How Social Media Destroyed Men's Social Lives

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  • @SCGSHOW
    @SCGSHOW  5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

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  • @andrewcorbett5729
    @andrewcorbett5729 วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    Im glad i was young in the 90s and truly lived

    • @ivanmaric5218
      @ivanmaric5218 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      The best time to have evrething from young life, I miss those days 😢❤❤❤

    • @Grandmaster_Sub-Zero
      @Grandmaster_Sub-Zero วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Same brother

  • @Sctty569
    @Sctty569 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    social media is messing every body up !! agreed

  • @garrypatrick6097
    @garrypatrick6097 วันที่ผ่านมา +47

    As a 64 year old I have observed the younger generations verbal communication skills. I have been appalled and noticed especially amongst young women , their inability to barely string sentence’s together or respond easily to conversation or questions about topics or questions that are not even difficult to answer . Not even the ability to even understand a basic question. Inability to instigate a conversation and appalling listening skills. Women have been the ones mainly affected . This is the mental damage done by social media. Facts.

    • @ma3stro681
      @ma3stro681 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Couple that with feminist, 304 culture brainwashing and the current generation of females is completely cooked … 🤯

    • @homebell4866
      @homebell4866 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      We are reverting to devolving into isolated zombies

    • @johngower2208
      @johngower2208 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      you're, like, so, like, right!!

    • @gunsharck
      @gunsharck 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh by Christ yes!! Every second word is like. I loathe zoomers

    • @gunsharck
      @gunsharck 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@johngower2208LOL exactly right

  • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
    @BrianWaller-qe7gr วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I was walking to the restroom the other day. Dude had his phone to his face all the way up to the urinal. I thought to myself unbelievable

  • @dinlpn45
    @dinlpn45 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I deleted over 10 years ago my Facebook and I do not have Instagram and never had it. people say I don't exist 😂

    • @GurneroMaelstrom
      @GurneroMaelstrom วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Best decision ever

    • @roymoxley2587
      @roymoxley2587 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I got kick off instagram for no reason, I did not post a damn thing don’t care anyway

    • @Philipp-pz6yh
      @Philipp-pz6yh วันที่ผ่านมา

      never had instagram until last year because i started wildlife photography and wanted to show my pictures......my god is it toxic.....deleted it after 6 month

  • @XavierP333
    @XavierP333 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    The worst part about socializing, every time you try, people usually shut you down. Not always, but usually

  • @Istheskywhite
    @Istheskywhite 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    I got rid of Facebook and other social media except TH-cam….i feel a lot better 😂

    • @CraigDewhurst
      @CraigDewhurst 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Snap

    • @Beysportz
      @Beysportz 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      It’s less noise fr

    • @NeoWave346
      @NeoWave346 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same here,it's all gone and I miss none of it.

    • @Jammpie83
      @Jammpie83 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@Istheskywhite
      Me too. Social media is poison...

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      same but did it 3 years ago now im addicted to youtube lol

  • @DavidCole-e2v
    @DavidCole-e2v 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    I mentally checked out years ago to be honest.
    I think the world 🌎 peaked between 1988-2007 anyway.

    • @sub-zero5983
      @sub-zero5983 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      After 2007 it's been crap

  • @georgeorwell7850
    @georgeorwell7850 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    If it wasn’t nearly £7 for a Guinness, I think we’d all socialise more

    • @atombombtom8615
      @atombombtom8615 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      A six pack and a park bench perhaps?…cheers!

  • @dnjones3685
    @dnjones3685 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    I have found that scrolling and watching TV is much better than socializing used to be outgoing social person now I find staying home is much better

    • @Jammpie83
      @Jammpie83 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      The same here. Used to like being around people, but now it's the opposite. People aren't fun to be around with anymore.

    • @Archiek1979
      @Archiek1979 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Same

    • @joen8529
      @joen8529 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      It’s not better. It’s just more comfortable. Easier. Yes doing some of that is nice, but no chance is it healthier mentally.

    • @GurneroMaelstrom
      @GurneroMaelstrom วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It's because most people in every social meeting are non-stop doom-scrolling instead of actual socialization behaving like zombies

    • @NoOne-kx7zs
      @NoOne-kx7zs วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I will be little blunt here....lives of men was as miserable before social media as now.... it's just that thjngs like club and getting date was easier.
      With or without social media....rising fmnam had to make men's lives worse.

  • @neoncorolla6917
    @neoncorolla6917 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Don't think about socializing unless you are moderately wealthy with no debt. I used to run up my credit cards socializing, and having calls from debt collectors every hour was not fun. Would rather be lonely than go through that again.

  • @digitalbobby42
    @digitalbobby42 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I don't want to participate in the "comparison" culture of social media. Its a huge part of me escaping the Matrix and being content.

