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This makes perfect sense and unfortunately no one's honest nowadays sot he fact he is honest that's very attractive in itself
FFS what a load of bol🔒
@Dr Joey oh gee thanks
EASIER SAID THAN FUCKING DONE!!!
"Courage isn't the absence of fear, it's the willingness to confront it"
-Said somebody, probably
Even Mike Tyson said his fear helps him out & still faces the challenge like a man unlike people who have to join some crew to have their beans sprout.
It was probably Master oogway of course
Be you don't quote
YAa
Nelson mandela
After a lifetime of bullying and introversion, I had a mental breakdown and just started doing whatever I want. I no longer fear talking to people. I think I was an extrovert all along, but one that got beat into submission by a society of bullies.
Good luck man, a more positive life is coming to you 👊
Keep moving forward brother 💪🏼👊
Yes that makes sense and I can relate to some of it.
Good for you. Glad you found your hidden power.
I overcompensate and will talk to anyone and everyone, which sometimes gets me into trouble. If I want to talk to a woman then I will do and then I’ll walk off, it confuses my friends and even the woman in question. Now I was the fat kid at school who knew the cool kids but I wasn’t respected by them or even the opposite sex. I’ve learnt that the people I grew up with could just put on a better false sense of security and hid there problems, better then I could. Nobody is born wise but you can become it. I am 35 and learnt a lot of things after turning 30, I make mistakes everyday but I try not to make the same one twice and I use the word try as some things are out of your own control.
Confidence is only partially earned through self acceptance. You need to find confidence in something in order to be confident in your flaws. It can be anything.
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
@@VoidDweller86 I'd call that superficial confidence (though it's 100% valid). A person CAN have a certain confidence independently from their failures. It's the difference between being conditioned passively to be confident from successes and overcoming failure and actively being mindful that there's little to worry about despite even a long string of failures and whatever emotions may crop up inside. Idk if that came across right, but that's just my opinion.
@@DiogenesNephew I do believe That my description of confidence is more in depth and scientific but I do hope That you have a good day and a great life sir.
@@VoidDweller86 My description of confidence includes yours entirely. However, that absolutely isn't the only aspect to consider. Mindfulness plays a ***huge*** role in ameliorating any kind of mental disturbances or distortions, which is also completely scientifically valid. I think there's tons of nuance to be added, but we don't need to get into it really.
@@DiogenesNephew Me, personally I can be a well rounded person to The full most but definitely not "confident", I am just speaking for myself.
“How to have confidence” when you don’t look like Tom Hardy…. Where’s that video?
You start workout and use good quality face/ skin/ beard care product and whoala you can looklike him and having confidence
@@fullfradi95 Stop coping, Tom Hardy has confidence because he is attractive, has received constant positive affirmation, and is famous. You’ll never look like him no matter how you trim your beard.
@@user-nz7mv2iy6d "never going to look like him" " trim your beard " , okey sure.... if you say never going to look like him cause of the triming , im out
@@fullfradi95 Re-read my comment.
@@user-nz7mv2iy6d nah, you are the one coping. You can look like him if you put in the work. I don't know you but I suspect you are just lazy and irresponsible. You definitely can't look good with that attitude. Your attitude is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
"How can a man be brave when he's afraid? - asked Robb to his father
That is the only time a man can be brave - answered Ned"
I just reread this 8 hours back. From the book.
Man I need to start reading those books. Ned was cool as fuck stoic took John in as his own and took one for the team to protect him screwing up his marriage in the process for that secret
"A man is only able to show bravery when he's afraid." You could have cut that much shorter, but nice comment
@@SavingPrivateBob It’s quoted from a book.
@@BriLoveMusic what is the name of the book?
I have always loved this train of thought. Confidence isn't about being a loud "alpha" wanting attention and treating others as unimportant...... that's called ego. What confidence means is to be honest with yourself and working to overcome your fears. To stand up and do what you feel is right to do even if you are afraid, and to not care about what others will think when you do.
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
@@VoidDweller86 that's cool and all, but ai like mine.....
think I might keep using it.
