10 Years Paralyzed *Emotional* | C5/6 Quadriplegic

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  • @coleandcharisma
    @coleandcharisma  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2631

    Thank you for this, Charisma, and thank you to everyone who contributed. I love y’all ❤️

    • @Rae8Anne
      @Rae8Anne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      We love ya, Cole!

    • @tcmomcoffey4028
      @tcmomcoffey4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Thank u both for sharing 💓 love u all

    • @liltbennet
      @liltbennet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      We truly do love you Cole! We're rooting and praying for you, Charisma and Sophie. I feel blessed to be a longtime subscriber. Because of your story, I make sure I consider people with disabilities in conversations about revising my city's transit system with my local officials. Your impact is truly profound. 😀

    • @samanthablakeley9019
      @samanthablakeley9019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Charisma’s Dad is wearing a shirt that says “Promoted to Grandpa 2022” …. Is this news???

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

      @@samanthablakeley9019 no no haha. My brothers wife is expecting 🤗 - Charisma

  • @biolife3274
    @biolife3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2471

    This is what being a damn good parent creates. These two. Put everything into your kids, and I mean everything. They all deserve it. To have a beautiful life.

    • @exceptionaltalentspc4954
      @exceptionaltalentspc4954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      Good parenting is key. The results of good and bad parenting is what makes the society we have today.

    • @biolife3274
      @biolife3274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@exceptionaltalentspc4954 100% agree

    • @chauna5413
      @chauna5413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Yes I constantly look at other people's family and say wow they're parents are really invested in them. Wish my parents were like that , anyways still blessed to have them and life. God bless everyone

    • @heatherlorscheider7758
      @heatherlorscheider7758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That what I always say I hope I'm a good parent and all I dream of is that my children are good people. These two are wonderful people.

    • @deemichelle
      @deemichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Beautifully stated. Wish more did as you suggest. The world would be so much better. 💯 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @speaktruth9631
    @speaktruth9631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Two great sets of parents and one Amazing wife. I'm crying.

    • @jessicaculver6198
      @jessicaculver6198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And a wonderful man alot of woman need to learn to look at what theyre lookin for ot except past as reason to not hold his wife and family up

    • @liliankimani9524
      @liliankimani9524 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it's very emotional

  • @jeanineberna8458
    @jeanineberna8458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +463

    My husband got injured in HS football, 1976. I met him in 1980. We clicked immediately at a party. I knew he was the love of my life, we have been married for 39+ yrs! 4 daughters, 4 sons in law, 4 awesome grandkids! He’s been such an independent man for all of our time together, but 6 yrs ago, he sustained a wound on his butt, it went down to the bone. So, now he’s been mostly bedridden since then. He’s my life partner & best friend, so I take care of him! He’s such an inspiration for me, because he doesn’t complain about what happened to him. Our grandchildren surround him in his bed & just talk to him & watch movies with him! Never give up!! Life is precious as long as we breathe!❣️💖💙🥰

    • @yvonnehull8081
      @yvonnehull8081 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      How beautiful your message is. It’s inspiring!!! Thank you and God bless you and your family.

    • @jeanineberna8458
      @jeanineberna8458 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@yvonnehull8081 thank you 😊

    • @ruthrudnik1622
      @ruthrudnik1622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      My husband had a sacral wound acquired in the hospital which became stage 4 after the staff dropped him from a hoyer lift and destroyed his coccyx. The wound was as big and deep as a tennis ball. Hospital and nursing home didn't cure it but I brought him home and with the wound care center and learning to dress it myself, it has finally, healed, filled in and closed. It took six months. My husband is 76.

    • @LadyV7
      @LadyV7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@ruthrudnik1622 that is great news. I'm happy for him😊

    • @deborahfranklin9370
      @deborahfranklin9370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Beautiful message ❤

  • @SidraAdele
    @SidraAdele ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I’m sitting here at least 10 minutes after the video ended trying to stop the tears and I can’t. I’m speechless. The love, the true essence of family, the spirit of perseverance… I see God in the two of you and the life you have built together. I wish you both nothing but the best for your future.

  • @ace-vb7lw
    @ace-vb7lw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1036

    when a man finds a wife, he finds a good THING!!! Praise and love to you guys!

    • @linana2030
      @linana2030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Literally

    • @daphnehenry8577
      @daphnehenry8577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen!

    • @lynettejohnson8418
      @lynettejohnson8418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You two are an Awesome couple!! Many Blessing from GOD to you both!!🙏🙏🙏💕

    • @janeal6510
      @janeal6510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Exactly. That’s what this is. They are such a beauty to behold and watch. I’m bawling tears of joy. Cole is a champion!

    • @ejanielaji2332
      @ejanielaji2332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen God is sure keeping them both.🙏👀🥀🥀🥀🇨🇦

  • @heavenly-love6707
    @heavenly-love6707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    Charisma’s parents raised a good child in the person of Charisma. Charisma is the best thing that ever happened to Cole. God bless u al!

