Growing Up As An Iranian-American [Becoming Iranian-American, Pt. 3] | AJ+

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  • @benb405
    @benb405 6 ปีที่แล้ว +751

    "This is our identity. We are two arms. You want me to cut one? We can't." I wept.

    • @jwalkin5123
      @jwalkin5123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Ben Ballard , and both arms are attached to one body, the body of all humans on earth. We all belong to one body, humanity.

    • @samos4924
      @samos4924 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      His dad is the absolute sweetest.

    • @lorenab5309
      @lorenab5309 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know the feeling

    • @gordiasgordian925
      @gordiasgordian925 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I liked the metaphor and believe it is true.

    • @RafaelArandas
      @RafaelArandas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm not white, and even *I* WAS ALMOST CRYING

  • @ByBy001
    @ByBy001 6 ปีที่แล้ว +507

    When your dad cried, I cried too.

    • @mbm_23sep
      @mbm_23sep 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i think trump should see that part. i cried too

    • @Witharmita
      @Witharmita 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I cried my eyelashes off

    • @RafaelArandas
      @RafaelArandas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The Persians are a noble people, they have a goodness to them which will transform their world and ours...one day.

    • @uniqueLeo08
      @uniqueLeo08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i'm doing this now

    • @shahrzadyekta5147
      @shahrzadyekta5147 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too.

  • @Sam-fe3pr
    @Sam-fe3pr 6 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    The dad’s crying 😢.
    You can tell he has
    a sweet soul.

    • @amoomemat9311
      @amoomemat9311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Samantha Iranian old generation are angels, most of them

    • @Schar.ar.youtube
      @Schar.ar.youtube 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i was about like ur comment that u noticed u are so pretty :*

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amoomemat9311 Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @SaroDogTraining
    @SaroDogTraining 6 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Hi Yara. I am an Armenian-Iranian-Canadian. Talk about identity crises! I left Iran after the war started at the age of 15. Your documentary made me think bout my life and reflect on it. I would love to go back to Iran and visit someday. But, just like your mom, here(Canada) is my home now. Thank you for sharing your story. Love your dad and mom. Salam bere-soon. Chakeram.

    • @iran-persiapatriot9421
      @iran-persiapatriot9421 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Saro Boghozian
      I hope you Come to Iran
      I'm from Shiraz sry my English is bad

    • @SaroDogTraining
      @SaroDogTraining 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hatman. I would someday. When I was a child, I traveled to Isfahan and Arak but not Shiraz. There are so many places to visit in Iran.

    • @saeedvazirian
      @saeedvazirian 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You're either Iranian or you are not. There is no identity crisis.

    • @wininspn
      @wininspn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He's probably ethnically Armenian from Iran. There are long-established Armenian communities in Iran.

    • @arzhangemamifar7702
      @arzhangemamifar7702 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Saro Dog Training
      hi , do you know Gegard Musasi?
      the UFC fighter.

  • @bethanybouley6679
    @bethanybouley6679 6 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Yara, I cannot say how much your series has touched my heart, as an american who grew up with no contact to anyone from the middle east at all I admit that after 9/11 i shared the fear of many, and tragically all middle eastern people and muslim's were blanketed as "terrorists". Thankfully i know better than that now and my eyes have been opened in so many ways, i see how dangerous fear becomes, how toxic, it leads to ignorance and causes catastrophic damage to EVERYONE.
    And now i have fallen in love with one Iranian man, and his beautiful family, incredible culture, and therefore all Persians/Iranians have a very special place in my heart, and i speak openly and untiringly to my fellow Americans to try and help break the barriers that really have no substance at all in the first place! As the man said "we iranian's are not our government".
    I pray for all prejudice to end and for a world without borders, no matter how hopeless this may seem, we must never give up. My thoughts and prayers are with all Iranian's every day, right now it is scary

    • @miladvaziri3
      @miladvaziri3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you for all of your support and love and good feelings, as a iranian appreciate you and wish have very good life with your husband

  • @nimazarandi7042
    @nimazarandi7042 6 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    Dear Yara, I am a medical student here in US. I came from Iran two years ago when I was 27 with my wife. Having single entry visa, during the past two years both of us have lost our grandmas and we could not even go to the funerals. When I was watching your videos, tears come to my eyes and fall on my iPad, especially when you showed videos of your Iran trip and how families and friends get together full of love and joy. I really like your videos and how you are moving forward with them, please continue. BTW, loved the Tahchin, big fan!

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I pray you find healing and peace in God.

