After the pandemic, I've learned a lot when dealing with people. I've slowly cut away from toxic ones and realize it's better to be alone than be with somebody who's toxic.
Yeah, and my father thought I sinned when I tried it.. and my brother thought it was selfish of me but they’re toxic. I’m in a toxic relationship with my family and I’m going to walk away from it in a couple of weeks until I get things figured out.
I walked away from a job where the international company had lost its moral compass. No regrets, and coincidentally the company collapsed and went into receivership 3 days later. Never compromise your principles no matter how much pressure is put upon you.
We should walk away from toxic jobs, families, friends and circumstances. If anyone criticizes THAT choice, walk away from THEM, too. And don't look back! 💯👍
Surfside75: Thanks for the compliment! ☺️ Makes me happier than a new pair of Jordans fresh out the box! I could put my comment on a t-shirt with my face on it and sell it on the street. Or I could write a 📚 with all my best material. I'll call it, "The Bald, Black Book of Wisdom." And it'll have the parental advisory label on it. I'd rather eat sugar than speak it! HA! 😉💯😎🥳
I have done this 3 times in my life and don't regret it. The first time was sticking to my decision and getting divorced. Second was when I quit my job and took another job for less pay. Most recently I stepped down from a management position in my company to go back to the trenches with everyone else. Each time I felt a sense of relief, but I never made the decision in haste.
People who are envious, angry, negative, hateful, arrogant are real signs of toxicity. The best thing that I did was cut ties with toxic & jealous people. Life for me is way much better. Good video!!!
I walked away from a job even though it paid slightly more than my current job, the energy spent fighting for doing what's right for customers and the rotating schedule (days, afternoons and graveyard shifts) exceeded my boundaries. Now, after having left, sleep better, work in a more positive environment, don't have rotating schedules... no regrets.
Mom always maintained that happiness in life depends on how much of precisely what you are willing to put up with. Truer words have never been spoken. Thank you for this reminder.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Please walk away from a toxic relationship BEFORE getting married. It will save you a trip to my office! Set firm boundaries. You can thank me later. Stay safe out there!
Very wise. Toxic people can destroy your live. They lie, manipulate, gaslight, deceive, have no boundaries, playing the victim if you do not want live the way they want. Get rid of them. And have the courage to tell them that you do not want to engage with them without feeling guilty or explaining yourself. People who treat you like trash, call you trash and simultaneously want to fuck you and own you need to be shown the door. Sort them out. 🤪
It’s not that I’m afraid. It’s just because I feel like I’m being stopped. I need to have money to pay for a plane ticket and then I’ll travel solo to California.
I echo your sentiment but it's never that easy. Takes money for most to break away. Bills have to still be paid. Life isn't free. You got to eat. You might have kids who need to eat. That's how most abusers keep a strangle hold on a partner. It's sad but it's the reality. Takes a strong support system and patience from friends and family.
@@DelaneyParker101 You normally cannot expect a refund on plane tickets. So the situation is you either accept the terms and condition of your plane tickets or you leave it. Remember that you book a flight so you got to find value in something you originally invested in.
I just walked away from an ok job of almost 2 years. It was a number of inappropriate events before I finally broke! Now I'm broke, but glad I stepped away from the toxicity.
I very recently walked away from 1/4 million worth of home and all of my belongings .. now I’m a homeless veteran however I have a very comfortable income . Thank God I Walked Away With My Life and peace of mind .. I wholeheartedly agree that it’s a very courageous to walk away . Thank you for the content as ever . Many blessings 💖🕊
Walk away! Time away will help you heal! Thank you. Yes, setting a boundary! Walk away, stay away! You are in charge of your life and happiness. Thank you !!🙏🏻✝️✝️😊😊❤️👍🏻🌹♥️💚
Walk on, don’t stay in the storm! It will become clear after you do. Leaving isn’t a terrible thing to do, however, staying is often times an excuse to be a victim. Walk on, one’s strength comes from courage.
