I’m a detransitioner who’s been denied being able to legally change my sex marker back so I’ve resorted to explaining to doctors, “So I’m biologically female and identify as female but legally I am male,” because they just don’t understand what’s going on otherwise. Parents, don’t take your SA’d 14 year old daughter to a wacko gender therapist, please.
Bruh this is why detransitioners get hate. Just because you made a valid mistake doesn't mean that the other like 98% of people who say they're trans will regret it too. Just let people be who they are ffs
@@TieberiusVoidWalker I just wish so bad I was dead. Not to sound like them. I just don’t want to live as an unlovable freak. I had a double mastectomy as a teen and can’t get breast reconstruction now (insurance won’t pay for detransition stuff and I’m struggling to avoid homelessness right now)
@@Michael_Pepin You're both right. It's a cry for attention AND he would absolutely do it if he could. And, yeah, most vile thing I've heard in ages. They keep lowering the bar.
It's not people's responsible to PAY attention to these people. They need to be happy not having anyone PAY attention to them, for free. If they want attention, they have to PAY people, not be giant walking clown shows.
The most F'd up part about this, is the stuff that doctors are SCRIPTED to say "Would you rather an alive daughter or a dead son" that is INSANE. That is emotional manipulation and I'm sure maaaany parents were emotionally manipulated into permanently altering their children.
I am a phlebotomist and see the craziness all the time! Recently, I had a trans woman come in and our electrical medical records system said right there that the patient was born male but underneath that was a little attention sign that said “this patient may be able to become pregnant” like??????? I can’t deal😭
And this is a problem with that. When it comes to blood tests, there are many results that have a normal range depending on whether your sex (not gender) is male or female. If you are male and the lab results come to your doctor with female normal ranges attached, this causes medical issues that your physician SHOULD NOT be held responsible for. Your mental illness is the cause.
Problem is that “the science” (medical schools and hospitals) now tell us that men are women and can get pregnant and obesity is a lifestyle choice. How do we fight mental illness when “the science” plays along?
@@kristenahubbard3338your physician should be held responsible, but that physician should be using the appropriate and honest information based on the person's sex not their identity. Doctors using incorrect information intentionally should be held responsible
I can't get over how stupid all of this is. Of course that trans woman can't become pregnant so...why do we have to pretend that it's a possibility? We are grown adults and everyday we have to enter fantasyland where biological men can get pregnant. It's utter insanity. I have an issue at work with a trans woman repeatedly exposing herself to me in the women's restroom/changing room. I don't believe this person is truly trans. Instead, it's a pervert dude playing a part in order to get away with certain sexual proclivities. Ive reached out for help from management and HR several times. I honestly think they're thinking about firing me, even though I've been respectful abt everything and my best friend at work is a trans man. They're sick of me reaching out for something to be done about this. This last time, they told me to "Just don't go in there then!" I'm considering calling the police the next time this person decides to expose themselves to me. I've had it with this.
My wife works in a Heart Rehabilition Center. They have to treat trans people as women. Problem is that the minimum values of stamina (heart-rate lowering after exercise etc) are way lower in women than in men. They have to send these MEN home as "heart healthy" despite them having borderline heart attack levels. She personally knows of 12 dead trans people in the last 2 years alone bc of that. Let that sink in.
When i was going to my OB/GYN appointment to get an ultrasound for the baby I was very obviously carrying, there was this one nurse who was INSISTENT that I fill out paperwork that had nothing to do with my treatment, detailing my gender identity, pronouns, sexual orientation, and the number of people I'd slept with. Nobody else ever tried to make me fill out this paperwork. Only her. If I signed in with a different nurse, this woke nurse would come and find me and give me the paperwork again. This went on for several of my prenatal visits. She finally stopped when I 1) asked somewhat loudly in a waiting room full of people why she needed to know my sexual history -- she blushed, it was hilarious -- and 2) when I filled out on the sheet that I was a male-to-female trans dude and that my pronouns were (you guessed it) beep/boop/bopself. Not only have I never been addressed by those pronouns, never been directed to a urologist, and never been put on a pedestal for being a pregnant 'man', but that nurse has left me alone and glared daggers at me ever since.
The only one of those questions that is possibly medically legitimate is sexual history because STDs can be very bad for unborn baby. They typically still test you for all of them anyways just to be safe.
Nah seeing the word Obese on my medical sheet was an eye opener. I started hitting the gym and doing One Meal a Day and went down from 230 lbs to 180. Ill never understand these people
When i was in 1st grade, I had a male classmate that was obsessed with She-Ra. She-Ra bookbag, lunchbox, binders, everything was She-Ra. He now has a wife and 3 kids. I'd hate to think where he'd be if this ideology was as profound then as it is now. Scary!
When I was pregnant I asked my cousin for recommendations since we have the same values and I knew he'd recommend someone good; his wife told me their first pediatrician refused to call their son a boy and the med student that was with the doctor kept calling her a birthing person. They just walked out and found a new one.
Whenever I'm asked how I "identify," I always answer "I'm a man." If there's a followup something like, "OK, that's your _sex,_ but what's your _gender?"_ I always answer, "I'm a man." If the interrogator continues in that vein, I walk away. If anyone ever asks what "my pronouns" are, I laugh and say "The same as everyone's, there is only one set of pronouns." If they don't like that, I walk away. I recently had an intake appointment for an upcoming procedure and the nurse asked if I might be pregnant. I just stared at her disgustedly until she checked "no" on her computer form. This adherence to reality has made me leave doctor appointments (and switch doctors) more than once.
Okay, I fully agree, but I have some important questions. What if you’re talking to a woman or referring to more than one person?? 😂 (It’s a joke calm down)
Yo yo this person wants to get surgery to get a uterus just to have an abortion?! That’s the sickest thing I have ever heard. This a slap in the face to real women who cannot get pregnant
I am an adult cardiology RN. NICU means neo-natal intensive care unit. NICU nurses care for the most vulnerable babies. It is a very, very scientifically and emotionally demanding. Giving a NICU RN a hard time regarding pronouns is disgraceful.
It is scary to see how much trans is pushed on children. I know for a fact I would have been one of them. I was a huge tomboy growing up. Even now, I hardly ever wear makeup or dress up.
Same, but opposite. I'm a guy, but I was very sensitive, shy, and overly emotional as a child. Not anymore! But if I was a child now I'm sure some teacher would try to "rescue me" from "being trapped in a man's body."
Same, its actually terrifying. Just because I don't conform to all gender stereotypes doesn't mean I'm a boy and need to be permanently mutilated. We need to protect these kids
I was a sullen grunge kid who spent all thier time in the art department. A few of my male friends were goths who wore a fair bit of makeup. We DEFINATELY would have gotten sucked into thinking we were all non binary or something. It's scary how social contagion affects kids. I remember when emo kids were a thing there seemed to be competitions amoung teenagers how many piercings it was possible to fit on thier faces. Unfortunate but not as serious as cross sex hormones and mastectomies 😢
@@tmc7903 I think that maybe trans, bi and gay is the latest sub-culture. When I was a teenager in the 80's, we had punks, mods and skinheads. When my kids were teenagers, it was scene, grunge, emo, techno etc. Hopefully the pendulum will swing back the other way and the next generation will be a bit more traditional.
I think people like Misha would be an increasingly large majority, if they knew what was going on. Most people just think trans = person with gender dysphoria. They don't see this woke craziness where some of these people are so delusional they can't acknowledge their biological sex. Sadly all the governments are getting woke because of $$$$.
The worst part is that these woke lunatics are in the minority, yet hold all the power. Or maybe worse yet, that they know they can't gaslight us all into believing in their ideology, so they're conditioning the next generation instead.
After I stopped transitioning I copped so much flak for it like it was an additional hassle to not just keep taking hormones even though I was sick, broke a rib, and was suicidal. Nobody believed I was actually happy as a man and I was accepting myself. But also being very informed and withdrawing my consent. Apparently it doesn’t fly when you wanna back out of it which is what I thought informed consent was all about. Took two years to reverse the effects of medically transitioning. Every person who congratulated me for transitioning in the first place now hates me.
Sorry you went through that. This is why voices like Buck Angel are so important. They don't tell anyone they should transition, simply teach about Dysphoria and push taking therapy for months at a minimum to ensure it's even severe enough to need transitioning(only current treatment for Dysphoria). He also often goes into the difference between Trans, AGP, and calls out TRAs often for pushing lies or heavily omitted info.
on the note of the connection between gender dysphoria and eating disorders - been screaming this from the rooftops but no one listens! both come down to dysphoria (seeing one thing in the mirror and feeling something else, a 'disconnect') but one is (sometimes) treated seriously and the other is encouraged. that's why it seems like there's a lot of overlap. it comes down to the same root cause more or less but shows up in two different ways. I wish gender dysphoria was treated more like what you see in eating disorders. with love, with compassion, and with deep concern. we see someone with anorexia and recognize that them muttering about how fat they are is a sign there's some severe disconnect between what they see and what's actually there, I don't understand why we can't do the same with gender
This. Body dysmorphia is a huge problem, especially with teens who are starting puberty. I'd be willing to put actual money on the idea that the vast majority of these kids are just going through the usual disconnect as your body goes through these huge changes
That's the strangest thing about Dr. Richard Levine. It's still possible to find all the patient reviews about him. He was a great pediatrician who helped a lot of kids with eating disorders. A big part of that was helping them accept who they are. So the kids he helped were really confused when the father of two started pretending to be a woman. He was able to help so many kids accept themselves, but somehow he couldn't accept that he's male.
My friend is a nurse and he sent me a picture of one of the ethics trainings he had to take. He's not allowed to use the term "Over weight" because it implies that there is a correct weight to be. He's not the smallest guy himself, and his response was "But... I am"
I have had so many patients who are morbidly obese, over 500 lb, 600 lb etcetera get upset with us for calling the fire department to come and help us move them. We aren't doing it to be mean to you, we're doing it because we would like to be doing this job in 2 years and not blow out our back trying to inappropriately lift something that we should not be lifting. I am no sooner going to pick up a 400 500 600 pound patient by myself / with one other person then I am to try to pick up a car's engine block alone. The risk of getting hurt is not worth sparing somebody's feelings, I have a life and a family to provide for. We try to approach these things in a gentle and respectful manner, but sometimes it does not matter how we approached it, they're just pissed off that we require help.
As a retired nurse I have long maintained that if you cannot walk due to your weight, if you cannot roll over due to your size, you cannot perform self care due to your size, why does management think only one person is required to care for such an obese person?
Takes me back when I was in an health outpost waiting in line, just to check if I healed of an infection. Next to me is a very obese woman, she needed two chairs to sit, I felt skinny near her and at time I weighted 242 lbs and barely fitted in one chair. This woman then starts to complain the chairs should have a little cushion and asked if I agreed. I said "well, yes, elderly people don't have much mass, so a plastic chair might be really hard for them", she tried to push the conversation on about fat people. Then she noticed I was in gym clothes and asked if I was going to make an heart exam or something, I said "no, I just will head to gym after the checkup". She legit thought I was joking. My autistic ass didn't understood she wanted me to say I was joking, so I said the truth: "I have an hereditary condition in my knees and I want to still be able to walk. You know? I was a kid athlete, I feel bad not being able to jump nowadays." SHE SLAPPED ME, said some things I don't paid attention, but I noticed she was threatening me. I kinda just stood up and got a little farther and security came. Idk what was going through my head, I might had felt spiteful, but I said something along the lines "don't worry, she can't walk towards me" and this sent her in a rage so deep she had a heart attack. I don't know what happened to her other than she was sent to the medical room and it was my time to be seen by the doctor (who asked why I got a blackened eye), but I remember of this woman with disgust. Like, okay if wanna be fat and be a problem to healthcare and stuff, but punching people for not wanting to be a burden is terrible. I'm currently 191 lbs.
it honestly breaks my brain how stuff like this is accepted, but being "trans racial" is not (for example). like honestly how is thinking you are a different sex normal but a different race not? like genuinely
This may have been mentioned before, but eating disorders are common in people who have been SA'd and it's been known that a lot of people who say they're trans/non-binary have been SA'd so there could be a huge connection.
Which is why it is horrifying that the newest WPATH guidelines (this is like the “medical” guidance group for trans) say that mental health professions are not (I repeat are not) to dig into other psychologies first when someone presents as trans. They are to just initiate the transitioning process. Europe and the UK have reverted back to counseling before anything else to identify underlying mental health issues. But the US activists are doing everything to discredit and ignore the data from over there.
@@rlight7334 Seriously? Are they stupid? So they're just ignoring everything? I thought it was bad enough that they were ignoring the fact that this is a trend, most kids want to fit in and do what everyone else is doing, being trans is getting hyped up so much, now they're not even going to look into other disorders or what may have caused those disorders? Let's just say what it is, they don't care about the well being of the person, they're just trying to find a way to make the most amount of money the quickest way possible. You get someone started on hormones they have to take them for the rest of their life, while still having psychological issues because the root cause was never looked at, a band aid was just slapped over a wound that was never cleaned.
