How To BRUTALLY Show Your Ex You DON'T Care

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  • @opusandtarquez
    @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    If you’re struggling with your breakup, book a coaching session here ---> www.blackbookbasics.com/privatecoaching

  • @Flufero23
    @Flufero23 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    The best time is when you've moved on, and really DON'T care. How sweet it is.

  • @anthonyr7208
    @anthonyr7208 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    You don’t have to do anything but
    Walk away….. As soon as you walk away , you’re in control….

  • @Omnitrix8
    @Omnitrix8 2 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    R.I.P Opus (Marcus) and thank you for your knowledge.

    • @gaz9434
      @gaz9434 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What happened to him? I’m new to the channel

    • @Kuefo
      @Kuefo ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Rest in Power Coach Opus, fly high brotha 🤍🕊️

    • @Cluedup2399
      @Cluedup2399 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What happened too opus

    • @Omnitrix8
      @Omnitrix8 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gaz9434 he passed away

    • @Omnitrix8
      @Omnitrix8 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Cluedup2399 he is dead

  • @Shadow39X
    @Shadow39X 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Bottom line..your ex doesn't give a shit..if they did, they would be contacting you. Trust me...let the shit go and deal with it if it comes back around.

  • @mrkeitt
    @mrkeitt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    The evolution I've made in the 5 months since my ex fiancee left is phenomenal. Back in shape , bolted comfortably to no contact, meeting gorgeous women, and extremely confident again. I'm seeing this fine ass Italian female with green eyes and sexy as hell. Not too mention the dating depth chart is looking good. I'm proud af of myself and I know my ex is like wtf. She's watching my IG and I'm just living. Even had a post with the tatted chest out saying how much better I feel mentally and spiritually 🤣 I know that shit had her mad. It's actually true. To all those just starting No contact be strong. I'm a success story. It does get better. Just not over night. All the best 🙌🏾💪🏽

    • @georgehullan9083
      @georgehullan9083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      E

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      message him on WhatsApp

    • @Giovanni-01
      @Giovanni-01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big up yourself 🇯🇲 🇬🇧. Keep on moving forward

    • @MichaelGriffin-wv5tx
      @MichaelGriffin-wv5tx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That's what's up bro🦾

  • @jamesdeek7039
    @jamesdeek7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    She left me after 5 years.
    Claims I was emotionally abusive when I was really good to her. I adored her.
    And she wants both of us to move on.
    She isn't on social media either.
    Hurts but it is what it is.
    Goodbye Marie.
    My story goes on.

    • @bernardcozy8455
      @bernardcozy8455 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sounds like she is projecting.

    • @jamesdeek7039
      @jamesdeek7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@bernardcozy8455 what do you mean?
      One of my friends says it's classic blame shifting.
      Either way, she doesn't love me anymore, she's done with me.
      Hurts man

    • @jamesdeek7039
      @jamesdeek7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Mike Evangelista I'm sorry man. It's a real rough situation to be in. If you want to talk feel free to reach out.
      Honestly we cant control their decision. We can control ourselves though. I've been doing nothing but the gym

    • @Halogalandwanderer
      @Halogalandwanderer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same situation with me but it was 6 months ago. I know it’s probably redundant but it does get better with time. First month was by far the roughest. Try to put that pain into something positive brother. Something that you love. They don’t love us we gotta love ourselves

    • @jamesdeek7039
      @jamesdeek7039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Halogalandwanderer been going hard at the gym for awhile now. Making progress.
      I've come to accept the reality. It hurts real bad though, real bad. I miss her laugh and her tiny nose I would kiss like a piece of porcelain. But she doesn't want me in her life, I have to respect that

  • @WOODY-REBEL
    @WOODY-REBEL 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    These guys know what's up. Always stacked with very true and insightful content.

  • @ThePrimeStudiosOfficial
    @ThePrimeStudiosOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Went from 235 while with her now I’m 216 Solid !

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

    • @Stimmy_2_raw723
      @Stimmy_2_raw723 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How long did it take you to do that?