Walking away is hard specially in a relationship with someone that’s stubborn, hurts more if kids are in the picture but at the end it’s best for everyone I think about my kids every day
"I told my husband he should loose weight and suggested he run 2 miles a day......which was great because at the end of the week he was 14 miles away."....Jo Brand.
So, I watched this video and there were two sides, I watched it as both someone who was left behind and someone who walked away, it felt empowering to watch it as a latter one while it hurt a little being the one left abundant. And I think I would like to leave this note for that side of mine who was left alone - It really is okay, sometimes we often fail to recognize that something in life is falling apart, and most of the time it's a favor that others do to us. It might feel somewhat hard to let go, however, it is the biggest lesson one could learn in life to live happily and peacefully. Being the one people walk away from allows you to introspect, grow, and learn from mistakes. And you deserve to be valued and appreciated, focus on yourself and you'll meet people of your kind.
Most importantly, walking away gives you an opportunity to regain your composure and to calm down. When you're angry or upset, it's best to take a few minutes (or even hours) to cool off before continuing the conversation. This will allow you to think more clearly and approach the situation from a more rational perspective. Excellent content from Brainy Dose!
I’ll walk away before I allow my blood pressure to become elevated & I act out of character. When one door closes another one opens. Time to move on. Once you learn to liberate yourself from things that no longer serve you or disrupt your peace you’ll be iight. Mental health is important & change is constant. Act accordingly or get out of my way & leave me alone because it was one point in time to where I didn’t know you.💯💯 Peace 🕊🍃👁♾️☮️♾️👁🍃🕊
If you walk away from something toxic, you give yourself a shot at happiness. If you stay, that is how the rest of your life is going to be, miserable and unbearable.
@@willdrivesu7914 I have heard stories of people who ended up finding their dream job (after a toxic work environment), a person who loved them back correctly (after an abusive relationship), etc. just because they had faith in a better future even though it didn't seem possible at first. If you walk away you will at least have a 50% chance of getting it. If you stay in something toxic you will 100% never get it.
Hah! When you asked that 1st question, at the very beginning of this, my answer was, & still is, a resounding ALWAYS!! Had me not just walking away, from things/people, but also, shrinking away! But now, I've come out from that whole mess stronger, & fiercer, towards the cause of my goals which are ALL. extremely "in-true!" Thanks for this video! Hope everyone's evenings are greatly blessed! 🤟🌹💜🌎
@@surfside75So very much obliged, for your awesomely fine, kind, & encouraging words! All of which, are of the highest quality, & honors! Welcome, kindred spirit! Welcome, into my extending & otherwise orbit! Glad to have you here! Rock on, peace out, & be greatly blessed! Yay-usss!👍🤟👏💜🌹🌎
Yes it’s time to walk away from my past friends who do nothing but create drama . Like playing with my phone deleting friend request from my apps no time for childish behaviour s anymore. I don’t use my phone as much anymore I prefer face to face interactions. Even my workouts don’t use my phone .
@@jenniferhcsmith-5586 They are designed to be addictive, so shutting them down is the solution. Did you know FB even admitted to doing psychological experiments on users?
I walked away from my adult cousins. They didn't care about me. The aunt's and uncles have all died and the previous cousin relations were no longer there for me. Stoped sending Christmas cards to those old friends that turned me out of their lives.
I walked away from a collegue and friend of 24 years who decided that stealing my intellectual property was ok. That exposed her toxic covert narcissist side which told me all I needed to know that it was time to walk away.
We don't need to respond to everything we hear and see. We don't owe someone an interaction just because we're in public. Just because others feel like listening doesn't mean we should speak. What we keep private or share is itself a private matter. Don't need to prove ourselves to others. We don't owe them an explanation anymore than we owe them our bank balance. Use discernment and common sense when sharing details or getting involved in something. If someone can't speak without being nosy or finding fault, they'll find themselves alone. If someone will ask a nosy question but ignore your cries for help, they're using their voice as a weapon against you. Doing opposites like this is a form of control. It's dysfunctional and passive aggressive. Some people speak when they shouldn't, but not when they should. If they keep making fools of themselves, it will come back to them one way or another. 💯
Monty Mont: Thanks for the compliment. ☺️ If I don't get THEIR best, they don't get MINE. If they don't care about MY feelings, I don't care about THEIRS. I don't care if it's "vindictive" or not. My boundaries are not for others to dictate. 💯
Being left out is ok and feels like walking away. I'm preparing for a better time and mostly ready. Hurts a little. Nice to see this video and read the notes.