    • @raymond3380
      @raymond3380 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      شما از زرند کرمانی؟

    • @DamienHensonTech
      @DamienHensonTech 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Salam, my mom had a similar situation when she was young. Her father and brother died and she couldn’t go back to Iran. You’re not alone. Stay strong 🇺🇸 🇮🇷

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @alishalchi1260
    @alishalchi1260 6 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    As a millennial Iraqi American, I have grown up in the similar exact situation. Growing up with Arabic speaking parents, people looking at me different in school (fuzz moustache) being called terrorist after 9/11 and hating my name. I don't mind it now and embrace my culture. Thanks Yara for showing me we aren't alone.

    • @alishalchi1260
      @alishalchi1260 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Mesopotamian Kurd let me guess... You are gonna call me a pig because Iraqi Kurds don't have a country. Not my fault pal.

    • @alir919
      @alir919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dont listen to Mesopotamian Kurd. When they go low. You go high. you are better then him.

    • @nooraskrive
      @nooraskrive 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I totally understand, I’m Iranian and Iraqi and it was very complicated balancing both cultures growing up in America. I was born in Baghdad and now have an American citizenship but even though I have a citizenship I’m still treated like a foreigner. I used to hate being Middle Eastern when I was little but now I’ve learned to love where I come from which is two very beautiful cultures, the sad thing is there are some Iraqis that shame me for also being Iranian but I know that it doesn’t represent all Iraqi people. 🇮🇷❤️🇮🇶

    • @saeedvazirian
      @saeedvazirian 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Why would you call yourself an american after what the US did to your country? Let me guess. Lots of denial and desperate feel-good factors?

    • @MichiganUSASingaporeSEAsia
      @MichiganUSASingaporeSEAsia 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ali Shalchi in Michigan?

  • @aaronsaenz9638
    @aaronsaenz9638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    As a Mexican-American or“Chicano” I’ve felt the same exact way that Yari has felt not being American enough or Mexican enough. I’m proud to be an American and also to celebrate and cherish my Mexican cultural identity. May the Iranians and other groups that come be welcomed and celebrated.

  • @IvanTravels
    @IvanTravels 6 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    I love this series, and I’m not even Persian ❤️

    • @ysh4563
      @ysh4563 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ivan Travels props to you man😉

    • @zxcmvbn
      @zxcmvbn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ivan Travels It’s okay, I declare you an honorary Persian! Lol

    • @MH-up1xe
      @MH-up1xe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i'm not a cat either.

    • @psxbr60
      @psxbr60 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rick Footson 😂

    • @thesoundofthesuburbs
      @thesoundofthesuburbs 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not Persian either, although according to AncestryDNA I am... Idk why I am even watching this.

  • @sk36271
    @sk36271 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I cried a little when your dad started to cry, because at the end of the day we immigrants are on the same boot, even though we're from different countries. My dad left Algeria for France as an 18-year-old. Then, in 1986, he moved my entire family to Belgium, where I was born. My dad has spent more of his life in France and Belgium then he has in Algeria. It automatically became home, and Algeria is a souvenir that is getting further and further away from him and definitely from me as I never visited.

  • @E_99LDN
    @E_99LDN 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I appreciate this video so much Yara, honestly as a British born Iranian this is exactly how I feel. An Iranian among the British and a British among Iranians, its the worst living paradox and to know I’m not the only foreign born Iranian that feels like this makes me feel 1000000x times better. Yara damet garm!

  • @VegHui
    @VegHui 6 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    love how personal you got with your life story!!

  • @sumayah8823
    @sumayah8823 6 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Beautiful documentary Yara, a very interesting and well made series. As someone who speaks Persian (despite not being Iranian or from a Farsi speaking household lol) this was very intriguing to watch. Dastetun dard nakone :)

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

    • @agostocobain2729
      @agostocobain2729 ปีที่แล้ว

      How’d you learn? That’s really interesting to me. Please tell me

  • @nbkw2ae
    @nbkw2ae 6 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    As a Mexican American, I related so much to this. As Ive gotten older I’ve connected more with my Mexican culture than when I was young

    • @tree3y763
      @tree3y763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dino Tinajero well Mexico is literally right down the corner you can go back and forth as much as you want it’s different for Iranians.

    • @igweogba6774
      @igweogba6774 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      When you finally realize you are not one of them

    • @LifeOfTheParty323
      @LifeOfTheParty323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. I remember growing up hating Spanish music. These days, i welcome it.

    • @diegocanullopez4299
      @diegocanullopez4299 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yøsh K true, it’s only a 3 hour flight from Florida where I live to my hometown in Mexico

    • @danialparviz4036
      @danialparviz4036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yøsh K i legit
      Been to iran 7 times now even as a american born iranian its not that hard since my family pays the 1,000 dollars, but im just gonna say, the los angles iranian part is way wrong, i’ve lived in tehran for couple of months and its been way different than tehrengeles, i think that the roads are more dirty, different stores, different types of people (different attitudes)

  • @enkay.1209
    @enkay.1209 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    The last scene with his father was so poignant and beautiful.

