WHY I left the PHILIPPINES | Left the Philippines

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  • @WhatsupPhilippines
    @WhatsupPhilippines  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    See the magic we experienced in Bohol 🥹 White Sand Beaches 🌴, emerald green Cenotes 💚(yes, we have them in the Philippines too!) and the kindness of the locals 🥰 were shining through in this adventure and fun packed video 🫶🏼 Hoping it will brighten up your day 🌞 Watch the Vlog here 🎥th-cam.com/video/0i1XLd4RUSo/w-d-xo.htmlsi=NJG0QZqQLvd4gfoT

  • @paulbagsawan6054
    @paulbagsawan6054 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    He made it clear in the start that it was his mental struggle that made him leave the Philippines. My advice to him, "meet the people not the place".

    • @nelsonlomod9601
      @nelsonlomod9601 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@paulbagsawan6054 look ay KD, he needed to come home to his parent and parent's house in his old room and see his old and primary therapist. Thats his best option to get out of his anxiety.

    • @aromathera-k6p
      @aromathera-k6p 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      U should put God in ur travel!

    • @keykfudgee1042
      @keykfudgee1042 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@aromathera-k6pnot all people believe in god 👍🏿

    • @Sunrvester
      @Sunrvester 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@paulbagsawan6054
      Not much sexual tourism in the Philippines Women are not easy picking unlike Thailand

    • @strongperson359
      @strongperson359 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He should go mental first before traveling.. 🤭🤭

  • @audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808
    @audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Sometimes it's not the place that needs to change, sometimes you are running away from yourself and problems that you need to deal with INTERNALLY.

    • @Sunrvester
      @Sunrvester 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808
      Hes got mental and sexual challenges.

  • @drusillathetinsmith
    @drusillathetinsmith 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I understand him. I get it. I'm just glad he's feeling better.

  • @VirgilioNamocatcat
    @VirgilioNamocatcat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    His story in that video reminded me of Kumander Daot. He has the same mental issue before he came to visit the Philippines. He lives in UK 🇬🇧. He visited the Philippines and found peace. When he came back to United Kingdom all that related problems he felt came back again. I know a lot of tourist likes to travel to enjoy the nature beauties around the world but if you are not going to settle down your mind problem before then definitely you will be disappointed about all you planned.

  • @wicksbusiness
    @wicksbusiness 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    I am a permanent citizen of the Philippines now. I first came here in 2007. I have been here now since the lockdowns of 2020. The Philippines is definitely not for everyone. I could easily make a list of both advantages and disadvantages of living here. But for me, I like it.

    • @gangstagummybear3432
      @gangstagummybear3432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol, no country is for everyone

    • @Jorg-po6oi
      @Jorg-po6oi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      CRAP CULTURE. AVOID AVOID AVOID PHILIPPINES.

    • @RizalinaAmmen-nb3eu
      @RizalinaAmmen-nb3eu 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And why you come here in our country that is not suitable for you you're not welcome here anymore

  • @EddiejrTagiobon
    @EddiejrTagiobon 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    There were a lot of foreigners visiting PH alone yet they were able to succeed, you know the reason why? It is because they talk with locals in every place they go. Interacting with Filipinos will definitely make your experience meaningful.

    • @dollydelacruz6271
      @dollydelacruz6271 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ya and to think most or 99.9% of Filipinos can speak english. 😊 pandemic era has passed. A lot of people now sometimes do not have the time to watch youtube.

    • @estrellamacalalad5556
      @estrellamacalalad5556 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This man is negative mind, explore ,communicate,

  • @6jemil
    @6jemil 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Hello Nelly...you're so beautiful 😍 happy to know the problem is not the Philippines...it's his mental issue...in life one must do whatever it is that will make you happy...if he's not happy in the Philippines then he should go somewhere else.

  • @RomansapienMVision
    @RomansapienMVision 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Having friends and relatives at the sensitive moments of your life makes a big difference. It happen to me in the United States, they have everything to offer, great job, great cities but with my friends and family are in the Philippines.

