I love you man. You're a real guy, and I love the control you have over your life and long term orientation. I want to encourage you to make the term and aim even longer and have a yet broader picture if you don't already. I want you to set your goals beyond the earth and earthly life, let it span even into eternity. Start caring as well for your afterlife if you don't already. I think it's a worthy goal and you have absolutely nothing to lose. I'm Catholic and that's how I do mine.❤ You can add it to your earthly goals. One love Casey man!
A lot of guys may not realize this but Casey’s advice is pure gold! Definitely wise beyond his years. There are men…even the so-called “successful” ones who won’t discover these truths until they’re well into their 50s and 60s!
1. Emotional Resiliency- fuck your emotions and don’t get moved off centre emotionally 2. Never in conversations but above them- always looking forward into the future, compounding yourself for your future(don’t get stuck in the argument or negative type of communications), catch yourself if u get moved off centre and give yourself permission to be selfish 3. Obtain full control of your life- don’t be materialistic and let it take your focus n purpose(full control of where your attention and intent is used on) 4. Building and in a state of creation- having a goal and trajectory, creating an energy, conversation 5. Pure dedication and love for your craft- purpose>money, living for something, money is you being insecure of what people think of you
There's this Jordan Peterson video where he talks about how he was asked how to find "the one". In a nutshell his answer was to become "the one" who someone else would even want in the first place. And he's a behavioral therapist or clinical psychologist or something like that. Point being, he has academic credentials in psychology with degrees to back it up. I'm hearing what you're saying and as I'm listening I can recall his video and y'all are both giving the same answer. The Band-Aid on a broken leg analogy that you used is pretty spot-on. This is legitimate information in your videos and it can all be validated and backed up by textbook facts. Thank you for sharing.
BIGGEST mistake I made I learned at age 54. In my case, I attracted very broken women, dangerous in many ways. Because I used to be a decent person causing me to forgive red flags. Men, be a man, even if they leave. Don't put up with ANY bs. I'm done with liars, manipulators etc. Starting over but this time much differently. I underestimated my own value before or these monsters NEVER would have been graced with my time.
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
I give myself full permission to be selfish with my time and energy, so that I can work on making everyday better then the last, to create abundance for myself physically, mentally, socially, financially, spiritually and creatively with myself and the people around me who I love.
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
Man, this served me so well. I am not just saving but downloading this video, because this is so practical, so down to earth that it is crazy. I am going to build systems on this system, that is how useful it is. I am going to build a better kind of school and I have tons of inspiration, but this has officially become one of them. Thanks man, I appreciate your craft and creation, and I am going to appreciate my own craft and creations more and work on building more resilience, being above the immediate moment and taking control of my life.
I give myself permission to be selfish with my time, my attention, my health, resources, faith, my purpose, my calling, my interests, my wealth and my life. I have permission to be selfish.
As a woman, when you are in a relationship with an emotionally needy or an emotionally unstable man who doesn't have a sense of emotional stability or stoicism, it is very off-putting. It does not mean that showing no emotions what so ever is the way to go either, it means that you are not expecting the woman to do the emotional labor in the relationship and the man is not relying on HER to be strong for him. When I show more emotional resiliency than the man does, it means I can't trust that he can handle my emotions when things hit the fan for me. So for example, a man that always complains over little things? Or that one-upper, like " oh your family is bad, mine is way worse.." like it's a competition? It's a turn off. Plus, men like this end up being very manipulative .
You are not in relationship with an emotionally needy. You are in relationship with someone who truly loves you. You feel in control because you don t truly love him. I am sure about this because the same person who feels needy with you will be stoic in another relationship and you in another relationship will feel needy. So we need to be honest about our feeling towards ourselves before judging. It s an energetic interaction in which the one in love feels you deeply. That s why when your behaviour doesn t match your words, he will feel it quickly.
Maybe if woman treated men better then they wouldnt feel the need to cling to the one girl who shows them affection. Its not off putting its just selfish and stupid. Obviously if they are needy its because they want you. The fact that the more a guy secures and reassures a woman the less she wants him. Thats the definition of playing games
Thank you for this longer video. This gives so much content and value. This longer style gives real lessons and education. The 'shorts' that everyone loves so much is o, entertaining, but you just don't get the real meat and beans of the message
I call this concept “Zooming Out” if you learn how to do this, you WIN, I actually taught a girl how to do this just to see if she can realize how to appreciate what I showed her 🧡
Emotional Reliance is SELF RESPECT. Above conversations means to know what is REAL in this world and what is imagined. Obtain full control of your life, this means to have a backup plan, not being dependent on others to reach DAILY NEEDS. When you meet your needs, you are in control. To build you MUST learn the Trivium Method of Truth Discovery. The Romans FORBID this to be taught to foreigners. 5 th is care. You must do the things you care about. Make sure your cares harms no others!!!