    • @pinkleather6725
      @pinkleather6725 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Her parent's gave her the right name charisma

  • @garybartley7667
    @garybartley7667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +414

    Cole’s wife’s name matches her personality. They make a beautiful couple. They are full of life and positive energy.

    • @susanbrown2578
      @susanbrown2578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It really does!

    • @49neenee
      @49neenee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree!

    • @robinpta1
      @robinpta1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My thoughts, too!

  • @Sweetie_PieLo
    @Sweetie_PieLo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +223

    This is the most beautiful tear jerking video. Charisma- your mom and dad seem like beautiful people… what a wonderful support system!

  • @jaysinger535
    @jaysinger535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +380

    You’re still surviving and thriving!
    May God continue to bless you,Cole.

    • @marciadichiara5688
      @marciadichiara5688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Amen

    • @missgulliver4621
      @missgulliver4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hi Cole and Charisma, Do give God the Praises for keeping you these ten years, Live Your Motto'Stay Positive'&He will help you both in fulfilling your Aspirations.GBU 🇬🇾🙏🙏♥️💖

    • @suelineiland6743
      @suelineiland6743 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      queria muito saber o eles falam falam tinham que traduzir em portugues

    • @celesicstyles
      @celesicstyles 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

  • @2acresevolving777
    @2acresevolving777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1478

    Just the fact that you said “It’s been a good 10 years” shows what kind of person you are. You could focus on the negative, but then you will never see all the positive things that have happened and how many people you have inspired. You both are so amazing. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! I can’t wait to see what you all do over the next 10 years!!

    • @dunigan4225
      @dunigan4225 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Cole you are am amazing person and that is why I'm rolling with C&C.
      I love you guys. Thank you for sharing your life.

    • @coleandcharisma
      @coleandcharisma  3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Thank you so much!

    • @miraclelove991
      @miraclelove991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I am so happy for you Cole. I’m happy for Charisma. I never told you why you all fascinated me so much. It’s the energy. It’s how Cole ask you were you going to the party and you didn’t have a date. That meant so much to me for you. One thing I have learned literally not just a saying - you can’t keep a good man down. He’ll raise every time. But this time God sent him a good woman to raise with him. Both of you just so happy and always got good vibes. I can watch your videos and just relax and go with the flow. That’s the real magic you to bring to us. Happy Happy Happy and many more Happy years.

    • @michelleguest1720
      @michelleguest1720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      You make your mama proud...
      Making new memories...
      I told my boys to grow up to be happy men! Hugs!!

    • @ajp2525
      @ajp2525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      What a uplifting story. Look at what love can do. May God continues keep you and your beautiful wife and family.
      You guys stay safe.. Always be yourselves. Beautiful!!!♥️♥️♦️♦️

  • @homiesuncensored
    @homiesuncensored 3 ปีที่แล้ว +653

    when Charisma´s dad said "thank you for surviving", i felt that. You guys are amazing. I admire you a lot

  • @lindamullin8309
    @lindamullin8309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Wow. The love between both sets of parents. Is truly refreshing. Raised them kids so well

  • @MandaPanda
    @MandaPanda 3 ปีที่แล้ว +839

    My heart broke when he said “its been a long 10 years” I know it must have been challenging and at times he felt really low, I’m so glad Charisma came into his life ❤️😢

    • @jocelynanthony-williams1704
      @jocelynanthony-williams1704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I love yhat he followed it up with, It's been a good ten years. That gave me chills.

    • @lauren578
      @lauren578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @dorothyjanediaz3642
      @dorothyjanediaz3642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Manda Panda, My heart did too and I cried with them! I Love both of them and like you I'm so glad they have each other, they're so good together ❤

    • @dr.lorianne
      @dr.lorianne 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Manda, I know. When he said that, I had to hold back my ugly cry. Then, he said, “it’s been a good 10 years”. What a man!

    • @lilley883
      @lilley883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Mine too... We cannot even begin to imagine what he must feel inside. Over and above his constant positive attitude, he's still a human, who will from time to time experience a flood of overwhelming emotions from all angles. 💔 All credit to our grand creator, who empowers us each day, even more so Cole. 💐😘

  • @thelifeofmemeandneenie2673
    @thelifeofmemeandneenie2673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    This tribute to Cole is absolutely beautiful. I can't stop crying.

    • @glendareid2470
      @glendareid2470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Me either 😭😭😭

    • @emmajohnson5042
      @emmajohnson5042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      wowwow

    • @tiffanypruitt5945
      @tiffanypruitt5945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same 😭😭😍

    • @michaap3
      @michaap3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      same😭

    • @josephine8295
      @josephine8295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Soo heart warming... how you turned the ugly to beautifully...Charisma such a loving soul .Just found out your channel today...God bless you guys..Love from Kuala Lumpur

  • @psycroknit
    @psycroknit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +245

    This is beautiful.. I’m sobbing. You didn’t survive these 10 years … You LIVED these 10 years .. you & your support team are amazing .

