r/EntitledPeople - Psycho Karen Finds Out I'm ULTRA RICH! Wants Me Dead!
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- r/entitledpeople - OP tells a story about her entitled Karen sister, who finds out that dad's rich and is after his money. When the entitled Karen realizes that she won't get the money until after he's gone, she gets mad and takes matters into her own hands. It gets worse. Subscribe for future stories.
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Entitled People Stories in this episode of r/entitledpeople:
0:00 - Intro
0:30 - Story 1 (BuckDaddy420)
4:30 - Story 2 (Panzersage)
8:15 - Story 3 (JayW.)
13:49 - Story 4 (sarah_A)
16:32 - Story 5 (dragonredx)
24:44 - Story 6 (Beginning_Jaguar)
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I had a coworker whose wife was a nurse. She took on the job of full time nurse for a wealthy older woman that had only a couple of months left to live. She nursed the woman back to health and became her traveling companion. They went everywhere. My coworker was welcome on all the trips. He would use all his vacation time to go on trips. Now the good part. All of the grand kid's and some of the other relatives were extremely mad that she was alive. She was worth millions. I retired and knew she had been alive eight years after she was supposed to be dead. Still traveling.
Story 3 - Congratulations to OP for beating cancer and for proposing and marrying a good woman who truly loves you. You deserve happiness.
I agree with what you said in the end. People who want everything deserve nothing, and the people who don’t expect anything deserve the world.
When my aunt was rushed to the emergency room, there was an ambulance chaser at her side when she was recovering. My uncle threw him out and told him “if you don’t want a black eye, stay the hell away from my wife!”
Story 3 reminded me of another one where OP's daughter abandoned him while he was fighting cancer. Years later, she came to his old house, expecting it to be hers now, only to find out OP was alive and well, having defeated the cancer, sold the house, and that he was going to spend all his money on himself for the remainder of his life (he was in his 60s) and not leave a single cent to her.
Yep I remember that story.
By any chance do you have the link to that story?
@@seiun7833 Can't put any links here, but the video title is "Daughter Abandoned Me When I Was Battling Cans*r. Two Years Later, She Showed Up Thinking I Was De*d Expecting to Inherit Everything That I Have."
Story 3: Absolutely marry her! As your wife, even intestate, your wife is recognized as your heir. This simply puts the nail into the family's coffin.
After all, the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.
If OP is smart he won’t tell anyone he changed his will, not his family not his wife. That info needs to stay between him and his lawyer.
@@bautistaloverthe best thing to do is leave them with $1, so they can’t contest the will
@@CT-1035 at this point it’s not even about being able to contest. He needs to do what needs to be done and tell no one. Even spouses change once they know how much they can inherit.
Story 3: Nephew wants a Porsche for 18th birthday?
Does he want a Matchbox or Hot Wheels?🤣
😂😂
Oh, that is what I call malicious compliance.
Yep OP should definitely get nephew the car he wants. I lean more towards Hot Wheels. This way OP gives him the box and says, "Enjoy your new Hot Wheels."
Or maybe one of each if he can find a Matchbox one in a different color. And tell him you weren't sure what color he'd prefer.
Hot Wheels. Better quality. Plus, they usually have more detail on their toys.
@@antonyduhamel1166 Can't argue that point.
Story 1 - I love OP’s Pops, he tore those greedy idiots a new one. And good on George for cutting ties with his greedy family who only want the grandma’s money.
Pop was an absolute BOSS! 😎👍
Pop was an absolute BOSS!
Story 3: It was more than just a dumb comment from the nephew. The family acted disappointed over OP not dying, OP was used as a cash cow over time, and the mom was not congratulating OP for the engagement, instead arguing about inheritance. That isn't going to get you anything.
They tried to kill the golden goose, but got the same result in the end, nothing.
@@meh2510 *and
"When the cheese is on the table, that's when the rats come out."
Best answer here is to leave the entitled lil shits $1
Hearing the part of op talking to their mom made me suspect that she’s in on it or something.