Actually yeah. I wanted to be a boy and I had no idea why. Turns out I hated my body and felt disgusting about myself for the stuff that happened to me. Then the period bleeding started, which happened around my abusers birthday etc. Puberty is hard enough without the extra trauma. I guarantee you I would've transitioned if I was younger in a blue state.
Urinals in women's bathrooms? Tampon dispenser in men's? Since when do we live in a South Park episode? The level of absurdity is so high of can be visible from space.
@@lastchips7638 I just hope one of these days a jewish boy will come out and say: "you know, I've learned something today" and everything will return to normal
I've always said I will immediately leave an appointment if I hear the words "chest feeding" or "birthing person". I do go to a religious hospital so I'm sure I won't have to worry about that but still.
I’m genuinely going to take note of this …. For if I’m ever lucky enough to have a child to find a religious hospital just to hopefully avoid liberal bs
I'm autistic too, went through school miserable, isolated, feeling like an outcast. I can see how they get so many of us, telling us that if we transition we'll suddenly become super cool and celebrated as a hero. We're in a dark chapter of history.
I’m a conservative guy teen in public high school. I’ve had increasingly more moments of how woke the school systems are becoming as I have gone up in grades specifically high school. In my higher level art class, and since it was higher level there was only about ten students in the class. So I knew my teacher was a liberal from having her previously in lower level art classes which had way more students per class. When the class started she gave everyone a paper about get to know us, which made no sense since everyone had already had her as a teacher previously, but to top it off asked what pronouns she should refer to us by and if we preferred a different opposite sex name to our legal name. However I just threw this paper straight into the garbage, but it was never brought up that I didn’t submit it. So in this class, a couple of students talked to the teacher frequently while working (the classroom is small so it is impossible to not listen), repeatedly throughout the year their conversations turned to politics and woke ideology. During these conversations they talked about how they hated Trump and couldn’t believe anyone would vote or want such a “horrible” person as a president. This progressed to the point they called people who would vote for Trump as horrible people, and the teacher even said she was scared of Trump and that he would be a dangerous president. The teacher said during Nikki Haley’s run that she would vote for her simply put because she is a woman and that she would be so much better than the horrible Trump. So I have nothing against having a woman president but I disagree strongly with simply having a woman be president purely because they are a woman. So as the year went on I was the only one who didn’t participate in these conversations, all the while they slammed conservatives. Until she assigned a project around the topic of patriotism, so for this I decided to draw Donald Trump with Maga written above him. This drawing was one of my best from the whole year, but when I got it back she gave me a 10/100. There was nothing in the rubric that I violated to get points marked off it was a good drawing, in my opinion better than some of my others that got A’s. However she failed me for this, all the while others people created artwork of obvious wokeness and democrats but those were completely fine. After my Trump drawing she spoke to me significantly less, and graded me much harder, taking off points for things that didn’t even make sense, including failing another assignment because “the people were in a triangle formation”-tf that was the point. I was originally going to take the highest level art class as I want to be an architect, but I decided not to take it because I didn’t want to put up with this any more.
That is ridiculous! i am sorry that is happening to you. My sisters teacher had them write a paper about how biden is better than trump or something along those lines and my sister did the opposite, said why she disagrees with biden and supports trump. She got marked off but told the teacher that she hit all the requirements and if her grade isn’t fixed, she will take it to the dean. Her grade was fixed within the next hour
My dad has never been fat. However, as he approached 60 his metabolism obviously slowed and he was doing less exercise. So as a result he gained weight, this was to some degree a risk to his health. When he got his yearly checkup his doctor weighed him and told him frankly that he was entering the obese category. This information hurt his pride. He immediately started taking the doctors recommendations, eating healthier and walking everyday till he was back in a healthy weight class. Sometimes hurting someone’s pride or feelings can save them and BE THE VERY THING THEY NEED! Kindness can kill.
Body positivity started as "let's not bully someone for their body, they might be unhealthy but it doesn't mean we're allowed to belittle them or make them feel less human," and I'm fully on board with that. However, seeing this denial of obvious health risks of being fat, especially from doctors, is concerning. In my country we're currently at the other extreme though - if you come to a doctor and you're fat, they won't take any of your concerns seriously and the only recommendation you'll get is "just lose weight," even if your issue has nothing to do with it. I don't think either extreme is good.
So just a thought, maybe the solution is actually to fully play into the delusion instead of denial. If a trans woman insists she is having a miscarriage, treat her accordingly, including the full bill at the end. If she insists she has ovarian cancer, cut her open, give her chemo and bill her for it at the proper rate. When these people start getting unnecessary surgery, unnecessary painful recovery, and tens of thousands of dollars in unnecessary medical bills, they'll quickly stop their BS.
@@frankm6546 that then still works. Once government and hospitals start getting lawsuits for it, they too will stop supporting delusions and start following biology again . MAKE BIOLOGY GREAT AGAIN.
I love it in certain situations when the law just completely ignores wokeness. And some of these people go into complete shock because they are so out of touch with the reality that their stupid demands are not actually valid in the real world.
I recently had a check-up at the VA. The nurse taking my vitals informed me of a new question they have to ask, but I didn't have to answer. The question is, "What is your sexual orientation?" I asked her how who I choose to have sex with affects the level of medical care I recieve and she let me know it doesn't and that she doesn't understand why they have to ask it now. And seeing as no one has to answer the question, it seems pointless to even ask. Edit: Typos
When I was filling out basic info for myself when I went to establish care with a new doctor, sexual orientation was something I could optionally fill in a blank for... But I'm thinking, "Why the f*** is this even a question on here??"
it's probably just for their diversity records or something similar but can also be relevant when discussing things like sti testing and PrEP since these are regularly offered to people with high risk activity (basically getting with people who they don't know very well and are unsure of their hiv and sti status) but even this misses out those who either don't want to disclose or are heterosexual and are also partaking in high risk activity
I'm 44. One of my best friends bought me a tiara for my birthday as a joke. Of course I wore it to work because we work together. Someone came in my line and took the tiara off my head and said that I can't wear it because I was appropriating Princesses and little girls. I grabbed it back and put it back on my head and said, "Maybe I identify as a princess." The woman literally started crying and apologizing profusely. I stayed with a mad face until she left and then I laughed so hard that I had to go on break.
Men wore tiaras or tiara like head ware, many things just became associated with women that were at one time not female only. Tiaras are basically small crowns which men have worn. Also women do guy stuff and wear guy stuff all the time. Like ninety percent of what women do is appropriating males. Also basically all the things people think are female are not they’re male and were invented and constructed by men. Everything in your life basically is more male as it was invented by a guy and at one time used by men and then women used it more and as always they slowly took it as that’s what they do.
Not my experience, but a story I heard from a friend: some friends of theirs had gone in for an ultrasound to find out the sex of their baby. When they asked what the gender was, the doctor replied, "well the sex is female, but we won't know their gender for several more years." 🤨😐
When I had my son this last March, the nurse that gave him his first bath told me about how her daughter is doing this with her child. Of course, the nurse who's not thrilled with it says, "I'm pretty sure she's just a tomboy."
I find this VERY offensive as a woman. I have had a hard time this year with two miscarriages that broke my heart and these men are talking about pregnancy and abortion like it's nothing, it angers me.
Years ago before a lot of this woke stuff, around the time when “plus size” was becoming more of a thing, I went to my Drs and naturally I got weighed. The Dr bless her was stumbling to find the right words, as she didn’t want to say I was fat in case I was offended, in the end I just said “you want to say fat don’t you?”. She didn’t half breath a sigh of relief 😂
Hearing these examples of healthcare appointments makes me think of the expense of time and money and the impact it has. Are biological men booking appointments with OBYNs, making it harder for women to get seen? Are the procedures and services adding to the overall cost? There is a ripple effect.
There's a trans woman who I used to follow on Instagram saying that she has a surgically created reproductive organ, but still goes to the OBGYN. Why? What is the point?
If anyone has a lack of muscle control to have bed mobility, it is normally suggested to have them as two-person care. Yes, there were a few people I could handle as a 130lb on my own when I worked as a CNA. But there were more patients that were two-person care than there were one-person or set up in our facility. The 700+lb man almost never went anywhere and he would always wait for a male CNA for his needs. One lady didn't want to put in the work with PT and absolutely refused to use the hoyer lift, insisting she could get herself from her bed to the commode (because she had already lost the ability to get to the bathroom on her own in the first four months I was there) and then to her chair. Just turning made her sound like she ran a marathon and at three times my weight at least, it was hard to keep her chair still. Oh, and she couldn't be bothered to remember anyone's name so she just called us all "aide." I didn't realize it the first time until her friend, who was much nicer, called me miss to get my attention. But the one that made us the most nervous was a 500+lb woman who had to go out once a month. She began frequently insisting that someone else needed to feed her because she couldn't do it herself so she wasn't any help with moving. The hoyer lift was not designed for handling her weight. It took four people to get her in her chair once but never less than three. The person operating the remote had to be heavy enough to stand on the other end so the machine didn't tip over and I was always on the other end to pull her into place or hold her chair. It was insane. CNAs don't get paid enough already but as much as they train us to avoid bodily harm, they don't put their money where their mouth is. Chronically understaffed and without the appropriate equipment. Heck, that just reminded me that once, none of our battery chargers worked so the entire building of 85+ residents had to use one manual hoyer lift; I got real good at doing it by myself in the month we were getting it fixed.
Went for eye exam during the pandemic. The facemask fogged up every lens of the testing equipment, making accurate measurements impossible. Holding my breath to prevent the fogging resulted in disorientation and light-headedness, also making accurate measurements impossible. Nothing about Sarscov2 warranted that level of response to such a low risk.
When I went for an ordinary check up recently, the nurse took my blood pressure incorrectly. The number was wrong, so I showed her how to take blood pressure, which resulted in a correct reading. She then informed me that she no longer feels comfortable handling patients, holding their arms up, etc. She has been badgered by weirdos into doing a lousy job.
Poor girl. I'm a nurse and have had more than my fair share of inappropriate comments from men and women alike. Thankfully, when I was a baby nurse, I had more experienced nurses who would step in when people were being inappropriate and even one time a doctor who told off a patient for me. It can be hard to say something b/c you don't know if management will protect you or throw you under the bus. Now that I'm older I've finally learned to be firm but respectful and not allow parents to walk all over me when I'm just trying to do my job and take care of them to the best of my ability.
My experience isn't related to obesity or g.ender-- but I sought therapy after the passing of my father. I was understandably experiencing grief. I was in therapy for months, making great progress-- then all of a sudden my therapist inserted that I would do better with a Black therapist-- because apparently losing a parent is culturally specific! Long story short-- she informed me we couldn't go further with therapy unless I switched to a Black therapist because there was nothing more that she could do for me as a Jewish woman. I felt so violated and I can't explain why. I still haven't gone back to therapy for fear of Woke. It happened a couple of years ago-- but I kinda want to report this. I don't want anything... I just think this should be reported. How is grief not universal??? I didn't grow up thinking like this-- then to seek help for a universal problem only to be met with this? This is what I call institutionalized racism!!!
OMG for real! Grief is a universal emotion experienced by people of all races and creeds! I think you absolutely should report her; that was bigoted and racist of her. Reporting her is a step towards restoring sanity.
I got a fun woke medical story for ya! So in 2022 I was pregnant with my second child. I used artificial insemination because I'd had a devastating miscarriage with my boyfriend the year prior and it had destroyed our relationship. But I never could get past the insane need ti have another child. So I went that route Anyways so I went to my regular prenatal visits and at EVERY SINGLE ONE, I had to fill out a form stating that I was in fact a woman and wanted to be addressed by female pronouns. All the documentation and posters in the offices said "birthing people" "pregnant people" and "they". Never said woman or she. I then had a nurse that found out I used artificial insemination and she was literally bouncing up and down in her seat when she assumed I was a lesbian and how awesome that was. Her heart broke when I said I wasn't. Final blow was when I went for an ultrasound and the sign in the waiting room said "masks optional" and nobody else was wearing one so I took mine off. I had a nurse viciously berate me for not having the mask on. . .in mid 2022. . .and how I was going to harm people. After my ultrasound I had the doctor berate me for not being vaccinated and for being a terrible mother and putting my baby's life at risk for not getting it. I still never got it and never had covid until this year and when I got it it was like a cold. Needless to say I changed hospital networks after all this and reading reviews that everyone at the labor and delivery unit was forced into a C-section when they didn't need it and how horribly women were treated. I switched to the same network I had my first baby at. I had to drive an hour to appointments but that was ok by me to have none of this woke, abusive, BS
Congrats on standing your ground. IT must have been horrible. It was arleady bad when my gynecologist gave me a speech how I should take the vax blabla.
