MY SUGAR DADDY - MADE ME CRY

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  • MY SUGAR DADDY - MADE ME CRY
    PLEASE BEFORE YOU COMMENT WATCH TILL THE END TO MAKE A RIGHT OPINION IT IS IMPORTANT.
    This is story from my life that i learned a lot. Sometimes people think that i have a sugar daddy - makes me laugh honestly. I did. It was not good... He did made me cry and I lost belief in people for a little bit. I definitely learned a lot from this experience and I would never want to have anyone to pay for me and then expect something from me for that. I am not that type of guy. That is why i left go go so fast.
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  • @artiomboylive
    @artiomboylive  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Continuation of this video and response in my The Most Important Video on My Channel - THE ONE WHERE I GET RAW - watch

  • @johnfish3159
    @johnfish3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    He sounds to me like a nice guy, and I think he started out with the idea of being a friend/mentor, but then found himself falling in love with you, because, let's face it Art, you are a very lovable guy.

    • @lawrencena8244
      @lawrencena8244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I agree

    • @iboy35
      @iboy35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The thing is, if you're a buddy, friend, or mentor, and you end up falling in love, that's your problem, not Art's. And if you're older than him, it's an aggravating fact (abuse of authority, stuff like that ...). Apparently the guy didn't ask Art for his consent before kissing him. It's not cool at all. Just saying ...

    • @johnfish3159
      @johnfish3159 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iboy35 you could be right, I've never met either Art or the "Sugar Daddy" in question. But Art asked us for our opinion, and that was mine, based on the story Art told us. But I could be wrong.

    • @iboy35
      @iboy35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@johnfish3159 Ok, I hear that. But in Europe and in France in particular, it's called an abuse of power, not to mention his condition as a newly arrived foreigner, his distress over money at that time.
      It's something that shouldn't be done with a guy, with a girl, whatever, younger than yourself.
      When you're lgbt and young you can very easily fall prey to an older guy who has money.
      So if you're that older guy with the money, you have to be completely honest about your intentions from the start.

    • @jeanpascaud4218
      @jeanpascaud4218 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iboy35 La notion d'abus de pouvoir n'a strictement RIEN à voir. J'étais professeur de droit en France.Je sais de quoi je parle. Quant à dire que c'est la même chose en Europe, on se demande OÙ vous allez chercher vos affirmations ! AUCUN système de droit n'est identique d'un pays à l'autre
      ET la jurisprudence évolue à l'intérieur de chaque système.

  • @johngiltzow4764
    @johngiltzow4764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As an older man, I understand how he could fall in love with you. You will understand years from now. Find a nice man and enjoy the time you have sweet man.

  • @fonzie2098
    @fonzie2098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    lesson learned, don't accept expensive gifts they usually come with strings attached

  • @billyhndrsn4542
    @billyhndrsn4542 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    A sugar daddy is a sugar daddy, eventually they want some sugar for being daddy, nothing wrong with that as long as it is upfront. More your style could be a "guidance counselor", someone to scratch your thoughts, help you get pointed in your chosen direction, watch you succeed or fail, and be there for either one for however long it takes babe, willing to let you know strong points or not so strong points on just about everything, sounds like a friend to me.
    Oh, the neck thing, it's called a hickey or passion mark.

  • @georgejohn9893
    @georgejohn9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You're an honest man Art. We learn from these experiences. Be financially independent and meet someone who is also. You will meet someone special.

  • @leonstevens1382
    @leonstevens1382 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have nothing to be ashamed of. People make the best of bad situations. You’re a hero of life!

  • @ericsteennielsen
    @ericsteennielsen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You were brutally honest in this one Art - as always. I can relate to the feeling of expecting a balanced friendship-based relationship, but then having to deal with very different expectations from the other person. I am glad it hasn't made you cynical, and also happy that you seem to be on good terms with the person from the story. I also sense that you basically strive towards being independent and being in the position where you are the one that's able to help others. I know you will succeed in this. All the best to you 🙏

  • @levarnichols5195
    @levarnichols5195 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm glad that you and your friend was able to get past that dark moment and still continue to be friends to this day as for the future I'm sure you'll be more cautious if someone else tries that this was a valuable lesson learned for you and you will walk away stronger because of it. Much respect to you, Art I love your stories I love your content as always you are getting better and better as a TH-camr and I'm sure this is somewhat of a therapy for you as well. Wishing you nothing but the best can't wait till the next episode of your wonderful life an American Dream.