What if you want to start a TH-cam channel about cars and do not have one? The formula seems to be to buy a car people would be interested in seeing and create videos on that car and then branch out from there. Thoughts?
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
My x 1989-90 said to me that i was stoic, but she missed the sexual abuse i sustained in childhood, physical, emotional, spiritual from very dysfunctional family of origin... CPSTD, tinnitus, neck problems, tremors from chemical defoliant while in Okinawa, japan USMC.... ETCETERA. wanted to change me into beta woman.... IMO
I am going to be a jerk and point out a grammatical error that was bothering me. “Have became” is incorrect. It should be just “became” or “have become”. That’s all. Other than that I **love** these videos. I am addicted to this channel.
Casey, don't put images/video clips of other people (example, the boxer) in the middle of your videos, its distracting. Camera stuck to your face and you keep talking, that's the best, you talk, I listen and learn, no distractions.
It wouldn’t be a Casey Zander video without him self stroking on his success and shilling out the work hard, no play, all about the money lifestyle… even on something as philosophical as stoicism. No wonder dude is still writing on a whiteboard, trying to figure it out. I see practical bums with decent looking, extremely loyal women that sheet all over TH-cam dating advice.
I am a volunteer firefighter and in your world view, this doesn't help you in your life as a man, because you don't make money with it. For me it tought me a lot stay calm, even if the world around my ass is literally on fire. I takes a lot of my time, but the peace I have with knowing, i safed the life of other people is more worth than any money.
Money is just a tool. The greatest fulfilment in life you will get from serving others. What you do is admirable and more manly than anyone who only cares about money. Money is important, but it is a resource, not something to live by. Respect for what you do. Many men would have a lot more to learn from you, than from anyone chasing only status and coins. If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel. Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire. We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well. Looking forward to your points of view. All the best to you!
You have a purpose, that's great! Be proud of it. He said don't work only for money. It's good to be rich but not everyone becomes a millionaire. There are enough girls out there with their feet on the ground for a man who has his shit toghether...
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Permission to be selfish
I love you man. You're a real guy, and I love the control you have over your life and long term orientation. I want to encourage you to make the term and aim even longer and have a yet broader picture if you don't already. I want you to set your goals beyond the earth and earthly life, let it span even into eternity. Start caring as well for your afterlife if you don't already. I think it's a worthy goal and you have absolutely nothing to lose. I'm Catholic and that's how I do mine.❤ You can add it to your earthly goals. One love Casey man!
1. Emotional resilience
2. Be above the conversation, not in it.
3. Obtain full control of your life.
4. Always be creating.
5. Love for your craft
Thank you!
The real MVP
You saved 17min of my life. Thank you so much
A lot of guys may not realize this but Casey’s advice is pure gold! Definitely wise beyond his years. There are men…even the so-called “successful” ones who won’t discover these truths until they’re well into their 50s and 60s!
@@mikea.4477 yes, being around the same age.. he's definitely mentioned some things I've never heard
I give myself full permission to be selfish with my time in order to build a great lifestyle of abundance in multiple dimensions.
That's right man. Where someone spends their time and money shows their priority
Dream on, joker
1. Emotional Resiliency- fuck your emotions and don’t get moved off centre emotionally
2. Never in conversations but above them- always looking forward into the future, compounding yourself for your future(don’t get stuck in the argument or negative type of communications), catch yourself if u get moved off centre and give yourself permission to be selfish
3. Obtain full control of your life- don’t be materialistic and let it take your focus n purpose(full control of where your attention and intent is used on)
4. Building and in a state of creation- having a goal and trajectory, creating an energy, conversation
5. Pure dedication and love for your craft- purpose>money, living for something, money is you being insecure of what people think of you
Thank you!
Nice!
Right but idealistic. Does not work in the real life. Women love weak men. They despise strong men. In the real life.
Be unmovable. Know your truth. Move in silence. Discernment is a gift. Observe closely, judge wisely. Live in contentment. Be Blessed. Always.
"There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about the things which are beyond the power of our will" - Epictetus.
There's this Jordan Peterson video where he talks about how he was asked how to find "the one". In a nutshell his answer was to become "the one" who someone else would even want in the first place. And he's a behavioral therapist or clinical psychologist or something like that. Point being, he has academic credentials in psychology with degrees to back it up. I'm hearing what you're saying and as I'm listening I can recall his video and y'all are both giving the same answer. The Band-Aid on a broken leg analogy that you used is pretty spot-on. This is legitimate information in your videos and it can all be validated and backed up by textbook facts. Thank you for sharing.
Like JP but for the most part really out of touch on rp topics. RC has called him out a few times.
