Vidya Balan On Marriage, Meeting Sid Roy, Relationship, Cheating & Situationship | FO191 Raj Shamani
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Timestamps:
00:00 - Intro
03:45 - Vidya Balan and romance
05:05 - Vidya balan on her marriage with Siddharth Roy Kapur
10:23 - Boat and Anchor theory
13:01 - Relationship with parents influence choice of partner
15:35 - Immature fights and how they deal with it
20:08 - Advice to couples
22:32 - Individual physical space in relationships
25:52 - Giving time to family Vs having personal space
32:27 - Relationship Hack, Thankyou over sorry
36:03 - Why do people cheat in relationship?
40:39 - Harvard’s study on polygamy
44:10 - Sofa theory
46:50 - Situationship
49:35 - Connection Vs Instant stimulation
54:38 - About Do aur do pyaar movie
57:10 - Vidya balan on realising Siddharth is the one for her.
58:46 - Thanks for watching!
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In today’s episode of Figuring Out, we have Vidya Balan in conversation with Raj Shamani.
She is an actress who has not worked in a template but always did movies that were unique and different from one another. From Mission Mangal to Dirty Picture, she has nailed every movie that she has done. Our conversation was one of the most heartwarming conversations on love we had on our podcast.
In this episode, we talked about her equation with her husband Siddharth Roy Kapoor, and how she never saw herself getting married before meeting him and her perspective on getting married. We then talked about two types of people in relationships and how it is related to the people we attract or are attracted to and the theory of the Boat and the Anchor. She then shared how her equation has evolved with Siddhart over the years and how she practices self-love and self-acceptance and maintains her individuality being in a marriage.
We then talked about why people cheat and this was the most interesting part in our conversation because we figured out so many reasons that most of us haven’t thought about. Then I shared the Sofa theory in relationships and how men and women have different mindsets in relationships. She then shared her take on situationships and shared about her new movie which is about relationships. We ended our conversation with a romantic story of how he realised that Siddhart was the one for her. For more such episodes don’t forget to subscribe to our channel.
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She shows excitement while other person is speaking that's excellent communication skills
the best thing about her ,
From "Parineeta" to "Paa," "The Dirty Picture," and "Kahani," Vidya Balan consistently proves herself to be an exceptional individual.
Zee ma hum panchh aati thi usme bhi thi
The aura of her is just so beautiful❤
Vidya is very intelligent...The whole podcast..The way she was taking a pause....thinking about the questions answeing...I felt so good. It felt like Raj is the younger brother and Vidya is the elder sister...both adults discussing LIFE❤
Her voice and laugh are just purely delightful.
Thoroughly enjoyed this podcast. I repeat myself here saying this, "Raj, I love your way of interacting with your guests. You let them talk and you listen well and your questions are well curated and thoughtful."
He forgot to ask “kya aapne apni maut k baare mei socha hai?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hahahaha! I know who this comment was hinting at!
😂kya aap bhoot main maante ho. Kya aapne yeti dekha hai😂😂😅
Totally agree as I love watching his style of interaction so very pure something like what we would ask if we were in his place:)
I’ve been watching most of your shows as I missed so many from the past.. keep going Raj! Kudos
Vidya ma'am rethinking her entire relationship during this session. Nice session through 50%.
53:00 "connection se daar lagta ha".. afraid of trauma, the sadness it brings, we see constantly connections getting broken evey day, whether loosing someone, pets, no one stays forever, don't wannay be vulnerable for anyone to hurt you later. Connections are meaningless just harmonal highs, its you, your personality, your journey, also no one wants to change for the other person, you want to get accepted as you are, (I am not saying not dresssing up) like not wanting to put up a show for the other person, relationships nowdays are only for adventurous types, looking for thrill of dangers(breakups), cheating/affairs just the thrill of getting caught, not like hiking because its difficult and challenging, but like gambling, its easy and gives similar high. Idk, finding true honest people that are willing to open up, show true self, is very difficult, social dating is all a show,(show of money power influence) no one want to see or even think of the future like 20-30yrs down the line, how will life look like, how we want to spend our future together, everyone wants to just live in today, aaj hi karlo jo bhi karna ha, kal ka kuch nahi pata, But no one is planning for the furture and acting accordingly, thats why these situationships, meaningless relationships.
Great show. Bro I want you work with you if possible, this was a deep conversation, thoda deep and better questions aur and it will be Lex Fridman lvl.
