As an old man that was of dating age during the 60’s and 70’s I can tell that dating in general during that era really was great fun. And it wasn’t just the dating, but socializing in general was amazing fun before the age of smart phones and dating apps. Maybe I’m just nostalgic but I’m telling you, you don’t know what you’re missing, it saddens me to see how things have become.
@binkysteaver9880 Im not from that generation but as a 90's kid, i can definitely understand what it was like to go out without iphones and instagram BS so can kind of relate in a way, i think that's why i find it easy to talk to people in their 30s-40's and even older folk.
Regarding effort, back then expectation was that we would be married for life. Nowadays, marriage means few years. So, why would anyone put in a lot of effort?
Basically marriage is something that women enter to get a retirement plan after she pops out the kid in response to her biological clock ticking. Once she “gets bored” or “is not happy”, cha Ching…she is back to the streets and the man is living in a box under a bridge. No thanks.
Yup. I remember back in the 2000 going to the bar with friends. Some the guys would go home at the end of the night with Hippy type Women, only to have a hookup. I always thought to myself I’d have given those same Women commitment and had children with them. Instead they chose the Chad only to devalue themselves. Sucks.
Dude is not only social media ,men always wanted beautiful women its our nature.thing is in the past they used to settle but they where miserable.its better to be alone and miserable instead of being in a relationship and miserable.
I expect nothing from everyone so I'll never be disappointed let down or feel heartache again after growing up in a family not my own (I'm adopted) where so called family didn't know what to do around you and talked behind your back thinking you weren't listening. People can say they'll do whatever they want and I don't expect them to follow through so if they don't I don't care and if they do then that's fine but I wasn't expecting them to anyway. The only person you can truly rely on in this world is yourself because people will only let you down when needed the most.
In the past rejection was not something that a man would be shamed for. In modern toxic culture if/when a man is rejected he is shamed by both men and women who have no idea who his is and runs a huge risk of becoming "...You know...That guy..." and treated like he has some sort of "Ick" ( even though that have no idea who his is) because someone has rejected him. It's been my experience when I made the effort to put myself out there. Rejection online is silent and no one gets to see you get rejected. Whay is this not talked about
Everywhere I go everyone is so wierd. No one wants to connect. Very self absorbed. It's like being social in general is a lost language to the entire population
The fact is that in our grandparents time even the shittiest of man could find wives. That had to do with the social and economic status of women. Once a women left her father’s house she virtually has no options for supporting herself outside of finding a husband. Hell a women even couldn’t even get a bank account for herself without her husband co signing until like 1972 or something. So for most of history the vast majority of women once they got to a certain age would settle for any decent guy who came along. Because a guy who they don’t want but was decent was better than the potential alternatives of having to support yourself when you lack social and economical independence. This is no longer true at least in the west. A women can get a job have a bank account support herself save for retirement and living as a retiree without ever having needed a husband. Women no longer marry us because they need to in order to survive. They only marry us when they want to. Many men are upset by this. Because many men feeling entitled to female companionship just by the virtue of existing. Many men think “well I’m nice I’m having a job I’ve never beaten a woman” and they don’t understand why those baseline qualities aren’t good enough to attract a woman the way they used to be. And men who feel entitled to companionship get angry and resentful about this and spiral into loneliness and despair without understanding that just being nice or decent and having a job and not beating your spouse are baseline standards today that we except of everyone. Most women want more than that from their romantic partners since they now have the option to be more selective than they were able to be in the past. This is why the older generations' advice on finding a mate is completely useless because in their time it was really enough just to be nice.
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Bro most man have 0 dating options … this is insane 😵💫
We are not living in an " modern society " it peaked between 1980-2005 , we are living in the declining society these days.
Dystopian society
It's riddled with lies and traps
This is depressing. Every good person deserves traditional dating.
As an old man that was of dating age during the 60’s and 70’s I can tell that dating in general during that era really was great fun. And it wasn’t just the dating, but socializing in general was amazing fun before the age of smart phones and dating apps. Maybe I’m just nostalgic but I’m telling you, you don’t know what you’re missing, it saddens me to see how things have become.
yes
@binkysteaver9880 Im not from that generation but as a 90's kid, i can definitely understand what it was like to go out without iphones and instagram BS so can kind of relate in a way, i think that's why i find it easy to talk to people in their 30s-40's and even older folk.
Regarding effort, back then expectation was that we would be married for life. Nowadays, marriage means few years. So, why would anyone put in a lot of effort?
