How I Met My Viscount - My Life Marrying into the British Aristocracy: Part 1

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  • @AmericanViscountess
    @AmericanViscountess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

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  • @guilhermedeb.1347
    @guilhermedeb.1347 2 ปีที่แล้ว +506

    That’s reminds of how I met my boyfriend, which is the craziest story but also a fun one. I ’m Brazilian (my family is French-Portuguese), he is French-Hungarian. We both met at a vintage fair in London and immediately hit it off. Love at first sight. We had no idea about each other’s family histories until one day he took to his family country house near Nantes. By family house I mean château.
    It turns out he’s from one of the Ancien Regime families of France. I was surprised because I had no idea, but at the same time I also come from an aristocratic family. Then the weirdest thing happened. Walking through one of the corridors of the house, he stops and shows me a wedding picture of his great-grandmother and guests. I HAD THAT EXACTLY SAME PHOTO IN AN ALBUM BACK IN MY HOUSE! My great-grandmother was one of the guests and very close to the bride.
    I believe that that was the moment we completely connected (if we hadn’t fully already).

    • @diane9247
      @diane9247 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Amazing story!

    • @cindland
      @cindland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      What a wonderful story and how fun to share such a close connection to your families.

    • @catherineenglish9542
      @catherineenglish9542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I got chills thinking of your grands bringing you together , from heaven . ✨

    • @shirleycolopy4322
      @shirleycolopy4322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      THAT is a beautiful story!🥲

    • @chatterjeelinda4
      @chatterjeelinda4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@shirleycolopy4322 , so glad you were not too closely related

  • @missanne2908
    @missanne2908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +734

    Dear Julie - I'm an American and can certainly believe that it was months before you learned that your husband was a viscount. When I was a teenager my grandmother was friends with a couple. The wife was American and the husband English. One day I was having lunch with them when the wife told her husband that she had been going through his desk and found his investiture papers. I had known the couple for years and this was the first time I heard he was a knight. This really made a lifelong impression on me! If you had said that your husband-to-be told you he was a viscount at your first meeting, I would have thought very poorly of him. As it is, your husband is a true gentleman!

    • @AmericanViscountess
      @AmericanViscountess  3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      What a wonderful comment to read. Thank you so much!

    • @janiekrig5232
      @janiekrig5232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Say hello to 'Prince Andrew' from America.
      UK is evil.

    • @royalladybug30
      @royalladybug30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@janiekrig5232 America is evil, we make the UK look like a Haven.

    • @autumnequinox7777
      @autumnequinox7777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Most countries, if not all, have something evil going on.

    • @royalladybug30
      @royalladybug30 2 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@autumnequinox7777 too true, any country with more than two people have evil going on. To act like one is morally superior to another (especially for what one person did ignore several others in your own country doing the same) it's olsn wrong.

  • @julied5162
    @julied5162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I grew up in Hawaii and learned about the Earl of Sandwich in elementary school. At one time, Hawaii was known as the Sandwich Islands. How cool for you to be related!

    • @karenryder6317
      @karenryder6317 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Having the admiralty connection makes me think the Sandwich Islands were named in his honor. Did he ever go to Hawaii?

  • @jennifer5309
    @jennifer5309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Thank you so much for sharing your life. I am a Forensic Psychologist from Iowa. I counsel victims of trauma. I truly enjoy watching your videos and tv shows. It allows me to escape and learn more about my hobby of English lifestyle and history. You are truly a joy to listen to and watch. Thank you for sharing.

    • @Smartychase
      @Smartychase หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am a psychologist in London Snap I specialise in working with clients impacted by trauma too. You tube channels such as this wonderful one are such a balm for the soul and reconnecting with why I do what I do to enable people to get back to living life to the full again

  • @TWROC96
    @TWROC96 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    I bet that conversation about spelling and title was a hoot.
    Julie is asking about spelling and Luke goes into telling Julie about his titles and family lineage. Luke tells the whole family history and Julie say, "That's cool Luke, but about that spelling." You guys are wonderful together. Thanks for share your story with us.

  • @JenningsCraftsBoutique
    @JenningsCraftsBoutique 2 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Hi Julie, Fi here from good old Yorkshire! I'm so pleased that you did meet your English Viscount, because now we have you to keep! You've given thousands of people much more than you'll ever know :0). I've just lost my best friend of 45yrs to cancer, but I wanted her and I to visit Mapperton in 2022. Unfortunately, she'll never get the chance, but I'm going to try and make it in memory of her as she LOVED English heritage and especially old building etc :0)

    • @AmericanViscountess
      @AmericanViscountess  2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Thanks Fi for sharing. I'm so sorry about this. and hope you can come and visit us. Sending you lots of love. So hard I know. xx Julie

    • @sarahkd11
      @sarahkd11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you lots of love !

