I don’t worry about any labels. I have a hugely simplified home, I have reduced digital clutter, toxic relationships and have a streamlined financial life. I have time to focus on my health, family and friends, traveling and being generous to others. No labels, except I am happy and content.
I don't know why labels are so important to some people. We watch you because we appreciate your simple and intentional approach to life and living. It is very hard to edit and organize stuff and your videos give us a road map on how to do this. It is one thing to simply show your environment one video after another and quite another to give us (the viewer) tips and tricks on how to get there if that's what we seek. You share the latter with us beautifully and I applaud you for that.
Seems like using one’s time to count items and nitpick over labels kinda defeats the purpose of either, lol! 😆🤷🏻♀️ in addition to good “filmmaking” and a soothing aesthetic, I like that you explore your intentionality and therefore inspire me to explore mine. And your wry sense of humor comes through, too 😉
Well said , no one has to explain their choices. especially when your choices have given you a happy , contented and intentional life , who needs more than that
Dear Benita, I have seen the type comments that you mention receiving. I think these people are ridiculous with their insistence on following what THEY think is THE very definition of minimalism. They are very rigid in their thinking. I always think that these people are the type to follow every popular trend, whether in lifestyle, food, wardrobe, even the type vehicle they might drive. I’m too old to be bothered by these kinds of people now. I started out liking what I was seeing as minimalism…..the loose concept of it, because my excess stuff was causing stress in my life. But I quickly became disenchanted with the “moralists”. As things have worked out, I have dropped any strict description of what I was working toward in my own life. I have simplified my life in many ways and it suits me….maybe not anyone else at all. And that’s ok. I would listen to you every week because I like people in general and you are very likable to me. What I like about other people are our differences. When I first found you I liked you allowing us into your journey. Then when I learned that you are in Stockholm, I was thrilled. My ex husband was in the US military and we moved around a good bit. Sweden was and remains my favorite assignment. I have said ever since then that Stockholm is the only city in the world I would voluntarily live in. Please keep allowing us to follow your journey only to the extent that it works for you. Hej da.
❤Thank you. The move of videos to once every other week has me turning on the alert for the first time. I don’t want to miss your thoughtful 9:01 updates. Quality not quantity. Thank you.
Great video!! Life is a journey and being a minimalist is about that. It is not a destination. I have been working on having less and enjoying my life more. Less clutter brings peace of mind. Thanks again for continuing to be a source of inspiration for me.
These topics are great for discussion, but… “♥️What matters is that you’re happy with your life, your home and the people around you.” That part, yeah😉👍🏾
Gliding in slow mo through your beautiful apartment (no matter if it’s in this new one or your old one) is one of my favorite parts in your videos!!! 😂 I definitely have always considered you as a minimalist but don’t worry about what others say since it doesn’t matter anyway - Your lifestyle has been such an inspiration to me and will always continue to be ❤
People should mind their own business. You have helped me get rid of stuff and im truly grateful. Please keep doing these videos, you are making a difference. xxxxxx
Isn't it amazing that you are not allowed to call yourself what you want on your own channel? Especially in light that there are no exact specifics with these categories. But, for what it's worth, I would consider you a minimalist as well. :-) Tack för att du delar med dig.
I don't see myself as a minimalist because I just have too much stuff for my liking. But I have been sorting out rigorously for 2-3 years now and then. I only keep what gives me pleasure or is used. I'm currently clearing out a little more because I'm planning a move and the fewer packages I have, the better. In everyday life, it is simply important to me that everything has its place and that it is tidy.
I enjoyed your discussion of the two and thinking about the differences. Thanks for the thought provoking video. Now, back to gliding in slo-mo through my apartment 😅
thank you for this - I think I am still working towards a minimalist life - in spite of having 90% less stuff than anyone I know, it still feels heavy.
There are so many labels these days....you should just have what you want and need ...and if not used within a time frame. Then pass to someone else... My mum use to put things a box ....if we hadn't moved stuff and most of the time we forgot about the Stuff.....and realized we probably didn't need ....😊.
I’m on the journey towards minimalism but am dragging along a partner who “likes his stuff”. I would love an episode on how to combine those things. Btw I am slowly “winning”.
Such a great video! I’ve been watching many videos on essentialism compared to minimalism and they way you explained it was spot on! That being said, I’m loving the outfit you are wearing in this video. 😊 Would you share details? Thanks
I always enjoy your videos! I also don't have a lot of stuff. I like every item but I only keep what I really use. If I find a more interesting one - another one has to go. It's not important how to label that, and speaking about labels: I like your outfit in this video ... where did you buy it 😅? Thank you so much for your beautiful content 💎 Best wishes from the German alps 🤍
I wondered about your bed, that it doesn't have a seperate matress. Can you say where it is from? I think the system you have in Sweden is so much better! Thanks and thanks for all your beautiful videos.
I think that people will always pick on silly points, it's just who they are. The world is not black and white, i would definitely call you a minimalist, but some people prefer a more drastic version of minimalism. We all have different needs, if you are meeting yours then no one can say that you are wrong.
Seriously? In a world with so many important issues to sort out, they are worried about what they think minimalism should be?! 😕 Thank you for your time and effort to make these videos 🤗 We shouldn't have to explain ourselves to strangers. If it's not beautiful or useful, get rid of it. Simple as that ❤
You are clearly someone who thinks for herself. That is important. Thank you for the explanation; I gained insight. You did so without harshness and being judgmental.
Essentialist or minimalist… ? who cares! You are just the perfect contribution to my life every time you post a video. 🌷 Have a wonderful week, Benita!
