Oh and let's not forget how manipulative the husband was to turn her kids against her. Because we all know she didn't do anything to turn her kids against her. 🙄
Me thinks click bait and OP just feeling she's entitled to what she wants. She admits she lost the "lavish life" some other man offered and now she has nothing she's hoping to play the "but family" card so she doesn't have to work and be pampered again. What's more disturbing is she is actively playing the "I'm their mother so you can't deny me" card too. Parents don't get to abandon their kids and pop in when it suits them. Who's to say the next rich guy to pop in her radar she leaves them again. She did it once and it's completely reasonable to expect her to do it again.
I feel the reason OP "feels like she's running out of time" is bc she knows that children are much more impressionable/naive than adults. So if she wants to minimize/manipulate what she did she needs to do it before they grow up.
That title is hilarious 8 years ago I CHEATED for no good reason on my husband and left my 3 KIDS behind like a horrible person. My ENTITLED HUSBAND reasonably won't let me see them but I saw them anyway and I got what I deserve
"shouldn't i fight for my kids?" Not until you have gone through therapy and get rid of the selfishness. And yes, your current obsession to get back with your kids is for you, not them, and is your selfishness coming out again.
Adults are not immune to manipulation. If they were, sales tactics would always fail. Sales tactics are just a series of professional manipulations. Adults get manipulated by their partners and employers all the time, too. Manipulation explains, but does not excuse, actions. She's very much in the wrong for what she did, but it is possible she was being manipulated. The two situations are not mutually exclusive.
@sitarilyra9637 Adults aren't immune to consequences either. OP is so far up her own misery that she wants to drag her ex and kids, the family she ditched for her new man, down the same hole so she isn't alone. And like everyone else has said in the comments - if OPs sugar daddy didn't ditch her for a new girl, she would not be trying to reach out to her kids. But sure, let's make excuses for the one who was just "trying to ensure her happiness". And even if she was 'manipulated', how TF did that happen? Was she targeted by her rich ex? Was she being told her ex husband was cheating on her and she felt she needed to leave? Did her rich ex force her to spend HIS money on luxuries and made her cut contact with her kids? All this "she was manipulated" talk yet no one even thought that her rich ex is her affair partner, which is why she left in the first place. After all, ex hubby wasn't "exciting" in their marriage.
@@nicksuazo4377 I did say she was very much in the wrong for her choices, just that manipulation isn't impossible. You're still responsible for the harm you cause when you're under the influence of a manipulator. The Manson family members were incredibly manipulated by Charles, but they still went to prison for the choices they made. She's definitely in the wrong, she definitely made bad choices, but that doesn't mean she wasn't manipulated. Many people mistake manipulation for coercion, but they're not the same. A manipulator uses psychological tricks to get you to do what they want you to do, but you're ultimately the one responsible for what you do. Coercion makes you choose between doing what they want or suffering harm, making you less responsible, because you're acting in self-preservation. She was not acting in self-preservation, so she was not coerced. However, he still could have been a manipulative man. Either way, yes, she's in the wrong. Yes, she made the choices herself. Yes, she deserved the consequences. I'm literally only saying that being an adult doesn't make you immune to manipulation.
@nicksuazo4377 I never said she wasn't in the wrong, just that adults aren't immune to manipulation. She deserves the consequences of her actions, and being manipulated doesn't change that. Manipulation just convinces you to make a choice on your own, it doesn't force you to do anything. That's why the Manson family members who committed the killings went to prison, despite all the evidence that Charles was manipulating the entire family through psych tricks and LOTS of drugs. They were manipulated all to hell, but they were still responsible for the actions they took. As I stated, manipulation can explain, but not excuse, behaviors. It can be the answer for why someone did something wrong, but that doesn't lessen the wrong they did, nor does it mean they shouldn't face consequences for it.
S1: One thing to cheat, but abandoning your kids and leaving without any contact almost as if you’d died? It’s disgusting. She didn’t care enough about them whilst she was with Nathan, only now after she’s been dumped.