This is such a beautiful episode. What I love about Raj is that he doesn't shy away from putting across his point of view and stick to it and justify it sensibly
I’m that kind, hehe! Wow, you noticed and pointed that out, you guys observe very closely!! Thanks 🙌🏻❤️
Vidya Balan's laughter is infectious.....She always gives Positive Vibes! ❤ 😊
This is not jus an interview this is a reflection of everyone's relationships which we all faced and some will. We need some other podcasts like this to understand things.
The best part was end of the conversation where you mentioned that you skipped all the questions to keep the originality. It so simple to have conversations and you proved it right rather faking it. Its wow ❤
lack of connection with yourself definitely comes in the way of one forming a connection with the world. and I have experienced this firsthand.
Effort is the sexiest thing in the world. This line hit me hard when it comes to relationships. learnt this lesson the hard way.
The most honest, heartfelt, deep, analytical flow of conversation I have seen in a long time. No wonder Raj did not need to look at his notes.
Superb Raj Shamani !! Different converation !! Its realisation convertion i loved it !!
This podcast is exceptional, truly one of the finest I've listened to. The chemistry between Raj and Vidya is remarkable, and witnessing it has elevated my admiration for Raj significantly. I am definitely looking forward to tuning in to more episodes. Good luck and keep growing.
Thank you for letting the conversation flow naturally and giving us a beautiful podcast. One of my favourites. Loved the way you guys talked about relationships, even though I'm single I understood a lot more about myself and my relationship type. Brilliant ❤
That's one of the sweetest pitch that I have ever had. Subscribed. :)
Thanks and Need more such podcasts, so that we can understand the female prospective also.
Glad, this episode could help. I'll sure bring more episodes around this topic!! Stay tuned 💪
Vidya Balan is very beautiful...she talks from her heart.... felt good through out
Vidya Balan is my all time favourite...not just her looks, but how she thinks and speak is soooooooo deep & beautiful.....This podcast is just awesome...THE COMBINATION of Vidya and Raj is mind blowing....Lovely coversation
I loved how you spoke about a situation and explained the solution as an example of 'thank you' instead of 'sorry'.
You asked such nice questions . and the chat in overall was very informative , eye opening and leaves one with lot of questions about oneself .
Great work Raj !
What she said is so true about connection and commitment.. at the end of the podcast..made me realise fault in myself and relationship with myself.what a great conversation !!
Me and my husband are in long distance relationship because of jobs.we talk every now and then on the phone. We never fail to communicate.❤
Why u and your husband?
Where your job?
Same dear my husband is in armed forces and i am in state government job. So we have to live apart. But if you want to make it happen everything goes smoothly
@@spreadlove8539 thanks for sharing mam
God bless you ❤
Wow best podcast.
So much to learn❤
She’s an actor and an amazing one, why no questions asked about her methodology of acting/ her work, like for example, Manoj Bajpai was asked. Imagine if Manoj Bajpai spoke about the relationship with his wife for an hour and nothing about acting.
Exactly 💯
heyy,actually the thing is that shes here for her movie promotion,and hence its more relationship based(as per the movie also),shes been doing similar promotions at other places also
@@SlaylorSwift14 Yea, you are right
Most of the people on podcasts are there to promote their products.
This was an amazing episode ❤. She is so sensible and smart in her life. I love the healer part, and to every modern day persepective she has one that defines her soul. 😍
We can ask @rajshamani to get her back to talk about her acting journey bec that interests allllll of us. 👍 but this doesn’t undermine this podcast in any way. This conversation was excellent bec it got us to know Vidya as a person. And she’s incredible 😍❤️
This was one of the most insightful conversations I had heard in a while! Love the format!
Podcasts mein na yeh ek bada gap tha ke beerbiceps he hai jo sabse top ka podcaster hai but honestly he is lame. His way of conducting podcast sucks. Yeh cheezein sabhi maante hai. We as viewers were wanting ke koi iss gap ko fill karde beerbiceps jitna high level quality podcast provide karte huye. And only Raj Shamani and his team does that👍🙌 Fills the gap✅
No bullshit. No rubbish. Not being over excited, just being perfect💎
Raj Shamani is perfect in doing podcasts that’s why we enjoy as viewers😍
P.S.- I’m definitely gonna watch film Do Aur Do Pyaar only because of this podcast❤️
"it's in the presence of a good partner,we really discover ourselves" that's so true,I am experiencing it,we have fights,but we fight for better😊
One for the ages, Raj! Vidya Balan Chechi (all respect!) opens up abour relationships and everything that makes it work. Pivots, perspectives and a positive feeling of being loved. Let's hope all of us experience it! Cheers Raj, and thanks for having this honest individual and supremely talented actor on the show!