People are ridiculous to think we are one thing and one thing only. That’s why I don’t like saying “I am” but say “I practice” instead. We are so much more than a label.❤️
I think everyone has their own journey when they take a minimalism path. I've made leaps and bounds on my journey and still looking forward to more . I'm with you Benita you said it beautifully "What matters is that you're happy with your life, your home and the people around you"❤
Benita brushing her cat’s face with the tooth brush is the most adorable thing ❤ awesome video as always 😊 your videos put me at ease everytime. Take care!
Wow! I really enjoyed this video. I especially enjoyed the bit near the end where you talk about the 95% of your life that we don't see where your not "looking out windows" and "slowly walking through your apartment." Made me chuckle. Helps put things in better perspective. Right before that I was commenting to myself how much I enjoy the way you film things and the angles you choose. Is that something you learned or just acquired?
Glad you enjoyed it! I’ve been creating videos for over four years now and since my home isn’t huge, I try to find new angles to make things a bit more interesting.
@@BenitaLarsson OHHHH YEAH!!! I was tired of the "minimalist" argument so curated seems to fit my lifestyle better. I am also a museum lover, so it is fitting! ;)
I call myself a MEnimalist because I don’t indiscriminately apply all the concepts of a minimalism to myself. I do pick and choose ideas that make my life happy and authentic. I don’t believe that number of possessions or labels define a person.
Kinda disappointed to hear you don't glide in slo-mo around your apartment 24/7....#lifegoals 😉 🤣 I'm all for the practical and effective approach, without sweating the Big Stuff! I also think the intentionality focus is a most useful part of both approaches. Whatever it gets labelled, the wider discussion of the consequences of overconsumption, and alternative ideas of living seem important during another 🌡️🔥 Northern Hemisphere summer 🌼
Dear Benita! The last sentence you spoke out is so true and I had that on my mind all the time watching your video! It doesn’t matter what one is following, the most important point is to be happy!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!🤗😌cheers from Iris from southwest Germany!☺️🤩🤗
Beautiful video loved it & I agree we don’t need to be labeled! We aren’t a package 📦 love how you spoil 🐈⬛ This gave me so much joy to watch Thanks ❤
I love your minimalist aesthetic! I’m definitely more of a maximalist but keep things like furniture lines minimalist. I don’t like fussy but I like lots of plants, books, artwork. Seems there are degrees of everything. ❤️ I also appreciate your gorgeous videos of you gliding across the room! 😆
I like the look of rich maximalist interiors in magazines , Instagram , and house museums . But , for me , it isn't practical . Unless one is wealthy with paid staff , how do you keep maximalist interiors clean and dust free ? Maximalist interiors seems overwhelming to keep dust free and clean . Plus maximalist interiors combined with collecting can easily become hoarding and unclean . I know of people that seem to be controlled by their stuff and limits their life and options especially when they become elderly or develop health problems . Maximalism can quickly become clutter and hoarding and lead to unclean smelly environment . I do love looking at maximalist British interiors and Ralph Lauren Old Manor " sets " .
Great video, as always. I agree that spending too much time worrying about how to label oneself is a waste of that time. Being happy with who you are, regardless of the label, is the most important thing. Both Minimalism and Essentialism are nor absolutes but continuums. Where you fit on the continuum probably varies at different stages of your life. I am heading to a more Minimal lifestyle as I age. I am trying to set things up so that things will be easier when I am less physically able.
Love this video Benita, I always find you very calming and relaxing to watch. Some people like to judge or label a person instead of accepting we are all different, all that matters is that we treat each other with love and respect and are happy with ourselves. Looking forward to your next video.
Some believe that minimalism means getting rid of virtually everything! Not true. I love how you have arranged your new home and it looks comfy and spacious without clutter but with the things you need,use and love!
Living intentionally, living with less, enjoying the things and experiences that matter. That makes sense to me. The label isn't important. Thank you for your videos -- they are wonderful!
I am glad you addressed this issue. We have too many debates on minimalists, maximalists, frugalists, essentialists and what not😂 . I feel its not wise to label anything as life and human nature is more complex than simple labels. I just came back from Stockholm this summer and I loved ferry hopping and the slower pace of life.
As always, Benita, when you touch upon the comments you get, I admire your perspective. When I hear what other people of these two movements or phiolosophies point out to you, how "you are not this" or "you have too much of that" it makes me wonder that it's ironic that, considering the basics you pointed out in this video, they find space and time in themselves to not only disagree but also to type it down. As if it's essential to them to let you know of what they think of you or at the mininimum they need to let everyone else know how pure or right they are. I'm grateful for your relentless repetition of how you don't care what they think of you and taking their comments as a starting point to your piece of content. Thank you.
I do love your videos Benita they are so calming and I always get loads of ideas and inspiration from them. Your apartment has really taken shape and looking so lovely and calming. Thank you :)
Hi Benita, I would definitely classify your aesthetic as minimalist, you don’t have many possessions. Some people define minimalism as having no furniture, one outfit, etc. I think that is extreme.
I’ve been reading about this subject. In western culture, we’ve been taught that labels, definitions, particular verbal descriptions, categories, and comparisons between things are important. We even go out in the forest and start mentally labeling the species of trees and plants and birds we find. When we come upon something we have never seen before, we try to describe it, decide what it might be similar to, and vow to go home and look it up so we can give it a proper name. It’s even better if we find the Latin name. We can properly place it in our mental categories. Contrast this with the culture of Zen, for example, which focuses almost entirely on the emotions that any event or object conveys to us. Who wants to describe in words the exquisite experience of peace, of melancholy, of beauty? Words miss the point. A formal tea ceremony is just measuring tea, boiling water and drinking tea, yet these words are nothing like the experience. We might do well to stop putting names on everything and just search for the fulfillment of our emotions. It seems unproductive to quibble about whether you are a minimalist or an essentialist. Silly labels. This obsession with definitions and labels is unbalanced. I’m trying to quit this mindset but it is hard. Our culture has indoctrinated us pretty strongly.