YTA it’s not that she realizes the AP dumped her’ love how she calls her ex entitled she’s had nothing to do with him or their children for 8 years and thinks she can swan back like nothing happened. The dad should sue you and restraining order as you failed in all ways to be a mother, your older two are right you’ve only come crawling back was you have nothing left and you’re extreme entitlement of being owed a relationship is disgusting.
What a POS. Did she think their lives paused and that they were just waiting around for her.? She's the entitled one for thinking her ex would take her back after she was used and tossed aside and for blaming the ex for the kids hating her.
Literally everyone screaming at the first op to stop and leave her kids alone and she goes "yeah yeah I know, but I should try right?". Like no girl, no, you're not listening to your own kids and you just want validation. She's not actually taking it in and she's still selfish af
Story 1. How about paying the 10 years of back child support. Mind you, if I was the father, I'd have her arrested for not paying court ordered payments.
You abandoned them. The dad had to raise 3 kids by himself. Everytime they were sick, when they needed to go to school, every appointment, every time they cried, the dad had to be the there ALONE while keeping a roof over their heads. You are the mother by blood only. You don't get to come back 8 years later just cause the rich dude you left them for traded you in for a younger model. Just go away
Story 1: Your ex is not entitled because he was hurt and furious that you walked out on your marriage and is pissed off that you have the nerve to come back and wanting to see your children after walking out on husband and children!
She only thinks about her family when she got tossed aside. She would have never came back if he never left her for someone younger. She is horrible and trash. She does not deserve to be back in her ex and kids lives. She could have gotten a divorce or tried to work it out. But instead she cheated because she thought "she deserved it".
I agree with you 💯%, the only reason OP posted on Reddit is because she wants sympathy and validation from outsiders who are willing to buy into her bull?#*$.😒
This woman is garbage. How dare she call her ex husband entitled. She really thinks she deserves to be with her kids now after abandoning them and her husband?
*Abandons kids for 8 years and her two oldest now hate her* "This is all my ex husband's fault." Also glad OP2 gets to keep the ex-Stepmom and ex-Stepsister. Alex is the only dead weight that needed dropped.
It's so hard to feel bad for people with a stable life and loving family that get "bored" and feel like they are missing out and "deserve" a life of luxury. They don't realize just how good they have it. A boring, stable life with people you love is better than most people get. They just seem so damn greedy and narcissistic.
Telling the kids the truth, why being unfaithful is objectively evil in all cases, is not manipulation. And kids resenting actual evil, is better than resenting the good and neutral. Resentment is a wasteful sentiment however. Mom chose to be unfaithful and abandon her children and husband for her own selfish desires, she is not entitled to their acceptance and forgiveness. Forcing herself in their lives again tells us she never learned anything.
Story 1: OP doesn't understand that her ex husband is protecting his children from a threat: her. When her family needed her the most, she walked out on them, seeing them as a hindrance. She doesn't get to come back into their lives as if she paused a game, ready to resume. She's made her bed. Now she has to lie in it. She had it made. Now she lives in shame.
Story 1 stay tf away from them if they miss you they'll find believe me im the offspring of a woman who didnt want kids and abandoned me and my sibling
1:38 - Top Ten RKO from out of nowhere moments in gaming situation. For those just getting here, I'm talking about the game in the background and not the woe is me moment this delulu OP is going on about.
Story 1: OP keeps saying she thought her happiness was more important than the happiness and welfare of her children, and that she was doing the right thing by leaving them. What kind of pos human actually thinks that child abandonment has no victims and no repercussions?! She destroyed her family, causing her children longterm emotional/psychological trauma that will require years of therapy. She’s obviously not remorseful for cheating and leaving her family because she’s blame-shifting like a champ and is incapable of taking full responsibility for her actions. OP is only sorry that karma came back to bite her on the ass. Her kids are still healing from her abandonment, so she has no right to dismantle their lives again or to make any demands. She has to let them be. They’ll reach out to her when they’re ready, but she’ll only have herself to blame if that never happens. And her poor ex-husband needs to sue her for all the years of unpaid child support. Deadbeat parents have to be held accountable.
