What To NOT Buy For Your First Apartment || MINIMALISM

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  • HELLO! In this video I share with you the tips on what to NOT buy in your first apartment. There are a lot of household items that people think are necessities but you can actually live without. This video emphasises the importance of minimalism and reminds you that we can live with a lot less. This is something I love doing and I hope you all enjoy!
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  • @thesyainbrother3028
    @thesyainbrother3028 4 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    My home is so toxic I’m currently watching this at 15 ready to move out and these videos really help. Thanks

    • @CHloE748
      @CHloE748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      The syain brother if your parents are really that bad, as in they are physically or mentally abusive and dangerous, then you could get emancipated. In the US the starting age is 15-16. Just think about it first because it’s a major decision that might split ties with your family for good. But also remember you are
      a teenager so everything feels more dramatic lol. Seriously though, if your parents are violent and especially physically abusive, call CPS or talk to cops.

    • @c1908
      @c1908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The syain brother literally same

    • @taliasbeauty8518
      @taliasbeauty8518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Girl me too omfg :)

    • @mva2997
      @mva2997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Commenting to say that I used to be in your position, I understand and just want to say - it does get better. Don't let anybody tell you that building the life you want is wrong. Thrift stores, garage sales and Marshalls/Ross, free items on Craigslist are your friend. I'm 26 now, doing considerably well and I attribute that to the fact that I've been in survival mode since age 14. Proud of you.

    • @purplepunchi
      @purplepunchi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck girl! I'm 24 going thru the same exact thing so kudos to you for doing this at a young age.

  • @hedy_7084
    @hedy_7084 2 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    As a housecleaner I would suggest the following cleaning necessities:
    -microfiber cloths
    -swifter duster
    -comet,Ajax, or some form of powder cleaner for showers, toilets, tubs, and sinks.
    -windex because nothing else works that great for windows
    -multipurpose cleaner diluted in spray bottle for everyday cleaning, and wiping down of surfaces in the home.
    Depending on the home, you will also need something to care for granite, stainless steel, or special formulations for wood flooring. Otherwise, you’re correct in suggesting to keep it simple!

  • @haileyporter4787
    @haileyporter4787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Place mats are not only used for a mess they were really invented for people with wood tables that they don’t wanna destroy there table because the heat from your plates or the condensation from your cups and it helps the table for getting nicks and scratches

    • @Maryam07
      @Maryam07 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it’s better to get a table cover idk they’re pretty common in other countries so I thought it would be a good idea

  • @hannahsnarr8407
    @hannahsnarr8407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    This is so useful for college grads. It's so easy to look at really rich influencers buy apartments stuff when you're broke and want to do the same thing, but you make really great, attainable points.

  • @goodtogo3
    @goodtogo3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    buy from thrift stores and use vinegar and baking soda with few drops of dish detergent for all cleaning...even toilet

    • @marianamarcelabarrios226
      @marianamarcelabarrios226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Neef One well you can do that to clean stuff but I’m not sure if it’ll be enough, I think the best way to make sure everything is sanitized is to use bleach (something like 4 drops per liter of water)

    • @thedarkphoenix1640
      @thedarkphoenix1640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @Neef One yeah no. Vinegar and baking soda don't clean nearly as well as actual disinfectants. They have plenty of "natural" ones now a days though.

    • @angelsullivan8725
      @angelsullivan8725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I use method disinfectant. I accidentally sprayed it into my face and inhaled it and had no problems. I have asthma so I can't even go into a room that's been cleaned with watered down bleach or Lysol for AT LEAST 3 hours. I love it

    • @angelsullivan8725
      @angelsullivan8725 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh and it's all natural 😊

    • @isabellarose6514
      @isabellarose6514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What about clothes?

  • @yerebiz9545
    @yerebiz9545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +394

    Sorry im not a hater, but place mats are so you dont ruin your table, like if you hace super hot food or a cold drink, it would ruin a wooden table.

    • @amum9958
      @amum9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Was totally going to say the exact same thing!!

    • @ruthgarcia8504
      @ruthgarcia8504 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You can use a coaster but if you need it then you need it

    • @gumdrop1533
      @gumdrop1533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      A coaster wouldn't be big enough for a dinner plate.

    • @SugarBabyProductions
      @SugarBabyProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’ve literally never used a place mat and my wooden table had never been ruined 😅

    • @yerebiz9545
      @yerebiz9545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@SugarBabyProductions i think you are just lucky🤣 i ruined 6 tables before i realised place mats exist

  • @montseestrada27
    @montseestrada27 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Placemats are good for messy food! specially if you have a wooden table or a white one that might get stained.

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yeah I guess it can change depending on your circumstances!

