Story 1 I think this is Op mother's fault for ruining her marriage with another guy and treat her two sons like a background character and then she loves her daughter very much more than her son so I think op should have not by the apartment for her mother and her sister
Story One: It took OP waaay too long to block his rotten mother and sister! Story Two: OP did right (for herself, her child and even her sister) by standing up for her daughter. While it's heartbreaking to suffer a miscarriage, this woman has completely destroyed her entire life b/c of it. Divorcing her husband b/c she can't bear to see him? Bullying a child? This woman's break with reality should have her family institutionalizing her and the mother condoning her behavior is really messed up!
Story 1: Op, you should have told them that you were not the one that knocked Mia up. She should ask her deadbeat boyfriend and go after him legally. That is a trap to get you to pay childsupport! Don't do it anymore!
my buddies daughter recorded how his sister,her aunt was treating the foster girl she had, 3 days later aunties in jail and the girls staying with them... sister went to prison eventually and the girl was close to aging out and was shocked my buddies family took her in and wouldnt just dump her like she was warned was the norm... she was even more shocked when she found out they wanted to adopt her when she graduated trade school... his kids were the ones that suggested it... she fit right in and became a true part of the family quickly... she had to be told to relax and stop worrying about always having stuff to do, she was quite beaten down by the women she spent 3 years with... and the 3 families before that... now... well... thats a long story... but shes now not just an adopted part of the family...
Story 1: You tell mom and sister TO GET BENT EARLY ON. Block them and go total NC. Set up cams and No Trespassing signs, Have a lawyer send them a Cease And Desist order with the threat of a Restraining Order and their arrests.
OP should go NC with mother and sister. There comes a point where you just can't help people like that anymore or they will take everything you've worked hard for.
I'm thinking the same thing, too; not only should OP go complete NC with his mother and sister, he should also sell his apartment, plus, his house, move to another state, to start his life afresh, buy another house, and get another job therein, find group of friends who are good people, a therapist he can therapist, and a warm-hearted girl whose family will stand up for him, and treat him with love like she does, and make them his family. He can invite his brother and their dad to hang out with/visit him in his new state, on holidays, special occasions, guys' nights in, anytime he pleases.
Story 2: Say to yourself OUTLOUD and Remember these sage words: I shall never allow anyone to stay in/move into my home. Their FAILURE AT ADULTING IS NOT MY PROBLEM.
Story 2: hell no!! NTA! You are looking out for your daughter and putting her first. That’s the way it should be. You are a fantastic mom yo her and don’t doubt that what you did was for both your best interests!
First story, if the car is in his name only, they legally can't touch the car or demand he give it to the sock sister. OP needs to leave the kick the mother out of the apartment and ghost both the mom and sick sister.
Story 1 = The sister is OP's half-sister not stepsister. If the mom and sister used the dad and sister's boyfriends as ATMs, then why is OP surprised that they would use him as an ATM? Story 2 = Why do the people who are told NO get to have only their feelings validated? The reason is that they only care for themselves. Then their flying monkeys swoop in to say that OP should apologize to the person. The child was hurt by OP's sister's yelling. It is sad that the sister lost her baby, but the foster child lost her whole family and possible friends.
@@maryshanley329 Family should support each other, yes. However, there are exceptions when a family relationship becomes toxic. If "supporting family" is tearing you down, then that is not a healthy situation. Story 1's sis is not seeking support to improve herself or her situation. She's wanting OP to maintain her bad life choices, not get his support while trying to make better ones. Story 2's sis is so consumed by her own pain that she's dangerous for the child to be around--at least emotionally speaking. By sis's own statements, she's already put her misery and pain ahead of the well-being of the child. OP's child shouldn't have to suffer because sis is suffering. So yes, the best solution is to separate them until sis is in a better emotional and mental state. Misery loves company, but that doesn't make it healthy to spread that misery--especially to children.
@@JB-bb4su Thanks for your reply. I understand totally the dynamics of family life. Some can be incredibly cruel. It can be terribly difficult to love some relatives, but one must forgive. I was just trying to make a point that family should come first. However, compassion does have its limits. Misplaced compassion is another pitfall. It solves nothing. I really agree with you. The situation in this family is not any good or rational. But the door must be never be shut totally. I just want to express to others the importance of family and support. Just keep on trying to be kind, but also have prudence. Love can be a fine line.