    • @jonapatil3733
      @jonapatil3733 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perfect said in we need to understand what he mean

  • @josephinetalaver7064
    @josephinetalaver7064 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    He already a lot of friends in Thailand , he gets used to be with a lot of Friends , he felt alone in the Philippines and when he encounter problems which makes him dissapointed right away, i guess he already felt stable in Thailand , I think next time if you travel in a strange place you better bring a friend with you , so you dont feel alone.

  • @henrydgeyser1869
    @henrydgeyser1869 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    To each his own… whatever works. We hope you will find the suitable place where you will be genuinely happy… all the best.

  • @terywoodsr.8690
    @terywoodsr.8690 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Okay... I have been to Thailand, and to Cebu. In a way Cebu reminded me of Thailand with all the wires everywhere. But Cebu is a very nice place. So are other cities in the Philippines. If you like Thailand, then go to Thailand. If you like Korea, then go there. But do not bash one because it is not the other. There is actually a lot to see in Cebu. I will be going back.

    • @gangstagummybear3432
      @gangstagummybear3432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thailand is irrelevant unless you bring down pH to make Thailand look good

    • @happysolitudetv
      @happysolitudetv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@gangstagummybear3432basically that's what he did there

  • @modestoagbuya2159
    @modestoagbuya2159 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    This guy really needs help. A therapist, a psychologist, maybe? He can't live alone and needs a permanent partner or companion. Wish him good luck and God blessings.

    • @meynardcarino2255
      @meynardcarino2255 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      maybe he didn't find happiness n d philippines, due to his illness and knowing that depression or having mental health it's not good to put over load activity to a close oriented mentally i'll person , he really needs a milleu therapy to improve his condition. and we advise that all those who watched and red this message just understand he's current state of mental illnesses that needs to seek psychiatric help that includes milleu therapy and his family n friends.

    • @renatopedrocillo5657
      @renatopedrocillo5657 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why Bro. Left The Philippines are you Drinking Wines the Group maybe one Guy put on poison on the Top side of Glass Bottle After you Drink The Result Mental Health Then If Have a Albularyo Like Doctor Medicine after Finish Treament Maybe Back to your Normal God Blessing You Amigo .Sometimes in The Province Bisaya kubli Hide maglalason Poisonings 18:04 18:04 Example: If We Have a Group Drinking Wine inside or outside the House you Calling Hey you Come can you Drink One Shot Ans.like This no Thank's

    • @vincentclaro2945
      @vincentclaro2945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@meynardcarino2255not psychiatry. More counseling therapy or psychology therapy

    • @theresarealizan1517
      @theresarealizan1517 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      We don't force u to stay herein the Phil's..

    • @Jorg-po6oi
      @Jorg-po6oi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this guy is SO RIGHT ABOUT PHILIPPINES.

  • @leocabs3802
    @leocabs3802 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Guys not all foreigners like philippines, depends on their preference. its ok to criticized foreigners, no one is perfect.

    • @firespriteearthcrystals
      @firespriteearthcrystals 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      You don't get his point. He was in a state of depression, if you are depressed even if you live in the most beautiful place in the world, it won't feel beautiful on the inside because you are battling something inside of you.

    • @gangstagummybear3432
      @gangstagummybear3432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

  • @ACR369
    @ACR369 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I like the Philippines compared to the other asean countries .. I’m enjoying a lot here.

    • @gangstagummybear3432
      @gangstagummybear3432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same here

    • @NoToYellowpigs
      @NoToYellowpigs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🙏🏻Thanks thanks for liking philippines

  • @am21miranda61
    @am21miranda61 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    You’re not alone in the Philippines Nelly. Or with that guy doing that content… you’re in the friendliest people on earth, you just have to explore your self and start having connections with others.

  • @nrc468
    @nrc468 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The problem is not the places you are visiting but instead your loneliness which affect your mental health. The best is try to consult to some health experts which will give you the right and correct medication and advises.