    • @nskperez
      @nskperez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Also protect a glass table or something that could get scratched easy :)

  • @m00nl1ghtnoireg0bl1n
    @m00nl1ghtnoireg0bl1n 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    These were really good things to keep in mind. Although I will say living in a family home with no dishwasher, the dish racks are essential but that's what is so great about minimalism, you cater it to your needs. What's essential for one person may not be for another. Great video!

  • @ryanguillory9850
    @ryanguillory9850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    i like my dish rack 😩 yes i will accumulate them in the sink first and wash all of them later and let them air dry and put them up before the end of the night its really useful

  • @marcelinefang
    @marcelinefang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Just moved into a new apartment all by myself yesterday and this video was super encouraging. My apartment is suuuuper empty and I was feeling kind of uncomfortable and looking at big furniture sets on wayfair, but they I started watching apartment essentials videos and yours popped up. Thank you!

  • @abigailpena3602
    @abigailpena3602 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I feel like....not all of these things are sustainable. Throwing out perfectly good items for the sake of having less doesn’t seem as sustainable as adopting full use of them and ensuring their existence as necessary

    • @dianisea-hh4uf
      @dianisea-hh4uf 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I think the video is more of a don't buy these in the first place, though if you have stuff like this that's clutter and not useful you can always just donate it to a thrift store or give it to a friend

    • @Ttangko_
      @Ttangko_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You can sell stuff, you know....like used? Ebay for used goods didn't die in my country at least

    • @ciannacoleman5125
      @ciannacoleman5125 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you don’t use an item it is a waste to keep it & it turns into clutter. Better to move it along to a new home, most people don’t just “toss” their decluttered items.

  • @Pfchang7
    @Pfchang7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You right about the dish rack my first apartment my dishes barely made it to the cabinets this time around I lay a towel on the counter then put them away

  • @MrColombianking102
    @MrColombianking102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    At my house we tend to use the dishwasher as a drying rack lol - not a lot of plates so we just handwash it all

  • @TheHealthInsuranceSpecialist
    @TheHealthInsuranceSpecialist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    When you've already bought a dish rack 💀

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂

    • @Letsgettoit362
      @Letsgettoit362 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hopefully you have the receipt lol

    • @sciecopeland8981
      @sciecopeland8981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      They have dish racks that can sit down in your sink so they don’t actually take up space 10/10 recommended because I REFUSE to hand dry dishes

    • @SugarBabyProductions
      @SugarBabyProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did you keep your dish rack? I couldn’t live without my dish rack. Between work and home chores, I really don’t want to spend the time hand drying dishes.

    • @isabellarose6514
      @isabellarose6514 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't you hand wash and then use the dishwasher as a drying rack?

  • @rex6175
    @rex6175 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    if you want appliances and there is only one or two of you, get a 7 in 1 toaster/air fryer combo. It has functions for oven, broiler, toaster, air fryer and more. Air fryers alone are huge and take up space in counters or cabinets. These can usually hold 2 servings of food anyways so you won’t make too much

  • @multidimensionaltraveler806
    @multidimensionaltraveler806 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Place mats help to not damage the table with cups, dishes and utensils. Even to use them to ppace the main food dishes on in the centermof the table when it is a hot dish. A nice wood table can be damaged if abused repeatedly

  • @kasazhitembo4548
    @kasazhitembo4548 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hardly comment on TH-cam videos but I had to because this video was all the peace I need before moving Josie. I’m coming from ten years of living in fully furnished apartments and now moving to one that I have to furnish everything from scratch! All the other advise I was seeing was on the many things I needed to buy! This was DIFFERENT, not busy, a real heart to heart talk! I enjoyed it! I put my kind to rest and now I can rest easy! God bless you

  • @nana-wf7qs
    @nana-wf7qs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    a lot of people have table cloths for their tables so they don’t get ruined by alcohol, hot pans and dishes, etc. place mats prevent food from gettin on the table cloths so you don’t have to do laundry every time you eat ! :)

  • @BubbleBunnyy
    @BubbleBunnyy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Plants don’t really clean the air like that really that much. They’re nice to have tho I love plants they bring me an immense amount of joy

  • @haileyharris1381
    @haileyharris1381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    *adds rice cooker to list of appliances *

  • @judylloyd7901
    @judylloyd7901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    What about cleaning the oven? Ordinary spray cleaner won't do the job.
    Also, place mats are for protecting the table from hot plates, etc., not for easy cleaning.

  • @jasonmims5057
    @jasonmims5057 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Another thing about appliances is you have to clean them. My parents once bought a big elaborate roasting machine. They immediately sold it to someone when they discovered how difficult it was to clean.

  • @leaameris7457
    @leaameris7457 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this!! Thank you for the advice.