WOW! This is an amazing video. Glad I'm subscribed to this channel. This video should be taught to everyone as people are growing up and trying to make decisions for themselves. I could have used this video during my high school years or college years.
I left a toxic job.. colleagues who became toxic and unable management.. ironically they ended up calling me back to that job but of course I refused!!
@@giuliabaracchi463 I asked the question because some people leave without anything lined up (I’m not passing judgement). and others find a new job while still at the old one.
Awesome video. I could relate to the points mentioned. Very enlightening and eye opening video.We are often forced to stay in wrong places and with toxic people as others don't think they are wrong or toxic. But we should listen to our innerselves and decide for us. It's like taking back our freedom..
I quit on the spot when I could no longer deal with a bad boss. Was at the company 23 years. Fortunately I had enough saved that I could retire. No regrets. Other employees wish they could do the same.
Hello. I just made 23 years in December 2022. Not quite near retirement but I have to “GET OUT NOW”. Hope that you are thoroughly ENJOYING your retirement.
I used to have tonnes of "friends", these days I have very few and although I miss how it used to feel in the past, I do find it easier to be alone. Socialising usually disappoints me and at the end of a nigbt out I often think "is that it?". I think my break up three years ago has a lot to do with it too. My ability to connect is faulty, so I just avoid instead.
I hate long family discussions and being told "Come back here!"when I leave the room. It's not good for me to stay in a toxic discussion. I sometimes hear "You're an adult. A kid does that" Those statements are toxic. I literally walk away from that environment. It makes me shrink and turn into a shell. When I literally walk away from long discussions I feel like myself more and more. I feel confident also. Walking away doesn't mean you're acting like a middle school kid. It means that you don't need to tolerate or suffer in a toxic family discussions. Whenever I wound up in a long discussion whether it's about money or anything I walk away.
Excellent Leave your spouse if he/she shows no respect or love and spends you into poverty Dont make excuses and don’t worry about the kids. They will be fine and in time will understand your departure You will feel like you have been let out of jail😊🇨🇦 If you stay you will get ill and shorten your life Go for it. God wants you to be happy
My biggest problem is... I have to find a new job first but I have to find a new job first and give this job One month before enter the new and that's not easy... I am tired of Toxic and manipulative people around me... My boss, my co-workers...😭😭😭😭... I have a daughter and I can not leave the work just like I want...
Walking away from toxic dysfunctional people and situations whether your own family of origin, toxic dysfunctional love relationships, "Frienemies" or jobs is the hardest thing and can be very emotionally painful, but the bravest thing one can do for themselves! You are stronger than you think you are! Do what works for you and serves you! And remember, "Unto thine own self be true" written on the Gates of Delphi in ancient Greece and by the late great William Shakespeare! "knowledge is power"----self-empowerment!
Yes walking away is a decision that is very necessary but sometimes peep have a much more pull of bad luck to doing the same thing over again but first u should know u, communicate and dont be a player and b on the same page... admiring my prob for liking doing things later in life, just not on my phone using me then saying after meditation we broke up 4 days no this month for good but we r together... dont care but now saying I'm intimidating but my stolen car the bomb so take things step by step and stop sending peep to Darren's and Laura's Facebook to keeping checking on me... even ur bro....u had num, car, car car so do the right thing and live ur twining flavors of the day Cuz doing what u want will keep u young animals never stopping u Cuz I left with my eyes open and never looked baxk
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Therefore I walked away and refuse to acknowledge the mother of my kids. And I still got those kids btw.
I've done that with former family and friends. They KNEW they hurt you WHEN they did it. So "all in the past" is no excuse. It's futile to have the "last word" if they end up being shunned. They can "win" and STILL lose.