  • @thelookuplookdown
    @thelookuplookdown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's a fact of life people with, sometimes huge, age gaps are attracted to each other and can lead to something beautiful, but then it has to be consensual. However, when money is involved the lines can become blurry and place an unsaid strain on the relationship. You were obviously in a bad place financially and this kind man stepped up to help, with unfortunate results. One must learn from these errors and you seem to be sensible enough to not allow this to happen again. Thank you for your honesty. Michael - South Africa.

    • @robbrent
      @robbrent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @keithss67
    @keithss67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Always pay your own way. If someone wants to treat you to something, look at it as a nice gesture. But never expect someone to pay your bills. The minute you do, you belong to that person

    • @artiomboylive
      @artiomboylive  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I do t think I agree with that. If I never promised anything for that and they choose to pay it’s their choice I don’t belong to anyone but myself

  • @willrayed
    @willrayed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can see how he could fall in love with you. He could see you are a special person. I'm glad you were able to set firm boundaries with him and forgive him enough to maintain a friendship. Before my relationship with my husband, I was very attracted to a younger man. He set clear boundaries to our friendship, and I tried to be a mentor. It took too much out of me, and I had to let it go completely. I'm glad I did, as I met my husband shortly thereafter, and that has been the best thing that ever happened to me (33 years ago)!

  • @dennisnelson4963
    @dennisnelson4963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    If people gift you something and expect something in return , it's not a gift When I help someone all I like too hear is thank you.. That does it for me ..

  • @bobbystewart3497
    @bobbystewart3497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your storytimes are always interesting, Art. It's no surprise that you're a good writer.

  • @danholley4733
    @danholley4733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Taking care of you when you have covid-19 is more than just a sugar daddy, that's someone who really loves you and cares for you and oh I can't believe you trivialized the amount of money he gave you to help you . If you didn't like the money he was providing you with to live on YOU should have DEFINED the relationship. You are cute and attractive but I feel you used that to your advantage. ❤️

  • @arishem555
    @arishem555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    that one is the feeling when you "own something". once you felt it, - not easy to get rid of. that way you don't owe anything to a person you are paying for. doesn't matter how much you pay, feeling still the same :).

  • @AkatsukHidanKakuzu
    @AkatsukHidanKakuzu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely love your stories!! Totally want to hear all of them. Keep doing you Art🥰

  • @chazgurrero3090
    @chazgurrero3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The man just needed a friend. He.just wanted to help you. Love just happens.

  • @garybaxter6668
    @garybaxter6668 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    your sweet and honest thats why people respond to you. I feel weird when i pay for everything making it about repayment not friendship or love.

  • @itsame4373
    @itsame4373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry. 😢. Just because a person willingly gives money and support, doesn’t give them a right to anything. It’s a tough situation. Money and ‘power’ mess with people’s minds in my opinion and can push ‘good’ people to push boundaries. Sadly it’s always a power dynamic even if it isn’t the intent. Friendships are always so tricky... 😓. So often one starts to like the other unreciprocated. I honestly hope you find a chill, nice guy that you are actually interested in that will support your content. You are the BEST!