Not the same situation, but I always hated it when my older half sisters introduced my younger siblings, and I asked step siblings to their friends when we would visit them. So I definitely latched on to the OP using that term. It could also be him creating distance in his mind, after all of the favoritism and selfishness, on his younger sister’s part. But, as I said, I was always hurt when I was called a stepsibling because all I wanted was for my older sisters to be my real siblings. We are close now, and I never asked them about it when we were growing up. Just figured it was easier to explain to people if you said step sibling versus half sibling and having to go into that family dynamic
try living in the portland area, you will hear how being a women is a disability in the patriarchy we live in... often... it started in the 80's and 90's and well its gotten so much more common to hear that around here... college educated people who protest for a living wage in front of signs offering 35/hr for cashiers... 16/hr if the have to train you... i have asked how much they should make.. the tell me they should get at least 5000/mo but shouldnt be expected to work more then 15-20hjrs a week... no joke.. oh and they should be paid by the govt when they get knocked up and have kids, because you cant work when knocked up... (Weird my mother did... bet yours did as well..)
@AshenTechDotCom That's not only In Portland. It's throughout every state. My grandson told me about a 25 yo co worker who hasn't held a job for more than 3 month's. 40 hours is too long a werk. $35 an hour is too little to sweep floors and clean the break room.
NTA OP is not the father of his sister or her baby so he has no responsibility to help or do anything for her. He should go no contact with the both of them since to them he’s their ATM. His mother raised a monster and now she should deal with her by herself.
Well said. Karma will catch up with OP's mother and sister, before they know it; when the mother is on the verge of homelessness, and Mia loses her baby to a stable adopting couple the moment, she gives birth, they'll try to call OP to apologize for treating him like ?#*$, only to find out that, he disconnected his phone number, deleted his social media accounts, and got a P.O. box.⚠️
Last story, OP thank you for taking up parenting and doing it well. Standing up for your daughter is exactly what should be done. I’m an RN, and I see too many abused kids in my ER. Your daughter will never be one of them! I also have been pregnant 8 times!! Every single one of them was wanted and hoped for, I miscarried all but three. I love my kids and would have loved any that I had. I would never now or in the future make someone else missable over my losses. Those lost pregnancy’s are sad, very sad and I cried for each of them. But I have three beautiful children, and feel lucky that I have them. Your sister is misplacing her anger and grief. She needs to see a therapist asap so that should she become pregnant and have a child in the future she is capable of loving them and caring for them. Not trying to imagine what the one she lost would be like. It’s healthy to grieve but its also healthy to hug kids and pet puppies. She needs some help, I hope she gets it.
Story 1: A clear case of yelling "ENOUGH" to the two toxic people in his life is more than warrant. He did his due, kept his promises, he owes no more. Mom is old enough and healthy enough to work, so is sister. I just feel bad for the baby having to grow up under those two, but I can only hope that they change by the time it becomes old enough to understand. Otherwise, I hope that like its uncles, it too will be smart enough to figure out its mother and grandmother have serious problems. Story 2: A miscarriage is not an excuse to treat a little kid like that. OP's sister has lost the chance to be an aunt in that little girl's eyes by doing what she did and what she said. OP is being what a mother should be Irregardless of blood or DNA. NTA
story 2, I understand the sister's grief and heartbreak as I struggled with a cancer diagnosys while pregnant with twins and decided against my husband, OB and Cancer surgeon to refuse any cancer treatment till after my twins were born and cried myself to sleep many nights worrying about them. Still if I had lost one or both of them, I could still NEVER take out my grief and frustration on another innocent child, especially one who had already been through so much trauma.
Ok, that makes sense.. I'm like step sister? Where is her father then? Now it makes sense, half sister... I was like why is his mother taking care of her and not her parents... Thank you!
OP in the first story has gone above and beyond any responsibilities owed to his mother and half sister. Wonder what would happen if he offered to buy HER an older but reliable pre-owned car. Whether as an outright FINAL gift or even as a loaner. (OP's liability might be too onerous if the car stayed titled to him, unless he has a "lease" agreement drawn up & signed by both his mother and half-sister. But it would give him some leverage from additional emotional blackmail.) Pregnancy does not give someone automatic entitlement to the fruits of someone else's hard work. Has she even attempted to obtain child support from the child's father? Not wanting a child doesn't give him a free pass on supporting it.
Story 2: Op giving her a second chance after the first incident is understandable considering she's grieving I guess, but I have a pretty short temper in regards to certain things and I'll be real here, I probably would have physically tossed her out of my house if I was in that situation and someone treated my kid like that. Even if they weren't my kid and I was just babysitting or whatever, if someone did anything like that to the kid I was watching, they'd have to deal with my pure fury afterwards because who the hell treats a child like that, especially when they're literally just _existing._ Edit: "You're a monster for not thinking of her feelings" If Op is a monster for "hurting" the feelings of an _adult,_ then what does that make Kate, who hurt the feelings of a _child._
I recently went no contact with my oldest brother. After my mom passed he did everything he could to get money from anywhere possible. I never realized what a golden child he was. He also is a money-grubbing jaggoff... I had no idea that he was mooching off my mom and then off of me (That is all I can say about it) Someone being so clueless doesn't actually shock me at all
My mom spoiled my older sister. She was not a very good sister/daughter. When mom passed, I found my sister took practically every cent my mom had coming in every month. I was appalled. 13 1/2 years later I only reconnected with her after the death of her husband and her subsequent near fatal COVID infection. So far, she’s better. Let’s hope this continues.