@@julianhudson9341 yep, she won a millionaire BF but I won the kids. She wanted the divorce and she got it but lost those kids. Now she look like she on damn meth. I stomped on her fairytale!!! She should have know my mind could not be defeated based on my background and what she knew about me. She can rot for all I care.
Yes! I have dignity being God's image and likeness, valuable for my Creator and Savior died for love of me. I will walk out from anything or creature that will not respect, love, support me.
Prepare yourself for something better soon. In the meantime, could take a class, have a garage sale, check out thrift shops for new work wardrobe, freshen your living space,
"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone NOT FOUND written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV) Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life. "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV) By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely.
It takes courage to walk away and not to regret it.
Atz right! It does take courage, to walk away, & to not look back!!🤟🔥💜🌎
@@sarahhurst140 exactly
I dont regret it .
@@spmoran4703 Neither do i. And courage is the key to life itself.
Walking away gives you peace.
I hope it gives to me
@@sonalikanda6515 it will
After the pandemic, I've learned a lot when dealing with people. I've slowly cut away from toxic ones and realize it's better to be alone than be with somebody who's toxic.
Thats very healthy
I'm taking tentative steps I feel pulled in two opposed directions. In need of recalibration of my common sense compass thanks 4 ur input
I agree 💯💯
Exactly. I completely agree.
After the pandemic i have learn that money can buy truth. 💲💲💲. But not love 😂😂😂💔💔💔
Walking away is being true to yourself , toxicity can ruin your life walking away is learning a lesson and moving forward 💐
Yeah, and my father thought I sinned when I tried it.. and my brother thought it was selfish of me but they’re toxic. I’m in a toxic relationship with my family and I’m going to walk away from it in a couple of weeks until I get things figured out.
I walked away from a job where the international company had lost its moral compass. No regrets, and coincidentally the company collapsed and went into receivership 3 days later. Never compromise your principles no matter how much pressure is put upon you.
We’re you able to apply for Unemployment Benefits?…Walking away often negates these…where Chapter 11 would not have.
No, I have money set aside so I don't need to claim off the state.
@@geoffcampbell7846 that’s great…good for you…but clearly not everyone is in this situation…so remain trapped..
I compromised with the vaccination mandates and regret it so much!!😡😒
@@surfside75 i lost my job and have too drive out of state in order too practice my healthcare.
Not just walking away, but knowing any other conversation is fruitless in some situations. Verbally walking away.
We should walk away from toxic jobs, families, friends and circumstances. If anyone criticizes THAT choice, walk away from THEM, too. And don't look back! 💯👍
Better to be alone then to have all backstabbers as company
Exactly! And better to BE alone than to WISH you were.
Solid advice right there!👍
Should be on a T-shirt😂
@@julianhudson9341 -never thought of it in this way. Thank you Julian❤️
Surfside75: Thanks for the compliment! ☺️ Makes me happier than a new pair of Jordans fresh out the box! I could put my comment on a t-shirt with my face on it and sell it on the street. Or I could write a 📚 with all my best material. I'll call it, "The Bald, Black Book of Wisdom." And it'll have the parental advisory label on it. I'd rather eat sugar than speak it! HA! 😉💯😎🥳
I have done this 3 times in my life and don't regret it. The first time was sticking to my decision and getting divorced. Second was when I quit my job and took another job for less pay. Most recently I stepped down from a management position in my company to go back to the trenches with everyone else. Each time I felt a sense of relief, but I never made the decision in haste.
People who are envious, angry, negative, hateful, arrogant are real signs of toxicity. The best thing that I did was cut ties with toxic & jealous people. Life for me is way much better. Good video!!!
also self centered centered, selfish people
I walked away from a job even though it paid slightly more than my current job, the energy spent fighting for doing what's right for customers and the rotating schedule (days, afternoons and graveyard shifts) exceeded my boundaries. Now, after having left, sleep better, work in a more positive environment, don't have rotating schedules... no regrets.
Mom always maintained that happiness in life depends on how much of precisely what you are willing to put up with. Truer words have never been spoken.
Thank you for this reminder.