  • @were-all-human9427
    @were-all-human9427 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    my fav vid, your facial bone structure is AMAZING... love your Insta ITS CHRISTMAS of a few days ago... best Christmas gift ever

  • @uptoncriddington6939
    @uptoncriddington6939 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sugar daddy is a euphemism for something, right? So think about the implications of that. It’s basically monetary or power-based (jobs, trips, influence for career options, and so on) in nature however it may be dressed up.
    The richer older man tries to buy the object of his desires, generally a younger man who happens to be to the older man’s taste (his type).
    It’s a result of certain undeniable facts about human biology such as the fact that people age, and with that move up into categories they may not welcome, like being older than the men they desire. They try to overcome this with what may be left to them: money, power, and possibly wisdom and charm.
    Of course, the younger men who look for or are open to sugar daddies are using their youthfulness and physical allure, surface or real carefreeness including seeming naivety or malleability to attract the patronage of an older man. Some just want money and a fast lifestyle, others may be damaged by some earlier abuse and want the escapism involved including the possibility of diversions that a rich patron can provide, particularly to the extra beautiful, buff, and alluring, who may want money, fame, drugs, cars, houses, or to exchange what they have to sell for some kind of security.
    I would think that often this can turn ugly if the terms of the exchange - companionship and/or sex - get abused or are misunderstood by one or both parties.
    Sometimes the older man, who may be a genuinely nice person by his own lights may try to convince himself that his motives are altruistic, or the younger man may try to be light-hearted about the effects it may have on his own emotional well-being, self-esteem or character, or try to justify to himself that he is only doing this for a short time or to achieve a laudable objective.
    There remains, however, the basic reality of what underlies the relationship. Only in rare instances can this be escaped, as in when a taxi driver turns off the meter and gives you a free tour of a city you want to visit, and then may decide to continue that tour for a lifetime (about as unlikely as the equivalent arrangement arising from a money or power based sexual arrangement). It could happen but it is vanishingly unlikely.
    Artem, your former sugar daddy is probably in touch because he still hopes in his heart of hearts that you will fall in love with him for the niceness he has tried to display to you when you were in difficult situations, but unless you really feel that way about him, he is deluding himself and quite frankly your good relations with him are based on a false premise.
    Now if you feel anything more than the gratitude one might feel to anyone who helps you out of a tough time, then maybe there is some basis for continued contact which could lead to real friendship. That said, if he got a boyfriend of his own, how long would he stay in touch?
    The man may need to get over his false belief that he can buy his way into people’s affections.
    You have already come to the realization that this sort of arrangement is not for you, so I don’t think it is necessary for that aspect to be explored much further. Suffice it to say, I am glad you found this out for yourself fairly quickly.
    There are lots of false paths in life, and we all can be tempted to wander down what looks deceptively like an easier “legitimate” or “viable” root. The fact is, however, that they are dangerous diversions that can really be damaging to our own worldview or outlook. They can make us cynical and harden us to the values that make for lasting happiness and satisfaction in life. I think at your core you already know this.
    That’s why your older gay Ukrainian friend who has achieved a level of stability in his American life is such a satisfying and worthwhile friend to you.
    Sugar daddy behaviour is basically an abdication of the real sort of friendship and mentorship that older gay men can show to younger gay men within the bounds of real shared values that don’t get confused by money and power and hidden agendas like sex or erotic love.
    Why do I say all this? Well, I received such offers for a long time because guys often thought I was younger than I am. Also, like you, I already had a pretty clear idea of my values and aims in life.
    Does that mean I have only experienced plain sailing and have never wandered down any alluring byways? No, far from it. But I always knew what I believed in and struggled to achieve it.
    I’ve been on a different course than modern gay life typically involves for the past seven years, looking after my elderly blind mother among other things.
    Does this mean I have totally lost interest? No, but with age, thankfully, the impulse to go out on the gay scene diminishes at least in my case and the biological imperative to find a mate, once so overwhelming, has grown less unruly. Life experience and life expectancy help to put things in perspective. Maybe in the ordinary course of life, I will meet someone suitable or maybe not. Who knows, but meanwhile I stay true to myself which is always a good thing.
    Good luck to you. I enjoy some of your insights, and admire your tenacity. I also think that if you continue to keep your eyes open and your mind clear, you will probably find a route to fulfilment and maybe a long-term relationship along the way.

  • @kennymcneil6234
    @kennymcneil6234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when people fall in Love it can become complicated has happened to us all from both sides . Glad you have stayed in contact and hope you can keep the freindship for you both.