4:35 This right here is so true. I have an overactive metabolism due to my other health concerns and it has always been "acceptable" for people to call me a toothpick, sheet of paper, etc. I am a 5'11" man and am 130 lbs, which is VERY skinny and, medically underweight. The amount of times i have heard from family members AND strangers "oh honey you need a cheeseburger" or "is yo mama feeding you?" (i live in the south) is crazy. Yet it ISN'T acceptable to comment on a family member needing to "lay off the cheeseburgers" because "that's rude" And the comments you make about my weight isn't? i have been trying for over a decade to gain weight, i just can't. irritates the fire out of me.
YES! I was given a warning for the following experience: I was training 6 women in a new position. At the time, I was 100 lbs at 5'5". As I was teaching it, this woman just blurted out "You're so flat chested". I said something like "Yeah. But, I'm skinny. You're... well... you know" - as I pointed to her gut. That wasn't the first or last time people were free to make fun of my weight, but I wasn't allowed to reciprocate because I should've "taken it as a compliment".
I'm exactly the same! Our collective Somatotype is Ectomorph. . . I'm in my mid- 60s now and have the same skinny build and waist size I had ss a teenager. . . I also discovered to my disgust ithat alcohol no longer gets me drunk. . It's NOT a superpower, it's a very expensive disappointment and it means my body can neutralise alcohol faster than when I was younger. . . It's like someone took all the fun out of life
My dad & brother were both like this. Until a certain age HIT! Then it was trying to get the weight down a bit.🙃 Same as women you hit that CERTAIN AGE!! LIFE IS CRAZY!! 😎 ✌🏻
It’s annoying having to eat constantly 24/7 but it’s worth it, man. If you’ve genuine tried to gain weight and wasn’t able to on your own then I suggested speaking to a dietitian. You’re putting yourself at risk the longer you wait to change. Best of luck mate.
An 11 year old who weighs 145 lbs with an history of binge eating then anorexia - the people who need help are the PARENTS. They are supposed to be the ones teaching their children about a balanced diet and portion control and limiting their access to fast/UP food. There's a vid doing the rounds at the moment of a 6 year old struggling - and I mean STRUGGLING - to get on a simple child's climbing activity frame because they are wider than they are high. The ONLY people to blame for that are the PARENTS. Parents need to parent. Letting a small child stuff their face with whatever they want is NOT parenting; it's abdicating responsibility.
To anyone in school/college: bring a book sth to do, sit in the back and ignore the fact your blood is boiling. Confronting a teacher will make your life miserable. Write what they want you to write (or even ask chat GPT if you wish), get a passing grade, move on. You don't wanna have to go through that twice
It's especially frustrating when it's not a class that warrants any sort of discussion. Having to sit quietly while your professor rants about gender identity, for a decent portion of (college) piano class, with no way to distract yourself is not fun. You can't respond or argue back even if you wanted to. You just sit there being lectured on a subject you didn't sign up for.
Abortion debate itself aside, if you have a bunch of people on an organ transplant list who actually want to use the organ for its biological function and someone demands a uterus just so they can sympathize with the experience of not wanting it to perform its function, they should be barred from the transplant list.
I work in the medical field in a very Democrat majority district so have had to watch wokeness take over. I've seen some upsetting things (most often involving autistic kids transitioning). Most recently, the case that upset me was a family that came in. The "wife" was actually a biological male. And the "husband" was really a female. But they're both adults so I ignored it. However, they also brought their 3 kids under 14: A male that identified as a girl, a female that identified as a boy, and another female that identified as non-binary. Now I don't need to be a statistician to know that there is something very wrong with that scenario. Things got even worse, but I can't share the rest due to HIPPA. I've thought about those poor kids every day since. We are failing them. I'm SO sick of this woke shit!! 😫
Start documenting and compiling everything, then file suits against the hospital et al when you have enough evidence. Whistleblower anonymity is a thing and most lawyers and courts will uphold it. Subsequent subpoenas should at least theoretically take care of the difference. Also if you can find like minded individuals who have the guts, get them to partner with you. This can't go on forever.
When I was going through puberty and first periods, I actually told my mother I wanted my breasts and uterus removed. Thank heavens I live in Asia and it was 20 years ago, and nobody encouraged me. I was a tomboyish girl as well. Growing up with a twin brother, the different treatment girls and boys receive, the limitations and weaknesses of a girl and constant ridicule often frustrated me. It's not that I wanted to be a boy, I just want girls to be treated fairly. I was just too young to see that. I think many girls go through that phase, and adults should not forget how it was to be a teenager.
I got so mad when I took my OB nursing class (pregnancy and labor/delivery) and realized in my book they no longer use the words "mother and pregnant woman". They changed every term to "person giving birth" and "pregnant person" and the pronoun "they". I went through that book and couldn't find where they referred to pregnant women as women or used the pronouns "she". It really made me upset and angry but of course I can't speak out without retaliation. I need to be a nurse and I'm too stressed to add drama to my life.
My fiance is a large man at 6'9" and 600 lbs and so i asked his take. He said " doc pls tell me im fat and help me with my eating disorder." This goes for me too. I had binge eating and avoidant restrictive food intake disorder. pls tell me im losing too fast doc. Save my life, not my feelings. Do no real harm. I'll survive being offended for 2 seconds. in fact, i'll thank you. i literally argued with my er doc and we butted heads but i love the man and trust him with my life ten fold.
When I started developing breasts, I was soooo not ready. I was in deniiiial! My mom basically had to force me to start wearing training bras. Your body changing is UNCOMFORTABLE *shocked!* leave it alone and they’ll get over it and literally grow into their developing selves
I went to a doctor’s office recently and when they had me fill out an information form like every other doctors office. When I got to the gender part they had written down male, female, nonbinary, transgender, amongst many other gender names that I can’t remember because there was so many. For a moment I was taken off guard that this could happen a doctors office, but now I feel a the little ridiculous that I was surprised since this is considered normal these days.
The questionnaire at my office has like 15 options and then other. WTF is OTHER??? Someone who identifies as a raisin and is sexually attracted to clouds?
When I had to get surgery, they kept asking me the stupid identity question at every appointment. I was an F-15, an F-35, an AH-64, an M109, a TU-57, and an A-10 Warthog
As a morbidly obese person I absolutely hate that doctors tip toe around the issue of my weight. I know it's what causes 99% of my health issues and I know I need to fix it but I have a food addiction and struggle a lot with food in general. Instead of even being allowed to discuss it or direct me to help they pretty much say weight has nothing to do with any of my issues. FFS there is 0% possibility of being healthy at my weight stop babying me. I hate that crap. My doctor when I was young would've told it to me straight and laid into me to lose weight because he wasn't an idiot and took his patient's health seriously. Doctors today don't care about us at all.
Here’s my story. Just got done with grad school for psychology. Focus on addiction. I had to take a we hate all white people class where I was supposed to learn about micro aggression and how important diversity is. I made everyone angry by ending every single comment I made online and in person by stating “diversity divides commonality connects.” The professor did not like me, but they couldn’t fail me because all of my references and all of my arguments were unassailable. I deliberately did not submit anything for my final week because I would’ve been ashamed of myself for getting an a in the class. I settled for a beer out of character.
Misha, I'm a proud Boomer. You are a welcome discovery to me and a breath of fresh air. My middle school granddaughter was seriously behind in language and math skills, but she firmly believed that there are 77 genders. That's what her teachers focused her attention toward. She was also not diagnosed as being on the spectrum until this year after moving from California to Oklahoma. Her school staff is great, and she is thriving. Even has a part-time job.
When I went for my booking appointment when I first found out I was pregnant, I was asked if I was male or if I've ever identified as male... THEN HOW COULD I BE PREGNANT!? I assume if you answer yes, you get referred to psychiatry instead of maternity services? 🤯
The autistic one truly hurt me to hear. I went with an incomplete diagnosis until I was 18 and I never fit with the girls, boys were are the friends I had, my interests leaned on masculine things. Now you ask me why: my parents loves cars, weapons and both know how to fix things. The most girly tv shows were aired at the time I was at school or just in cable channels which I had no access, but more "everyone" things aired everytime on open tv (let alone dolls are expensive) and the fact that feminine clothing just was a little overwhelming (because of the fabric) I thought I just fitted better with boys. I even asked my mom why I was different from other girls and she said that "every girl is different from the other girls." and "Nobody in this family is really normal, so you won't be. Think we are the Addams, but more colorful". Just when I was 18 I understood why I didn't click so well with the girls and clicked a little better with the boys (they are usually more blunt and direct, which made communication easier), it's because I don't click normally with people in general. It explained why I too was seen as distant in my relationship, even though I was showing all love and affection I had to offer, because I simply don't connect with people normally. Now I navigate this situation a lot better. Imagine if I was a kid nowadays instead of 15 years ago. I probably would have mutilated my body fully (or not, since my mom wouldn't let it happen to me because she knows I'm prone to regret things I don't think through and would have sat me down to see if I was sure about it).
*Real body positivity = not hating yourself, but RESPECTING yourself* so pursuing healthy choices. And *real self-love = accepting yourself as you are, but still honouring yourself* - doing the upmost to take care of yourself. The body/fat positivity movements have completely distorted this. I have always disapproved of fat-shaming, judging people based upon their weight, and general bias, discrimination and abuse towards overweight people. Many people cannot help their weight due to physical and/or mental health issues. So it’s imperative we maintain respect and compassion. However, collectively it’s also important not to pedestal reckless behaviours, selfishness, and nonsense.
Okay so my Aunt is a Nurse in the NHS and she mainly deals with cancer patients and stuff like that and a Trans “woman” came in one day and asked for a smear test, my aunt (trying not to loose her sanity) tried explaining to him that only real women can get a smear test but due to the Scottish government implementing the new “anti-free speech law” my aunt can loose her job by saying stuff like this as it’s deemed offensive so she went to her boss and she told her to give him a smear test, she had to give up precious time dealing with cancer patients for a man that can’t even get it in that area. This is the mad world we live in
If I was a teenager in USA/Canada at this time, I would seriously think that I need to transition. I had ED for a very long time (I am absolutely sure that EDs develop in women because they are not taught to accept themselves and probably haven't seen positive reaction towards their bodies from close women), had more "masculine" characteristics, yet I have very feminine body. Just getting rid off this obstacle - my feminine body, would make sense. Its nonsense. Now I am grown up woman and I am very feminine and enjoy it, because I learned to love and accept myself.
Misha, I admire your intellect, compassion and maturity. You give this old, ( man ) hope for the future. I have been subject to comments for being skinny all my life because it’s true. Cest la vive!
One of my children (age 13) has been jokingly, calling me, “birth giver”. She’s a Spitfire, but that mouth is gonna get her in trouble. I find that very degrading. Like, “Child 🤦🏻♀️…I am your mother!”
I was a huge tomboy as a kid. I had pixie cuts multiple times, wore the boys uniforms at school instead of the girls, played contact sports and played with toy trucks, rode skateboards and you’d never see me in a skirt or a dress etc. My mother said she tried to get me into barbies and baby dolls but I was never into it. I can’t help but think that if I was growing up today gender affirming care may be pushed onto me? bc if u asked me if I preferred being a boy back then Id probably say yes. Now at 22 Iam so feminine i looove girly things. I cannot imagine.
I'm a guy and I've been over 40 lbs overweight and overweight women were calling me "skinny". Fortunately, I've only got to lose about 20 lbs more to reach my ideal weight of about 190 lbs.
There is no such thing as a "Male to Female" nor a "Female to Male". Those characteristics, traits, variables, words and outright facts can't change. When you're born a male, you will live your life as a male and then expire as a male. Your identity is something you made up in your mind to make yourself feel better. Your identity doesn't change the world around you unless it intrudes on the rights of others. People don't have to agree with your identity nor participate in your imaginary world. Boys and men are males. Girls and women are females. Identify as a maple leaf or trampoline spring all you want.
Reminds me of a convo I had with my sister. It was that ad for AIDs medication was on and she said to my aunt "oh, that one must be a dude who became a woman." I said "no. It's still a dude, he's just wearing a dress." It's insulting that men think they can just "become" my sex with some makeup and glitter.
For a good 8-10 months, our family was stuck in a hotel because the home we’d expected to close on did not pass inspection and we’d already sold our previous home upstate assuming the walkthrough would be a formality. Our diet was exactly like “Supersize me.” If it wasn’t drive thru, it was a tv dinner from a microwave. We had no kitchen. I took my then about 7yo son to a clinic dr for BTS checkup. The nurse who examined him said, “You should watch your diet, like mom does” or something along those lines of me being healthier than him. I don’t remember exactly what she said. The boy’s 22 now. My son’s little face showed shame, I remember that. I followed out the room with her and shut the door behind me. I told her that I puke yellow cause I’m trying to save a buck and that boys in general are more prone to ED, so how dare she! Then I went back in that room and waited with my kid. The dr came in with a different nurse and they didn’t mention it. As I was checking out, the desk lady said, “U made our nurse cry, ya know.” Are you kidding me?! I told her, “She should be happy it’s me cause any other mother would’ve laid her out. She’s supposed to be the professional here!”