You have found my thoughts on this subject. I know now that I thought this, but had no words. Thank you for putting your words into my thoughts...and visa versa. ❤
Vous comparez 3 choses qui n’ont rien à voir : une démarche scientifique pour cataloguer notre environnement (végétal, animal, minéral), une religion (plus exactement un mouvement à l’intérieur d’une religion) et une pratique culturelle (la cérémonie du thé). Elles ont chacune une finalité différente : la première dissipe notre ignorance et la seconde nourrit notre âme. Quand à la cérémonie du thé, c’est une des expressions culturelles du Japon, il en existe beaucoup d’autres beaucoup plus agitées et bruyantes! Quand à moi, je pense que pour vivre bien, il faut se tenir aussi loin que possible des phénomènes de mode dont le minimalisme et l’essentialisme font tous deux partis. Ce n’est fondamentalement rien d’autre que du psychobabble à destination d’un public de nantis qui se regardent le nombril.
I am not in any way, shape or form a minimalist, but I absolutely love your aesthetic, and the content that you share with us. I glean all kinds of good ideas from you, and feel like you put out really intelligent content. I always look forward to your videos. And glimpses of dapper Mr. Bonus. 🐈⬛ PS-I am so going to try the face toothbrush rubbing with my cats. ❤
Agree that you are "minimalist" in lifestyle and design style. And it fits your calm personality. I am definitely not minimal but I strive to make the most out of a small 1 bedroom condo. A small space means a small carbon footprint, lower taxes and lower costs. No garage means that all the things that other people keep in a garage, I need to store those things in the trunk of my car, including a pair of lawn chairs for outdoor concerts. (Because of arthritis, I am unable to sit on the ground or floor.) I wonder about "essentialism". When I list things that are essential to my life they are: Sleep and personal hygiene (including candle-light Epsom salt baths) Food (up to 12 for sit-down dinner, healthy cooking, winter pantry storage space) Clothing (storage, laundry, sewing) Personal finances (bills, investments, correspondence) Music (listening, practicing several, playing instruments with friends) Friends and Family (food and entertainment) Art (Acrylics, watercolor, collections) My challenge is to put as much as possible away while creating a "path of least resistance" to the equipment I want to use most often. For example, instruments sitting out will get practiced most and stay closer to tuned. Bills that stay out until they are paid are more likely to get paid sooner. A stocked refrigerator increases openness to last minute entertaining. Art supplies seem to work well stored as kits in a drawer or a tote. The supplies can be quickly stored but sometimes a project must remain out to dry. My aesthetic won't work for everyone as it can feel overwhelming for some. My "decor " is light neutral with dark wood for contrast. That background is the setting for artworks, music, cooking aromas or essential oils, friends and a colorful clothing style. Because my style is in constant danger of overwhelm, I feel inspired by your channel for your ideas on minimizing visual noise and doing more with less. I declutter almost every day and at 65 I am trying to balance living my life to the fullest with leaving an uncomplicated legacy for my family when I am gone (as in Swedish Death Cleaning).
Peu importe l’étiquette ! Mais la différence entre les 2 pour moi c’est de conserver ce qui est essentiel pour soi et non le minimum de choses. C’est choisir ce que l’on veut garder et est important pour soi plutôt que ce que l’on veut desencombrer
Minimalism is now just a status symbol, ESPECIALLY if you're online judging people and trying to define it. "Look at me and how few things I have! I'm better than you!" 🙄🙄🙄
I love the pretty bouquet of wild flowers, the museum shots..and of course, your sweet cat. Your videos are so pleasing to watch Benita. What I like are visually clean and beautiful spaces, so i guess essentially, I am a minimalist too.
Who really cares about names anyway??? I've always wondered about people who want to argue about "names" instead of just living life. Just live your life sensibly. I would rather go with you on a walk through Stockholm.
Each minimalist is one in their own right. Some have less and some use more but can still be a minimalist. Don't acknowledge those that cannot be happy for you.
Everyone has a different interpretation what minimalism for him/her means. It is not about the numbers, but the way how you feel happy and content in your home. People can be so annoying. When you have 6 spoons when you live alone then you have too much spoons. 🙄 You are clearly happy in and content with your home. That mean you did a great job for yourself. Don't let other people tell you that it is not good enough. Irma from the Netherlands
I call myself an essentialist. Its a natural evolution step from minimalist. I started minimalism 8 yrs ago, it will lead to essentialism. Its natural. Yes, it proceeds from the minimal point. Essentialism is its end game. It has to, because the practice of reduction of items becomes a mindset that the mind then deeply understands is an action to just what is important. Minimalism is just practice, essentialism is the true course.
People are so boring, Jesus. They stick to labels as if it was of any importance, guess what it's not. For me you don't own a lot of stuff and also I don't care 'cause I love how clean, tidy and essential your house looks, and that's enough for me to watch your videos. Following trends and obsessing over the number of objects ones owns is a sign of mental illness the way I see it, and I tend not to follow people like that here or in my everyday life. Keep up doing what you enjoy and don't worry about what others think.
I like the way your apartment looks like and that you do not have clutter Benita. You inspire me at least to look that direction. You are very inspirational.
My goodness, those that have to label, or contradict your way of living Benita, clearly need something else IN their lives… I love your videos, your home and the space you have around you, I feel I can breath in deeply when watching your lifestyle xxx
Always enjoy your nice videos, and agree with you and your thoughts on minimalism. Sorry you have had to read and receive comments on that. Wishing you all the best.