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can’t blame the guy for falling in love with you Art, he was only human. Love that you’re so full of self pride, confidence and honesty. 😎👍

  • @matthewwest6062
    @matthewwest6062 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your so gorgeous 😍 I know what your saying, I’m the same don’t like people paying for me, an clearly your very independent 👍🏻 sorry to hear you caught covid glad your better now, x

  • @iainfenwick9558
    @iainfenwick9558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's truly sad that your friendship turned out this way Art...in my experience a commited friend gives but...does not expect to recieve...at least..not in that way...platonic relationships always worked better for me personaly...it's obvious that your nature & looks were important to him more so than an appreciation of you as an individual with an independant attitude towards life...i hope the future means you can both remain good buddies without any of the previous tension involved...god knows...after what you have been through on your path through life you deserve only the very best...

  • @tonyanderson6235
    @tonyanderson6235 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Art life is a journey and it has many segments that teach a lot t about life lessens. Remember those lessens and find your groove. Stay positive Art.

  • @albertringshauser7267
    @albertringshauser7267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Glad you made it through. Peace

  • @norcalemt02
    @norcalemt02 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lap dances are like shopping without money. You can see but not touch.

  • @richardwhytsell7974
    @richardwhytsell7974 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    For me it is never good when there is money involved, one of the top problems in relationships is money. Love is unconditional and if he was just Helping u out because he cared about it, I see no problem. I can understand his feelings about falling in love with u. U are very handsome and it would be easy to fall in love with anyone with your looks. I hope u 2 stayed froms because he sounds like a great guy. Sending love and blessings.

  • @chazgurrero3090
    @chazgurrero3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Life is never how we plan it. They are just human experiences. I'm sure he set out just to be helpful. Cuz you were young and struggling. Every one cheats for the under dog mediforically seeking. I'm sure other people were telling him to go 4 U. Any way sometimes it just works out for a while. You have your hole life ahead of you. So continue on. And love your time here on earth. When I was a teen I found myself falling in love with 40 & 50's year olds for a while. How ever it just was a phase in life. Until younger guys started really appreciating Mr. Then my focus changed. Life is just a bunch of excellences.

  • @victordepaul1061
    @victordepaul1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So glad you are doing better after your bout with covid.

  • @justintime6162
    @justintime6162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm happy ur gogo club stuff is over, keep Vloging love to here the stories love the accent your personal drive is awesome, I hope you have a Beautiful day. From Colby Sunny Phoenix Arizona

  • @andrew5485
    @andrew5485 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't possibly imagine how lonely and stressful you must have felt moving to U.S. Doing good Art.

  • @jeremiahallyn4603
    @jeremiahallyn4603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I hate to hear that he made you cry. You deserve to be treated with respect and love. Sounded like he was way too clingy and insecure anyway. Thanks for sharing this with us ❤✌

  • @brygram
    @brygram 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Be 'proud' of all parts of your life. Some experiences are more memorable than others, but your life is about you....and who you share your life with.

  • @myykal1
    @myykal1 ปีที่แล้ว

    How could he not fall in love with you you are gorgeous.

  • @alexberg4301
    @alexberg4301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Art 🤗 Another great story
    You trying Dancing etc is fine and nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with not liking it either...
    Now about this guy/sugar daddy well not knowing him it’s hard to say but it is possible in the beginning he had good intentions and wanted to help you especially if he’s from where you are from he knows how difficult it can be moving to new country...
    You are a very likable and attractive guy so it’s not hard to see how someone can fall in love with you! 😊.
    It’s great to have friends willing to help but if you feel like they could want more out of the friendship just have a friendly conversation with them to let them know your expectations/limits etc and hope the are open as well and respectful to your feelings...
    Take care... 😊🤗

  • @davidrobey4795
    @davidrobey4795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well, you had a sugar daddy. That's OK it's normal and natural even if you didn't really understand it. You were young and naive. Glad you realize that nothing comes from nothing. Even your mother has reasons for her love and affection for you. Nobody does anything without a reason be it real or emotional there's always a reason. The hard part is recognizing what the reason is in any relationship. You just keep being you and everything will work out. Keep em coming. Peace & Love.