This is what I'm working on. I'm trying to change, to finally be true to myself and face my fears, but I feel like people around me don't want me to.
@@HomicidalxPanda don't worry about them. Any voice telling you not to work on self improvement is not a voice to listen to.
@@HomicidalxPanda yea dude who cares what other people want/dont want for you? You want it for yourself, that’s all that matters. Keep striving.
Admitting you're scared actually connects you with people better as you're touching on a common interest
It's endearing if communicated properly. Like the narrator said, without unloading on ppl, etc...
Ppl can relate with ppl who arent perfect. Because we are all insecure & have flaws. And to admit it shows you're secure. & confident, but also not conceited & don't think you're perfect. It's secure, admirable, honest, & endearing.
It makes someone whos a superstar relatable to us regular folk, bcuz hes not being cocky & conceited, & has flaws like the rest of us. I agree with u 💯
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned that owning your flaws goes a really long way.
I'd rather fix them than accept them.
@@saltykraken9471 often you cannot
@@saltykraken9471 ive always dreamt of it that way and hoped it was that easy but i hate to break it to you that isnt always the case for people. Some people move forward and accept it. Some continue living their lives with hate and anxiety for who they are. The moment you realize that nobody is perfect and that just here breathing on earth is a blessing then the only thing left is to find it in yourself to be grateful for who you are and to make others feel heard and understood as well. Yet thats what we do as humans though right we judge we criticize we compare . For what to make someone else think your good enough. It may seem hard for a person with so much anxiety to feel confident but its more so about FEAR. Its all in your head. May you find peace within yourself and love your life in ways you never thought possible
A very long time ago I worked in a Prison. In that environment tattoos are everywhere. Quickly it was apparent that most but not all people who have alot of tattoos are actually insecure.
Interesting...
Woww
Society raised people to think tattoos are 'scary'. Much like everything else society taught me: that assumption was completely wrong and for years did me a disservice of not talking to people simply because I was scared of them.
I got tattoos because of my insecurities and now I'm insecure about my tattoos, amongst many other things. Lol. Whoops.
People who end up in jail usually are very insecure peoples with unresolved issues, so yes void of confidence
How can you be brave when you're afraid? "That is the only time you can be brave" -Eddard Stark
One of my two top favorite actors. Hes a legend
Is the other Leo?
Tom hardy,leo and johnny depp...cameleons of acting
My favourite actor os Boris Johnson
Pleaseee 🤦🏼♂️ legend, legend? Legend status is Clint Eastwood, these actors nowadays don't come close to legends like Clint.
Cillian Murphy
It's funny he said stop trying to look flawless. I remember years ago walking through a mall with muddy boots, concrete dust all over my shirt, unkempt beard and hair and thinking to myself weeks later I truly do not give a fuck what people think 😅 I had spent years trying to maintain a certain level personal grooming etc but realized as I got older It's hard to try and look flawless all the time and also a huge waste of time. True confidence comes from embracing and being proud of what you're good at and accepting what you're not good at. Also stop giving a fuck about others opinions, you know you more than they know you and if you think you're the shit and they don't then clearly they're wrong 🤣🤣🤣
No need to look flawless but I wouldn’t say zero effort in your own appearance is good either.
I hate suits. But there is specific ones that enjoy wearing I don't have any suits. But that does look cool sometimes concrete dust on your shoes paints on your pants and shirt. Working boots. They don't know what it's literally the feeling of working in construction. If you feel tired and it's not necessary to be dressed properly wherever else you're going other than work then I think it's comfortable. I can't look flawless with my hair standing up all the time so I shave my 4th dimension hair off and as of now I'm not bald because currently I supply my body to my scalp the nutrients it needs to literally keep my hair and not go bald lol. I sometimes hate the hair on my scalp. I hate cutting off my hair and I hate growing it but sometimes it looks good and I look good. But I'm unhealthy af right now so I had to cut it because it was literally dead human hair seaweed on my scalp which no longer had a good reason for being there and had to be cut down.