  • @youtubephan2427
    @youtubephan2427 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    really he wasnt ready to be a solo traveller, basically he was insecure being alone in a unfamiliar place, probably scared him to death and he couldnt shake it.the best thing for him to do is leave if he couldnt enjoy, i think he mentally blocked himself from enjoying his time.

    • @gershumgratil
      @gershumgratil 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He should have interacted w/ the locals like the other bloggers did, likes Kumander Daot, Friendly Sergie, Jonathan etc. U really can't enjoy atrip being alone. Look at Island Barbie, she's very much active in Siargao getting along w/ the locals.

    • @rickb7225
      @rickb7225 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How is he not ready to be solo traveller? I'm subscriber on his channel, he has successfully visited many different countries, just because he's not feeling so comfortable in Philippines is his feeling and opinion, everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's not necessary for every vlogger to promote Philippines to grow their channel

  • @maricarguinto9274
    @maricarguinto9274 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Thanks Nelly for being so objective about this video...though the TITLE of his video is quite unfair for the Philippines especially for those people who will not finish this video🥲praying for him to be better

  • @allanmoral3867
    @allanmoral3867 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The problem is exclusively personal, not the Philippines. No worries. I bope you become all right. God bless you.

  • @melairamoso4116
    @melairamoso4116 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    His Mental Health is valid but i wanna look in the bigger picture here i think his channel did not pick up so well here in the Philippines i think he thought he is going to have a big influx of subscribers and views but it did not materialize fast like the other vloggers did here and maybe that becomes the reason of his anxiety and uncertainty given the fact that he did get out of his comfort zone. i think the right decision to go back where you are most comfortable and just enrich your market there.

    • @angiecoers6255
      @angiecoers6255 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dude, I think you need to fix yourself first, don't be hating and just leave the country.

    • @dollydelacruz6271
      @dollydelacruz6271 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly. Because these vloggers thinks when your content is about the Philippines your views gets high. 😂 boracay is all over you tube nothing new and nothing special.

  • @jeffraymondanexpatslifesty2384
    @jeffraymondanexpatslifesty2384 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You know you can really respect someone that is really being honest and not disrespectful. He made it very clear that it wasn't the Philippines or the people there that were the problem , but rather it was him. You can respect that.Not one comment was blaming the Philippines for it. That's cool. I have heard so many expact just totally put down the Filipino in a very disrespectful way. Not cool.If you just don't like a place leave. Simple. Don't blame them if it was you. Now if he really had an issue with the Philippines and could really explain it, then that is different. Still do it respectfully. I was in Bangladesh for 4 years and hated it. It was an issue with how they do things, but I don't post about it as I feel no need to disrespect them like that. Hopefully you do come back sometime with friends and really give it a try here. It is amazing here and I just love it.

  • @nelsonlomod9601
    @nelsonlomod9601 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Kumander Daot(Anselm Plummer) a Brit have to leave Davao and gone home to Wales due to his anxiety attack but returned with new vibrant feeling.

    • @hih-meh1344
      @hih-meh1344 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah.. it does help with proper medication

  • @bingreyesful1
    @bingreyesful1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤ I do love your sharing Nelly. I love you. You take care Nel. Pray 🙏❤️

  • @norybathan640
    @norybathan640 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love you, Nelly. Even if you get tired of the Philippines, I'll always love your spirit and kindness 💜 ingat 💖

  • @jaimedominicpanelo7246
    @jaimedominicpanelo7246 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Because travel is not really the goal in life, but it's part of pleasure and relaxation.The real goal is a stable income, which boosts mental health. Philippines may be the place to increase subscribers because most Filipinos love to watch TH-cam; Philippines is the texting capital of the world. But sometimes if a vlogger's subscribers won't increase at a target time, they'll leave. For instance Mergim Vlog's subscribers significantly increased thus he stayed long. Mental health or depression is proportional to the success of income goals. If income declines, it's a burden how to survive. Research how to improve contents to increase subscribers or learn new skills to bring in good income, then mental health improves; depression may be chemical imbalance in the body. Seek Doctor's advice for anti-depressants, it will help. Good luck to the guy and to Nelly. Wishing you both success of goals in life.

