I’m in a wheelchair and my spine is fused between L4 to S1. I also have MS. My wheelchair is a Quickie just like Cole’s…. I have to shower by myself. My husband passed away in 2017 and now I live with my daughter and family. When we can afford it I plan on getting a walk in tub. I need to be able to sit in water. But money just isn’t there! I sit on a bench in my tub and use a hand held water sprayer to take a shower. I’m good at putting it off. When my husband was alive he helped me but I’m now 70 and with him gone I do everything by myself. It’s not easy but I do it. Cole is a lot worse than I am and I can walk a little. I enjoy your videos very much! Blessings…..
I’ve had a spinal cord injury since 2020 and my fiancé has been able to help me blow dry my hair and even flat iron as well and it really makes me love and appreciate him even more 🤍
OMG Cole looks like he is so comfy after the night routine, I can almost feel that comfort through the screen 😂. I’m really happy that you two have discovered this routine and have been enjoying it. Geez if I were to have to do all of that in the morning I would be right back in the bed after 🤣🤣🤣. This probably has eliminated a lot of stress in your mornings, especially when you have an appointment to get to. Have fun and congrats on your 1 mil subscribers!!! I’ve been one since 2020! ❤❤❤
All I can say is God bless you both! I'm turning 70, & my husband is 75. We're married 6 yrs. Hes got a lot of medical issues & has become overly dependent on me, & he really doesn't have to. I wish i had your patience!! I'm not happy that I'm feeling angry because we can't make plans & my social life is 0. Watching this makes me feel guilty!
There are just too many things about this that I love 😩❤️ their intimacy with the facials and hair time is so powerful. That effect when Cole’s muscles broke the glass🤣🤣🤣the ‘bonnet twins’ is just beautiful.
Hi y’all. I am, not quadriplegic but have ms and have been wheelchair bound and incontinent for 30 years. I have two carers to help me four times a day. I could not manage without them. I understand the problems with night bags and catheters. I have had trouble with bypassing where sediment in the urine can block the outlet tubes and causes me to wet myself in the normal way which really sucks. I have to use tape too to stop the tubes and bags parting company. Being disabled and your love being your caregiver is hard at times but there is help out there. Like Cole and Charisma said, stay positive, it really works. My husband was my carer until he died eight years ago with dementia. My daughter lived with me until recently and now has met her life love and has moved away And is expecting her first child. I am soon to be nana. I get lonely but having the help and positivity helps a lot. I have my grandchild to look forward to. I love your Chanel. You are such a lovely couple and Sophie is such a special angel. You help so many people understand the trials and tribulations of how life changing disability has on the person and those around them. You also show that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you so much for all that you do. All the best for the future and may you soon be blessed with the sound of tiny feet. ❤️🇬🇧👩🦽🌺
Hi, Denise my husband has Primary Progressive MS & also is wheelchair bound. He is diagnosed as a functional Quadriplegic this past year. I been with my husband for 21 yrs, he was walking with a walker then. Cole & Charisma have through there posts I just this year discovered help me help my husband. It is very touching to be open & truthful with one’s situation. But, I was believed sharing is caring especially in light of those whom understand. And need to help educate those whom have no experience with someone with a disability. They opened the platform for many. That is love & spoken with experience. I pray for you with your journey. God Bless You, Maria.
Hey Denise, really sorry to hear about you and your husbands illnesses and his passing… I’m hoping your wee grandchild will be healthy and on his or her nana‘s lap asap! x x
Oh, Charisma uses some french stuff for her beauty routine, it's Caudalie, pretty chic (and pretty expensive), I love their products but they use a lot of "perfumes", some can be allergenic but really nice brand. Wish u the best from Paris 😘
Cole let me laugh every time...its good you working together...and love each other. I like to see you both....funny and kind...hahah....SLEEP WELL...Amen
I think it's so cool that you guys are able to find intimacy in the little things, like drying hair! And the matching bonnets are so cute! Thanks for explaining the toileting routine because I was wondering how that works!