  • @luv2travel2000
    @luv2travel2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Aww... that's lovely. ❤ I enjoyed hearing the story about how you met your husband. Your stories about your first date, having ice cream at the theatre, and when you first asked your husband why his credit card said vis-count (like dis-count) were very funny. Lol
    All the best.

  • @cmm5542
    @cmm5542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    As a fellow American expatriate, delighted to discover your channel! I can well believe your husband never gave the slightest hint of his title. One of the ladies at my church was an 'Honorable' whose late aunt had pretty much owned all the property in the village before changing times and cost of living necessitated most of its sale. But she is still the 'lady of the manor' whose ancestral home is the seat of all the open-air Shakespeare society performances, flower shows and annual 'viewings' which are more like parties. She wears pullovers and bakes and is in charge of drinks at the garden show, and no one would ever guess she comes from nobility! I love it here in England.

    • @nancysaladino6108
      @nancysaladino6108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wonder if people in England or in Europe have heard of the Rapture and the fact that Jesus return for His people is very soon. I just feel obligated to just say that for people that might be unaware of it, it is absolutely necessary that you believe in Jesus and the fact that he died for us all for the remission of our sins. There is a 7 year period of Tribulation that is coming up very shortly. (Any day now), and if you don't know Jesus as your Savior and Redeemer, you will be left here on the earth to live during the worst time in history, where the Anti-Christ will be in control of the earth and will require everyone to take his mark in order for them to buy or sell. Jesus shed His precious blood on the cross, once and for all, he was buried in the ground and rose on the third day, conquering hell, death and the grave. All you have to do is believe that He died on the cross for our sins, repent of your sins, forgive others and hold no grudges against anyone and not be prideful or arrogant. All that is needed is our faith in Jesus alone, because we cannot work our way to heaven, we have to trust fully in the redeeming power of Jesus blood to save us. If you have noticed the way of the world lately, it's getting pretty crazy with all the world leaders and that is how we know the rapture (catching away) will be happening soon. God does not let His people to go through the Tribulation. We are not subject to the wrath. However, you need a relationship with Jesus and trust Him totally to save you. You also must be willing to give up everything on this earth, because if He takes you to heaven, that is what you will be doing. If you are more interested in the world than in Jesus or God you may be left behind, because He wants you to be hot or cold, but not luke warm, otherwise He will spew you out of his mouth. Whatever you do, do not take the mark of the Anti-Christ because it changes your DNA and you will no longer be made in the image of God, therefore, you will not be able to go to heaven. Just admit that you are in need of a Savior, believe that he died for your sins, and call on His name and you will receive the Holy Spirit to live inside you. He will be your guide and your friend and will save you. Jesus is the only name under heaven, in which you can be saved. No other gods can save you, only Jesus, because He is the only one that has overcome hell, death and the grave. Thank you for reading this. This is the most important decision you can make in life. Don't make the wrong one. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.

  • @susancarter8025
    @susancarter8025 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I was all set to keep listening for 3 more hours! 😢❤

  • @lizzisworld7667
    @lizzisworld7667 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your work, I went to Hinchingbrooke School and my school house was Montague, I always knew that the house was a family home at one point so wonderful to have this, all being it tenuous link to now watching you on TH-cam. Keep it up 👍🏻.

  • @mayhembeading3737
    @mayhembeading3737 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I really do enjoy watching your channel very much. I've been to England, and fell in love with it and the British people, and how everyone in London called me "love" ("cookie Love?"), I'll never forget that cookie. It was the best chocolate chip cookie in my entire LIFE. Lol. Thank you for inviting us to visit again, at least in the memories.

  • @laurab9518
    @laurab9518 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have not seen your videos in a year because I unexpectedly lost my TH-cam account. Now I have a new one and I remembered how delightful this “channel” is!

  • @mariakovacs9867
    @mariakovacs9867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That was a sweet story! Thank you for sharing!

  • @torycook1215
    @torycook1215 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Julie, you and Luke are such a winning team! Blessings and Happy Thanksgiving to you both and your families.
    🙏🇺🇸🤗🇬🇧👍

  • @heatherwarner865
    @heatherwarner865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    I love how unapologetically American you are while still learning all the ins and outs of being a part of the aristocracy. I'm guessing the story about the 4th Earl of Sandwich is probably a good deal of both. Gentleman's clubs were highly fashionable during the 18th century in UK history and they did often gamble while playing cards. The 4th Earl has quite a fascinating history. To have all of that history at your fingertips is just incredible. For this historical old soul your channel is always a delight and I love you and your husband's sense of humor that is often seen.