  • @MsNotaBene
    @MsNotaBene 2 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    Being depressed and seeing this, makes me question why i sulk in anxiety. 😭 God bless you

    • @newleft2254
      @newleft2254 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Because your trauma, fears and experiences are valid. You don’t stop being a human being with feelings just cause someone else has suffered.

    • @cristinamartins1639
      @cristinamartins1639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Desejo que você fique bem e tente olhar para vida de uma forma melhor. São esses tipos de vídeos que nos faz parar pra pensar e refletir em que não existem barreiras na vida, que sejam capazes de nos parar e destruir, porque existe um Deus que estar sempre nos olhando e pronto para nos capacitar pra enfrentar tudo e ainda que não aconteça do jeito que queremos, ainda sim nós podemos aprender um pouco mais.

    • @folakemiogunseiju4157
      @folakemiogunseiju4157 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Jesus loves you and he doesn’t want anxiety to have you or depression

  • @ajh.4131
    @ajh.4131 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Oh, don’t mind me. Just over here crying my eyes out. Like, I legit ugly cried watching this video. Especially when Cole started crying.

  • @lorraineslife
    @lorraineslife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    He has some great people in his corner.... his support system is strong & his wife is super amazing..

  • @hummingbird11
    @hummingbird11 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's a strange coincidence that this story popped up in my main feed.
    On April 19, 2023, the worst news was relayed to me.
    I met a lovely man in December 1991.
    I became a nanny for his three beautiful children back then.
    On March 6, 2023, he got out of bed that morning,
    entered the washroom, & unexpectedly blacked out.
    When falling, he hit his head on the edge of the bath tub.
    He is currently paralyzed from the neck down.
    He went from a healthy 63 year old man, to this.
    He was a soccer player, a coach, a mentor,
    a hiker, a cross country skier, a traveller.
    He lived in the country with clean air.
    He never used drugs,
    didn't smoke, & was a light drinker.
    In a split second, his whole world changed.
    It also changed for his wife, & his grown children.
    My heart aches.
    I hope that one day,
    he will become a Cole.
    Stay strong, & God speed. ❤

  • @ginaparker211
    @ginaparker211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    "It's been a good 10 years " Wow!! Such an inspiration. I love you guys.

    • @tinawilliams4883
      @tinawilliams4883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is when the tears dropped it’s been a good 10 years.. I love them

    • @chelliea42
      @chelliea42 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That statement alone is golden!!!

    • @ginaparker211
      @ginaparker211 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chelliea42 yes it is.

    • @The_Crafty_Counselor
      @The_Crafty_Counselor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He didn't have to say anything else after that!

  • @kilmongerjon643
    @kilmongerjon643 3 ปีที่แล้ว +210

    10 years and you still have a smile through it all is very amazing.

  • @nesemac
    @nesemac 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Cole, if my daughter’s could meet someone 1/4 of your character I’d be blessed. I love you both. God is amazing.

    • @Bohemian68
      @Bohemian68 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      All the time he is amazing!

    • @florencesibanda7650
      @florencesibanda7650 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God well heal you if you keep knocking his door keep praying

  • @nadiayoung1282
    @nadiayoung1282 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Oh my God! What an awesome set of human beings. Cole, Charisma, the parents, the friends. This is so sweet. I am bawling ❤

    • @nKarje
      @nKarje 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Which G0d are you referring to? The one mommy and daddy indoctrinated you to believe in? There is evidence for none of them btw.

  • @shea6814
    @shea6814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    How miserable can you be to actually dislike this video??
    What a beautiful gift Charisma…truly inspiring!

  • @iamvak2375
    @iamvak2375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    This brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful story and life lesson: when life hands you lemons, you don't give up, you make lemonade .

    • @deborahwelch4637
      @deborahwelch4637 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said

    • @kevinmansell8746
      @kevinmansell8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deborahwelch4637 me too

    • @erick.nippyfan1005
      @erick.nippyfan1005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg that was one of the best comments I ever read on TH-cam. Thanks for that I'm gonna stick with those wise words bless u

    • @iamvak2375
      @iamvak2375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@erick.nippyfan1005 As long as we live, life will offer us challenges. Some of us will crumble under the pressure, while others will rise up to the challenge, become stronger, and reap the sweet rewards of having not given up. Cole is a winner. And I know that you are too. We all have a winner inside of us. Thankyou for your kind words. May God make his face to shine upon you, always. 😊

  • @Kay_BeeKB
    @Kay_BeeKB 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Here I’am sick today (Lupus) feeling sorry for myself and I see this ❤️ Thank you for showing me life does go on! We just adjust 💪🏽

  • @heavenly-love6707
    @heavenly-love6707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! God be with u all.

    • @Tes-mm5rp
      @Tes-mm5rp ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She is an amusing person. I love her beautiful smile and her caring soul.