Story 2: Sister needs professional help. I can understand how a miscarriage is horrible, lashing out at others - especially your niece - crosses the line.
Mia and your mom are horrible! You are a saint for doing all you did and they should be grateful! Kudos to you for standing your ground. I wouldn't cut them off completely but I would CERTAINLY keep them at a distance and keep your guard up,
Story 1: OP needs to grow a spine before he turned 25. Took WAY too long to stand up for himself/acknowledge his mom and sister just wanted to use him. OP, older brother and dad grew up and out of being “trailer trash” but obviously mom and sister never did.
Nope, not an ahole. I've lost 3 children and it's NO excuse for that kind of behavior. Protect May and yourself. By the way, let's not forget that the father ALSO lost a child and is hurting as well. it wasn't his fault. Just FYI, my husband and I are still married and about 20 of our 39 year marriage have been AFTER loosing 3 children.
Story 1 "mom if you ever want to see a single penny from me again you will shut this bs down and never mention giving my car to anyone ever again and if I find out you're asking money for her you will be cut off.
When my mum died I cut off any communication with my father and brother. My brother refused to pay for anything including her funeral, his car, bike and boat were more important. And they both called the police on me for allowing my father in-law to stay at my and my mum's house to help maintain it after my mum died. Don't regret my decision at all, after all I'll be reimbursed for all bills and funeral costs. But how low can someone be to refuse to pay for their own mother's funeral because their "toys" were more important to them.
Story 1 Not stepsister. Mia would be half-sister if you both share one parent (like your mother in this story). A step sibling is not related by blood, only marriage. Step siblings are only the children of your parent's spouse and someone else.
Story one: Sigh - another OP who doesn't know the difference between a stepsister (no blood relation, just one of the step-sibling's bio parents married one of a person's bio parents), and a half-sister (the half siblings have one bio parent in common).
“I’m so sorry for my actions but you still owe me your car and more money or you’re a bad uncle.” The f*ck. Umm no. She’s being a horrible mother and their mother is being a horrible mother and grandmother. They’re both just mad that now that she’s gonna be a single mother and OP put his foot down they can no longer con men out of their money.
If you share the same biological mother or father, then that sibling/siblings would be a half sister or brother. But if your mother or father remarried and the new spouse had children from a previous relationship and shares no biological parent of yours then they would be a stepsister or stepbrother.
I am so stunned to believe this is real. Surely there aren’t so many self-entitled people in this world. I would NEVER ask someone for their car, brother or not. WTH 🤦♀️
OP, you took TOOOOOOOOOOO LONG, to ignore your spoiled sister! God Bless you & good luck in the future! STAY NO CONTACT and make sure you inform both of them to go after the father of her child!
OP did the right thing. I think I might have asked first if his sister EVEN has a drivers license. Much less how she would plan to pay for insurance, maintenance, registration?
Story 1 it’s so annoying when people don’t know the difference between step and 1/2 siblings almost as much as calling somebody a half sibling in the first place.
Title: Sister gets knocked out, Mother is pregnant? Sister got knocked up, Mother wants car? .. Yes I know it's meaning to say Sister gets knocked up and Mother demands car for sister. But honestly I like the alternate plots. Always a good listen.
Exactly. I see the future, when the mother looks at pics of OP celebrating his fresh start in his new state, his new job, and his new house in a beautiful neighborhood, pics of him at his wedding, and baby shower with his replacement family (his wife, their friends, his in-laws, and therapist), and pics of him with his wife and their new baby, not only wonder why he went full NC with her, but excluded her from those important events, and decided to include his father and brother, instead.⚠️
No matter whose child it is, children need to be well treated, to grow up healthy. Entitled behavior is not to be encouraged, but if you treat people well, you may be one of the few who improve their lives.
Where the hell is Mia's dad? It's his child! Why isn't he paying for her? He bought his mom an apartment, now he's paying everyone's bills and now wants his car. Does he mean she's his half sister because none of this sounds like a stepsister at all.. Where is her dad? OP needs to put his foot down and say NO PERIOD!! I am so sick and tired of people milking pregnancy.. 3 kids and I worked until I gave birth. Stress doesn't just automatically cause problems in pregnancy.. People work in fields, farming etc...
