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Sister Shivani clarifies that when there is difference of sanskars, opinions and perspectives we need to tolerate. When there is abuse, exploitation or compromise of values and principles, we need to confront or face, not tolerate.
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Mr Suresh Oberoi You are a very intelligent interviewer. You ask the most genuine questions for the best possible answers from Ms Shivani. Thank you kindly
Mr Oberoi is the voice of the viewers here and does a great job in facilitating the conversation with his questions. Also, he looks fantastic for his age! Bless! xxx
As i listen to this video the second time , i know that in order to speak up with the person who hurt us without being afraid of him is first, i should not think bad about him nor think that he is wrong. I should check my thoughts, my feelings, my wisdom so that i do not judge him but have mercy, understanding, compassion for him. Then i will not be afraid to face him anymore to stop him from hurting me.
To say that he hurt me is depleting my soul power. Let us say that i do not like the way he treats me. I do not like what he does to me, not that i do not like his soul. We can not like his doing without hating his soul.
Just like a parent can disapprove the child wrong behaviour, but still love the child unconditionally.
We can face him if we do not like the way he treats us, but we can still love him unconditionally.
This wisdom gives us strength to face the person who does not treat us right. We do not expect him to change. But speaking up help us feel better. And if we speak with love, he will change eventually because that is the law of love. Bedides, speaking up,facing the other person who does not treat us right will help the other person from creating more bad karma, i hope.
I think Tolerate and When to Face is a valuable lesson. Understanding all perspectives in any given situations, is all about understanding all views, with your heart and soul. All souls require love and understanding. If someone is projecting anger and hate you can think, I have mercy, if you think like this. This allows any anger to turn to understanding. Do not take anything personally. Feel compassion for anyone who is filled with negativity. Purity and positivity does not mean being a doormat, it mean taking legal actions against someone, but being filled with grace and love and understanding that, that person is disconnected from their soul. When you are stable, grounded and filled with love, you can take legal action without becoming negative. You will be empowered with a gentle manner filled with love and respect for your adversary, understanding that they are a pure inherent soul living the human experience and they are disconnected from their soul body. You do not label them with negative words or titles, you send them love and mercy, but you do not condone their actions. You now have the knowledge and power to understand their behavior is bad, but they are not bad. You now have the insight to distinguish between the two, the bad destructive behavior is because they are disconnected from their soul consciousness. You then can have mercy if they think with negative thoughts. You can understand they are in pain. You will then have the power to walk away, filled with grace and dignity, wishing them love and wellness. If I had a magic wand I would wish for world Peace.
I have finally learned what to tolerate and what to face. Thank you, sister Shivani. You are my guru, my angel, my soul sister ❤
I am amazed at the wisdom of Sister Shivani at such a young age and also trying to penetrate thick blanket of deep rooted beliefs of the world with such patience, respect and compassion! But I have to give credit to Oberoi also for being so honest, open to ask difficult questions. It's easy to read in books and forget but sister Shivani hears it in her heart and conveys, which makes it stay. Thank you both for making people like us understand dynamics of our karma and try to be better person.
i love sister shivani. this guy is so angry and sister is just soooo calm.
God Bless you sister Shivani for the wonderful work you are doing! your words touch people easily as you can sense tht it is from your heart! the topic you handled today has been explained superficially in many spiritual litrature, unconditional love, but noone explained it this much in detail about-------stop an abuse on the outside but with only lov at heart, you have explained a great spiritual truth in an understandable way!
I've watched several of these videos/interviews and Sr Shivani continually amazes me with her wisdom. While the words make perfect sense to me, I am amazed by anyone able to turn the words into personal truths and truly live their lives by these beliefs. This is by far one of my favorite videos out of the ones I have seen. I also really enjoy the gentleman doing the interviewing, because he asks the same questions, shows the same 'skepticism' (for lack of a better term) regarding the tasks that we all find so hard, such as loving someone who has not treated us very well. He seems to ask almost all the same questions I would ask were I the one sitting there.
The two make a great pair, and these interviews are enlightening to listen to. One day I hope to have half the peace, wisdom and centeredness she shows.
A really nice exchange of energy and vibration.. And good advice. Thank You
Well said, Amanda.
Wow, sister you have wonderfully explained it, thanks to Suresh Sir also for bring up a practical example and getting it resolved spiritually . It clarifies so many things.
An intelligent interviewer only can extract the golden knowledge out from any spiritual leader.
Mr. Suresh Oberoi is one of them. Hats off to him and Shivani ji 🙏Naman
Sister Shivani,God has sent you on earth to heal this world.You are God's messenger,Om shanti.