S4: He is a father and parents would certainly love their children regardless. But if my child had tried to kill me on purpose just so they can get some money out of me, they would be kicked out of my life, off my will, and on the street with nothing. I’d say he’s either a very, very loving and caring father, or a very, very delusional father for continuing to love someone who tried to literally kill him.
Yes and what stands out for me is that could have been a slow, painful death spending a lot of time in the hospital. I can't imagine living with myself if I did that to an enemy. She did that to her loving father. Truly heartless and completely lacking in humanity and any scrap of compassion.
Yeah if nothing else, he should significantly reduce her inheritance. Call it a butthole tax
About that, i think it isn't delusional at all it's just what happens when someone is your spoiled entitled brat and you are main enabler. This issue should tick OP, if his sister can do that to their father, she can also do it to him...
Maybe dad needs to see the video in order for it to really sink in😮??? I hope OP tells psycho sis that if he had died, she would get nothing but a jail sentence. Even if she got out for good behavior, still nothing😢!!!!
A half hour of entitled people?! What did we do to deserve this treat 🎉
It is funny, and much of it is probably true, but remember we're only getting one side of the story.
@@E3ECO Yeah I know reddit is the thirst trap of forums, but good fanfic is just as good as real shiddy experience.
A half hour, yes, but he reposted a couple of stories in order to make a collection of inheritance entitlement stories.
@@meh2510 dun dunkididshaw. Tn chh.
@@KrakenIsland64 Did you fall asleep on your keyboard? 😄
Last story reminds me of a tiktok I saw of a mom yelling at her kids dad for only bringing McDonald's for his kid and not her other kids while the other kids dad was chillin on the couch. "I support my kid, not his."
Sh!t. I’m not dead and my “family” did this to me. I haven’t talked to them in 7 years. Life is so good without them.😊
First things first. Change your will. Secondly inform family that they will get nothing. I've seen too many episodes of MURDER SHE WROTE to believe that you should do otherwise.
@@Galaxy1001D Right!!Same here.
DNA only makes you related it doesn't make you family
Family get very vulture-y with assets and money. Many families are horrible....
In story 3, the fiancee deserves the world & OP's family deserves nothing!!
Agreed
Except for the OP, they seem nice
give them each a dollar so they can't fight the will. leave everything to the new wife.😈
@@brianmcgill1290that's exactly what I was going to suggest!
@@brianmcgill1290 I believe the family will fight it at court. And you can guarantee they will say anything bad about OP fiance in front of judge, real or make up.
One ironclad way to shut them up is to have a child of his own. His fiance age of 38 years is quite old for child bearing, so OP shall rush and contact fertility clinics about have a child. With his own child as sole inheritor, the family will have no chance at court for disputing OP decision.
We don't know what OP and his fiance think about having a child, but having a child of their own is a "nuke from orbit" over inheritance dispute with families.
Final Story - Definitely NTA. The money is rightfully OP’s and therefore it’s his to do with what he wants. If OP wants to help his step siblings then that’ll be HIS choice, not his mom’s or stepfather’s.
well i hope you pay your mum and dad back for rise you , have you .
Parents don't get paid back for raising their children, they didn't ask to be born. That's asinine.@@jeanniecorn2632
He is a the AH. 100% AH.
The part that stands out to me is that they're expecting the OP to pay for his step siblings' college - and we're talking kids that are old enough that a responsible parent would already have started college funds for them.
OP should be like, "Okay, I'll give each of them 10% of whatever is in their college funds by the time I have access to the money." Because unless stepdad steps up his game, well... 10% of zero is zero.
@@recycledapathy7411 You aren’t very bright aren’t you? How are you supposed to start a college fund when living paycheque to paycheque to take care of your kids?
OP is a selfish cvnt.