Story #2 NTA - You kid comes first, may i aso suggest block Kate until she gets some treatement and apologize like a adult. Kate is one of those people who think its the world's responsibility to tiptoe around their issues. -- Time for sister Kate wake up.
Story 2: as someone who GREW UP in foster care, I honestly wish more people became foster parents these days if not for my seizures I would absolutely become one to show kids more love that they need
Op is a 29 yo and should know how to block the numbers of people he doesn’t want to talk to. Then trespass them from his home and office. If they still managed to accost him, get restraining orders.
Sister & BMW: OP needs to put his house on the market & relocate to his brother's city. All without letting sis & mom know. Just go extremely low or NC like the bro.
It's sad that it's your own family who would manipulate you to do what they want. Let mom handle the sister. It was her fault for spoiling her anyways.
Story 1: I am no contact with my twin sister, 2 brothers and parents because of their behaviour towards me, my husband and children. My father died 2 years ago, I did not go to the funeral and I don't know where he's buried. Never shed a tear or felt sad. My family was extremely dysfunctional. 2nd story: My husband's nephew and his wife fostered and are adopting the child. When I found out, I sent the child birthday cards and presents, Christmas cards and presents and Easter eggs. No difference in the treatment of the children. Children are innocent and deserve to be included. I have 4 cousins who are adopted and were never treated differently.
I worked till 8 months while pregnant so she could have gotten a job mother also.Dont give the spoiled entitled monsters anything !I feel horrible for that baby ! Op.doesnt owe them anything at all last story, not the jerk, you don't treat a child terrible cuz she's jealous
story 1 tell the mother to get a job or tell mia to get child support from the baby daddy
not done listening but...what if there is no baby.
Story 1 I think this is Op mother's fault for ruining her marriage with another guy and treat her two sons like a background character and then she loves her daughter very much more than her son so I think op should have not by the apartment for her mother and her sister
So many stories are the result of parents thinking it is okay to sacrifice one sibling for another.
Story One: It took OP waaay too long to block his rotten mother and sister!
Story Two: OP did right (for herself, her child and even her sister) by standing up for her daughter. While it's heartbreaking to suffer a miscarriage, this woman has completely destroyed her entire life b/c of it. Divorcing her husband b/c she can't bear to see him? Bullying a child? This woman's break with reality should have her family institutionalizing her and the mother condoning her behavior is really messed up!
Sadly she probably has PPD and needs to seek a medical doctor for treatment or counseling. Still its inexcusable to abuse or badmouth a child.
Story 1: Op, you should have told them that you were not the one that knocked Mia up. She should ask her deadbeat boyfriend and go after him legally. That is a trap to get you to pay childsupport! Don't do it anymore!
The sister would have been a terrible parent if she's yelling at a foster child imaging how badly she'd treat her own.
my buddies daughter recorded how his sister,her aunt was treating the foster girl she had, 3 days later aunties in jail and the girls staying with them... sister went to prison eventually and the girl was close to aging out and was shocked my buddies family took her in and wouldnt just dump her like she was warned was the norm... she was even more shocked when she found out they wanted to adopt her when she graduated trade school... his kids were the ones that suggested it... she fit right in and became a true part of the family quickly... she had to be told to relax and stop worrying about always having stuff to do, she was quite beaten down by the women she spent 3 years with... and the 3 families before that... now... well... thats a long story... but shes now not just an adopted part of the family...
Story 1: You tell mom and sister TO GET BENT EARLY ON. Block them and go total NC. Set up cams and No Trespassing signs, Have a lawyer send them a Cease And Desist order with the threat of a Restraining Order and their arrests.
Definitely. And contact CPS/social services to find a good family to adopt sister's baby.
@@danacarter9147 Police is quicker, they will do a welfare check. They in turn will call CPS.
OP should go NC with mother and sister. There comes a point where you just can't help people like that anymore or they will take everything you've worked hard for.
I'm thinking the same thing, too; not only should OP go complete NC with his mother and sister, he should also sell his apartment, plus, his house, move to another state, to start his life afresh, buy another house, and get another job therein, find group of friends who are good people, a therapist he can therapist, and a warm-hearted girl whose family will stand up for him, and treat him with love like she does, and make them his family. He can invite his brother and their dad to hang out with/visit him in his new state, on holidays, special occasions, guys' nights in, anytime he pleases.
Story 2: Say to yourself OUTLOUD and Remember these sage words: I shall never allow anyone to stay in/move into my home. Their FAILURE AT ADULTING IS NOT MY PROBLEM.
I agree with OP for cutting ties with his entitled sister & his mother.