Hello Benita, I'm so glad that thanks to your inspiration I've become an essentialist and my life is so peaceful and fulfilled with things that matter. Have a nice week.
I don't class myself as a minimalist but having minimalist intentions has made my life and mind less cluttered and more focussed. Your videos have helped me achieve this. You don't have to have a label. Just keep doing what you're doing x
Everyone sees minimalist differently. I call myself a minimalist because I only have what I use. If I no longer use it , or it doesn’t have a permanent home then I donate it. I’ve been a minimalist for 6 years and it is an ongoing journey. My home is now visitor ready all the time.
Love your video as always. My response to label critics: Me: The International Minimalists Board has issued a ruling that I'm categorized as a minimalist. Them: There's no international board that determines who fits each category. Me: (slow blink)
Ok…whatever!! Can you hear my eye roll?? Why do you need a label? And why oh why are people such experts on others choices? Jeez.. you videos are gorgeous, aspirational and interesting. Your lifestyle suits you and shows an effortlessness that is beyond! Pick a title… call yourself a giraffe for all I care… I just love this channel and you showing us a peek into how you live so beautifully and the charm of another country. This is my dream apartment! And your “less is more” attitude is what makes my insides smile. Do you.., and others can just RELAX AND ENJOY THE VIDEOS! Hallelujah and amen.
Lovely video and your explanation. I live the same way as you and have since divorced. I live with what I need and love and the rest can go and be donated. Even though living clothing and other household items and furniture minimal. I did 2 years ago start to purchase prints for my walls, that is the only excess in my place and some days I find overwhelming, as used to only a couple. Again your cat is adorable having his face brushed with the toothbrush. So sweet to see.
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I don’t worry about any labels. I have a hugely simplified home, I have reduced digital clutter, toxic relationships and have a streamlined financial life. I have time to focus on my health, family and friends, traveling and being generous to others. No labels, except I am happy and content.
Happiness and contentment are most important for sure!
I would refer to myself as an aspiring minimalist if asked , thank you for your posts they inspire and calm me
That is so good!
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You are my kind of person. I am working on the same priorities. I wish I had understood this when I was in my 20’s! ❤
I don't know why labels are so important to some people. We watch you because we appreciate your simple and intentional approach to life and living. It is very hard to edit and organize stuff and your videos give us a road map on how to do this. It is one thing to simply show your environment one video after another and quite another to give us (the viewer) tips and tricks on how to get there if that's what we seek. You share the latter with us beautifully and I applaud you for that.
Aww, thank you, that’s so nice!
Seems like using one’s time to count items and nitpick over labels kinda defeats the purpose of either, lol! 😆🤷🏻♀️ in addition to good “filmmaking” and a soothing aesthetic, I like that you explore your intentionality and therefore inspire me to explore mine. And your wry sense of humor comes through, too 😉
Well said , no one has to explain their choices. especially when your choices have given you a happy , contented and intentional life , who needs more than that
Thank you so much!
Dear Benita, I have seen the type comments that you mention receiving. I think these people are ridiculous with their insistence on following what THEY think is THE very definition of minimalism. They are very rigid in their thinking. I always think that these people are the type to follow every popular trend, whether in lifestyle, food, wardrobe, even the type vehicle they might drive. I’m too old to be bothered by these kinds of people now. I started out liking what I was seeing as minimalism…..the loose concept of it, because my excess stuff was causing stress in my life. But I quickly became disenchanted with the “moralists”. As things have worked out, I have dropped any strict description of what I was working toward in my own life. I have simplified my life in many ways and it suits me….maybe not anyone else at all. And that’s ok.
I would listen to you every week because I like people in general and you are very likable to me. What I like about other people are our differences. When I first found you I liked you allowing us into your journey. Then when I learned that you are in Stockholm, I was thrilled. My ex husband was in the US military and we moved around a good bit. Sweden was and remains my favorite assignment. I have said ever since then that Stockholm is the only city in the world I would voluntarily live in.
Please keep allowing us to follow your journey only to the extent that it works for you.
Hej da.
Thank you! You’re right, simplify to the degree that works for you!
❤Thank you. The move of videos to once every other week has me turning on the alert for the first time. I don’t want to miss your thoughtful 9:01 updates. Quality not quantity. Thank you.
Thank you for that! I agree, making a video a week would not be sustainable for me and the quality would suffer.
Great video!! Life is a journey and being a minimalist is about that. It is not a destination. I have been working on having less and enjoying my life more. Less clutter brings peace of mind. Thanks again for continuing to be a source of inspiration for me.
I’m glad you enjoyed it!
These topics are great for discussion, but…
“♥️What matters is that you’re happy with your life, your home and the people around you.” That part, yeah😉👍🏾
Thank you, I’m glad you agree!
Gliding in slow mo through your beautiful apartment (no matter if it’s in this new one or your old one) is one of my favorite parts in your videos!!! 😂 I definitely have always considered you as a minimalist but don’t worry about what others say since it doesn’t matter anyway - Your lifestyle has been such an inspiration to me and will always continue to be ❤
Oh thank you!
Once again a lovely video. Thank you for the work you put into them!
Thank you so much for watching them!
People should mind their own business. You have helped me get rid of stuff and im truly grateful. Please keep doing these videos, you are making a difference. xxxxxx
Isn't it amazing that you are not allowed to call yourself what you want on your own channel? Especially in light that there are no exact specifics with these categories. But, for what it's worth, I would consider you a minimalist as well. :-) Tack för att du delar med dig.
Thank you!
I don't see myself as a minimalist because I just have too much stuff for my liking. But I have been sorting out rigorously for 2-3 years now and then. I only keep what gives me pleasure or is used. I'm currently clearing out a little more because I'm planning a move and the fewer packages I have, the better. In everyday life, it is simply important to me that everything has its place and that it is tidy.
