีที่แล้ว +2

    But loved it 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @Sri___priya.
    @Sri___priya. 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love it ❤❤❤

  • @rengapradeep
    @rengapradeep 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    wholesome❤

  • @jokernews8018
    @jokernews8018 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She didn't think about her parents while whatever she was doing and now playing victim card 😅

  • @Rock.Romeo.
    @Rock.Romeo. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woww nice i love it ❤😅

  • @sivored_45
    @sivored_45 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i love the way your talking 😍💗

  • @ashok8633
    @ashok8633 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why am I feeling that you guys had tried many things than what I am doing right now in college life. Some thing felt right when you were discussing and some points felt like it was not necessary to start somethings in your life in the first place. I don't know yet what is correct ... but I don't what to try anything that I might feel like it can go wrong. I am a 3-rd year BTech Student. Btw, Thanks Mercy John for the content. Good to have different perceptives. Thanks for adding subtitles. Btw, are you in Hridayam movie? The scene where a where kedar Performs the concert? Love from a Telugu guy.

    • @Mercyonair
      @Mercyonair  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! And yes I did a very small role in Hridayam 😁

    • @aqeelkhan4350
      @aqeelkhan4350 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trust me buddy, I'm 27 and I felt so out of place listening to people talk about being in relationships, partying and all. But know that each of our journeys are different. Do not resent the things which you didn't have a chance to do, just accept yourself and respect people for their life choices. All love. ❤️

  • @dolphinrose21
    @dolphinrose21 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Though your generation is different, for my gen , we just get married lol , there was no dating culture , just a handful of kids dated.

  • @arojey
    @arojey ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @nithishkumarbtechit1927
    @nithishkumarbtechit1927 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have never been in relationship 😂😂😂 I can't relate to your videos sorry

  • @Amritdas99
    @Amritdas99 ปีที่แล้ว

    In full show......there is men bashing.... it is so sad......
    ... please stop bashing men...🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @trueman5948
    @trueman5948 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My own relatives cousins who iam stayed with since i was kid had character assasinated me. It diff to get out this phase u loose so much life and u loose skills to be alive....
    Usa to india......

  • @gk-bc4di
    @gk-bc4di ปีที่แล้ว

    Late

  • @nomadseeker584
    @nomadseeker584 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ths girl r not realizing they r the red flags

  • @Ajith-Kumar-c
    @Ajith-Kumar-c ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yeah, u are a red flag

    • @iPanithuli
      @iPanithuli ปีที่แล้ว

      Everyone has some kinda 🚩, but not everyone accepts that 😁

    • @Ajith-Kumar-c
      @Ajith-Kumar-c ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iPanithuli yeah 👍 people accepting it are gold too...

  • @bksundar
    @bksundar ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Our moms cooked so much for us. These people cooking is a big deal. So lazy lol

    • @thesingam0759
      @thesingam0759 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Times have changed where women realized that cooking is not just their job. Men should also learn how to cook and make meals too.

    • @PRadzzzGY
      @PRadzzzGY ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Your mum could have also achieved a lot more if your dad had shared the burden, you’ll aren’t hunting and gathering anymore for the women to slave over fire, both women and men have moved towards office jobs, businesses, so you’ll gotta equally chip in.

    • @bksundar
      @bksundar ปีที่แล้ว

      @thesingam0759 lol cooking is not a big deal as it is made out to be. Men or women. These people are lazy period.

    • @bksundar
      @bksundar ปีที่แล้ว

      @PRadzzzGY moms achieved a lot . Do not belittle them . Your woke hypocritical ideas are just what causes places like CA to become completely third world these days . We have seen the long term results from what an absolute beauty it used to be to a hell hole

    • @PRadzzzGY
      @PRadzzzGY ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bksundar I’m not the one reducing mothers to people who cook a lot, you think women just come into existence to serve, homemakers do an awful lot for the family, but isn’t it convenient for men to pigeonhole them into being just that, like they have no passions or interests of their own. You would think cooking is a big deal, if you quit being a load of lard and did it yourself. Did you get dropped on the head? What correlation does being woke have to do with a county that is economically struggling? Also exercising one’s rights and making personal choices isn’t being woke, it is simply life. You on the other hand sound regressive.

  • @sivored_45
    @sivored_45 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Women 😆😆😆😆😆

    • @fugebfjheb
      @fugebfjheb ปีที่แล้ว +3

      men 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sivored_45
      @sivored_45 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@fugebfjheb Maya 😂😂

    • @fugebfjheb
      @fugebfjheb ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sivored_45 siv🤣🤣🤣

  • @soulpixelate
    @soulpixelate ปีที่แล้ว

    Booooo