Basically marriage is something that women enter to get a retirement plan after she pops out the kid in response to her biological clock ticking. Once she “gets bored” or “is not happy”, cha Ching…she is back to the streets and the man is living in a box under a bridge. No thanks.
dating, marriage & chivalry are dead. women killed it.
Yup. I remember back in the 2000 going to the bar with friends. Some the guys would go home at the end of the night with Hippy type Women, only to have a hookup.
I always thought to myself I’d have given those same Women commitment and had children with them.
Instead they chose the Chad only to devalue themselves.
Sucks.
Almost at 50k! Been watching you from the beginning. Cheers from the States.
Awesome! Thank you!
Women use dating apps as speed dating with restaurant meals instead of finger food. You're just a number now, and you're not number one.
Ah yes. Sliding into DMs 😂. What a world we live in.
Yes which is why when the Boomers ask us about relationships, they are completely out of touch. To the point of ignorance.
If they see it for themselves they change their tune.
Great script writing and delivery ✌️
Glad you think so!
Dude is not only social media ,men always wanted beautiful women its our nature.thing is in the past they used to settle but they where miserable.its better to be alone and miserable instead of being in a relationship and miserable.
I expect nothing from everyone so I'll never be disappointed let down or feel heartache again after growing up in a family not my own (I'm adopted) where so called family didn't know what to do around you and talked behind your back thinking you weren't listening. People can say they'll do whatever they want and I don't expect them to follow through so if they don't I don't care and if they do then that's fine but I wasn't expecting them to anyway. The only person you can truly rely on in this world is yourself because people will only let you down when needed the most.
In the past rejection was not something that a man would be shamed for. In modern toxic culture if/when a man is rejected he is shamed by both men and women who have no idea who his is and runs a huge risk of becoming "...You know...That guy..." and treated like he has some sort of "Ick" ( even though that have no idea who his is) because someone has rejected him. It's been my experience when I made the effort to put myself out there.
Rejection online is silent and no one gets to see you get rejected.
Whay is this not talked about
To be honest bro, you can't change height due to genetics. All most of us good men want is women that are cooperative, not combative
There can't be dating apps in the future if there's no dates.
It's a very dystopian world like Gattaca
"Hope has died"
not to mention the selfies lol and half naked pics, a desensitised society. frankly i am disgusted.
Actually we were building towards this even in the boomer generation!
Everywhere I go everyone is so wierd. No one wants to connect. Very self absorbed. It's like being social in general is a lost language to the entire population
the laws have changed and modern women have the power to relationships….traditional is long dead 😂😂
power to get P&D more like
Yep 😂
Facts spoken here...💯
Dating is dead but working on yourself to better your own life is not. Better just to redirect your time, energy, and money toward that instead.
It is what it is.
That has always been an extremely stupid and ignorant sentence.
@ you sound insecure
What goes up must come down as they say, none of this is sustainable and I doubt it will last.
I've never been able to hook up on a dating app
There's no better place to throw the line than the toilet
Why even bother ?
Everyone has moved on to VR dating and I will too.
Like a A.I girlfriend?
Dating American women? No, thank you.
Bugger off with your advert in the middle of your video. I pay for Premium, NO ADVERTS!
If my life in terms of love could be compared to countries, it would be Somalia: poor as hell. While some guys are USA. That scks a lot
Leave them alone. The obsession with Africans is psychotic😂
The fact is that in our grandparents time even the shittiest of man could find wives. That had to do with the social and economic status of women. Once a women left her father’s house she virtually has no options for supporting herself outside of finding a husband. Hell a women even couldn’t even get a bank account for herself without her husband co signing until like 1972 or something. So for most of history the vast majority of women once they got to a certain age would settle for any decent guy who came along. Because a guy who they don’t want but was decent was better than the potential alternatives of having to support yourself when you lack social and economical independence. This is no longer true at least in the west. A women can get a job have a bank account support herself save for retirement and living as a retiree without ever having needed a husband. Women no longer marry us because they need to in order to survive. They only marry us when they want to. Many men are upset by this. Because many men feeling entitled to female companionship just by the virtue of existing. Many men think “well I’m nice I’m having a job I’ve never beaten a woman” and they don’t understand why those baseline qualities aren’t good enough to attract a woman the way they used to be. And men who feel entitled to companionship get angry and resentful about this and spiral into loneliness and despair without understanding that just being nice or decent and having a job and not beating your spouse are baseline standards today that we except of everyone. Most women want more than that from their romantic partners since they now have the option to be more selective than they were able to be in the past.
This is why the older generations' advice on finding a mate is completely useless because in their time it was really enough just to be nice.
Thats a lot of horse shit. What box did you pull that out
Facts