i’m a new subscriber and i’ve really loved watching you’re guys videos other then being really funny and entertaining it’s taught me so much so glad you guys have this channel ❤❤
Hello I'm A New Supporter I Watch Y'all Videos Errrrryday All Day Literally All Night I'm From Louisiana I'll Be 30yrs On March 18th Im Paralyzed From The Waist Down Born With Spina Bifida The First Video I Saw When Cole Was Showing The Red SUV & How He Drives & I've Been Watching Y'all Every Since...♿🙏🏾💯💪🏾 Keep Grinding Major Love To Y'all Don't Let Nobody Stop Tha Shine In Y'all Straight To Tha Top Tha Only Way To Go..."Never Give Up"😇...#ChaseYaDreamsByAnyMeans🤞🏾
@KyleGodNFa... WELCOME TO THE CNC SUB CREW I ALSO HAVE SPINA BIFIDA N I'M ALSO PARALYZED FROM THE WAIST DOWN N I'M WHEELCHAIR BOUND N HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊
They need to make a wheelchair that has an elevation button and a collapsible arm so that you can lower the arm closest to the bed and then raise the chair to the bed level so that instead of having to use the board, you can just roll off the chair and into the bed. Good luck with everything in your lives, and thank you so much for all of the work that you do to show us that love is love, no matter who you are, and regardless of color, gender, age and all of the other supposed "differences" in our world.
Cole and Charisma are the best. Funny and entertaining. Love you both! Charisma don’t give up on that baby. Remember what our Bible said just enough faith as a mustard seed. All in God’s timing.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤let’s keep praying.
You guys, Rock. Amazing how you have helped us in me helping my husband. God Bless you guys, woof woof Sophie too. We have 2 big furry babies ourselves. Thank you for giving everyone an open platform to share. Amen….
You guys look so so comfy. Keep loving and supporting each other because you do it so well. And I truly love watching the both of you. ❤ By the way I love the bonnets.
You guys are amazing,,I sent your video an told them about you two he's in the Netherlands paraplegic from an car accident he's amazing just like you two
You two lovely people, by doing these videos must help more disabled people than you think. Charisma you think things through which is also a positive help. I agree better to do this than in the mornings as must give you extra daytime 🎉. Your Sophie is a good girl, bless her. Good night xx sleep tight👩❤️💋👨🙋🙏♥️
Cole after Charisma blow dried his hair "Thank you" Even though she does this for him every night, he appreciates her for that. My take away : may we never get used to the little or even big things out spouses does for us. Let them know you appreciate them for taking the trash out, for ironing your shirt, for cooking that meal e.t.c And yes am giving this advice as a single ❤😂
your videos are always really interesting to watch. I've been following you since you started on TH-cam and I'm always learning or discovering things about your relationship. I find this very moving🥰 I love you Charisma and Cole. ❤ May God protect you both and your respective families 🤲🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙 Mylène from FRANCE 🇨🇵
Advice about the night bag situation from a fellow user. Ask whomever is providing you with the bag if perhaps there is another “brand” of bag available. For example, I use a blue bed with a locking release mechanism instead of the fold up hose. If you explain to the company providing the bags the problem you are having with the connector they may be able to help.
I had a bag issue too, and my mom got me tropical fish bags and I just use medical tape to tape the catheter to my belly where my stoma is. I can drink as much as I want and there is plenty of room for liquids and the bags are very sturdy and strong. If you are interested, I can give you a good website. Makes them very inexpensive and they last for a long time.
They recently stopped making those BARD brand Night drainage bags with the green tips, I know!! I'm having the same problem! Now I have to connect my nighttime bag with a more narrow opening, which doesn't work as well. Feel you.
I literally said out loud, maybe Cole needs a bonnet and you whip one out 😂😂 I dated a visually impaired person in my late teens but neither one of us had the mental capacity or maturity to sustain the relationship. Fortunately he found his “Charisma” and we remained friends. I wish TH-cam was around then because watching you two has taught me so much about being in an interabled relationship. Thank you for being an awesome couple and sharing your life and experiences with us. As a new subscriber I can’t wait to see what you’ll have for us in 2024.