Thanks for sharing! Good luck with the move!
Well, “essentially”, you made me smile! Love your outlook and witty personality😊
Yay, thank you!
I enjoyed your discussion of the two and thinking about the differences. Thanks for the thought provoking video. Now, back to gliding in slo-mo through my apartment 😅
Glad you enjoyed it! Glide away😆
thank you for this - I think I am still working towards a minimalist life - in spite of having 90% less stuff than anyone I know, it still feels heavy.
Thanks so much for watching! Cheering you on from here!
Ignore the criticism, you’re videos are inspirational. Love your new kitchen Benita. Hi from New Zealand 💐😊
Thanks so much! 😊
There are so many labels these days....you should just have what you want and need ...and if not used within a time frame. Then pass to someone else... My mum use to put things a box ....if we hadn't moved stuff and most of the time we forgot about the Stuff.....and realized we probably didn't need ....😊.
Storing away in boxes is a slippery slope! All of a sudden it can get tough to deal with.
I agree with you. Get rid and no more sorting out....then out of mind .. !😊
I’m on the journey towards minimalism but am dragging along a partner who “likes his stuff”. I would love an episode on how to combine those things. Btw I am slowly “winning”.
Been there, done that! Happy to hear you winning!
You are AMAZING❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for sharing your life with us😃❤️❤️❤️❤️
Aww, thank you so much!😊
I edit areas of my life so that it is designed just how I love it.
😄Interesting! 😃 I 100% agree, I've been on a minimalism journey for 6 years, and had no idea how much it was going to effect my life and how I feel. 😉
Wonderful!
Such a great video! I’ve been watching many videos on essentialism compared to minimalism and they way you explained it was spot on! That being said, I’m loving the outfit you are wearing in this video. 😊 Would you share details? Thanks
Glad it was helpful! The linen shirt is from Muji and the linen pants are from Arket!
You are just lovely! Thanks for the video.
I always enjoy your videos! I also don't have a lot of stuff. I like every item but I only keep what I really use. If I find a more interesting one - another one has to go. It's not important how to label that, and speaking about labels: I like your outfit in this video ... where did you buy it 😅?
Thank you so much for your beautiful content 💎
Best wishes from the German alps 🤍
I'm so happy you enjoy them! The linen shirt is from Muji and the linen pants are from Arket!
@@BenitaLarsson thank you so much 😊
HERMOSO VIDEO. GRACIAS DESDE ARGENTINA.
Benita, you are minimalist❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you! I think so too😅
Millesgarden looks beautiful ❤
It really is!
I agree😂❤❤
I wondered about your bed, that it doesn't have a seperate matress. Can you say where it is from? I think the system you have in Sweden is so much better! Thanks and thanks for all your beautiful videos.
I made a video about it here th-cam.com/video/ruPtJvbk1NI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=XrPg6DlqqWpxek12
I just noticed that you got a new bed head. It looks very nice.❤️🌹
Yes! Thank you, I made it. Showed how in an earlier video!
I have come to the philosophy, if you can call it that, is to do what makes me happy and not cater to what others expect of me.
Really beautiful video ❤
Thank you very much!
Tack. Så fint beskrivet . Hur vårdar du dina teakstolar? Oljar du dem?
Tänker du på stolarna på balkongen? De är i oljad ek så jag kommer att fortsätta att olja dem.
@@BenitaLarsson tack. Jag har i teak och har inte oljat dem än. Men bör snart göra!
Nice video, thank you!👍
Thanks so much for watching!
Beautiful
Thank you so much!😊
I think that people will always pick on silly points, it's just who they are. The world is not black and white, i would definitely call you a minimalist, but some people prefer a more drastic version of minimalism. We all have different needs, if you are meeting yours then no one can say that you are wrong.
I’m definitely not an extreme minimalist!😅
Imo you are clearly a minimalist.
If you aren't, I don't know who is.
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But in the end you don't need that label anyway.
Thank you, and yes, exactly!😊
Seriously? In a world with so many important issues to sort out, they are worried about what they think minimalism should be?! 😕 Thank you for your time and effort to make these videos 🤗 We shouldn't have to explain ourselves to strangers. If it's not beautiful or useful, get rid of it. Simple as that ❤
I know! Thank you so much, I’m so happy that you enjoyed them!
You are clearly someone who thinks for herself. That is important. Thank you for the explanation; I gained insight. You did so without harshness and being judgmental.
I think it's a distraction so they don't have to think about the important issues in the world.
Essentialist or minimalist… ? who cares! You are just the perfect contribution to my life every time you post a video. 🌷 Have a wonderful week, Benita!
Thank you! I wish you the same!
Lovely statement! I couldn’t agree more 🎉 Benita is bringing so much value with her awesome videos.
Have a great week both!
People are ridiculous to think we are one thing and one thing only. That’s why I don’t like saying “I am” but say “I practice” instead. We are so much more than a label.❤️
That’s a great strategy!
Love that!! I practice.
😆I can’t believe people get so hung up labeling someone. 😆😆😆
I know, there are quite a few people out there that know best 🤣
I think everyone has their own journey when they take a minimalism path. I've made leaps and bounds on my journey and still looking forward to more . I'm with you Benita you said it beautifully "What matters is that you're happy with your life, your home and the people around you"❤
Yes, exactly, things evolve and change too!
Benita brushing her cat’s face with the tooth brush is the most adorable thing ❤ awesome video as always 😊 your videos put me at ease everytime. Take care!
It’s his favorite thing in the whole world🪥😅
@@BenitaLarssonYour cat is so adorable when we see him getting his face brushed, so sweet to see.
I love that you kiss your cats so often.