    • @PurokayomgaSheep
      @PurokayomgaSheep 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤ this one👍👍👌

    • @happysolitudetv
      @happysolitudetv หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wonder if he's being subsidized by Thailand tourism for making Thai vlogs but never did he mention negative things about Thailand and the vlog above reacted on by Nelly, feels like a subtle diss to the Philippines to promote Thailand beaches and culture. It sounds like "why should someone go visit the Philippines, if Thailand has already beaches?". A weak minded tourist would easily fall, not knowing Philippine nature trips have more to offer.

  • @dmdscreations2018
    @dmdscreations2018 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Don't worry, if this country is not for you, its OK to leave. Mental and Physical Health first. It's also difficult for some Filipinos living here, its much difficult for Foreigners. We understand. Hope you find a better place. God Bless.

  • @愛一喜
    @愛一喜 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s okay 😊good luck to your new endeavors! Depression is real… hope you get better soon

  • @gurlrockz31
    @gurlrockz31 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I understand him. Thailand is his comfort zone. He should stay there.

    • @rottenripper4483
      @rottenripper4483 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      With the ladyboys😅😂

    • @bluewolf4789
      @bluewolf4789 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With prostitutes

    • @mikeyfraile2402
      @mikeyfraile2402 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The gay capital of asia​@@rottenripper4483

    • @alice_agogo
      @alice_agogo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@rottenripper4483we have, too. At least theirs don't pretend to be real women

    • @firespriteearthcrystals
      @firespriteearthcrystals 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      yes ,maybe Marijuana was his cure for his mental health and if he is in Thailand during that time period was legal in Thailand and he can no longer do that in the Philippines. It probably added to his mental stress.

  • @lorieshaw5632
    @lorieshaw5632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks Nelly to actually recognizing our humble Philippines 🇵🇭 ❤and what we can really offer

  • @ahmadyusuflimun6078
    @ahmadyusuflimun6078 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I stumbled upon one of your videos today, watched it, liked it and went for the next, and the next, and the next, and the next.... You bet, there are tons of vidz in TH-cam but for me, your videos are like diamonds among grains of sand. You are unbelievably amazing and totally inspiring. Thanks a lot!!! 😊😊😊😊😊

    • @WhatsupPhilippines
      @WhatsupPhilippines  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Awesome! Thank you for watching!! 🫶

  • @m.o.s.h.1836
    @m.o.s.h.1836 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People with mental issues always struggles the feeling loneliness, anxieties and depression wherever they have been in the world. Praying for his healing.🙏

  • @rumelatienza4354
    @rumelatienza4354 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    He was gaslighting Cebu and the Cebuanos [ I am not a Cebuano] and implicitly promoting Thailand under the guise of a mental struggle. PHL does not need or deserve this kind of tourist.

    • @ßhopkins
      @ßhopkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      true. some vloggers use this tactic to create extra drama, bring down a less favorite country and to build up another one, in this case, Thailand

    • @starshine4550
      @starshine4550 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Forgive and forget...hes the least of men not liking the phil. We cannot please everybody...thats his mindset...😢

    • @komentator9125
      @komentator9125 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly. and not just Cebu, the entire PH....that Son of a gun hahaha 👊🤛🤜 😤 🤣

    • @youtubephan2427
      @youtubephan2427 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i disagree with your observation, but he isnt mentally fit with a place that isnt his comfort zone and perhaps it is Thailand, As he mentioned he travelled to other places but seemed he enjoyed those places, he just isnt a solo traveller, so his mental state just didnt comfort him enough to continue, but its ok bcuz those who want to enjoy Ph will enjoy by being open to the culture and people.. u just have to hope he gets mentally healed to perhaps one day return and give it another chance.

    • @ßhopkins
      @ßhopkins 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@youtubephan2427 he doesn't need to return. Its perfectly okay

  • @marierocher4422
    @marierocher4422 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Running away is not the solution. Temporary solace in one place is not the answer either nor giving excuse. He needs to solve it first.