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @hyedefinition1080
    @hyedefinition1080 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    As an Indian American who went back to India and studied there for 6 years I can relate to your story. Also, please give your dad a hug from all of us, he is such a beautiful man!

    • @luckybhakil
      @luckybhakil 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm an Indian American who went back to study in India for 6 years too! This is spookily similar

    • @SatishKumar-rc4pl
      @SatishKumar-rc4pl 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Get out from America

  • @manliomartinezbarona5627
    @manliomartinezbarona5627 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I went to visit Iran like ten years ago, I travelled many place there, since that trip I became a fierce defender of Iranians, they are marvellous people.
    My best wishes to iranians from México

    • @nininizzlebaby2333
      @nininizzlebaby2333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🇮🇷❤️🇲🇽

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @miladmzz
    @miladmzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I left Iran 10 years ago when I was 17 and I have been hopping from one country to another ever since, I can call none of them my home! And the Iranian inside me is never going to wear off !

    • @miladmzz
      @miladmzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      not very much compared to what ahmadinejad did to Iran

    • @gwoptalk1268
      @gwoptalk1268 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      babash rafte ba yeki ke irani nist ezdevaj karde🙄

  • @lynnegulbrand4052
    @lynnegulbrand4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your father made me cry. I don't know how I would feel in his situation especially being torn between 2 countries that he loves. I love the Iranian people and culture. The Iranian men that came here to Mississippi in the 1970s were a great bunch of guys. They were in the military and studied at the AF base here. They loved to cook and make friends with the people here. My mother opened her home to them and they were very respectful to us. We had many parties at our house. I miss those days. Thank you for making these videos and making me remember the good times with so many great people.

  • @arshisot6306
    @arshisot6306 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love this series so much! You and your family are so beautiful, you look so much like your dad. Thank you for showcasing your beautiful culture, the Iranian-American experience, and your personal life as well :).

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @mandyjamali2224
    @mandyjamali2224 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had a different experience, being a millennial Iranian Canadian myself. I was born in Rafsanjan, Iran and immigrated to Canada with my family in 1997, where I was raised and attended school. Growing up, I had a lot of internalized shame that I felt about my culture and heritage and wanted nothing more than to run away from it. I was determined to be fluent in English and forget about my Iranian heritage. It wasn’t until fall of 2016 when I learned about the ancient history of Iran and how it used to be the Persian Empire thousand of years ago. It really opened my eyes and made me see my home country in a different light. Now, as a 32 year old, I love, appreciate and fully embrace my Iranian identity. I look forward to Iranian holidays like Eide Nowruz and Chaharshanbe Suri every year, and I even started practicing how to speak Farsi more fluently (I can sort of speak, understand, read and and write it, but not as well as I should) so that I can communicate with my extended family more. This was such a great series, Yara! ❤️ Great job! ☺️

  • @Theuser2022
    @Theuser2022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Why am I crying with your dad? :( this video was so emotional for me

  • @brucewayne7422
    @brucewayne7422 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This series resonates so much with me being an immigrant - Kenyan 🇰🇪 who came to the US as student like your parents and now 25 years later straddling both worlds of being a dual citizen 🇰🇪🇺🇸. Growing up in Kenya, I was lucky enough to learn the history of Iran 🇮🇷 and other countries under more objective circumstances than the Western media was projecting at the time. Thank you so much for introducing us to the rich culture, history, struggle and joys of Iranian Americans 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @ninaghodsi
    @ninaghodsi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As an iranian raised in Spain, going through a cultural identity crisis in my adulthood, man... I cried like a baby. We need more platforms to discuss this unique way of approaching migration and culture for iranians. This was truly awesome!

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @jwalkin5123
    @jwalkin5123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Iranians are great people.

    • @outlawtv6490
      @outlawtv6490 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      korosh mohebalian do you still like America, because America likes Iran it’s sad to see them fight

  • @mohamedali21546
    @mohamedali21546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    the end was extermly hard to watch i too have to live with more than one identities i lived 10 years in iraq and 6 years in cyprus 6 years and still in germany and i feel divided i dont know where home is anymore all iraqi people tell me i dont speak or act iraqi and i for sure do not feel like a cypriot or german so i understand how you feel in a way

    • @if6436
      @if6436 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mohammed Ali Cyprus? North or South?

    • @mohamedali21546
      @mohamedali21546 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I F south the greek part

    • @ArianTheDon88
      @ArianTheDon88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      we are humans :), much love brother you are not alone, ever!