Wow! I really enjoyed this video. I especially enjoyed the bit near the end where you talk about the 95% of your life that we don't see where your not "looking out windows" and "slowly walking through your apartment." Made me chuckle. Helps put things in better perspective. Right before that I was commenting to myself how much I enjoy the way you film things and the angles you choose. Is that something you learned or just acquired?
Glad you enjoyed it! I’ve been creating videos for over four years now and since my home isn’t huge, I try to find new angles to make things a bit more interesting.
That’s exactly how I try to live, intentionally with fewer belongings. Well said Benita.
Thank you so much!😊
I call my life curated. And it ebbs and flows with where I am at in my life. Love your vlogs!
I might steal that from you! I live a curated life!🙌🏻
@@BenitaLarsson OHHHH YEAH!!! I was tired of the "minimalist" argument so curated seems to fit my lifestyle better. I am also a museum lover, so it is fitting! ;)
You are brilliant. I love your humour! 😁 Thank you for brightening my day with another fab video!
Aww, that's so sweet, thank you!
I call myself a MEnimalist because I don’t indiscriminately apply all the concepts of a minimalism to myself. I do pick and choose ideas that make my life happy and authentic. I don’t believe that number of possessions or labels define a person.
I love that! Menimalist 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Kinda disappointed to hear you don't glide in slo-mo around your apartment 24/7....#lifegoals 😉 🤣
I'm all for the practical and effective approach, without sweating the Big Stuff! I also think the intentionality focus is a most useful part of both approaches. Whatever it gets labelled, the wider discussion of the consequences of overconsumption, and alternative ideas of living seem important during another 🌡️🔥 Northern Hemisphere summer 🌼
Haha, I kind of wish I did😅 Yes, the intentionality is where it’s at!
Well said and well presented. You are perfect just as you are, rock on!
Hugs to Bonus 🐈⬛ who is perfect just as he is too!
Thank your! And yes, he’s Mr Perfection!🐈⬛🎩
Dear Benita! The last sentence you spoke out is so true and I had that on my mind all the time watching your video! It doesn’t matter what one is following, the most important point is to be happy!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!!🤗😌cheers from Iris from southwest Germany!☺️🤩🤗
Thanks so much for watching again!
@@BenitaLarsson it’s a pleasure!🥰
Beautiful video loved it & I agree we don’t need to be labeled! We aren’t a package 📦 love how you spoil 🐈⬛ This gave me so much joy to watch Thanks ❤
Oh, he’s so spoilt! He demands that toothbrush several times a day😅 And thank you!
@@BenitaLarssonSo cute you brushing your kitties whiskers like that!😊💛
Thank you for your videos and advices, whatever team in "ism" you belong to, you bring daily grace, calm, and spirit. Take good care of yourself.
Thank you! You too!
I love your minimalist aesthetic! I’m definitely more of a maximalist but keep things like furniture lines minimalist. I don’t like fussy but I like lots of plants, books, artwork. Seems there are degrees of everything. ❤️ I also appreciate your gorgeous videos of you gliding across the room! 😆
There sure are degrees of everything! Im so happy you enjoy my videos😊
I like the look of rich maximalist interiors in magazines , Instagram , and house museums . But , for me , it isn't practical . Unless one is wealthy with paid staff , how do you keep maximalist interiors clean and dust free ? Maximalist interiors seems overwhelming to keep dust free and clean . Plus maximalist interiors combined with collecting can easily become hoarding and unclean . I know of people that seem to be controlled by their stuff and limits their life and options especially when they become elderly or develop health problems . Maximalism can quickly become clutter and hoarding and lead to unclean smelly environment . I do love looking at maximalist British interiors and Ralph Lauren Old Manor " sets " .
Great video, as always. I agree that spending too much time worrying about how to label oneself is a waste of that time. Being happy with who you are, regardless of the label, is the most important thing. Both Minimalism and Essentialism are nor absolutes but continuums. Where you fit on the continuum probably varies at different stages of your life. I am heading to a more Minimal lifestyle as I age. I am trying to set things up so that things will be easier when I am less physically able.
Different seasons in life do bring different needs!
Love this video Benita, I always find you very calming and relaxing to watch. Some people like to judge or label a person instead of accepting we are all different, all that matters is that we treat each other with love and respect and are happy with ourselves. Looking forward to your next video.
Thank you so much!
Some believe that minimalism means getting rid of virtually everything! Not true. I love how you have arranged your new home and it looks comfy and spacious without clutter but with the things you need,use and love!
Yes! Thank you!
Living intentionally, living with less, enjoying the things and experiences that matter. That makes sense to me. The label isn't important. Thank you for your videos -- they are wonderful!
I’m so happy you like them!
I am glad you addressed this issue. We have too many debates on minimalists, maximalists, frugalists, essentialists and what not😂 . I feel its not wise to label anything as life and human nature is more complex than simple labels. I just came back from Stockholm this summer and I loved ferry hopping and the slower pace of life.
Thanks so much for watching! Stockholm is so nice this time of year, isn’t it?
@@BenitaLarsson yes absolutely ❤
As always, Benita, when you touch upon the comments you get, I admire your perspective. When I hear what other people of these two movements or phiolosophies point out to you, how "you are not this" or "you have too much of that" it makes me wonder that it's ironic that, considering the basics you pointed out in this video, they find space and time in themselves to not only disagree but also to type it down. As if it's essential to them to let you know of what they think of you or at the mininimum they need to let everyone else know how pure or right they are. I'm grateful for your relentless repetition of how you don't care what they think of you and taking their comments as a starting point to your piece of content. Thank you.
Thank you, you really pinpointed it!