  • @elizabethbadan2455
    @elizabethbadan2455 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good luck thank you for coming to the Philippines
    Have psyche evaluation before coming to Palawan
    As you plan to see.

  • @ybiangpaj3961
    @ybiangpaj3961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Looking great Nelly ❤

  • @Pinayunicorn
    @Pinayunicorn 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope he got to visit Siargao! Totally different vibe, people, and the island life is totally different. I had been to different islands and Siargao is the only island I will be coming back to.

  • @oscardamaso7626
    @oscardamaso7626 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Most foreigners experienced in the Philippines were positive. The beautiful country friendliness and welcoming people who are fluent in English. There is nothing wrong with the country.

  • @lorieshaw5632
    @lorieshaw5632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    So it’s about Philippines it’s about your mental health and mental stability!❤Hope you feel better soon better soon

  • @laidbackjuan911
    @laidbackjuan911 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    You rarely hear mental health issues among Filipinos. Mental health issues stems from childhood. Our culture is family/community oriented. We usually get backlash from foreign people because we always give back to our family. At least, we are mentally tough. :p

    • @WhatsupPhilippines
      @WhatsupPhilippines  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @EngrishVT
      @EngrishVT 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      It's becuase we are living a simple life always smiling even if theres hardship

    • @gb0417
      @gb0417 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Hindi naman uso ang mental health sa Phillipines kase ang Pilipino family oriented at may positive outlook sa buhay.

    • @pingyu5141
      @pingyu5141 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah we really don't need Psychiatrists here. Therapists are not as necessary as other countries, where people have to run to for anything like marriage or relationship therapy etc..

    • @MaribelDangan
      @MaribelDangan 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Feel bad to this Guy. Pray that he manage he's mental issue.

  • @romeb2010
    @romeb2010 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What's the link to his vlog? Ive watched that vlog of him before, but it's only now that ive noticed about his issue with mental health. Wishing him healing and peace of mind.

  • @mannyhebron8690
    @mannyhebron8690 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    You shouldn't be travelling, instead book yourself in a mental hospital and fixed your head first, and then you can travel!!

    • @JoselitoVillanueva-e3p
      @JoselitoVillanueva-e3p 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Agree

    • @jeffraymondanexpatslifesty2384
      @jeffraymondanexpatslifesty2384 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Not good. Then he will never travel. He needs to be out traveling if that is his passion. Just make friends that have the same passion and go with them. Big difference.

    • @Sung_go_vlog
      @Sung_go_vlog 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Perfectly said

    • @Antibiotics01
      @Antibiotics01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Agree

    • @aromathera-k6p
      @aromathera-k6p 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Dont do that to someone who is just longing for someone

  • @henat6514
    @henat6514 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    For you guy thats your choice to go wher ever you go, if you are not comfortable to the place where you are in, we Pilipinos only welcome the people who like us, and if you want a perfect place go ahead create your own😂😂

    • @reyculaton4542
      @reyculaton4542 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      know what? we filipinos also do welcome even those who do not like us.. for as long as they don't abuse our hospitality, otherwise they have to think a hundred times first before coming back here..

  • @sweetf8660
    @sweetf8660 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks Nelly, for loving the Phils.

  • @victoriafediuk362
    @victoriafediuk362 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Thailand is his comfort zone, so, I understand how he feels. Thank you for visiting our country Philippines. I'm glad you're ok .

  • @erlindasalvacion7344
    @erlindasalvacion7344 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hi Ms. Nelly thanks for sharing your videos and thank you for your honest opinion and nice reaction. And I hope more videos reactions. Please take care of your self and safe. Almighty God bless you always 🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏💝🙏.

  • @pauljayoma8403
    @pauljayoma8403 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    as long as he's OK,that's something worth to be happy about.live and fight another day.

  • @RjThermo
    @RjThermo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with you, Nelly. Just like the person you reviewed, his happiness might stem from his personal well-being, anxieties, or perhaps his introverted nature. In the Philippines, the warm and welcoming spirit of the people ensures that if you open yourself up, you'll never feel alone. You can always find a sense of family or friendship wherever you go.

