How To Deal With Shame And Guilt

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  • @RaphaelaMaria-hs3nl
    @RaphaelaMaria-hs3nl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just watched this video. Very interesting the difference between shame and quilt / princess and queen attitude. Thank you so much for giving such a huge amount of important information for all the women on earth who have access to youtube! Amazing!! I shared some of your video to friends. I appreciate all your effort, time and passion about women empowerment!! So awesome!

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Raphaela Maria. My pleasure dear! great to have you here! hey, I've just started a free facebook group. you are welcome to join us: facebook.com/groups/smartsavvysexy/

    • @RaphaelaMaria-hs3nl
      @RaphaelaMaria-hs3nl 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Candice Oneida Thank you very much for the invitation, but I deleted my Facebook account just recently for different reasons.

  • @floryniculescu
    @floryniculescu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You look awesome!
    I love your videos. You are a big contribution to my inner growth. Thank you 🙏 🌹

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Florentina Niculescu. I’m so glad this was helpful! ❤️

  • @floryniculescu
    @floryniculescu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I remember I treated so bad a seals woman... Oh gosh... I felt so bad inside... I went back to look for her and apologize...
    She was really slow, and I was basically loosing my patience... I wasn't enough present to realise that, but it came up after some minute...
    Eckhart Tolle calls that "the pain body"...
    That moment, the pain body awakened, and sucked me into it...
    The important thing is that eaven if after, but I saw it...

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Florentina Niculescu! Thanks for your comment. 💕

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes I feel shame about my belly.

  • @elizabethsimonds6925
    @elizabethsimonds6925 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this!! Thank you for sharing! I loved your description of how bringing shame from darkness to light breaks is power. I've dealt with a lot of shame though the years but I have learned to overcome, embrace and love who I was created to be and celebrate my femininity. However that is not to day I've arrived at all but growing daily for sure. 😊 I've shared this video with my friends. It is definitely a message HUGELY needed today!
    Of topic but I LOVE your earrings! Where did your get them?

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed it! I think off Amazon!

  • @maggiejiang4375
    @maggiejiang4375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Candice, thank you so much for bringing this video. You are a heaven-sent angel. Nearly two years ago, I met a covert narcissist. He was very charming but was all fake and lies. He discarded me on my birthday. It was a sudden discard. I had a hard time getting over him. So I called and told him about my feelings even though my intuition was screaming NO. Over the phone he rejected and humiliated me very badly. Before hanging up, he hinted that he answered that phone call in front of a bunch of people! Later when I connected the dots, I realized he had an agenda to destroy me. I had been suffering from anxiety and shame ever since. I burst into tears when you said "have compassion for the experience". Your video frees me from the shame of falling for a narcissist. I made a desperate mistake because I was desperate for love and wanted someone to be close to. Now I forgive and have compassion for that "me" :-)

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Maggie Jiang! Thanks for your comments.

  • @ilona123a
    @ilona123a 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    shame- i am a mistake. guilt- i made a mistake. this is big

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Ilana Bagdasarian! Thanks for your comment...HUGE distinction right!

  • @irmalair1
    @irmalair1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is extremely hard for me. I only know shame, in my whole life. It's the most automatic and spontaneous reaction I have to literally every little small thing in life, like making an omelette that's too salty. I live in shame 24/7 and can't get out..

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so glad that resonated with you irmalair1! 💕

  • @patriciabrown8660
    @patriciabrown8660 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My debit card was rejected at the gas station and I felt embarrassed and shameful and tried to pretend that it was no big deal.

  • @evnomiaiw2244
    @evnomiaiw2244 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    lovely video! i'm looking forward to your video on empathy! it's such an important subject that needs extra care and attention.

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello evnomia iw! Thanks for your comments.

  • @dranamarie
    @dranamarie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Following you for your genuine vibe!

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello a. Marie. My pleasure dear!

  • @Mint6688
    @Mint6688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel shame , when i was 20 , my first boy friend didn’t care my emotion when we met together. He just “ ok ok i hear you i listen you” then he came fast to touch my body , my breast and kiss me forcely. That make me feel shame for many years until now. That’s my mistake to leaved him do that with my body. I feel emotionless but still stand him for along time. I feel shame of my breast since that .

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi yêu thiên nhiên! Thanks for your comment and for sharing your experience. yes, this is about boundaries dear. Research my channel on this topic. 💕

    • @Mint6688
      @Mint6688 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@candiceoneida Thank you so much for giving me chance to share my secret

  • @chirciusimona4315
    @chirciusimona4315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a masculine symbol that microphone :)

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Chirciu Simona! Thanks for your comment. It is a bit phallic isn't it!! 😊😊

  • @georginasilvadiaz8847
    @georginasilvadiaz8847 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello from Los Cabos Baja California México

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wonderful Georgina Silva Diaz! Thank you for being here.

  • @candiceoneida
    @candiceoneida  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @catthyna
    @catthyna 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what kind of tea do you drink?

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello Avram Andreea. Thanks for your question dear. 💕 All sorts..I used to own a tea company!

  • @queenangelelshadai62
    @queenangelelshadai62 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you remind me of Olivia newton John

    • @candiceoneida
      @candiceoneida  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi riane Naarendorp! Thanks for your comment.