Its crazy how conservatives were the issue before (underdiagnosing people, specially women) and now the liberals are doing... whatever the hell this is 💀
I always considered myself a liberal *g*. I never had a problem with homosexuals and pro choice but after I rejected the cov vaccination I suddenly find myself at home in the far right corner. I much prefer hanging out with "conservatives" nowadays because they seem to be the only normal people left and are perfectly happy to be just a man or a woman.
I think ed is sometimes mistaken for someone being trans might be because most if not all people who suffer from ed, have body dysmorphia, which can be confused with gender dysphoria..
1:30 "...the men's bathroom has a tampon dispenser. This is in a major city in Canada..." Calling it now, it's Vancouver. (Toronto is potential runner-up, though)
Trans women want period cramps? Here. Take mine. I’d be so happy to be rid of them. Actually you can have the whole period. No more mood swings, pain, waking up to bloody clothes or dealing with bloating and breakouts for me!
It's all a joke to them. They have absolutely no idea what it's really like. For them, it's just one more thing to get sympathy for. This really angers me. I've suffered since I was 15 of problems related to my period, just as many other women have. And for them to treat periods as a fun thing, it's a total slap in the face. I get it, men can relate to what women go thru. So...don't trivialize it then. It's so insulting. Many of these "trans women" are nothing but attention-seekers.
Fr. Im.infertile but still get the blasted thing along with the hormonal migraines. If they want a period, they can have mine and everything that goes with it
A kitty cameo! It's been a while. You should totally do a proper interview of your cat. Ask her the important questions like: "Are you a woman?" "What even is a woman??" 😸
I work for a leading medical record software company. About a decade ago we had a huge push to split "gender" from "sex" items in our system (gender being the ones that control stuff like auto-generated text in notes, and sex being the ones that control recommended medical procedures). Legal sex is a third thing altogether which just mucks the whole system up but insurance companies like it. It's a mess. Customers (aka medical systems) don't universally use the distinct descriptors. Patients don't universally self-report. Some nurses will update the wrong thing and get stuff flagged in all sorts of wrong ways. (There's a similar problem for "preferred name" vs "legal name" that messes with insurance companies all the time) In short, if you are trans, absolutely remind your medical care team of this EVERY TIME you see them. It is super possible that the doctor's office accidentally has you flagged the wrong way because of a misuse of a feature in their tracking system (or a non-use, in the case of some religious organizations).
Throughout my entire life, I’ve been made fun of for being skinny, and the only time it didn’t hurt is when somebody who is overweight, made skinny jokes about me and overweight jokes about themselves Because sometimes we need a joke about our wait to make ourselves and others feel better it’s all that where you come from If you’re saying it to be hurtful, of course it’s gonna be hurtful but if you say it for my supportive way, sometimes you can joke around that is a you’re a skinny bones and I’ve got some fat to share with you Like me and my friends who are overweight joked around all the time that they should give me some of their fat because I need it so badly because I can’t keep it on me and they have a hard time losing it
If a doctor asks me if I am pregnant, they will not like my response. If I was in my teens or 20s and a male doctor asked me that, they would need dental work.
I work as a nurse aide at a hospital. Patient rooms are either single or double. So for double rooms, the patients have to be the same sex/gender. The only time I've seen a man and a woman in the same room was a married couple. I've only cared for one transgender person (male to female). They had to have their own room. Your biological sex matters in the medical field.
When you have anorexia the main priority for any doctor is to keep you alive. At the stage of anorexia diagnosis, chance of mortality is high and prioritising mental health is not appropriate. That being said, relapse is likely without mental health treatment
An escape room in my city has a gender neutral bathroom and I absolutely hate it 😠 love the venue though, but every time I would go to use the bathroom there would be some dude peeing with the cubicle door open - makes me feel so uncomfortable ! They even had signs reminding men to close the door when using the cubicle so must be a common problem Makes me so uncomfortable - male and female bathroom etiquette is different and should be kept separate !! End up using the disabled toilet every time
I work in homeless services. I got yelled at recently for denying women's shelter to someone identifying as nonbinary. I explained that women's shelters are only open to female identified individuals. We've had so many trans individuals over the last few years that we've had to create separate services specifically to meet that need.
My oldest son’s favorite color when he was 3-4 was pink. He loved the color pink. Wanted pink everything. Guess what. I just bought him the pink stuff and still raised him as a boy. His favorite color changed to red, then to grey, then to golden yellow. He’s just your typical preteen boy now. Imagine the harm it could have caused if I had decided that him liking pink meant he must actually be a girl. Colors are just colors, toys are just toys. Let kids be kids.
I don't know how common this is, but I'm having problems with male doctors. They keep trying to decipher "what I'm really trying to say" rather than just listening to the straightforward English sentences I was speaking. I didn't really notice this until I spoke with a female doctor. She had a much more ordered mind; our conversation moved along swiftly & we accomplished a lot. I'm considering asking everyone to have their hormone levels checked.
I'm noticing this in ordinary conversations now. So many words have become code language for fringe groups that I can't seem to speak without accidentally telegraphing something I don't intend. I'm talking at cross purposes with people who think we're having other conversations entirely. Drives me insane!
It's because if a male doctor says something specific to a woman, especially a woke woman, they'll get offended and call it sexual harassment or misogynistic and the doctor can get in trouble. Men have to be careful with what we say to female patients.
My husband is a diabetic and had trouble keeping his sugar up for a few years. It was always bottoming out and dropping while he was asleep. He went to his endocrinologist for a three month check up and weighed 249.6 lbs. He had a whole issue with it and started looking at weight loss options. After a few weeks he was doing a calorie deficit, where he would only eat about 2,000 calories a day. He started in late November. Fast forward to nearly a year later, he now weighs 214 lbs. We didn't even notice the loss at first but now it's so clear that he's lost nearly fourty pounds 🥺🫶🏻 his sugar has been WAY better and I don't even remember the last time it got super low. He looks and feels so much better. I'm so proud of him. You don't have to become a stick person to be healthy, but anything over like 230lbs is putting so much strain on your body it's insane.
I've graduated from highschool now and I went through a nonbinary phase as well, shortly after I came out as bisexual and moved out of a homophobic environment (truly). My friend group of guys disowned me after I was outed at school. I had some other friends who were lgbt, and I was welcomed into the group. My ex gf from middle school was in there, and me and her started dating afterward during my sophomore year. Trans was an entirely new concept to me, and at first I thought it was just cross dressers like drag queens or smthing. But once I was encouraged to look into it, I realized that some trans people transitioned medically. This peaked my interest. I had always felt more girly and always had a female version of myself growing up. To this day I still do. I wasn't aware of what being trans was before I looked into it, and at first there were some parallels. I talked to my therapist abt the possibility of not being cis. She didn't try to get me on hormones or anything but she defiantly talked abt it. In fact, in most of my therapy sessions back then being trans was all that was talked about. My girlfriend came out as nonbinary as well, and would get irritated or constantly correct me for calling "them" my girlfriend. I didn't care how she dressed or acted that's what I liked about her. She was very edgy and tomboyish. Half my friend group was some form of trans, and as the year went on many also suddenly became some version of GNC (gender non comforming) or trans, including myself. I was genderfluid at the time, I even changed my name at school. Everyone but my parents knew. I was convinced they were completely transphobic and possibly honophobic by my counselor and friends. It was truly a wild time. Eventually me and my girlfriend broke up, I dated a guy instead (a real one) who cheated on me later, causing our whole friend group to fall apart. Someone else who knew my family found my Instagram account w a feminine picture and they/them pronouns, outing me as nonbinary to my parents who were not pleased. I stopped identifying that way to avoid anymore backlash. But my counselor had moved, and my friends stopped talking to me after I socially "detransitioned." That's when my journey towards common sense and transmedicalism began. I was tired of being lied to by the woke left. The queer kids at my school were the intolerant kind. I never spoke to them again. Now I'm wanting to study psychology for collage. Maybe become a psychiatrist lol. This was long so thanks for reading Misha sorry 😅
So glad that your vid arrived in my feed. Enriching to hear a younger person who is calling this out. Thank you and all who contributed their experiences.
I once saw a video where this girl's cat smacked the crap out of her for stating her pronouns to the camera, I laughed a little too hard at that one XD
I’m a detransitioner who’s been denied being able to legally change my sex marker back so I’ve resorted to explaining to doctors, “So I’m biologically female and identify as female but legally I am male,” because they just don’t understand what’s going on otherwise. Parents, don’t take your SA’d 14 year old daughter to a wacko gender therapist, please.
It's at the point where I'm pretty sure most FtM have backstories like yours.
@@stevenschnepp576 Almost without exception in my personal experience, except for some of the just BPD/narc genderspecials
Bruh this is why detransitioners get hate. Just because you made a valid mistake doesn't mean that the other like 98% of people who say they're trans will regret it too. Just let people be who they are ffs
damn sorry to hear that, that's actually tragic and why the hell would they not let you change back? I guess they are hypocrites lovely.
@@TieberiusVoidWalker I just wish so bad I was dead. Not to sound like them. I just don’t want to live as an unlovable freak. I had a double mastectomy as a teen and can’t get breast reconstruction now (insurance won’t pay for detransition stuff and I’m struggling to avoid homelessness right now)
WTF!? WANTS TO BE THE FIRST TRANS WOMAN TO HAVE AN ABORTION!? that is the most evil thing I've ever heard.
They are only saying that to get attention. All roads lead to narcissism.
@@satyricon65 are you saying you don't think that dude would do it if he could? Cause I definitely think he'd do it
@@Michael_Pepin You're both right. It's a cry for attention AND he would absolutely do it if he could. And, yeah, most vile thing I've heard in ages. They keep lowering the bar.
Would bet he wouldn’t want to be first trans woman to die in childbirth
It's not people's responsible to PAY attention to these people. They need to be happy not having anyone PAY attention to them, for free. If they want attention, they have to PAY people, not be giant walking clown shows.
"You want an IUD but don't have a cervix? Okay if you insist, but you might not like where I'm gonna stick it!"
😂💀
That was my mom's response when I told her about that. LOL
I was actually curious how it would absorb in a neovagina…. Would it work? Hermmmmmm?
When she read that I was like "Where do you want it? Up your ass?"
They just may like it.
The most F'd up part about this, is the stuff that doctors are SCRIPTED to say "Would you rather an alive daughter or a dead son" that is INSANE. That is emotional manipulation and I'm sure maaaany parents were emotionally manipulated into permanently altering their children.
What’s worse is treatment puts them at 1000x increase in suicide risk.
@@starspaceschool587totally false.
I am a phlebotomist and see the craziness all the time! Recently, I had a trans woman come in and our electrical medical records system said right there that the patient was born male but underneath that was a little attention sign that said “this patient may be able to become pregnant” like??????? I can’t deal😭
And this is a problem with that. When it comes to blood tests, there are many results that have a normal range depending on whether your sex (not gender) is male or female. If you are male and the lab results come to your doctor with female normal ranges attached, this causes medical issues that your physician SHOULD NOT be held responsible for. Your mental illness is the cause.
🤦🏻♀️ madness
Problem is that “the science” (medical schools and hospitals) now tell us that men are women and can get pregnant and obesity is a lifestyle choice. How do we fight mental illness when “the science” plays along?
@@kristenahubbard3338your physician should be held responsible, but that physician should be using the appropriate and honest information based on the person's sex not their identity. Doctors using incorrect information intentionally should be held responsible
I can't get over how stupid all of this is. Of course that trans woman can't become pregnant so...why do we have to pretend that it's a possibility? We are grown adults and everyday we have to enter fantasyland where biological men can get pregnant. It's utter insanity.
I have an issue at work with a trans woman repeatedly exposing herself to me in the women's restroom/changing room. I don't believe this person is truly trans. Instead, it's a pervert dude playing a part in order to get away with certain sexual proclivities. Ive reached out for help from management and HR several times. I honestly think they're thinking about firing me, even though I've been respectful abt everything and my best friend at work is a trans man. They're sick of me reaching out for something to be done about this. This last time, they told me to "Just don't go in there then!" I'm considering calling the police the next time this person decides to expose themselves to me. I've had it with this.
My wife works in a Heart Rehabilition Center. They have to treat trans people as women. Problem is that the minimum values of stamina (heart-rate lowering after exercise etc) are way lower in women than in men. They have to send these MEN home as "heart healthy" despite them having borderline heart attack levels. She personally knows of 12 dead trans people in the last 2 years alone bc of that. Let that sink in.