  • @rhiannonbedford4039
    @rhiannonbedford4039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    My favorite part of the video is when coles dad said that as a parent your happiness is tied to your childs happiness... so true!!!! Love you guys! Xx

  • @globalconcern4995
    @globalconcern4995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Amazing.
    'He gives beauty for ashes, strength for tears, gladness for mourning, peace through the years.'

  • @nursinglicensetutorials293
    @nursinglicensetutorials293 2 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Shout out to Charisma’s parents, u guys raised a good child indeed! God bless u all! Cole, u are a strong guy, keep fighting man! Cried for entire video lenght...God bless you all :)

  • @katilynn365
    @katilynn365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    The “thank you for surviving” got me good

    • @brownsugar3335
      @brownsugar3335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah..the tears starting rolling for me. I feel so blessed that this beautiful family has shared their lives with us. Good stuff

    • @CourtneyMichelle
      @CourtneyMichelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gah dang it! Whose cutting onions

  • @jburnes41
    @jburnes41 3 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    this one brought me to tears. im a very positive person, but watching your videos reminds me that as long as i have breath life is not that bad at all. thank you both for allowing us the opportunity to just to live your life through video. as a 63 year old man i still find things in life that keep me going. and you 2 just add to my wonderful life. thank you.

  • @stellaolejar9007
    @stellaolejar9007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    How beautiful and encouraging to see and hear the in-laws talk so lovingly about their son in law.

  • @neighborhoodfriendlyquadri343
    @neighborhoodfriendlyquadri343 2 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Cole, I first came across you on TH-cam about two years ago which was about three years after me getting paralyzed from the chest down just like you are. In 2018 between January and June, I attempted suicide five times… One of which killed me. God literally reached down from heaven with his mighty hands of healing and literally brought me back to life from the dead… You have inspired me so incredibly much over these last few years, you have shown me there a new “Normal” is still truly out there/attainable/available. Also like you, I had basketball taken away from me… I was six years old the first time my dad put a basketball in my hand, and I haven’t stopped playing since… I played basketball for 32 years… Practically my whole life. When we first got paralyzed, the first things and for me they were constant after I was finally out of the ICU after 3 1/2 weeks, My activity by chosen activity was staring at the ceiling in the hospital just thinking about the literally tens and thousands of different things that I couldn’t do anymore… When I finally realized… I’m sure that when we both realized that we couldn’t play basketball anymore, it literally felt like our hearts ripping out of our chest… I used to get super emotional about it.
    We have both had our dark days and dark moments after being paralyzed… I am so grateful and thankful that God led me to you on TH-cam… You have inspired me and like I said before, you have shown me that there can be happiness after our injuries! I guess I just want to say thank you from the bottom of my heart for being you, and just like your brother said… You may be younger than me, but I look up to you! I feel the exact same way… And I need you to know that one of the reasons I am alive today, is You! You just being you… Happy go lucky, positive, able to do things even in a wheelchair… You are a huge part of my success and part of my recovery from being paralyzed! I know we have never met, but I love you like a brother! May God continue to bless you and everything you do, and may God keep you and protect you And your loved ones from Covid, with God’s perfect love, his amazing grace, and his gentle mercy. In Jesus name I pray, amen

    • @joycesmith3940
      @joycesmith3940 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      AMEN,AMEN,AMEN💝

    • @buyiscorner396
      @buyiscorner396 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen

    • @pamelaferebee3648
      @pamelaferebee3648 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @jbissainthe
      @jbissainthe ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen. May the Lord continue to rain His blessings upon you:-)

    • @shawngordon6626
      @shawngordon6626 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤ MR AND MRS COLE LOVE YOU'LL JESUS LOVE YOU'LL BEST 12:35 🎷🎻🌻

  • @annelinevdberg
    @annelinevdberg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +282

    Don't allow people and their unimportant negative opinions to ever pull you apart. You are so beautiful together. Your love and joy is magical 🙂

    • @texastwister6988
      @texastwister6988 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why are you making up lies for comment "likes"Nobody's being negative on here and I'm sure not in public. Smh

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@texastwister6988 - *I think you misunderstood her comment. She just mean in general to never let any negative comment ruin anything for them, which is why Cole & Charisma "HEARTED" her comment.*

    • @Bella-xn6gm
      @Bella-xn6gm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Negative comments can come outside TH-cam in all kind of sorts of ways but they must not entertain them

    • @annelinevdberg
      @annelinevdberg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Nicole215 You are correct, that is indeed what I meant :-)

  • @Th3yluvkxri5533
    @Th3yluvkxri5533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Cole you don’t even know me, yet you touched my life with your positivity and determination…thank you! ❤️

  • @sarahwood5678
    @sarahwood5678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    God has a plan for all of us and boy did he have a plan for you. Thank you for all you do you're truly an inspiration in so many ways.