  • @JonathanLewis-gf1lu
    @JonathanLewis-gf1lu 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    Hey guys I agree most people don’t remember how to say hello in person like I did when we were in school and at the mall or maybe movies or other outdoor activities.
    Not that anymore it sad

  • @Stephan-h7t
    @Stephan-h7t วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I agree 100%. I have dramatically cut back on social media since about October last year. The only social media I consume now is for my personal hobbies in private facebook groups so I can ask questions, offer advice to others and see what new releases are coming up. Often hidden releases not offered to the general public. That's it!

  • @NeoWave346
    @NeoWave346 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I barely socialise at all anymore,it's meaning has been watered down so much now.

  • @MikeD-zu3nu
    @MikeD-zu3nu วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I never even had a Facebook

  • @avrahamzucker2605
    @avrahamzucker2605 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    People were lost even before social media. In 2002 I made an experiment, told evebody I knew that I didn‘t use a mobile phone or land line any more. Everybody I knew told me I was acting crazy, most were angry. Being able to connect to others is a primal instinct in humans

  • @pr3tty0bnoxious35
    @pr3tty0bnoxious35 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I blocked everyone I added on Instagram, how to know if people don't really like you or wishing on your downfall. 1. They watch your content, your videos, stories, reels, they see everything but don't like or comment. 2 they never message you or reach out to you to see if you are doing well even if you reached out to them a few times before. 3 if they leave you on read male or female doesn't matter.

  • @g3tdinero
    @g3tdinero วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I think honestly that the addiction has become too strong. The trance people are in is irreversible. At least we get it and I thank God for that.

  • @neoreign
    @neoreign วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    We used to go out all the time, being out and about. Now people can't even make eye contact.
    Let that sink in. From people being out day and night, to people not even making eye contact.
    This summer I was at a coffee shop and i was walking by a group and said 'excuse me' to get some utensils and they all turned red, bright tomato lol tf?

  • @losantonio9049
    @losantonio9049 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I am violently annoyed by people putting their phones on my face for me to see something mediocre that they're amused by. 🤮

  • @baldbadass
    @baldbadass วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I have limited my FB use and never had tick tock or Instagram. I just focus on my own life I don't even want to talk to others and feel guilty for that but I just see it as pointless all that time talking about nothing could be time on my grind. I've realised recently you need to do rather than tell ie don't say to people your going to be on FB or on phone less but actually do it. They don't listen to what you say but will notice what you do they they will say why ya not talking to witch ya can say Ive already explained why. If your not getting anything from an interaction it's best to walk away even if it's family.

  • @jeremy1350
    @jeremy1350 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    When I ditched all my friends, I used to get the Death-knell response when I'd call, "I'll call you back" and that call never came.
    Or else, All my guy friends wanted me to download chatting apps, so they could "chat" me up, rather than phone me up and have a real conversation, and God Forbid, I say, "Let's grab a coffee??" And they would get indignant, like I had asked them for a kidney or some other major organ ...
    DOUCHEBAGS, every last one of them. Which is why, today, I have no friends, because I have "standards !!"
    Social Media, in the end, is the rotting of ones brain, that ends up with You - Hating Yourself !! That's what happened to me. So I dumped them all ...

  • @AnthonyToth-t5v
    @AnthonyToth-t5v วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    The invention of the mobile has ruined humanity not just social media I had 27 years before they were invented and had the time of my life since owning this bastard piece of plastic everything has gone down the swanney without a paddle lol

  • @russosentowski6113
    @russosentowski6113 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I thought it started with MySpace?

    • @johngordon9426
      @johngordon9426 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      It did, Facebook had better features that why MySpace died

    • @russosentowski6113
      @russosentowski6113 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @johngordon9426 oh I heard because MySpace was charging. I liked MySpace better because all the stuff you could put on your profile

  • @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz
    @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    When i didnt have social media life was simple sometimes instra can be addicting at times...

  • @LukasWeeke
    @LukasWeeke วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Socializing has become so draining to me and social media is easier to dose and feels like a safer distance. But I know what you mean and agree. It is no real connection.
    I only compare myself to the version of myself I would like to be. I have never felt the need to compare to others. Maybe that is one reason I never entered social media like Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat or things like that. It just didn't interest me enough.

  • @Barney5400
    @Barney5400 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    No social media at all deleted it all including dating sites or apps a few months back I am far happier without it whoever you talk to on social media or dating sites or apps isn't actually a friend or partner cause a real friend or partner will take time to meet you in person it's just excuse after excuse they come up with not to meet you

  • @ricksilver55
    @ricksilver55 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Yup i feel so useless

  • @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz
    @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I m barely on facebook. The only reason i have instra due to writing contests and if i became a writer i already had instra account

  • @SunilPatel-yo9di
    @SunilPatel-yo9di วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    This guy is right too many women and bullshit flying about
    Coventry all off it u just have to be careful who u befriend it a constant struggle to avoid jealous eople

  • @Diginixx
    @Diginixx วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Don't do social media and I'm smart enough to never bother.