    • @ThePrimeStudiosOfficial
      @ThePrimeStudiosOfficial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      2 years later and I met the love of my life!

  • @h2oboi531
    @h2oboi531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Black book basics is on point. “Keep it Cool & Classy.” They’re expecting a negative reaction from you to justify the break up, DON’T give them that satisfaction. A calm, gentlemen response throws them off

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👊🏾

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up........

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up........

  • @nkhulisenipatrickmudau6921
    @nkhulisenipatrickmudau6921 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mentally, Physically, and Spiritually... Im on a whole different energy now. Grateful for her deciding to shut me out. If it wasnt her ghosting me.. would have never merge up. Although she did text me after a month.. i laugh it off and moved

  • @vidfan1973
    @vidfan1973 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Guys I love the walk by HEY. It does show cool & classy AND I got "stuff to do" all in one go.

  • @SR20tony
    @SR20tony 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I swear y’all post right in time shit is on point

  • @miami7446
    @miami7446 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The ones that never speak to you again, you never forget them. Never contact them ever again. What helped me drive that need is to rely and focus on the contempt and dislike you even have for them as an individual, let alone a partner.

    • @creativejay8364
      @creativejay8364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,...

    • @georgehullan9083
      @georgehullan9083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *whatspp him now...*

    • @georgehullan9083
      @georgehullan9083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      E

  • @troyX
    @troyX 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    The boys are back 💪😎 Found your channel a few days ago, loving the content so far!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much love Troy!!

    • @gracelasy1650
      @gracelasy1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman. I was helped by Dr favour he can also help you out too

    • @gracelasy1650
      @gracelasy1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *whatspp him now...*

    • @gracelasy1650
      @gracelasy1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *✝2349156496383⏯*

    • @gracelasy1650
      @gracelasy1650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *✝2349156496383⏯*

  • @samanthalocklear1639
    @samanthalocklear1639 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ignored him for 1 day & he’s been with someone every since

  • @stephenespinoza3422
    @stephenespinoza3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My ex/bm has been disrespectful to me at times and I treat her with kindness and silence. I’ve been on my A game being there for our child, now she blows up my phone with texts messages, I’ve found out that she invited my mom to her moms birthday party just recently, may I remind you she’s in a relationship with another guy. I’m very cool and classy. I’m just happy that I’ve grown into a better person. I think she’s noticing the grass wasn’t greener on the other side.

  • @Officialcg79
    @Officialcg79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Just started the video an noticed yall are at 15k subs! Proud of yall fellas. I was here at 2k. On the road to a milly!!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So your one of our day 1’s pretty much !!!
      Thanks for your support brotha. 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

  • @roboboytoy
    @roboboytoy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The part about the yellow pages cracked me up😂😂.
    Rip Opus🙏

  • @dikawf2321
    @dikawf2321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Respect boys!! from London 🇬🇧

  • @ablone
    @ablone 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wish I had found you guys sooner, but hey better late than never

  • @dnzwill
    @dnzwill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Who Dey! Can’t believe y’all mentioned my Bengals. On top of that I’m in the exact situation y’all talking about. It’s all good tho I’m focused on me . She’ll be back and then I’ll make the decision if we should continue moving forward or not. Keep working hard fellas.

  • @TreMelo-kd2or
    @TreMelo-kd2or 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    You guys are really great coaches

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow. Thank you Tre.

    • @TreMelo-kd2or
      @TreMelo-kd2or 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The part about working on yourself and improving oneself loosing weight making gains making that promotion getting that raise becoming self sufficient is huge to regaining the self confidence to make the new Tre 3.0. Makes it easier to walk away and give them what they wanted which is the break up.

  • @gregorysmith1140
    @gregorysmith1140 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fellas keep everything in your life King Size which means you have everything that your life that you need just in case a break up occurs! First be of sound mind so your confidence level stays intact and the keep your resources to there highest levels so when she leaves it’s always your gain and her loss!! Women come and go but what you’ve worked hard for doesn’t so with that being said always stay focused gents!