When it comes to behaviors, we can tolerate... but when it comes to exploitation, manipulation and abuse, we should face with inner strength 😁💛🌟🙌
Om shani
Sister after watching ur videos my lyf is progressing in a positive direction ...soo much peace calmness affection towards ppl who are doing unfair to me according to my thinking
Om Shanti !
I am regular viewer of your discussions since last one month and feel that my thoughts and life is improved being associated with You.
Gaurang Pandya me too😇
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Gaurang, me too:)
i am thankfull to you for bringing light on when to tolerate and when to face.i understand that it is important to show compassion to someone hurting you. what kind of good wishes we send so that the soul realises his original sanskar .
Om Shanti, I really appriciate the way she explains things. It is so positive and so inspiring. She is an angel of GOD. You are doing really great job sister . Om Shanti...
Dear Sister Shivani.. Love you so much :) Thank you for all your love for us.. Thank you Suresh ji for the examples your share.. Om Shanti..
Thank you Sister Shivani 🙏 I could connect with the examples you gave. Pray to see the light
Its very idealistic.....
But there is a process of pain and hurt which has to be transcended ....
Sister shivani ....You are going to the end point straight away ......
If right at the beginning ....I think and hv compassion to anyone who has wronged me ...I have already attained nirvana.....
I enjoy Watching you sister but there are times ....There is a difference....
Suresh ji .... Thanks for your role ....You actually ask the question at the most basic level ....
Thanks to both of you ...
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Life is a journey for us to learn to be strong and protect ourselves from being hurt in life. It is a journey. We can progress little bit at a time. It is why we watch Sister videos to learn about wisdom and apply it in our life. We need to meditate on what she said and apply what works for us. I think that she is right. We need to face the person who hurt us and we need to speak up, stop him from hurting us without hating him.
But we need to strengthen ourselves first with wisdom. Then we can face him with the right mind, right understanding, mercy, right perspective without being afraid of him. Yes, we have to cultivate right knowledge, right wisdom to improve our life.
Buddha and Jedus came to this life to teach us wisdom and love.
I mean my astrology chart does not show that i carry any karma from previous lives, not year.
A lesson for lifetime.. thankyou so much sister shivani.. om shanti
Thank you so much. Your words are healing my Soul. And i decide to create a deeper Understanding for me and other People. God bless you
Super.............ve tried since a week,can see d difference,thank you so much shivani ma'am
This is a pure gem
It is so hard! I have so much pain. I have taken so much sorrow from these people. But I am grateful that I am doing Raja Yoga and Gyan. I am learning to be tolerant, and not take sorrow from these people.
It is easier said than done. We know in our logic, our mind that our karmic account comes back to us. We have to pay for what we did wrong to the other person in our past life. It is why in this life he does wrong back to us.
We can understand that.
The problem is we are afraid to speak up to solve the problem., to stand up for ourselves, to protect ourselves externally.
I know that inside i need to be stable. But externally, i have to tell or make the other person to stop doing wrong to me with no judgment inside my mind about the other person.
The problem is that i am afraid to speak up.
Just like a daughter in law is afraid of mother in law and dare not speak up.
So, the job we need to do is how to love ourselves and accept ourselves unconditionally, how to receive love, help, strength from God so that we are not afraid of the persons who do wrong to us. Then we can speak up, do what we need to do so that we can protect ourself with a stable mind.
Sister, please teach us how to love ourselves, how to be strong and not to be afraid of people. Teach us to be fearless.
Thank you.
Thank you🙏
I love bird singing😁😁
Om shanti 🙏I am so happy😇 soul mera sweet baba💞 one baba one world family❤
Simply Superb...Solution to our problems also..Thank you .
Thanks didi for give positive thoughts 🙏
Thank you so much sister Shivani
Beautiful .. very pure ... Feeling free now !!!
Hello sister, You have quite amazing wisdom !
Lovely discussion and the topic is really interesting.. Open the mind how to tolerate with the situation..
And get a better result thoroughly.
Thanks BK Shivani and Mr Suresh Oberoi.
Thank you for opening my eyes!
You are my godess forever,and daily I give auspicious prayer to you .🇮🇳🙏🇮🇳🙏 thankyou for gave me beautiful life to me mom
You are so amazing, sister!
Om shanti sister you guide me for face the challanges of life and faimly problums with peace &stablity
Thanks sister
Om shanti
Om shanti
This is really going to help us all in day to day life.
Om Shanti 🙃💕
Thank you siater this video has given me the insite of how toface up with my conflicts Ishall try to practice it.thanks a moillon.
