You´re showing what so many children go through on a daily basis and are hopeless because they are too young. Feel bad for how your childhood must have been. Wishing you all the best, God bless you all.
I have been there. I’m sorry ❤. But you have to remove her from your life. Because she won’t get help until she wants it. You don’t deserve the abuse and the stress. You did the right thing.. not easy ❤️
So true!!! It’s like that old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink. Same goes for addiction you can give that person every way out and every outlet to get better but they have to want it or it won’t work.
I am a recovering addict and mother whom put my own kids through the crap that addicts bring to a family. My own family found me and had to save my life with narcan.. on Xmas day evening. I spent the next two months away from them getting the help I needed. It was the very least I could do after what I put them through. I agree with this girl showing the raw truth of what families go through with addicts they love and the struggles they endure trying to help them get better. These videos show that you are not alone and it's important to reach out for the help that is out there for loved ones wanting to find the help and addicts if they want it bad enough... I thank God for my life and pray for all those still struggling🙏
Alcohol withdrawals can kill you!!! when I learned that I decided alcohol is not to be trifled with because I’m already hooked on nicotine and sugar, even though I’m sober
My brother was an alcoholic tried to quit multiple times only to wind up in icu with seizures, hallucinations and nearing death. He ultimately passed from cirrhosis feb 18, 2021 he was only 34. It's an awful desease to watch. Alcoholism is like watching someone you love so much commit a slow s
Either parent tbh but the idea is still the same. When you have had to be “the bigger” person and sometimes the adult in the relationship…it’s so incredibly hurtful. Vicky is handling it so much better than I did. I regret with all my heart the last things I said to my dad…sometimes you don’t get another chance so do what you feel you can do without sacrificing everything when that person isn’t really sacrificing anything thing. Just make sure she knows you love her. Let it always be the last thing you say. Believe me, it will eat you up if you didn’t speak the love in your heart every time it comes to mind. Don’t let a horrible fight or hurtful words end any conversation, regardless of what she says. I truly wish I had shared what I was going through. I didn’t and the whole was just terrible and the pain lingers. Don’t get me wrong, I’m certainly not saying you just accept her behavior and her actions and allow her to do or say anything unacceptable. I’m simply saying, make sure the last things you say are something you mean and that you would be ok if God forbid, what you said would be the the last thing you said to her. Again, the point of my message/comment is really about the inevitable future if your mom doesn’t stop drinking. I know because I lived it and unfortunately the last things I said were words of anger, followed up with even more words of anger. When instead, I still could have been angered or upset and said what I needed to say, but I will forever regret not following up with words letting him know that I would always love him. I have lived, and will always live with my own guilt over that. Regardless of everything else and how personally I took it (which the older more mature me knows really had nothing to do with me….or anyone else.
Real, raw, and uncut. A lot of people don’t like it, but a lot more people are dealing with the exact same shit. I hope your mom gets clean for good. You’re doing everything you can. It’s up to her though.
I had to deal with my Mom being a a severe alcoholic and she wouldn't quit and she spent 22 years in a nursing home with Korsokoffs aka alcoholic dementia.We were a blue collar family living in the suburbs just outside of Washington DC until parents divorced.
People don’t like it because it unethical and fucking cringey as hell to capitalize on your own mothers pain and exploiting your private family matters for views, attention and money.
@@GetYourCrayCray-On I’m so sorry you dealt with that. 😞 We so badly need our mothers. People tend to look down on those who are addicted, but they are hurting, and they are sick. Alcohol is the drug that destroys more families than any other. It’s socially acceptable and available at every event and on every corner. Your mother doesn’t have to suffer any more. I wish I could give you a hug.
Especially Chrisean same thing they cud relate too but she wants to beat on Woah Vicky. They could of been real cool. They both have mothers battling addiction, went thru alot in life, and both became successful.
Vicki I know this is too raw for some people, but it’s something that needed to be put out there. This is what we call TOUGH LOVE without enabling toxic behavior. Especially if any people are in the beginning stages of alcoholism and are telling themselves it’s not a big deal, this should be an eye opener. This is the reality of the spirit of alcohol and I think it’s a valuable learning moment you shared, for your family and anyone else struggling. I can see your strength and maturity, and I pray your mom lets go of those demons so she can be there for you one day like you are for her.
I like how she’s doing thiss regardless if you agree with it or not, she raising awareness. She’s allowing her followers to see 1st hand how everything that glitter isn’t gold. Not only that showing mf how important family is. Don’t give up on the people you love. 💗 That’s her mommy. 😢
Vicki, I am so sorry you had to expierence this, and the awful things your mother said to you. They are not true! The devil is working inside her trying to get you away from God. Keep on pursuing God. He is working inside you, and I will be praying for you and your mother. Ask God for strength during these hard times.
Wow, I look at Vicky in a totally different light now. She remained so calm through this whole thing, that tells me she’s dealt with this more than once and was prepared on how to handle the situation. I’m praying for you and your mom Vicky. 😢🫶🏾
She has been dealing with this on and off for a long time. Her love and dedication for a child is unbelievable, most people grow up and cut parents like this off
This has me crying. Drugs are the worst. And it's hard dealing with an addict. I have dealt with addicts my entire life. My mom and my brothers and sisters mind you my mom had 3 sets of twins they all have been and some are still addicts except my twin and I. And recently lost my sister who was in her 30's and died overdose on fentanyl. It really breaks my heart seeing this. God heal her 🙏🙏🙏
Monique love it’s devastating I deal with my daughter scared to lose her. She doesn’t listen, won’t surrender thinks she’s above everything. So sad 16 years of heartbroken pain for me and my family. It’s real it’s raw it’s the way it works. If people don’t live it they’ll never understand.😢
@@ccbest6250 lol. Now she’s making money off posting videos of her mom. She plays the poor me role all while laughing as she’s throwing her mom out of her place. Pretty sad and pathetic what people will do for views, subs and likes.
@@eatmysh0rtsyou don’t even no the situation, I’m sorry but I would laugh too, some people can’t keep a straight face in a serious situation don’t judge the situation until you know the whole story PERIOD
@@kiraclark986lol and you do know the whole story/situation? I’m not the only one who thinks it’s twisted for a person to post videos of their mother on drugs/alcohol, on the internet. She’s laughing. Maybe you’d do that to your mother but i wouldn’t PERIOD.
@@ccbest6250her real estate agent dad? How is being well-off and a productive member of society considered “rich” in a derogatory way? Even if her dad was Elon Musk it doesn’t make up for the deficit of her mom and entire childhood. You can clearly tell she’s been her mom’s caretaker for quite a long time.
I think she shows us because everybody likes to make fun of her and say that she wants to be black and she’s this and she’s that but in reality she was brought into back families that helped raise her because look at how her mother treated her and I probably would’ve acted a lot worse than my life. I had to deal with something like that and the fact that she preaches the word that poor girl. 🙏🏿🙏🏿 god bless her he truly has his hand on her
Witnessing addiction first hand especially with someone you love, and especially your own mother, i couldnt imagine going through that. And its a shame Vicky is dealing with that. And a shame her mom is struggling so badly 🥺
My heart breaks for you. I've been there and done it with my mom. I'm SO thankful you've got God on your side! And the way you Prayed? That was sooooo POWERFUL!!! KEEP IT UP!!! Much love and Prayers for you all. ❤
Nah she should have professional ppl help her with her mom instead of the way she went about it. If my children did me like that I would be so hurt and I know Vicky is in pain too but this could have been handled in a better way 😢
@@Queenofdacastle God forbid your children go through this, but she’s clearly handling it the best way she knows how to. some kids abandon their parents.
@@Queenofdacastle”I would be so hurt” I bet Vicky is extremely hurt having to deal with this her whole life. She’s doing as much as she can, her mom needs to want better for herself. There’s only so much Vicky can do and she continues to try bc she loves her mom
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsuki just stop if you don’t want to believe in God that’s your prerogative, but don’t come on here saying “Cap or God isn’t real” on ppl’s post who do believe in God
As brutal as it looks I’m glad your filming this Vicky, I sadly went through the same issue with my dad but the Lord humbled him and my dad had stage 3 colon cancer and has now an ostomy bag but thank you Jesus he is now recovering and is going through chemo. He had no choice but to stop drinking that poison and I thank YAHWEH he gave my dad another chance!😭🙌 don’t give up on your mama, I know it’s hard but we need to remember it’s the darkness of principalities we battle against and not the person! I pray your mother will be set free from this strong hold!! In Jesus mighty name!
same with my dad been a drunk all my life until 2yrs ago when we found out he has prostate cancer. He stayed wasted even at work for the first yr after finding out because he was depressed and scared. Then he almost died because the drinking was allowing him to get infections easy and his body couldnt heal like it normally would with the cancer. He has had one slip up since he almost died but has been good since. The cancer meds and chemo are making him so sick I dont even think he would drink if he wanted to with how bad he feels. It does break my heart that it took all this to get him sober but im glad he is. I rarely took my kids to see him because I didnt want them dealing with what I did growing up. But now they can see their poppies and I dont have to worry him about acting crazy. I think its good she is showing these videos because as I kid we didnt see other people dealing with a drunk parent. It was lonely never being able to have friends over because he couldnt stay sober, parties were always ruined because he would get wasted and act out so everyone would leave. Videos like this show people who are dealing with a parent addicted to something, that they are not alone and there are others who are dealing with or have been through the same thing. Sending lots of prayers to you and your dad.