  • @ryanreagan6073
    @ryanreagan6073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Some guys have absolutely no self-respect they deserve to go back

  • @joshjaffery8404
    @joshjaffery8404 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol I love the venting segment around minute 13! Going through the yellow pages, that was awesome!

  • @decklensworld1755
    @decklensworld1755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Omg, y’all crack me up! As a women that doesn’t have much dating experience I’ve decided to get advice from men so I’ll be successful in the future. Thanks guys for the great content!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Absolutely. These videos are for men and women

  • @Redpillsteven
    @Redpillsteven 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love you guys keep it up you’re very needed in the male community 🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, we appreciate the support !!!
      💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @JJJose-uj5ui
    @JJJose-uj5ui 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you guys. Very helpful

  • @agbordaniels
    @agbordaniels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brethren... the instrumental in the background is perfect pls do not change it unless you found something better.

  • @kuy9314
    @kuy9314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Day 31 no contact, guess who is dubble texting me now. But I know its breadcrumbing she isn’t saying significant things so I just keep ignoring 💯

    • @zoepaterson8785
      @zoepaterson8785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Any update?

    • @kuy9314
      @kuy9314 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      After like 40 days of her sending breadcrumbs I decided to block her on whatsapp. In the meanwhile she was watching stories and sending me follow request twice on Instagram. I declined both. No time to deal with this kind of childish behavior. I mean if you have no message to say then why even bother to watch my page. I’ve moved on with my life I’m somewhere round day 180 of no contact. I am at the point of not wanting anything to do with her I am focused on me now. Never settle with disrespect. No respect means no love. ! 💯

    • @zoepaterson8785
      @zoepaterson8785 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kuy9314 love this! Thanks for the update🥰

  • @velox_vx
    @velox_vx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really needed this

  • @inspiredx3866
    @inspiredx3866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Funny the last points are so true

  • @themanman165
    @themanman165 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sleeping with someone just makes u sad when u realize it’s not your ex it’s some chick that shit makes it worse not better makes u miss them more not less

    • @ah2552
      @ah2552 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True

  • @johnm8538
    @johnm8538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🦈🦈🦈🤣👍 Life is good!!! I have my power back "huge power" back these days and it's a blast. Thank you!!🦶😎...next.

  • @cbcarlson5008cc
    @cbcarlson5008cc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Brothers yet another one , damn yall good . I can tell you this with all the ones male and female going threw this best believe your time and attention must be earned . Don't brush them off if you want them back ay it cool do you or like I say , be like Murphy. Level the fuck up . Stay strong . The tables will turn on them , and you will look like the prize sooner then you think . Stay thirsty sharks 🦈

    • @kingsleyadmiral3444
      @kingsleyadmiral3444 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2349063731650⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️
      Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....

    • @cbcarlson5008cc
      @cbcarlson5008cc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kingsleyadmiral3444 get off of TH-cam scammer I already reported you

  • @JayDeeChannel
    @JayDeeChannel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good advice. Thank you.

  • @mamietarawally2037
    @mamietarawally2037 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I luv ur channel, you do have great contents. I'm a girl but most of these teachings apply to ladies too. I'm also trying to learn from the male point of view.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      what we say definitely works both ways for guys and girls.
      Thanks for watching, we always appreciate women support.
      Opus

    • @creativejay8364
      @creativejay8364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ±2349155456106⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,...

    • @georgehullan9083
      @georgehullan9083 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      *whatspp him now...*

  • @donatoiacovino6968
    @donatoiacovino6968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video gentlemen

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Much appreciated Donato.

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      message him on WhatsApp

  • @astheticgirl4684
    @astheticgirl4684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Damn you guys are good. I'm glad I found this channel. I definitely hit that SUBSCRIBE BUTTON!! This channel is gonna blow up!!

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We appreciate your support KT. !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @narcvanquisher
    @narcvanquisher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    By reading them their rights on their way out. Then ignore the fuq outta em and burn everything that reminds you of them.