Cole And Charisma, You Both Certainly Had A Beautiful Valentine's Day Dinner With Your Fantastic Friends Shane And Hannah!! ... It's Always Wonderful To Share Such A Special Day With Friends!! ❤ We All Certainly Love Your Amazing Videos Very Much!! .. We Absolutely Love Seeing Sophie!! .. She's So Sweet! .. Much Love!!! ❤❤❤
Charisma, Cole & Sophie, I love your channel, both your families and you. I'm so looking forward to the Lord blessing you with your own bundle of joy! Many blessings and prayers. OneLove ❣️
Certainly a lot of work…much empathy for both of you…being a senior I can’t help but wonder 💭 about the future years as one ages are bodies aren’t as strong …..
I love hanging out with you guys! At least, it kind of FEELS like we hang out when I watch your videos 😉. Seriously, though, I love your content, and especially your personalities and spirit.
I love it !!! Team Bonnets!!!! I love love y’all so much! I smile ear to ear watching all the love in the air. Thank you so much for sharing your life❤
Being on the West Coast is different from being on the East Coast, not only is the time difference, seems to go faster, but you have the temperature change as well.
I'm glad I found your channel. I'm new scriber. I can see so much love between you. I hope you are blessed with a child soon rather IVF or adoption. I pray God blesses you even if adopted, doesn't mean that child is any less yours, or your any less that child's parents. I also recently found Shane and Hanna channel
Hello to Shane and Hannah, good seeing you guys hanging out.
with a back injury myself it's informative to see others go through their night routines. and it is so important to stay positive just like u said.
I’m in a wheelchair and my spine is fused between L4 to S1. I also have MS. My wheelchair is a Quickie just like Cole’s…. I have to shower by myself. My husband passed away in 2017 and now I live with my daughter and family. When we can afford it I plan on getting a walk in tub. I need to be able to sit in water. But money just isn’t there! I sit on a bench in my tub and use a hand held water sprayer to take a shower. I’m good at putting it off. When my husband was alive he helped me but I’m now 70 and with him gone I do everything by myself. It’s not easy but I do it. Cole is a lot worse than I am and I can walk a little. I enjoy your videos very much! Blessings…..
I’ve had a spinal cord injury since 2020 and my fiancé has been able to help me blow dry my hair and even flat iron as well and it really makes me love and appreciate him even more 🤍
Y’all are just the cutest couple God has someone for everybody that special someone❤
I miss my David that I helped out. He was quadratic and I helped him for 10 years. Miss you David❤ you guys rock! On making everyday life better!!!
"Love recognizes no barriers " Maya Angelo. Stay positive ❤
OMG Cole looks like he is so comfy after the night routine, I can almost feel that comfort through the screen 😂. I’m really happy that you two have discovered this routine and have been enjoying it. Geez if I were to have to do all of that in the morning I would be right back in the bed after 🤣🤣🤣. This probably has eliminated a lot of stress in your mornings, especially when you have an appointment to get to. Have fun and congrats on your 1 mil subscribers!!! I’ve been one since 2020! ❤❤❤
Your home is so beautiful and clean.
All I can say is God bless you both! I'm turning 70, & my husband is 75. We're married 6 yrs. Hes got a lot of medical issues & has become overly dependent on me, & he really doesn't have to. I wish i had your patience!! I'm not happy that I'm feeling angry because we can't make plans & my social life is 0. Watching this makes me feel guilty!
There are just too many things about this that I love 😩❤️ their intimacy with the facials and hair time is so powerful. That effect when Cole’s muscles broke the glass🤣🤣🤣the ‘bonnet twins’ is just beautiful.
6:45 the editing is so cool haha
Hello everyone I really enjoys all your ready
Hi y’all. I am, not quadriplegic but have ms and have been wheelchair bound and incontinent for 30 years. I have two carers to help me four times a day. I could not manage without them. I understand the problems with night bags and catheters. I have had trouble with bypassing where sediment in the urine can block the outlet tubes and causes me to wet myself in the normal way which really sucks. I have to use tape too to stop the tubes and bags parting company.
Being disabled and your love being your caregiver is hard at times but there is help out there. Like Cole and Charisma said, stay positive, it really works. My husband was my carer until he died eight years ago with dementia. My daughter lived with me until recently and now has met her life love and has moved away And is expecting her first child. I am soon to be nana. I get lonely but having the help and positivity helps a lot. I have my grandchild to look forward to.