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Please walk away from a toxic relationship BEFORE getting married. It will save you a trip to my office! Set firm boundaries. You can thank me later. Stay safe out there!
Very wise. Toxic people can destroy your live. They lie, manipulate, gaslight, deceive, have no boundaries, playing the victim if you do not want live the way they want. Get rid of them. And have the courage to tell them that you do not want to engage with them without feeling guilty or explaining yourself. People who treat you like trash, call you trash and simultaneously want to fuck you and own you need to be shown the door. Sort them out. 🤪
Don’t be afraid to walk away from anything that no longer adds value to your life.
It’s not that I’m afraid. It’s just because I feel like I’m being stopped. I need to have money to pay for a plane ticket and then I’ll travel solo to California.
I echo your sentiment but it's never that easy. Takes money for most to break away. Bills have to still be paid. Life isn't free. You got to eat. You might have kids who need to eat. That's how most abusers keep a strangle hold on a partner. It's sad but it's the reality. Takes a strong support system and patience from friends and family.
@@DelaneyParker101 You normally cannot expect a refund on plane tickets. So the situation is you either accept the terms and condition of your plane tickets or you leave it. Remember that you book a flight so you got to find value in something you originally invested in.
Discord, Twitch, people only communicating to monetize their BS... 🤣
I feel like it's better to walk away from a toxic person and just to live your life the way you want
Powerful move for ourselves, SELF LOVE ❤️
I just walked away from an ok job of almost 2 years. It was a number of inappropriate events before I finally broke! Now I'm broke, but glad I stepped away from the toxicity.
Right on. 👍👍👍
I very recently walked away from 1/4 million worth of home and all of my belongings .. now I’m a homeless veteran however I have a very comfortable income . Thank God I Walked Away With My Life and peace of mind .. I wholeheartedly agree that it’s a very courageous to walk away . Thank you for the content as ever . Many blessings 💖🕊
Health and peace of mind is everything. Good luck to you.
@@williamj1813 thank you William , peace and joy to you as well 🍁🍂
Be sure to get your name off the property and request credit files only in your name.
Your partner was using your resources for the quarter million dollar house. Hats off to you. You EARNED your way.
@@daisyy99 Good advice.
I just experienced the power of walking away and there is no going back.
Just 3 months ago, I walked away from my family, the video is a great healer from me, thanks a ton
Walk away! Time away will help you heal! Thank you. Yes, setting a boundary! Walk away, stay away! You are in charge of your life and happiness. Thank you !!🙏🏻✝️✝️😊😊❤️👍🏻🌹♥️💚
Walk on, don’t stay in the storm! It will become clear after you do. Leaving isn’t a terrible thing to do, however, staying is often times an excuse to be a victim. Walk on, one’s strength comes from courage.
I absolutely love this. I walked away from everything that was trying to steal my peace of mind. 🧘
Walking away is hard specially in a relationship with someone that’s stubborn, hurts more if kids are in the picture but at the end it’s best for everyone I think about my kids every day
Just walk away and there will be an end to the horror
And it was a horror.
@@spmoran4703 How was it a horror for you?
"I told my husband he should loose weight and suggested he run 2 miles a day......which was great because at the end of the week he was 14 miles away."....Jo Brand.
So, I watched this video and there were two sides, I watched it as both someone who was left behind and someone who walked away, it felt empowering to watch it as a latter one while it hurt a little being the one left abundant.
And I think I would like to leave this note for that side of mine who was left alone - It really is okay, sometimes we often fail to recognize that something in life is falling apart, and most of the time it's a favor that others do to us. It might feel somewhat hard to let go, however, it is the biggest lesson one could learn in life to live happily and peacefully. Being the one people walk away from allows you to introspect, grow, and learn from mistakes. And you deserve to be valued and appreciated, focus on yourself and you'll meet people of your kind.
Most importantly, walking away gives you an opportunity to regain your composure and to calm down. When you're angry or upset, it's best to take a few minutes (or even hours) to cool off before continuing the conversation. This will allow you to think more clearly and approach the situation from a more rational perspective. Excellent content from Brainy Dose!