  • @anamericanman
    @anamericanman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Um, the way is to not care, and then the showing part will take care of itself.

  • @grantoldblueeagle
    @grantoldblueeagle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspirational thank you chaps really appreciate your help

  • @cliffordschaffer4684
    @cliffordschaffer4684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Going on 2 months no contact working on myself & now seeing other woman thats wanting my attention

  • @innovativeentertainment4412
    @innovativeentertainment4412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I left this comment on another one of your videos, but sniff fresh coffee grounds. A good majority of reason that people miss their exes is because of pheromone withdrawal. And pheromone receptors are deep in the nasal cavity. Just like a wine connoisseur resets their flavor palate for wine tasting by sniffing fresh coffee grounds, psychological studies have shown that sniffing fresh coffee grounds also reset pheromone receptors in your nasal passages too.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good point. It’s why they have coffee grounds at fragrance counters as well.

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      message him on WhatsApp

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

  • @gregclark9733
    @gregclark9733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No lies here

  • @kuy9314
    @kuy9314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    After 33 days of no contact on my ex and only getting bs texts leading nowhere I decided to Block her on whatsapp. Believe me it feels so good now you have no idea. Im not dealing with bs girls like that. And guess what. The universe sended a baddie to me showing way more respect and appreciation. BE HIGH VALUE DON’t tolerate SHIT!! Thats the only way to attract a beautifull high value women !

    • @euniceuwode4739
      @euniceuwode4739 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You obviously get it !!! 💪🏽💪🏽🦈
      Good job Kaan!!!

    • @kuy9314
      @kuy9314 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@opusandtarquez Thanks to you guys! Shark-mentality is key 🔑

  • @virgilcas3503
    @virgilcas3503 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if they have a son and it’s his birthday coming up but he don’t got a father and he looked up to me as one.

  • @broflo3875
    @broflo3875 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My side chick dumped me because she believes I "wasn't interested in her", which is completely false.

  • @kimmichaud4064
    @kimmichaud4064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does this apply to woman dealing with their ex man ? He ghosted my ass after 2.5 years together

  • @UstashaMe84
    @UstashaMe84 ปีที่แล้ว

    After no contact, we ran into each other. I could feel eyes burning the side of my face so I looked over at her and she looked directly into my eyes.. we were locked in… I eventually just calmly broke eye contact and continued on. She didn’t look angry or nervous. I still wonder wtf that was all about. We are in a position that we will eventually run into each other from time to time so I wonder if that will be a thing. She dumped me so much don’t get it? Anyone?

    • @I-Am-Wonderful
      @I-Am-Wonderful 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One tip, do not brake eye contact first. It shows submission and weakness. You are the man, so hold the eye contact next time OR do not even look her way at all and ignore her completely. Either way.

  • @lancedamons5175
    @lancedamons5175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    South Africa Cape Town Sleazeball gang✌

  • @SupereagleChannel
    @SupereagleChannel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Question... what happened, if the cause of the breakup is beecause you did not give her enough attention. I chose my side hustles over her for years

    • @FearNvl
      @FearNvl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She'll be back...they always come back. Might take a year but She'll definitely try again

  • @sergiomartinez8001
    @sergiomartinez8001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago and I started no contact right away , we didn’t text at all but she did reach out on my bday but I kept it simple and short , went back to no contact and a month later it was her bday so I did the same I thought since she reach out to tell me happy bday I thought I would do the same but now hearing that I shouldn’t idk if that was the right move and this was just last week , she did reply and said thank you so again no contact , I haven’t really been on social media but i have posted things and she’s always watching my stories , I haven’t watch hers at all for the same reason I don’t want to see what she’s up to .

  • @Jediknight4jc
    @Jediknight4jc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I unfriended mine from Facebook. I didn't see any need to stay "friends" with her because I walked away and I'm done.

  • @kimmichaud4064
    @kimmichaud4064 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Glad I watched this his birthday was yesterday and I didn't say happy birthday wasn't sure if I did the right thing but guess I did 🤣

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You did the right thing Kim.