I personally love how she's using her platform to praise the Lord. And yes Lord plz give her mother the strength to fight those addictions and demons .
I am proud also if her standing up for God. I just wish she wouldn’t post this about her mom. At least some of it she shouldn’t . But no judgement. I just feel like it’s not gonna help her mom ya know cause social media is hateful for the most part .
As a daughter of a recovered alcoholic mother. This made me feel seen. As a child i was gaslit into thinking this was normal, and that i was overreacting. Its such an isolating experience. Im now an adult dealing with depression, anxiety, and addiction. You putting this video out here? Even if it doesnt help your mom, i bet my life this will help a child dealing with this, learn that this is wrong, they aren't alone, and there is help for them! Validation like this would of changed my world as a child! Even now as an adult, it makes me feel less alone. God bless you Vicky ❤ you really are beautiful soul!
Such an act of recording saved David Hasselhoff’s life! And it was one of his daughters that did so. You may not like this, it may not be what *YOU’D* do, but watching someone’s rock bottom when you want them to live and they can’t see clearly and this may be their only mirror of truth, looks different to everyone.
This is so sad and devastating. Father God, I ask that you please heal Vicky’s mother. Save her from addictions, drugs, depression, and all of the things she is suffering from that we may not know of, whether that being an internal, external, or mental issue. Lord Jesus, she is hurting right now, but keep being by her side. The enemy wants to keep her in bondage but I believe and declare that she will be free. Please keep giving Vicky the strength and courage that is needed to get through these trials. I ask that you send your angels and plant a seed of hope, love, and forgiveness in the heart of Vicky’s mother. Please renew her mind and spirit. In Jesus name, amen🙏🏽
Vicky isn't playing unless you're playing straight. Tough love it's hard dealing with an alcoholic parent but you are doing your best she will realize it later that she put you through a lot when she is sober.
Girl, this was hard to watch, I'm praying for you, you need the strength, one thing is clear your mom should thank the good lord for a daughter like you
Vicki is so strong! She handled this well! She’s showing her mom that either you get it together or get away from me and my home. She isn’t enabling her mother and letting her trash her place. She stayed in control of the situation. I like Vicki so much more now. Seeing this made me feel proud of how far she’s come and that she chose to turn to God. I pray she gets her mom all of the help that she needs
She could have done everything you spoke about which is the right thing to do but she didn’t have to post a video of her mother in that condition she could’ve recorded her to show her how she acts n how it effects her children she didn’t have to blast her all over the internet
@lisawertrea9021 I disagree. Good she posted it so we can see how destructive her Mother is drunk and high. So very wise to get her out of your home. Stay strong girl you're doing everything right and don't change a thing. This needs to be seen so others can take action like you are. May God watch over you for being such a caring daughter.
@@ruthwest1459 everything she did was right except posting the video of her mother in that condition I pray you never in your life you have a moment that you are very vulnerable n that no one videos you while you’re in that vulnerable condition and post it on the internet for the world to see you at your worst you can help someone without do that to them I pray you never have to experience that and don’t say never
@@caritamatthewsShe has a video w/ her mom before, she showed up at her moms job or something and walked around talking to her. If I can find it I will tell you which one.
The fact that you got her in the car!! This shows you care, you’re trying your best not giving up at just kicking her out and also not enabling your mom. You’re so strong Vicky! ❤
Wow Vicky you’re so strong 😢 It’s amazing that you can be so vulnerable and open about this with your platform. So many people have these type of relationships with their parents and loved ones and it’s so good that they have content out there that they can relate to. This video even taught me something! God Bless you Vicky 🙏🏾
Everyone talking about dont record her but she is actually providing real life shit. For a daughter to have to do a reverse roll and try and cure her own mom from this deadly disease its so sad. I feel for Vicky honestly. It must be not only physically but really mentally straining on her to handle this. I wish you all God's strength to get you and your mom through this battle.
Nah this is for her own platform, cuz we can imagine this all she had to do was talk about this issue! But I believe she know ppl would get annoyed w way she talks 🙄🤣🤷♀️ YT shows enough of this especially the show "Intervention!" She's trying is all😂😂😂 thts sad
That's when you find God when you're placed in hell without choice. One generational curses come to get you without a choice at birth. That's when you find God hallelujah
Omg... my heart breaks for you. I have been an RN for over 20 years and I have dealt with patients just like your Mum. The awful things they say and do to their loved ones are unforgivable. I pray you are able to find her help eventually and be at peace ❤ God bless you
I lost my mom too she was 43 I was 22 and we were going through some things at that time it ruined my life her dying destroyed me…. I am 40 now and it still hurts like it was yesterday
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsukiGod exists and He truly loves you so so much. Give Him all of your cares and worries. Turn to Him before it’s too late! God bless🤍
I’m thinking of you V! There is NOTHING private about the disease of addiction & alcoholism. For someone who lived it as a child & young adult all around me everyone knew. It wasn’t a “secret” the addict likes to think it is. It’s tough love & you got this V & Momma! V is bringing awareness to what it’s really like! I’m sending many strength & blessings to you both ❤❤
I’m so sorry you have to go through this Vicky may God truly be your peace. Jesus loves you even when we don’t receive love from our parents. He has a great plan and call for your life.
She's not putting her mom on blast. This video could actually really help them. She (vicky) seems to have good intentions for her mom. I went through something like that with my mother too. It's not easy. My mom got better and I hope Vicky's mother gets better too. She seems to be in a decent place spiritually as well.❤
@@moonmarie123 when she brought her friends in and when she said "get out my house"!👎🏽 I think some of the way she acts maybe for the cameras but I mean she still has this problem with her mother. And I do think she wants the best for her mother but Vicky's Young. She's feeling her way through this with her mother so mistakes are going to be made😐
Then why monetize it? Why she laughing about it? This is wrong all the way around. You can't just throw God's name on it and call it a Christian act. If this was from her heart it would have been handled privately.
You're a blessing to your mom!! ❤Thank you for being strong and helping your mom. Addictions are so hard to break. She doesn't do it on purpose or because she doesn't love you but she needs to heal her soul before she can break free from addiction.
I know you love her, but DONT LET HER LIVE WITH YOU ANYMORE. She will steal your peace and energy. You did all you can do. If she don’t want help that’s on her. But live your life. Pray for her and continue to love her BUT from AFAR. She will bring you down if you let her😢
@@littlepieceofleatherbossem7651 Her mom had another place of living, but Vicky invited her mom to live with her. If you’ve never lived with a parent who was self destructive/an energy vampire, you do NOT understand what it’s really like. Vicky’s peace MATTERS too🙏🏾
@@jianashantel yeah, she invited her mother to live with her for views to make people think she was so wonderful and taken in her mother, knowing damn well she was an alcoholic.
@@divavlog717 I don’t agree with you. She’s documenting her life and struggles of dealing with a dysfunctional parent. Idk if you’ve had to deal with one, but a lot of people find this relatable. They don’t feel alone after watching this.
@@jianashantel That is what support groups are for, and yes I have a parent who was an Addict. The entitlement to profit of someone else's struggle is astounding.
Thanks Vicky for sharing your experiences with all of us, I know life is going to be tough & confusing & whatever but God will make 777 fold for the pain we go thru..... God Bless
Vicky is a very intelligent woman she went through the process and the system and picked up on their terms really quickly. This is what you need to know in order to help your loved ones in these cases. Their terms and ways of saying things, in order to get things done. Like "behavior center" and "in danger to themselves and others". Especially when time is of the essence.
Oh Vicky….. I’m glad you filmed this , so many children have had to see their parents like this ( myself included),,,, this may help someone, God bless you Vicki and Lord heal your mum, Spiritually & mentally 😟😢
I will have 5 years clean in Oct. I pray your mom finds the courage to want to change. I know it’s hard. It’s a vicious cycle. I’m grateful I am now a mother to my kids.