    • @jdstep97
      @jdstep97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      You're right. She is unapologetically American. It's a beautiful thing. Yet she respects her position and her husband's family and traditions.

    • @pachecodecastro2593
      @pachecodecastro2593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      The gambling tale is the classic one. No need to try and make it politically correct. Let the poor (and very noble man) enjoy himself with a deck of cards. Have a great day.

    • @chatterjeelinda4
      @chatterjeelinda4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Just FYI, in the USA, a "gentlemen's club" is what they call a strip-club. In England it's not like that at all.

    • @heatherwarner865
      @heatherwarner865 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chatterjeelinda4 Oh I know. White's is the most commonly used one but it would take almost a hundred years for Boodles and Brooks...which were surprisingly just down the street from each other serving the different political parties.

  • @janebaker966
    @janebaker966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    That was so charming a story. Your reaction to seeing the word "viscount" must have totally reassured your Luke that (as he probably already felt),you were no gold digger or social climber. Interesting that you both have a prior background in media like cinema so you had the skills to go online already with your beautiful house and lovely family. And it just shows what a big part fate and destiny plays in our lives.

  • @peterdouglasmurphy9083
    @peterdouglasmurphy9083 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    YOU are an international treasure! I don't think you give yourself enough credit. You are preserving and promoting not only British history, but also American history. The two are so incredibly intertwined that separating them only dose violence to reality. The US may not be a constitutional monarchy; but Americans are and always have been more-or-less obsessed with dynasties. It is something primal . . . We all want to know where our leaders and public figures come from! Thank you for what you are doing!! Peter D. Murphy, M.A., M.T.S., M.L.I.S., U.E.

  • @adventurebabyboomer7318
    @adventurebabyboomer7318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    So cool Julie! You are so down to earth. It's so refreshing to see. Also, you and Luke are a GREAT team! What a Blessing!!!!!

  • @suegeorge998
    @suegeorge998 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I had heard about England not understanding eating buttered popcorn, but you have educated me on eating ice cream at the movies. That must be a horror to keep the theater clean. I feel for the employees.

  • @Historian212
    @Historian212 2 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The story of the sandwich is very interesting. Centuries earlier, in medieval and even Renaissance times, it was common for people to use a slab of bread as a plate. This was called a trencher. As Wikipedia puts it: "A trencher was originally a flat round of (usually stale) bread used as a plate, upon which the food could be placed to eat. At the end of the meal, the trencher could be eaten with sauce, but could also be given as alms to the poor. Later the trencher evolved into a small plate of metal or wood, typically circular and completely flat, without the lip or raised edge of a plate." It's not a far stretch from using a trencher made of bread, for a casual meal, to then putting another piece of bread on top of it to keep the filling in place without getting one's hands dirty. Trenchers are mentioned in Shakespeare's plays, so this type of bread/plate was in use at least through the 1600s, so possibly into the 1700s as well.
    Alternatively, since sturdy, savory deep-dish pies were hand-built with a thick crust and top, in a time before most people had bakeware, it's possible that encasing filling in bread made for a makeshift pie or pasty.

    • @gigibenea3529
      @gigibenea3529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wow...trencher...is coming from french..trancher.means to cut..une tranche ...

  • @SeldimSeen1
    @SeldimSeen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Happy Thanksgiving. You and your husband are an adorable couple. Perfect opposites. Fantastic team. You two were obviously meant to be.

  • @carlaperry1784
    @carlaperry1784 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What an adoreable story! My husband and I were neighbours too! A fantastic first date. I really have been enjoying your series.
    Our American embarrassing moments…
    Thank you for educating me.

  • @CSUN1986
    @CSUN1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    We absolutely loved watching your TV show here in the US so when we discovered you here on TH-cam with the American Vis-countess ;o) we were over the moon. You're doing a fantabulous (hmmm...do the British say that?) job and wish you and the family much success with your TH-cam channel! Very excited to get caught up on it.

  • @diogenes7047
    @diogenes7047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    My husband and I love watching your videos on you tube. Love the chemistry between you and your husband. FYI our son left California a few years ago as he wanted to teach abroad. Like a good mother (lol) I made him promise he would come back...of course he said yes, and I said, "but you never know, you may meet someone..." well, of course he did, a lovely young girl from London, and next year (would have been this year if it weren't for Covid), we will cross the pond, and attend their wedding! Happy Thanksgiving! (does your family celebrate American holidays?)

  • @kidanwilliams12
    @kidanwilliams12 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    im so glad i came across your channel this is so freaking cool. how yall met sounds like a rom com omg, especially the fact that you didn't even know he was a viscount. excited to watch more of your videos :)

  • @jennifernielsen599
    @jennifernielsen599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for taking the time to share how you and your husband met. I love it! You are so genuine and I really appreciate that about you! Wishing you the best from Michigan.