Wow, what a hero. Someone making 10 bucks an hour had to clean those floors and I'm sure they were real happy for you about whatever dumbass epiphany you had while you were tracking mud and concrete dust everywhere. I hope eventually you had the "I'm kind of a huge asshole for not taking 15 seconds to wipe my filthy fucking boots, maybe I should do that" epiphany.
@@lotsofciggies Yeah sorry if you and your family had to clean that up bud.
@@mrchaotiq the fact that you think insinuating that my family members were janitors is some kind of insult tells me everything about you. Sometimes confidence is unearned.
These observations remind me of the themes in the “Tool” album “Fear Innoculum”
Inoculate your self of fear basically.
I am going to listen to that album with this in mind
That is an awesome album and was well worth the wait imo.
Such a good album..we waited so long but it was worth it
did you observe he is a high status Chad as well?
It’s the man thing. Never show weakness or perceived weakness.
That’s not healthy even though we don’t want to admit that. It’s a horrible way to live. Putting up a front is false and painful to keep up.
It’s very hard to break out of. It’s fear based. I’m not young, I’m aware I’m like this and I still struggle with it! You really have to be present in your mind, present in the moment and be aware of your behavior while you are doing it! You have to actually think about it as you respond to things. You have to train yourself to be aware of your actions in real time. It ain’t easy, but you have to focus. I’ve even thought of writing that word Focus on my hand to remind me!
To admit weakness takes courage and courage = strength. I commend you
It's all biological. A weak person in a society back in primitive times were a liability. Weakness meant death.
It imprinted in our DNA to never show weakness and this is something that cannot be erased. People might say it's okay to cry or show weakness as a man today but people will unwillingly judge that man subconsciously, which is sad really but that's life. Nature is brutal and always have been. Everything becomes easier to understand when you study humanity objectively through the lens of nature and biology.
You shouldn't show weakness, you should work on not having any, not saying you should be perfect cuz no one is, but work on being the best you can be at everything.
@@killerrmaaniac, that’s solid.
Think this is super ingrained in men part society part biology. The funny thing is soon as you start being more accepting and forgiving of your flaws and less self critical what you can actually achieve skyrockets. All the energy you were devoting to beating yourself up for 'being weak' or 'failing' can just be expended on getting on with things.
Tom made a statement once in an interview that stayed with me "all sentient beings are important"
What's his full name
@@greenjupiter who? Tom Hardy? Is it necessary? He can be googled.
@@lilxsweet googled my ass. Not every English speaking person is from USA or Europe. I don't have an effing clue who tf he was until I checked some other comments to check his full name duhhhh
What are you even on about? I'm very confused by your agressiveness. Not all English speaking person is from the US and blah blah the what now? What? 🤔 Where did that even come from? LOL Do you even know why you're angry for this reason? You need help. This will be my last reply to you because you are just not making any sense. I hope this is not your passing enjoyment, because it is such a sad existence.
@@lilxsweet I think they just wanted to know his surname because it wasn't mentioned in the video. Their response was a bit over the top though. Seems like people thinking the world revolves around the US or UK really gets to them (not saying you think that btw).
I really like this one. Some of these “self-help” vids/channels are utter 💩...feeding on folks’ manifest and latent insecurities...but this one is spot-on 🙏💪👏
This is true I was so obsessed with these "self-help/improvement" so much that my thoughts pattern seem crazy as I try to be perfect every second I becomes aware later on that my insecurities only grow bigger and bigger.
@@bew5230 life isn’t easy brother, especially nowadays. Just be yourself man. 💪🙂🙏
@@paulpelle3046 Thanks man 🙏
@@bew5230 you’re welcome bro 🙏
What do I fear?
I fear stagnation and lack of progress.
I fear never reaching potential and being average.
I fear being forgotten... The past... Yesterday's news.
I fear giving up and being passed by, going softly into that goodnight.
I fear letting those I love down, letting myself down.
I fear settling, giving in to the "that's just the way it is" mindset.
I fear dying without leaving my mark.
I fear not feeling these fears anymore and just floating along.
These fears feed me, they nourish my drive.
I love my fear.
What if I told you you can have drive without any of that fear? Fear is a fuel, but it's not the only fuel, and it certainly isn't the best for you.