  • @yartecta5055
    @yartecta5055 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    i'm half Persian half African American ...
    i know that's odd but i live in new york and i've been to Tehrangeles for like hundred times and everybody was looking at me and asking themselves : is he gonna shoplift or something ?
    cause what a black dude wants in a Persian store ?
    i have three identities i have to cut both of my arms to be known as a fellow AMERICAN and the part that you visited your family in Iran kinna brought me to tears cause i really miss them so much .

    • @yartecta5055
      @yartecta5055 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my own persian family in Tehran i haven't meet them yet .

    • @alir919
      @alir919 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yar Tecta: I hope you will one day bro.. possibly whole family could take trip!

    • @psxbr60
      @psxbr60 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow, that’s a cool mix

    • @Aquarian231990
      @Aquarian231990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      WOW that's so cool, I'm speaking to Persian guy now and we're looking to date, I'm Haitian and Dominican so I would love to see where a future with this guy can go and someday marriage and children... you're mix gives me hope... God Bless!!!

    • @payamabbasi3555
      @payamabbasi3555 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it's so awesome that you're part Iranian and part African American. Black guys are so cool

  • @mshambay
    @mshambay 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I identified so much your story, especially as my parents also thought we would go back to Iran when we first came to America. After Khomeini died in 1989 and the mullahs stayed in power, we realized that there was no home to go back to anymore and we had to shift to making America our home. Thank you for sharing!

    • @saeedvazirian
      @saeedvazirian 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      They're not mullahs. They're Imams.

    • @saeedvazirian
      @saeedvazirian 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Iran is a very livable and beautiful country. No home? pft!

  • @ms.soul75
    @ms.soul75 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Your mother is sooo beautiful!

  • @BITAsKITCHEN
    @BITAsKITCHEN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of my most favorite videos out there, telling our immigrant journey as Iranian-Americans! Thank you Yara and family!

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @kourosha2869
    @kourosha2869 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    LONG LIVE IRAN

  • @jiro4226
    @jiro4226 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Keep these episodes coming

  • @amitshah3586
    @amitshah3586 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m a first American born Indian (South Asia) on my dads side of the family
    I’m second generation American born Indian on my mom side of the family, since she was actual born in Ethiopia and Indian.
    Just like you I’ve had the same kind of experience (minus the living back in the motherland) for me this what I define which is which
    India is my motherland - that’s where my ancestors , culture, heritage, traditions, and second languages I can speak come from
    America is my homeland - here is where I was born, grew up, and went to school. For me when people say where home is I tell them Chicago my home, and I have certain traditions and culture here and language as well.
    Both have two different places in my life

    • @Whimswirl
      @Whimswirl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amit Shah how can your mum be born in both Ethiopia and India? Lol

    • @pinkyfinger9851
      @pinkyfinger9851 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Whimswirl he said has indian origin but was born in ethiopia

  • @miriamz4451
    @miriamz4451 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I realize that your mother's statement at the end was meant to be a joyful one, saying that America is home now, but somehow there is something sad about it as well; a resignation, that this is simply the path her life took. I grew up as a German-Moroccan in the United States, and see this sentiment echoed so much in many of my parent's friends as they've grown older. There is something so all-consuming about American culture, that it becomes more and more dificult to call anything else home. I moved back it Germany 5 years ago, and have to say that for me it was the right choice. Of course I will never have a simple answer when it comes to identity, but for me personally, this is more home than the US ever was. I don't want to say that this should be what anyone else chooses, and of course, situations are very different. I just wish that more people realized that they do have that choice.

    • @Ryan-qr8yl
      @Ryan-qr8yl ปีที่แล้ว

      Very nice insight, what do you think made Germany more of a home for you than america?

  • @myartinjon
    @myartinjon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wherever in this world, if you stay for a period of time learn and speak the local language, you're hooked for life, that's the best human attribute.

  • @RafaelArandas
    @RafaelArandas 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It was honestly a very well-made and moving video. Thank you, sir. I wonder whether the Persians in America interact much with the Jews here. Both are such ancient cultures....

    • @nininizzlebaby2333
      @nininizzlebaby2333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LA has the biggest population of Persian Jews, so yes. ❤️

  • @ramins3877
    @ramins3877 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Man this was incredible. Thank you for sharing! Growing up Canadian-Iranian, this hit home 100%.