  • @theresabedet6653
    @theresabedet6653 2 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    At least you found out before your wedding. I was married for 4yrs before ' the family truth' was imparted to me by my mother-in-law who casually stated "oh yah that's the Dutch family coat of arms"

    • @rebeccatrainor734
      @rebeccatrainor734 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😮

    • @katharineharrison9091
      @katharineharrison9091 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m not following. Many families have a coat of arms. That’s European.

    • @antohong
      @antohong หลายเดือนก่อน

      In the Netherlands there is no more aristocracy ,abolished!

    • @MichaelAndersxq28guy
      @MichaelAndersxq28guy หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@antohong really?! Someone better tell King Willem-Alexander and Queen Máxima.

    • @antohong
      @antohong หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes that's odd we have royalty but no more aristocracy, the Germans still have aristocracy and it is a republic.

  • @sallyl5041
    @sallyl5041 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love Love Love all of your videos!!! You are so informative!! I am from southern California and I am addicted to your channel!!

  • @debralabarge614
    @debralabarge614 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I started watching the stories you share some time back. Love sharing your moments. Now, it’s my turn to share, when I fell in Love with your “stuffy Englishman husband”. You were sharing about how Albertas’ portrait watches over you just to make sure that you are ok. Luke stopped and asks you If you are in fact ok. Then he persisted, “are you sure? because, that’s very important”…. Be still my heart, that bloke does love his lady

  • @zzheaton
    @zzheaton ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Oh I am so sorry!! I was scrolling through and wasn’t wearing my glasses and I read “how I met my vasectomy”😂😂😂😂😂I love your sweet story. Beautiful love story. Thanks for a good laugh today😆

  • @dianebalch5369
    @dianebalch5369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a delightful program! You're so natural and your explanations are so clear. Interesting tidbits. Just a joy to watch and learn.

  • @cindybogart6062
    @cindybogart6062 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love this story every time you tell it, or rather every time I listen to it gets cuter and cuter. Much love to you and yours.❤

  • @Print229
    @Print229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is beautiful and I love your humility. Thank you for being so genuine. ❤️

  • @OldWaysNewTimes
    @OldWaysNewTimes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I've recently found your channel and have enjoyed the videos. It's so kind of you to share your life and family history. I look forward to watching so much more.

  • @katherinefisher6847
    @katherinefisher6847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for sharing the story of how you met! I love all your videos and am fascinated by what I learn. I'm from Iowa, not a farm but a far cry from an aristocratic life!

  • @tommygtr3571
    @tommygtr3571 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I found all of your channel and those you're involved in recently and as an American enjoy them immensely. I've been binge watching. Thank you for the educational enjoyment!

  • @williamevans9426
    @williamevans9426 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Yes! The 'usherettes' with their trays of ice-cream and 'Kia-Ora' cartons of (very weak) cold orange drink. 'Brings back many happy memories of childhood visits with my parents to my local cinema in the 1970s. Your first meeting was very romantic and heartwarming, and I hope you enjoy many more very happy years together.

  • @mihaelaclaudiap..2
    @mihaelaclaudiap..2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    As long as you are happy, that's the main thing! You do have an interesting life for sure! I love watching you! xx

  • @L1...
    @L1... 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am looking forward to the next episode!

  • @vvv4352
    @vvv4352 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is such a sweet love story. You can genuinely tell you guys appreciate eachother . This story is book worthy

  • @happygirl8298
    @happygirl8298 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved your video and hearing about how you met your husband. It’s nice that you remain down to earth.

  • @anitajinfla9762
    @anitajinfla9762 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You, as well as your husband, his lovely parents, are so sweet and humble.
    Nice to hear how you met.
    You have all put a breath of fresh air back into Mapperton. And it shows.
    😊

  • @jackiesaylor2487
    @jackiesaylor2487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I would love to know more, like how long did you date before he popped the question, when you met his parents, how did his parents feel about him asking an American to be his wife. How he popped the question. How long was the engagement. We're there any special things like traditions to follow leading up to the wedding. And I would love to see your wedding photos or Snippets of videos if one was taken. I'll bet you were a beautiful bride as you are beautiful now.
    Keep these videos coming Julie, you're a great story teller.

    • @amb1819
      @amb1819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes- all great questions. This would make a great movie- especially the wild boar scene!

    • @chatterjeelinda4
      @chatterjeelinda4 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Oh, me too! What was different about English wedding traditions? Were you horrified by English wedding cake? 🙂

    • @TheNotBees
      @TheNotBees ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “Why did you steal Mr. Viscount’s credit card?”