  • @hannagg9365
    @hannagg9365 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    And here I am SULKING, having a bad day over the PETTIEST of things… that will have zero effect on tomorrow. I was so angry and agitated… literally over NOTHING. Thank you for making me realize that.. by just watching this video. Pure inspiration! ❤

  • @sunnydaysatl
    @sunnydaysatl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Tears of joy…this made my day.

    • @yetundeoyebola3704
      @yetundeoyebola3704 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And yes ...Charisma is true love personified...I admire ur strength...all the best 👍 🥰✌🏾😀

  • @aerialjohnson3279
    @aerialjohnson3279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    “It’s been a long ten years. “ looks at Charisma thinks about his life and says, “it’s been a good ten years.”

    • @gorgeouslyjen
      @gorgeouslyjen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That made me tear up even more!

    • @aerialjohnson3279
      @aerialjohnson3279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@gorgeouslyjen I know right it’s amazing to see. God is good

    • @ladiifuego4766
      @ladiifuego4766 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @patriciaperry-higgins6269
    @patriciaperry-higgins6269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    They found each other a perfect pair no one can do this but GOD…. Continued BLESSING C&C❤️

    • @BeeChance
      @BeeChance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You got that right. It's ALL God.

    • @abullard8409
      @abullard8409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@BeeChance yes it is. This is so powerful and beautiful.

  • @donaldtram691
    @donaldtram691 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    You don't even know how much impact you are making on people's lives worldwide, Cole, and Charisma. You are the light in the darkness, and your positive perspective of life is so powerful and contagious. If only people who have problems and feel so helpless would find time to watch you and listen to your story, I am sure they would find meaning in their own struggles. God bless you both, and thank you for being a great inspiration and for your enduring love and values.

  • @kattinabyse1957
    @kattinabyse1957 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I think it's safe to say that everybody loves Charisma! lol I love her, too.

  • @ericakilbournebroodie
    @ericakilbournebroodie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Man my eyes are sweating REALLY hard!!! Smh You guys are beautiful!!! Thank God for you being such a blessing Cole!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @lezup
    @lezup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Cole, to see you thrive with all you went through, you have been such a positive influence in my life. Every day I see ways I could adapt to things in my life, and I see how to be positive. I’m so happy that you found Charisma to be with.

  • @sallysampson628
    @sallysampson628 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    “a good ten years” says everything about you Cole. As a Mum your story is so very hard in ways I can’t imagine, yet you’ve achieved so much in-spite of your injury 10 years ago. I also hope so fervently that better treatment and research can be funded towards one day being able to reverse spinal injuries/paralysis.
    😊🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

  • @debbiewbd2359
    @debbiewbd2359 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    On August 2, it was 33 years since my diving accident left me a quadriplegic. They say the summer is the worst time for people living in northern climates because we are out enjoying our few months of warmth and not as careful.
    You're doing a great thing in bringing attention to diving and paralysis.

    • @livenowliveright8509
      @livenowliveright8509 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Prayers for you as well

    • @angeec.3312
      @angeec.3312 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So sorry, Debbie. May God always be by your side and in your heart. I lost two friends in diving accidents.

    • @mpume131
      @mpume131 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Debbie God still loves you and we also ❤ love you sweetypie

  • @benottenoel3556
    @benottenoel3556 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    Omg! I can't stop the tears. This was so beautiful. Cole is living life with a purpose. What is our excuse for those that are fully capable? Such an inspiration.

  • @joliestever3307
    @joliestever3307 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Cole, I am crying like a baby.... long after the video has ended. You've truly lived an exceptional and courageous life, and the best is yet to come. Thank you for touching my life in ways you will probably never know about. I am sure that is the sentiment of many. We love you and Charisma. We're proud of you guys and we are all excited to see the next adventure God has for you. 💝

    • @HappyBlueButterfly
      @HappyBlueButterfly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, yes! Thank you for your kind words, I too am continuing crying long after, lol, we are all going to be okay by the grace of God!

  • @janeal6510
    @janeal6510 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I cried an unhealthy amount of tears. More blessings to you Cole and Charisma. Love you both

  • @ladyg8373
    @ladyg8373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    My tears dropped down when listening to Cole's mom knowing how it feels like, as a mother. You are an amazing couple. Just like you always says stayyy positiiive😊😊

  • @gkcollard2
    @gkcollard2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    What a beautiful tribute to a great guy! Thank you for putting yourself out there. Hopefully one day I can get my grandson who was injured at age 16 as well (18 yrs old now) and is a c4 quad, to watch and be inspired by you. All he wants to do is play video games! Y’all are a wonderful couple and I love watching your videos! Hugs and prayers for both of you!