Hi Vicky, As a nurse with a background in psychology, I appreciate your platform for sharing the current situation impacting your life. Vlogging and blogging can be therapeutic for both you and your audience. You're already on the right path. Hearing about your mom's relapse is truly saddening. This period must be incredibly tough and challenging for you. Remember, self-care is crucial. If possible, seek out a trusted individual to share your feelings with face-to-face, be it a friend, a relative, or a professional counselor. We're all human, and suppressing emotions can be exhausting and counterproductive; ignoring them doesn't mean they'll remain hidden. Having a support system can significantly impact one's life. It's heart warming to see that this platform appears to have such a supportive community for you. It's evident that you understand the significance of supporting your mom while not facilitating her addiction through your vlogs. As important as it is to have support , it is equally important to set firm boundaries for your own safety and hers. Moreover, having a safety plan in place for yourself in case of a relapse is critical. Your dedication is indeed praiseworthy! Engaging in activities that bring joy can provide your brain with a much-needed respite and relaxation, even during stressful times. Nurturing your mental and physical well-being through exercise, reading, singing, prayer, or socializing with friends can enhance decision-making in all aspects of life.Another benefit in situations is the internet provides easy access to knowledge to make gathering information on your mother's situation at your fingertips, and can help in all areas of her recovery you're inolved in. Your abundant patience and kindness will undoubtedly contribute to positive outcomes in her recovery, which will take time. Even though you're excelling, if you find yourself wavering towards negative emotions remind yourself of the significant help you provide by maintaining patience and compassion for both your mother and yourself. Celebrating any progress, no matter how minor, can act as positive reinforcement and be incredibly motivating, similar to the support you extend by sharing on your platform. You will surely help someone who watches in some way. Your open communication with your mother, expressing love and concern without judgment, is indeed a precious gift, and you are a blessing. Always remember, you're not alone in this. Seeking support for both your mom and yourself can make a significant difference. You're in my prayers. Your faith is strong, and God is always with you. If you need any assistance, please don't hesitate to reach out. Take care and God bless, Nurse Addison.
@@gaiastarseed First and foremost, thank you for your service. Second, I am grateful for your kind words. I hope she is doing well, if she reads this, I mean every word I say. She has strong faith that will not let her down. Another starseed! Me too, a lot of us are nurses and healers, ever notice that?
I’m a nurse too, in PEDS mental health & SUD. Thank you for sharing such empathetic & necessary advice. Self-Care is *KEY* as a caregiver. I’m proud of the respect & love Vicky displayed towards her mother. She treated her mother w/ dignity. I’m amazed w/ Vicky’s level of focus, maturity, positive, realistic attitude & organization. This isn’t easy. I have a family member w/ SUD, interventions are necessary sometimes. May Vicky & her mother both be blessed. They both deserve peace.
I admire your faith and the acknowledgment of a spirit of addiction over your mum. I back you in prayer and declare that she is set free from all spirits tormenting her, in the name of Jesus Christ ✝️ Using her as point of contact to all going through similar. Continuous prayers shall be made for her and remember YOU ARE NOT ALONE, look around and you’ll see. Your friends are there, the police are there, the nurses are there, a therapist is there if you need, we love and support you from here and most importantly, GOD has got you. So don’t give up. God bless you and give you the strength to overcome this. ❤
This is hard to watch. A parent should NEVER put their child in this situation. Continue doing whatever is necessary for you to get through this girl, you’re doing great, u got this! I hope one day your mom gets clean and apologizes to you. God Bless you & your family
i would laugh to because imagine how much hurt she has endured she probably can’t cry anymore laugh to keep from crying we don’t know when she turns this camera off how she’s gonna act or how she feels poor vicky we love you ♥️♥️ keep doing gods work 🙏🏿🙏🏿 i stand behind you
💯💯 fact's ❤ I love Vicki too she is growing above these awful circumstances she had to deal with her whole life...I pray Vicki finds peace and her mom gets sober 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Yeah I was arguing with my Aunt before and I remember laughing the whole time and then when she finally left I was crying my eyes out. That laughter was keeping me sane
Praying that no weapons formed against you shall prosper. For you and your mom I pray that she gets a speedy recovery ❤️🩹 and this to shall pass. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
Been in your shoes. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're a strong young lady. Bless all of you for helping. I will pray that your mother embraces sobriety and never lets go.
My dear sister in Christ, the enemy knows he lost you and he’s attacking from the place he thinks will hit you hardest…I’m praying for your mom and your continued strength in Christ. Many prayers!
Im sorry that you have to go through this vicky , I pray that Jesus heals her from the spirit of addiction I pray that she seeks him first and not last I pray that she no longer idolizes liquor and drugs over God , I pray he opens her heart to him I rebuke every demonic spirit out of her in the name of Jesus no weapon formed against you Vicky or your mom shall prosper ! In Jesus mighty name ❤🙏🏽
🙏🏽 that was a beautiful prayer and I pray that prayer with u for ur mother. I pray she is doing better. I am proud of the godly woman u r in Christ. Growth. I will keep you all n prayers. With love. TJ 🙏🏽💓
Wow, I am glad you documented this‼️This can be used to spread awareness and I pray for you and your mom, I believe she will be set free and she will have her life turned around she WILL have this to look back on and use this as part of her testimony. I pray your relationship with her will be restored in Jesus name. I will be praying for you guys strength. Stay faithful to the lord, war in the spirit and keep praying for her Vicky the lord will provide trust him. I send all my love ❤️🔥🙏🏽
@@marytodd9170 I dont really need any insight from you religious people. Being raised catholic I attended communion, went to church early sunday and confession And Guess what that got me. A deceased father that died from a heart attack and a mother that caught cancer. I have no parents and prayers to god did nothing. There is no god 🤷♀️
I wouldn’t put up with this any longer. Until she is ready to help herself, you cannot help her. I know. I have dealt with it with my mother who is sober now since 2006. And my brother who is still in full addiction. We cannot help him. God bless you. I pray she sobers up and gets the help she needs.
I have been there Vicki my heart goes out to you.Balancing your anger ,disappointment, and Love is very hard.I wish you and your mom the best.God bless❤
Vicky my love, i am so sorry for how i viewed you before I've seen you grow... and become 1 with the Lord!!! I’m praying for you and your mother Vicky. DONT GIVE UP ON HER i love you girl keep pushin. ❤❤❤
My daughter relapsed I understand your pain, 16 years of a fight for sobriety. Grandchildren that live a rollercoaster ride. I try and give support and she does nothing. Prayers sent it destroys families.
Keep on her Vicky! You only have one mama. She is lost right now and needs you more than ever! Don’t give up on her. Your doing the right thing even though it hurts. Good luck and God bless you and your mom. ❤
Praying for all of y'all healing I know it got to be hard as the daughter. I'm glad you broadcasted this because there could be others going through the same thing and don't know what to do. You are trying your best, you did nothing wrong, God bless
I been dealing with this my entire life as far back as I can remember and I’ve come to realize that God is the only one who can help ppl change and they have to want it bad enough! It takes 30 days to make or break a habit! Think how hard it is for her if she has been drinking so long, but one thing I’ve never done is embarrassed my mom when she is like this I don’t let anyone see and I don’t tell anyone so they can use it against her! She’s obviously fighting her own demons! I hope and pray you both can get right with God! If I didn’t go through this as a child and teen I probably would drink like my mom used to, because of being raised in this type of environment I don’t drink but maybe a beer every great once In awhile! You forcing her to get help unfortunately won’t help but bring division and strife, fights and anger! Ppl have to want the change! It took for us to stay away from my mother and remind her every time she wanted us around that if she was drinking we weren’t coming over 🤷🏻♀️ she is a lot better and they can be helped and change once they’re ready
Her mom is embarrassing herself by continually partaking in this nonsense. Maybe her mom seeing this posted up for the world to see will be the thing that opens her eyes. Sometimes people need to be embarrassed by seeing themselves and their foolish behaviour in order to change their ways. Nothing else seems to be working if she's done it for this long, so a wake up call like this might do her some good.
Thank you for not just kicking her out and leaving her for somebody to do bad thing too her.... Thank you for making sure she's safe and also thank u for showing us a part of you're life that people act like it don't happen to them because they are successful.. thank u for showing us the reality
When she finally sobers up and watch herself in this video she’s definitely gonna want to get help I pray she gets clean and sober I lost 3 uncles to alcohol and my father to drugs I’ve seen what it can do prayers for you Vick for being able to deal with your mom 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️
I also lost my uncle to alcoholism. It runs in both sides of my family. Very scary stuff agh. I'm sorry for all your losses hun💙 may they rest in peace!