If step-father is so hard done by, then why did he remarry after his wife died? He needed a maid/housekeeper/nanny is why. Raising and providing for children is the parents' responsibility, not a step-sibling's responsibility. It was their legal responsibility to put a roof over your head, clothes on your back, and food in your stomach, but it is NOT your responsibility to pay them back, pay their bills, or tend to HIS child's medical or emotional needs. When you turn 19, run as fast as you can, as far away as you can.
OP may has sympathy over his step siblings, but it is OP's prerogative. But with the way his mom and her husband pushing it, all the sympathy may already evaporated.
The way that entitled people show their true colors when someone close to them dies absolutely horrifies me every time. I remember when my grandmother died, my parents, aunts, and uncles all turned into a bunch of vultures, fighting with each other to walk away with as much profit as possible. I still have to sue my own parents one day because they spent years working with slimy lawyers to gain possession over mine and my brother's inheritance left by my grandfather when he passed.
You may want to consult with a lawyer and find out what the statute of limitations are for that sort of lawsuit. From what I understand, you can only bring lawsuits within a certain time frame, usually somewhere around 3-5 years of when the action that you are suing over happened. So if you wait on it for too long you may not be able to sue them at all.
Story 2: I hope Phil considers making some changes to his will given the attitude of SIL.
Personally, I'd be telling SIL that she has three options:
1. Keep her mouth shut about how I spend MY hard earned money, apologize in front of the whole family for her rude entitled bratty behavior and actually mean the apology, stop demanding more money for trips/extras that are not needed, and I will leave her section of my will intact and continue to fund her schooling.
2. She stops complaining about how I spend my money, doesn't apologize in front of the whole family for her rude entitled bratty behavior, and I will cut a cheque for what the remainder of her schooling, rent, and basic monthly expenses will be for her to finish her schooling plus 3 months of rent in an average apartment, and this will be the last bit of money that I will give her until my will is read.
3. She continues as she has with the complaints about how I spend my money, doesn't apologize, continues to demand more money, and I will cut off the free money supply and instead give her 1 month of school fees/rent/expenses, and then she is FULLY cut off ALL financial support from me & I will be seriously considering changes to my will about who gets what IF anything at all.
A good lesson is to not bite the hand that feeds/clothes/provides everything you need.
Story 3: OP needs to talk to their dad about putting a clause in their will about how if they are killed by one of their children or someone working on their behalf, then the other child gets the FULL inheritance.
Given her entitlement and her chosen profession (lawyer), Phil should absolutely make sure that he gets a non-family member as his power of attorney and executor of his estate.
I went to OP's Reddit and boy is that SIL entitled. Apparently the FIL gets season tickets to the family's favorite football and baseball teams and takes at least one of his kids to a game. Well, after his divorce from SIL's mother, SIL went to her dad's house when he wasn't there and took the season tickets. When he went to get them for a game he was going to, he found them missing. I forgot how he found out his youngest daughter took them but he confronted her and she told him her mother deserved them and should've gotten them in the divorce. Well, he got them back!!
Story 1 is DISGUSTING all over money. SMH I’m glad op got to witness the grandson standing up for himself sadly it was against his own mother
Story 1 ...sounds like my family, well im the executor of my grandmother's estate and my birth mother and my granny havent seen each other for well over 4 decades...im waiting for that Karen to pop up and shes gonna get a rude awakening. (Was raised by my granny because my bm abandoned me at 4mo old!)
I'm a little scared for when my father passes away because my brother is the executor and he hates me and is a Karen, not the male version he's the female version of a Karen. And he's a lawyer.
My grandfather had my mom listed as the executor of his will over his 3 kids if my grandmother died before him ( he was my mom's step-dad). He trusted her more and he didn't even raise her, she was 20 when he married her mom.
@@seshthecat I'll pray for ya.....that's gonna be one messy situation!
@@LegendStormcrow It's obvious that his father didn't have his Will signed and filed by a Probate Attorney....no wonder your friend got screwed by hyenas. But that's still not worse imo, js.
@@TheDevilishDesires They didn't follow a will. And yes, being kicked out of a house by literal gunpoint is worse.