I love your Chanel. You are such a lovely couple and Sophie is such a special angel. You help so many people understand the trials and tribulations of how life changing disability has on the person and those around them. You also show that there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you so much for all that you do. All the best for the future and may you soon be blessed with the sound of tiny feet. ❤️🇬🇧👩🦽🌺
Hi, Denise my husband has Primary Progressive MS & also is wheelchair bound. He is diagnosed as a functional Quadriplegic this past year. I been with my husband for 21 yrs, he was walking with a walker then. Cole & Charisma have through there posts I just this year discovered help me help my husband. It is very touching to be open & truthful with one’s situation. But, I was believed sharing is caring especially in light of those whom understand. And need to help educate those whom have no experience with someone with a disability. They opened the platform for many. That is love & spoken with experience. I pray for you with your journey. God Bless You, Maria.
Hey Denise, really sorry to hear about you and your husbands illnesses and his passing…
I’m hoping your wee grandchild will be healthy and on his or her nana‘s lap asap! x x
Thank you so much for your kind thoughts.
Thank you Maria.
I have the same issue with night drainage bags and wrapping some medical tape around the join works perfectly, I hope you have less leaks :)
16:35
Omg! You didn't tell me Charisma has a twin!
Oh, Charisma uses some french stuff for her beauty routine, it's Caudalie, pretty chic (and pretty expensive), I love their products but they use a lot of "perfumes", some can be allergenic but really nice brand. Wish u the best from Paris 😘
Cheers to such a beautiful life that inspires so many
Omg…I 🩷you two…so great together ❤ I’m so glad I found you through Hannah and Shane 😊
Hey yall! 🥰
Perfect timing! I can eat dinner and watch the new night routine ❤
❤❤❤❤🙏🏾😘🙏❤️❤💞🎊💪🥰💝
Yayy!! 🥰
You two are incredible and this love story is one of my favorites. So happy you have each other
Woah twin Charisma’s. What a cool edit!!!
I thought that was really cool too.
Yes, I am following here too and as a result, things are going well and things are going well.
I would like to find a woman this beautiful who supports me and helps me fight life.
Cole let me laugh every time...its good you working together...and love each other. I like to see you both....funny and kind...hahah....SLEEP WELL...Amen
I think it's so cool that you guys are able to find intimacy in the little things, like drying hair! And the matching bonnets are so cute!
Thanks for explaining the toileting routine because I was wondering how that works!
I am always so proud of your ability to be transparent and loving on one another and sharing with all of us. Blessings and Grace🥰
i’m a new subscriber and i’ve really loved watching you’re guys videos other then being really funny and entertaining it’s taught me so much so glad you guys have this channel ❤❤
@applesaoCe WELCOME TO THE CNC SUB CREW
LOVE YOU GUYS. THANKS COLE AND CHARISMA FOR SHARING. THE DINNER LOOKED SOOO GOOD. HI TO SHANE AND HANNAH.
Alright Bonnet Twins, still my favorite peeps all these years later absolutely love you all, Sophie and the whole fam
Hello I'm A New Supporter I Watch Y'all Videos Errrrryday All Day Literally All Night I'm From Louisiana I'll Be 30yrs On March 18th Im Paralyzed From The Waist Down Born With Spina Bifida The First Video I Saw When Cole Was Showing The Red SUV & How He Drives & I've Been Watching Y'all Every Since...♿🙏🏾💯💪🏾
Keep Grinding Major Love To Y'all Don't Let Nobody Stop Tha Shine In Y'all Straight To Tha Top Tha Only Way To Go..."Never Give Up"😇...#ChaseYaDreamsByAnyMeans🤞🏾
Hi Kyle Happy Birthday In Advance, Peace Love And Blessings 🙏😊🎂
@@donnacain9692Lol It's Next Month But Thank You 😇
Omg!! I’ll be 30 on March 17th!! So wild! Happy early birthday 🎉🎉🎉 thanks for watching and you keep grinding, too!