    • @phantom0063
      @phantom0063 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      His birthday was 2 days ago as well and I was not going to say happy birthday. His frat reached out asking why didn’t say HP and why wont I find it in my heart to forgive and talk to him. Man please!! Hes not hurting, that clown has a nice supply. Yeah it hurts but time will bring change.

  • @stevenlee88
    @stevenlee88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What do you guys suggest I did no contact she contacted 3 weeks later. I went down and we did the business. Then she said she cant see me no more because she'll always want more. So I said if she wanted to take things slow am open to that I wouldn't want to rush into anything. She said no. So I told her never to contact me again. She hasn't in the last week. Will she contact again...

  • @channelinghart8335
    @channelinghart8335 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video💖 & what did y’all call Indiana?!? 🤣🤣 👂

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m not repeating that! 🤣😭

  • @Don-pk2uy
    @Don-pk2uy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys have grown fast congrats!!! 😳

  • @draggytm377
    @draggytm377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My ex my damn neighbor, we literally live a couple seconds away

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good luck with that one. 🤟🏾

    • @jayy2hott557
      @jayy2hott557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opusandtarquez man wat 😂😂😂

    • @thomasdiep3524
      @thomasdiep3524 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao same😂😂😂

  • @coreybeats3335
    @coreybeats3335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kick rocks with no socks !!!!!!!

  • @Officialcg79
    @Officialcg79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Calling random numbers to vent to lmaoooooo

  • @christopherengland654
    @christopherengland654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey I love the content, keep up the good work. I have been ignoring my ex (although we work at the same job) because if she's in a "rebound" relationship while trying to talk to me....that new thing won't grow so I'm going to stay silent and let her blossom with him while I blossom in the gym. She has told me that she still wants me but I ain't with all that. The weird thing is her friends.......these girls/women told her that they don't like me but when my ex is not around they STARE a lot. Why is that when they told my ex not to mess with me anymore?
    **I be feeling like a lamb walking near a pack of female wolves**

  • @valtersantos8880
    @valtersantos8880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's there lost!

  • @michaeljcox24
    @michaeljcox24 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being needy aint attractive, all men in here need to be alphas who can deal with their woman leaving them, focused on their purpose.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      This guy knows what’s up !!! 👆🏽
      💪🏽💪🏽🦈

  • @johnorack25
    @johnorack25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Lol, she called me last week asking how I was talking about her and stuff that wasn't true and my response was: "I don't even talk about you".
    Then, smh, she started asking how I was or my family, that if I landed a job and I cut her off: "Are you done with the questions?" And hung up... SHE WAS AN ASS AFTER THAT BREAKUP.

  • @FelineTechFrenzy
    @FelineTechFrenzy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do we need an ex back? Come on people, there are 8 billion souls on this planet and you still want an ex back. I never wanted an ex back. Get a new life bro

  • @traviss977
    @traviss977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Seems like no ex comes back according to the comments. Does walking away really work to get them back?

    • @leeemufasgmailcom
      @leeemufasgmailcom 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for 4months . All thanks to Mr Ali whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 3days..

  • @1990chula
    @1990chula 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is possible to get an ex back after 7 years of brake up? I still feel like I miss him even tho he’s dating someone new he rebounded is dating her for 2-3 years I’ve been single did the fwb with few guys but non were serious I do be tabs on ex sometimes

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s always a possibility. But after seven years, The first thing you may have to ask yourself before anything is, what is it about him, and can you do better?

  • @rearams5206
    @rearams5206 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do you greet your ex if you pass her on the street ?

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Why not? Just keep it brief, cordial and classy.

    • @rearams5206
      @rearams5206 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@opusandtarquez
      I did greet her
      But one time she just passed me in the park without greeting me... I think I should stop cause she might think i still want her while am a Shark 🦈

  • @goodtasteofmusic5735
    @goodtasteofmusic5735 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Need advice…. Had a relationship of almost 8 years, she broke up with me (lots of discussions, sometimes talked bad to each other)… i made the mistake of writing her a letter after 3 weeks of no talking, she reaffirmed her decision to me… now im starting to work on myself (no contact rule) but i dont know if its to late because of the letter i gaved her…. Is it still possible she might come back in a while if im improving myself?