Story 5: I'm glad OP doesn't actually need the inheritance and is fine on their own thanks to the mom being a good person, but dang at least OP's mom not have her wedding changed like that, or let OP at least attend the will reading.
The spoiled aunt did neither of those and basically told OP to f off, and now she has near-absolutely nothing and now she has the minimum.
As for the war medals, I hope they had no monetary value if Clive sold the medals, at least have some petty karma there
Story 3: I'm glad that so-called mother's talking skills suck. That was an excellent sales pitch for OP's idea to never talk to his family again.
Yep. And the plus is that OP has enough money to buy a new home for when he and his fiancee get married, change phone numbers, block people on social media, and completely vanish, never informing the family of any of it - not even inviting them to the wedding.
Your step siblings have no relationship with your father. He left that money for you. Keep it for tax your father wanted.
Story 1, if that had been my grandmother, I would have been ready to move in with her. I've always been a farm/country girl at heart. Place sounds like a dream come true.
I spent a lot of summers with my aunt and uncle at their farm I loved it. My grandparents lived on a lake so when not at the farm we were at the lake lol 😅 story book childhood
I think you’re half right. It’s a dream. Who would go out in public and hold a loud conversation in front of family and say that stuff? No one. Karen’s always feel entitled, but they don’t pull that garbage in front of witnesses so they can lie through their teeth when the police are called.
Story 4: Well sis, you'll never inherit now.
There is a legal doctrine that you cannot benefit from your own wrong-doing. In this case it would mean that the sister would be legally barred from inheriting if she caused her father's death.
Sounds like the dad didn't disinherit her
@@yaqbulyakkerbat4190 It doesn't matter if dad doesn't disinherit her, the brother can challenge the will. As mentioned above, it's basic legal doctrine in the US and most Western nations that you cannot profit from crimes you may have committed.
@@jameygroves8561yeah but the father didn’t die from her crime. So if he dies naturally in a few years then wouldn’t that mean the sister was able to still inherit as she didn’t cause his death?
@@Outnumberedbykidsandcats No, her crime is an attempt to kill her father for the inheritance. At sentencing upon conviction a generally included provision is that she would be barred from ever inheriting. Again it is the doctrine that prohibits you from profiting from a criminal act.
When it comes to "sharing" your inheritance, an important thing to consider is what would happen after you give someone money. They'll definitely expect more. They may even stop saving their own money because you'll be there to bail them out.
A fine example is that last story.
First story, I have no idea who that grandson is, but I'm so damn proud of him for standing up for himself, and following through. Good on him for shutting down that crap, and refusing to let them leech on him.
As someone who’s lost a parent I would much rather still have him here than the money I received
Yeah, I come from a large family, these days we only all meet at funerals. It is amazing how the “blowflies” come out when there is a death. One of them “specialises” in descending on the home of the deceased immediately on hearing of the death! She literally breaks into their home and rats it out for valuables.
It's not just people with money who have greedy relative issues. When my mother's best friend was dying of cancer, she had me over to fix her computer. So while I am there, she's sitting at her kitchen table talking to her sister and husband about various stuff. All of a sudden, her sister looks at her and just says, "I want this table after you are gone." Then continued on like she didn't say anything out of place.
The other three of us just stopped what we were doing and just stared at her with "WTF" looks on our faces.
It took a minute to realize that everyone was silent and not talking anymore. She did apologize after her brain caught up with what her mouth had said.
That's an example of thinking out loud 😔
story 6: OP, please don't share your inheritance with your mother's family. That money is from YOUR father to provide for his child in his absence. Your father knew your mother would try and guilt you into sharing or giving your money to her, that's why he set it up the way he did. Speak with the attorney when the trust is turned over to you to research money management options. Your father loved you and has provided for you. Please don't waste such a precious gift.
I agree whole heartedly.
Did he pay child support those years or just screw over OP'S mom? 🤔 methinks i smell a dead ah.
