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In this video Sister Shivani clarifies that resentment is a negative energy which blocks love. We may love someone and advice them for their good, but if we create resentment or pain about their behavior even momentarily, love gets blocked at that time.
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beautiful spiritual reasoning for how to deal with relationships where western psychology falls short!!
People shouldn't tolerate any form of abuse if it's sexually, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically or energetically. I hope that all people who are abused in any way will take consequences as soon as possible. Never tolerate any form of abuse. If we tolerate it we support it. "Tolerance becomes a crime when applied to evil.” Thomas Mann
I’ve been listening to the series of programs between sister Shivani and Sureshji for last 6 months. Omg it has done miracles in my life. I am feeling a lot of changes within me and I just love this change In me. I am able to understand the errors in my thoughts, attitudes and behaviour. In fact I repeatedly listen to some of the episodes again and again. I noted down the errors in my thinking and. I see that the thought process is taking a totally different approach. Any question I have the previous day I get an exact answer next day . I feel this is a great blessing. Suresh ji is so bold and practical and so frank to express his own flaws and how Sister responds with conviction is beautiful. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 a wonderful seva 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Constantly having to withdraw and protect yourself emotionally is also completely draining. Even if you are balanced the constant need to be on the defense or deflect is not a healthy place to reside in.
You are right. It is better to leave. It is not our responsibility to heal someone beyond a certain point. It is their responsibility to heal themselves if they wish to.
Get away from the situation and keep urself busy like going out and doing stuffs u like ... eg. Going to gym... going to a music class .. sports... etc....
I have suffered great abuse at the hands of an ex-girlfriend. I never should have accepted it. There is no excuse-no excuse for physical or emotional or mental violence. I have moved away from that relationship because the violence was too much. Now I am trying to forgive and send healing thoughts toward the person. One needs to be physically removed from danger before one can proceed on the journey of mental and emotional wellness. This is 3 years down the track.
Thank you very much for providing this understanding. I plan on incorporating, "I am a peaceful soul" into my life. :D
Take care of yourself first before trying to take care of others, so you won't get depleted & disempowered inside 🙏 Fill your own cup first & then give from that place of "overflow" 😊
you are indeed an asset to humanity sister Shivani
It is happened to randomly watch this video and the previous 2 episodes of Soul Connection. its the first time am watching Brahma kumaris videos but the message i got is very much indeed to my current situation and feeling. I received what i need at the right time. Thank God and thanks to sister and sir for making this video available.
My stability did not make my partner stable, he started taking his anger out on the children. I chose to leave, it was too damaging.
I like this questioner. He is very honest in his question and try to make the theory from Sis Shivani to be implemented practically. Otherwise I don't think i can apply all these theories.
On shanthi , sister,I am practising this meditation daily , morning , while eating, drinking, night for the past six months and I am able to catch the thread, to my astonishment, I find myself becoming stable with other works like reading and attending Gita classes but this meditation I am peaceful, powerful, pure soul works a lot mainly in giving up self pity . I request u sister to take care of this self pity issue among the young working women who are soft ,polite,in nature .with gratitude i remain.
This is the counciling what I was expecting for .....really your words are enchanting me ....and strengthening my emotions ......your all thoughts are just like peaceful way towards happy ocean of ultimate destination of life as powerful peaceful happy soul
Thank you so much sister .....with lots of unconditional love .......Jai Shree Raam om shanti.......
Omshanti omshanti
Aaha !!! What an episode !!
Om shanti
This is very powerful video. She tells us that according to sprituality if you are doing your responsibilities outside but inside you are feeling pain, hurt, it is not going to work. As this will deplete your energy as you must be sending negative energy ouside. So Self empowerment is the most important characterstic and this comes with regular meditation in the morning and also whole day one minute after every hour.
Thank sisterShivani.