Well, thats a good way to clean up the populous
Omg thats horrific
Whatever it takes to get men out of women's spaces is fine by me right now.
Holy shit. I’m a congenital heart patient. That’s scary AF.
That's Eugenics at play. The powers at be actually want that particular population gone.
When i was going to my OB/GYN appointment to get an ultrasound for the baby I was very obviously carrying, there was this one nurse who was INSISTENT that I fill out paperwork that had nothing to do with my treatment, detailing my gender identity, pronouns, sexual orientation, and the number of people I'd slept with. Nobody else ever tried to make me fill out this paperwork. Only her. If I signed in with a different nurse, this woke nurse would come and find me and give me the paperwork again. This went on for several of my prenatal visits. She finally stopped when I 1) asked somewhat loudly in a waiting room full of people why she needed to know my sexual history -- she blushed, it was hilarious -- and 2) when I filled out on the sheet that I was a male-to-female trans dude and that my pronouns were (you guessed it) beep/boop/bopself. Not only have I never been addressed by those pronouns, never been directed to a urologist, and never been put on a pedestal for being a pregnant 'man', but that nurse has left me alone and glared daggers at me ever since.
The only one of those questions that is possibly medically legitimate is sexual history because STDs can be very bad for unborn baby. They typically still test you for all of them anyways just to be safe.
😂 That is the sort of thing I do
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I took a bunch of birth classes online and there was one where the lady was dancing around using mother, father, and a bunch of other normal terms. 😒
@@hoodwinkedbunny1953 I hope it wasn't the lady running the class. Nothing she tells you can be trusted if she doesn't even understand basic biology.
Nah seeing the word Obese on my medical sheet was an eye opener. I started hitting the gym and doing One Meal a Day and went down from 230 lbs to 180. Ill never understand these people
Good for you!! ❤️🔥
Yo well done! I know it can be a struggle to get going with weight loss, congrats on getting there!
For me it was the word "deconditioning".😅
That's so awesome!! Good for you! That's a huge accomplishment!!
Good for you!
When i was in 1st grade, I had a male classmate that was obsessed with She-Ra. She-Ra bookbag, lunchbox, binders, everything was She-Ra. He now has a wife and 3 kids. I'd hate to think where he'd be if this ideology was as profound then as it is now. Scary!
it's so ironic that trans ideas rely on sexist stereotypes
My boy loved "Mia and me" an Italian fairy show, he is over it now and is into venom. Let kids just like stuff they like.
When I was pregnant I asked my cousin for recommendations since we have the same values and I knew he'd recommend someone good; his wife told me their first pediatrician refused to call their son a boy and the med student that was with the doctor kept calling her a birthing person. They just walked out and found a new one.
Whenever I'm asked how I "identify," I always answer "I'm a man." If there's a followup something like, "OK, that's your _sex,_ but what's your _gender?"_ I always answer, "I'm a man." If the interrogator continues in that vein, I walk away.
If anyone ever asks what "my pronouns" are, I laugh and say "The same as everyone's, there is only one set of pronouns." If they don't like that, I walk away.
I recently had an intake appointment for an upcoming procedure and the nurse asked if I might be pregnant. I just stared at her disgustedly until she checked "no" on her computer form.
This adherence to reality has made me leave doctor appointments (and switch doctors) more than once.
very intrigued by what the "one set of pronouns" is, like are he/him/his the only ones 💀
Based.
Okay, I fully agree, but I have some important questions. What if you’re talking to a woman or referring to more than one person?? 😂 (It’s a joke calm down)
@@tinyelephant2104 I'm very intrigued by how he said his pronouns are "The same as everyone else's" - So...His pronouns are He, she, him, her.....??
@@tinyelephant2104you should probably study some English grammar if you can’t comprehend what he said 💀 💯 frfr bussin
Yo yo this person wants to get surgery to get a uterus just to have an abortion?! That’s the sickest thing I have ever heard. This a slap in the face to real women who cannot get pregnant
the us is just sick....
No cis woman would ever want that. This sounds more like a man with a fetish for imagining himself as a woman to me.
I am an adult cardiology RN. NICU means neo-natal intensive care unit. NICU nurses care for the most vulnerable babies. It is a very, very scientifically and emotionally demanding. Giving a NICU RN a hard time regarding pronouns is disgraceful.
Thank you for literally saving babies every day.
These people are ignorant and relentless. Thank you for what you do for society. God bless you.
Who was giving them a hard time?
It is scary to see how much trans is pushed on children. I know for a fact I would have been one of them. I was a huge tomboy growing up. Even now, I hardly ever wear makeup or dress up.
Same, but opposite. I'm a guy, but I was very sensitive, shy, and overly emotional as a child. Not anymore! But if I was a child now I'm sure some teacher would try to "rescue me" from "being trapped in a man's body."
Same, its actually terrifying. Just because I don't conform to all gender stereotypes doesn't mean I'm a boy and need to be permanently mutilated. We need to protect these kids
Same or some sort of genderfluid nonbinary mess
I was a sullen grunge kid who spent all thier time in the art department.
A few of my male friends were goths who wore a fair bit of makeup.
We DEFINATELY would have gotten sucked into thinking we were all non binary or something.
It's scary how social contagion affects kids. I remember when emo kids were a thing there seemed to be competitions amoung teenagers how many piercings it was possible to fit on thier faces. Unfortunate but not as serious as cross sex hormones and mastectomies 😢
@@tmc7903 I think that maybe trans, bi and gay is the latest sub-culture. When I was a teenager in the 80's, we had punks, mods and skinheads. When my kids were teenagers,
it was scene, grunge, emo, techno etc. Hopefully the pendulum will swing back the other way and the next generation will be a bit more traditional.
I'm glad theres still people like Misha left on earth, it's getting so crazy ..
I think people like Misha would be an increasingly large majority, if they knew what was going on. Most people just think trans = person with gender dysphoria. They don't see this woke craziness where some of these people are so delusional they can't acknowledge their biological sex. Sadly all the governments are getting woke because of $$$$.
The worst part is that these woke lunatics are in the minority, yet hold all the power. Or maybe worse yet, that they know they can't gaslight us all into believing in their ideology, so they're conditioning the next generation instead.
After I stopped transitioning I copped so much flak for it like it was an additional hassle to not just keep taking hormones even though I was sick, broke a rib, and was suicidal. Nobody believed I was actually happy as a man and I was accepting myself. But also being very informed and withdrawing my consent. Apparently it doesn’t fly when you wanna back out of it which is what I thought informed consent was all about. Took two years to reverse the effects of medically transitioning. Every person who congratulated me for transitioning in the first place now hates me.
They always hated you, they were just glad you were being groomed into a cultural Marxist without even knowing it
I give you props - wishing the best on your path ❤️🩹
Don't let the haters get to ya mate 🫡
Sorry you went through that. This is why voices like Buck Angel are so important. They don't tell anyone they should transition, simply teach about Dysphoria and push taking therapy for months at a minimum to ensure it's even severe enough to need transitioning(only current treatment for Dysphoria).
He also often goes into the difference between Trans, AGP, and calls out TRAs often for pushing lies or heavily omitted info.
Don't worry about those idiots, it's your life and it's your health.
on the note of the connection between gender dysphoria and eating disorders - been screaming this from the rooftops but no one listens! both come down to dysphoria (seeing one thing in the mirror and feeling something else, a 'disconnect') but one is (sometimes) treated seriously and the other is encouraged. that's why it seems like there's a lot of overlap. it comes down to the same root cause more or less but shows up in two different ways. I wish gender dysphoria was treated more like what you see in eating disorders. with love, with compassion, and with deep concern. we see someone with anorexia and recognize that them muttering about how fat they are is a sign there's some severe disconnect between what they see and what's actually there, I don't understand why we can't do the same with gender
TRUTH !!!
This. Body dysmorphia is a huge problem, especially with teens who are starting puberty. I'd be willing to put actual money on the idea that the vast majority of these kids are just going through the usual disconnect as your body goes through these huge changes
Preach it!!
The world government supports them
That's the strangest thing about Dr. Richard Levine. It's still possible to find all the patient reviews about him. He was a great pediatrician who helped a lot of kids with eating disorders. A big part of that was helping them accept who they are. So the kids he helped were really confused when the father of two started pretending to be a woman. He was able to help so many kids accept themselves, but somehow he couldn't accept that he's male.
My friend is a nurse and he sent me a picture of one of the ethics trainings he had to take. He's not allowed to use the term "Over weight" because it implies that there is a correct weight to be. He's not the smallest guy himself, and his response was "But... I am"
I have had so many patients who are morbidly obese, over 500 lb, 600 lb etcetera get upset with us for calling the fire department to come and help us move them. We aren't doing it to be mean to you, we're doing it because we would like to be doing this job in 2 years and not blow out our back trying to inappropriately lift something that we should not be lifting. I am no sooner going to pick up a 400 500 600 pound patient by myself / with one other person then I am to try to pick up a car's engine block alone. The risk of getting hurt is not worth sparing somebody's feelings, I have a life and a family to provide for. We try to approach these things in a gentle and respectful manner, but sometimes it does not matter how we approached it, they're just pissed off that we require help.
“ What’s eating Gilbert Grape “
My mom suffered a back injury in the 1980s when a morbidly obese patient fell on her while she was a cardiac step down nurse. She still has problems.
As a retired nurse I have long maintained that if you cannot walk due to your weight, if you cannot roll over due to your size, you cannot perform self care due to your size, why does management think only one person is required to care for such an obese person?
Takes me back when I was in an health outpost waiting in line, just to check if I healed of an infection. Next to me is a very obese woman, she needed two chairs to sit, I felt skinny near her and at time I weighted 242 lbs and barely fitted in one chair. This woman then starts to complain the chairs should have a little cushion and asked if I agreed. I said "well, yes, elderly people don't have much mass, so a plastic chair might be really hard for them", she tried to push the conversation on about fat people. Then she noticed I was in gym clothes and asked if I was going to make an heart exam or something, I said "no, I just will head to gym after the checkup". She legit thought I was joking. My autistic ass didn't understood she wanted me to say I was joking, so I said the truth: "I have an hereditary condition in my knees and I want to still be able to walk. You know? I was a kid athlete, I feel bad not being able to jump nowadays." SHE SLAPPED ME, said some things I don't paid attention, but I noticed she was threatening me. I kinda just stood up and got a little farther and security came. Idk what was going through my head, I might had felt spiteful, but I said something along the lines "don't worry, she can't walk towards me" and this sent her in a rage so deep she had a heart attack. I don't know what happened to her other than she was sent to the medical room and it was my time to be seen by the doctor (who asked why I got a blackened eye), but I remember of this woman with disgust. Like, okay if wanna be fat and be a problem to healthcare and stuff, but punching people for not wanting to be a burden is terrible.
I'm currently 191 lbs.
@@randomthoughts6680 Congrats and sorry that you have to go through that. Slapping strangers wtf.
Affirming delusions doesn't make them any less of a delusion... affirming a child's (or adult's) delusion they are a bird doesn't mean they can fly...
Exactly
@@Lyko5 Just know we furries do not agree with Otherkin nonsense. Only the super left leaning ones(most vocal furry minority) agree with that.
Don't be birdphobic (joking of course, you're very correct).
it honestly breaks my brain how stuff like this is accepted, but being "trans racial" is not (for example). like honestly how is thinking you are a different sex normal but a different race not? like genuinely
The adults should definitely be allowed to try.
So a transguy taking estrogen pills wanted to take contraceptives to limit estrogen?
Good luck trying to make sense of a person whose mind is basically in hell.
💀💀💀
He's asking for more estrogen and adding some progesterone on top. 10 years later wouldn't be surprised he gets cancer
@@alicekoscianski This made me chuckle despite how unfunny and dark it is.
This may have been mentioned before, but eating disorders are common in people who have been SA'd and it's been known that a lot of people who say they're trans/non-binary have been SA'd so there could be a huge connection.
Which is why it is horrifying that the newest WPATH guidelines (this is like the “medical” guidance group for trans) say that mental health professions are not (I repeat are not) to dig into other psychologies first when someone presents as trans. They are to just initiate the transitioning process. Europe and the UK have reverted back to counseling before anything else to identify underlying mental health issues. But the US activists are doing everything to discredit and ignore the data from over there.
@@rlight7334 Seriously?
Are they stupid?
So they're just ignoring everything? I thought it was bad enough that they were ignoring the fact that this is a trend, most kids want to fit in and do what everyone else is doing, being trans is getting hyped up so much, now they're not even going to look into other disorders or what may have caused those disorders?
Let's just say what it is, they don't care about the well being of the person, they're just trying to find a way to make the most amount of money the quickest way possible.
You get someone started on hormones they have to take them for the rest of their life, while still having psychological issues because the root cause was never looked at, a band aid was just slapped over a wound that was never cleaned.