I'm afraid of men
I can't talk to men
@@teresadownes2422 just try small talk or simply saying hi. Baby steps. 😊
@@teresadownes2422 we can chat under this thread , confirmed man here 👋🏻. what scares u about a guy?
Being attractive and a millionaire also helps
Being gorgeous, talented, famous and extremely wealthy doesn’t hurt when trying to have confidence.
Exactly. But no one would give a shit otherwise.
@@A-RJ Yeah exactly.
Think anyone cares to hear a fat, unattractive, poor, bald man talking about his fears? My guess is no. This is kind of stupid
Real man, real gorgeous.
Let's keep it that good way let's hope that real men will exist and feminism will disspist.
@@IsraelCountryCube what feminism has to do with Tom Hardy
Probably helps if you're a 10/10 like Tom Hardy...
Now what's the advice for actual average Joes?
Super models are literally paid to be beautiful and still have body confidence issues and eating disorders.......your logic is flawed.
@@yanceyboyz oh boohoo. Try being an ugly person who isn't treated like there a king every day of their life. We all have problems but beautiful people have such an advantage its crazy.
It's called having COURAGE. Being courageous isn't the absence of fear, but the mastery of it.
He was/is so awesome as Alfie Solomons in Peaky Blinders! It was pure pleasure for me to watch mim play that character.
Omg he’s beautiful 😍
That man is fine af
@@nonelikememe it’s a female-to-male transgender
Yes he only needs some dental work
@@ldfab3609 he was born Edward Thomas Hardy?
@@davidguliver3000 some imperfections are fine in people
Yes!! Vulnerability is INCREDIBLY sexy and admirable
So tattoos = personality correction. Judging by the preponderance of really disgusting throat tattoos we are doomed
I've actually met him in person, and I can honestly say he was such a gentleman, extremely humble and polite, and a very VERY nice man. 2 of my boys age 10 and 14 were both entered in a Brazilian jujitsu tournament. Unbeknown to us, so was Mr. Tom Hardy. There had to have been easily 1000 plus people there, both adults and kids and everybody kept asking him for photos (even though he was trying to warm up for his fight). He never said no to anyone and actually was so incredibly nice to them all. Outstanding, beautiful person.
Lol, dude's making monster movies making millions and whereever he goes everyone tells him how great he is, that'll harnass your fear pretty quick. Doesn't really apply to the normal dude in the street though. Nice try.
Exactly what I was thinking. He can afford to come out and say that he's scared of everything. It's charming, instead of lame, for someone in his position.
@@thomash7252 I think what most people want is to just be authentic to who they really are. I would find it absolutely charming if a “street dude” said these things as long as he was being real
Being authentic works for everyone.. there is no self development without being honest about yourself
Yeah seriously! Whoever made this video has a huge hard on for Tom Hardy!! This was lame...
It’ll work for everyone. Definitely easier for him, in ways, but possible for anyone
Surprisingly, this is a really good advice 👏🏼
Right?? I feel like I could be watching a Brené Brown video or something
When I fighting with my anxiety it always make me awkward and so hard trying confident to tell my fear, but thank you Tom ❤️
With his looks + money he could say anything and be popular
vulnerability can be courageous and confident imo
It's the classic example of actual courage. Courage isn't a lack of fear, it's moving forward in spite of it. If courage were merely a lack of fear, then one couldn't characterize it as a positive character attribute; it would merely be an unearned fact of the situation. Much like the unearned praise given to attractive people purely for being born attractive.
@@DiogenesNephew lol which is basically what you are doing here. the guy is a high status Chad (ie highly attractive). that's the lesson here. normies can't get away with acting like a snowflake.
@@andro.5678 Can you explain what you mean in that first sentence?
@@DiogenesNephew 'praise given to attractive people'
@@andro.5678 Ah. If I were the one who made the video or maybe if I'd searched it or something you might have a point. But I didn't come here to give props to this actor for any reason, let alone how he looks. Do you not see a difference between being vulnerable and being fragile?