From apologizing to thankful, great lesson learned today. Thankyou
Beautiful conversation! Very human, guards down, aise laga hum saath beth ke coffee pi rahe hain. If only humans were so comfortable being vulnerable with each other... This is true connection :) Thank you once again Raj, you're helping me sail through in tough times.
After listening to gazillion relationship podcasts, I felt this one as most succinct, & closer to Indian context ... Amazing work 👏🏻😍
This session was really hitting at different levels….. it was a in-depth conversation 😊
This is the second time i am listening to Vidya mam on a podcast. She is such a beautiful person inside and out. Her thinking, her point of views are so on point. I could really see myself agreeing to what she was saying. And Raj this is the first time i am watching your podcast and i must say Its brilliant ❤❤❤
Vidya balan looks so elegant and fit at 45❤
Absolutely loveddddddd this conversation!!!! So good! Shes right, you’re like a healer✨ hihi
Wonderful conversation thoroughly enjoyed it,good job💫
I really really loved it! Her voice is still so good omg 😭❤️
I just love listening to the conversation between you and the other person, its so knowledgeable... please make more of it
Listening to vidya is like listening to music 😂 she is so surili ❤
Vidya In Parineeta was fabulous
You are doing a great job Raj! Your pace, calmness and the peace that you maintain throughout the convention is awesome. Keep going.. ❤❤❤
I felt a lot of healing listening to this. Learned about the sofa theory, also about doing something new every month with your partner, so you explore and know each other more. My husband and me have been stepping out of the house for dates, but doing nothing and we come back feeling we have nothing to do. This was a super duper episode , that I could sit and listen to you guys for hours.
Brilliant podcast, first 10 mins of it and I'm hooked, compelled to comment right away and sold on it to watch full.
Also how about if I feel like the air and neither the boat nor the anchor?
Excellent conversation and an apt topic chosen @Raj Shamani
Sharing my viewpoint. There is a distinction between realization due to insights and feeling guilty.. A thin line difference.. Hence I agree to both the views on 'spending time with family for 5 mins or just saying had a bad day need some time off' when back home..
In both ways we are communicating with the other person. Sharing our views and setting expectation is important and over a period of time the other person understands you even if you dont communicate.. That's connection and understanding.
In my view this was one of the best podcasts..
Next should be Samantha
Raj you are a great conversationalist! Vidya Balan is an exceptional individual! She has no star airs, she is listening to what Raj has to say with keen interest and excitement. Her thoughts are so sorted and she comes out as a truly humble and genuine person! I am a great admirer of her acting prowess but now admire her intellect and her thought process as well. 😊
Oh! Vidya ma'am ❤love from Bangladesh
I just love the conversation I usually miss this go with the flow attitude in your podcast I am glad that you didn't open your note book keep making such natural conversation podcast
..best of luck
I love how calm you keep it all, felt the connection and learned a lot. Thank you ❤
Raj..Raj..Raj..Raj..Raj..your podcasts are so therapeutic for me..❤
Who wants Raj to have a podcast with his girlfriend.❤
Mm...I guess only you 😂😅
Public nhi kr skte usko
bhai podcast dekh kar kuch shikhna samjhna hain uski gf se kay shikhna hain how to love raj 😂
The entire podcast had such a natural flow of normal conversation that it made me think about a lot of aspects in relationships. Kudos to you @Raj Shamani that you held up to a natural dialogue in progress for an hour as compared to asking noted down ‘interview’ questions. Vidya Balan of course is someone who is loved by millions but her thoughtful mature answers made the podcast even more interesting and left me (and I’m sure a lot of viewers) pondering over inward connections, validation and stuff to bring novelty in relationships while not losing connection with yourself and the need for space! Thx for such a natural progress of conversation Raj. And I must say thx also bec I also learnt about the sofa theory from your podcast only. Keep up the good reading you do. Looking forward to more learnings…All the best to you. And God bless!!
this is the first podcast that i have seen tbh because every time i think of podcast i felt it was waste of time to see it for long time but as you said even i couldnt see how time passed i just felt your podcast is more better than anyone because you are so calm and listens to the oposite one i really loved it tbh this has to be watched by youngers nowdays. thank you good job keep doing and inviting more people like her because she is just so natural and real from inside
Raj aapnae Jo apni mummy papa ki grateful wali baat btayi
That's very very true ❤
We must be grateful to everyone in our life 🙏
I'm grateful to Raj becoz he gives me very informative podcasts.