  • @harleygould7255
    @harleygould7255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Do not walk in front of me, I may not follow. Do not walk behind me, I may not lead. Just walk beside me, and be my friend." I forgot where I read that, but I've always found it to be good sound advice.
    (oh, and don't sweat it about being a go go dancer or stripper. You're young, cute, I imagine you got a lot of good tips... it's not a long term job, but yes, you can learn a lot.).

  • @Daniel-sk2tq
    @Daniel-sk2tq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yay new video. 🙃

  • @williamf4544
    @williamf4544 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ever since i was young man ive fallen in love way too easy - sometimes at first sight -with guys i didnt even know anything about ,guys i had nothing in common with it was just POW here we go again - its a little bit like a disease - now im fast approaching old age and it still can happen but not as often - now its a strange mixture of the feeling your dying inside and being on top of the world with that falling in love again feeling but im sensible enough to know that when someone is way too young for you the best you can hope for is a genuine but restrained friendship - its very very hard but you must keep your true feeling to yourself for the sake of both parties

  • @jeffreyanderson1007
    @jeffreyanderson1007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I felt bad for both of you. You are obviously not cut out to be a sugar baby because of your independence. I can understand your loneliness in LA and wanting a friend - someone to show you the ropes. I’ve been in that situation myself. Your friend’s affection was genuine and he fell in love with you. It’s good that you recognized this and cut it off - for the sake of both of you. I wouldn’t want to be in the situation of either of you.
    Oh well - live and learn. Next!.........

  • @lancedalton9665
    @lancedalton9665 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Art dont feel like you did something wrong, because you didnt. You did the right thing by not accecpting his advances. Lap cancing to pay your bills is okay. Selling drugs would not be good. Love your videos. Your Texas friend.

  • @norakhaledfaragabdalla5844
    @norakhaledfaragabdalla5844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You hair looks nice like this.
    LOL this is the second time that you mentioned a guy ran away because of a kiss, I thought that these scenes in movies are exaggerated but it happens for real apparently, that's interesting.
    And since you mentioned that you like guys with brown eyes could you make a video about your type? If it's not too personal of course

  • @harvey1965
    @harvey1965 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's the story of two people agreeing to mutually help / assist and use each other!
    Not ideal.
    Easy to judge.
    Not for everyone.
    Not for me.

  • @Greekinthecity
    @Greekinthecity 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to work as a cocktail waiter at boxers HK In NYC and our bosses would make me work in boxer shorts with no undies under them so guys could see my junk while I walked around. I feel u and relate to most of this! Great video!

  • @nepham9199
    @nepham9199 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are good-looking, likeable and very eloquent with a nice accent. For a sugardaddy it must be really hard not to fall in love with you. And don’t forget: We are all controlled by our hormones. - Greetings from Germany.

  • @astroworfcraig9164
    @astroworfcraig9164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a chaotic life you've had since coming to America. May you find an anchor for some calmness.

  • @justintime6162
    @justintime6162 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dang gonna miss it Working, Hello my Handsome Friend
    From Colby Sunny Phoenix Arizona 😜

  • @Damian.D
    @Damian.D ปีที่แล้ว

    You should be proud of everything you have achieved and being a dancer in a night club takes a lot of confidence and efforts, so you should also be proud of this part of your path ❤️

  • @beastscooter
    @beastscooter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ah youth; pretty and sweet. Rule #1 There is no free lunch. Rule #2 Everybody wants to take the go-go boy home. Rule #3 Choose your friends (and clients) carefully. Rule #4 Know your strengths (pretty/sexy) and weaknesses (brown eyes). Rule #5 Live and learn. And “The Golden Rule” Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. You’re doing fine, Art!

  • @danawolford5325
    @danawolford5325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've never met a sugar daddy that hasn't had more than just giving you something for nothing in return!! They are all alike. Keep up the good work babe. Obtw I've got brown eyes 🤗🤗😉😉😘😘😘💜💜💜💜💜💜💜🌈🤠

  • @oliverjackson3461
    @oliverjackson3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have never felt comfortable with the term sugar daddy. I'm 8 yrs older than my ex and we were together for many yrs. But I will never put myself in that situation again. It can really cause problems in the long run. Best of luck.