Yes very inspiring God bless both the souls who are helping human beings who are suffering through these practical solutions to the problems
Thank you for such a beautiful video ❤️🙌🏼🙏🏼
Perfect time to listen to this ...
So many woman would benefit from this episode alone. I will share it anywhere I can.
great message.... learning a lot and working hard to achieve it...
This conversation between them should be my addiction always ❤ loved
Pranammsssss ji..so nice ..lovely vedio..thanks to Sureshji n Shiviniji..love n gratitude..💝
This is wonderful knowledge sharing with practical experience Thank you so much sister......
This is a very rewarding and peaceful message you are so good Sister,cant stay away from your satsangs .
Peaceful and superb didi 🔥
Thank You!
Well done for getting out of an abusive relationship. Please choose wisely in the future.
V good talk ..almost 99% marriage from those days till today have to listen to this..
Meditation makes your life miracles. And for the question why we are forgetting we are soul...because the WORLD IS MADE of MAYA ENERGY..we have to deal with it in the right way with consistent..with God's blessing sure will be where we feel the bliss 🙏
Thank u ..thanks so much...
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
The best one 😊❤️ thanks for posting this 😊
Beautiful knowledge I will try my best to apply this....
Om Shanti, shivani bahen. liked this video.!!!!!!!!! when u said abt the pain of women, i agreed !!!!
But there are husbands who need more of this knowledge , to change themselves, because many times the women forgives, but the husbands dont.!!!!!!! hope husband also try to forget and forgive not only themselves but others also.
thanks a lot.
Good, Thanks.
Very good one
Delighted, by watching your golden
Words 💎 thanks 🙏🌹🌹a bunch
Akka.
awesome!
heal your relationship
than u so much sister very nice class
My husband was so much aggressive towards me and used abusive language always..I remained stable for long time with giving more n more love to him ignoring his faults..more I tolerated his aggressiveness, he took it as granted and it became more worse in flow of time. One day my counselor told me to shout/hurt him back whenever he do so with me...and good news is that the day I shouted him back using the same abusive words returned back to him, he became polite suddenly.
Maneesha Mahapatra good
The main point is your peace depends on your heart and your mind not to be shaken by his abusive behavior.
You feel good because you have the courage to stand up for yourselves. What if he got more violent, more angry when you shout back at him?
So, do not depend on him for your peace. It is good that he stops shouting at you. But karma will come back in different ways, disguises. You cannot solve bad karma without lovingkindness.
Your peace depend on your obedience to God. Cultivate virtues, treat people right, love god, love your neighbors as yourselves , be meek and humble etc...
Sometimes we do not need to solve the problems with the person who hurt us. Leave that turkey alone.
But we need to check our actions, our thoughts, our behaviors with other people. Did we hurt anybody,? Did we think, say, did something hurtful, unpleasant to somebody that attract bad vibrations in our life? Then repent and ask for forgiveness.
When our heart does not condemn us anymore, we are peaceful, content with ourselves. We will feel strong, harmonious, happy because we have love and peace in our heart.
Our mind will be clear and know what to do with that...turkey who abuses us.
There are plenty of friends out there who treat us right. No need to waste our energy to be a hero with that turkey.
Our virtues, our good vibrations will bless us, protect us, give us strength to know what to do with our life. And the solution will be peaceful, not depleting us.
When we treat others with lovingkindness, respect, they will bless us back. God will bless us also. And the issues between us and that poor ...turkey will be history. You will know what to do with him in a kind way, either stay with him or leave. Either way will be peaceful for both of you physically, internally.
Golden rule: do unto others what you want others to do to you.
Pray, ask for help from God. And the love, the peace of God will heal you. Do not strughle by yourselves. GOD loves you and will heal you, bless you, show you the way.
The lady in the story of this video may not be perfect either. Both sides have problems. She needs to check her thought, her heart, how she treats others in her daily life.