  • @eulbertreble1831
    @eulbertreble1831 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Im having social anxiety and depression as well. Damn have a companion that really helps

    • @audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808
      @audraelynnegrimmelhaussen8808 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True. After a traumatic breakup I am so glad I found my cat and he helps me a lot

    • @zensen16
      @zensen16 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      why i have this feeling that its just an excuse to downgrade Phil among other asian country.

    • @happysolitudetv
      @happysolitudetv หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@zensen16true

  • @alaeh29t
    @alaeh29t 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We love you Nelly❤

  • @FamilyLifeComC
    @FamilyLifeComC 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Not all people like the Philippines, because of preference. But I like Philippines to visit, I am planning to tour around the Philippine Islands maybe starting next year. Looking to the locals, food in the provinces.

  • @darnasacebu5914
    @darnasacebu5914 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Nelly girl! Great to see you looking so bare of makeup look and very beautiful. love also your objectivity in reacting to this video. Amping!

  • @ArmalynHaglund
    @ArmalynHaglund 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Depression is not easy. Sir I hope you fine peace and happiness. You can always come back to Philippines anytime.

  • @LazarusEli
    @LazarusEli 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very happy to see you again Miss Nelly... God bless you 🙏🙏🙏😍🥰🤩💐💐💐🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @tedjohnson4451
    @tedjohnson4451 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I get it... After retirement the end of this month... I'm coming out to Cebu City in Mid to Late October for Six to Eight Months. I have a LIST & PLAN of where & how to make connections....

  • @berlinabillano654
    @berlinabillano654 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel sad to him,, I pray get will soon.... 🙏❤️I understand you brother... Some people is like that.. Like my boss... Too... So is not easy you have like that sickness 😥

  • @hildajones1426
    @hildajones1426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you Nelly. Take care always.

  • @rvsc2277
    @rvsc2277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good stay in Philippines, thank you! Stay safe and good luck.

  • @JarerSaro
    @JarerSaro 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its ok don't mind him just one guy with issues hes not in focus god bless him

  • @florentinojavieriii1868
    @florentinojavieriii1868 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THANK U NELLY ❤🥰👍🙏

  • @MARSJUPITER-n3h
    @MARSJUPITER-n3h 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You must first to travel all islands in entire Philippines so that you can choose better scenery..

  • @vincentclaro2945
    @vincentclaro2945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think he is just lost. And i also think he is running away from the darkness he has been through. And whatever it is that he is not telling that makes him depression. He just needs to find a way that makes him happy. He is not prepared mentally. That's why he travels alone and afraid to ask. He could be introvert.

  • @hildajones1426
    @hildajones1426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good on you man.stay where you are happy.life is precious.

  • @bernarditasoler1113
    @bernarditasoler1113 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're free to go anywhere you wish to go.if we go to other countries,we all experience the loneliness and uncertainty.all you have to do is try to adjust and go with the flow.we Filipinos are friendly people and accomodating and helpful.but then later on you 'll find yourself loving the place,and maybe you will plan to stay for good.

  • @victorligan6322
    @victorligan6322 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Nice vlog Nelly…very honest to goodness…

  • @joyjoyofficial
    @joyjoyofficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey even here in Canada if we buy cars or motorbike we need to have a paperwork 😊 wherever you go if you have a mental issue it's de same feeling.

  • @cecillesamson4473
    @cecillesamson4473 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Maybe your are tourism ambassador of Thailand. Just stay in thailand where you are happy.new subs.of your channel ❤🇵🇭

  • @asiandude8361
    @asiandude8361 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I'm a Filipino guy and of course the Philippines isn't for everyone.

    • @rising_sun8682
      @rising_sun8682 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Philippines is for Filipinos like us. We don't need foreigners to compete with our resources.

    • @gangstagummybear3432
      @gangstagummybear3432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm from the US and ph is the only place for me

    • @Jorg-po6oi
      @Jorg-po6oi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you. youre very right !