  • @alanhoggan7232
    @alanhoggan7232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Got me right in the feels when your dad started crying, god bless. I'm Scottish and sometimes have an identity crisis because we are also British. Some people are unionists some nationalists and it can get annoying. Have a good day :)

  • @johndoe-wv3nu
    @johndoe-wv3nu 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Yours is a common story. I grew up in the 70's/80's in an area that had a high influx of Portuguese immigrants. The parents struggled with the language and culture. They worked hard, followed the laws and built lives. The parents planned to return. None did though. Their lives are here. Their Americans. Even though I called them "greenhorns", now that I don't live in that area of the country any longer, I miss the Portuguese foods and bakeries, the festival's. I'm still friends with some "greenhorns" and their children are no culturally different from mine.

    • @jeffmorse645
      @jeffmorse645 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I grew up near Gustine, California which has a large Portuguese population (and a famous "Festa" every year). I can't imagine living in the San Joaquin Valley without my Portuguese neighbors and friends.... and my part Portuguese cousins. "Okies" and Portuguese in this area had a lot in common.

  • @anagraciela9191
    @anagraciela9191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your mom is stunning and I was in tears with you and your dad by the end. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

  • @yossisavage8732
    @yossisavage8732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Great Series. Hope to see more like this !

    • @hodzal5258
      @hodzal5258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      M. Sami thats really ignorant of you. You can hate the country but not the people just because he is Israeli doesn't mean he hates Muslim or Iranians

    • @hodzal5258
      @hodzal5258 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      M. Sami you sorta assumed he hated Muslim

    • @nbkw2ae
      @nbkw2ae 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      M. Sami I’m Mexican American and I can relate to this story because I felt that way. Especially not feeling American enough in America and Mexican enough in Mexico. Anyone he’s an immigrant and raised with two cultures can appreciate this video.

    • @Ullahussain
      @Ullahussain 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      im muslim and I go to events to watch holocaust survivors speak all the time just because it's interesting, you don't have to be of a religion or ethnicity to watch a video about it

    • @TheYoucompaq
      @TheYoucompaq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Viva Palestina ("Long live Palestine")

  • @UKLeonie
    @UKLeonie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My parents came from the Caribbean to the UK both under 8yrs. I identify as Black British Caribbean or African British Caribbean, I love all parts of my upbringing and the chaos too. When your dad cried I cried too. 2yrs you made this series,but still so impactful.

  • @diamasanchez
    @diamasanchez 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I love that your dad married out his nationality. I hope and pray one day I married a Iranian , why because that's just what I like. I love this!!!!!

    • @abett6003
      @abett6003 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Elevation Church is garbage : / you should get yourself into a real church..those guys are false prophets and liars..Watch this video and see what really salvation is >> th-cam.com/video/f37i8YJh5OI/w-d-xo.html

  • @elhambanaie6132
    @elhambanaie6132 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These videos are amazing and show accurately the amount of diversity in California regarding Iranian-Americans. As an Iranian-American myself who was born in Iran and raised in California, I understand many of the feelings you have felt and that others have felt as well. I love visiting Iran and seeing my family there, but America has now become my home. My parents feel the same way your parents feel and this video was so emotional and accurate. Thank you for bringing these stories to the eyes of others.

  • @vichands3743
    @vichands3743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww, My heart goes out to your dad and may God bless him and bless your family

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @freedomchance9982
    @freedomchance9982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this. This is my first time watching your videos and I just watched each of the first 3. I am AFrican American and I have just started to research my background with Ancestry DNA. Much love to you and your family and thank you for this beautiful and amazing content.

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @jayonez137
    @jayonez137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great story!
    Thank you!!!!
    I was born in the US to Italian parents.
    I grew up with the best of both worlds.
    I can identify with so much of your life story.
    God bless

  • @jordankhajavipour4764
    @jordankhajavipour4764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video series brilliantly reflects my experience growing up as an Iranian-American in Orange County. A fantastic mix cultural awareness, historical context, emotion depiction, and authentic experiences that has widely been untold until now. It was easy and self-affirming to embrace this realistic representation that taps into the nuances of lived experiences for young Iranian-Americans.

  • @christianpaulintia1699
    @christianpaulintia1699 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I cried. Thank you for this beautiful story. It filled my heart.

  • @palsshin
    @palsshin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when your father cried, my eyes teared, very nice job

  • @IvanTravels
    @IvanTravels 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a child of immigrants to the US, this speaks so much to me.

  • @ellizamanian4164
    @ellizamanian4164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your mom is so beautiful and your dad is soooooo real. Love it. His cry made me cry. Beautiful fam. Love from Toronto. ❤

  • @sobikale1588
    @sobikale1588 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re the best and tanks for sharing our culture, hamin 🙏🏻

  • @nancyaragon9840
    @nancyaragon9840 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just viewed this episode...so beautiful! We immigrants, children of immigrants and for that matter all minorities, including black Americans live in two identities and to cut one off is to lose one of your arms....as expressed by your father. Beautiful. Thank you.