  • @sharonnewton4374
    @sharonnewton4374 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just discovered your channels this past week in May of 2024 on TH-cam. I have watched several and love, love, love them all. I admire all the hard work you guys have done to get things in good shape and showing it to us all! God bless you for all your new adventures!

  • @melissataylor5187
    @melissataylor5187 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a sweet story. I've just found your channel and can't wait to watch more videos. Love your style, btw!

  • @susannekellercoaching9350
    @susannekellercoaching9350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great, thankyou very much for that amazing part of your story! Could we please have the rest of the story, when you got engaged, the wedding..?

  • @cherylbutler446
    @cherylbutler446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you! THANK YOU! What a fun story. That would make such a great Hallmark movie! You should, of course, play yourselves. You are so great in front of the camera. Thank you!!

  • @Yoliplanting
    @Yoliplanting 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Julie finding your videos has been the best thing. Girl your eyes are amazing! Just noticed how crystalline they are!

  • @katherinekinnaird4408
    @katherinekinnaird4408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have been wanting to ask how you both met.What a lovely story.Thank you.Happy Thanksgiving

  • @soulpowerful
    @soulpowerful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello from Canada 🇨🇦
    What a fascinating story. Thank you so much for sharing with us.

  • @pennywilliams2429
    @pennywilliams2429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So great to finally hear the cute story about how you met. So fun!

  • @PAS_2020
    @PAS_2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sweet. And I have read up on your story and you were a godsend to your husband‘s family. Bless your heart❗️

  • @Moviegirl0030
    @Moviegirl0030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved the story! 😊 Thank you for sharing!

  • @natashakendal6320
    @natashakendal6320 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What beautiful stories I am reading here in the comments. Truly amazing. And you all are truly amazing people. It's an real pleasure to hear such encounters.
    And you dear Julie are a real treasure to our British Royalty 👑 You have such a great passion, love and admiration for the history of British Royalty. It's breathtaking! We as a nation can't thank you enough. ❤️🙏 You have such a zest for life and your enthusiasm, it's infectious! It makes my day. THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤

  • @oldtavernfarm
    @oldtavernfarm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your energy is contagious. Love it all!

  • @julies9997
    @julies9997 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a true down to earth guy! A couple made in heaven. God really put you two together. Enjoying both channels! Thank you.

  • @LizJr88
    @LizJr88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this story. Thank you for sharing. I’m an ex-Illinois girl as well. 😊
    Continued blessings to your family.

  • @rebekahlow8375
    @rebekahlow8375 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is a wonderful video. Lovely to hear how you met Luke. Love from Vermont

  • @kcstill3108
    @kcstill3108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Fun to hear you tell the story of meeting.

  • @ambermum
    @ambermum 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Soooo true about no buttered popcorn here! I’ve been here nearly 30 years and it’s one of the things I miss the most. For a brief period, Orville Redenbacher microwave popcorn was in grocery stores but that was ages ago. Just came across your channel and love it!

  • @angelapa9513
    @angelapa9513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Julie ❤️ Happy Thanksgiving 🦃

  • @debrabratcher6363
    @debrabratcher6363 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I absolutely fell in love with you and your family due to watching your show on Paramount Plus. I couldn't tell you how fascinating I am watching this show. All these beautiful places, your home at Mapperton are so heartfelt. I love listening to both of you on your TH-cam channel. I want to know if you have a book on your home and also one about the series you did? Now, I spend time looking up castles and seeing the beauty in each one. I really have a deeper appreciation for the people who live in and run these castles. What a hard job you all have. You are an inspiration. Thank you for having your series, which caused me to look up Mapperton on TH-cam . Thank you again. Keep bringing new facts about the life of your castle and all it requires to keep it going. You both have very creative ideas which seem to be working well for you, your home and your family. Bless you all❤

  • @deannaevans5235
    @deannaevans5235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Julie, I had been wondering about your meeting as well. Love your story :) I've had the sweet popcorn at a cinema while visiting my brother in Belgium. Different..but not as good as good ol butter popcorn! LOL! Thank you for sharing, I look forward to more stories.

  • @IamMarianaM
    @IamMarianaM 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just discovered your channel
    .. Absolutely love your stories! Love and light from South Africa. 🌹❤️🌹

  • @maureenb6095
    @maureenb6095 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You can see the love between you and Luke. ❤️ Was it pretty much love at first sight? Thank you so much for sharing this part of your love story! 🌸🌸

  • @ihateposh
    @ihateposh 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so glad I came across your channel Viscountess. Your TV show was my favourite, I watched it straight in one weekend. lol

  • @TheCloverQueenDQ
    @TheCloverQueenDQ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    That’s a nice story Julie on how you met your husband. Made me think back to how I met mine, and we too met at a party. My friends introduced us weeks before the party. Then it’s Halloween and we went to a party, they said Club I said ok. I just didn’t hear Clubhouse. So it was at a Motorcycle Club which he was a member of that we found we hit it off. I was in my 20’s and this past October 31 we celebrated 37 years ❤️.