  • @lorieshaw5632
    @lorieshaw5632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Exactly my point Nelly!!❤

  • @tesssheets42
    @tesssheets42 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    mental health is more important to take care of first im a pilipino but i understant his situation.

  • @ybiangpaj3961
    @ybiangpaj3961 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Prayer for this guy to find his happiness. God bless him and you Nelly.

  • @LilithofHearts
    @LilithofHearts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm an islander, moved from the city to the island with my family, so I understood him in a way. Honestly, Boracay is not the best place for anxiety and socializing on a deeper level, which I assume he's also looking for. It's a "party" island. People are not really there to "chill" and it's too touristy. Then, Cebu? Ugggh. I lived there for 13 years and the struggle was real. Better than Manila though, if you're looking for a big city scene. It's not for everyone! So, as someone who has traveled extensively in the Philippines (I'm Filipino), I found happiness in two places: Siargao and Siquijor. Currently, living in Siquijor. As soon as we moved in to our new home 3 years ago, there was a feeling of actually belonging to a community. It's different for everyone, so find your place in your own corner of the world. I'm sorry the Philippines was not where he found "home." Maybe he should stay away from "touristy" and super crowded places here. It's awful, I know.

    • @allynsworld8317
      @allynsworld8317 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Traffic problem in my home town Cebu City is also make it worst.

    • @happysolitudetv
      @happysolitudetv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I suggest Davao Oriental province. Plenty of serene beaches and waterfalls

  • @zhaqln7309
    @zhaqln7309 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love u nelly!!! ❤❤❤

  • @cherrylgs9872
    @cherrylgs9872 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You look stunning Nelly!

  • @mar-vil1606
    @mar-vil1606 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    tbh, he's the type that wants everything done fast and easy...i live in the western part of the US, and not everything is taken cared off in the same hour or two, much less day or week...what works for others didnt work for him...he has different wants, needs, and expectations...do what you gotta do, its just the way life is...i watch alot of foreigners enjoying life in the PH, dont get me wrong, foreigners find some things to be an inconvenient, but that doesnt interfere with their decision to stay and live there. cool, u dont like dealing with paperwork, so do i...if too many paperwork, i usually dont bother, so i know how you feel...but it doesnt bother me to a point i need to move elsewhere LOL

  • @inthevillage5668
    @inthevillage5668 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its good that you are back to Thailand, that your health is back to normal. Sorry that you feel anxiety, mental health while you are in Philippines 🇵🇭.

  • @Jorg-po6oi
    @Jorg-po6oi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    YOURE SO RIGHT. !
    YOU MAKE BEST CHOICE . THERE ARE MUCH MUCH BETTER PLACES.....

  • @nitashoshani1762
    @nitashoshani1762 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Too much expectation is too much frustration bro..settle first your mental health before you go back to the Philippines..but rather not to come back there if you did not enjoyed in your first travel..home is sweet home Cebu..❤😂

  • @PototoyYak
    @PototoyYak 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I dont care if you leave the Phil. Nothing to lose.

    • @MSalem-gt5dy
      @MSalem-gt5dy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think it’s not a big deal he left the Philippines. I think he has a very unstable set of mind because of his mental health, which he admittedly say at the beginning of his video. He’s alone so nobody he can mingle with comfortably. It’s just right to leave the Philippines.

    • @ainakho8241
      @ainakho8241 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s rude! Did you understand what he said? His reason? Try to watch it again.

    • @riaferry4417
      @riaferry4417 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's harsh.

    • @riaferry4417
      @riaferry4417 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ainakho8241people comment without reading.

  • @StephanieManigos
    @StephanieManigos 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's just so unlucky to feel he's anxiety in the Philippines,,so sad ,,but I hope you get well and feel good again and just go back to the Philippines ❤❤

  • @antoniosantiago9794
    @antoniosantiago9794 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I USED TO LOVE AND WATCH YOU GUYS! YOU GUYS WERE GREAT!