Story 1: This is the modern woman. Self-centered, self-absorbed, to hell with what the kids have gone through. Jack is WRONG. He should've come full bore after her for child support. If the roles were reversed, she sure as hell would've come after her. Have her spend time in jail for shirking her parental duties. If you don't go after her, THIS happens. Here she comes with her hat in her hand and rabbit ear pockets talking about seeing *_her_* kids.
S1: the delusion is crazy you by your own admission abandoned your children for a dude then he left you now you want back in why should the ex husband/father of your kids reintroduce a rogue element back into the lives of the child wen she was content leaving them until she was dumped herself you don’t deserve a connection with those kids he didn’t have to manipulate them you showed you didn’t want to be a mother that’s what the kids saw you left them and never came back and now are mad the kids see that and want not a damn thing to do with you.
I disappeared from my own child's life because I'm an asshole, not because I thought it would benefit me to do so. I was a neglectful father and I'm a Narcissist. I've been to therapy but I know I can never have kids because they would be emotionally neglected. I've considered waiting to reach out when he gets older, but that's not the right thing to do. If he wants to know about me, I'll let him find me. But I'm not worth his time, and I know he's being taken care of. It's all that matters now.
This bi has a lot of nerve to claim her kids were "manipulated" and the husband was "entitled" while also admitting to feeling guilt and calling herself the villain P.s. you know she was with the ap for him cuz the first thing she mentioned about him was that he was rich
Sorry but OP wouldn’t be back trying to make amends if her boyfriend hadn’t dumped her. It’s NOT that she missed her family, was sorry, etc. It’s even more selfish than walking away years ago.
Three words back child support. Ok add up monthly child support, then times that by 12 , The multiple the total by 3. That's the total she owes him for 8 years of unpaid child support for 3 children watch how fast she respects for childrens whishes
S1 "one wrong move could destroy any chance I have of rebuilding a relationship with them" it already has!!! 8 years ago!!! When you left with your sugar daddy and gave up your rights. What REbuilding? You destroyed the foundation. Just leave them alone.
Story 1. So she says that she changed, but ignorong the fact that if she wasnt cheated on and broken up with as well, she would still be living happily, ignoring them... 😅
It's incredibly brave of you to share such a personal and painful experience. The journey from betrayal to healing is never easy, and it sounds like you’ve had to face the consequences of your actions, which is commendable. I hope this serves as a reminder to all of us about the complexities of human relationships, the importance of taking responsibility for our mistakes, and the possibility of growth and redemption. It’s never too late to make amends and build a better future for ourselves and our loved ones. Wishing you strength on your ongoing journey.
Little info for OP on S1, the reason her ex didn’t go after her for CS was because not only he knew he wouldn’t get anything since she was living off her sugar daddy, but mostly because he knew this would happen, that OP would end up replaced like she replaced him and once she tried to come back, the is a mountain of accumulated cash she has no hope of ever paying for her to even try and go to courts. Plus i guarantee you there would be kids know she haven’t paid a dime. Super fake story (yeah, sure that a rich guy with options would go for a middle aged mother of 4 and spend 8 years pampering her.)
story 1 what if op's affair partner didn't dump her? from what we were told, the timeline is op was unhappy in her marriage, she met her rich affair partner, divorced her husband and left her kids and then we jump to her being dumped by her ap and now regrets everything. why now? what about when she was living with rich affair partner? did she think about her kids when she was living it up in her ap's nice big house (if not mansion)? or on a fancy vacation at a beach side resort? op's only upset that she bet on the wrong horse. If she wasn't dumped, you know she would give her old life and family a second thought.