BIGGEST mistake I made I learned at age 54. In my case, I attracted very broken women, dangerous in many ways. Because I used to be a decent person causing me to forgive red flags. Men, be a man, even if they leave. Don't put up with ANY bs. I'm done with liars, manipulators etc. Starting over but this time much differently. I underestimated my own value before or these monsters NEVER would have been graced with my time.
if you deal with women like this, only view them as dragons to be slayed & to understand women deeply with before moving on
Amen Brother!
Brother this is my story now :'( literally made me miserable
Recently found your channel, I am shocked how good your advice is .
Thanks , keep it up man
Makes complete sense what you’re talking about. Thanks for the knowledge. Keep up the great work. 👍🏾👊🏾
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
I give myself full permission to be selfish with my time and energy, so that I can work on making everyday better then the last, to create abundance for myself physically, mentally, socially, financially, spiritually and creatively with myself and the people around me who I love.
This channel helps me a lot
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
This is the best video on TH-cam, about being a real man
Thanks
Man, this served me so well. I am not just saving but downloading this video, because this is so practical, so down to earth that it is crazy. I am going to build systems on this system, that is how useful it is. I am going to build a better kind of school and I have tons of inspiration, but this has officially become one of them. Thanks man, I appreciate your craft and creation, and I am going to appreciate my own craft and creations more and work on building more resilience, being above the immediate moment and taking control of my life.
I give myself permission to be selfish with my time, my attention, my health, resources, faith, my purpose, my calling, my interests, my wealth and my life. I have permission to be selfish.
This guy is spot on!
Always solid bro
Nothing that is worth doing is easy, respect dude.
I give myself permission to be selfish with my time in order to build a lifestyle. My main focus is my happiness and a lifestyle of abundance.
As a woman, when you are in a relationship with an emotionally needy or an emotionally unstable man who doesn't have a sense of emotional stability or stoicism, it is very off-putting. It does not mean that showing no emotions what so ever is the way to go either, it means that you are not expecting the woman to do the emotional labor in the relationship and the man is not relying on HER to be strong for him. When I show more emotional resiliency than the man does, it means I can't trust that he can handle my emotions when things hit the fan for me. So for example, a man that always complains over little things? Or that one-upper, like " oh your family is bad, mine is way worse.." like it's a competition? It's a turn off. Plus, men like this end up being very manipulative .
You are not in relationship with an emotionally needy. You are in relationship with someone who truly loves you. You feel in control because you don t truly love him. I am sure about this because the same person who feels needy with you will be stoic in another relationship and you in another relationship will feel needy. So we need to be honest about our feeling towards ourselves before judging. It s an energetic interaction in which the one in love feels you deeply. That s why when your behaviour doesn t match your words, he will feel it quickly.
Maybe if woman treated men better then they wouldnt feel the need to cling to the one girl who shows them affection. Its not off putting its just selfish and stupid. Obviously if they are needy its because they want you. The fact that the more a guy secures and reassures a woman the less she wants him. Thats the definition of playing games
There needs to be more honest women like you. Most men are barely men anymore because of listening to all of their conditioning.
maybe my brain doesnt work, but I didnt understand part of this at all
You just don’t like men who loves you my dear… you’re repulsed by nice guys. And you know what will happen with the guys you really want ? :)
I definitely agree about going to the gym when you don’t want to. Now I go and stay consistent with no bull shit.
Thank you for this longer video. This gives so much content and value. This longer style gives real lessons and education. The 'shorts' that everyone loves so much is o, entertaining, but you just don't get the real meat and beans of the message
11:00 from on wards best point out, very eye opening
Permission to be selfish with my time has been granted.
I call this concept “Zooming Out” if you learn how to do this, you WIN, I actually taught a girl how to do this just to see if she can realize how to appreciate what I showed her 🧡
Did she “show her appreciation”?
Uncle c can you make a video about how to deal with parents that try to pressure you to go to holiday parties with family you only see once a year.
I gave myself permission to be selfish today and now everyday. Aye AYe!!!!!
Luv it man!
Glad I am at a stage in life where I am no longer part of this game
And it is a game!
Most important thing is be born attractive. Women only care about you bc she don't want to see you with someone else.
Ahaha true
Thank you what you said here is very much speaks to me.
Best advice I've heard
You are da goat 💪
God bless you brother
Fearless
you're a G brother
I give myself the permission to be selfish with my time and take full control of my life as a high value alpha Dom man.
Good points..
I need to be mature about my life and my business, and do what needs to be done whether I like it or not.
Casey Love you Brother
I have nothing to say but I just want to say thank you
PERMISSION TO BE SELFISH!
I am selfish with my time
in the next one....
I got permission to be selfish with my time 🙏🏼
Permission to be selfish so that I become the main character of my own life once again.