Thank you so much sister..... love you
Thank you so much.🙏🏽🙏🏽😊
Some toxic people take advantage of this I must tell you... There are people like me who think it's always their fault and we don't actually help neither us nor them.. They keep doing it cause they don't take responsabilities..
Thank you very much om shanti
The most amazing video in this series till now!! Thank you Sister Shivaniji for such powerful yet simple methods n ways of healing ourselves n thereby improving our quality of life! Thank you Sureshji for representing us so well!! Om Shanti:)
How can one send good wishes and positive energy to someone who has abused you, insulted you repeatedly....
Lecture of Didi is like....Water to a thirsty person 👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏
Omshanti omshanti
i like this vidio about soul connection! too nice!
Very nice... Om shanti
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
Thankuuu sister
Good, Thank you.
Thank you so much 🙏
Om Shanthi, Like this video a lot :)
Love the discussions. Very helpful! Thank you.
wow i have mercy for you if you think cheating me will bring you happiness !!!
very very very very nice class
Core what I got shayad is to stop thinking negative towards them.. And start thinking good for them and look only positives in them.. And say in kind and respective manner.. Problem is what we are saying is correct but not in correct manner..
Motivational communication..
Om shanti
I want peace in the world
Naveen kumar Vishwakarma
you can and can be instrumental in doing so
om shanti🙏
Love you didi😊
Sister, how to strengthen ourselves besides meditation and watching your videos? Sometimes we get tired of struggling to be strong. Thank you.
LOL i love this its so great xxx and the guy is funny xx
Thanks
and so is she i watch all her videos but i love the guy aswell he is so funny lol x
I don't fully agree here. If we don't head on deal with and face someone's wrong behavior, it leads to the other person not taking any responsibility at all.
This one is one of my favourite talk show. So much to learn and practice. I have a quesion that if someone cheats it is karmic account but emotional abuse by other person isn't, how come? why that one is not a karmic account? May be in last birth this person didn't treated him very well and now it is time to pay back. Or there is a difference between matriastic settlement and physical/emotional settlement?
Dear shivani...you are defenity right.....but is so difficult when a group of people want to make you feel bad and hurt you. There s no way that they are not all not well. I probably did something really wrong and bad in my past life. As you said...I try not to react.. I try not to assorb..(very difficult).....I try to trasform (very very very difficultm..at least for me)...but i not surrend....I don t want to meet them in my next life.....i prefer forgive them now 😂
Good
Non violence does not work on evil forces.
If we use violence against violence then it's 2 evil forces now.
What we want is peace with the situation and with the person. And that can be achieved with Peace only not anything opposite.
That's the law of karma. What goes out from us comes back to us.
If you observe in the video, sister mentioned 3 ways to look at this situation
1. Your perspective
2. The other persons perspective
3. And the karmic perspective ( the bigger picture)
1st two perspectives may complicate the things internally and externally but if we look at the bigger picture of it, the 3rd perspective, he cheated because it's the result of lot of negative energy exchange in the past and which is why this situation has come as a result of that past action and now you need to send positive energy and good wishes to that person with understanding not to get disturbed being stable but see what can be done legally to resolve the issue.
The issue will be resolved anyway with the legal procedure but the energy exchange while working to resolve the issue is actually creating another karmic account which might come as another cheating or betrayal in future to you from the same soul.
Which means unless we give the positive energy to any situation or person when ever comes in our life uncertain, they keep on coming in one or the other form and that's why now a days problems are never ending, one after one and one after one. Because we are not putting a full stop.
Being positive and sending positive in situations is like putting full stop to any situations like this to never come again in future.
Hope this helps.
Lots of Love❤
Truth
Face kaise Karna h. What is the right course of action
Om Shanti 🙏☺️
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Om namah shivay om namah shivay om namah shivay om namah shivay
more insights here...
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Di when someone is trying to keep insult us in fromt of everyone by harsh words may be its our relaity or not it doesnt matter but shall i tolerate it forever and even if i speak to them you should not do this they do it more or in some case some hit also
What is body consciousness
Everything that happen in my life is from my own creation from this life and past lifetimes that bring me good or bad karmas. I do not blame anybody. I do not point the finger at anybody. I do not hold anybody as the source of my pain.
Understanding and Knowledge of the Truth will set us free from suffering and bring us joy, love, peace. Sister Shivani said that understanding is our protection. We get our health, our power back and do not depend on others behaviors to be happy or unhappy. But for physical and verbal abuse, stay away from those situations.
It is why the Bible said: " when the Son sets you free, you are free indeed."
The Son is God, His teachings. So, we need to meditate on God's Word, ask for His help, His guidance, His wisdom, His protection so that we can see clearly the state of our mind and our heart so we can repent, purify our mind and our heart instead of blaming others. Then we will create blessings for ourselves and others.