Actually yeah. I wanted to be a boy and I had no idea why. Turns out I hated my body and felt disgusting about myself for the stuff that happened to me. Then the period bleeding started, which happened around my abusers birthday etc. Puberty is hard enough without the extra trauma. I guarantee you I would've transitioned if I was younger in a blue state.
Urinals in women's bathrooms? Tampon dispenser in men's? Since when do we live in a South Park episode? The level of absurdity is so high of can be visible from space.
@@lastchips7638 I just hope one of these days a jewish boy will come out and say: "you know, I've learned something today" and everything will return to normal
I've always said I will immediately leave an appointment if I hear the words "chest feeding" or "birthing person". I do go to a religious hospital so I'm sure I won't have to worry about that but still.
Watch out. Even the Catholics are playing along….
I’m genuinely going to take note of this …. For if I’m ever lucky enough to have a child to find a religious hospital just to hopefully avoid liberal bs
As an Autistic person myself, I absolutely cannot stand how my community is so closely intertwined with all this alphabet crap!
Ditto me, as an ADHD person!
I'm autistic too, went through school miserable, isolated, feeling like an outcast. I can see how they get so many of us, telling us that if we transition we'll suddenly become super cool and celebrated as a hero. We're in a dark chapter of history.
I’m a conservative guy teen in public high school. I’ve had increasingly more moments of how woke the school systems are becoming as I have gone up in grades specifically high school. In my higher level art class, and since it was higher level there was only about ten students in the class. So I knew my teacher was a liberal from having her previously in lower level art classes which had way more students per class. When the class started she gave everyone a paper about get to know us, which made no sense since everyone had already had her as a teacher previously, but to top it off asked what pronouns she should refer to us by and if we preferred a different opposite sex name to our legal name. However I just threw this paper straight into the garbage, but it was never brought up that I didn’t submit it. So in this class, a couple of students talked to the teacher frequently while working (the classroom is small so it is impossible to not listen), repeatedly throughout the year their conversations turned to politics and woke ideology. During these conversations they talked about how they hated Trump and couldn’t believe anyone would vote or want such a “horrible” person as a president. This progressed to the point they called people who would vote for Trump as horrible people, and the teacher even said she was scared of Trump and that he would be a dangerous president. The teacher said during Nikki Haley’s run that she would vote for her simply put because she is a woman and that she would be so much better than the horrible Trump. So I have nothing against having a woman president but I disagree strongly with simply having a woman be president purely because they are a woman. So as the year went on I was the only one who didn’t participate in these conversations, all the while they slammed conservatives. Until she assigned a project around the topic of patriotism, so for this I decided to draw Donald Trump with Maga written above him. This drawing was one of my best from the whole year, but when I got it back she gave me a 10/100. There was nothing in the rubric that I violated to get points marked off it was a good drawing, in my opinion better than some of my others that got A’s. However she failed me for this, all the while others people created artwork of obvious wokeness and democrats but those were completely fine. After my Trump drawing she spoke to me significantly less, and graded me much harder, taking off points for things that didn’t even make sense, including failing another assignment because “the people were in a triangle formation”-tf that was the point. I was originally going to take the highest level art class as I want to be an architect, but I decided not to take it because I didn’t want to put up with this any more.
That is ridiculous! i am sorry that is happening to you. My sisters teacher had them write a paper about how biden is better than trump or something along those lines and my sister did the opposite, said why she disagrees with biden and supports trump. She got marked off but told the teacher that she hit all the requirements and if her grade isn’t fixed, she will take it to the dean. Her grade was fixed within the next hour
Gosh this is so stupid. Isn't this supposed to be illegal or something? Good luck in the future man.
@@MrKoalaart why didn’t you talk to her who the principal?
We need a ton of Dr House (s) to flood the medical systems.
Yup every hospital needs it own Dr House, Dr Cox and Dr Kelso running the place to end this crap 😂
Or a President who says, "Enough of this nonsense!" and shuts this shit down.
REAL
@@willmercury Why not both? I think both is ultimately the best.
YESSSSSSSSSSSSS. Love this so much
My dad has never been fat. However, as he approached 60 his metabolism obviously slowed and he was doing less exercise. So as a result he gained weight, this was to some degree a risk to his health. When he got his yearly checkup his doctor weighed him and told him frankly that he was entering the obese category. This information hurt his pride. He immediately started taking the doctors recommendations, eating healthier and walking everyday till he was back in a healthy weight class. Sometimes hurting someone’s pride or feelings can save them and BE THE VERY THING THEY NEED!
Kindness can kill.
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Body positivity started as "let's not bully someone for their body, they might be unhealthy but it doesn't mean we're allowed to belittle them or make them feel less human," and I'm fully on board with that. However, seeing this denial of obvious health risks of being fat, especially from doctors, is concerning. In my country we're currently at the other extreme though - if you come to a doctor and you're fat, they won't take any of your concerns seriously and the only recommendation you'll get is "just lose weight," even if your issue has nothing to do with it. I don't think either extreme is good.
There is one cat video where it's owner states her pronouns and the cat smacks her for it.
So just a thought, maybe the solution is actually to fully play into the delusion instead of denial. If a trans woman insists she is having a miscarriage, treat her accordingly, including the full bill at the end. If she insists she has ovarian cancer, cut her open, give her chemo and bill her for it at the proper rate. When these people start getting unnecessary surgery, unnecessary painful recovery, and tens of thousands of dollars in unnecessary medical bills, they'll quickly stop their BS.
Unfortunately that’s a lawsuit waiting to happen. They want their cake and to eat it too.
@@frankm6546 that then still works. Once government and hospitals start getting lawsuits for it, they too will stop supporting delusions and start following biology again . MAKE BIOLOGY GREAT AGAIN.
Unfortunately, the doctors would get their medical licenses taken away.
errm they are already getting unnecessary painful surgery and bills. That literally describes "gender affirming care"
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I love it in certain situations when the law just completely ignores wokeness. And some of these people go into complete shock because they are so out of touch with the reality that their stupid demands are not actually valid in the real world.
I recently had a check-up at the VA. The nurse taking my vitals informed me of a new question they have to ask, but I didn't have to answer. The question is, "What is your sexual orientation?" I asked her how who I choose to have sex with affects the level of medical care I recieve and she let me know it doesn't and that she doesn't understand why they have to ask it now. And seeing as no one has to answer the question, it seems pointless to even ask.
Edit: Typos
When I was filling out basic info for myself when I went to establish care with a new doctor, sexual orientation was something I could optionally fill in a blank for... But I'm thinking, "Why the f*** is this even a question on here??"
it's probably just for their diversity records or something similar but can also be relevant when discussing things like sti testing and PrEP since these are regularly offered to people with high risk activity (basically getting with people who they don't know very well and are unsure of their hiv and sti status) but even this misses out those who either don't want to disclose or are heterosexual and are also partaking in high risk activity
@@post_human_luden How can it be relevant if the patient doesn't have to answer?
It could actually affect some risk factor for some stuff... but if they're not willing to admit it, why ask?!?
It's for risk factors pertaining to STIs.
I'm 44. One of my best friends bought me a tiara for my birthday as a joke. Of course I wore it to work because we work together. Someone came in my line and took the tiara off my head and said that I can't wear it because I was appropriating Princesses and little girls. I grabbed it back and put it back on my head and said, "Maybe I identify as a princess." The woman literally started crying and apologizing profusely. I stayed with a mad face until she left and then I laughed so hard that I had to go on break.
Men wore tiaras or tiara like head ware, many things just became associated with women that were at one time not female only. Tiaras are basically small crowns which men have worn. Also women do guy stuff and wear guy stuff all the time. Like ninety percent of what women do is appropriating males. Also basically all the things people think are female are not they’re male and were invented and constructed by men. Everything in your life basically is more male as it was invented by a guy and at one time used by men and then women used it more and as always they slowly took it as that’s what they do.
🙄@@ComeAlongKay
Not my experience, but a story I heard from a friend: some friends of theirs had gone in for an ultrasound to find out the sex of their baby. When they asked what the gender was, the doctor replied, "well the sex is female, but we won't know their gender for several more years." 🤨😐
When I had my son this last March, the nurse that gave him his first bath told me about how her daughter is doing this with her child. Of course, the nurse who's not thrilled with it says, "I'm pretty sure she's just a tomboy."
I find this VERY offensive as a woman. I have had a hard time this year with two miscarriages that broke my heart and these men are talking about pregnancy and abortion like it's nothing, it angers me.
I'm so very sorry for your losses. Wishing you healing and hope 🤍
@@cassidylhd Aw thank you so much ❤️
Years ago before a lot of this woke stuff, around the time when “plus size” was becoming more of a thing, I went to my Drs and naturally I got weighed. The Dr bless her was stumbling to find the right words, as she didn’t want to say I was fat in case I was offended, in the end I just said “you want to say fat don’t you?”. She didn’t half breath a sigh of relief 😂
Hearing these examples of healthcare appointments makes me think of the expense of time and money and the impact it has. Are biological men booking appointments with OBYNs, making it harder for women to get seen? Are the procedures and services adding to the overall cost? There is a ripple effect.
There's a trans woman who I used to follow on Instagram saying that she has a surgically created reproductive organ, but still goes to the OBGYN. Why? What is the point?
If anyone has a lack of muscle control to have bed mobility, it is normally suggested to have them as two-person care. Yes, there were a few people I could handle as a 130lb on my own when I worked as a CNA. But there were more patients that were two-person care than there were one-person or set up in our facility. The 700+lb man almost never went anywhere and he would always wait for a male CNA for his needs.
One lady didn't want to put in the work with PT and absolutely refused to use the hoyer lift, insisting she could get herself from her bed to the commode (because she had already lost the ability to get to the bathroom on her own in the first four months I was there) and then to her chair. Just turning made her sound like she ran a marathon and at three times my weight at least, it was hard to keep her chair still. Oh, and she couldn't be bothered to remember anyone's name so she just called us all "aide." I didn't realize it the first time until her friend, who was much nicer, called me miss to get my attention.
But the one that made us the most nervous was a 500+lb woman who had to go out once a month. She began frequently insisting that someone else needed to feed her because she couldn't do it herself so she wasn't any help with moving. The hoyer lift was not designed for handling her weight. It took four people to get her in her chair once but never less than three. The person operating the remote had to be heavy enough to stand on the other end so the machine didn't tip over and I was always on the other end to pull her into place or hold her chair. It was insane.
CNAs don't get paid enough already but as much as they train us to avoid bodily harm, they don't put their money where their mouth is. Chronically understaffed and without the appropriate equipment. Heck, that just reminded me that once, none of our battery chargers worked so the entire building of 85+ residents had to use one manual hoyer lift; I got real good at doing it by myself in the month we were getting it fixed.
Went for eye exam during the pandemic. The facemask fogged up every lens of the testing equipment, making accurate measurements impossible. Holding my breath to prevent the fogging resulted in disorientation and light-headedness, also making accurate measurements impossible. Nothing about Sarscov2 warranted that level of response to such a low risk.
“First trans to abort” Him treating it like it’s some sort of accomplishment. It’s VILE.
I'm pro abortion,but I'm German, so it's normal here, but getting pregnant with the intend to abort should be treated as murder.
Plenty of leftoids treat abortions like a trophy, like an achievement. It is a mental sickness among the left
Ok but how cute is your cat rolling all over around😍
Time stamp?
@@grobbelaarthibaud 8:51
When I went for an ordinary check up recently, the nurse took my blood pressure incorrectly. The number was wrong, so I showed her how to take blood pressure, which resulted in a correct reading. She then informed me that she no longer feels comfortable handling patients, holding their arms up, etc. She has been badgered by weirdos into doing a lousy job.
Poor girl. I'm a nurse and have had more than my fair share of inappropriate comments from men and women alike. Thankfully, when I was a baby nurse, I had more experienced nurses who would step in when people were being inappropriate and even one time a doctor who told off a patient for me. It can be hard to say something b/c you don't know if management will protect you or throw you under the bus. Now that I'm older I've finally learned to be firm but respectful and not allow parents to walk all over me when I'm just trying to do my job and take care of them to the best of my ability.
My experience isn't related to obesity or g.ender-- but I sought therapy after the passing of my father. I was understandably experiencing grief. I was in therapy for months, making great progress-- then all of a sudden my therapist inserted that I would do better with a Black therapist-- because apparently losing a parent is culturally specific!
Long story short-- she informed me we couldn't go further with therapy unless I switched to a Black therapist because there was nothing more that she could do for me as a Jewish woman. I felt so violated and I can't explain why. I still haven't gone back to therapy for fear of Woke. It happened a couple of years ago-- but I kinda want to report this. I don't want anything... I just think this should be reported. How is grief not universal??? I didn't grow up thinking like this-- then to seek help for a universal problem only to be met with this? This is what I call institutionalized racism!!!
