Soul Connection 34 - Dealing with jealousy and jealous people - Sr Shivani (English)
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In my experience when you do things ethically and honestly no one can hurt you even though they will try.
the man speaks some great truths. and that woman speaks so well too..
Kevin Cronin true I'm learning much and their chemistry is lovely
Kevin Cronin cf. (6th. Gf @"
Two great personalities. They make a great show. i never get tired of watching this show.
i ve noticed many times that, when you keep counterattacking their negative energy with positive energy (i ve always done this), they become even more obsessed, jealous and vicious. My explanation for this is the fact that the dark cannot stand the light, so the more you shine the more darkness needs to be send to you to be able to cover your light . This is what makes handling jealousy and hatred almost impossible. And it certainly is very dangerous for your health. The best thing to do, i experienced, is keep on refusing stooping to their level and go on with your path and try to keep shining, but since they WILL keep on trowing rocks at you as long as they live at every tiny opportunity they see, you WILL get tired in the end and hurt and sick and disabled. Because enough mental stones WILL eventually break mental bones!! Get out of the situation, before you loose your legs. I wish everybody strength..
She patiently explains it over and over again to him- and the rest of us- in various ways.
Dear Sister Shivani, what you say is so true and beautiful but Suresh is talking reality and how we as people think. We need to be enlightened and aware to act as you say. I will do my best to think your way. Thank you so much for opening our heart to the truth 🙏🏼❤️
I love this, she is a saint .
Dear Sir
You command respect.
Despite of going through so many hardships in your personal and professional life you have become positive minded.
Hats off to your piousness
God bless
Om Shanti
Take my bow ma'am...we got you in our life when we needed a guidance the most...
My heartfelt gratitude to sister.. Really i was dealing with all these jealousy, insecurities, attachment...But as i started listening to u ,i realised the only thing i can change is my thoughts to stay happy ...
This conversation is one of the most powerful.
Both are so amazing.
Thank you so much. This lecture enlighted my Soul. I send love and peace to all my haters and to everyone.
Just what I needed to learn. Thank you for this wonderful advice
This is so true and makes so much sense. Thank you so much. It is very difficult to be patient with people who want to destroy our reputation.
" we can do our own magic".very nice sis
I am so glad that I found this video. It is exactly what I needed to see today.
beautiful prayer at the end. Thank you very much.
Life's goal from now onwards
From Image consciousness to Soul consciousness
so true she has ocean of knowledge about everything
best video ever. fully profound
Sister Shivani you have enlighten my life, with pure bliss , and true happiness
I do agree with her 👍🏻👍🏻
Omshanti omshanti Divine Rajyogini Soul and All Divine Souls and All Shiv Shaktiya and Pandav Sena and always Happy and Best of luck For Satyug and Very Nice Thoughts and Feelings good and This is True and always Remember Parmatma Shiv Dhara Per Aachuke Hai and always Remember Baba Hi Kalyankari Hai and always Happy and Best of luck For Satyug
Amazingly Beautiful Blissful Divine Pure Sparkling Soul
This video was passed on to me from one of my mentors and was so enlightening! Thank you so much for your wisdom and the commitment to your channel! I will assist to spread this message to my own followers through my channel and my calling trubeautyMOVEMENT in a way that young girls and women can absorb this! We are on the path of positive change and realizing our ability for POSITIVE power we hold within!!! More and more everyday namaste 😌💜🙏🏻✨👁🙌🏻🌠🌠🌠🌌
amazing how simple it is to be one
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
Thank you for providing this important information.
I am blessed to be loved, respected and appreciated 🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much Universe for guarding me from evil eyes and evil intentions 🙏🙏🙏
Amazing Sister Shivani 😊🙏
Om Shanti 💖😊🙏
Thanks for transforming my life!
Thanks u Shivani ji for clearing my doubts 😀om shanti
Ur voice dil ka sukoon hai very healing 🔥❤️
Om santi meethe baba thank u shivani dd for making us understand to be compassionate to all those souls who are going in jealousy and doing black magic
ty so much for this video I've been struggling with a person in my life that lives to destroy me...ty again
As she said, focus on positive energy and sending them healing light and love. When people are mean or "bitchy" it is simply because they are unhappy in their own lives and un-well. Focus on your path and aim to connect with them in a real way if possible (it may take time and repetition on your part). I've been there. It's a balance of self protecting giving space to that person in your life showing that behavior is unacceptable and continuing to thrive and YET not giving up on them and being open to them changing or connecting where you understand where their coming from or their perspective. Wishing you the best of luck! Stay on the path of positive energy - it conquers all. 🙏🏻✨💜🙌🏻🌠🌠🌠🌌
stacy lee I'm too
Please do only English subtitles
Stay strong! You will live freely while the demon lives in the dark and dies off with her own toxin.
using sounds that clear our aura can be very helpful, too, so that we raise our vibration and don't return the bad energy being sent to us.