  • @Fieldsinv
    @Fieldsinv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice new haircut, I think there might have been mixed signals and poor communication on both sides. Glad to hear he is still in your life. It means he values friendship. 👍🏽

  • @drkipper
    @drkipper 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We are all humans looking to make our lives better using whatever tools we each have available. Makes for good content and wonderful life experience.

  • @Stephenrsm7600
    @Stephenrsm7600 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to hear more about your lap dance in Chicago, yes, yes, please!!!!

  • @geedubb2005
    @geedubb2005 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You gotta be making a killing with social media. You’re no dummy! It’s not at all easy renting a place in Austin and living there. Best wishes

  • @BrianNeal
    @BrianNeal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm not into being a sugar daddy to anyone. I prefer a wholesome relationship! You deserve to be treated with respect in a wholesome relationship! Btw, I have brown eyes! 😉

  • @thomasbecker6815
    @thomasbecker6815 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do admire that you want to work for what you get. Many people take the easy road. They end up with nothing to show for it. Stand by your valves. It is people like you that make our country great. Hank in there. I do not believe that you will go to hell. God made you and he does not make junk. Before a person judges you they should look to themselves first.

  • @georgesofield4596
    @georgesofield4596 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Life is a series of paths? Be honest and good person for your path to life..

  • @pinoupinou1229
    @pinoupinou1229 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video ❤️😘🌈

  • @marcusoconner2805
    @marcusoconner2805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Sugarbabies 🥰

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am sorry you got in this situation. You some how manage to get yourself out. You also hold true to your values and self respect. I like the fact you were honest and you said you want to work and pay our own way in life. I was sitting here listening thinking wow... It is just so sad the things you have seen and experienced in the the gay community. You have learned from these things.. You continue to do you. You move forward in life..

  • @chazgurrero3090
    @chazgurrero3090 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jest enjoy love yourself & forgive your self. Care for yourself.

  • @backupdancer5724
    @backupdancer5724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i once had a sugar daddy, it was a good experience tho

  • @ethentitsworth6470
    @ethentitsworth6470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I think that it depends on the person for sugar daddy’s I honestly don’t want one, I like to pay for all my own stuff. 🥺🥺🥺🥰🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘😍😍😍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    • @brittsaunders4621
      @brittsaunders4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Smart. Don't let anyone get a hold on you - financial, mental or otherwise.

  • @RedPowerStation
    @RedPowerStation ปีที่แล้ว

    As someone who is 51 I can see the trap this guy fell into... I think my generation missed out on a lot of emotional intelligence training and a diet of romantic dramas that are totally emotionally unhealthy... My interpretation is that he has not dealt with a lot of emotional issues / trauma through therapy and could not read the situation... I love your honesty and the more we can have honest open conversations about what is going on for us then we all heal together. I had something on a smaller scale 2 years ago and it was painful but enabled me to realise I had a lot of issues I really needed to sort out which I have worked on a lot.

  • @Papa_Joe6
    @Papa_Joe6 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Re-watching this video..I have only gained more respect and understand a lot more about you as a person and I can only say this situation had to be a very sad and hurtful time in your life..I am also very glad that you both can over look this major misunderstanding and can still be friends...xoxo

  • @georgeneuhauser4752
    @georgeneuhauser4752 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You should never apologize for being a go go boy. Nothing wrong with it.

  • @victordepaul1061
    @victordepaul1061 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Had to go back to see the very beginning. The livestream was already in progress when I was able to access it.

  • @martanowicka7074
    @martanowicka7074 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally true about LA😀

  • @were-all-human9427
    @were-all-human9427 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    off subject.... just a YT system question... having watched probably 30+ vids today... if I leave ads to run to end does YT pay you more, 'skipping' an ad does this lose you income?... Im happy to go pee or make a cuppa while ad plays if it means you get paid fully from YT

    • @artiomboylive
      @artiomboylive  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Skiping still counts ❤️

  • @superdream1970
    @superdream1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dear Art if you came to Italy I will be so proud to be your sugar daddy. With love

  • @lawrencena8244
    @lawrencena8244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Its human nature to develop feelings. I dont like the term sugar daddy or sugar baby.