#1: TITLE: "I left my husband & 3 kids for my affair partner. Now he dumped me & alienated my children." *_WHAT?!?!_* He did NOT dump you. THEY moved on after you abandoned them. If you had a shred of decency or respect, you would never contact them again. Let them reach out to you, if they ever choose to.
In the first story: op, I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for you. You chose to make your decisions, and you chose your karma. And now when you got your karma back on you ten fold, and you wanna play victim? Op, you don’t deserve to have a second chance. I said it… I won’t un say it.
Story 1 the audacity of this woman to call her ex entitled. If the AP didn't leave her she wouldn't have come back. What scum.
Oh and let's not forget how manipulative the husband was to turn her kids against her.
Because we all know she didn't do anything to turn her kids against her. 🙄
Ong
Me thinks click bait and OP just feeling she's entitled to what she wants.
She admits she lost the "lavish life" some other man offered and now she has nothing she's hoping to play the "but family" card so she doesn't have to work and be pampered again. What's more disturbing is she is actively playing the "I'm their mother so you can't deny me" card too. Parents don't get to abandon their kids and pop in when it suits them. Who's to say the next rich guy to pop in her radar she leaves them again. She did it once and it's completely reasonable to expect her to do it again.
To be fair, I don't think that's the original title, I think that's SilentVoices' clickbait title.
Ditto
Classic woe is me story. Mrs I have to paint my husband as the bad guy to avoid accountability is only receiving the consequences of her choices
More like the classic "hoe is me"story.
I feel the reason OP "feels like she's running out of time" is bc she knows that children are much more impressionable/naive than adults. So if she wants to minimize/manipulate what she did she needs to do it before they grow up.
That title is hilarious
8 years ago I CHEATED for no good reason on my husband and left my 3 KIDS behind like a horrible person. My ENTITLED HUSBAND reasonably won't let me see them but I saw them anyway and I got what I deserve
Husband is entitled?! Lmao. Psycho.
Projecting much? How delusional and selfish is she?
"shouldn't i fight for my kids?"
Not until you have gone through therapy and get rid of the selfishness. And yes, your current obsession to get back with your kids is for you, not them, and is your selfishness coming out again.
My answer: NO!!! LEAVE THEM ALONE! You ABANDONED them, now you get to lay in that lonely bed you made.
If her rich fancy man hadn't left she wouldn't have tried to go back to her former family
Truuuu
exactly
THIS !!!
True that.
Fr!!!
“i was manipulated🥺🥺🥺” girl you are GROWN
Adults are not immune to manipulation. If they were, sales tactics would always fail. Sales tactics are just a series of professional manipulations. Adults get manipulated by their partners and employers all the time, too.
Manipulation explains, but does not excuse, actions. She's very much in the wrong for what she did, but it is possible she was being manipulated. The two situations are not mutually exclusive.
@@sitarilyra9637 Yeah but, instead he did not manipulate her she choose to gove with him because she thought she deserved it.
@sitarilyra9637 Adults aren't immune to consequences either. OP is so far up her own misery that she wants to drag her ex and kids, the family she ditched for her new man, down the same hole so she isn't alone. And like everyone else has said in the comments - if OPs sugar daddy didn't ditch her for a new girl, she would not be trying to reach out to her kids. But sure, let's make excuses for the one who was just "trying to ensure her happiness".
And even if she was 'manipulated', how TF did that happen? Was she targeted by her rich ex? Was she being told her ex husband was cheating on her and she felt she needed to leave? Did her rich ex force her to spend HIS money on luxuries and made her cut contact with her kids? All this "she was manipulated" talk yet no one even thought that her rich ex is her affair partner, which is why she left in the first place. After all, ex hubby wasn't "exciting" in their marriage.