I agree with you Shivani ma'am.
if only once i could talk with this great soul. i will know realy am blessed
Om shanti baba
Attention n appreciation makes one feel special above others
Again a way to seek happiness from outside which is always temporary
For permanent happiness - MEDITATE
Perfect lecture!
I love you both...you are right on!!! Blessins.
Thank you Shivani didi ..🙏
omg loved this! :)
Thanks u r my real friend
Wow mata ji change my life so true gods watching
From personal experience.
When someone broke my leg and I'm not a doctor I've go to the doctor who have the capacities to heal my leg. Not necessarily broke the leg of the other.
Asking for help is a sign of humility.
Nothing to do with fear or hate for whom broke my leg.
P.s. before I consider to refuse help of a specialist I need to consider my capacities to help myself in that particular question and moment.
Radiant Soul.
sparkling soul🌌
Thank you so much :)
Jealously has become debilitating for me and is ruining my relationship. I don’t know how to stop being jealous, it’s so hard. I can’t even go in public with my spouse because of the jealousy I have of other women.
I can relate with that 😒
LOL I LOVE HIM LOL when he sai they are throwing stones in his path he is great, also when he said if someone does something bad to him he does it back LOL..... so happy to find him on face book xxx I love watchng the show i watch this on you tube everyday :)
Thanks
I wish I could talk to her :) she has so much wisdom.
Very Nice!! Great!! Its about the last Prophet's teachings explanation and how he reacted towards his enemies.. Awesome! Sister Have you ever studied about Islam, Quran and Prophet Muhammad P.B.U.H??? If not then you must!!
The knowledge that she speaks is of the Supreme the Almighty and which is the essence of what every religion and scriptures teaches us.
Ultimately it's one God and we all are his children. Souls(children) Supreme Soul (Father and God)
Soul qualities :
Love
Purity
Peace
Happiness
Bliss
Power
Knowledge
Which is what every soul lost now and in search of those qualities and the power house of those qualities is none but God our Father.
While searching him for those lost Virtues and Powers. We human beings created different religions different methods to attain liberation and salvation but then not succeeded.
Now, the time God himself the Supreme Soul has come to this world and shared this knowledge.
To know more about this knowledge, reach out to your nearest Brahma Kumaris rajyoga meditation center.
Lots of Love ❤
Very interesting video
💗💗💗I love her x
Lv u sister shiwani....
"5. When someone is jealous of us, we need to have the feeling of compassion and empathy towards them and understand their condition." And then, I will run a way / avoid them as much as possible... Otherwise, they will make me ill... and remember don't want to be like them :) Am I right Guru Shivani ? Thank you very much for the wisdoms :)
Om shanti 🙏☺️
Om santi
Honor brings joy. Dishonor brings shame. This is dependent on what other people say about you. To deny this is to lie.
This is NOT TRUE AT ALL😊
It is the chattering mind that creates jealousy. If u r deeply connected to your inner being you cannot feel any jealosuy. But for that you must disconnect from your mind.As long as you identify with your mind you cannot get rid of jealousy. Mind will only give you some temporary solutions and formulas and fool you.
"4. Jealousy has nothing to do with success or failure, it is the feeling created because of one's inferiority complex."
What cause the inferiority complex ? Some people just born with it ?
Thank you :)
Lack of love and stability in the childhood and/or experiences of self insufficiency, also later in life.
Why do people feel inferior,its all because of their thoughts and some external factors..
Like ppl passing comments on xyz..If that person is a child its obvious that he is broken and insecure as he grows..
Sadaguru. No left, right, up or down. Only in and out. has anyone ever stopped to wonder why we like the scales or harmonies we do in music? Earth vibrates in the key of G. Mars in A and so on. when they align they make harmonics that are us.And why we dance the way we do. Why some chords sound sad or happy. To simple to understand for most. L.S.D should be national service.
UNIQUE
You cannot allow the things that occur with other people success or failure...... make you happy nor sad for yourself. You have to learn to be happy for other's success as well. If you cannot be happy for others, you may easily develop a spirit of jealous. We all are connected. Another's image DOES CAUSE HURT! So we can affect each other by another's thought of you or your success. When you are jealous of another and you try to go on working for your own success while jealous your aura or disposition will make that other person feel bad. So, where does our responsibility start?
om shanti
This is a good video. Sister talks about karma and truth.