  • @kyanesbit5946
    @kyanesbit5946 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I am moving next year and number 8 I bought everything you just said but I have a recommendation for everyone if you still wanna purchase those items get smaller versions it will save space 😁I bought a small blender and small waffle maker because it’s me and my boyfriend only so highly recommended that for a smaller household with less space

  • @NateHarlos
    @NateHarlos 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like I’m just chatting with a friend watching this. Very chill. Thank you :)

  • @JacksonsMainAcc
    @JacksonsMainAcc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I'm binge watching videos like these haha. Thanks for the video! At first, some of them I didn't agree with, but to be honest, they make sense! (Like the dish-rack- i do leave them there because they look fine LOL) Also, a lot of people get placemats so the dishes/whatever don't scratch the table, we have a glass table, so it's absolutely necessary to have them! :0

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah everyone lives a different life and some things might not work for them. I’m just trying to open people up to really thinking about whether they need an item or not. Thanks for sharing your point of view. I love when people can share their experiences and disagree respectfully 😄

    • @JacksonsMainAcc
      @JacksonsMainAcc 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashleyembers Yep! To be honest, I might not get a dishrack now, it'll just make me lazy, pfft.(like i said, i leave them there)
      And no problem! Your point have view probably have made others question if they really do need and item or not!

  • @SugarBabyProductions
    @SugarBabyProductions 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I loved a lot of these recommendations, although I couldn’t live without my dish rack 😅 I’m barely surviving working and keeping up with most household chores so the idea of also hand drying my dishes just sounds exhausting but I do agree I don’t like them sitting in the rack when I have guest over.

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What ever works for each person. I just wanted people to question the social norm 😊

  • @aimlessweekenders
    @aimlessweekenders 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I laughed at number 5 because I have SO many baking tools I don’t need 🤣 as well as kitchen appliances I don’t even use

  • @Wendieee
    @Wendieee ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank youuu for the videooo ❤

  • @MayeloSand
    @MayeloSand 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Literally just watched the apartment essentials and then seen you uploaded this!!

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Devon S hahah that’s awesome timing!!!

  • @gourmetgeek6918
    @gourmetgeek6918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just found you, and I normally don't comment on videos, but I really vibe with you more than any other youtuber! I love your mindset and this is great advice.

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow this is so nice! I’m so glad we connect 😊

    • @gourmetgeek6918
      @gourmetgeek6918 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleyembers me too! I'm binging your videos as we speak, and I love your content. You're the coolest!

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So sweet! ❤️

  • @RavenLaing
    @RavenLaing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We just found an apartment to move into as a couple, we’re literally just taking what we already own and moving it over, not buying anything new apart from a washing machine, already have a couch, oven etc. already have decorations that we can use and we have plants so I’m happy hahahahaha
    We aren’t buying anything new ❤️

  • @LoniuLupus
    @LoniuLupus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Serving bowls are good for popcorn!!

  • @estherolawuyi4204
    @estherolawuyi4204 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for making this video... I'll NOT be getting a dish rack since my apartment comes with a dishwasher

  • @crystalchiquito7578
    @crystalchiquito7578 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yay, so helpful!!!

  • @singingwithbella
    @singingwithbella ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Placemats serve a double purpose, they can be decorative, you dump the crumbs in the trash and toss the mats in the washer. So they protect your table, look cute and help you clean faster 😊

  • @subutan
    @subutan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I like your advice about the serving dishes. In my family, we always serve food straight from the pot/pan because who wants to clean more dishes??? Haha not me

  • @ghostriley1855
    @ghostriley1855 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great insight 💯

  • @nikkhalia
    @nikkhalia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What do you guys use to clean your tub? Nothing can replace AJAX or COMET?

    • @elizabethlundin3112
      @elizabethlundin3112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I keep a scrub brush in my tub and scrub it down after every shower. Once a week i'll spray it down with vinegar and use baking soda to get rid of tough soap scum. But if you keep up with a scrubber and disinfect it every once in a while there's no need to use ajax or something like that.

  • @CarlosFernandez-df7mi
    @CarlosFernandez-df7mi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your energy sooo much! And it’s even cooler that you’re similar looking to a dear friend of mine 💛

  • @Kierradaniellee
    @Kierradaniellee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Aw I love your personality! Thanks for these tips !!! I love the one about the dish rack , it really is ugly lol

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Watch out for Monday’s video... might be similar to this one 🤫

  • @valeriacook372
    @valeriacook372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I Agree so much with you

  • @rainsunbow8668
    @rainsunbow8668 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A Dish rack is like a must in my house, can't survive without it

    • @tiffanykerr6810
      @tiffanykerr6810 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. There’s 8 people and 2 dogs in my house lol

  • @xxbookie09
    @xxbookie09 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was a good video. Moving out in 3 weeks 😄

  • @hannahm.3606
    @hannahm.3606 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nooo no dish rack? They have cute dish racks. It's so much more efficient for water drainage in wet dishes

  • @matthewzalen154
    @matthewzalen154 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good stuff

  • @rcch1436
    @rcch1436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Place mats can be useful if you us ea tablecloth or have a wooden table. There is a reason they exist.