Story 2: hell no!! NTA! You are looking out for your daughter and putting her first. That’s the way it should be. You are a fantastic mom yo her and don’t doubt that what you did was for both your best interests!
Story 2: Kick the sis out and go no contact. Yes she had a lost but that no excuse to treat and talk to a child so horribly.
Story 1. He needs to go no contact. He's 29. He owes them nothing. Have a good day
First story, if the car is in his name only, they legally can't touch the car or demand he give it to the sock sister. OP needs to leave the kick the mother out of the apartment and ghost both the mom and sick sister.
Knocked up, Not Knocked Out. XD
The mother and sister deserve to be knocked out with this level of insanity.
Was coming here to say this.
well when I read it I say she got beat up
Knocked up is what she got! Knocked out is what she deserved! Story 1!
@@saludahead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Story 1 = The sister is OP's half-sister not stepsister. If the mom and sister used the dad and sister's boyfriends as ATMs, then why is OP surprised that they would use him as an ATM?
Story 2 = Why do the people who are told NO get to have only their feelings validated? The reason is that they only care for themselves. Then their flying monkeys swoop in to say that OP should apologize to the person. The child was hurt by OP's sister's yelling. It is sad that the sister lost her baby, but the foster child lost her whole family and possible friends.
Half-sister. They share one parent.
Family is supposed to be united. This is easy to say and sometimes extremely hard to do at times.
@@maryshanley329 Family should support each other, yes.
However, there are exceptions when a family relationship becomes toxic.
If "supporting family" is tearing you down, then that is not a healthy situation.
Story 1's sis is not seeking support to improve herself or her situation. She's wanting OP to maintain her bad life choices, not get his support while trying to make better ones.
Story 2's sis is so consumed by her own pain that she's dangerous for the child to be around--at least emotionally speaking. By sis's own statements, she's already put her misery and pain ahead of the well-being of the child. OP's child shouldn't have to suffer because sis is suffering. So yes, the best solution is to separate them until sis is in a better emotional and mental state.
Misery loves company, but that doesn't make it healthy to spread that misery--especially to children.
@@JB-bb4su Thanks for your reply.
I understand totally the dynamics of family life. Some can be incredibly cruel. It can be terribly difficult to love some relatives, but one must forgive. I was just trying to make a point that family should come first. However, compassion does have its limits. Misplaced compassion is another pitfall. It solves nothing.
I really agree with you. The situation in this family is not any good or rational.
But the door must be never be shut totally.
I just want to express to others the importance of family and support. Just keep on trying to be kind, but also have prudence.
Love can be a fine line.
Not the same situation, but I always hated it when my older half sisters introduced my younger siblings, and I asked step siblings to their friends when we would visit them. So I definitely latched on to the OP using that term. It could also be him creating distance in his mind, after all of the favoritism and selfishness, on his younger sister’s part. But, as I said, I was always hurt when I was called a stepsibling because all I wanted was for my older sisters to be my real siblings. We are close now, and I never asked them about it when we were growing up. Just figured it was easier to explain to people if you said step sibling versus half sibling and having to go into that family dynamic
Pregnancy isn’t a DISABILITY
try living in the portland area, you will hear how being a women is a disability in the patriarchy we live in... often... it started in the 80's and 90's and well its gotten so much more common to hear that around here... college educated people who protest for a living wage in front of signs offering 35/hr for cashiers... 16/hr if the have to train you... i have asked how much they should make.. the tell me they should get at least 5000/mo but shouldnt be expected to work more then 15-20hjrs a week... no joke.. oh and they should be paid by the govt when they get knocked up and have kids, because you cant work when knocked up... (Weird my mother did... bet yours did as well..)
@AshenTechDotCom
That's not only In Portland. It's throughout every state.
My grandson told me about a 25 yo co worker who hasn't held a job for more than 3 month's. 40 hours is too long a werk. $35 an hour is too little to sweep floors and clean the break room.
NTA OP is not the father of his sister or her baby so he has no responsibility to help or do anything for her. He should go no contact with the both of them since to them he’s their ATM. His mother raised a monster and now she should deal with her by herself.