@@meghansullivan6812 I’m so sorry for your loss n yes same with my family both sides .. thank u so much for your prayers all we can do is stay prayed up stay blessed my love 🙏🏾❤️
Daughter of addicted parents…thank you so much for sharing your story. Relapse isn’t always part of recovery but it can be. Keep those good strong boundaries with her and keep your life as non chaotic as you can. I’m so proud of you. ❤
Just wanted to let you know you're Mama loves you, I too was your Mom a long time ago, but quit drinking on my own, it took for me to see myself on recording how Dispecable I would treat my kids verbally when I was drunk, it killed me to the core. I've been sober over 20 yrs now and feel so happy. And what I had out my kids through didn't make them hate me thank God! they are my world. I pray your mom gets the help she needs because there's nothing else better in this world than that of a mother and daughter relationship 🙏🏼❤
OMG, my dad was sober for the same amount of time as your dad and relapsed exactly a year later. He was diagnosed with alcohol induced dementia. He was perfectly fine until this one day almost a year ago now I’m all I can see. Is the man I saw all my childhood.
I’m exactly like Victoria with my mom. My mother is a terrible addict. Now she’s addicted to alcohol. Reminds me of your mom.. Praying for you and your mom!🙏❤️
I come into agreement with you Vicky for the words of your prayer to be manifest in Jesus name! Always staying prayed up Sis! I've been through this with a loved one. And I would love to connect with you somehow to stand in prayer and knowledge with each other. If so possible. Love ya! ❤
All you can do Vicky is continue praying 🙏🏾 for your mom I understand completely from both sides of the spectrum. But the power of prayer is amazing and everything will work out in Gods timing. Keep loving and believing and stay faithful God is always with you. Praying for you and your mom.🙏🏾❤️😇
Vicki I'm sorry you have to go through this. All the abuse. Its the spirit behind her. That's why the verbal abuse. When someone is intoxicated they become the host of demons which is so sad. I worked with alcolics before. We pray that the holy spirit arrest her where she is Lord and deliver her from drugs alcoholin Jesus name ❤🙏🏾
Praying for your mom ❤ I'm a recovering alcoholic from a family of recovering alcoholics and addicts. My childhood was full of all the bad things that come with these addictions. I grew up to be the one thing I swore I'd never be, like them. I have gotten sober for long periods ( 7 years ) and then relapsed repeatedly. After the 7 years I couldn't stay sober for more than 6 months before relapsing again. I'm 4 years clean and sober now. God brought me to a better place while I was in the middle of a terrible crisis. I put all my trust and faith in God this time and I no longer have the desire to drink or use. My life is beautiful now beyond what I ever imagined it could be. I had to leave a lot behind but I've gained far more than I've ever had and it's all non material gains. I have true love, I have peace of mind, I love life like I haven't since I was a little girl. God is awesome, Sobriety Rocks 🎸 I'm praying for God to give your mom the strength to break free from the chains that bind her and for her to have the willingness to get well and to have the beautiful life God wants her to have. I'm praying for you to stay strong and to know that your mom is very sick so don't take to heart the terrible things she's saying ok. Don't forget to be good to yourself and stay close to God. ❤
Been there. Stay strong. Only you can save her there is nobody else in the world. God knows what could have happened to me if my family gave up on me. Addiction is a disease and love is the cure. Sorry to see this Vicky.
I’ve dealt with alcoholism. They won’t get help unless they really want it and are at rock bottom. Sometimes that means giving the ones you love the most tough love. It’s hard to watch someone slip away and become a person you don’t know anymore. Vickie. I’m gonna pray for you and your Mom. I’m sorry you felt like you had no choice but to carry her out. I’m also sorry she wouldn’t leave. This is so hard.❤️
Praying for your mom. I ve been there. Lost my mom to fentanyl 2021. Tried everthing to help her. Figured i cant change her so love her and be there ❤❤❤
![[ไฮไลต์] ฟุตบอลชาย ฝรั่งเศส vs อเมริกา รอบแบ่งกลุ่ม | โอลิมปิก 2024](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/oZ9aSS0NEEg/mqdefault.jpg)
You´re showing what so many children go through on a daily basis and are hopeless because they are too young. Feel bad for how your childhood must have been. Wishing you all the best, God bless you all.
I have been there. I’m sorry ❤. But you have to remove her from your life. Because she won’t get help until she wants it. You don’t deserve the abuse and the stress. You did the right thing.. not easy ❤️
Yes amen
She has to want to get sober Victoria. My mom didn't get sober til she hit her rock bottom. God bless you
Do you think she wants to see her mom hit rock bottom? She will do anything she can to get her mom help.
I agree with you don and i feel shes doing this for clicks.
Let’s just pray for her and her mom without judgement
Yea she gotta want it
So true!!! It’s like that old saying you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink. Same goes for addiction you can give that person every way out and every outlet to get better but they have to want it or it won’t work.
I am a recovering addict and mother whom put my own kids through the crap that addicts bring to a family. My own family found me and had to save my life with narcan.. on Xmas day evening. I spent the next two months away from them getting the help I needed. It was the very least I could do after what I put them through. I agree with this girl showing the raw truth of what families go through with addicts they love and the struggles they endure trying to help them get better. These videos show that you are not alone and it's important to reach out for the help that is out there for loved ones wanting to find the help and addicts if they want it bad enough... I thank God for my life and pray for all those still struggling🙏
Alcoholism is one of THE worst addictions. Vicky you are so strong. Breaks my heart shes calling her all these names ugh.
Alcohol withdrawals can kill you!!! when I learned that I decided alcohol is not to be trifled with because I’m already hooked on nicotine and sugar, even though I’m sober
My brother was an alcoholic tried to quit multiple times only to wind up in icu with seizures, hallucinations and nearing death. He ultimately passed from cirrhosis feb 18, 2021 he was only 34. It's an awful desease to watch. Alcoholism is like watching someone you love so much commit a slow s
It’s a different type of pain when it’s your own mother..❤️🩹
I used to get so angry at her until, I seen my grandma reduce her feelings in such a cruel way.
or if it's your child
It sure is
💯
Either parent tbh but the idea is still the same. When you have had to be “the bigger” person and sometimes the adult in the relationship…it’s so incredibly hurtful. Vicky is handling it so much better than I did. I regret with all my heart the last things I said to my dad…sometimes you don’t get another chance so do what you feel you can do without sacrificing everything when that person isn’t really sacrificing anything thing. Just make sure she knows you love her. Let it always be the last thing you say. Believe me, it will eat you up if you didn’t speak the love in your heart every time it comes to mind. Don’t let a horrible fight or hurtful words end any conversation, regardless of what she says. I truly wish I had shared what I was going through. I didn’t and the whole was just terrible and the pain lingers. Don’t get me wrong, I’m certainly not saying you just accept her behavior and her actions and allow her to do or say anything unacceptable. I’m simply saying, make sure the last things you say are something you mean and that you would be ok if God forbid, what you said would be the the last thing you said to her.
Again, the point of my message/comment is really about the inevitable future if your mom doesn’t stop drinking. I know because I lived it and unfortunately the last things I said were words of anger, followed up with even more words of anger. When instead, I still could have been angered or upset and said what I needed to say, but I will forever regret not following up with words letting him know that I would always love him. I have lived, and will always live with my own guilt over that. Regardless of everything else and how personally I took it (which the older more mature me knows really had nothing to do with me….or anyone else.
Real, raw, and uncut. A lot of people don’t like it, but a lot more people are dealing with the exact same shit. I hope your mom gets clean for good. You’re doing everything you can. It’s up to her though.
This!!! Agree 100%
I had to deal with my Mom being a a severe alcoholic and she wouldn't quit and she spent 22 years in a nursing home with Korsokoffs aka alcoholic dementia.We were a blue collar family living in the suburbs just outside of Washington DC until parents divorced.
People don’t like it because it unethical and fucking cringey as hell to capitalize on your own mothers pain and exploiting your private family matters for views, attention and money.
@@GetYourCrayCray-On I’m so sorry you dealt with that. 😞 We so badly need our mothers. People tend to look down on those who are addicted, but they are hurting, and they are sick. Alcohol is the drug that destroys more families than any other. It’s socially acceptable and available at every event and on every corner. Your mother doesn’t have to suffer any more. I wish I could give you a hug.