I give myself permission to be selfish with my time.
THank you!
I’m
Now
Selfish.
I give myself full permission to be selfish with my time to achieve abundance in every realm in life 🧬
Hard!
Emotional Reliance is SELF RESPECT. Above conversations means to know what is REAL in this world and what is imagined. Obtain full control of your life, this means to have a backup plan, not being dependent on others to reach DAILY NEEDS. When you meet your needs, you are in control. To build you MUST learn the Trivium Method of Truth Discovery. The Romans FORBID this to be taught to foreigners. 5 th is care. You must do the things you care about. Make sure your cares harms no others!!!
I assume the freedom to be selfish to achieve my goals
I have permission to be selfish. Selfish with my goal, selfish with my time.
I love this guy
I give myself permission to be selfish with my time to focus on myself
Uncle C💪💪
Good advice. Thanks.
What if you want to start a TH-cam channel about cars and do not have one? The formula seems to be to buy a car people would be interested in seeing and create videos on that car and then branch out from there. Thoughts?
I give myself unadulterated and immutable permission to keep two heavy kiwifruit polished and ready to serve at all times.
Steven Seagal is...ABOVE THE CONVERSATION! Coming soon to a theater near you.
I like drinking. So if she hates that then I'm good because I'm being selfish and taking full control of my life
Peepin me up on some game. Nice
I give myself full permission to be selfish with my life
Permission to be Selfish with myself
I am selfish with my time.
This video is changing my life. Im on a really good path, and this stabilised me. Thank you very much
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
I am selfish with my time.
I agree with everything you’ve said with the exception of you can never be content
My x 1989-90 said to me that i was stoic, but she missed the sexual abuse i sustained in childhood, physical, emotional, spiritual from very dysfunctional family of origin... CPSTD, tinnitus, neck problems, tremors from chemical defoliant while in Okinawa, japan USMC.... ETCETERA.
wanted to change me into beta woman.... IMO
I don't need permission to be selfish 😉
Th best things Being Stocic is you dont care about women no more.
Be like Fonzie! WHAT IS FONZIE LIKE?!
Permission to be selfish for myself and my progress!
Nice
I am going to be a jerk and point out a grammatical error that was bothering me. “Have became” is incorrect. It should be just “became” or “have become”. That’s all. Other than that I **love** these videos. I am addicted to this channel.
Hi HeadMan,
I am selfish yes yet inclusive I am from India (Kolkata).😍
I don't run after women...😜
Permission to be selfish💯💜
Is that Owen cook’s girlfriend in the thumbnail ?
Permission to be selfish in my purpose
Permission to be selfish in the mission
Casey, don't put images/video clips of other people (example, the boxer) in the middle of your videos, its distracting. Camera stuck to your face and you keep talking, that's the best, you talk, I listen and learn, no distractions.
It wouldn’t be a Casey Zander video without him self stroking on his success and shilling out the work hard, no play, all about the money lifestyle… even on something as philosophical as stoicism. No wonder dude is still writing on a whiteboard, trying to figure it out. I see practical bums with decent looking, extremely loyal women that sheet all over TH-cam dating advice.
I give myself full permission to be selfish with my time to be Great
I give me permission to getting selfish with time
I give myself permission to be selfish
Permission to be selfish with time
I am strong stoic and calm man but it does not matter. Women hate strong men. They prefer weak , addicted men instead. In the real life.
You lack charisma and sex appeal bro.
I’d don’t have time for my dating life to 10x. Also, I haven’t seen enough appealing women in my area to 10x my dating life 😂
I have permission to be selfish to work on myself.
I give myself permission to be selfish. 😊
I'm doing all the things he's saying not to do.
I am a volunteer firefighter and in your world view, this doesn't help you in your life as a man, because you don't make money with it. For me it tought me a lot stay calm, even if the world around my ass is literally on fire. I takes a lot of my time, but the peace I have with knowing, i safed the life of other people is more worth than any money.
Money is just a tool. The greatest fulfilment in life you will get from serving others. What you do is admirable and more manly than anyone who only cares about money. Money is important, but it is a resource, not something to live by. Respect for what you do. Many men would have a lot more to learn from you, than from anyone chasing only status and coins.
If you enjoy ideas about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos I share on the Mastery Order Channel.
Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
Looking forward to your points of view.
All the best to you!
You have a purpose, that's great! Be proud of it. He said don't work only for money. It's good to be rich but not everyone becomes a millionaire. There are enough girls out there with their feet on the ground for a man who has his shit toghether...
I’m giving myself permission to be selfish
I give myself permission to be selfish.
What do you think of jeff bezos buying a 500 million dollar yacht with backup yacht?
I give myself permission to be selfish with my time
Be like Frank Underwood?
Permission to be selfish.