Story #1- I care! Thank you for sharing Pop with us, he sounds like he was a truly incredible person.
Story 3: If that was my family member saying they were going to be ok I would be crying rivers of happiness. I lost my dad and grandpa to cancer. To see that person as a dollar sign and money is horrendous!
Story 5: that was some glorious nuclear karma... I absolutely get some joy out of it.
These families make me sick. I'm so grateful my family isn't like that.
The last story makes my blood boil🤬🤬🤬 As a mother I can say 100% that it's my responsibility to provide and care for my children since it was my choice to have them (even step children are a choice one makes knowing that the significant other has children). It, however, is not the responsibility of the child, to provide and care for a parent, step parent, siblings, half siblings or step siblings. I feel that any parent, step parent or any adult really, to say that since they took care of the child, now that the child has money, should take care of them are f*cking stupid. Again as a mother myself I feel very strongly about this and wish that stupid adults wouldn't mentally or emotionally abused their children/step children as has been done in this story.
13:40 ... Yes, it would be great if OP spoils the heck out of his wife, but she doesn't sound like the type who would want him to spoil her. She's minimalistic and money is not what attaches them together. It just doesn't sound like his wife will want to be spoiled... the engagement ring is the clue.
Story 4 - I feel terrible for that father. I hope she goea to jail.
Story 3: Blood means you're related, it doesn't mean you're family. Family is someone who's there for you when you need it most, who loves you unconditionally. The OP's mother and sister are relatives, his GF (now fiancé) is family.
I say this too. My close friends that like to deal with me at my lowest are family too ☺️
Story 3: Mom: "it's totally not about the money, but speaking of money, it's all going to us, right?"
It's nice that OP got a glimpse into what would happen when he passes. Just knowing that all of his relatives don't see him as an uncle, brother or son, but a cash prize. My recommendation is, move away. At least go low contact. OP is going to be hounded for the rest of his life by those vultures.
Don't forget that they will sue for the inheritance when OP is dead. The family will say anything bad about OP fiance/wife, make up or otherwise. One ironclad way is for OP to have his own child(ren), With child(ren) of his own, any judge will throw his family's inheritance lawsuit to garbage bin while laughing at their face. However, his fiance/wife is 38 years old, so I wonder if her window is already closed.
Story 5: Karma sure is a bitch. 👏
My wife works in financial services. The number of times there are crazy situations involving rich people is staggering, and inheritance is the most common
@ 4:51 reminded me of something. "Calling Dr. Howard, Dr. Fine, Dr. Howard." The Three Stooges have been around for over 100 years and will NEVER get old.
I always hate how so many families start fighting over money and ignore the intentions of the loved one who died just so they can get a few dollars more. I've seen it in my own extended family, and watched how an entitled grt aunt screwed over my uncle who was going to buy the family home (costing him Thousands due to having to back out of another agreement), just to try and sell the home for $45,000 more than he offered for the home (which was still a fair market value), but due to repairs that were needed, they ended up with $30,000 less than what my uncle offered with a "As Is" contract. My Grandmother was actually quite happy that her sisters got that Karma. I'm also quite glad my more immediate family wasn't anything like this when my Grandmother passed. Due to the family being spread out across several states, The best time for all of us to get together over dividing up the smaller assets was the day of the funeral. I still feel like a vulture having gone through the house that same day, but it was logically the only time we would all be able to be together to do this. I'm just glad there was no fighting over things, it was more like everyone was trying to get everyone else to take stuff. No you take it, No you get that, She wanted you to have, Are you sure? I don't think I could have handled and greed on that day.
Blood does not mean family. Family is a position that is earned, not deserved. A position given to those who prove that they are more than allies. And Family doesn't silently wish death or suffering on other family. That 'family' tried to gaslight and manipulate OP when their pockets were threatened. Pockets that they didn't work for, nor earn in any way. That isn't a family, that's a politician.
Well said.