Especially Chrisean same thing they cud relate too but she wants to beat on Woah Vicky. They could of been real cool. They both have mothers battling addiction, went thru alot in life, and both became successful.
Vicki I know this is too raw for some people, but it’s something that needed to be put out there. This is what we call TOUGH LOVE without enabling toxic behavior. Especially if any people are in the beginning stages of alcoholism and are telling themselves it’s not a big deal, this should be an eye opener. This is the reality of the spirit of alcohol and I think it’s a valuable learning moment you shared, for your family and anyone else struggling. I can see your strength and maturity, and I pray your mom lets go of those demons so she can be there for you one day like you are for her.
I like how she’s doing thiss regardless if you agree with it or not, she raising awareness. She’s allowing her followers to see 1st hand how everything that glitter isn’t gold. Not only that showing mf how important family is. Don’t give up on the people you love. 💗
That’s her mommy. 😢
Vicki, I am so sorry you had to expierence this, and the awful things your mother said to you. They are not true! The devil is working inside her trying to get you away from God. Keep on pursuing God. He is working inside you, and I will be praying for you and your mother. Ask God for strength during these hard times.
Prayer for you Vicky and your mom for strength healing in the spirit of the Lord to abide in the both of you❤❤
Cap is not god
Don't be stupid @@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsuki
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsukiwhat is cap?
Heh, I would tell you but if you google it you'd be very surprised of its meaning 🤓
Wow, I look at Vicky in a totally different light now. She remained so calm through this whole thing, that tells me she’s dealt with this more than once and was prepared on how to handle the situation. I’m praying for you and your mom Vicky. 😢🫶🏾
She's all grown up huh.
Love that her coping skills have fully matured.
Yessss !! Addiction is nothing to play with
She has been dealing with this on and off for a long time. Her love and dedication for a child is unbelievable, most people grow up and cut parents like this off
@@Mmshroom what Vikki doesn't have children. 🥴
The person is talking about vickis mom, not calling vicki a mom,@@ruthgoldflam-un4cw
This has me crying. Drugs are the worst. And it's hard dealing with an addict. I have dealt with addicts my entire life. My mom and my brothers and sisters mind you my mom had 3 sets of twins they all have been and some are still addicts except my twin and I. And recently lost my sister who was in her 30's and died overdose on fentanyl. It really breaks my heart seeing this. God heal her 🙏🙏🙏
Monique love it’s devastating I deal with my daughter scared to lose her. She doesn’t listen, won’t surrender thinks she’s above everything. So sad 16 years of heartbroken pain for me and my family. It’s real it’s raw it’s the way it works. If people don’t live it they’ll never understand.😢
I pray your little precious mother overcomes her disease, and may GOD continue to bless you and your precious mother always. ❤❤💯💯
A lot of shit has been spoken about this girl..But I can only imagine her childhood very sad hope her mom gets help and stays clean for her kids sake
She was with her rich assss dad lmao tf
@@ccbest6250 lol. Now she’s making money off posting videos of her mom. She plays the poor me role all while laughing as she’s throwing her mom out of her place. Pretty sad and pathetic what people will do for views, subs and likes.
@@eatmysh0rtsyou don’t even no the situation, I’m sorry but I would laugh too, some people can’t keep a straight face in a serious situation don’t judge the situation until you know the whole story PERIOD
@@kiraclark986lol and you do know the whole story/situation? I’m not the only one who thinks it’s twisted for a person to post videos of their mother on drugs/alcohol, on the internet. She’s laughing. Maybe you’d do that to your mother but i wouldn’t PERIOD.
@@ccbest6250her real estate agent dad? How is being well-off and a productive member of society considered “rich” in a derogatory way? Even if her dad was Elon Musk it doesn’t make up for the deficit of her mom and entire childhood. You can clearly tell she’s been her mom’s caretaker for quite a long time.
I think she shows us because everybody likes to make fun of her and say that she wants to be black and she’s this and she’s that but in reality she was brought into back families that helped raise her because look at how her mother treated her and I probably would’ve acted a lot worse than my life. I had to deal with something like that and the fact that she preaches the word that poor girl. 🙏🏿🙏🏿 god bless her he truly has his hand on her
Understood ❤
Amen thank you ❤️🙏🏻
I hear you. That makes alot of sense 😢
No it's cuz she really did act that way b fr
@@andria8279 did i ask you? find something safe to do girl
Witnessing addiction first hand especially with someone you love, and especially your own mother, i couldnt imagine going through that. And its a shame Vicky is dealing with that. And a shame her mom is struggling so badly 🥺
My heart breaks for you. I've been there and done it with my mom. I'm SO thankful you've got God on your side! And the way you Prayed? That was sooooo POWERFUL!!! KEEP IT UP!!! Much love and Prayers for you all. ❤
Now those are real friends
That part
Nah she should have professional ppl help her with her mom instead of the way she went about it. If my children did me like that I would be so hurt and I know Vicky is in pain too but this could have been handled in a better way 😢
@@Queenofdacastle God forbid your children go through this, but she’s clearly handling it the best way she knows how to. some kids abandon their parents.
@@Queenofdacastle”I would be so hurt” I bet Vicky is extremely hurt having to deal with this her whole life. She’s doing as much as she can, her mom needs to want better for herself. There’s only so much Vicky can do and she continues to try bc she loves her mom
Friends!?! 😂 she pays them!
I cried watching not because of the situation but you stayed so strong and calm the whole time. You’re a great daughter. God bless Vicky ❤
There is no god
She has Jesus. He gives her peace💛prayers for her❤️
@@yvetteanaili9556 cap
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsuki just stop if you don’t want to believe in God that’s your prerogative, but don’t come on here saying “Cap or God isn’t real” on ppl’s post who do believe in God
Prayers for you love
AMEN!!!
Love how you girls prayed. 🙏🙏🙏
Praise God for you Vicky, keep standing in the gap for her!!
As brutal as it looks I’m glad your filming this Vicky, I sadly went through the same issue with my dad but the Lord humbled him and my dad had stage 3 colon cancer and has now an ostomy bag but thank you Jesus he is now recovering and is going through chemo. He had no choice but to stop drinking that poison and I thank YAHWEH he gave my dad another chance!😭🙌 don’t give up on your mama, I know it’s hard but we need to remember it’s the darkness of principalities we battle against and not the person! I pray your mother will be set free from this strong hold!! In Jesus mighty name!
same with my dad been a drunk all my life until 2yrs ago when we found out he has prostate cancer. He stayed wasted even at work for the first yr after finding out because he was depressed and scared. Then he almost died because the drinking was allowing him to get infections easy and his body couldnt heal like it normally would with the cancer. He has had one slip up since he almost died but has been good since. The cancer meds and chemo are making him so sick I dont even think he would drink if he wanted to with how bad he feels. It does break my heart that it took all this to get him sober but im glad he is. I rarely took my kids to see him because I didnt want them dealing with what I did growing up. But now they can see their poppies and I dont have to worry him about acting crazy. I think its good she is showing these videos because as I kid we didnt see other people dealing with a drunk parent. It was lonely never being able to have friends over because he couldnt stay sober, parties were always ruined because he would get wasted and act out so everyone would leave. Videos like this show people who are dealing with a parent addicted to something, that they are not alone and there are others who are dealing with or have been through the same thing. Sending lots of prayers to you and your dad.
Amen 🙏🏻
I personally love how she's using her platform to praise the Lord. And yes Lord plz give her mother the strength to fight those addictions and demons .
You call her laughing at her mom love and praising the lord funny ???
Cap
I am proud also if her standing up for God. I just wish she wouldn’t post this about her mom. At least some of it she shouldn’t . But no judgement. I just feel like it’s not gonna help her mom ya know cause social media is hateful for the most part .
@@Letsbehonest911 Let's be honest, god Is a fictional character people made to feel good about themselves. She's on her own
@@Letsbehonest911 true
As a daughter of a recovered alcoholic mother. This made me feel seen. As a child i was gaslit into thinking this was normal, and that i was overreacting. Its such an isolating experience. Im now an adult dealing with depression, anxiety, and addiction. You putting this video out here? Even if it doesnt help your mom, i bet my life this will help a child dealing with this, learn that this is wrong, they aren't alone, and there is help for them! Validation like this would of changed my world as a child! Even now as an adult, it makes me feel less alone. God bless you Vicky ❤ you really are beautiful soul!
Such an act of recording saved David Hasselhoff’s life! And it was one of his daughters that did so. You may not like this, it may not be what *YOU’D* do, but watching someone’s rock bottom when you want them to live and they can’t see clearly and this may be their only mirror of truth, looks different to everyone.