  • @BAn-mu4qe
    @BAn-mu4qe 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am crying as I watch your father cr.ies This how African-Americans often feel, too....I look forward to your next film on your culture. This was very touching.

  • @DonML83
    @DonML83 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have similar feeling like your dad, A Vietnamese - American, I love America so much, and I think this is my country and this is my home, but in me I am a Vietnamese.
    Your dad has great soul.

  • @xe7535
    @xe7535 6 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Ayy his dad married a Salvadorean

    • @persianguy1524
      @persianguy1524 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Xochilt Escalante Persian guys like latinas and blondes lol.

    • @josecarranza7555
      @josecarranza7555 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Curvy latina women are the greatest.

    • @johnjohn1890able
      @johnjohn1890able 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Persian woman are Beautiful & that's coming from a Mexican/American...

    • @ifyourespondyourmad.2409
      @ifyourespondyourmad.2409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@persianguy1524 well since yall r takin our Latinas, we will take yours Persian girls too 🇲🇽

  • @leeraewi
    @leeraewi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing. My parents spent some time in Iran in the early 1970s, so it has always been a bit a part of my family's story even though we're all Canadian. I think that it was particularly impactful as they were so young and sheltered when they moved there that it really opened their eyes and changed their world view. I'm really grateful that they had that experience, as their stories gave me a critical perspective on nationalism and identity from a young age. My brother and I have a very warm spot in our hearts for Persian culture. My brother, for instance, is a film historian and recently wrote a very personal essay about the influence of Iranian cinema on his life. We all have a lot to learn about and celebrate in each other.

    • @sonnyradcliffe8365
      @sonnyradcliffe8365 ปีที่แล้ว

      Please be Iranian voice and support protest for women rights in iran, 22 year old girl #mahsaamini murdered by MUSLIMS ( Islamic Republic ) and "morality police" because of compulsory hijab, we want your help to destroy these corrupt government, we are not "Muslim" and we want our FREEDOM back, we don't expect "mullahs". Please share, post, and story to help us🙏🙏❤ #no_to_islamicrepublic #mahsa_amini #freedom #secularism #dont_be_silent #stop_islam

  • @pascale8483
    @pascale8483 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m Haitian American and this video really resonated with me. My mom moved to the US from Haiti when she was 20 and my dad’s parents moved from Haiti in their 20s and met in the US, where they had him. I always felt too Haitian to be Black-American, too Black to be white-American, and too American to be Haitian. But I’ve gotten more comfortable with embracing both sides of who I am without having to remove part of my identity :)

    • @JonesyFit
      @JonesyFit 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pascale G I’m confused, Haitians and Black Americans are essentially the same people. Why do you separate us?

    • @veggiedisease123
      @veggiedisease123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JonesyFit Uhhh Haitian Americans def have their own history and culture. They both came from West Africa, and deep down maintain that culture, but they've become different since then.

  • @WajeehLion
    @WajeehLion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this video was an emotional video for me, I can relate in so many ways... I was born by the Red Sea in Jeddah City in west Saudi Arabia. My family had great roots in respecting knowledge, raising me to admire education and explore the outside world. I grew up in the U.S. since I was in middle school, I certainly feel that I am American but also very much so an Arab. People can be harsh here in the U.S. calling me an alien, and Arabs view me as American. Coming to the United States has opened my eyes to a different philosophy of life, enhanced my ability to think out of the box, and has helped me build and organize solutions that many would not be able to find. After Graduating From K-State I came out as the first openly gay man from Saudi Arabia; being gay is punishable by death in my home country, so I was forced to apply for asylum in the U.S. Since then, I have used this platform to speak out about human rights violations, becoming an advocate for these unalienable rights across the U.S. and abroad. anyways thank you for this video

  • @rafft.2857
    @rafft.2857 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As an Iranian/Italian/Canadian I’m always asked what I relate to the most. It’s so hard to answer bc all are inextricably part of me. I loved this series and this video in particular - the end made me bawl! 😭❤️❤️

  • @etienneedward4449
    @etienneedward4449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for making this series, I watched all four of them and my favorite one is your family ! I would love to cook with your Mom and get to eat the food and talk with your dad his heart is in all the right places ! I just simply love your family! Thanks again you did a great job on this ! Best wishes to you always !

  • @interfear1
    @interfear1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an immigrant, the words of Amir Elmjouie at the end of this video will forever resonate with me.