Last story: It is selfish people like OP's mother and husband who need to stop being so greedy: expecting other people to support them is the epitome of self-centeredness.
These Will stories are soooooo sad. My Dad's will was loosey goosey. Us four just sat around the table and said "Do you want this or that? Some items were worth thousands. The response was often "Well maybe, but I don't want it if you want it," only to get the same "Well I don't want it if you want it so you take it." It would go back and forth you take it, no you take it till one would acquiesce and say, "Okay, yes I want it." That was that and we would move on to something else, rinse and repeat. We even included a sister who had been adopted by a Stepfather and hadn't been legally our sister in more than 30 years. Nobody thought anything mattered more than our sibling relationships.
This is just “Inheritance: the video”
Story 4: The sister in that story, I felt immediate disgust at her. When my Dad talks about not being around anymore, I immediately tear up and beg him not to talk about it.
Last story never give money to beggars because they will always beg for more then spend it and abandon you when you are left with nothing. I like blessing people who don't ask for it but need help.
A 14 year old expects a new Porsche?!? Well good for that teenager…it’s a great lesson to learn for them…
Wish in one hand and crap in the other and see which one fills up first!!!
Story 3, even if the gf-now-fiancée deserves to be spoilt, based on OP's story of how she doesn't want anything flashy for the engagement ring, I dare to bet that she is also the kind of lady that doesn't want to be spoilt. May OP and their wife lead a happy, joy-filled long life together.
Yeah, when my mom died, I got her house along with her $600 monthly mortgage. When my brother's ex wife found out, she threw a fit and contested my inheritance because I'm a single man with no kids and I don't need a 3 bedroom house. She wanted the house for herself and her 3 kids. The 3rd kid was born black while she and my brother are both white as snow and that's how she got the title of "ex wife". I didn't want to get involved in her stupidity. I told her to stay away from me and my property in front of my new neighbors, 3 cops renting 1 house that regularly has at least 1 police vehicle in the driveway.
Last story, he should give his mom the amount his dad would theoretically have paid her in child support over the years. Not more, not less.
These stories remind me when my grandfather was dying (I think it was some blather cancer or something? They kept canceling his appointments at the local public hospital) and my aunt commented that my grandmother trying to treat him through a private hospital was stupid because "the old man is already 80 something and a heavy smoker, he's as good as gone and she's just wasting (uncle's name) and (my father's name) inheritance" like wtf, yes it was probably something terminal and it was useless to fight it but the men who raised your daughter and helped save money for all of his grandchildren's drivers licences is dying and all you can think about is about some hypothetical inheritance?! Lord forbid a woman wants to save her husband! Anyway my grandpa died quietly in the night and grandma is still alive and kicking so whatever inheritance her husband could get from them is still to be seen... Seriously the lack of tact of some people...
The final words of the final story is about the best advice I've ever heard from anyone.
Wow, congrats on the misdiagnosis and good health AND the engagement to the person who ACTUALLY CARES about you! Good grief, that family creeped me out!!!
#2 The man isn't dead yet and his daughter already talks about inheritance? *facepalm
#3 One surefire way to shut them up is to have a child of your own. His fiance age of 38 years is quite old for child bearing, so OP shall rush and contact fertility clinics if he decides to have a child.
#4 Security cameras would make Hercule Poirot out of jobs.
#6 It's one thing if OP's mom demands OP to share it. But for her husband to speak about sharing OP's inheritance is really crossing the line.
Story 4: OP's devil sister doesn't deserve a dime of their dad's inheritance! It should all go to OP.
(Story 3) The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. Meaning bonds made by choice are stronger than bonds made by birth. Family doesn't mean anything if they treat you like crap but friends who are happy for you as long as you're happy, those bonds mean something.
Stories like this make me really glad the expectation in my family is that none of us get anything when our parents die.
Story 3:
"You need to leave your money with us! Blood is thicker than water!"
I love how people pervert that saying like so many others. "The Covenant of the Blood is thicker than the water of the womb" is the full quote, which means that CHOSEN RELATIONSHIPS are more important than familial ties. It doesn't mean that your biological family is more important than your chosen family.