  • @acaraj
    @acaraj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I was hanging tough with no tears until I saw Cole's mom. I'm a mom and I can't imagine the roller coaster she (and the fam) have been on these past 10 years! What a blessing this all turned out to be! Much love to you all! ❤

  • @babygurll7
    @babygurll7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm only 1 minute in and I can't stop the tears from flowing. Near the end of the video and still crying. Thank you Cole for sharing this video and this channel and your life. You are a miracle, a testimony and an inspiration for many more than you know! Your life has touched me so much, and I've never let you know before, but I am now. So on behalf of the silent watchers, thank you Cole for being you and sharing a part of your life with us.

  • @lavadabenimon1483
    @lavadabenimon1483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    THIS is my SON tenth years of being paralyzed from the waist down as well. You're the real MVP Cole he lost one leg as well.

  • @Decibelmetre
    @Decibelmetre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I enjoyed Mama Kelly's tribute. You seem to have made her proud by how well your life turned out despite the odds that were against you. Cheers 🍻 to more years of good health and a sound mind. God bless you Charisma and give you more love, patience and endurance.

  • @sonitaluvfamily
    @sonitaluvfamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    The parents though 😭😭😭
    May God grant you many more years. All the best Cole and Charisma 🥰

  • @lisaguinto-vogel9001
    @lisaguinto-vogel9001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is what LOVE looks like, the couple, the parents, the brother and his friends. God Bless this family and God Bless America.

  • @mikechrisscorpio.2659
    @mikechrisscorpio.2659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    KNOWING GOD AND LOVING HIM IS WHAT HAS HELPED COLE THROUGH HIS JOURNEY 🙏 CHARISMA YOU'RE 1 OF THE MANY BLESSINGS THAT GOD HAS GIVEN HIM❤️ MAY GOD BLESSED YOU COLE✨

    • @lisaellis2593
      @lisaellis2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen.

    • @MumfordEJ
      @MumfordEJ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gods not real sorry it’s a fairytale, if he is as doing he would allow people to be paralysed in the first place

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      *Amen*

    • @Nicole215
      @Nicole215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MumfordEJ Oh yes, God is definitely real and one-day you'll get to know that. I pray you seek Him out for yourself. God is REAL

  • @OwamieEntertainment
    @OwamieEntertainment 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    When Cole said it’s been a long 10 years 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 onions got chopped

  • @paulepagop8430
    @paulepagop8430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    This is by far your best video. Always liked the videos, but never commented until today. Thank You!

    • @jenelleforde5257
      @jenelleforde5257 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too. This video made me jump out myself. I am happy to know that out of bad cometh good. They make me believe in love again true genuine love

  • @CristinaRivas-y6v
    @CristinaRivas-y6v ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a wonderful family on both Charisma’s and Cole’s side 🥹

  • @gailowen820
    @gailowen820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    All I can say is WOW.
    The commitment, passion and love is so beautiful. Keep living and enjoying life.

  • @korrynwalker
    @korrynwalker 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    That was absolutely beautiful! All the sentiments were truly touching and poignant to the person that Cole is and has shown through this channel. It was your proposal video that bought me in, but it was the character of both you and Charisma that has kept me! ❤ Blessings to you both!

  • @rebeccabuchanan5531
    @rebeccabuchanan5531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It's been 4 years for me, Cole you encourage me through you tube. I pray during this 10th yeaR That you receive more blessings like never before

  • @tina-xp3pk
    @tina-xp3pk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The Way she loves him.... everything in this video is just Perfect ....thanks for making me cry😅❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @vickibyrd2043
    @vickibyrd2043 3 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    This is a story that turned from tragic to having a life of success and serving others. God bless you and Charisma!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖

  • @myles303
    @myles303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This was honestly one of my favorite videos. It brought me to tears. Thank you charisma for making this video and Cole for being an inspiration. It’s been 10 years, but you just keep getting stronger. Keep up the great work and keep spreading your message to the world.

  • @All_Things_Erin
    @All_Things_Erin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Today I randomly saw the Q&A sessions you did with each of your parents and it helped me to cry today. Today is the 11 year anniversary of my daughter passing. She was born on 8/9/10 with a rare form of dwarfism that didn’t allow for her lungs to fully grow and develop. She passed away in my arms on 8/11/10. Typically I lay in bed these days and seclude myself. Today I didn’t do that. I believe she visited me a few times this week to let me know she was with me and she was ok. I’ve made it a point not to let my emotions out. But I needed to and you helped me do that. Had she lived she would have had many physical difficulties with her legs alone with multiple surgeries. Seeing how your family, friends and community was/is there for you is absolutely amazing!!! Seeing your embrace your situation and use your experiences to help others is phenomenal and I admire you deeply for sharing your Life with us. I’ve been a subscribe for maybe 2 years now and I always enjoy your content and positivity. Especially the love between you ans Charisma. Although my daughter’s condition and yours are not similar in nature I still feel a connection to you, especially to Kelly Mama being the mama bear she is 💜 Thank you again for sharing, for helping me release some of my sadness and for showing your strength, love and positivity throughout it all.