  • @nicolastantot3778
    @nicolastantot3778 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey art! Interesting video, yet again:). If you could go back in time would you do anything differently to clarify how you felt about him? And did you ever get a chance to talking about the misunderstanding between you?

  • @filmmekker
    @filmmekker 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You knew what he wanted.

  • @nasty2366
    @nasty2366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Damn😍

  • @alfredbonnabel7022
    @alfredbonnabel7022 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    💙⚘️💙⚘️💙

  • @mjohnson9563
    @mjohnson9563 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They call it sugar daddy but there is more to it than that. Sometimes someone younger will find themselves attracted to someone who is older and it is not about money. Take for instance my father and his second wife. He was 49 and she was 27. She could support her self but he was very well off as most older people are. They have been married ever since - 30+ years. And I know many others who are in this type of relationship. I remember once being 30 and really interested in this guy who was 42 but it went no wheres quickly. When it comes to strip dancing, most gay strippers make money after the dancing is done by going to another guys house for some sex for pay and it pays very very well depending on what is done. Is it prostitution? Not really as even as minimal as it may be, there is still some consent involved. What irks me are those older guys who prey on the really young who might not care what they are doing so long as they are in a gay environment and that is just not nice. Art, there is a huge gay environment out there that just needs to be explored. Some of it is underground. But as time goes on you will learn more about it. Your friend in LA did a nice thing and at the end of the day he has a nice cute looking friend. Nothing wrong with that. He was open minded and just interested in seeing where it would go. Either way, I'm sure he is content. What you are learning is what all young gay guys learn regardless of where they come from.

  • @zanadu4
    @zanadu4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Reading the comments posted I find it unbelievable how you have managed to convince so many that you had no idea what it meant accepting money. You are no dummy inspite of the seemingly innocent act. You have learned how to exploit people very fast since your arrival in the US. I applaud your resourcefulness but not the morality of your actions.

    • @artiomboylive
      @artiomboylive  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s incredible to read how many people think if they decide to give money and help as friends - automatically means you have to sleep with them 😅 that is just insane

    • @NoOne-cb2mf
      @NoOne-cb2mf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow so by your logic when I give someone on the street money to help them out then they owe me something?? Quid pro quo requires consent from both parties and people to state what is being exchanged. He can take as much or nothing from people as long as he isn’t offering something back. Art had every right to say no to something he wasn’t comfortable with.

    • @artiomboylive
      @artiomboylive  3 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @thomaswilke6312
    @thomaswilke6312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am still in high school. You can be my sugar daddy anytime

    • @harleygould7255
      @harleygould7255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go back and really listen to what he's saying. Really, you DON"T want a sugar daddy, life is so much easier if you don't have to depend on anyone, or be that indebted to anyone.

    • @thomaswilke6312
      @thomaswilke6312 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@harleygould7255 thank you very much for the clarification. I watched the video again and you are correct! I had joined the premiere livestream halfway where he said that he was still very good friends with his sugar daddy even though they were no longer together anymore. Thanks again

  • @Agriking
    @Agriking 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I mean, you can't really blame him for falling in love with you. That's going to happen. But I respect the fact that you didn't want to be a sugar baby.

  • @James-sj1tg
    @James-sj1tg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Do you sell your own merch.

  • @iamOdin5
    @iamOdin5 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't doubt that you did nothing. That's cool. I've known several dudes with sugar daddies. Just want the company. Well may want more but I believe you have boundaries. 💙

  • @melvonjohnson5711
    @melvonjohnson5711 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    A homie, you pretty as fuck- listen, dont mess with sugar daddys- they're no good

  • @pablodejesus1373
    @pablodejesus1373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Art😃

  • @jamesklekowski538
    @jamesklekowski538 ปีที่แล้ว

    And, the 'young & naive' thing is played out, Art. You're a man.