When you look like him... No fear would come to a man
Nonsense he has them
This is the reason he's one of my favorite actor
When you have looks confidence is just natural
Not really.look at all the pretty people with major issues. Just ad money does not make you truly happy. It can make life easier but it does not make you good person
not entirely true
I could watch him talk about a watermelon for hours and still be intrigued. 🤣
Whatever he's talking about in this I AGREE 💝
OH yeah, confidence. I agree 😊
He's gorgeous!
Just be honest. I needed to hear this.. I've tried being consistently appear "flawless" and that MO I've learned from my upbringing has been a detriment and a liability.
I've watched this video 3 times back to back. This video helped me to drop that habit on the spot. Some of us need to watch this on repeat to soak in.
Every man old and young need this video. Thanks for the vid 😎👍🏾!
Im a bodyguard. I got to know Tom quite well about 12 years ago after he'd returned from the States filming Warrior. With me he was very down to earth and easy to talk to. True fact, he'd even considered becoming a bodyguard himself before his acting really took off.
When he was asked about his sexuality, it was a great moment bc he was confident in himself in his response
Confidence makes you accept your flaws, Imperfections and failures
instead of hiding and denying them.
"Others merely adapted fear, he was born in it, shaped by it, he didn't had confidence until he was already a man, by then, it was nothing but a fake facade to mask the enternal insecurities within." 😂
Omg I so love Tom Hardy 😍 ♥
That's why the venom bonded with him. To help him gain confidence
Confidence is just an aftermath feeling that comes from past success nothing more nothing less. For an example if a person was able to attract someone that they was interested in than that person has gained past success which is what established and contributed to their confidence in the first place.
Everyone needs to shut up
If I looked even a quarter of what Tom looks like, I would be confident as well.
Been a fan of his since Star Trek Nemesis. Guy's cool as hell. Love anything he stars in. Not gay, just like the dude!
Straight up me him eye to eye he’s right I gained confidence still introvert but social af fear still there but coping
I always subconciously do this,admitting and making fun of myself and my weakness,making others not expecting much from me,but in the end if i can somehow overcome my weakness,they will be suprised
Good on you, Thomas! It ain't that fear is going to go away and leave you alone forever. Don't expect that. Courage and bravery are just words to describe doing whatever, afraid. Battle through fear, and don't worry, GOD's helping you. You don't have to do it alone with no help. Just do it afraid. Then, with diligence, the voice of fear will get to where you can't hear it. YAY 😁!!!!!
This is true. At least in my own experience.
I still try to look as best as possible, put on the nicest clothing possible, make my hair look as nice as possible, etc.
But i still know im not a perfect guy, im not super good looking, im not muscular nor have a slim body, im just me and i fking love myself.
He is one of my favorite actors 💪🏼
❤ I love this what a wonderful beautiful and truthful message thank you
Tom is an absolute gentleman, he could be such a D!ck and he would get away with it but he’s just too down to earth and laid back, can’t wait for more of his movies, maybe if a Bane solo movie, could be awesome
He is so underrated and truly one of the best actors in the business. Most actors act a roll but he becomes an entirely different person everytime a true badass of an actor. He should have won the Academy Award for his acting in revenant. In my opinion he was a co star
True
He's nowhere underrated. He's starred in indie films as well as blockbusters. Respected and admired by his peers and fans. He's just not a famewhore getting "candid" pap pictures. He belongs in the Christian Bale and Cillian Murphy class of actors: true talent and doesn't give a fuck about celebrity.
@@benjaminroman916First off he's nowhere underrated make No sense but he doesn't get mentioned when people talk about the great actors they always mention Denaro, Pacino,Hanks but never him and he is every bit as good as them and he deserves an Oscar but he doesn't have one does he no there for he is not getting the credit he deserves so he is underrated he may be getting the work but he isn't getting the credit
@@brianlittle9202 Oscars are overrated and it takes years of butt kissing and expensive campaigns to win one. See Leo. Also those actors you mentioned have decades in the business and he's not there yet.