  • @faysalalqassab
    @faysalalqassab 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yara, thank you for posting your story, and thank you and your family for being so vulnerable and transparent...I cried with your father and you in the end and I could feel and empathize the stuggle and hardship your mom faced in the second half of her life so far. I hope your mom is not alone and you are always visiting her and I hope she has a partner who loves her and makes her feel special.
    My name is Faysal, and I am Iraqi; born in Baghdad Iraq. Luckily, I was born in a family of doctors and teachers who brought us up believing that all people are meant to be respected, and if someone asks you for help you help them as best as you can. My family never taught us to be bias or racist or prejudice. We learned to cherish our similarity and respect and tolerate our differences. We learned that discussions in religion and politics were sensitive and could cause hatred if one was not careful.
    I learned that in many cultures and places around the world politics and religious arguments could be challenged and tested if misused and misunderstood. People with bad intentions could use the difference to create hatred and conflict for selfish hurtful reasons.
    My family an I decided always to treat all others like we wanted to be treated and to forgive and forget if their was any misunderstanding.
    Today I am glad to say that I have close friends from Iran and I learn a lot from them about history, culture, art, literature, sciences.
    Thank you again for your work. I wish you the best and I wish you safety and easiness with your continued success.
    Your neighbor and peaceful friend

  • @jakehohsfield
    @jakehohsfield ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful family and amazing story, thanks for sharing!

  • @ryuuzakilover
    @ryuuzakilover 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    When his dad started crying ....man I died....I'm waching this at work. Such a sweet heart!
    From a American Tajik.
    Keep up the good work

  • @nnm8
    @nnm8 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing your story with us

  • @surajravindranezhuthachan9427
    @surajravindranezhuthachan9427 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Yara, I've already saw your early Iranian - American videos. But this one with your family was beautiful, I think it's gonna touch every Iranian - American deep at their hearts. Great family bro!!! All the best for further videos.

  • @pdahandyman
    @pdahandyman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What your father said hit me hard, Yara. I understand why he's so emotional over the choice. Your family is Iranian-American, and that's beautiful and amazing. All cultures add to what it means to be American and make us all better. Well, not all, but most ;) I look forward to more stories!

  • @AlexanderSiassi
    @AlexanderSiassi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful work Yara. My father is Iranian (from Tehran too) and my mother is Russian, yet I was born here in Los Angeles. This hit so close to home. I feel the exact same way... torn at times. But I've learned that there is no need to be 100% anything, nobody is a pure 100%.

  • @aryanpers4173
    @aryanpers4173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Yara, I'm Dutch Iranian, I enjoyed your doc. The best wishes for you and your family. ✌

  • @naomigodblessed9373
    @naomigodblessed9373 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome story! Thanks for sharing, Yala.

  • @ashutoshbalwaria
    @ashutoshbalwaria 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your father put every hardworking and honest immigrant's thoughts into beautiful words. Kudos!

  • @mohammadyamini5275
    @mohammadyamini5275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re so amazing person thanku for your story i love Iran i love peace🇮🇷🇮🇷🇮🇷❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hiteshgaur3214
    @hiteshgaur3214 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You made me into tears , and those dad hugs were heart melting, I wish I had such father, morally and emotionally intertwined

  • @comprendersi1444
    @comprendersi1444 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    When his dad talked about his identity I thought my soul was weeping. That was beautiful and also tragic. I feel for him. His parents, the Iranian community, everyone who had endured what it’s like to be an other are so beautiful

  • @FarhanAhmed-nc6ks
    @FarhanAhmed-nc6ks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is really touching yara....I am an Indian Muslim..blessed exactly like you...but I"m glad that you have the guts to show that side of your family that I never can't...!
    Good Luck to you

  • @fatimagic1365
    @fatimagic1365 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    yara's father's story is very much my father's story. he came to the us for an education and only stayed here because he met my mother. he got a master's degree but had a difficult time finding a job in his field because of racism and islamophobia, so he operates a small business. i was born in the us, but here, i always feel ~too ethnic~ and whenever i'm around my iranian cousins, i always feel so american and out of place. it's definitely a stressful experience at times but i do appreciate both aspects of my identity. iranian-americans don't often get talked about in the mainstream, so i loved watching this series and seeing a story unfold that i felt like i could really connect to.

  • @manilamanila7730
    @manilamanila7730 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am from Peru, and when I went to the U.S , MY FIRST BOSS WAS FROM IRAK, jossep and fariba they were great and taugh me how to sell , I love chicken kabobs , it was expensive for me to buy that plate, but i enjoyed it everytime, i came to this video beacause i live in peru now since year 2011. your videos brought back a big part of my living. thank you

  • @jesusfelix2283
    @jesusfelix2283 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you and your family. Thank you for sharing your history.