My mama always said, you never really know a person until you share an inheritance with them.
To be honest, 13 years as just a girlfriend, damn and people got onto me for having a girlfriend for 10 years before I proposed. Props to OP and his girl. I've got mad respect for them.
Edit: I hate the argument of "we're blood". I spent 10 years in the military and I have family who are NOT blood, while I also have blood who are NOT family.
Your pop sounds just like my grandfather. I love that man so much, he was a builder, a carpenter and a cabinet maker. If you’re quiet, you were allowed to sit and watch him work in his shop. I didn’t wanna play hide and seek with all the cousins so, every chance I got I went in there and spent time with him. It’s wonderful to remember your grandparents and your pops like that isn’t it I’m sorry he’s gone, but you never forget the memories.
Last story, your dad didn't work his whole life so the man your mom is sleeping w can have a easier life. Disrespectful to your dad's legacy, which is you, not your moms step kids.
I had an adult son exhort me to work harder to increase his inheritance! I spent a bit of money on isolating my assets and ensuring that my son won’t get a bean from my Estate when I die.
Finding a better man said by a mom had me gasping. How toxic can a family be.
The inheritance story was funny. My mom used to call me and say I'm spending your inheritance! And I tell her mom, he raised eight of us by yourself and you busted your butt for 50 years, have fun!
Inheritance story. When my mom was in her nineties, and I was caring for her people couldn't believe I was doing it since I wasn't her legal heir. She had four children and 12 grandchildren. She left everything to one grandchild
Story 2 - Sadly there are people like that SIL. I myself have some second cousins that are like that.
Story 2 - My parents traveled a lot after my Dad retired, and my Mom used to joke that they were spending our inheritance. She made no bones about it. She said they took good care of us while we were growing up, and now that we were all adults, it wasn't their responsibility to provide for us anymore. She was right, and none of us kids ever held it against them.
When my great grandfather was dying, half the people in my family were waiting for him to die so they could get his house, his money, everything. I barely knew him, and while I was sad at his passing, I didn't really cry. But I didn't care about the money either. I was raised not caring about the monetary value, to me, money is evil. It can bring out the worst in others and I witnessed it first hand as my grandmother and great aunt inherited most of their father's money. My great aunt was careful with hers, but my grandmother spent a big portion of it on not only herself, but her favorite child, my aunt, who's spoiled, and has a spoiled brat of a kid too. While my mom, dad and I faced homelessness and were even homeless for a couple months. But she didn't seem to care.
I come from an extremely wealthy family and when my dad died, naturally everything went to my mother, less some personal items that my brother and I were given. Sadly my brother passed away two months later in a car accident. (Killed by a drunk driver) My entitled Uncle then realized I would be sole beneficiary when my mother died. Three weeks after my brothers funeral that a-hole had the audacity to email me a list of items he wanted, including our vacation home, as well as a “needed” sum of money so he could retire. My father and he had a falling out years ago and we rarely saw him. I was livid. I forwarded the email to my mother and we had a good laugh. Yeah, he won’t get a dime.
Money brings out the worst in people. It’s so disgusting.
OP doesn't have to set up accounts to help their step-siblings pay for uni. OP can act with compassion by paying the uni bills directly.
Hey Fluff; in Story #3, it reminds me of what happened when my mother (68F) died of Alzheimer's Disease in 2010. To set the stage, there's me socially awkward male (55M) and entitled sister (57F). Immediately after my mother died, we got a lawyer. He was great; he also warned us that eventually as the probate moved along; people's real intentions will manifest themselves. Almost immediately, my sister started acting like everything was going to her in the estate.
However, when my sister married in 1992, she was disinherited by my mother as she didn't agree with the marriage. To the way my mother thought about my sister's marriage; she tried to be happy for her, but inside she felt that the whole marriage was rushed.