8:10 😊 your sincerity is gorgeous. thanks for keeping it real benita ❤ enjoy
That's so sweet, thank you!
I do love your videos Benita they are so calming and I always get loads of ideas and inspiration from them. Your apartment has really taken shape and looking so lovely and calming. Thank you :)
Thank you so much!
Hi Benita, I would definitely classify your aesthetic as minimalist, you don’t have many possessions. Some people define minimalism as having no furniture, one outfit, etc. I think that is extreme.
There are degrees and I’m definitely not extreme😅
I’ve been reading about this subject. In western culture, we’ve been taught that labels, definitions, particular verbal descriptions, categories, and comparisons between things are important. We even go out in the forest and start mentally labeling the species of trees and plants and birds we find. When we come upon something we have never seen before, we try to describe it, decide what it might be similar to, and vow to go home and look it up so we can give it a proper name. It’s even better if we find the Latin name. We can properly place it in our mental categories.
Contrast this with the culture of Zen, for example, which focuses almost entirely on the emotions that any event or object conveys to us. Who wants to describe in words the exquisite experience of peace, of melancholy, of beauty? Words miss the point. A formal tea ceremony is just measuring tea, boiling water and drinking tea, yet these words are nothing like the experience.
We might do well to stop putting names on everything and just search for the fulfillment of our emotions. It seems unproductive to quibble about whether you are a minimalist or an essentialist. Silly labels. This obsession with definitions and labels is unbalanced. I’m trying to quit this mindset but it is hard. Our culture has indoctrinated us pretty strongly.
Thanks so much for sharing that!
I completely agree with this. Love how you explained it ❤
You have found my thoughts on this subject. I know now that I thought this, but had no words. Thank you for putting your words into my thoughts...and visa versa. ❤
Vous comparez 3 choses qui n’ont rien à voir : une démarche scientifique pour cataloguer notre environnement (végétal, animal, minéral), une religion (plus exactement un mouvement à l’intérieur d’une religion) et une pratique culturelle (la cérémonie du thé). Elles ont chacune une finalité différente : la première dissipe notre ignorance et la seconde nourrit notre âme. Quand à la cérémonie du thé, c’est une des expressions culturelles du Japon, il en existe beaucoup d’autres beaucoup plus agitées et bruyantes!
Quand à moi, je pense que pour vivre bien, il faut se tenir aussi loin que possible des phénomènes de mode dont le minimalisme et l’essentialisme font tous deux partis. Ce n’est fondamentalement rien d’autre que du psychobabble à destination d’un public de nantis qui se regardent le nombril.
I am not in any way, shape or form a minimalist, but I absolutely love your aesthetic, and the content that you share with us. I glean all kinds of good ideas from you, and feel like you put out really intelligent content. I always look forward to your videos. And glimpses of dapper Mr. Bonus. 🐈⬛
PS-I am so going to try the face toothbrush rubbing with my cats. ❤
I’m so happy you enjoy the videos! Bonus loves the toothbrush more than anything right now😆
Maybe name it OPTIMALIST: a person who has the Optimal amount of things.
Thank you so much!
Agree that you are "minimalist" in lifestyle and design style. And it fits your calm personality.
I am definitely not minimal but I strive to make the most out of a small 1 bedroom condo. A small space means a small carbon footprint, lower taxes and lower costs.
No garage means that all the things that other people keep in a garage, I need to store those things in the trunk of my car, including a pair of lawn chairs for outdoor concerts. (Because of arthritis, I am unable to sit on the ground or floor.)
I wonder about "essentialism". When I list things that are essential to my life they are:
Sleep and personal hygiene (including candle-light Epsom salt baths)
Food (up to 12 for sit-down dinner, healthy cooking, winter pantry storage space)
Clothing (storage, laundry, sewing)
Personal finances (bills, investments, correspondence)
Music (listening, practicing several, playing instruments with friends)
Friends and Family (food and entertainment)
Art (Acrylics, watercolor, collections)
My challenge is to put as much as possible away while creating a "path of least resistance" to the equipment I want to use most often. For example, instruments sitting out will get practiced most and stay closer to tuned. Bills that stay out until they are paid are more likely to get paid sooner. A stocked refrigerator increases openness to last minute entertaining.
Art supplies seem to work well stored as kits in a drawer or a tote. The supplies can be quickly stored but sometimes a project must remain out to dry.
My aesthetic won't work for everyone as it can feel overwhelming for some. My "decor " is light neutral with dark wood for contrast. That background is the setting for artworks, music, cooking aromas or essential oils, friends and a colorful clothing style.
Because my style is in constant danger of overwhelm, I feel inspired by your channel for your ideas on minimizing visual noise and doing more with less. I declutter almost every day and at 65 I am trying to balance living my life to the fullest with leaving an uncomplicated legacy for my family when I am gone (as in Swedish Death Cleaning).
Thank you so much for sharing your perspective!
I always enjoy your content and seeing your home decor as well!
Yay! Thank you!
Thanks for a informative video. I love the way you brushed your Cat with the toothbrush going to try on mine.💕
Bonus loves his little brush. He asks me to brush about ten times a day 😅
Peu importe l’étiquette ! Mais la différence entre les 2 pour moi c’est de conserver ce qui est essentiel pour soi et non le minimum de choses. C’est choisir ce que l’on veut garder et est important pour soi plutôt que ce que l’on veut desencombrer
Minimalism is now just a status symbol, ESPECIALLY if you're online judging people and trying to define it. "Look at me and how few things I have! I'm better than you!" 🙄🙄🙄
I love the pretty bouquet of wild flowers, the museum shots..and of course, your sweet cat. Your videos are so pleasing to watch Benita. What I like are visually clean and beautiful spaces, so i guess essentially, I am a minimalist too.