This is so powerful. I love the part stay true to yourself.👍👍👍👍
💯
I’ll walk away before I allow my blood pressure to become elevated & I act out of character. When one door closes another one opens. Time to move on. Once you learn to liberate yourself from things that no longer serve you or disrupt your peace you’ll be iight. Mental health is important & change is constant. Act accordingly or get out of my way & leave me alone because it was one point in time to where I didn’t know you.💯💯
Peace
🕊🍃👁♾️☮️♾️👁🍃🕊
I walked away from a club I invested 19years in,it was one of the smartest things I ever did.
I needed to hear this , I have to walk away from my career as a glassblower . I have been suffering too long
Everything in this video is exactly spot on. & most important never ever never……walk away from Brainy Dose videos….life changing. ❤️
I walked away from my Toxic family years ago and I'm never going back.
I'm doing the same
Choose YOU! 💕
If you walk away from something toxic, you give yourself a shot at happiness. If you stay, that is how the rest of your life is going to be, miserable and unbearable.
This is a very under rated comment.
@@willdrivesu7914 I have heard stories of people who ended up finding their dream job (after a toxic work environment), a person who loved them back correctly (after an abusive relationship), etc. just because they had faith in a better future even though it didn't seem possible at first. If you walk away you will at least have a 50% chance of getting it. If you stay in something toxic you will 100% never get it.
Exactly
Hah! When you asked that 1st question, at the very beginning of this, my answer was, & still is, a resounding ALWAYS!! Had me not just walking away, from things/people, but also, shrinking away! But now, I've come out from that whole mess stronger, & fiercer, towards the cause of my goals which are ALL. extremely "in-true!" Thanks for this video! Hope everyone's evenings are greatly blessed! 🤟🌹💜🌎
I love being part of the Hurst extending family. Yr a keeper😁 Keep Positively Moving Forward.
@@surfside75So very much obliged, for your awesomely fine, kind, & encouraging words! All of which, are of the highest quality, & honors! Welcome, kindred spirit! Welcome, into my extending & otherwise orbit! Glad to have you here! Rock on, peace out, & be greatly blessed! Yay-usss!👍🤟👏💜🌹🌎
Another good video I needed. Time to walk away from a one-way friendship, for the most part. Thank you!
Facts
YES,i have decided to walk away.
It’s true it’s not healthy to be around negative people I don’t like negative behaviour patterns
I couldn't agree more.Tks
Nice.. i love this a lot.. thank you Sir
Yes it’s time to walk away from my past friends who do nothing but create drama . Like playing with my phone deleting friend request from my apps no time for childish behaviour s anymore. I don’t use my phone as much anymore I prefer face to face interactions. Even my workouts don’t use my phone .
Consider shutting down your social media accounts altogether. It’s toxic.
@@genxx2724 or limit your time on them.
@@jenniferhcsmith-5586 They are designed to be addictive, so shutting them down is the solution. Did you know FB even admitted to doing psychological experiments on users?
Right on time🥰thank you soo much ❤️🫶
I needed this thank you
Thank you,much needed
I walked away from my adult cousins. They didn't care about me. The aunt's and uncles have all died and the previous cousin relations were no longer there for me. Stoped sending Christmas cards to those old friends that turned me out of their lives.
I don’t have relationships with any of my cousins. It’s sad. When the elders die, I will have no family.
My story is similar. Hope that you are doing well!!
I sometimes walk away from a conversation or a person. Some people are just not worth talking to.
I walked away from a collegue and friend of 24 years who decided that stealing my intellectual property was ok. That exposed her toxic covert narcissist side which told me all I needed to know that it was time to walk away.
Great video. Just don’t run, walk away
Thanks for this video.
We don't need to respond to everything we hear and see. We don't owe someone an interaction just because we're in public. Just because others feel like listening doesn't mean we should speak. What we keep private or share is itself a private matter. Don't need to prove ourselves to others. We don't owe them an explanation anymore than we owe them our bank balance.