  • @michaelsylvester7272
    @michaelsylvester7272 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That story is beautiful.
    My father married my mother 53 years ago.
    My mother is from Rome Italy.
    Yes my father is Italian also.
    But my mother left her country to come to America.
    She still having a tough time will the American culture.

  • @jeffmorse645
    @jeffmorse645 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Wow - I was fine until his dad got so emotional speaking about his love for America and his appreciation of his American side. I felt for him.

  • @faymackie9749
    @faymackie9749 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful story. I feel the exact same as an Iranian Canadian. I left Iran at the age of 13, now I’m 55 years old. What your mom and dad said brought tears to my eyes. 💕💕💕

  • @hrothgarb9104
    @hrothgarb9104 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully done. Thank you.

  • @jlhenderson2
    @jlhenderson2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing your story about your beautiful family. I was really touched by your father's reaction to accepting America as his new home. It made me see how much I take for granted.

  • @noraarico1313
    @noraarico1313 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yara, I am in awe of people who come from other countries and do not speak the English language. I can only imagine how difficult it would be for me to learn another language and live in a foreign country and environment. Thank you for sharing your Iranian heritage with all of us. My father came from Sicily, Italy, when four years old and I am a second-generation Italian-American. My Italian grandparents spoke no English at home. I consider myself American first and Italian/Irish second. I like being a blend of the American/Italian/Irish heritage and love America like you, your Mom, and Dad does. Like your parents, my father was an asset and honorable citizen to the country who adopted him as their own. Again, much thanks and appreciation.

  • @ojan
    @ojan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless your Dad's vulnerability. Iranians have so much pain that is buried. As a fellow Iranian-American, I resonate with this so much. I'm am aspiring filmmaker who wants to help strengthen/normalize this exact movement. Thank you Yara jan.

  • @Edbashir
    @Edbashir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GREAT CONTENT 🙌🙌

  • @Spikeythepomsky
    @Spikeythepomsky 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    when the dad held up his arms and said he is American and Iranian, I found it really moving.

  • @meeeka
    @meeeka 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Yara!!
    I was born in LA; my best friend in HS was from Tajrish and foresaw Westwood becoming Tehrangeles, because the weather was just like Maidane Tajrish! And that was in 1973! I went to Tehran to study in 1975 and in my heart, never really left there. My first boyfriend was killed in Evin by SAVAK, some of my colleagues died during the Iraqi war and the civil war in the early days after the revolution. Ive ended up on the other side of the world, but I so long for both LA and Iran.
    Iran and Iranian’s both swallowed me in a blanket of acceptance and love, there is no better place on earth. I became fluent in speaking Persian and even worked and lived in Tehrangeles during the 1990s. I only hope that one day I can go back home, to LA and Tehran both. Great series!

  • @glorialucia
    @glorialucia 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    AWWWWW your parents are so precious and sweet. Thanks for sharing them with us the audience :)

  • @bezlee8294
    @bezlee8294 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    HI mate ( Yara ) I am form Manchester British-Iranian I can say Iran ( The Persian ) has died after the Revolution on 1979 and there you are , today you are seeking your pass dose Iranian consider them self as a Persian are having tears on eyes when they are talking about Iran .It is really too said for Iranian nation with this situation now days that still inside and outside having difficulties throughout their life.God bless Persian Land

  • @shenazpatel6150
    @shenazpatel6150 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    They've worked hard to establish themselves in a new country. Getting a green card is not easy. They divorced but still re-established themselves. Very resilient.

  • @jaimemunoz5211
    @jaimemunoz5211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beautiful video..!! all 3 of them.. I'm Mexican American and I can totally relate..!! I could not help crying when I listened to your parents speak..! My best friend Farzeen is from Iran. continue making excellent videos they are so intriguing..! P.S. I will try the Persian Ice cream next time I'm in L.A. Saludos..! Jaime

  • @mehronmoin
    @mehronmoin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent work, Yara , as an Iranian this is the best documentary i ever seen , good luck

  • @nininizzlebaby2333
    @nininizzlebaby2333 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cried so much. Big respect to our parents generation that migrated here.

  • @elizabethsum8133
    @elizabethsum8133 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a child of Cambodian Refugees. I can relate so much. Thank you for sharing. I teared up thinking of my parents while watching this.

  • @mysticblood6
    @mysticblood6 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Totally could relate to this. Great series Yara❤

  • @Dishsoapdirt1976
    @Dishsoapdirt1976 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm a plain vanilla American. This video series is wonderful.
    America is about diversity. America is about immigrants.
    I believe we have an innate desire for goodness.
    Keep your head up. You are welcome here.
    WE are Americans.

  • @khadijeha3042
    @khadijeha3042 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hi Yara thank you for the video. How do your half sisters feel about being half persian?