    • @cipryan96
      @cipryan96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Move on

    • @ogechiweli1118
      @ogechiweli1118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello dear do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you love dearly?

    • @ogechiweli1118
      @ogechiweli1118 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can message the great man who helped me bring back my ex after many months of separation

  • @caponeTV
    @caponeTV 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SW Detroit 313

  • @joshah7627
    @joshah7627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Everybody wants to see this Gillian pic lol

  • @Giovanni-01
    @Giovanni-01 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm happy with her feeling and knowing she can't return.

  • @Jabbare90
    @Jabbare90 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this still applies to casual sex partners?

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      message him on WhatsApp

  • @rajrj3117
    @rajrj3117 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I got feelings for my friend and she also loved me, we were very close to each other and one day we had a conversation about our relationship and she told we should be dating, otherwise we should not be this close, But at that time we both we not ready for a commitment or a relationship. What we were doing at that time was trying to take our friendship to next level. And she got stressed because of it and she ignored me after that.
    I'm now in no contact and it's been 30days of no contact. (we are in the same college so we just see each other we won't talk)
    What should I do to get her back?.

    • @stefbaws
      @stefbaws 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Find another bish

  • @anthonyr7208
    @anthonyr7208 ปีที่แล้ว

    Which one is Opus?

  • @nonserviam1580
    @nonserviam1580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I just change my phone number

  • @terronb
    @terronb 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Y’all are crazy 🤣🤣😭😭

  • @malcky9696
    @malcky9696 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🦈💪

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      🦈🦈

    • @malcky9696
      @malcky9696 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great content guys 👌

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We really appreciate that

    • @malcky9696
      @malcky9696 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Appreciate you guys helped me through a bad spot, showed me the errors of my ways and feel way better. Still watch for more knowledge and points of view for the future and to help out friends in the same spot. Now when something crops up ie new supply options ex stalking social media i already know what to do. Keep up the good work guys. 👍

  • @theveryplumdarcey
    @theveryplumdarcey 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    "Scientifical fact?" Is that a word?

  • @mkingz1697
    @mkingz1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great Video..... How do you deal with an Ex that has a restraining order in place towards you but keeps blowing up your phone??? Thats my situation....

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I guess it would depend on what your goal is.

    • @mkingz1697
      @mkingz1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@opusandtarquez Well my goal is to get her back but I don't want to risk going to jail... My therapist said its risky because if we come to a disagreement one time she can simply decide to switch on me and get me in trouble with the law... So I am not sure how I should handle such situation..... Any advice?

    • @matthewphilipp6115
      @matthewphilipp6115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mkingz1697 if she wants you back she'll get rid of the restraining order and see you.

    • @mkingz1697
      @mkingz1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matthewphilipp6115 you are right about that

    • @mkingz1697
      @mkingz1697 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@matthewphilipp6115 I also made it clear to her that if she doesnt get rid of it she should not contact me so.she has a choice cause I've been ignoring her every time due to the order

  • @CH-eb1rn
    @CH-eb1rn 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    JC Penny lmao

  • @ToneLeontheDon
    @ToneLeontheDon 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    REALLY? THE PURE EVIL BONUS IS DON'T REACH OUT ON THE HOLIDAYS!? C'MON MAN THAT WAS EXTRA WEAK! or maybe I'm just pure evil idk.

    • @opusandtarquez
      @opusandtarquez  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tony you’re a savage! 😈

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      100 % CORRECT DO NOT REACH OUT TO THEM NO CONTACT RADIO SILENCE.

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      message him on WhatsApp

    • @hajaramuhd7750
      @hajaramuhd7750 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

  • @ameermohammed8675
    @ameermohammed8675 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    #1