Use discernment and common sense when sharing details or getting involved in something. If someone can't speak without being nosy or finding fault, they'll find themselves alone. If someone will ask a nosy question but ignore your cries for help, they're using their voice as a weapon against you. Doing opposites like this is a form of control. It's dysfunctional and passive aggressive.
Some people speak when they shouldn't, but not when they should. If they keep making fools of themselves, it will come back to them one way or another. 💯
-Can we be friends🙃 and if not thanks again😂❤️
Fine with me. I've already subscribed to your channel. I just couldn't help myself. 😎
Would you call that instant karma? 🤔
I love how you explain that....Be mindful of how much of yourself you give to someone...Regardless of how they may feel.
Monty Mont: Thanks for the compliment. ☺️ If I don't get THEIR best, they don't get MINE. If they don't care about MY feelings, I don't care about THEIRS. I don't care if it's "vindictive" or not. My boundaries are not for others to dictate. 💯
Being left out is ok and feels like walking away. I'm preparing for a better time and mostly ready. Hurts a little. Nice to see this video and read the notes.
I'm the Walking away Queen.
No tolerance for dysfunctional bullshit.
It is ALWAYS okay to walk away!!
Great advice and information, thank you, this has helped me to get out of a toxic work situation and I feel so much better!
Powerful message .....❤
I have the POWER
WOW! This is an amazing video. Glad I'm subscribed to this channel.
This video should be taught to everyone as people are growing up and trying to make decisions for themselves.
I could have used this video during my high school years or college years.
Please keep making these!
I really needed this . what a blessing 🙌
I left a toxic job.. colleagues who became toxic and unable management.. ironically they ended up calling me back to that job but of course I refused!!
Hello were you able to
Find a new job?
@@smoothiecutie2277 Of course I found a new job..
@@giuliabaracchi463 I asked the question because some people leave without anything lined up (I’m not passing judgement). and others find a new job while still at the old one.
@@smoothiecutie2277 I'm not that kind of person.. I found the new job when I was still in the old one..
@@smoothiecutie2277 Anyone who were to work at the Amazon Fulfillment Center is going to want to quit even if nothing else is lined up.
Great video 👍 I tip my hat to all of us who are brave and want a life...to thrive,not just survive.
Excellent video!
Awesome video. I could relate to the points mentioned. Very enlightening and eye opening video.We are often forced to stay in wrong places and with toxic people as others don't think they are wrong or toxic. But we should listen to our innerselves and decide for us. It's like taking back our freedom..
I quit on the spot when I could no longer deal with a bad boss. Was at the company 23 years. Fortunately I had enough saved that I could retire. No regrets. Other employees wish they could do the same.
Hello. I just made 23 years in December 2022. Not quite near retirement but I have to “GET OUT NOW”. Hope that you are thoroughly ENJOYING your retirement.
Top video ever! 👍 😊
I used to have tonnes of "friends", these days I have very few and although I miss how it used to feel in the past, I do find it easier to be alone. Socialising usually disappoints me and at the end of a nigbt out I often think "is that it?". I think my break up three years ago has a lot to do with it too. My ability to connect is faulty, so I just avoid instead.
This was very helpful. Thank you.
It's so hard to set goals😭
I hate long family discussions and being told "Come back here!"when I leave the room. It's not good for me to stay in a toxic discussion. I sometimes hear "You're an adult. A kid does that" Those statements are toxic. I literally walk away from that environment. It makes me shrink and turn into a shell. When I literally walk away from long discussions I feel like myself more and more. I feel confident also. Walking away doesn't mean you're acting like a middle school kid. It means that you don't need to tolerate or suffer in a toxic family discussions. Whenever I wound up in a long discussion whether it's about money or anything I walk away.
I did but i whent back too keep the peace but you dont it only gets worse we need too tell our selfs and others if need be has we owe know one nothing
If you have reached the point of walking away everything else has been tried
Excellent
Leave your spouse if he/she shows no respect or love and spends you into poverty
Dont make excuses and don’t worry about the kids. They will be fine and in time will understand your departure
You will feel like you have been let out of jail😊🇨🇦
If you stay you will get ill and shorten your life
Go for it. God wants you to be happy
Very good advice.