Well said. Karma will catch up with OP's mother and sister, before they know it; when the mother is on the verge of homelessness, and Mia loses her baby to a stable adopting couple the moment, she gives birth, they'll try to call OP to apologize for treating him like ?#*$, only to find out that, he disconnected his phone number, deleted his social media accounts, and got a P.O. box.⚠️
Don't give Mia a another penny because you will taking care of her and baby for Life
I think OP should have hired an attorney for his sister and put the responsibility back on the father
Thanks again Mr Reddito more fresh content that I haven't heard a dozen times from other TH-camrs, keep up the great work ❤️✌️🙏
Last story, OP thank you for taking up parenting and doing it well. Standing up for your daughter is exactly what should be done. I’m an RN, and I see too many abused kids in my ER. Your daughter will never be one of them! I also have been pregnant 8 times!! Every single one of them was wanted and hoped for, I miscarried all but three. I love my kids and would have loved any that I had. I would never now or in the future make someone else missable over my losses. Those lost pregnancy’s are sad, very sad and I cried for each of them. But I have three beautiful children, and feel lucky that I have them. Your sister is misplacing her anger and grief. She needs to see a therapist asap so that should she become pregnant and have a child in the future she is capable of loving them and caring for them. Not trying to imagine what the one she lost would be like. It’s healthy to grieve but its also healthy to hug kids and pet puppies. She needs some help, I hope she gets it.
Story 1: A clear case of yelling "ENOUGH" to the two toxic people in his life is more than warrant. He did his due, kept his promises, he owes no more. Mom is old enough and healthy enough to work, so is sister. I just feel bad for the baby having to grow up under those two, but I can only hope that they change by the time it becomes old enough to understand. Otherwise, I hope that like its uncles, it too will be smart enough to figure out its mother and grandmother have serious problems.
Story 2: A miscarriage is not an excuse to treat a little kid like that. OP's sister has lost the chance to be an aunt in that little girl's eyes by doing what she did and what she said. OP is being what a mother should be Irregardless of blood or DNA. NTA
You put a lot of effort into your videos man, you make it fun and entertaining to watch, kudos man
story 2, I understand the sister's grief and heartbreak as I struggled with a cancer diagnosys while pregnant with twins and decided against my husband, OB and Cancer surgeon to refuse any cancer treatment till after my twins were born and cried myself to sleep many nights worrying about them. Still if I had lost one or both of them, I could still NEVER take out my grief and frustration on another innocent child, especially one who had already been through so much trauma.
OP keeps calling Mia a step sister. She's not. She's a half sister.
Ok, that makes sense.. I'm like step sister? Where is her father then? Now it makes sense, half sister... I was like why is his mother taking care of her and not her parents... Thank you!
Maybe he doesn't know the difference lol
When this hit reddit that came up on Reddit that got discussed. Op did not know the term and was not from an English language country
Ask Mia what has she ever done for, or made even a small sacrifice for, anyone else.
OP in the first story has gone above and beyond any responsibilities owed to his mother and half sister. Wonder what would happen if he offered to buy HER an older but reliable pre-owned car.
Whether as an outright FINAL gift or even as a loaner. (OP's liability might be too onerous if the car stayed titled to him, unless he has a "lease" agreement drawn up & signed by both his mother and half-sister. But it would give him some leverage from additional emotional blackmail.) Pregnancy does not give someone automatic entitlement to the fruits of someone else's hard work. Has she even attempted to obtain child support from the child's father? Not wanting a child doesn't give him a free pass on supporting it.
"I'd rather crush the car than give it to you."
Story 2: Op giving her a second chance after the first incident is understandable considering she's grieving I guess, but I have a pretty short temper in regards to certain things and I'll be real here, I probably would have physically tossed her out of my house if I was in that situation and someone treated my kid like that. Even if they weren't my kid and I was just babysitting or whatever, if someone did anything like that to the kid I was watching, they'd have to deal with my pure fury afterwards because who the hell treats a child like that, especially when they're literally just _existing._
Edit: "You're a monster for not thinking of her feelings" If Op is a monster for "hurting" the feelings of an _adult,_ then what does that make Kate, who hurt the feelings of a _child._
Exactly
I recently went no contact with my oldest brother. After my mom passed he did everything he could to get money from anywhere possible. I never realized what a golden child he was. He also is a money-grubbing jaggoff... I had no idea that he was mooching off my mom and then off of me (That is all I can say about it) Someone being so clueless doesn't actually shock me at all
Op is a 29 year old so he doesn’t have to deal with his mother and half sister he needs to go no contact. Story 1
Yes OP run as fast and far away from them as you can!
@@dawnporter39 I so agree with you.
He also needs therapy.
6i
Being poor does not make you trash!
My mom spoiled my older sister. She was not a very good sister/daughter. When mom passed, I found my sister took practically every cent my mom had coming in every month. I was appalled. 13 1/2 years later I only reconnected with her after the death of her husband and her subsequent near fatal COVID infection. So far, she’s better. Let’s hope this continues.
I love all these stories,a lot of them hit a spot with me and my life growing up .
Thank you!
are they even real? they all have the same feel
😄That 'Small Soldiers' figure in the background. I made the molds.
I never get tired of seeing my work in the wild.
OP is enabling the bad behavior of his mom and sister. They need to deal with the consequences of their actions themselves.