Excellent
I agree 1000%.
wonderful
Thankyou mam... 🙏♥️
You are amazing, listen to you is helping me a lot to recover myself. I just wish you could speak italian too to show your videos to my friend. She still be in the abusing relationship, because afraid to live alone forever.
Mam wonderful topics you been discussing for these year's 🙏🙏🙏🙏
To me, we cannot heal our wound with logic, reasoning, with our mind.
We can only heal ourselves when our heart feels love, peace, faith, etc....
And we can awaken those good feelings , good qualities. , first, by praying for God to help us. Then
listen to healing music, to the teachings, wisdoms of the masters who are loving, kind, peaceful, playing with kind, good friends, being in peaceful nature( nature is love) etc...will awaken good feelings in us that will recharge our battery, will help us be happy again. And the stress of life will have less importance to us.
Why care about stones when we have beautiful gems, diamonds, silver in our heart?
Om Shanti 🙏☺️
Thanks
om shanti
Wow!
Sister Shivani isn't saying that you should stay and be beaten. She is very clear you must get out.
its too hard but m trying 20years n stil going on......but m doing my best.thank you.but no love just compromise.....both of us only compromised.
Nice
Om santi
Best
simple solution - “prakrite kriyamanani gunai karmani sarvasah, ahankara vimudatma kartaham iti manyate”.
Awareness and inner silence. Osho have talked extensively. Question to sister shivani. Have u studied osho' teachings ?
There are many men experiencing emotional and even physical violence in India and elsewhere at the hands of women. And I think she's being flowery about emotional violence. Why not move away if the abuse is external as it is often?
i am bearing all this physical violence from 6 yrs...i wanna move on..but can't
How are things going for you now? Are you safe?
very goood every one should listen
I think the add after sometime is wrong
You can become a tortoise and protect ur self from emotional abuse but no love generates between husband and wife. 🙏
Good evening ❤❤ Shivani 🎉🎉🎉 your picefullsoul your divainsoul your love 💕💕 full soul happy nass your avredisoul wohyou ilove ilovyou wohyou sweetheart omsanti
I don't think this solution is practical 100 percent
Respected sister Shivani ji,
Your explanations are too simplistic; and allow me to say, misleading.
Examples :
1.Belief : Nothing happens without God's will.
Contra : BUT when you do something bad. Its only you doing !
2. The bad things happen to you because of your past karma.
Contra : BUT, when one took the Very First life, ( was born the very first time no karma preceeded that) then, who was responsible for all that happened to the person, in that very First Birth? On what basis one went through whatever he/she went through, when there was 'no closing balance" in that person's life ( since there was no earlier life)?
3. You say 'reformation, not punishment' should be practiced by humans.
Contra : BUT, then you also say that one receives punishment bec of one's past karmas.
So, you are saying that the 'god' or whatever Power there is, punishes and not reforms !!? But we human should reform and not punish!!
4. Anything bad that happens to a person, you blame it on past karmas?
Contra : what is the proof of this so-called past karmas?
5. You say, Whatever wrong or right we do, they are our responsibility.
Contra : what is the SOURCE of the intelligence AND non-intelligence, that makes us do whatever we do? Out of the 5 options available, why does one choose option 1, someone else chooses option3 and someone else option 5? Why does whatever one chooses seem right?
Where is this intelligence coming from? You say 'past karma', but that's incorrect answer, because then, we have to answer Q2 & Q4. And there are no answers.
6. You say, we can choose to do right or wrong.
Contra : an old lady has 2 choices - she stays at home with her children and live an abused life OR walk away. Live on street. Her choice is between devil and the deep sea.
Many people live with only this choice available to them. So, you will say ' because of past life'. But that is no answer. Because you cannot answer Q2 & Q4
With your permission, may i say that no human has answer to these questions. Perhaps the only answer to human problems and suffering are :: "We Do Not Know. A human should just Think well, Speak well, Behave well. Any other explanations are just conjectures."
Mam, you are a very wise person, yet your answers are not satisfactory.
Om shanti