    • @kristyhand6209
      @kristyhand6209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello again, Tammy Hand.

    • @TheCloverQueenDQ
      @TheCloverQueenDQ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kristyhand6209 hi how is your weather, in Michigan we got about a inch of snow ❄️ lol. Snow is pretty until you have to shovel the driveway and sidewalk 😆. Kristy I’m on Facebook and Instagram if you want to become friends on them lol.

    • @kristyhand6209
      @kristyhand6209 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TheCloverQueenDQ We just had a snowfall yesterday. It snowed most of the day, very slippery snow, I fell in the barnyard. No injuries and no horse manure on me. LOL. I would love to become friends on facebook and instagram. I am under Christina on both. I will send you a request shortly. So when you see Christina, it is me.

  • @vogthorstar3206
    @vogthorstar3206 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is wonderful and your videos together are always so joyous . Thank you for sharing your lives with us all. 🙏

  • @hummingnectarbird
    @hummingnectarbird 3 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Thank you for remaining “You”, which is what, I’m sure, your husband fell in love with. It must have been quite an adjustment. What’s so interesting is that the village towns you show are so similar to those of New England, with the quaint town commons and shops. I live on Cape Cod, Massachusetts, so I understand you falling in love with the beauty of the countryside. Listening to you, I do hear the British inflections, but you are still have,after 20 years, the American accent. It’s so easy to pick up that you often don’t know you have. When I met my husband, he wondered if I had lived in Britain. I laughed and explain that my daughter and I had only been bingeing on BBC mini-series, etc, but it was enough to affect our speech. When I visited Britain, the same happened. On the other hand, the opposite happened to Britain visitors to the US. They still had the accent, but was often sprinkled with Americanisms. You are so personable. I would love to meet you and just talk, but I think you would have me laughing with your wonderful down-to-earth personality. 😊 Btw, I get it about the letter pronunciation. I spent an hour looking for “Darby” street. Finally someone told me “Derby” was pronounced “Darby”. I also spent 3 days asking about getting to Edinburgh. Everyone said “yes, it’s a long trip”. I was so disappointed UNTIL I asked “how long”. They then said, about 4 hours! I said “WHAT”?? There are Americans that travel that distance to work!!.” I don’t know if you know what the 7 Sisters are; Mount Holyoke, Wellesley, Smith, etc. I asked for contacts when I got to England and ended up getting invited to tea with a Baroness in Oxford who had attended my school, a Vice President of Chase Bank ( she was invaluable in giving me tidbits). We went to McGregor country because my husband was a McGregor. I am African-American and my daughter wanted to trace her roots. All I wanted was a good shot of Scotch whiskey. The best I have had. I am really enjoying your channel. I went on to become a professor, and just retired so I’m thinking of visiting again. Who knows? I might come through your town.

    • @AmericanViscountess
      @AmericanViscountess  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I thoroughly enjoyed residing all of this! And yes I had the same experience with Derby and Darby too! And the travel - 😂 agree all around. We Americans are used to travelling long distance so 4 hours is nothing. Thanks again for writing this.

    • @patriciasalem3606
      @patriciasalem3606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @BudgieChirp I grew up in Massachusetts (my parents and two sisters live on the Cape too), and the similarity of those villages is why I'm sure I've been drawn to Great Britain all these many years. I was hoping to move there before Brexit and covid happened and threw a spanner in the works. But who knows? It may happen yet. Julie, this is my new favorite YT channel! What a find on a Monday morning!

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The small towns in New England were designed by the people who settled there, who were English. That's why they are similar to small towns in England.

    • @gcrawford222
      @gcrawford222 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cremebrulee4759 You're killing me 😹

    • @carolmoore7047
      @carolmoore7047 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Such interesting tidbits thanks

  • @1Nida
    @1Nida 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Julie, I think you and Luke are the perfect match! You’re outgoing personality and videos help to teach the world about British History, Titles and homes. I love how you are both interested in preserving history and now, because of you, so many of us get to see and enjoy your magnificent work.

  • @judyderieux8484
    @judyderieux8484 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Wow what a meeting of two people that was meant to be✨

  • @QueenRoseFlower
    @QueenRoseFlower 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will never look at Sandwiches the same way again ! I will now look at them and Smile Royally! lol!! And, Remember The Amazing True Story of them. Thank-you for sharing a Remarkable Piece of Royal History. And, I am So Happy for You & Luke. And looking forward to All The Marvelous Years Ahead that You Two Will Share with Us! 🌹💕🥂🍞💕🌹🛡

  • @melissaphillips3088
    @melissaphillips3088 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Julie and Luke are best of their perspective countries. They represent it well! Wonderful story of their meeting each other!