Thankyou thankyou thankyou 🙏🙏🙏
Loved this episode, so good to hear that you did not check the previously written questions.
What took you so long to get her on the podcast???The only celebrity from Bollywood who articulates her hearts thoughts so well. Beautiful episode❤
A very pure and genuine vibe and conversation! Loved it. :)
lov the episode sofa theory and basicaly different perspective about topics keep the work going
This is so great Raj ❤️❤️❤️, keep bringing more podcast like this
Beautiful synergy ❤
Wow! That was one of a kind podcast… truly enjoyed every bit of it. And how both got so intrigued by each others opinions/experiences, the way it ended.
Loved it ❤
New subscriber....loved your podcast..the conversations are so deep
Fantastic episode I enjoyed till date. Thank you for sharing🌷🌷❤️
One of the best podcasts on relationships....Thanks Raj Shamani
Deepest conversation that I have listened to after a long time. Please do more like this
She laughs , I feel happy :D..
WOW, this was fun. Some of the podcasts I've followed in the past got boring after a certain period and sometimes they don't know where to direct the conversation and it looks "fake". This was genuinely my first ever podcast i listened where by the end I felt like this was so short. And dude the amount of info you have and how you express it and indulge your guests with, nice skills.
Forgot to mention Vidya mam's energy here. Very authentic.
All in all, this was very entertaining.
Fantastic show raj with a brilliant & natural actor vidya Balan true conversation about how a relationship should be between our people ...... lovely show I am proudly watching this show on you tube channel on my computer from chennai, Bharat
Loved the conversation you both had ❤
what a beautiful conversation..... every point of relationship is discussed here, its a good lessons for us too........ keep it up Raj.... wonderful show
felt some sort of smile througouttt the conversation..
when there is nobody to talk to especially when I want to then through you I feel like I am part of the conversation
Thank you both of you
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Very natural effortless talk sir, loved this ❤
Amazing podcast everytime
Thanks buddy!! 💪🏻🚀
Best of the Best..... Totally different from routine,,,,,, simply awesome
Amazing podcast, this is how a podcast should be equally interactive❤ . I have seen most of the host do out cast the guests in a way to show how smart and knowledgeable they are! Or not being reciprocative to the guest what they speak of. It's a wholesome conversation 😍and Raj have an amazing and genuine way of forming bonds with the guests 👏 and it's always a treat to see Vidya talking 😻
This was a fabulous podcast. Loved it you should have part 2 with this and ofcourse few lighter questions ❤
One of the best interview I have seen after a very very long time. Extremely relatable & debatable!!
Even I didn't realise where the time flew... Needed more 😅😅
Loved this podcast, felt as if I was a part of this too , and made me think on so many subjects . Thank you .🙏🙏
She is connected to herself..natural, genuine and true .. The Vidya Balan !!
From her very first Ad on TV..predicted She will be famous soon..(predicted too for Pretty Zinta..Lyril Ad and Shahrukh Khan..Fauji)
Watched the show first time because ..Vidya Balan..❤❤❤🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Your podcasts are just soo fruitful...You let the guest express themselves effortlessly!!!!
Loved the conversation. Got many of the thoughts validated and at the same time gave me few new insights and perspective about the life and relationship in general. Love each and every podcast of yours. Very informative and deep. Thank you @rajshamani
One of the best podcast. Such soothing
First Podcast which i have seen full very enteraining and educating....thnks raj and vidya
Just amazing conversation.. I just watched random reel nd came here nd watched entire convo ... Amazed how sofa theory nd genex convo went
such a soulful and wholesome conversation! loved it!🙂
What a beautiful podcast on relationship 👍👍
Thank you for making this podcast , it gave me so much of insights and perspective on relationship .I learned a lot
Vidya continues to shine with her brilliance, and Raj, you’ve truly mastered the art of interviewing. Your ability to bring out the best in your guests and effortlessly engage in conversation is commendable. It was a wonderful interview.
Such a beautiful episode, Raj!
I loved his natural the conversation was with Raj and Vidya. It was free flowing.
This episode was very insightful 💯
Such a nice conversation! Hats off to both of you.
She ie powerhouse..even in personal level seems like sorted and well articulated one
Best podcast 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Raj you are doing excellent work
Gd luck dear👍🏻
Thankyou Raj 🙏
What was this …amazing conversation..so unique
This is my 2nd podcast of urs I watched/ heard
Lovely stuff
dam amazing , more need of such episodes