@KyleGodNFa... WELCOME TO THE CNC SUB CREW I ALSO HAVE SPINA BIFIDA N I'M ALSO PARALYZED FROM THE WAIST DOWN N I'M WHEELCHAIR BOUND N HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAY 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 🎁 🎊
The editing is so cool! The one where Cole throws the phone and flexes his muscles are hilarious 😂
Them in bed together at the end of the day so cuddly 😭 so blessed for my boyfriend. When you have a bond like this it’s nothing but a blessing.
Charisma...you are a blessing sweet girl...❤❤❤
I be so happy to see Sophie girl ❤❤❤
💖🐕💖 Es muy bella
Charisma you take care your hubby so well. God Blesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss you BOTH always.
Steph in Alaska
It was good to see Shane and Hannah. Dinner had my mouth watering. I’m glad you found something that works for you.
Love You Guys So Very Much God Bless You ❤ from Kenya Africa 🇰🇪🙏
God bless you Charisma and Cole 🙏
I just love this couple is the best
They need to make a wheelchair that has an elevation button and a collapsible arm so that you can lower the arm closest to the bed and then raise the chair to the bed level so that instead of having to use the board, you can just roll off the chair and into the bed. Good luck with everything in your lives, and thank you so much for all of the work that you do to show us that love is love, no matter who you are, and regardless of color, gender, age and all of the other supposed "differences" in our world.
5:53 🤣Cole cracks me up! Also, 15:08 welcome to bonnet life Cole! It's a rite of passage 🤣 You two are the best!
Always great to see you with Hannah and Shayne!Always good to see your routine's as it's so important🌻
Charisma is just an Angel. GOD knew who was best for you and you both are BLESSED.
Love y’all’s energy in this video so cute. And I love that Cole is finally wearing a bonnet folks don’t know how good it can be till they try it!
Love you guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ charisma is a sweetheart x
Cole and Charisma are the best. Funny and entertaining. Love you both! Charisma don’t give up on that baby. Remember what our Bible said just enough faith as a mustard seed. All in God’s timing.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤let’s keep praying.
Omg the matching bonnets are flippin adorable
You guys, Rock. Amazing how you have helped us in me helping my husband. God Bless you guys, woof woof Sophie too. We have 2 big furry babies ourselves. Thank you for giving everyone an open platform to share. Amen….
Thanks for showing your new night routine.
Congratulations on reaching one million!Keep doing what you doing! Love to you both 💕
Nite nite😊
Awww … The Bonnet Twins! So sweet and wholesome! ❤
You guys look so so comfy. Keep loving and supporting each other because you do it so well. And I truly love watching the both of you. ❤
By the way I love the bonnets.
Cole’s bonnet made me so happy 😄
Love you two!!! Praying for your other wish to happen. Keeping you in my prayers.
You guys are amazing,,I sent your video an told them about you two he's in the Netherlands paraplegic from an car accident he's amazing just like you two
Y’all are so adorable! Really love the bonnets!😂❤
❤🔥 Great, inspiring, loving and fun video to watch.
Hello to everyone. We figure things out as we go along. Love the matching bonnets. ❤
Happy Sunday you guys. ❤️❤️
I love this couple. Cole and the bonnet though 😂😂🥰🥰🥰
Always a pleasure 🙏🏼🫶🏽
You two lovely people, by doing these videos must help more disabled people than you think. Charisma you think things through which is also a positive help. I agree better to do this than in the mornings as must give you extra daytime 🎉. Your Sophie is a good girl, bless her. Good night xx sleep tight👩❤️💋👨🙋🙏♥️
Awwww, Cole wears a bonnet now! 😊❤ Love you both sooo much.
Love you two! Thanks for sharing your night! Looks like a fun night with great food & good company. ❤
Cole after Charisma blow dried his hair "Thank you"
Even though she does this for him every night, he appreciates her for that.
My take away : may we never get used to the little or even big things out spouses does for us.
Let them know you appreciate them for taking the trash out, for ironing your shirt, for cooking that meal e.t.c
And yes am giving this advice as a single ❤😂
your videos are always really interesting to watch. I've been following you since you started on TH-cam and I'm always learning or discovering things about your relationship. I find this very moving🥰
I love you Charisma and Cole. ❤
May God protect you both and your respective families 🤲🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙 Mylène from FRANCE 🇨🇵
Advice about the night bag situation from a fellow user. Ask whomever is providing you with the bag if perhaps there is another “brand” of bag available. For example, I use a blue bed with a locking release mechanism instead of the fold up hose. If you explain to the company providing the bags the problem you are having with the connector they may be able to help.