OMG for real! Grief is a universal emotion experienced by people of all races and creeds! I think you absolutely should report her; that was bigoted and racist of her. Reporting her is a step towards restoring sanity.
I got a fun woke medical story for ya!
So in 2022 I was pregnant with my second child. I used artificial insemination because I'd had a devastating miscarriage with my boyfriend the year prior and it had destroyed our relationship. But I never could get past the insane need ti have another child. So I went that route
Anyways so I went to my regular prenatal visits and at EVERY SINGLE ONE, I had to fill out a form stating that I was in fact a woman and wanted to be addressed by female pronouns. All the documentation and posters in the offices said "birthing people" "pregnant people" and "they". Never said woman or she.
I then had a nurse that found out I used artificial insemination and she was literally bouncing up and down in her seat when she assumed I was a lesbian and how awesome that was. Her heart broke when I said I wasn't.
Final blow was when I went for an ultrasound and the sign in the waiting room said "masks optional" and nobody else was wearing one so I took mine off. I had a nurse viciously berate me for not having the mask on. . .in mid 2022. . .and how I was going to harm people. After my ultrasound I had the doctor berate me for not being vaccinated and for being a terrible mother and putting my baby's life at risk for not getting it. I still never got it and never had covid until this year and when I got it it was like a cold.
Needless to say I changed hospital networks after all this and reading reviews that everyone at the labor and delivery unit was forced into a C-section when they didn't need it and how horribly women were treated. I switched to the same network I had my first baby at. I had to drive an hour to appointments but that was ok by me to have none of this woke, abusive, BS
Congrats on standing your ground. IT must have been horrible. It was arleady bad when my gynecologist gave me a speech how I should take the vax blabla.
Why would the person want to purposefully have an abortion is beyond me
They don't, it's narcissistic attention seeking and childish rage baiting, conflated as simpleton transtrender's thinking they're being 'hilarious'.
4:35
This right here is so true.
I have an overactive metabolism due to my other health concerns and it has always been "acceptable" for people to call me a toothpick, sheet of paper, etc.
I am a 5'11" man and am 130 lbs, which is VERY skinny and, medically underweight.
The amount of times i have heard from family members AND strangers "oh honey you need a cheeseburger" or "is yo mama feeding you?" (i live in the south) is crazy.
Yet it ISN'T acceptable to comment on a family member needing to "lay off the cheeseburgers" because "that's rude"
And the comments you make about my weight isn't? i have been trying for over a decade to gain weight, i just can't.
irritates the fire out of me.
YES! I was given a warning for the following experience: I was training 6 women in a new position. At the time, I was 100 lbs at 5'5". As I was teaching it, this woman just blurted out "You're so flat chested". I said something like "Yeah. But, I'm skinny. You're... well... you know" - as I pointed to her gut. That wasn't the first or last time people were free to make fun of my weight, but I wasn't allowed to reciprocate because I should've "taken it as a compliment".
It's not acceptable in any situation. Calling you "toothpick" etc is just as wrong as going up to an obese person and making fun of them.
I'm exactly the same! Our collective Somatotype is Ectomorph. . . I'm in my mid- 60s now and have the same skinny build and waist size I had ss a teenager. . . I also discovered to my disgust ithat alcohol no longer gets me drunk. . It's NOT a superpower, it's a very expensive disappointment and it means my body can neutralise alcohol faster than when I was younger. . . It's like someone took all the fun out of life
My dad & brother were both like this. Until a certain age HIT! Then it was trying to get the weight down a bit.🙃 Same as women you hit that CERTAIN AGE!! LIFE IS CRAZY!! 😎 ✌🏻
It’s annoying having to eat constantly 24/7 but it’s worth it, man. If you’ve genuine tried to gain weight and wasn’t able to on your own then I suggested speaking to a dietitian. You’re putting yourself at risk the longer you wait to change. Best of luck mate.
An 11 year old who weighs 145 lbs with an history of binge eating then anorexia - the people who need help are the PARENTS. They are supposed to be the ones teaching their children about a balanced diet and portion control and limiting their access to fast/UP food. There's a vid doing the rounds at the moment of a 6 year old struggling - and I mean STRUGGLING - to get on a simple child's climbing activity frame because they are wider than they are high. The ONLY people to blame for that are the PARENTS. Parents need to parent. Letting a small child stuff their face with whatever they want is NOT parenting; it's abdicating responsibility.
To anyone in school/college: bring a book sth to do, sit in the back and ignore the fact your blood is boiling. Confronting a teacher will make your life miserable. Write what they want you to write (or even ask chat GPT if you wish), get a passing grade, move on. You don't wanna have to go through that twice
It's especially frustrating when it's not a class that warrants any sort of discussion. Having to sit quietly while your professor rants about gender identity, for a decent portion of (college) piano class, with no way to distract yourself is not fun. You can't respond or argue back even if you wanted to. You just sit there being lectured on a subject you didn't sign up for.
Abortion debate itself aside, if you have a bunch of people on an organ transplant list who actually want to use the organ for its biological function and someone demands a uterus just so they can sympathize with the experience of not wanting it to perform its function, they should be barred from the transplant list.
If obese is phobic, I hereby dub them "morbidly body positive"
And transgender people are reality phobes.
I work in the medical field in a very Democrat majority district so have had to watch wokeness take over. I've seen some upsetting things (most often involving autistic kids transitioning). Most recently, the case that upset me was a family that came in. The "wife" was actually a biological male. And the "husband" was really a female. But they're both adults so I ignored it. However, they also brought their 3 kids under 14: A male that identified as a girl, a female that identified as a boy, and another female that identified as non-binary. Now I don't need to be a statistician to know that there is something very wrong with that scenario. Things got even worse, but I can't share the rest due to HIPPA. I've thought about those poor kids every day since. We are failing them. I'm SO sick of this woke shit!! 😫
Start documenting and compiling everything, then file suits against the hospital et al when you have enough evidence. Whistleblower anonymity is a thing and most lawyers and courts will uphold it. Subsequent subpoenas should at least theoretically take care of the difference. Also if you can find like minded individuals who have the guts, get them to partner with you. This can't go on forever.
HIPAA
When I was going through puberty and first periods, I actually told my mother I wanted my breasts and uterus removed. Thank heavens I live in Asia and it was 20 years ago, and nobody encouraged me.
I was a tomboyish girl as well. Growing up with a twin brother, the different treatment girls and boys receive, the limitations and weaknesses of a girl and constant ridicule often frustrated me. It's not that I wanted to be a boy, I just want girls to be treated fairly. I was just too young to see that.
I think many girls go through that phase, and adults should not forget how it was to be a teenager.
Yeah, I went through a similar phase for the same reasons growing up
I got so mad when I took my OB nursing class (pregnancy and labor/delivery) and realized in my book they no longer use the words "mother and pregnant woman". They changed every term to "person giving birth" and "pregnant person" and the pronoun "they". I went through that book and couldn't find where they referred to pregnant women as women or used the pronouns "she". It really made me upset and angry but of course I can't speak out without retaliation. I need to be a nurse and I'm too stressed to add drama to my life.
My fiance is a large man at 6'9" and 600 lbs and so i asked his take. He said " doc pls tell me im fat and help me with my eating disorder." This goes for me too. I had binge eating and avoidant restrictive food intake disorder. pls tell me im losing too fast doc. Save my life, not my feelings. Do no real harm. I'll survive being offended for 2 seconds. in fact, i'll thank you. i literally argued with my er doc and we butted heads but i love the man and trust him with my life ten fold.
I think they should give him the IUD, without pain meds, just like a woman experiences. That might change his mind and set him right again. 😂
That people are willing to put themselves in actual pain and mortal danger in this ideology really does show just how sick and sad this is.
When I started developing breasts, I was soooo not ready. I was in deniiiial! My mom basically had to force me to start wearing training bras.
Your body changing is UNCOMFORTABLE *shocked!* leave it alone and they’ll get over it and literally grow into their developing selves
I went to a doctor’s office recently and when they had me fill out an information form like every other doctors office. When I got to the gender part they had written down male, female, nonbinary, transgender, amongst many other gender names that I can’t remember because there was so many. For a moment I was taken off guard that this could happen a doctors office, but now I feel a the little ridiculous that I was surprised since this is considered normal these days.
The questionnaire at my office has like 15 options and then other. WTF is OTHER??? Someone who identifies as a raisin and is sexually attracted to clouds?
When I had to get surgery, they kept asking me the stupid identity question at every appointment. I was an F-15, an F-35, an AH-64, an M109, a TU-57, and an A-10 Warthog
As a morbidly obese person I absolutely hate that doctors tip toe around the issue of my weight. I know it's what causes 99% of my health issues and I know I need to fix it but I have a food addiction and struggle a lot with food in general.
Instead of even being allowed to discuss it or direct me to help they pretty much say weight has nothing to do with any of my issues. FFS there is 0% possibility of being healthy at my weight stop babying me.
I hate that crap. My doctor when I was young would've told it to me straight and laid into me to lose weight because he wasn't an idiot and took his patient's health seriously. Doctors today don't care about us at all.
Here’s my story. Just got done with grad school for psychology. Focus on addiction. I had to take a we hate all white people class where I was supposed to learn about micro aggression and how important diversity is.
I made everyone angry by ending every single comment I made online and in person by stating “diversity divides commonality connects.”
The professor did not like me, but they couldn’t fail me because all of my references and all of my arguments were unassailable.
I deliberately did not submit anything for my final week because I would’ve been ashamed of myself for getting an a in the class. I settled for a beer out of character.
Misha, I'm a proud Boomer. You are a welcome discovery to me and a breath of fresh air.
My middle school granddaughter was seriously behind in language and math skills, but she firmly believed that there are 77 genders. That's what her teachers focused her attention toward.
She was also not diagnosed as being on the spectrum until this year after moving from California to Oklahoma. Her school staff is great, and she is thriving. Even has a part-time job.
When I went for my booking appointment when I first found out I was pregnant, I was asked if I was male or if I've ever identified as male... THEN HOW COULD I BE PREGNANT!? I assume if you answer yes, you get referred to psychiatry instead of maternity services? 🤯
The autistic one truly hurt me to hear. I went with an incomplete diagnosis until I was 18 and I never fit with the girls, boys were are the friends I had, my interests leaned on masculine things. Now you ask me why: my parents loves cars, weapons and both know how to fix things. The most girly tv shows were aired at the time I was at school or just in cable channels which I had no access, but more "everyone" things aired everytime on open tv (let alone dolls are expensive) and the fact that feminine clothing just was a little overwhelming (because of the fabric) I thought I just fitted better with boys. I even asked my mom why I was different from other girls and she said that "every girl is different from the other girls." and "Nobody in this family is really normal, so you won't be. Think we are the Addams, but more colorful".
Just when I was 18 I understood why I didn't click so well with the girls and clicked a little better with the boys (they are usually more blunt and direct, which made communication easier), it's because I don't click normally with people in general. It explained why I too was seen as distant in my relationship, even though I was showing all love and affection I had to offer, because I simply don't connect with people normally. Now I navigate this situation a lot better.
Imagine if I was a kid nowadays instead of 15 years ago. I probably would have mutilated my body fully (or not, since my mom wouldn't let it happen to me because she knows I'm prone to regret things I don't think through and would have sat me down to see if I was sure about it).
*Real body positivity = not hating yourself, but RESPECTING yourself* so pursuing healthy choices. And *real self-love = accepting yourself as you are, but still honouring yourself* - doing the upmost to take care of yourself.
The body/fat positivity movements have completely distorted this.
I have always disapproved of fat-shaming, judging people based upon their weight, and general bias, discrimination and abuse towards overweight people.
Many people cannot help their weight due to physical and/or mental health issues. So it’s imperative we maintain respect and compassion.
However, collectively it’s also important not to pedestal reckless behaviours, selfishness, and nonsense.
Okay so my Aunt is a Nurse in the NHS and she mainly deals with cancer patients and stuff like that and a Trans “woman” came in one day and asked for a smear test, my aunt (trying not to loose her sanity) tried explaining to him that only real women can get a smear test but due to the Scottish government implementing the new “anti-free speech law” my aunt can loose her job by saying stuff like this as it’s deemed offensive so she went to her boss and she told her to give him a smear test, she had to give up precious time dealing with cancer patients for a man that can’t even get it in that area. This is the mad world we live in
As a fellow Scottish person, I’m sick of this too. I’m sure one day our country will turn around like America did.
If I was a teenager in USA/Canada at this time, I would seriously think that I need to transition. I had ED for a very long time (I am absolutely sure that EDs develop in women because they are not taught to accept themselves and probably haven't seen positive reaction towards their bodies from close women), had more "masculine" characteristics, yet I have very feminine body. Just getting rid off this obstacle - my feminine body, would make sense. Its nonsense. Now I am grown up woman and I am very feminine and enjoy it, because I learned to love and accept myself.