@@nicksuazo4377 I did say she was very much in the wrong for her choices, just that manipulation isn't impossible. You're still responsible for the harm you cause when you're under the influence of a manipulator. The Manson family members were incredibly manipulated by Charles, but they still went to prison for the choices they made. She's definitely in the wrong, she definitely made bad choices, but that doesn't mean she wasn't manipulated. Many people mistake manipulation for coercion, but they're not the same. A manipulator uses psychological tricks to get you to do what they want you to do, but you're ultimately the one responsible for what you do. Coercion makes you choose between doing what they want or suffering harm, making you less responsible, because you're acting in self-preservation. She was not acting in self-preservation, so she was not coerced. However, he still could have been a manipulative man.
Either way, yes, she's in the wrong. Yes, she made the choices herself. Yes, she deserved the consequences. I'm literally only saying that being an adult doesn't make you immune to manipulation.
@nicksuazo4377 I never said she wasn't in the wrong, just that adults aren't immune to manipulation. She deserves the consequences of her actions, and being manipulated doesn't change that. Manipulation just convinces you to make a choice on your own, it doesn't force you to do anything. That's why the Manson family members who committed the killings went to prison, despite all the evidence that Charles was manipulating the entire family through psych tricks and LOTS of drugs. They were manipulated all to hell, but they were still responsible for the actions they took. As I stated, manipulation can explain, but not excuse, behaviors. It can be the answer for why someone did something wrong, but that doesn't lessen the wrong they did, nor does it mean they shouldn't face consequences for it.
S1: One thing to cheat, but abandoning your kids and leaving without any contact almost as if you’d died? It’s disgusting.
She didn’t care enough about them whilst she was with Nathan, only now after she’s been dumped.
Then ended better this way.
YTA it’s not that she realizes the AP dumped her’ love how she calls her ex entitled she’s had nothing to do with him or their children for 8 years and thinks she can swan back like nothing happened.
The dad should sue you and restraining order as you failed in all ways to be a mother, your older two are right you’ve only come crawling back was you have nothing left and you’re extreme entitlement of being owed a relationship is disgusting.
if I were the ex i would be going after the 8 years of child support, see how she feels with garnished wages and possible jail time
Got to be a bait dude I refuse to believe that someone could be this dense
“Push myself” is a key word imo. She didn’t even want to do it from the sounds of it right off the bat
And likely once she finds a new man she’d bounce again
@@rem9367Human stupidity is infinite my dude. From the dawn of time to present day, there has never been a glass ceiling for that.
She keeps saying "i know i am the villain" but keeps acting like she isn't.
I don't think she does.
What a POS. Did she think their lives paused and that they were just waiting around for her.? She's the entitled one for thinking her ex would take her back after she was used and tossed aside and for blaming the ex for the kids hating her.
Time's arrow neither stands still nor reverses it mearly matches forward.
Story 1: The delulu is strong in this one.
Not even the Force can compare.
@@crystalgemgirl731 not even Dark Vader would be prepared.
Dark Vader fears her
@tryme9740 Noooope.
Literally everyone screaming at the first op to stop and leave her kids alone and she goes "yeah yeah I know, but I should try right?". Like no girl, no, you're not listening to your own kids and you just want validation. She's not actually taking it in and she's still selfish af
Not even Cuphead would double down on that one.🤦🏻♀️
Story 1. How about paying the 10 years of back child support. Mind you, if I was the father, I'd have her arrested for not paying court ordered payments.
Only men get sent to jail for not paying child support
Any person that is ok with you abandoning your kids is not a good person
This has to be rage bait... its got to be.
Truth is often stranger than fiction
Unfortunately it's probably not, that's the messed up part 😅
The sad reality, while this specific incident might be. It still happens unfortunately
There is another post from the husband’s perspective
You abandoned them. The dad had to raise 3 kids by himself. Everytime they were sick, when they needed to go to school, every appointment, every time they cried, the dad had to be the there ALONE while keeping a roof over their heads. You are the mother by blood only. You don't get to come back 8 years later just cause the rich dude you left them for traded you in for a younger model. Just go away
I've seen a dog give birth, but that doesn't make it a mother.
Cheaters will always paint themselves as the victim of their own poor decision-making. Zero accountability from a prostitute.