  • @vicjdrapiza5323
    @vicjdrapiza5323 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'll Inform the Philippines is Archipelago so technically it's not advisable to do land Travel specially when Raining Season,it's rare that Tourists Got Bored in the Philippines well It's Really Purely Internal Factors Personal Experience is Hard To Fight Versus the Beauty of the Philippines

  • @Spy-hp8ki
    @Spy-hp8ki 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    There are some vloggers who experience negative things when being in a new place. Some vloggers, too, have experienced negative things in Thailand and returned to the Philippines. ... Different strokes; different folks, guys. Remember: it isn't the place ... it's just the person. Nelly!!! 😁

  • @angelicaeguac672
    @angelicaeguac672 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's entirely up to your choices - no one is forcing you I guess so ! Every person has its own experience whether pleasant or not but you're free to do however you choose to experienced.

  • @lorieshaw5632
    @lorieshaw5632 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I hope you got help from a therapist and your health is much more important then perhaps if you feel better then you can plan again exploring our beautiful Philippines particularly Palawan that you love❤

  • @VirginiaGo-rj5vs
    @VirginiaGo-rj5vs 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Nelly , Very happy to see you again Love your new contents Enjoyable and educational. Your fan from Cebu City.❤🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @myrnafox1066
    @myrnafox1066 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You seems happy now Nellie you look younger and relaxed 😊❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @7Archie4
    @7Archie4 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Nelly 😍

  • @marissaavila3083
    @marissaavila3083 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It"s good to know he is back to normal.

  • @Macmacus
    @Macmacus 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Since he stays in the beach in Thailand, he should try the mountains of Northern Luzon or Rizal and Volcanoes of Bicol etc.

    • @WhatsupPhilippines
      @WhatsupPhilippines  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Good one

    • @mongramosjr
      @mongramosjr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@WhatsupPhilippinestry to climb the Mt. Mayon halfway. or hike the Magayon Trio, volcanic mountains in Albay.

    • @erlindaderro5605
      @erlindaderro5605 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nope, he is not fit to go there either( in the mountains of Luzon or Rizal) seeing & knowing how mentally troubled he is! If i could give him an advise, i must tell him not to keep on travelling anymore. Hevmust stay in Thailand coz it is obvious it is the place where he could only adjust and consider for himself. Isaksak nalang niya ang baga niya dyan! Ph is still a wonderful country for Filipinos and nit for him!

    • @duhduh14
      @duhduh14 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No, let him leave. We don't need him lmao

  • @abdullahmuzzainahcutamora1520
    @abdullahmuzzainahcutamora1520 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This guy is funny ... 😂

  • @timi69siri30
    @timi69siri30 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Feel good everything will be ok

  • @darwinmendoza7061
    @darwinmendoza7061 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think I know how he feels. I can be in a very lovely place around a lot of people having fun and yet feel really sad and depressed. I remember being new in the US in my early 20's and I wanted to visit the nicest places I dreamed about as a child. Because I started working right away and all my relatives being too busy, I went to Disneyland by myself. It was as pretty as I expected and I was around a lot of people having fun, yet I felt really alone because I was not with them. I was just around them. I went to one ride after another and one show after another and I could only cry because I couldn't enjoy everything with the people I love that I just wanted ro go home. That was more than 30 years ago and I have cultivated friends through the years. But I would never do that again.

  • @SWENternet
    @SWENternet 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wish him good health. Prayers from a Filipino

  • @QSVY-n1v
    @QSVY-n1v 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    just do whatever you want,. its your opinion and decisions to made I respect your feelings.

  • @ednacaluza6007
    @ednacaluza6007 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You look great and younger Nelly !!!!

  • @Maribel-zg4bj
    @Maribel-zg4bj 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    No satisfaction instead must thankful of what he have HAAAY Life 🙏😇

  • @muybien6457
    @muybien6457 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi, Nelly 🥰 Nice watching your vlog

  • @charlescerillo55
    @charlescerillo55 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take care, Nelly, I missed your blog...

  • @shirleygamboa5277
    @shirleygamboa5277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good Day Nelly❤