1:24 It's more than narcissism, it's insanity.
Misha, I admire your intellect, compassion and maturity. You give this old, ( man ) hope for the future. I have been subject to comments for being skinny all my life because it’s true. Cest la vive!
One of my children (age 13) has been jokingly, calling me, “birth giver”. She’s a Spitfire, but that mouth is gonna get her in trouble. I find that very degrading. Like, “Child 🤦🏻♀️…I am your mother!”
I was a huge tomboy as a kid. I had pixie cuts multiple times, wore the boys uniforms at school instead of the girls, played contact sports and played with toy trucks, rode skateboards and you’d never see me in a skirt or a dress etc. My mother said she tried to get me into barbies and baby dolls but I was never into it. I can’t help but think that if I was growing up today gender affirming care may be pushed onto me? bc if u asked me if I preferred being a boy back then Id probably say yes. Now at 22 Iam so feminine i looove girly things. I cannot imagine.
Thank God I grew up in the '70s and '80s, I was a tomboy and that was just fine. In 2024, these Doctors want to make you into a Mark, not MaryKate.
I'm a guy and I've been over 40 lbs overweight and overweight women were calling me "skinny". Fortunately, I've only got to lose about 20 lbs more to reach my ideal weight of about 190 lbs.
There is no such thing as a "Male to Female" nor a "Female to Male". Those characteristics, traits, variables, words and outright facts can't change.
When you're born a male, you will live your life as a male and then expire as a male.
Your identity is something you made up in your mind to make yourself feel better. Your identity doesn't change the world around you unless it intrudes on the rights of others. People don't have to agree with your identity nor participate in your imaginary world. Boys and men are males. Girls and women are females.
Identify as a maple leaf or trampoline spring all you want.
Reminds me of a convo I had with my sister.
It was that ad for AIDs medication was on and she said to my aunt "oh, that one must be a dude who became a woman."
I said "no. It's still a dude, he's just wearing a dress."
It's insulting that men think they can just "become" my sex with some makeup and glitter.
For a good 8-10 months, our family was stuck in a hotel because the home we’d expected to close on did not pass inspection and we’d already sold our previous home upstate assuming the walkthrough would be a formality. Our diet was exactly like “Supersize me.” If it wasn’t drive thru, it was a tv dinner from a microwave. We had no kitchen.
I took my then about 7yo son to a clinic dr for BTS checkup. The nurse who examined him said, “You should watch your diet, like mom does” or something along those lines of me being healthier than him. I don’t remember exactly what she said. The boy’s 22 now.
My son’s little face showed shame, I remember that. I followed out the room with her and shut the door behind me. I told her that I puke yellow cause I’m trying to save a buck and that boys in general are more prone to ED, so how dare she! Then I went back in that room and waited with my kid.
The dr came in with a different nurse and they didn’t mention it. As I was checking out, the desk lady said, “U made our nurse cry, ya know.” Are you kidding me?! I told her, “She should be happy it’s me cause any other mother would’ve laid her out. She’s supposed to be the professional here!”
Its crazy how conservatives were the issue before (underdiagnosing people, specially women) and now the liberals are doing... whatever the hell this is 💀
The whole freaking medical system needs fixed at this point 😭
Honestly that sounds like a bunch of feminist schlock to me. Some way for them to play victim much like the built on lies 2% myth.
I always considered myself a liberal *g*. I never had a problem with homosexuals and pro choice but after I rejected the cov vaccination I suddenly find myself at home in the far right corner. I much prefer hanging out with "conservatives" nowadays because they seem to be the only normal people left and are perfectly happy to be just a man or a woman.
@@missk7001this is the reason why I don't have any friends my age😂. They're all woke.
@@missk7001 leave your liberal baggage at the door, please and thanks
I think ed is sometimes mistaken for someone being trans might be because most if not all people who suffer from ed, have body dysmorphia, which can be confused with gender dysphoria..
1:30 "...the men's bathroom has a tampon dispenser. This is in a major city in Canada..."
Calling it now, it's Vancouver.
(Toronto is potential runner-up, though)
Trans women want period cramps? Here. Take mine. I’d be so happy to be rid of them. Actually you can have the whole period. No more mood swings, pain, waking up to bloody clothes or dealing with bloating and breakouts for me!
It's all a joke to them. They have absolutely no idea what it's really like. For them, it's just one more thing to get sympathy for. This really angers me. I've suffered since I was 15 of problems related to my period, just as many other women have. And for them to treat periods as a fun thing, it's a total slap in the face.
I get it, men can relate to what women go thru. So...don't trivialize it then. It's so insulting. Many of these "trans women" are nothing but attention-seekers.
Fr. Im.infertile but still get the blasted thing along with the hormonal migraines. If they want a period, they can have mine and everything that goes with it
I ended up hospitalized due to my period (PCOS-related menorrhagia in 2023). They want it? They can have it!
A kitty cameo! It's been a while. You should totally do a proper interview of your cat. Ask her the important questions like: "Are you a woman?" "What even is a woman??" 😸
I work for a leading medical record software company. About a decade ago we had a huge push to split "gender" from "sex" items in our system (gender being the ones that control stuff like auto-generated text in notes, and sex being the ones that control recommended medical procedures). Legal sex is a third thing altogether which just mucks the whole system up but insurance companies like it.
It's a mess. Customers (aka medical systems) don't universally use the distinct descriptors. Patients don't universally self-report. Some nurses will update the wrong thing and get stuff flagged in all sorts of wrong ways. (There's a similar problem for "preferred name" vs "legal name" that messes with insurance companies all the time)
In short, if you are trans, absolutely remind your medical care team of this EVERY TIME you see them. It is super possible that the doctor's office accidentally has you flagged the wrong way because of a misuse of a feature in their tracking system (or a non-use, in the case of some religious organizations).
Cats are always offended by their owners, no matter what their owners say or do, so I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Throughout my entire life, I’ve been made fun of for being skinny, and the only time it didn’t hurt is when somebody who is overweight, made skinny jokes about me and overweight jokes about themselves
Because sometimes we need a joke about our wait to make ourselves and others feel better it’s all that where you come from
If you’re saying it to be hurtful, of course it’s gonna be hurtful but if you say it for my supportive way, sometimes you can joke around that is a you’re a skinny bones and I’ve got some fat to share with you
Like me and my friends who are overweight joked around all the time that they should give me some of their fat because I need it so badly because I can’t keep it on me and they have a hard time losing it
If a doctor asks me if I am pregnant, they will not like my response.
If I was in my teens or 20s and a male doctor asked me that, they would need dental work.
I work as a nurse aide at a hospital. Patient rooms are either single or double. So for double rooms, the patients have to be the same sex/gender. The only time I've seen a man and a woman in the same room was a married couple. I've only cared for one transgender person (male to female). They had to have their own room. Your biological sex matters in the medical field.
When you have anorexia the main priority for any doctor is to keep you alive. At the stage of anorexia diagnosis, chance of mortality is high and prioritising mental health is not appropriate. That being said, relapse is likely without mental health treatment
7:00 I wonder if insurance covered the testing knowing this was a male patient. What a waste of resources.
1:24 Plus, running those tests costs money. These costs are added to the overall cost of Healthcare, causing the cost to escalate for all.
An escape room in my city has a gender neutral bathroom and I absolutely hate it 😠 love the venue though, but every time I would go to use the bathroom there would be some dude peeing with the cubicle door open - makes me feel so uncomfortable ! They even had signs reminding men to close the door when using the cubicle so must be a common problem
Makes me so uncomfortable - male and female bathroom etiquette is different and should be kept separate !!
End up using the disabled toilet every time
I work in homeless services. I got yelled at recently for denying women's shelter to someone identifying as nonbinary. I explained that women's shelters are only open to female identified individuals.
We've had so many trans individuals over the last few years that we've had to create separate services specifically to meet that need.
My oldest son’s favorite color when he was 3-4 was pink. He loved the color pink. Wanted pink everything. Guess what. I just bought him the pink stuff and still raised him as a boy. His favorite color changed to red, then to grey, then to golden yellow. He’s just your typical preteen boy now. Imagine the harm it could have caused if I had decided that him liking pink meant he must actually be a girl. Colors are just colors, toys are just toys. Let kids be kids.
I don't know how common this is, but I'm having problems with male doctors. They keep trying to decipher "what I'm really trying to say" rather than just listening to the straightforward English sentences I was speaking. I didn't really notice this until I spoke with a female doctor. She had a much more ordered mind; our conversation moved along swiftly & we accomplished a lot. I'm considering asking everyone to have their hormone levels checked.
that sounds like a person problem, not a male doctor problem tbh
I'm noticing this in ordinary conversations now. So many words have become code language for fringe groups that I can't seem to speak without accidentally telegraphing something I don't intend. I'm talking at cross purposes with people who think we're having other conversations entirely. Drives me insane!
@@HandgunSafe more eyes on this comment, the secret jargon and double meanings make having conversations with new folks tricky sometimes
Sounds like a you problem.
It's because if a male doctor says something specific to a woman, especially a woke woman, they'll get offended and call it sexual harassment or misogynistic and the doctor can get in trouble. Men have to be careful with what we say to female patients.
My husband is a diabetic and had trouble keeping his sugar up for a few years. It was always bottoming out and dropping while he was asleep. He went to his endocrinologist for a three month check up and weighed 249.6 lbs. He had a whole issue with it and started looking at weight loss options. After a few weeks he was doing a calorie deficit, where he would only eat about 2,000 calories a day. He started in late November.
Fast forward to nearly a year later, he now weighs 214 lbs. We didn't even notice the loss at first but now it's so clear that he's lost nearly fourty pounds 🥺🫶🏻 his sugar has been WAY better and I don't even remember the last time it got super low. He looks and feels so much better. I'm so proud of him. You don't have to become a stick person to be healthy, but anything over like 230lbs is putting so much strain on your body it's insane.
I've graduated from highschool now and I went through a nonbinary phase as well, shortly after I came out as bisexual and moved out of a homophobic environment (truly).
My friend group of guys disowned me after I was outed at school. I had some other friends who were lgbt, and I was welcomed into the group. My ex gf from middle school was in there, and me and her started dating afterward during my sophomore year. Trans was an entirely new concept to me, and at first I thought it was just cross dressers like drag queens or smthing. But once I was encouraged to look into it, I realized that some trans people transitioned medically. This peaked my interest. I had always felt more girly and always had a female version of myself growing up. To this day I still do. I wasn't aware of what being trans was before I looked into it, and at first there were some parallels.
I talked to my therapist abt the possibility of not being cis. She didn't try to get me on hormones or anything but she defiantly talked abt it. In fact, in most of my therapy sessions back then being trans was all that was talked about. My girlfriend came out as nonbinary as well, and would get irritated or constantly correct me for calling "them" my girlfriend. I didn't care how she dressed or acted that's what I liked about her. She was very edgy and tomboyish. Half my friend group was some form of trans, and as the year went on many also suddenly became some version of GNC (gender non comforming) or trans, including myself. I was genderfluid at the time, I even changed my name at school.
Everyone but my parents knew. I was convinced they were completely transphobic and possibly honophobic by my counselor and friends. It was truly a wild time.
Eventually me and my girlfriend broke up, I dated a guy instead (a real one) who cheated on me later, causing our whole friend group to fall apart. Someone else who knew my family found my Instagram account w a feminine picture and they/them pronouns, outing me as nonbinary to my parents who were not pleased. I stopped identifying that way to avoid anymore backlash. But my counselor had moved, and my friends stopped talking to me after I socially "detransitioned." That's when my journey towards common sense and transmedicalism began. I was tired of being lied to by the woke left. The queer kids at my school were the intolerant kind. I never spoke to them again.
Now I'm wanting to study psychology for collage. Maybe become a psychiatrist lol. This was long so thanks for reading Misha sorry 😅
So glad that your vid arrived in my feed. Enriching to hear a younger person who is calling this out. Thank you and all who contributed their experiences.
The cat became very agitated when you questioned it's pronouns - But I guess that's what animals do. 😹
I once saw a video where this girl's cat smacked the crap out of her for stating her pronouns to the camera, I laughed a little too hard at that one XD
@@kitalalaris The cat was saying "Of all the people to adopt me, I got YOU!"
Somebody who has struggled, putting on weight all their life, even though I eat a lot of food, I get made fun of for being skinny
I saw a con dom dispenser in a bathroom once, someone wrote on it "this gum tastes funny"
PFFFFTTTTT😂😂😂😂
LOL😂😂
😭
My ex is from another country, in his country they have actual sex toys in the bathroom dispensers.
@@волк-ы1ш WHAT!? which country??? oh my god
Going to have to see what my nurse girlfriend thinks about this. She's not a big fan of woke nonsense either 😵💫