She traded her kids for designer bags…
And went running to them when she ran out of her sugar daddy's money 🤦
Story 1: Your ex is not entitled because he was hurt and furious that you walked out on your marriage and is pissed off that you have the nerve to come back and wanting to see your children after walking out on husband and children!
Every cheater feels so entitled for forgiveness just coz they feel ready to fix it..
She only thinks about her family when she got tossed aside. She would have never came back if he never left her for someone younger. She is horrible and trash. She does not deserve to be back in her ex and kids lives. She could have gotten a divorce or tried to work it out. But instead she cheated because she thought "she deserved it".
Her husband didn't abandon her and he's not enitled. She is a monster name calling her husband and playing the victim.
I agree with you 💯%, the only reason OP posted on Reddit is because she wants sympathy and validation from outsiders who are willing to buy into her bull?#*$.😒
This woman is garbage. How dare she call her ex husband entitled. She really thinks she deserves to be with her kids now after abandoning them and her husband?
This woman is crazy for thinking she can come back
Story 1 that woman really doesn’t care about the kids. It’s all about her.
S1: Has to be fake, she did everything but tie a baby to the train tracks.
I know a woman that did something similar
If she could've, she would've.
*Abandons kids for 8 years and her two oldest now hate her*
"This is all my ex husband's fault."
Also glad OP2 gets to keep the ex-Stepmom and ex-Stepsister. Alex is the only dead weight that needed dropped.
Story 1: She's kidding, right? She deserves to be alone the rest of her life. At least she wouldn't traumatize other innocent people.
Story 1: Op thought she was stuck in a dead-end life, but was actually the dead-end wife in the ex-husbands life 😂😂
It's so hard to feel bad for people with a stable life and loving family that get "bored" and feel like they are missing out and "deserve" a life of luxury. They don't realize just how good they have it. A boring, stable life with people you love is better than most people get. They just seem so damn greedy and narcissistic.
Op, you deserve no second chance since you cheated and abandoned both your husband and kids, so when your ap abandoned you, that's karma severed?!
Story One, I condemn you to the wood chipper
The first person your husband isn’t entitled he wants his kids to not have to deal with a narcissist woman
Telling the kids the truth, why being unfaithful is objectively evil in all cases, is not manipulation. And kids resenting actual evil, is better than resenting the good and neutral. Resentment is a wasteful sentiment however.
Mom chose to be unfaithful and abandon her children and husband for her own selfish desires, she is not entitled to their acceptance and forgiveness. Forcing herself in their lives again tells us she never learned anything.
Story 1: OP doesn't understand that her ex husband is protecting his children from a threat: her. When her family needed her the most, she walked out on them, seeing them as a hindrance. She doesn't get to come back into their lives as if she paused a game, ready to resume. She's made her bed. Now she has to lie in it. She had it made. Now she lives in shame.
Story 1: Don't I deserve a second chance?
No. No you don't.
"i thought i was doing the right thing at the time"
How could you possibly think that was right?
Delusions?🤷🏻♀️
CHEATER'S DO NOT DESERVE SECOND CHANCE LET ALONE LIFE,don't forget the only reason you breathe today is because the law has become a joke!
I’m loving the load of delusional op stories being posted
she admits to abandoning her children and has the nerve to call him entitled in the same paragraph and say he manipulated his kids????
Pay up on all of the child support and maybe ex-husband will consider listening to OP.
Story 1 stay tf away from them if they miss you they'll find believe me im the offspring of a woman who didnt want kids and abandoned me and my sibling
Story 1 - "Doesn't forgiveness come into play?". They came into play the same time as fidelity, loyalty and paternal duty.
I immediately answered: NOOOOPE!
1:38 - Top Ten RKO from out of nowhere moments in gaming situation. For those just getting here, I'm talking about the game in the background and not the woe is me moment this delulu OP is going on about.
Started off wrong with calling the husband entitled😂. She is worse than shit, actually.