  • @voice552
    @voice552 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    GTA San Andreas was my go-to for the loneliest stretches of my life for years. A brief dalliance with Facebook was replaced by youtube. It was actually Twitch that made me realize how much time i spent on youtube after work. I followed a guitar player in Canada on a half-hour stream. The next day, he did a nine-hour stream playing guitar and smoking bongs and i caught the last half hour. I unfollowed him. What kind of person can sit in a seat looking at a screen for nine hours if it's not their job to do so? At the time i was subbed to many channels, but their videos added up to eight hours. How much money would i have right now if i'd been doing an online job, rather than watching someone else doing their online job?

  • @joemachine4714
    @joemachine4714 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I haven't had social media since 2018. I only have TH-cam (Paid acct) and WhatsApp.

  • @williamjoback1436
    @williamjoback1436 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Same here. deleted my facebook account in december and belong to a small gaming community for one game on playstation. It is just not worth it.

  • @ivanmaric5218
    @ivanmaric5218 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I for myselfe have sead a long time ago: I dont need eney tehnology specialy this Bullshit thisedays to have a Happy Life. Thank you Lord for giving me a Strong whill and mind 🎉🎉🎉

  • @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz
    @KarenMcgregor-rm4cz วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I never met a guy who didnt have social media some people think its a bad thing if the partner doesnt have social media.. actually hes a private person

    • @tigerstripey4885
      @tigerstripey4885 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      There's a lot of men who have chosen to retreat from social media, it's a pain in the ass, and it's ŵomen who judge men for their social media profiles, and they need to see your social media so they can snoop on your life and see who else you know, it's invasive as F.

  • @jatigre1
    @jatigre1 วันที่ผ่านมา

    AR and VR is going to mend or patch that social gap, eventually.

  • @terryr7622
    @terryr7622 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Never had social media. Saw it as pointless. But that’s just me. Ah well

  • @johncbr650re
    @johncbr650re 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Social media make you feel lonely
    And it kinda make people weak
    And you must pay attention about what it makes people as FOLLOWERS no more no less you're just a follower and the other are also follower no creativity or freedom there
    Anyway we re living in end of times doesn't make much difference just quit social media and use whatever app for contacting only

  • @MrVongurt
    @MrVongurt วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    True

  • @Kidbako1
    @Kidbako1 29 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Once the rainbow 🌈 icons were on pics on facebook I deleted it. Don’t miss it.

  • @stefandee1970
    @stefandee1970 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Like button change the world

    • @Smuggler169
      @Smuggler169 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wish they’d bring back the dislike button lol!

  • @roymoxley2587
    @roymoxley2587 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s all by design but it’s all about to backfire The Truman show was showing what the future was going to be . Turn off the apps get out

  • @atombombtom8615
    @atombombtom8615 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    You mean ANTI SOCIAL MEDIA😮

  • @yajtramer6913
    @yajtramer6913 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have given up on people
    I have given up on women
    I just don't care about anyone other than myself
    I can't live up to the 10s or 12s
    So I don't bother
    I just go fishing
    I just keep on mining
    I have been alone for 20 plus years.....
    I just don't care about you
    Good luck
    You played yourselves

  • @voice552
    @voice552 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    SCG, maybe your course could teach guys to make money out of their online or social media addiction. You can ask them how much money they made watching youtube videos today or watching Twitch streams. When the answer is zero, you could funnel that time and energy into something that actually benefits them. If i could afford to fly to Italy for a real pizza, i would.

  • @LuZifer-eb6jr
    @LuZifer-eb6jr วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Today is the last Day of Social Bullshit 🖕 . Have that for Music and Connections and Gigs but that they killed also . Time to Move on.

  • @princesslithium
    @princesslithium วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Q: How many videos titled "Men are done" can be produced? A: X = ∞

  • @berniecohens6409
    @berniecohens6409 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This might sound kind of strange to some people but I like social media more than I like people 😂😂

    • @rtee8904
      @rtee8904 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      At one time that would have sounded strange but it doesn't sound strange to me at all now. I kinda agree.

  • @yummyroll509
    @yummyroll509 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello

  • @Hoops590
    @Hoops590 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    i dont want friends anymore- because dudes are gonna make a play for my gf first chance they get,
    and i would be the idiot facillating it, ill have associates for certain activities
    facebook wont let old things die, and no one gives a shit about me a 48 year old man,
    my uploads are cool, so social media is for women to post pictures then men send them messages

  • @scotfox2169
    @scotfox2169 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bebo

  • @mdencler
    @mdencler 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    There are plenty of online social experiences that are just as engaging as real life activities. You are taking your limited experiences and trying to apply them to the whole. Your arrogance has made you decide to make a TH-cam movie about it too. Wild stuff!