The disciples of jesus already saw true peace, true happiness. They already knew God. So temporary things in life like hatred, money, criticism, black magic, name and fame etc...have no power over them. Once we have gold, silver, diamond, we do not care for stones. Those disciples were not afraid of death either because they already saw a glimpse of heaven, of true love, peace and joy.
I was born in a family where boys are better than girls according to my parents, my culture, my tradition. Culture , tradition said that Money, degree, name and fame give humans respect, pride, satisfaction!
It takes me all my life to find that the Truth of God works. , to fight back with the tradiion of the world to find true value, true peace, true happiness according to the teachings of Buddha and Jesus: loving kindness, humility, forgiveness, wisdom, intelligence, compassion etc....because only virtues can bless us, only virtues can heal us, only virtues can protect us. Good karma brings us joy, bad karma brings us suffering, not money, parties, nice cloth, nice house, nice car, achievements, degrees...
Of course God will take care of our basic needs. All we need is to pray, meditate, study the teachings of the Masters, ask Them to reveal to us the right path.
Then we need to walk on it with conviction, with faith, with patience, with obedience to God. Then we will have true love, peace, joy and happiness. God will take good care of us also. Then we can bless others and show others true light also.
Remember that virtues, grace of God and obedience to God's teachings are the sure ways to keep us on the right path.
By the way, i stick to my path in spite of my parents' belief and i find true happiness gradually...
God bless you all.
Fear affects all aspects of life.
Can you explain our protection is their healing.
So I want answer to my question… I have coworker which does not know anything and have less experience in work but getting paid more than me. I am jealous because I am working hard and she is making easy money… how could I handle this? Please suggest anyone 🙏
There is no other path
I need some advice on dealing effectively with a jealous boss. I want to just lay out the facts. I work in the retail industry. I recently transferred from a high end store to a store that is in the ghetto. I am used to working with customers who are 95% very rich and used to a certain level of customer service. The store I transferred to is a store where the clients are 95% poor and 99.9% African American. I took the position because I was offered a better work schedule to accommodate my family. The problem is that since I have started at this new store I notice that my boss seems to be competing with me. She makes comments about the upscale store I came from and how "her store is one of the top in the district too" and how I am a good addition to her team and just what they needed but she treats me like I am doing something wrong when I go above and beyond for the customers at this new store. I am either being too nice, or taking up too much time to help them. HUH?? This is the SAME COMPANY WITH THE SAME APPROACH TO CUSTOMER SERVICE I THOUGHT!
If a male customer compliments me, she rushes over to where we are standing and tries to get his attention by making some ridiculous comment. Recently a male co-worker said he was going to bring donuts for the crew but he figured I wouldn't eat them so he decided not to buy any at all.. WHAT!! Why am I the cause for no donuts??? My boss was like "I guess the rest of us don't matter" I had no idea he was buying donuts!! I get several compliments per day on my hair and eyes and beauty. I can't help the way I look. I am a nice person and I bring a superior level of service to the store and I am aesthetically pleasing,I suppose, but I am a very nice, down to earth person. My boss is African, very dark skinned and very aggressive. She is harsh and abrasive when she speaks to certain customers and employees. She is always barking at other co workers when they are only doing what she has ORDERED them to do and slamming things around all day and hardly gets any of her own work done because she's floating around socializing and gossiping and bossing people which stalls everyone else, and unfortunately the customer suffers. I notice at times throughout the day she tries to soften up and speak politely when she hears me speaking politely on the phone but it is short lived. She always uses me as the "standard" when correcting other employees on how to do certain things and I don't like being put on the spot like that. Not only that, she has made her mark in every inch of the store. If its not a post it note, it's a plant, a new organizer thingy, something new hanging off the wall, some new "rule" stuck to everyone's work station or appliance or the fax machine. Just very, very controlling behavior. I don't know what to do. HELP!
:) First be clear about who you are, through meditation. All mental conversations will resolve themselves. All this talk to me appeared like exchange of illusions. First find out who believes in 'black magic' , or 'white magic', who is the 'victim', find out all these identities. Your only choice is to know when you are trapped in identification, or not. All becomes clear from that point. All 'conversations' cease to be intrusive, and do not need to be resolved. Karma unfolds in pure awareness.
great thoughts by Shivani! God Bless
well, i did something radical with the help of "findgoals" iPhone app by hanumappa .
basically , converted all my jealousy into goals and worked on it! positive action
Souls
What is black magic?