  • @adamdickson1404
    @adamdickson1404 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a wonderfully romantic tale! .... Thanks for the history lesson, too. Fascinating.

  • @michelleg7
    @michelleg7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I descend from spanish aristocracy and when I found it I thought it was a joke and then I found out it wasn't. Me, just a plain american girl who teaches in a high school. When you have ancient bloodlines that have been researched and finding out I am cousin to aristocrats in spain and mexico as well as diplomats is rather interesting. I love this story and I loved the way you met through mutual friends, that is a great way to meet someone honestly.

    • @Geoplanetjane
      @Geoplanetjane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Have you met any of your extended family and do you speak Spanish?

    • @anna-tn8mg
      @anna-tn8mg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ah, the Inquisition and forced conversions...Actually, you're wrong. The blood was spilled and spilled and spilled by ... the bloodlines. Only very dirty, monstrous bloodlines survived in Spain and as an export. One has to be genuinely sick to be proud.

    • @ellenanthony8017
      @ellenanthony8017 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My husband, a retired carpenter, has been looking into his genealogy. "Look, Ellen, I'm descended from Charlemagne and the kings of Poland!". :0)

  • @Nightbird1914
    @Nightbird1914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing. I was trying to explain to my niece when we were on a road trip to Biltmore Estate in Asheville, NC earlier this month. I will forward to her!

  • @annburge291
    @annburge291 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Happy Thanksgiving. Your viscount can adopt a little of your background and join in the gratitude ceremony even if it's breakfast. I love your kitchen. Apart from the stunning gardens, it's the kitchen that feels most welcoming and homely. I think it's lovely that you didn't know the family history. It shows you were responding to the real kind heart with no preconceptions. This video series shows how amazingly adaptable you are to new circumstances. If you consider lunch boxes, I think sandwiches win with popularity over hamburgers.

  • @shwoou9448
    @shwoou9448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fun stories. Loved your narration and loved it even more that you were in your kitchen at the kitchen table, having tea! 🥰What I am MOST happiest about, though, is that you wrapped it up so quickly that I am forced to get out of bed and go on with my day. 😅If you had been long-winded, I would have stayed in bed and kept all cozy and ignored all of the important things that need to get done, binge-watching your videos! 🤣Anyway, looking forward to hearing more of your stories. Love it! 👋😊

  • @laurawatkins9399
    @laurawatkins9399 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Julie, you are a hoot. Luckily my dad taught me how to say viscount before I ever had the chance to meet one. (I still haven't.)

  • @greenblood64
    @greenblood64 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That is such a great story. I too am an Illinois girl (Chicago). So happy for you and your real life fairytale.

  • @leahbell5673
    @leahbell5673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Love this story! Mine is so similar. My German boyfriend pulled out his ID card and I asked him if his family came from the netherlands because it said "von" and he answered "no you mean van.... von is German"

  • @lizak90028
    @lizak90028 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi julie just stumbled on this programme and I must say I thoroughly enjoyed it. I am from Sri Lanka a beautiful island paradise. Here in the Asian world our history goes back to eons with historical monuments dating back to 5th century AD and more so it was interesting watching programmes such as this. Keep up the good work.

  • @AuroraChernobyl
    @AuroraChernobyl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Julie, you should make a film about it. It's an interesting plot, like any other American British aristocracy films. Last time I watched something like that was What Girl Wants in 2005.

  • @cindland
    @cindland 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your personality…a combination of get-it-done midwestern gumption and genteel refinement. What a privilege to have been able to live and work in the UK. I lost half of my heart in the UK when I visited England in 2016.
    My feet are firmly planted in the US due to my family circumstances, but I get to experience life over there through your eyes. Thank you.

  • @loriwhinery3210
    @loriwhinery3210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Such a fascinating story! I think they should make a movie about your life, I would watch 100%. Do you miss living in America?

  • @FromTheHeart2
    @FromTheHeart2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great story! Thank you for sharing.

  • @anitascheftner2676
    @anitascheftner2676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for sharing how you two met each other. I love to hear couples’ stories and how they first met.
    Interesting that their cinemas don’t have buttered popcorn, that’s part of our movie experience here!
    What is one of your newfound food traditions that you love there that we don’t have??