Ya'll make me laugh...you are so good together ❤
I had a bag issue too, and my mom got me tropical fish bags and I just use medical tape to tape the catheter to my belly where my stoma is. I can drink as much as I want and there is plenty of room for liquids and the bags are very sturdy and strong. If you are interested, I can give you a good website. Makes them very inexpensive and they last for a long time.
They recently stopped making those BARD brand Night drainage bags with the green tips, I know!! I'm having the same problem! Now I have to connect my nighttime bag with a more narrow opening, which doesn't work as well. Feel you.
I literally said out loud, maybe Cole needs a bonnet and you whip one out 😂😂
I dated a visually impaired person in my late teens but neither one of us had the mental capacity or maturity to sustain the relationship. Fortunately he found his “Charisma” and we remained friends. I wish TH-cam was around then because watching you two has taught me so much about being in an interabled relationship.
Thank you for being an awesome couple and sharing your life and experiences with us. As a new subscriber I can’t wait to see what you’ll have for us in 2024.
Cole And Charisma, You Both Certainly Had A Beautiful Valentine's Day Dinner With Your Fantastic Friends Shane And Hannah!! ... It's Always Wonderful To Share Such A Special Day With Friends!! ❤ We All Certainly Love Your Amazing Videos Very Much!! .. We Absolutely Love Seeing Sophie!! .. She's So Sweet! .. Much Love!!! ❤❤❤
Looks sooooo much more relaxing at night 🌙
Charisma converted Cole😅😊
She did! Lol
🤣🤣🙈
Bonnet Chronicles
❤😂❤😂
Love the bonnets
Love the part where Charisma’s twin helps her clean up the kitchen 😅😅
Charisma, Cole & Sophie, I love your channel, both your families and you. I'm so looking forward to the Lord blessing you with your own bundle of joy! Many blessings and prayers. OneLove ❣️
2 looking same now a days as most couples in their looks or face❤
Certainly a lot of work…much empathy for both of you…being a senior I can’t help but wonder 💭 about the future years as one ages are bodies aren’t as strong …..
You two are adorable.... sleep tight guys!
I love hanging out with you guys! At least, it kind of FEELS like we hang out when I watch your videos 😉. Seriously, though, I love your content, and especially your personalities and spirit.
MY PEOPLE, KEEP WELL. LOTS OF LOVE AND PRAYERS
I love it !!! Team Bonnets!!!! I love love y’all so much! I smile ear to ear watching all the love in the air. Thank you so much for sharing your life❤
Hi guys! A bonnet for Cole? I get why, but this just made me laugh my butt off!! I just love you guys!
Literally laughed out loud when I saw the bonnet 😂 - LOVE it!!
Love you guys so much love ❤️
heya its lilsweeper and definitely enjoying all the videos
I just flippin love y’all!!!!! ❤❤❤❤
U guys are so positive and loving. I love watching..❤❤❤❤❤
I didn’t know you could get bedhead with hair that short, you guys are adorable, like twinsies in your little bonnets.
Thanks for sharing, you guys look sooooooo comfortable. 😄
the bonnet sisters part was SO CUTE! i've been thinking of getting a bonnet to wear to bed too :)))
love the night routine. bonnet twins unite. so cute.
Enjoyed the night routine. Blessings to you both.
Being on the West Coast is different from being on the East Coast, not only is the time difference, seems to go faster, but you have the temperature change as well.
Yall are literally the cutest couple ever🥰
I love you guys wedding pictures on the fridge.
Take care, my friends ❤️
I'm glad I found your channel. I'm new scriber. I can see so much love between you. I hope you are blessed with a child soon rather IVF or adoption. I pray God blesses you even if adopted, doesn't mean that child is any less yours, or your any less that child's parents. I also recently found Shane and Hanna channel
Hello Cole and Cherisma i love you guys, watching you from South Africa 👌👍✌❤
You both look great.
Watching from England 🏴 xx