@@benjaminroman916 Well the man has made over 47 movies and has been making movies since 1998 which is long enough for anyone to judge his work and while Oscars may be overrated to U and I if U busted your ass at any career and was among the best in the world at it U would want the appropriate raises and or credit U deserve. I know Hollywood is a filthy out of touch even satanic sh*t hole but none the less right is right and he should get what he deserves if U were an actor who was that good U would want that Oscar especially when U see some of those who have reserved it in the past.
Being handsome helps a lot
He is awesome, every movie I see him in is my new favorite.
Golden rule: stop learning how to be yourself or gain confidence by watching TH-cam videos about famous people.
This video is actually good advice tho
This
Umm tom hardy has a point its not all about fame
I agree! Sarcastic but true 🤣
Im not learning how to be myself. I'm learning how to not try and be someone else.
yet he looks intimidating just by his face and beard
"Stop trying to look flawless."
Impossible for Tom Hardy. What a dreamboat. 😍
Love thy god above all things and love thy neighbor as thy self 😉
My partner met Tom hardy and forest Whitaker one morning they were shooting a film in Wales. So down to earth really nice guys my partner called forest Lawrence 😂
Phenomenal actor. His work in Legend was some of his best work.
"Tom easily becomes aware of how handsome he is so he don't care how awkward he can be. His beauty makes him automatically confident and interesting, even though he has an avg personality"
God loves you and he cares about you with all his heart❤
I can relate to this in a lot of ways. I’m covered in tattoos, it’s simply just because I wanted to face one of my greatest fears in life. Being under the needle for prolonged periods.
For some reason whenever I say I’m a big softie I get kicked out of the brothel
Tom Doesn't Need to Try, He Naturally
Is A AWESOME Flawless Being.
BLESSINGS TOMMMMMM.
Stop following other people. Everyone is different. Looking confident and being confident are two very different things. True confidence comes from being aware of who you are and accepting who you are regardless of wether other people accept it or not. You might have qualities deemed undesirable by society like for me I am soft and caring and kind and I’m a male. I have lots of feminine traits and accepting that allows me to show that to the world unapologetically and I stop performing for others and I find people that actually like me for who I am. If u don’t show people who u r they can’t see you for who u r. Stop trying to be charismatic and be yourself. Charisma Will show when u embrace who u r.
Do u wanna be a people pleaser and only act in a way that is accepted by society or be urself and be only accepted by those who like who for who u r.
It's very liberating once you stop caring what others think of you and just live your life the way that makes you happy. Social media has made that very hard for most people.
This is great advice! Thank you 💎 We often try to look flawless because we attach our self-worth to our performance. I hope the person reading this knows you are valuable because you are a child of God and nothing and no one can take that away. Someone once told me that sometimes you have to love yourself enough to do things badly (until you can do them better.) Your dreams are waiting for you to get started. Start imperfectly it’s okay. Just take a step! You got this!
~ Candace
TH-camr and Poet Covering Self-love
With Tom being sober one of the biggest things is being honest.
This is on point.
Honesty creates integrity, as does understanding ones fears.
I can relate because as a black guy tattoos on us usually give us that edgy athlete/rapper look but I think they would just make me look like a thug or a wannabe thug at the very least so I just decided to kept my skin bare. I’m not tryna prove anything to anyone. 💯
He is a fantastic actor…and I’m not a Hollywood guy who follows celebrities but I got respect for Him
Tom is definitely a guy that guys wanna hang with and women wanna be with.stand up, awesome dude.
“You don’t need to hide parts of yourself to become acceptable to other people” man that hit hard.
He also has his IG with no comments allowed, it has been like that pretty much since he opened it. He might not want to face whatever thousands of people have to say to him, and that's also fine.
Very insightful. Thanks.
I’m sure being rich and famous with an accent also contributes to his confidence but what do I know…
Aren't supermodels literally paid millions to be beautiful....yet still have body confidence issues and eating disorders. Fun fact you can have both a pretty face and mental health problems.
Damn! He's beautiful
The "look" of confidence
*”stop trying to look flawless” - MELL DUNEY 616*
"Being bold isn't about being fearless. Being bold is when you're full of deep-rooted-fear, but you still jump, anyway..."