Story one, she's only wanting to reconnect because nathan dumped her not because she actually loves them
If she loved them, she wouldn't have left.
Did she seriously call her husband entitled
Omfg
Story 1: OP keeps saying she thought her happiness was more important than the happiness and welfare of her children, and that she was doing the right thing by leaving them. What kind of pos human actually thinks that child abandonment has no victims and no repercussions?! She destroyed her family, causing her children longterm emotional/psychological trauma that will require years of therapy. She’s obviously not remorseful for cheating and leaving her family because she’s blame-shifting like a champ and is incapable of taking full responsibility for her actions. OP is only sorry that karma came back to bite her on the ass.
Her kids are still healing from her abandonment, so she has no right to dismantle their lives again or to make any demands. She has to let them be. They’ll reach out to her when they’re ready, but she’ll only have herself to blame if that never happens. And her poor ex-husband needs to sue her for all the years of unpaid child support. Deadbeat parents have to be held accountable.
Story 1: This is the modern woman. Self-centered, self-absorbed, to hell with what the kids have gone through. Jack is WRONG. He should've come full bore after her for child support. If the roles were reversed, she sure as hell would've come after her. Have her spend time in jail for shirking her parental duties. If you don't go after her, THIS happens. Here she comes with her hat in her hand and rabbit ear pockets talking about seeing *_her_* kids.
S1: the delusion is crazy you by your own admission abandoned your children for a dude then he left you now you want back in why should the ex husband/father of your kids reintroduce a rogue element back into the lives of the child wen she was content leaving them until she was dumped herself you don’t deserve a connection with those kids he didn’t have to manipulate them you showed you didn’t want to be a mother that’s what the kids saw you left them and never came back and now are mad the kids see that and want not a damn thing to do with you.
Story 2: Jesus Christ on a motorbike take the wheel!!!!!
The audacity of people like this, it's freaking mind-blowing. I wonder where I could get some myself 😅
2:30 "The court ordered me to pay child support, but I ignored it."
So this is the power of the mystical male privilege I've heard so much about...
Hello kids this is How To Dodge Accountibility 101
Is the first woman for real??? I think its a redditor who made up a ragebait.
Unfortunately there are women in reality that acts like this. Its an evil world we live in lad.
It's secretvoice own ragebait story because he's playing the downfall game
Every time I read your post, I feel so relaxed and comfortable. 😌
🤗
Oh wow another 304 complaining about being a mother
Story one: the delulu is strong with this one
I disappeared from my own child's life because I'm an asshole, not because I thought it would benefit me to do so. I was a neglectful father and I'm a Narcissist. I've been to therapy but I know I can never have kids because they would be emotionally neglected.
I've considered waiting to reach out when he gets older, but that's not the right thing to do. If he wants to know about me, I'll let him find me. But I'm not worth his time, and I know he's being taken care of. It's all that matters now.
1st story. OP is nuts. If I were one of her kids, there would be no way I could ever trust her again.
You abandoned three children. For eight years. Why do you even think you might deserve to be let back in to their lives?
This bi has a lot of nerve to claim her kids were "manipulated" and the husband was "entitled" while also admitting to feeling guilt and calling herself the villain
P.s. you know she was with the ap for him cuz the first thing she mentioned about him was that he was rich
If story 1 was serious, shed pay every penny of child support before doing anything else
Sorry but OP wouldn’t be back trying to make amends if her boyfriend hadn’t dumped her. It’s NOT that she missed her family, was sorry, etc. It’s even more selfish than walking away years ago.
Awe poor OP, she just needs a place to stay and place holders till she finds another baller. Why doesn’t anyone understand 😢
Three words back child support. Ok add up monthly child support, then times that by 12 , The multiple the total by 3. That's the total she owes him for 8 years of unpaid child support for 3 children watch how fast she respects for childrens whishes
Story 1 the ex needs to file a restraining order against the 304.