Beautifully said
This is so sad and devastating. Father God, I ask that you please heal Vicky’s mother. Save her from addictions, drugs, depression, and all of the things she is suffering from that we may not know of, whether that being an internal, external, or mental issue. Lord Jesus, she is hurting right now, but keep being by her side. The enemy wants to keep her in bondage but I believe and declare that she will be free. Please keep giving Vicky the strength and courage that is needed to get through these trials. I ask that you send your angels and plant a seed of hope, love, and forgiveness in the heart of Vicky’s mother. Please renew her mind and spirit. In Jesus name, amen🙏🏽
God? Hahahaha
@@SenorGreenbean-ti4xqis something funny?🤷♀️
Yeah that ain't happenin
Amen 🙏🏼
Amen
Vicky isn't playing unless you're playing straight. Tough love it's hard dealing with an alcoholic parent but you are doing your best she will realize it later that she put you through a lot when she is sober.
Vicky is so dumb, her mom shoulda kept her legs closed
She fake just like you
💯✔️
Vicky is a Jezebel just like her mom. She need to leave her mom alone and let her make up her own mind to get help.
Maybe not my dad still denies what he out us through even though we have people backing us up.
Her moms face when she asked “are you on drugs” said a lot
She knew already,anyway,I’m sure.
We always know. It gets so old.
Girl, this was hard to watch, I'm praying for you, you need the strength, one thing is clear your mom should thank the good lord for a daughter like you
Yes, this is true love. Her Mother is severely underweight and very unwell and she is trying to save her life.
Vicki is so strong! She handled this well! She’s showing her mom that either you get it together or get away from me and my home. She isn’t enabling her mother and letting her trash her place. She stayed in control of the situation. I like Vicki so much more now. Seeing this made me feel proud of how far she’s come and that she chose to turn to God. I pray she gets her mom all of the help that she needs
She could have done everything you spoke about which is the right thing to do but she didn’t have to post a video of her mother in that condition she could’ve recorded her to show her how she acts n how it effects her children she didn’t have to blast her all over the internet
She's a big believer in Jesus Christ people need to know her real self not as a child
Is this a skit? White girl sounda black
@lisawertrea9021 I disagree. Good she posted it so we can see how destructive her Mother is drunk and high. So very wise to get her out of your home. Stay strong girl you're doing everything right and don't change a thing. This needs to be seen so others can take action like you are.
May God watch over you for being such a caring daughter.
@@ruthwest1459 everything she did was right except posting the video of her mother in that condition I pray you never in your life you have a moment that you are very vulnerable n that no one videos you while you’re in that vulnerable condition and post it on the internet for the world to see you at your worst you can help someone without do that to them I pray you never have to experience that and don’t say never
Her self control is inspiring. Ain't no way I would let somebody put their hands on me that many times without reacting. You're a strong woman vic❤
Just something about felt wrong, but, I have not seen any of the other vidoes with her mom
@@caritamatthewsShe has a video w/ her mom before, she showed up at her moms job or something and walked around talking to her. If I can find it I will tell you which one.
It's not just somebody. It's her mom and she clearly needs help.
Vicky put her hands on her first lmao
It's her mother who's not in her right state of mind
The fact that you got her in the car!! This shows you care, you’re trying your best not giving up at just kicking her out and also not enabling your mom. You’re so strong Vicky! ❤
Wow Vicky you’re so strong 😢 It’s amazing that you can be so vulnerable and open about this with your platform. So many people have these type of relationships with their parents and loved ones and it’s so good that they have content out there that they can relate to. This video even taught me something! God Bless you Vicky 🙏🏾
Everyone talking about dont record her but she is actually providing real life shit. For a daughter to have to do a reverse roll and try and cure her own mom from this deadly disease its so sad. I feel for Vicky honestly. It must be not only physically but really mentally straining on her to handle this. I wish you all God's strength to get you and your mom through this battle.
Talk about it we all can imagine this tv shoes us enough, I mean I get it but this is all fir hee platform mostly thts sad
Nah this is for her own platform, cuz we can imagine this all she had to do was talk about this issue! But I believe she know ppl would get annoyed w way she talks 🙄🤣🤷♀️ YT shows enough of this especially the show "Intervention!" She's trying is all😂😂😂 thts sad
For sure!!! Especially bc this stuff can be hereditary!! Vicki chose the right path… she could have fallen into addiction like her mom has!!
Facts. David hasslelhoff didn’t quit until his daughter filmed and posted him drunk eating macdonalds off the floor
@@wandagail2564hater, shut up. Don’t watch if you don’t like it
Damn now we know what Vickis childhood was like 😢🙏
Pretty much.. 🙏🏾
That's why I'm rooting for Vicki and so happy she found God 🫶🏻🙏🏻💯
That's when you find God when you're placed in hell without choice. One generational curses come to get you without a choice at birth. That's when you find God hallelujah
It's crazy what a lot of us feel it's normal😞
She was raised by her rich dad lol
Omg... my heart breaks for you. I have been an RN for over 20 years and I have dealt with patients just like your Mum. The awful things they say and do to their loved ones are unforgivable. I pray you are able to find her help eventually and be at peace ❤ God bless you
Vicky, you’re such an anointed young lady.
Alcoholism stole my mom when I was 5 and ended her when I was 24. . I pray hard she finds her way and gets better . Sending you all the love
I lost my mom too she was 43 I was 22 and we were going through some things at that time it ruined my life her dying destroyed me…. I am 40 now and it still hurts like it was yesterday
I am sorry for your loss
@@jazzo720I am sorry for your loss
Vickey lord I ask for healing for your mom fill her with peace and comfort and healing 🙏
And her money
There is no god
Amen 🙌🏼🙏🏼🩵
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsukiGod exists and He truly loves you so so much.
Give Him all of your cares and worries. Turn to Him before it’s too late!
God bless🤍
I’m thinking of you V! There is NOTHING private about the disease of addiction & alcoholism. For someone who lived it as a child & young adult all around me everyone knew. It wasn’t a “secret” the addict likes to think it is. It’s tough love & you got this V & Momma! V is bringing awareness to what it’s really like! I’m sending many strength & blessings to you both ❤❤
I’m so sorry you have to go through this Vicky may God truly be your peace. Jesus loves you even when we don’t receive love from our parents. He has a great plan and call for your life.
She's not putting her mom on blast. This video could actually really help them. She (vicky) seems to have good intentions for her mom. I went through something like that with my mother too. It's not easy. My mom got better and I hope Vicky's mother gets better too. She seems to be in a decent place spiritually as well.❤
I agree 💯❤
I feel like she shouldn’t have brought her friends into it it kinda put them at risk
Im only About 8 minutes in and if i find out this chick is only doing this for clicks then im gonna be pissed. So, we'll see.
@@moonmarie123 when she brought her friends in and when she said "get out my house"!👎🏽 I think some of the way she acts maybe for the cameras but I mean she still has this problem with her mother. And I do think she wants the best for her mother but Vicky's Young. She's feeling her way through this with her mother so mistakes are going to be made😐
Then why monetize it? Why she laughing about it? This is wrong all the way around. You can't just throw God's name on it and call it a Christian act. If this was from her heart it would have been handled privately.
Don’t record this keep it private
She can do what she pleases and see fit for herself.
She needs views
Don’t tell people what to do. Mind your business
@@cierragray1489but is her mom okay with it……
I mean she been through this since she was a kid why not show her going through it as a adult
You're a blessing to your mom!! ❤Thank you for being strong and helping your mom. Addictions are so hard to break. She doesn't do it on purpose or because she doesn't love you but she needs to heal her soul before she can break free from addiction.
Prayers for healing ! God bless you Vicky! So proud of the mighty woman of God you have become
I know you love her, but DONT LET HER LIVE WITH YOU ANYMORE. She will steal your peace and energy. You did all you can do. If she don’t want help that’s on her. But live your life. Pray for her and continue to love her BUT from AFAR. She will bring you down if you let her😢
Don't tell her to put her mom on the streets
@@littlepieceofleatherbossem7651 Her mom had another place of living, but Vicky invited her mom to live with her. If you’ve never lived with a parent who was self destructive/an energy vampire, you do NOT understand what it’s really like. Vicky’s peace MATTERS too🙏🏾
@@jianashantel yeah, she invited her mother to live with her for views to make people think she was so wonderful and taken in her mother, knowing damn well she was an alcoholic.
@@divavlog717 I don’t agree with you. She’s documenting her life and struggles of dealing with a dysfunctional parent. Idk if you’ve had to deal with one, but a lot of people find this relatable. They don’t feel alone after watching this.