My biggest problem is... I have to find a new job first but I have to find a new job first and give this job One month before enter the new and that's not easy...
I am tired of Toxic and manipulative people around me... My boss, my co-workers...😭😭😭😭... I have a daughter and I can not leave the work just like I want...
Raquel, of course is tuff but not impossible !!!
Be strong and you can
Exactly and it is often easier said than done. In many situations you can’t just walk away like that.
@@micasasucasa3829 not Impossible but I can't have that leap of faith without beeing secure first... I Will make it ❤️🙏
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj big fear to do that...
Great vid. Thanks 🙏🏾
Got to know when to go!
Walking away from toxic dysfunctional people and situations whether your own family of origin, toxic dysfunctional love relationships, "Frienemies" or jobs is the hardest thing and can be very emotionally painful, but the bravest thing one can do for themselves! You are stronger than you think you are! Do what works for you and serves you! And remember, "Unto thine own self be true" written on the Gates of Delphi in ancient Greece and by the late great William Shakespeare! "knowledge is power"----self-empowerment!
Break free...my teacher... 🌅💐
Straight facts yes I had to let go of a guy friend only he knows why but I had to no texting are nothing
Walking away is power and Strength 💪
I needed to hear this, thank you
Thank you 💜
Bravo. for. this video . . .
شكرا. على هذا الفيديو المفيد.
Cette vidéo est vraiment trés importante. . .merci .
Congrats on 2M
Thank you 😊
When people tell me they are atheist, I just walk away.
V sad,talk to them and try to enlighten them
I do too kinda gets tiring repeating even when we need the reminders 😪 that we're loved and are lovable ❤️ hay?
Insert Craig David - Walking Away 🎵
Love from Texas ❤️
Thank you
Yes walking away is a decision that is very necessary but sometimes peep have a much more pull of bad luck to doing the same thing over again but first u should know u, communicate and dont be a player and b on the same page... admiring my prob for liking doing things later in life, just not on my phone using me then saying after meditation we broke up 4 days no this month for good but we r together... dont care but now saying I'm intimidating but my stolen car the bomb so take things step by step and stop sending peep to Darren's and Laura's Facebook to keeping checking on me... even ur bro....u had num, car, car car so do the right thing and live ur twining flavors of the day Cuz doing what u want will keep u young animals never stopping u Cuz I left with my eyes open and never looked baxk
Thank you so much ❤🙏🏻😊
This is really really important
This is what people pass through everyday. Stand up for yourself camp 😜
Brainy.. you sir are Awesome.
-My future self says thanks again😂💸⛵️🥂
I WALKED AWAY FROM EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE, JUST GONNA LIVE IN A COUNTRY BRAZILIAN VILLAGE
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Therefore I walked away and refuse to acknowledge the mother of my kids. And I still got those kids btw.
I've done that with former family and friends. They KNEW they hurt you WHEN they did it. So "all in the past" is no excuse. It's futile to have the "last word" if they end up being shunned. They can "win" and STILL lose.
@@julianhudson9341 yep, she won a millionaire BF but I won the kids. She wanted the divorce and she got it but lost those kids. Now she look like she on damn meth. I stomped on her fairytale!!! She should have know my mind could not be defeated based on my background and what she knew about me. She can rot for all I care.
Not always when the operson as changed from their past self.
Yes! I have dignity being God's image and likeness, valuable for my Creator and Savior died for love of me. I will walk out from anything or creature that will not respect, love, support me.
I walked away and nothing better came along. I regret that decision now.
Prepare yourself for something better soon. In the meantime, could take a class, have a garage sale, check out thrift shops for new work wardrobe, freshen your living space,
@@daisyy99 I already do that stuff. It dosnt find a new a woman. It's been fifteen years at this point, so I'm planning on just staying single.
"And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works.
Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone NOT FOUND written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15 NKJV)
Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.
"For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him
should not perish but have everlasting life.
For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17 NKJV)
By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely.
No one is putting a gun on your head to make you stay..leave and live your life
Thank you 👍🏾❤️🛐
Your first MGTOW video. Congratulations.