Also helps when you are good looking, you missed out that part 👍👍
Used to like him an actor until I read about how he behaved on the set of Mad Max
@@Leslie_Knope The article that I read a few months back stated that he was always late and held up filming. Charlize Theron confronted him for being late and he responded by intimidating her. They didn't get on well after that.
@@shakman4057 As I read it, Tom confronted Charlize after she talked shit about him quite literally behind his back. He heard her say something less than polite and simply strolled over and said "What did you just say?", and that's when Charlize shat herself, probably cried and overreacted, demanded security and played the frightened woman for the rest of the shoot like "ooh, Tom is an evil bad man.". Like fuck off Charlize, you fucked about, you pulled the lions tail and then shat yourself when it turned to you and beared its teeth in warning.
He didn't abuse her, he simply asked a question. If you talk shit behind a mans back and he hears you doing so, he's going to come over and ask the question. Tom wasn't behaving badly, he was simply standing up for himself against someone who had just slandered him within earshot. She's someone who could ruin his career if he allowed the slander, so it's fair play.
The being late isn't the best look, that whole shoot was pretty bad by most accounts though due to cars breaking down or barely being finished in time for the shoot. The rigging being a bit of a mess, constant issues delaying things, and the catering was apparently really bad. Not to mention it was filmed in a desert, so the weather isn't exactly suited to a British temperament, brits can get real tetchy in hot weather. Add to that someone cussing you within earshot, thinking that they're impervious to any consequences, and you have a recipe for one pissed off Englishman. Shit happens.
Sure. The formula for being more confident: Be honest, admit your fears, AND LOOK LIKE FREAKIN‘ TOM HARDY!!!!
Was expecting some BS video like "you just gotta have a big ego and think you're the shit" (which is not confidence btw but arrogance) but was pleasantly surprised. Great short and very true 👍
Yeah, this suits for a guy who is big, handsome and succesfull, and the girls says 'Ohh, a thought guy that is sensible inside, oh i like it'. But if you are short, small guy, that never succeed in anything and you say Oh i'm scared of everything and i'm sensible, the people would say 'Oh poor ridicolous guy'.
That's exactly what I do since i realized that I'm kind of shy guy... But now it's getting into me that if you realize that you are shy and start thinking that you are shy, you can easily fuck your brain up, it's better to think that you are confident and it's just normal human behaviour but at the same time it's good to be kind of "responsive" :)
A guy gets tattoos to look tough, I would have never guessed 😅😅😅
😂😂
One of the top ten talents in the industry.
Well he was also born in the dark, molded by it if you will. We merely adopted the dark. That’s why he’s so confident cause literally everything and nothing scares him. Just something I came up with originally.
The biggest paradox is,
that we see the actors and celebrities as confident, brave, fearless, etc
yet they are just simple people like any average person, equally scared, anxious, fearful and insecure most of the time.
Here you’ve got a proof, that media creates a false vision of anyone, this regards the looks, the behaviours and so on.
Please, don’t beat yourself, you most likely are braver, prettier and genuine without all the made up filters.
HUGE caveat to this though. People will only respect or admire you for admitting your flaws, IF they respect you as a person first. Adam Grant cites these studies in one of his books. When people see a competent person fail and own up to the mistake, their respect for that person usually increases and they like the person more. If the same thing happens to someone they deem as incompetent, people tend to get annoyed like they’re dealing with a child who can’t do anything right.
You don’t teach charisma. You teach insecurity. “Build confidence by stop trying to look flawless.” This is external confidence it is solely based on how other people see you. True confidence comes from self awareness and self acceptance and it is completely independent of other people.
Fear will keep you Sharp, keeps you in Shape and being the Best Version of you. Once you lose respect for fear and no longer set it as something to Be afraid off is when death creeps. Dont Be ashamed of harnessing fear, it'll keep you and those around you alive.
This has nothing to do with confidence. Tom Hardy is intellectually astute, to deny your truest personal realizations especially in regard to yourself, is betrayal of your own intellect and at most illogic
“can someone be brave even when he is afraid? one can only be brave when he’s afraid”