@@jianashantel That is what support groups are for, and yes I have a parent who was an Addict.
The entitlement to profit of someone else's struggle is astounding.
Thanks Vicky for sharing your experiences with all of us, I know life is going to be tough & confusing & whatever but God will make 777 fold for the pain we go thru..... God Bless
I think it’s good to show this because most people don’t know how to handle this! You handled it in the correct way! 🙏
Vicky is a very intelligent woman she went through the process and the system and picked up on their terms really quickly. This is what you need to know in order to help your loved ones in these cases. Their terms and ways of saying things, in order to get things done. Like "behavior center" and "in danger to themselves and others". Especially when time is of the essence.
Those are great friends you have Vicky. God bless you all. 😔🤍
Oh Vicky….. I’m glad you filmed this , so many children have had to see their parents like this ( myself included),,,, this may help someone, God bless you Vicki and Lord heal your mum, Spiritually & mentally 😟😢
Sucks for u 😂
My mom was mentally verbally abusive but she was a functioning addict so I never seen her like this or actually use in front of me
I will have 5 years clean in Oct. I pray your mom finds the courage to want to change. I know it’s hard. It’s a vicious cycle. I’m grateful I am now a mother to my kids.
Stay strong. This is not your fault. We cannot make the choices for someone else. I prey your mom find the strength to resolve her addictions.
God Bless. I will take this up in prayer. You showed true fruit of the spirit Vicky.
This so sad watching this especially when I wanna be a psychology major 😢
Hi Vicky,
As a nurse with a background in psychology, I appreciate your platform for sharing the current situation impacting your life. Vlogging and blogging can be therapeutic for both you and your audience. You're already on the right path.
Hearing about your mom's relapse is truly saddening. This period must be incredibly tough and challenging for you. Remember, self-care is crucial. If possible, seek out a trusted individual to share your feelings with face-to-face, be it a friend, a relative, or a professional counselor. We're all human, and suppressing emotions can be exhausting and counterproductive; ignoring them doesn't mean they'll remain hidden.
Having a support system can significantly impact one's life. It's heart warming to see that this platform appears to have such a supportive community for you. It's evident that you understand the significance of supporting your mom while not facilitating her addiction through your vlogs. As important as it is to have support , it is equally important to set firm boundaries for your own safety and hers. Moreover, having a safety plan in place for yourself in case of a relapse is critical. Your dedication is indeed praiseworthy!
Engaging in activities that bring joy can provide your brain with a much-needed respite and relaxation, even during stressful times. Nurturing your mental and physical well-being through exercise, reading, singing, prayer, or socializing with friends can enhance decision-making in all aspects of life.Another benefit in situations is the internet provides easy access to knowledge to make gathering information on your mother's situation at your fingertips, and can help in all areas of her recovery you're inolved in.
Your abundant patience and kindness will undoubtedly contribute to positive outcomes in her recovery, which will take time. Even though you're excelling, if you find yourself wavering towards negative emotions remind yourself of the significant help you provide by maintaining patience and compassion for both your mother and yourself.
Celebrating any progress, no matter how minor, can act as positive reinforcement and be incredibly motivating, similar to the support you extend by sharing on your platform. You will surely help someone who watches in some way. Your open communication with your mother, expressing love and concern without judgment, is indeed a precious gift, and you are a blessing.
Always remember, you're not alone in this. Seeking support for both your mom and yourself can make a significant difference.
You're in my prayers. Your faith is strong, and God is always with you. If you need any assistance, please don't hesitate to reach out.
Take care and God bless,
Nurse Addison.
pray she sees and reads this❤
As a fellow Nurse, I absolutely agree. I hope she reads your message/ advice and takes it to heart and acts on the positivity and love being sent.
@@gaiastarseed First and foremost, thank you for your service. Second, I am grateful for your kind words. I hope she is doing well, if she reads this, I mean every word I say. She has strong faith that will not let her down.
Another starseed! Me too, a lot of us are nurses and healers, ever notice that?
Who’s choppin onions?😩🫶
I’m a nurse too, in PEDS mental health & SUD. Thank you for sharing such empathetic & necessary advice. Self-Care is *KEY* as a caregiver.
I’m proud of the respect & love Vicky displayed towards her mother. She treated her mother w/ dignity. I’m amazed w/ Vicky’s level of focus, maturity, positive, realistic attitude & organization.
This isn’t easy. I have a family member w/ SUD, interventions are necessary sometimes. May Vicky & her mother both be blessed. They both deserve peace.
I admire your faith and the acknowledgment of a spirit of addiction over your mum.
I back you in prayer and declare that she is set free from all spirits tormenting her, in the name of Jesus Christ ✝️
Using her as point of contact to all going through similar.
Continuous prayers shall be made for her and remember YOU ARE NOT ALONE, look around and you’ll see. Your friends are there, the police are there, the nurses are there, a therapist is there if you need, we love and support you from here and most importantly, GOD has got you. So don’t give up.
God bless you and give you the strength to overcome this. ❤
This is hard to watch. A parent should NEVER put their child in this situation. Continue doing whatever is necessary for you to get through this girl, you’re doing great, u got this! I hope one day your mom gets clean and apologizes to you. God Bless you & your family
Alcohol is the devil. I’m so sorry 😢
Yes ,it is. I wasted and suffered through 40 years before finding my way away from it. I wish it did not exsist. It's the devil.
i would laugh to because imagine how much hurt she has endured she probably can’t cry anymore laugh to keep from crying we don’t know when she turns this camera off how she’s gonna act or how she feels poor vicky we love you ♥️♥️ keep doing gods work 🙏🏿🙏🏿 i stand behind you
💯💯 fact's ❤ I love Vicki too she is growing above these awful circumstances she had to deal with her whole life...I pray Vicki finds peace and her mom gets sober 🙏🏻🙏🏻
She has stated before that she laughs when she gets nervous or upset to keep from crying or getting more upset. A coping mechanism.....
Your so right sometimes our pains so bad or we have cried so much that we laugh. It's a defense mechanism so we don't break
Yeah I was arguing with my Aunt before and I remember laughing the whole time and then when she finally left I was crying my eyes out. That laughter was keeping me sane
God Bless Vicky, please stay strong for your family love. You’re doing the right thing. Sending love your way sweetheart. 🙏 ✝️
Ive had this happen one to many times. People dont realize how tough it is. You are doing your best. God Bless you.
Praying that no weapons formed against you shall prosper. For you and your mom I pray that she gets a speedy recovery ❤️🩹 and this to shall pass. 🙏🏽🙌🏽
God doesnt exist
Give this lady strength to help her mother beat this terrible addiction 😢
In Jesus mighty name Amen 🙏🏼❤
Been in your shoes. I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're a strong young lady. Bless all of you for helping. I will pray that your mother embraces sobriety and never lets go.
My dear sister in Christ, the enemy knows he lost you and he’s attacking from the place he thinks will hit you hardest…I’m praying for your mom and your continued strength in Christ. Many prayers!
Im sorry that you have to go through this vicky , I pray that Jesus heals her from the spirit of addiction I pray that she seeks him first and not last I pray that she no longer idolizes liquor and drugs over God , I pray he opens her heart to him I rebuke every demonic spirit out of her in the name of Jesus no weapon formed against you Vicky or your mom shall prosper ! In Jesus mighty name ❤🙏🏽
God doesnt exist
I feel for you girl! My mom was an alcoholic, and she died at 42😢! I'm praying for your mom 🙏
Sorry for your loss 😢
@@fatonyalmitchell3281 thank you
I'm so sorry to hear that. That's a young age. God bless you. I hope that God continues to bring you, grace and mercy❤
😢🙏🏻
sheesh. sorry to hear that!
🙏🏽 that was a beautiful prayer and I pray that prayer with u for ur mother. I pray she is doing better. I am proud of the godly woman u r in Christ. Growth. I will keep you all n prayers. With love. TJ 🙏🏽💓
Wow, I am glad you documented this‼️This can be used to spread awareness and I pray for you and your mom, I believe she will be set free and she will have her life turned around she WILL have this to look back on and use this as part of her testimony. I pray your relationship with her will be restored in Jesus name. I will be praying for you guys strength. Stay faithful to the lord, war in the spirit and keep praying for her Vicky the lord will provide trust him. I send all my love ❤️🔥🙏🏽
I’m so sorry Victoria. She will be in my prayers as well.
Prayers dont work 😊
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsuki Faith means everything, any & all prayers will be answered. If it’s in Gods will, He will shall be done.