  • @robertburn6704
    @robertburn6704 ปีที่แล้ว

    The worst feeling in the world I’d one sided love Iv been on both sides of that fence in my lifetime Falling in love with someone that doesn’t love you back in the same way hurts And having a guy fall in love with me and I did not feel the same way made me feel just as bad sad for him and it’s nobody’s fault If the magic is there it’s there it’s something that can’t be faked

  • @beto868
    @beto868 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m living the same experience right now but I’m the daddy and the guy I fell for is heterosexual and has clearly told me many times we will never have anything more than a friendship, at most, yet he has no problem letting me pay for his every expense (literally) to the point that now he asks me for money frequently. I’ve bought him and furnished his house (nice one), 2 cars (one of them a sports car), all of his clothing, you name it. This situation is killing me because I’m in love with him but I understand we’ll never have anything, pitty sex at least, hell, I’d be okay with it. Due to all this, I’ve been having suicidal thoughts everyday for months now. I just want to die.

  • @davidrobey4795
    @davidrobey4795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi I'm 74 minutes late, but I'm here.

  • @stephenridley1153
    @stephenridley1153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want a sugarson 😂

  • @markharty9772
    @markharty9772 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How cute is his accent?

  • @gregorioeduardo
    @gregorioeduardo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take away of this story: Mentors don’t look for their proteges in strippers clubs...

  • @williamstamper5395
    @williamstamper5395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes, it was an experience that helped you out but not to do again, I like to say something different for you, I see you as an Caregiver in an Va health care physicality you do get paid doing this, if you need more on this let me know I am a veteran.

  • @MiguelGarcia-zx1qj
    @MiguelGarcia-zx1qj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, Art. I’m glad to know that you played that bullfight (approximate translation of the spanish saying “lidiar ese toro”) with honesty. I find the whole concept of “sugar daddies” (and “sugar babies”) repulsive. Thought it is very common, and I’ve seen several young gay youtubers accepting as natural their own experiences in the field. It’s a form of whoring, to put it simply: “I’ll be nice to you, if you are nice to me” as Marilyn Monroe once said, meaning precisely that. Not that I have anything against mentoring; nothing to do with sugar daddying. In fact I do like the role. As a teacher mostly to the first year of University, I’ve accepted the part with some students, and enjoyed it, without any kind of sexual intent; even wary that the issue might arise; I know that, as a teacher, I’m rather charismatic, and don’t want that to interfere with my job (to try to instil some autonomous, creative thinking in said students), if it might evolve into something more intimate.

  • @ticolindo2010
    @ticolindo2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Suggar ddays just a guy that pays for company or buy u things most of the times for sex or showing how much money they have and show u like a beautiful pet. At this time of the video you are very handsome love ur eye color.

  • @davidmcclellan9959
    @davidmcclellan9959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    HI ARTEM HOW YOU BEEN DOING IM GETTING MY BEDROOM BACK TOGETHER I LOVE YOU LOVE DAVID

  • @Castriot1
    @Castriot1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love Ukraina.

  • @joed7691
    @joed7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do I think of sugar daddies/sugar babies? To each their own.
    In relation to your experience, he was giving you money and he had no right to expect anything in return for what he gave you. Friends give to help out, without any expectation of getting something back. That’s also why you never loan friends money.
    Once he tried to kiss you and you pushed him away and said that this is not you, you should have known better not to accept any more money. Once you did you can no longer claim to be naive as you say. From that point on you were taking advantage of him.
    You say you are still friends today. Is he okay with you sharing this experience with others?

    • @artiomboylive
      @artiomboylive  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Here’s the thing. You owe no one anything unless you promised sex for money or gifts. People send me stuff from Amazon wish list and not a single one of them asked about something. So here I don’t agree with you. Of course and I’m not sharing any names or specific info just like in my other stories. It’s my diary.

    • @joed7691
      @joed7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@artiomboylive well the difference between our two perspectives is a matter of ones character.

    • @artiomboylive
      @artiomboylive  3 ปีที่แล้ว

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