I’m so happy you enjoyed it!
Loved this video. Well done! ❤
Thank you so much!!
Who really cares about names anyway??? I've always wondered about people who want to argue about "names" instead of just living life. Just live your life sensibly. I would rather go with you on a walk through Stockholm.
Even the scenes outside of your home makes me feel calm, cool and grateful.
I'm glad you enjoy that too!
Bom dia.
Primeiro vídeo e simplesmente adorei.
Obrigada.( Rio grande do sul, Brazil).
Great vid as always. I don't like labels for ourselves. We are what we are and we are content/happy with that. Enjoy the life you have made.
Well said! I agree!
Each minimalist is one in their own right. Some have less and some use more but can still be a minimalist. Don't acknowledge those that cannot be happy for you.
It was interesting to research it though!🤓
Liebe Benita, für mich bist du ganz klar ein Minimalist. 😊🌼
Danke! I appreciate that!
I read a quote in a museum today : “If you can label something, you can negate it”, so maybe the fewer labels, the better :)
Everyone has a different interpretation what minimalism for him/her means. It is not about the numbers, but the way how you feel happy and content in your home. People can be so annoying. When you have 6 spoons when you live alone then you have too much spoons. 🙄
You are clearly happy in and content with your home. That mean you did a great job for yourself. Don't let other people tell you that it is not good enough. Irma from the Netherlands
I call myself an essentialist. Its a natural evolution step from minimalist. I started minimalism 8 yrs ago, it will lead to essentialism. Its natural. Yes, it proceeds from the minimal point. Essentialism is its end game. It has to, because the practice of reduction of items becomes a mindset that the mind then deeply understands is an action to just what is important. Minimalism is just practice, essentialism is the true course.
People are so boring, Jesus.
They stick to labels as if it was of any importance, guess what it's not.
For me you don't own a lot of stuff and also I don't care 'cause I love how clean, tidy and essential your house looks, and that's enough for me to watch your videos.
Following trends and obsessing over the number of objects ones owns is a sign of mental illness the way I see it, and I tend not to follow people like that here or in my everyday life.
Keep up doing what you enjoy and don't worry about what others think.
Thank you! I appreciate that!
I like the way your apartment looks like and that you do not have clutter Benita. You inspire me at least to look that direction. You are very inspirational.
Thank you so much!
Does it actually matter as they are only labels, as long as you are happy with how you live your life.
WHAT !?!? You don’t walk in slow motion through your apartment at all times?
I might have to reconsider watching your channel ! 😉😃💖
Haha, so sorry to disappoint 😅
@@BenitaLarssonA TH-cam Short of you gliding and gazing with your cat would be most entertaining.
I agree with you Benita Essentialism sounds very grand.I am still reducing what I have in my home, having less clutter does bring me peace.
Reducing your belongings can really lift the weight off your shoulders!
My goodness, those that have to label, or contradict your way of living Benita, clearly need something else IN their lives… I love your videos, your home and the space you have around you, I feel I can breath in deeply when watching your lifestyle xxx
I’m so happy if my videos bring you peace and calm😊
Great video! It’s not about the labels, its about simplifying life for me. Thanks for sharing.
Yes, that’s where it’s at!
I am no into labels or trying to live up to someone else’s definitions. I just live life my way. I enjoy your videos. 🌸
I’m so glad you enjoy them!
First time commenting here, I want to say that your videos encourage me when I lose motivation to clear out stuff. So thank you very much.
I'm so glad!
I love your paintings!
Never thought I’d have three paintings but I love them!
Always enjoy your nice videos, and agree with you and your thoughts on minimalism. Sorry you have had to read and receive comments on that. Wishing you all the best.
Thank you so much for watching!
Hello Benita, I'm so glad that thanks to your inspiration I've become an essentialist and my life is so peaceful and fulfilled with things that matter.
Have a nice week.
I’m so happy you found a way of life that makes sense to you!
I don't class myself as a minimalist but having minimalist intentions has made my life and mind less cluttered and more focussed. Your videos have helped me achieve this. You don't have to have a label. Just keep doing what you're doing x
Love that!
Everyone sees minimalist differently. I call myself a minimalist because I only have what I use. If I no longer use it , or it doesn’t have a permanent home then I donate it. I’ve been a minimalist for 6 years and it is an ongoing journey. My home is now visitor ready all the time.
I love that!
Love your video as always.
My response to label critics:
Me: The International Minimalists Board has issued a ruling that I'm categorized as a minimalist.
Them: There's no international board that determines who fits each category.
Me: (slow blink)
Haha! Thank you so much!
Ok…whatever!! Can you hear my eye roll?? Why do you need a label? And why oh why are people such experts on others choices? Jeez..
you videos are gorgeous, aspirational and interesting. Your lifestyle suits you and shows an effortlessness that is beyond!
Pick a title… call yourself a giraffe for all I care… I just love this channel and you showing us a peek into how you live so beautifully and the charm of another country. This is my dream apartment! And your “less is more” attitude is what makes my insides smile.
Do you.., and others can just RELAX AND ENJOY THE VIDEOS!
Hallelujah and amen.
Hallelujah and amen from the giraffe over here!
@@BenitaLarsson hahahaha!😘🤪
So funny. Call it Intentionalism. Who cares as long as you are happy.
That's a good name if one is needed!
Lovely video and your explanation. I live the same way as you and have since divorced. I live with what I need and love and the rest can go and be donated. Even though living clothing and other household items and furniture minimal. I did 2 years ago start to purchase prints for my walls, that is the only excess in my place and some days I find overwhelming, as used to only a couple. Again your cat is adorable having his face brushed with the toothbrush. So sweet to see.
Thanks for sharing! Bonus is my main man for sure!