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsukiyes they do!! The Lord has helped me time after time ! Give Jesus a try !!! Please
@@marytodd9170 I dont really need any insight from you religious people. Being raised catholic I attended communion, went to church early sunday and confession And Guess what that got me. A deceased father that died from a heart attack and a mother that caught cancer. I have no parents and prayers to god did nothing. There is no god 🤷♀️
@@ShinRyuAmiYuniTsukiyes they do
I wouldn’t put up with this any longer. Until she is ready to help herself, you cannot help her. I know. I have dealt with it with my mother who is sober now since 2006. And my brother who is still in full addiction. We cannot help him. God bless you. I pray she sobers up and gets the help she needs.
This is out of love or she would be in the streets or dead. Bless this child
I have been there Vicki my heart goes out to you.Balancing your anger ,disappointment, and Love is very hard.I wish you and your mom the best.God bless❤
Wow what patience she has..very mentally strong not once losing her sh*i..this would be mentally draining on most people.
@@donnaheard24 Oh she's lost her shit before on her Im sure but now it's being recorded 🙄
She’s probably used to it by now sadly
Vicky my love, i am so sorry for how i viewed you before I've seen you grow... and become 1 with the Lord!!! I’m praying for you and your mother Vicky. DONT GIVE UP ON HER
i love you girl keep pushin. ❤❤❤
Prayers dont work
Praying for you and your mom Vicky! You are such an amazing daughter! God bless you❤❤❤
💙🙏🏿🕊💚
Prayers dont work
My daughter relapsed I understand your pain, 16 years of a fight for sobriety. Grandchildren that live a rollercoaster ride. I try and give support and she does nothing. Prayers sent it destroys families.
Keep on her Vicky! You only have one mama. She is lost right now and needs you more than ever! Don’t give up on her. Your doing the right thing even though it hurts. Good luck and God bless you and your mom. ❤
Praying for all of y'all healing I know it got to be hard as the daughter. I'm glad you broadcasted this because there could be others going through the same thing and don't know what to do. You are trying your best, you did nothing wrong, God bless
I been dealing with this my entire life as far back as I can remember and I’ve come to realize that God is the only one who can help ppl change and they have to want it bad enough! It takes 30 days to make or break a habit! Think how hard it is for her if she has been drinking so long, but one thing I’ve never done is embarrassed my mom when she is like this I don’t let anyone see and I don’t tell anyone so they can use it against her! She’s obviously fighting her own demons! I hope and pray you both can get right with God! If I didn’t go through this as a child and teen I probably would drink like my mom used to, because of being raised in this type of environment I don’t drink but maybe a beer every great once In awhile! You forcing her to get help unfortunately won’t help but bring division and strife, fights and anger! Ppl have to want the change! It took for us to stay away from my mother and remind her every time she wanted us around that if she was drinking we weren’t coming over 🤷🏻♀️ she is a lot better and they can be helped and change once they’re ready
Her mom is embarrassing herself by continually partaking in this nonsense. Maybe her mom seeing this posted up for the world to see will be the thing that opens her eyes. Sometimes people need to be embarrassed by seeing themselves and their foolish behaviour in order to change their ways. Nothing else seems to be working if she's done it for this long, so a wake up call like this might do her some good.
God Bless you for doing this. She truly needs help. Stay safe.
Thank you for not just kicking her out and leaving her for somebody to do bad thing too her.... Thank you for making sure she's safe and also thank u for showing us a part of you're life that people act like it don't happen to them because they are successful.. thank u for showing us the reality
When she finally sobers up and watch herself in this video she’s definitely gonna want to get help I pray she gets clean and sober I lost 3 uncles to alcohol and my father to drugs I’ve seen what it can do prayers for you Vick for being able to deal with your mom 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️
I also lost my uncle to alcoholism. It runs in both sides of my family. Very scary stuff agh. I'm sorry for all your losses hun💙 may they rest in peace!
@@meghansullivan6812 I’m so sorry for your loss n yes same with my family both sides .. thank u so much for your prayers all we can do is stay prayed up stay blessed my love 🙏🏾❤️
Daughter of addicted parents…thank you so much for sharing your story. Relapse isn’t always part of recovery but it can be. Keep those good strong boundaries with her and keep your life as non chaotic as you can. I’m so proud of you. ❤
Relapse is always part of recovery check out the statistics 📈
Just wanted to let you know you're Mama loves you, I too was your Mom a long time ago, but quit drinking on my own, it took for me to see myself on recording how Dispecable I would treat my kids verbally when I was drunk, it killed me to the core. I've been sober over 20 yrs now and feel so happy. And what I had out my kids through didn't make them hate me thank God! they are my world. I pray your mom gets the help she needs because there's nothing else better in this world than that of a mother and daughter relationship 🙏🏼❤
Prayers for you and your mom.
Healing is not easy. My dad went back to drinking again after 22 years of sobriety. It broke my heart.
OMG, my dad was sober for the same amount of time as your dad and relapsed exactly a year later. He was diagnosed with alcohol induced dementia. He was perfectly fine until this one day almost a year ago now I’m all I can see. Is the man I saw all my childhood.
I meant to say a year ago is when he relapsed
I’m exactly like Victoria with my mom. My mother is a terrible addict. Now she’s addicted to alcohol. Reminds me of your mom.. Praying for you and your mom!🙏❤️
Bless you Vicky😭😭😭I have been through the same thing with my son🙏🙏🙏. Praying for you and the grief you bare for your mother in Jesus Christ Holy name!
Praying things are going well now. Stay strong. Hugsss 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I come into agreement with you Vicky for the words of your prayer to be manifest in Jesus name! Always staying prayed up Sis! I've been through this with a loved one. And I would love to connect with you somehow to stand in prayer and knowledge with each other. If so possible. Love ya! ❤
Vicky, so sorry that you have to go through this with your mom.
We are all here for you?
God bless you.
You are amazing daughter
All you can do Vicky is continue praying 🙏🏾 for your mom I understand completely from both sides of the spectrum. But the power of prayer is amazing and everything will work out in Gods timing. Keep loving and believing and stay faithful God is always with you. Praying for you and your mom.🙏🏾❤️😇
Oh honey you are amazing for raising awareness what its like to deal with addiction. Praying for your mama and you. Or anyone involved. 😢❤
Vicki I'm sorry you have to go through this. All the abuse. Its the spirit behind her. That's why the verbal abuse. When someone is intoxicated they become the host of demons which is so sad. I worked with alcolics before. We pray that the holy spirit arrest her where she is Lord and deliver her from drugs alcoholin Jesus name ❤🙏🏾
That's why alcohol is called spirits.
Real solid friends 💯💪🏽
Praying for your mom ❤ I'm a recovering alcoholic from a family of recovering alcoholics and addicts. My childhood was full of all the bad things that come with these addictions. I grew up to be the one thing I swore I'd never be, like them. I have gotten sober for long periods ( 7 years ) and then relapsed repeatedly. After the 7 years I couldn't stay sober for more than 6 months before relapsing again. I'm 4 years clean and sober now. God brought me to a better place while I was in the middle of a terrible crisis. I put all my trust and faith in God this time and I no longer have the desire to drink or use. My life is beautiful now beyond what I ever imagined it could be. I had to leave a lot behind but I've gained far more than I've ever had and it's all non material gains. I have true love, I have peace of mind, I love life like I haven't since I was a little girl. God is awesome, Sobriety Rocks 🎸 I'm praying for God to give your mom the strength to break free from the chains that bind her and for her to have the willingness to get well and to have the beautiful life God wants her to have. I'm praying for you to stay strong and to know that your mom is very sick so don't take to heart the terrible things she's saying ok. Don't forget to be good to yourself and stay close to God. ❤
Been there. Stay strong. Only you can save her there is nobody else in the world. God knows what could have happened to me if my family gave up on me. Addiction is a disease and love is the cure. Sorry to see this Vicky.
I’ve dealt with alcoholism. They won’t get help unless they really want it and are at rock bottom. Sometimes that means giving the ones you love the most tough love. It’s hard to watch someone slip away and become a person you don’t know anymore. Vickie. I’m gonna pray for you and your Mom. I’m sorry you felt like you had no choice but to carry her out. I’m also sorry she wouldn’t leave. This is so hard.❤️
Praying for you & ur mama 🙏🏾
With God anything is possible 💗 You’re strong baby girl. God’s plan is always in the works. God bless you Vicky.
Praying for your mom. I ve been there. Lost my mom to fentanyl 2021. Tried everthing to help her. Figured i cant change her so love her and be there ❤❤❤