I'm sorry but how is he enabling?
If anything the mother is not op
@@HeoBaby24 Who is funding mom and HALF sister?
@@HeoBaby24 by giving them money
Don't give her your BMw
Don't give her your BMW she just spoiled need to work what is going do when the Baby come
Story 2: Sister needs professional help. I can understand how a miscarriage is horrible, lashing out at others - especially your niece - crosses the line.
That's not her niece tho
@@upyourasteriod4494 it's still a child she had nothing to do with the miscarriage so why take it out on her
OP is to blame as well, he kept giving his cheating mother and step sister what they asked for. So what did he expect?
I would definitely think about throwing my mother out of the apartment
1st story you don't owe your sister shit. Tell your sister that NSF and the ATM is bankrupt. Go after baby daddy.
Mia and your mom are horrible! You are a saint for doing all you did and they should be grateful! Kudos to you for standing your ground. I wouldn't cut them off completely but I would CERTAINLY keep them at a distance and keep your guard up,
Story 1: OP needs to grow a spine before he turned 25. Took WAY too long to stand up for himself/acknowledge his mom and sister just wanted to use him. OP, older brother and dad grew up and out of being “trailer trash” but obviously mom and sister never did.
Nope, not an ahole. I've lost 3 children and it's NO excuse for that kind of behavior. Protect May and yourself. By the way, let's not forget that the father ALSO lost a child and is hurting as well. it wasn't his fault. Just FYI, my husband and I are still married and about 20 of our 39 year marriage have been AFTER loosing 3 children.
Well, Kate, you are a monster for not thinking of May's feelings when you are the adult.
The cheating spouse should AUTOMATICALLY lose custody of any children they may have.
The amount of women that cheat this wouldn't happen
And be forced to pay child support and a hefty alimony
story 1: op is a spineless
🤣🤣🤣he did right
Story 1 "mom if you ever want to see a single penny from me again you will shut this bs down and never mention giving my car to anyone ever again and if I find out you're asking money for her you will be cut off.
Story 1.. I Would have gone NC much quicker than OP..
2ND STORY i am glad you told her to leave. this is not fair to the child (foster). keep the child safe.
When my mum died I cut off any communication with my father and brother. My brother refused to pay for anything including her funeral, his car, bike and boat were more important. And they both called the police on me for allowing my father in-law to stay at my and my mum's house to help maintain it after my mum died. Don't regret my decision at all, after all I'll be reimbursed for all bills and funeral costs.
But how low can someone be to refuse to pay for their own mother's funeral because their "toys" were more important to them.
I would’ve gone the same route as the brother. Only I would’ve done it at the first request for money. N•O!!!!!
Mia is not the O.P.'s step sister. She is his half sister. They share a parent therefore not step sister. Lol.
Story 1
Not stepsister.
Mia would be half-sister if you both share one parent (like your mother in this story).
A step sibling is not related by blood, only marriage. Step siblings are only the children of your parent's spouse and someone else.
I love that "I have birth to you" line. My response to that will always be "and I never consented to that".
The best answer is "and grandmother birthed you" because I bet these folks never took care of their own parents in old age
Story one: Sigh - another OP who doesn't know the difference between a stepsister (no blood relation, just one of the step-sibling's bio parents married one of a person's bio parents), and a half-sister (the half siblings have one bio parent in common).
Neither are real family
Do look into the huge difference between “knocked out” and “knocked up”.
“I’m so sorry for my actions but you still owe me your car and more money or you’re a bad uncle.” The f*ck. Umm no. She’s being a horrible mother and their mother is being a horrible mother and grandmother. They’re both just mad that now that she’s gonna be a single mother and OP put his foot down they can no longer con men out of their money.
If you share the same biological mother or father, then that sibling/siblings would be a half sister or brother. But if your mother or father remarried and the new spouse had children from a previous relationship and shares no biological parent of yours then they would be a stepsister or stepbrother.
The first mistake was buying your mom a place to stay. Not to mention telling the judge you wanted to stay with your dad.
It's clear Op was trying to get his Mom's affection. Big mistake.
I am so stunned to believe this is real. Surely there aren’t so many self-entitled people in this world. I would NEVER ask someone for their car, brother or not. WTH 🤦♀️
I would have gone no contact with them a long time ago I don't know how you stayed with them for so long
Story 2 you are a hero keep up the great work
Knocked out?! It's knocked UP!
He's right. They have to learn to stand on there own.
story 2: Kids before adults. Miscarriage sucks - been there - but never take it out on the kid! OP did right by May.
NOBODY’S TRASH MY FRIEND!!!! ABSOLUTELY NO BODY!!!!!