    • @analogkid4957
      @analogkid4957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your thoughts. You are heard. Your daughters Spirit has visited you. Her energy is obviously still alive and well and I’m glad she visited you this week. We are all dying- everyone of us. Your daughters soul decided before birth to return Home to heaven if I can call it that.Her brief mission was fulfilled and now she is on the” other side” in peace and glory.🙏

    • @garlandfraley734
      @garlandfraley734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Prayers for you too

  • @dianasmith725
    @dianasmith725 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’ve seen other videos with other couples with one partner who is paralyzed and the feeling I get from u two is that you r very authentic and truly blessed in your lives. Thank u for sharing

  • @ISSSA-j4b
    @ISSSA-j4b 3 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    It wasn't "good luck", this guy has a purpose in God. I pray he can find it. Jesus loves you and your wife!

  • @siouxgirl2703
    @siouxgirl2703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Brought tears to my eyes. What a beautiful tribute to the wonderful man Cole is. Loved by so many. 💜💜💜

  • @brendagriggs8395
    @brendagriggs8395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    That was so beautiful. Today would have been my 37th anniversary, but I lost my husband 9 years ago. I love watching your videos, they are uplifting, encouraging and joyful. May God continue to bless you and your loved ones.

    • @robynjames3505
      @robynjames3505 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry for your loss, I hope you had a blessed day

    • @charissa6648
      @charissa6648 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am so sorry for your suffering. I know, I wish I had words to uplift you and comfort you, but I am afraid only Jesus can do that.
      I will say, if I may be so bold, I once heard a quote that changed me forever; What is grief, if not love persevering?”
      I pray that the Lord will send people into your life to love you and care you in your time of affliction, because this is true religion undefiled.
      Thank you for sharing!

  • @Tpierre1993
    @Tpierre1993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Let me go grab my tissue box 🏃🏾‍♀️
    After watching this, just want to say Cole you are an inspiration to so many people not just to your family but also to a lot of people around the world. Somethings happens to us and we will never know why but God will never gives us more than we can bear. Look what you’ve accomplished being in a wheelchair.
    I’ve learn so much about about disabilities, some thing simple as the sidewalk cut off for wheelchairs. I’ve learned so much about the wheelchair world. I am more aware when I see a handicap sign. Thank you showing us a glimpse of your life. May God continue to bless you guys abundantly and may joy, peace, and love flow at the Sydnor household ♥️♥️

  • @hairgal3655
    @hairgal3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Love this so much. It saddens me that there are people in the world that just don’t accept your relationship! The love you have transcends color and transcends disabilities, Love truly is all we can give to others and you both are great examples of Christ love .

  • @hellensingoey2269
    @hellensingoey2269 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Who else cried after watching this, I did. Love this couple, their friends and family.

  • @ITI-xi5zx
    @ITI-xi5zx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    the parents talking to him was the sweetest thing! I hope to have in-laws that amazing one day

  • @queentinadoire6931
    @queentinadoire6931 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Crying...crying...crying Cole, I am so proud of you. You and Charisma always put a smile on my face. God please bless this family and increase their finances. We love you C and C. Everytime I think about complaining; I come to this channel- Cole, you've really inspired me.

    • @kimberlydaniels5876
      @kimberlydaniels5876 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      When two are gathered on one Accord. Yes Lord bless this couple according to Your divine will. May their alabaster box always overflow. In the name of Jesus. Selah.

  • @sydney_murray
    @sydney_murray 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I could feel the love, the joy, and the passion in your relationship in this video. I CRIED. God knew what he was doing when he put you both together because you both bring out the best in each other. I love how you both support and motivate each other all while inspiring others. Congrats on 10 years Cole, you have come a long way and you have accomplished so much. Keep fighting the good fight and continue to strive to break barriers. You both inspire me with your love for each other.❤

    • @maryah0422
      @maryah0422 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are indeed blessed.....I see how love and positivity can make the most dire situation turn out differently. Love you guys

  • @ayeishakoonce5535
    @ayeishakoonce5535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I CANT WAIT TO FIND THE LOVE THAT YOU TWO SHARE I RAN ACROSS THIS VIDEO WHEN I WAS JUST LOSING HOPE IN LIFE AND THIS VIDEO GAVE ME THE DRIVE AND THE WILL TO PUSH THROUGH WHAT IM GOING THROUGH THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO ❤️

    • @joro241
      @joro241 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @Aieisha Koonce Stay strong and true to yourself Love is out there & you will find it. Godspeed

    • @emykol
      @emykol 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Me too....was truly struggling, and this showed up. Thank you God!

    • @marquitiaw
      @marquitiaw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Prayers for you all.... Don't Give up , long as u wake up strive harder..... It won't rain forever...

    • @mpume131
      @mpume131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ayelsha don't give up my angel God has something good for you

    • @karengarrett3398
      @karengarrett3398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AMEN!!!