  • @mangophoenix-tj8tf
    @mangophoenix-tj8tf ปีที่แล้ว

    Multifunctional decor items are the ones I regret the least. I regret most of the decorative items I've bought.

  • @anouksondagh902
    @anouksondagh902 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I use serving dishes to mix salads etc

  • @morganbodhi9492
    @morganbodhi9492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my family must be the only people who use the dish rack lmao it’s usually empty and i put all the dish rack dishes away when i unload the dishwasher

  • @bevrolee8887
    @bevrolee8887 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I guess I’m a lot more concerned about formaldehyde because I’m allergic to it, but I’m still surprised to see people recommending Pine Sol. Crazy that there are so many products out there with known carcinogens.

    • @ashleyembers
      @ashleyembers  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh yeah I don’t use pine sol anymore

  • @faviolavasquez5263
    @faviolavasquez5263 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    1:56 where is that couch from? 😍

  • @Sims_Sity
    @Sims_Sity 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Even this comment section is minimalist, 27 comments man.

  • @ejbvides4625
    @ejbvides4625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If you moving for the first time I personally suggest getting a toaster oven or microwave but that's me

  • @EW27
    @EW27 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    pan toast is the best

  • @victormiranda9136
    @victormiranda9136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    but placemats help prevent scratches on the table

  • @cactustravis7567
    @cactustravis7567 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Any tips for someone thats not an attractive person relying on someone gifting me things at my wedding?

  • @sgussy
    @sgussy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love my placemats.

  • @abbeyp5621
    @abbeyp5621 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you are such an underatted youtuber!!!

  • @GUROBOY..
    @GUROBOY.. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not me looking at this stuff 5 years before I can even get a CAR😩👍

  • @clownfern
    @clownfern ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so weird yall don't have dishracks in the kitchen cabinets

  • @mommygarcia9137
    @mommygarcia9137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Same thing with a dishwasher ! Some people don't even empty or put away the dishes from the dishwasher !

  • @hazelnutqurdrel7399
    @hazelnutqurdrel7399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you think about using Coca-Cola to clean toilet bowls? I heard some of my friends' mums use those instead of regular toilet bowl cleaner and they say it's a super cheap alternative!

    • @Ttangko_
      @Ttangko_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Investing in a nestle like big name? SOUNDS GREAT!!1!

    • @vinnydreusmire5035
      @vinnydreusmire5035 ปีที่แล้ว

      coke is AMAZING for clogs it eats everything

  • @journietheriot574
    @journietheriot574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Serving dish, or large cereal bowl? 😏🤔

  • @kaylamichelle36
    @kaylamichelle36 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Table. Cloth. Throw it in the wash with the laundry. Done.

  • @elenakennedy5725
    @elenakennedy5725 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Placemats are to protect tablecloths, not tables

  • @lynayagipson3361
    @lynayagipson3361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    nah i just buy everything from ikea...

  • @LivxLaughxLove
    @LivxLaughxLove ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeeeeeeah being minimalist would never work for me. 🙅🏾‍♂️ 🙅🏾‍♀️

  • @bcg3166
    @bcg3166 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's why we are mimilist and others are not. I don't even own a tv. I was brainwashed by it enough when I was a kid.

  • @magpie913
    @magpie913 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Uhm... the "minimalism" part in the title is kind'of misleading. Or maybe there are more tipes of minimalism but I doubt it because then there would be no reason for one to call him/herself a minimalist if it can be whatever. I know restraint is a less sexy word but it's really what aspiring minimalism is, it's not minimalism. I guess I was curious to test myself with your list but had some doubts when I realised that I could count 4 useless items behind you in the tumbnail XD

  • @dahliawolf5315
    @dahliawolf5315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You made me hate minimalism more than I already did. Lol

  • @Lumipyry8
    @Lumipyry8 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dishracks seem so stupid and unnecessary for me since in Finland those are built in cupords above your sink in literally every single apartment

    • @paulagonzalez5286
      @paulagonzalez5286 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dish racks are to dry your dishes. Why would you put a dish away while it’s wet? 🤦‍♀️
      I work 80-100 hours a week. I’m not hand drying my dishes.

    • @Rettomus
      @Rettomus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@paulagonzalez5286 In Finland, the dish rack is built inside a cupboard with an open bottom so the water drips down onto the sink below. Just google "dish drying cabinet". I had none in the previous apartment and that was super annoying. Either you leave wet dishes out on the table or dry by hand.

  • @ossu2428
    @ossu2428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If you wanted the video to be minimalist you could have said everything one sentence.