Facts are facts that's why you block both of them Cause they won't change
Anyone else notice that BMWs are a magnet for entitled people?
Your sister couldn’t afford the car insurance. She is clueless.
Love those cards in the background
OP, you took TOOOOOOOOOOO LONG, to ignore your spoiled sister! God Bless you & good luck in the future! STAY NO CONTACT and make sure you inform both of them to go after the father of her child!
Step sister? HALF sister
OP did the right thing. I think I might have asked first if his sister EVEN has a drivers license. Much less how she would plan to pay for insurance, maintenance, registration?
Nta. It does cost you. You didnt knock her up. You didnt ask to be born. Block the calls. They are entitled. I would throw them out if you can
Hello, Mia is NOT his step sister, she is his “half” sister. Same mom, different dad so not a step sister.
Is that the most important message in this story? Lol
Hello, Mia is the AFFAIR baby. Like mother, like daughter.
Story 1 it’s so annoying when people don’t know the difference between step and 1/2 siblings almost as much as calling somebody a half sibling in the first place.
Title: Sister gets knocked out, Mother is pregnant? Sister got knocked up, Mother wants car? .. Yes I know it's meaning to say Sister gets knocked up and Mother demands car for sister. But honestly I like the alternate plots. Always a good listen.
Exactly. I see the future, when the mother looks at pics of OP celebrating his fresh start in his new state, his new job, and his new house in a beautiful neighborhood, pics of him at his wedding, and baby shower with his replacement family (his wife, their friends, his in-laws, and therapist), and pics of him with his wife and their new baby, not only wonder why he went full NC with her, but excluded her from those important events, and decided to include his father and brother, instead.⚠️
No matter whose child it is, children need to be well treated, to grow up healthy. Entitled behavior is not to be encouraged, but if you treat people well, you may be one of the few who improve their lives.
I know it was just using the same animated character template, but it was amusing to see how much facial hair the OP had when he was 14.
I'm sure she was expecting op to pay for insurance, maintenance, gasoline, while she would be gallivanting around.
She can grieve over at their parents house- that the mature thing to do
2nd story: OMG your sister is something else. OP did the right thing and her sister deserves the be out in the cold.
Where the hell is Mia's dad? It's his child! Why isn't he paying for her? He bought his mom an apartment, now he's paying everyone's bills and now wants his car. Does he mean she's his half sister because none of this sounds like a stepsister at all.. Where is her dad? OP needs to put his foot down and say NO PERIOD!! I am so sick and tired of people milking pregnancy.. 3 kids and I worked until I gave birth. Stress doesn't just automatically cause problems in pregnancy.. People work in fields, farming etc...
Children are a treasure not to abused, they are supposed to be loved and cherished
Story #2 NTA - You kid comes first, may i aso suggest block Kate until she gets some treatement and apologize like a adult.
Kate is one of those people who think its the world's responsibility to tiptoe around their issues. -- Time for sister Kate wake up.
Story 1 - evict, sell house and go nc
First story: OP could genuinely sue for custody of the kid, and would win
Two children learned to work and save to have a comfortable life. The third child chose the oldest profession
Story 2: as someone who GREW UP in foster care, I honestly wish more people became foster parents these days if not for my seizures I would absolutely become one to show kids more love that they need
Story 1. Would love any updates on this story.
cps for OP's niece
Op is a 29 yo and should know how to block the numbers of people he doesn’t want to talk to. Then trespass them from his home and office. If they still managed to accost him, get restraining orders.
Sister & BMW: OP needs to put his house on the market & relocate to his brother's city. All without letting sis & mom know. Just go extremely low or NC like the bro.
Let baby fady support her
Surprised , she didn’t move in .
No contact, for certain.
It's sad that it's your own family who would manipulate you to do what they want. Let mom handle the sister. It was her fault for spoiling her anyways.
Story 1: I am no contact with my twin sister, 2 brothers and parents because of their behaviour towards me, my husband and children. My father died 2 years ago, I did not go to the funeral and I don't know where he's buried. Never shed a tear or felt sad. My family was extremely dysfunctional.
2nd story: My husband's nephew and his wife fostered and are adopting the child. When I found out, I sent the child birthday cards and presents, Christmas cards and presents and Easter eggs. No difference in the treatment of the children. Children are innocent and deserve to be included. I have 4 cousins who are adopted and were never treated differently.
First story cut ties I would had transferred my job, sold my house and moved far far away.
I worked till 8 months while pregnant so she could have gotten a job mother also.Dont give the spoiled entitled monsters anything !I feel horrible for that baby ! Op.doesnt owe them anything at all last story, not the jerk, you don't treat a child terrible cuz she's jealous
I thought the term for getting pregnant was knocked up not knocked out.