  • @paulinewilson613
    @paulinewilson613 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's a fairytale romance right there, just lovely Julie xxx

  • @cathyhermanson10
    @cathyhermanson10 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Julie: You are so much fun and a down to earth girl. The first video I watched today was the differences between the British and American Christmas that you and your husband discussed. I knew a bit about the British Christmas because my mother was born in Canada and we have taken quite a few trips to the UK. Happy Boxing Day! Yes, give a box to the mailman or is it the postman? Actually, we have a woman that delivers our mail. We live in Highlands, NC. A lot of people think it looks like the Highlands in Scotland. No, it does not. I have been to Scotland because my grandparents were from there before they moved to Canada. I adore Scotland.

    • @melissataylor5187
      @melissataylor5187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I just watched these videos as well and was intrigued. My family and I love Highlands. Such a beautiful town. We live in the midlands of SC and love to vacation there. Small world!

    • @theelizabethan1
      @theelizabethan1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Scottish Highlands "don't look like" Highlands, North Carolina......Is that because they're essentially denuded of most vegetation??.....(I understand that, currently, efforts are underway to revive native forestry in the highland areas of Scotland.)

  • @lieuwina
    @lieuwina ปีที่แล้ว

    What a sweet story and I think it was wonderful that you shared this with us. Thank you.

  • @ccasey1904
    @ccasey1904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Something like that happened to me as well. I went to British boarding school. It’s a long story but I didn’t find out one of my friends there was titled until one day during mail call at dinner!

  • @HermesSonofZeus
    @HermesSonofZeus 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Came for story of how you met -- happy to hear about the sandwich/important papers story!
    Best to the both of you and the children. Enjoying your videos; just finished season 1.

  • @traceyannsteele
    @traceyannsteele 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m interested in the Victorian pool can’t wait for you to be able to get it all cleaned out and fix the leaking problem, my question is when was the pool first built , year , also would love to know your skin care regimen, you always look lovely 🥰

  • @jeanbridgman7513
    @jeanbridgman7513 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Julie!!! I am in Arizona, trying to catch up with your videos. God Bless ❤️🇺🇸

  • @carolehanrahan
    @carolehanrahan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    What a great story! I was wondering if a Viscount has any official duties in modern day England and if so what they might be.

    • @thebrookealyson
      @thebrookealyson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      good question!

    • @srkh8966
      @srkh8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thebrookealyson Not really. Once his father dies and he becomes Earl of Sandwich, he may have a titular duty in the House of Lords

    • @sallyannc3176
      @sallyannc3176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@srkh8966 he will definitely be entitled to a seat in the house of Lords - as to how 'active' he is will be up to him.

    • @sallyannc3176
      @sallyannc3176 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cough... 'Britian' ....cough. Or the UK - never just 'England'!

    • @srkh8966
      @srkh8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sallyannc3176 Yes

  • @Janet-cq8tw
    @Janet-cq8tw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a great story! I love your whole vibe...practical, curious, unpretentious to a fault..your titled hubby lucked out

  • @starlightshimmery
    @starlightshimmery 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    That sounds like destiny to me and living in the next street you would’ve met eventually whatever happened! 💗 I love “how you met” stories and this is a great one! Btw we must be greedy in Australia, we usually have a choc-top ice cream AND a popcorn when we go into the theatre 😂

    • @JaniceKonstantinidis
      @JaniceKonstantinidis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I am in California - an Aussie Expat. I long for one of those choc-top ice creams.

    • @cindybogart6062
      @cindybogart6062 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What a cute story that was…. I like that he didn’t tell you who he was from the beginning. You both deserve each other!

    • @karenp1687
      @karenp1687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      On my first trip to England, I went to a movie theater and was also shocked to see them set up the little tables at the end of the aisles to sell ice cream. They also sold little boxes of chocolates! (Like British versions of a Whitman's Sampler.) It is such a small difference from buying popcorn here, but it was really surprising.

    • @christinebernard5827
      @christinebernard5827 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JaniceKonstantinidis qqqo

    • @sallyannc3176
      @sallyannc3176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@karenp1687 they haven't done that in the UK for many years now. No intervals either - or a 'B' movie before the main event - just lots of adverts and trailers. So you have to buy whatever you want to eat or drink before you go into the cinema. So expensive tho so most wise folk take in their own popcorn/sweets (and keep it hidden!)

  • @rebeccatrainor734
    @rebeccatrainor734 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so enjoyable. Thank you for sharing so much of your life. Incredibly happy for you.

  • @vintuitive7627
    @vintuitive7627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thanks Julie! What kind of dates, besides cinema, are common with British people? Are there any formalities that you found odd or different compared to American dates?

    • @AmericanViscountess
      @AmericanViscountess  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Will make a video about this one!

    • @7ofthem
      @7ofthem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We aren’t aliens you know 😂 it’s not really different

    • @bookmouse2719
      @bookmouse2719 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@7ofthem good to know