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per uper wala to sub ko achha bnata h fer log jlty q h kise say may nay apni jindgi may yhi daykha haath daykha bdi hoker khun krygi jiski wjh say mujhe khuchh kerny he nhi diya may sahi bhi hu fer bhi ager kuch kerna h to kise ka rasta q rokna hmari jindgi may jo kuch bhi hua mummy ko peta chla her chij hony say phly btana rasta bhi .
A question
People create thoughts about us based on our image. And these vibrations affect
Omshanti and good evening Divine Rajyogini Soul and Divine Souls and All Shiv Shaktiya and Pandav Sena and always Happy and Best of luck For Satyug and always Remember that We are Souls and always Remember Soul Companions and always Remember Parmatma Shiv Dhara Per Aachuke Hai and Ab Samay Bhashan Nahi Bhashana and Soul Companions and The World Wide Drama Ka Part Hai and Nobady Can Change and Bleaved Only one Parmatma Shiv Hi Kalyankari Hai and always Remember that Baba Asked Bachhe Mayn Bhi Drama Mayn Bandha Hua Hun and Repated after 5000 Years and Kalp Kalpantar ki Vijayi Aatma Hun and always Remember Vinashi Kamai ko Bhoolkar Avinashi Kamai Karo and Always Remember that Jobhi Aankho Se Dekhraho Vah Sabkuchh Nasht Hojayega and Avinashi Kamai 21 Janmo Tak Rajao Ka Rajya Banoge and Satyug and Treta Yug Mayn Tumahara Hi Jay Jay Jaykar Hoga and Jobhi Tumahare Ershaya and Ego and Jewelsy and Glani karraha Hai Vahi Das Dasia and Praja Mayn Aayege and Satyug Mayn Tumari Seva Karege and always Happy and Best of luck For Satyug
Good evening ❤❤ Shivani 🎉🎉🎉 your picefullsoul your divainsoul your love full soul happy nass your avredisoul wohyou ilove ilovyou wohyou 💋❤️❤️❤️ sweetheart omsanti
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Does really black magic exist?? The black magician is a black psychic side of ourselves each of us create these thought forms. If a person is told about a certain black magic they can be influenced. But if that activity takes place without their knowledge, by experiments and research has shown nothing happens. Its kind of like a autosuggestion. The differance in black and white magic lies in the motive.
Good morning Shivani my waif your picefullsoul your divainsoul your avredisoul your love full soul happy nass aavjata dard bujhi kanhi kemcho kehatajajo wohyou ilove ilovyou wohyou sweetheart shudhnavaratri omsanti
Why do these video never talk about the bad karma they create by attacking us I don't get it. Its like we're always the bad ones or held accountable. These people need to talk about the consequences these people will experience hence why we should chill out and let karma run its course.
You cannot stand on your own like a rock against the world without being very prideful. That pride will make you appear disrespectful of the others. If the whole world thinks you are wrong then would not majority rule of some type come into play? The reason Jesus died for humankinds sins is so that you can come to the realization that you must love others. This means that if the entire world is wrong and against you that you love them by helping them achieve their goal. In this case it means that you do what you consider wrong to help them. That is the compassionate thing to do. You must respect others dignity. Otherwise, you will be a narcissist with antisocial personality disorder.
does really black magic exist??
Deepayan Chakraborty yes
Listening about black magic from Suresh Oberoi is surprising. Wasn't aware that people still believe in this kind of nonsense. He is so imbedded in superficial values, asking same questions repeatedly but maybe so many of us are..... Tantrik saying, "Thank God you have come to me at the right time"! Is this supposed to be objective journalism bringing us valid, relevant and significant discourse instead of dealing with such basic values.
love her. However I'm not so keen on the person interviewing trying to add his own weak insights.
+Anand Srivastava positive energy couldn't exist without negetive
Some of her teachings are not applicable in real life. I feel like I have to avoid bad doers and sacrifice and give them their ways. From my personal experiences, some move onto their lives but some do more bad things to you if you don’t punish them.
I used to think like you. But you know Jesus was a great saint. Had far more wisdom and power than you and I. And even he banished wicked spirits. There is some truth in it. Maybe you and I havenot experienced it yet. Thats my reasoning.
The guy is so annoying.. He doesn't even want to consider her ideas at some points.. -.-
elizabeth clapp He is learning and I like the questions he asked.
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
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