Such a heavy and emotional story. Decisions like this leave lasting ripples on everyone involved
Story 1. Even after reading all those responses about staying away, and how she needed to hear it. She's still got "main character syndrome".
In all these stories, everyone goes to therapy. How are they affording all this?
S1 has to be fake. No one can be this clueless.
Someone is buying those bags...
OP, you “don’t want to give up “ but you did! Forgiveness and second chances are not a given. They owe you nothing.
Op 1 you call your ex entitled JFC touch grass and get a grip on reality and in the process take responsibility for your choices
1st story: there is really something wrong with people like this.
S1 "one wrong move could destroy any chance I have of rebuilding a relationship with them" it already has!!! 8 years ago!!! When you left with your sugar daddy and gave up your rights. What REbuilding? You destroyed the foundation. Just leave them alone.
Not everyone deserves a second chance. Nathan did you how you did you family. I love me some justice
Story 1. So she says that she changed, but ignorong the fact that if she wasnt cheated on and broken up with as well, she would still be living happily, ignoring them... 😅
Story 1: Yeah, sure OP. You cheated on your husband and abandoned him and your kids, but _he’s_ the “entitled” one. 🙄
YOU LEFT UR KIDS YOU DON'T Deserve TO MEET THEM
Story 2: You are not the asshole but your ex-husband is and you are not being cruel! Go no contact with all who think that you are being cruel!
They’re not your kids. You threw them away.
It's incredibly brave of you to share such a personal and painful experience. The journey from betrayal to healing is never easy, and it sounds like you’ve had to face the consequences of your actions, which is commendable. I hope this serves as a reminder to all of us about the complexities of human relationships, the importance of taking responsibility for our mistakes, and the possibility of growth and redemption. It’s never too late to make amends and build a better future for ourselves and our loved ones. Wishing you strength on your ongoing journey.
How can you lose something you have thrown away?
You got to be kidding, this is either rage bait but the biggest fool for everybody I have ever seen. Stupid is as stupid goes
Little info for OP on S1, the reason her ex didn’t go after her for CS was because not only he knew he wouldn’t get anything since she was living off her sugar daddy, but mostly because he knew this would happen, that OP would end up replaced like she replaced him and once she tried to come back, the is a mountain of accumulated cash she has no hope of ever paying for her to even try and go to courts. Plus i guarantee you there would be kids know she haven’t paid a dime.
Super fake story (yeah, sure that a rich guy with options would go for a middle aged mother of 4 and spend 8 years pampering her.)
Story 1: me me me
Congratulations OP you played yaself
S1- the arrogance with OP is off the charts. A thousand times YTA!!
Heard of a similar story, it was infuriating
So basically "Yeah I was a piece of sh¡t ugh just get over it already"
story 1 what if op's affair partner didn't dump her? from what we were told, the timeline is op was unhappy in her marriage, she met her rich affair partner, divorced her husband and left her kids and then we jump to her being dumped by her ap and now regrets everything. why now? what about when she was living with rich affair partner? did she think about her kids when she was living it up in her ap's nice big house (if not mansion)? or on a fancy vacation at a beach side resort?
op's only upset that she bet on the wrong horse. If she wasn't dumped, you know she would give her old life and family a second thought.
Story 1: "change enough to prove blah blah blah" 🤨🙄
Story 1 sounds like my mom, she did the same thing with my dad.
Story 1 has to be rage bait right
#1: TITLE: "I left my husband & 3 kids for my affair partner. Now he dumped me & alienated my children." *_WHAT?!?!_*
He did NOT dump you. THEY moved on after you abandoned them.
If you had a shred of decency or respect, you would never contact them again.
Let them reach out to you, if they ever choose to.
Title must be a ragebait... right? RIGHT?!
In the first story: op, I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for you. You chose to make your decisions, and you chose your karma. And now when you got your karma back on you ten fold, and you wanna play victim?
Op, you don’t deserve to have a second chance. I said it… I won’t un say it.
So delusional.🤦🏻♀️
Ok the story is rage bait