Only virtues can heal us,
Only virtues can bless us,
Only virtues can protect us.
I do not mean to be too hard on myself . I do not have to struggle by myself to be a Saint. God, the Universe will reveal to me the truth, the light so that I can understand the cause of my suffering and be happy, forgiving.
Once we know that the rope is not the snake that we saw in the night, we will not be afraid anymore.
God will shed understanding for the laws of karmas, of love, for the laws of the Universe. If we live according to His laws, the laws of love and wisdom, we will have a happy, healthy , peaceful life.
Remember that God will help us be a Saint....effortlessly. All we need to do is to ask Him for help.
If I hurt mr A in my past life, it does not mean that mr A will hurt me back in this life because he might be a compassionate soul. But somebody else will hurt me because of my wrong thoughts, speeches, actions , bad vibrations sent by me to the universe.
So, do not ask why our life encounters so much problems. Just know that we have created bad karmic accounts in the past. This lifetime, do not blame, but purify our mind and our heart, forgive, do not blame. That way we can change our bad karmas to good karmas.
This is the best way to love ourselves, not to be too hard on ourselves. Only when we love ourselves that we can bring happiness and blessings to us and to others .
Om Shanti sister Shivani🙏 I really want your help. I didn't bring dowry after marriage and for this reason my mother-in-law is torturing me mentally from day one. But because of my husband, she is not able to express her anger clearly. She never talks to me properly and insults me in front of others. She always tries to find my fault in every silly thing. I really don't know how to give her positive energy and love her. Please help.
LOLLOL LOL I LOVE THIS GUY HE SO FUNNY HE IS GREAT X
Mr. Oberoi seems really mad at someone while the interview. 😅
even i have same question?
Meditation se log thodi change hote hain. Itni bar try Karke dekha. Itna hua ki ek friend se ladai k Bina bat krne me aya. Agree bhi krte kisi bat par, but discuss kar pate hain
MANMANABHAV
has anyone seen that uninvited being running across the screen at minute 7:13. Cheeky! hahaha
I saw.....
mene apne bachpane mai bahot galtiya ki hai .jiski sajha mujhe mil rahi hai aisi galtiya ki jishe mai kisiko bata bhi nahi sakta .isliye god mujhe apne sarir ko wapas thik hone de rahe hai yaa mujhe apne karmo ka phal mil raha hai
.aisa dard jo mujhe sari umra pap karne se pahle sochane ko kahega.maino jo kiya uske liye yah sajha maire kam hai par mai ab yah ashahniya dard nahi sah sakta.
mai mere kiye par ishwar se kshasma mangata hoo.
krupa karke mere liye dua mangiye mai mera jivan samanya tarah sE ji salook
om namah shivay
Raviraj Bokoliya
omshanti bhai
aap dard me hai ku ki aap apne past ke bare me sochte hai. whereever you put attention the energy flows. so first thing is you put a full stop to your past and stop being sorry for yourself. If you keep doing it you will never will be able to comeout of your pain. Think that you are a peaceful soul and whatever you have done is due to your past sanskar. forgive yourself and ask forgiveness from the other soul in your mind and imagine that the soul has forgiven you.
i would suggest that you go to a nearby brahmakumari centre learn rajyoga meditation you will b healed. i have undergone such feelings but not now after learning the meditation.
i love this guy!!! it’s so my inner fight at times
OK so what do I say!!!!! 🤷🏻♀️😑
i love you after you cheating and blackmailing me 🧐🧐😏😏🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🙋♀️
i am bearing physical violence..form 6 yrs..
acknowledge the person violating you in pain and needs to look for help. step away, forgive him and work pn your healing. respect your existence and please do not be further disrespected
Try to come out of it ...
Now is everything fine?
This is soft and gentle reminder for specially you....
Know that sufferings and pain is part of your life.
You are not alone at all.
But God has given you the superpower to heal yourself.
You can change you situation which is bothering you with the help of God.
God is within you.
He is ready to help you.
He sending unshakable support and love to you.
Just open your Heart & invite God in your heart space / chakra.
He will take away all your pain.
Believe in your superpowers...
I'm sending you a lots of healing light and unconditional love....
Good afternoon ❤❤ Shivani 🎉🎉🎉 your picefullsoul your divainsoul your love full soul happy nass your avredisoul wohyou ilove ilovyou wohyou 💋❤️❤️❤️ sweetheart omsanti
Shivani di... You are amazing, too good!
Suresh ji, sometimes you are a bit irritating... Sorry!
Ho’oponopono
Mahatma Gandhi showed how to tolerate and get freedom