  • @Nicole215
    @Nicole215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    *Omgooooodness, I am balling my eyes out! This was beyond beautiful! The parents speaking about Cole, his friends and other family members was so heart felt. May God continue to bless you and your entire family! Thank you for inspiring us all to always be POSITIVE! Cheers to many more happy years together and beyond!*

  • @teddymcclendon5503
    @teddymcclendon5503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You guys lift up the darkest days for so many.Thank you for your blessing.love you guys.

  • @jalynnneely5111
    @jalynnneely5111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Cole, you are an inspiration to us all! We love you and so proud of all the accomplishments you have done over these past 10 years! 💪🏽❤️

  • @beautifulsunset4071
    @beautifulsunset4071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    When Charisma's parents started talking 😭😭

  • @Naaaxy
    @Naaaxy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    "and perhaps, most important thing: making me a grandma ✌✌" lol she is so cuteeee. Charisma's parents were also so sweet!!! this video is beautiful.

  • @erind1030
    @erind1030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    charismas parents had me cryinggggg omg.

    • @queenbee2447
      @queenbee2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Cole mother had me crying 😢 Cruse made me smile,

    • @yessumyessum6624
      @yessumyessum6624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I was good until near the end of the video when Cole could hardly speak due to crying.
      Nearly cried myself ...

    • @queenbee2447
      @queenbee2447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yessumyessum6624 me too

    • @OneLove101.
      @OneLove101. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      To know you’re their son, not just son-in-law, is what my dearly missed Mum & Dad used to say about my husband. It’s the biggest compliment anyone can give. ❤️

    • @gillybean5672
      @gillybean5672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. 🥰

  • @rochellebailey8352
    @rochellebailey8352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Such a beautiful love story. I was a rehab nurse and understand the complexity of what it takes to just to adapt to the changes a spinal cord injury has on a person, their family and friends. You two are amazing and give hope to the hopeless. So blessed to watch your videos...so much joy for me. Thank you for inspiring others!

  • @tinapinch7494
    @tinapinch7494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Congratulations Cole. You had to lose something to gain so much more. Sometimes things happen and you wonder why me? Then you wonder why not me and people enter your life and you realize you had to go through what you did in order to meet these wonderful people. I'm just happy that you realized it sooner than later. ❤

    • @Usapatriette
      @Usapatriette 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I couldn’t agree with you more, Tina!

    • @rosalynjohnson2295
      @rosalynjohnson2295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Great inspirational words.

    • @dotneyt1535
      @dotneyt1535 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful message

  • @Alleycatcreations2961
    @Alleycatcreations2961 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    You’ve done more since your accident, than some will do their entire lives! Be proud, stay strong and know how blessed you are to have such an amazing family and support system. You truly are a blessing.

  • @LaRavenTwitty
    @LaRavenTwitty 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I don’t know where I would be without this video. It truly changes you

  • @alphaniquestubbs5263
    @alphaniquestubbs5263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    God bless your family my favorite TH-cam couple! Congratulations on being a soldier for 10 years Cole, God gives the toughest battles to the strongest soldiers. Needless to say you make the battle look easy. #loveyouboth #keepcalmandcarryon

    • @pilipinasviral2150
      @pilipinasviral2150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amazing message i love it😍

    • @sharondarby44
      @sharondarby44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not that we wish this unfortunate accident on anyone but I love what you said @alphanique stubbs. Cole and Charisma you guys are absolutely fabulous. Soldiers!!!

  • @sheilajohnson9977
    @sheilajohnson9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I absolutely love guys, the sweetest couple ever.

  • @FantaandDarwin
    @FantaandDarwin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ It inspires so many people to live their lives to the fullest no matter their situation!

  • @dorcasmuli3888
    @dorcasmuli3888 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's been good ten years that hit differently. The positivity in it through all the struggles you've gone through. I'm in tears. One thing for sure is that God is faithful. Charisma and Cole, God bless you beyond your expectations.

  • @EmpressChernobyl
    @EmpressChernobyl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    This is one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever watched. Just wow.
    Thank you, Cole. Look at all of the lives you’ve touched and changed and how you’ve brought so much good to so many people. I feel blessed that you guys allow us into your lives. I look forward to witnessing the many wonderful things to come. So inspiring and so beautiful ❤️

  • @BHadassah
    @BHadassah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    My, this was a tear-jerker! You two are inspiring on many fronts. Now, listen to your momma and make her a grandmother!

  • @shanekahowellmivida9812
    @shanekahowellmivida9812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Many blessings you two! I love you both! ✨💜💜💜💜

  • @PatricioEscobarDH
    @PatricioEscobarDH 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s been 3 years for me, this brought me tears...long but beautiful years...guess long is good

  • @MomMom-kc4ee
    @MomMom-kc4ee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Wow. What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man. It made me cry. I have lived for 68 years, and have seldom seen anyone with the strength and attitude you possess. You are an example of what a true man should be. And Charisma is the partner you have been blessed with. Her smile brightens my day, so I can only imagine how much it brightens yours. You both inspire me . Love love you both.💕