Immediately after getting married; my sister and brother-in-law moved to Austin, Texas, to start their new life. We visited, but something always felt a bit off?
Eventually, my sister bore three children; a daughter Katherine, and two sons, son #1 Timothy, and son #2 Gregory.
Upon my mother's untimely death; I had lived and cared for my mother without so much as a thought, until I alerted my sister about needing so help. I also live in a Community Property State. With community property, the deceased can dictate who legally inherits. In my case, it was me that inherited everything. So began the worst entitle behavior that I've ever experienced.
My sister started demanding that I pay every bill; even her own bills. Naturally, I fought that, because I was legally mandated to pay the money for the estate, not my sister's frivolous spending sprees.
The day my mother died, I immediately inherited my mother's vehicle, condominium, and whatever money was remaining in her annuities?
Almost immediately, things started disappearing, small things in the beginning, but eventually money from the estate checking account. Turns out my sister bought a new Jeep Cherokee; she was unemployed and had no money, it was later discovered that she was re-baptized into another Christian denomination so that this new church would pay her $450 monthly assistance checks.
Most of the $450, paid for automobile insurance, license and registration fees, and title for the new vehicle.
Also, when I refused to pay a bill that wasn't itemized by the estate. She made an accusation so hurtful; that I honestly considered killing myself.
The accusation was that my sister accused me of being a registered pedophile and that I had attempted to molest my niece and nephews.
I immediately went to our attorney and unloaded everything; he admitted that this accusation was par for the course in inheritance cases. He also admitted that in order for her to leave, he would have to pay her off, so that she'd leave of her own volition.
After months of walking on eggshells the estate closed; I was supposed to have inherited $62,900, but what I actually inherited was a mere $25,000. My sister took everything including all the furniture, which I gave to her.
My sister now lives in the Midwest, while I reside on the West Coast.
I'm much better emotionally, but I'll never trust my sister ever, unless she gets eaten by tigers!
#4 - OMG! That is just unimaginable to me - someone who lost my dad when he was 85 many years ago and would give anything to have had a few more years with him! OP might need to monitor dad's camera very closely and if he becomes infirmed, move in and make sure sis has NO access to him alone. Lord, talk about a sibling you would hate and never contact after the parents are gone - she is it.
Story 1- I had 5 step sisters growing up and they were all greedy witches. When their dad got into a really horrible accident and was clinging to life, they all went to his house and put sticky notes on all of his things so there wouldn’t be any fighting for the stuff after he died. He lived and came home to notes and lost his mind. They had hardly ever spoke to him except to ask for money so he immediately cut them out of his will and left everything to a niece.
In regards to story number 3:
Yeah, greedy relatives are among the worst. Thankfully me and my siblings chose a different path. My father passed away some time ago and left a not insignificant sum scattered around, it took a while to sort all that out, but unlike most stories, we solved it surprisingly amicably where everyone gets a share we have all agreed to. Our civility was so unusual that our family lawyer was shocked, she actually stated "What is wrong with all of you? I have never seen anything like it."
Story 4: I know how OP feels, almost. My sister forged a POA for our sister who had Muscular Dystrophy and was in the hospital. She then informed me that the Dr. said our sister only had 3-6 days to live. And she wouldn't be able to stay with her one day because she had to go to our home town to take care of some "paperwork." I said somebody needs to be with her & drove 200 nu, to sit with her. I later found out she had told the Dr. to put her on "comfort care only" and THAT is why she was given 3-5 days. After the funerl, my nrother and I discovered all this plus the "paperwork" was to add her name to our sister's bank accounts that contained thousands of dollars.
Attempted murder with ice on the porch? Money is truly the root of all evil. Karma is truly a "B....". Last story: Why share an inheritance with stepchildren? Family members don't seem to realize the inheritance is given to the heir for him/her to do with what is best for the heir, not the rest of the family.
Well I mean technically that would be Eve well that really depends on what you believe I guess
One of my uncles had my parents and i on his will, unbeknowst of us.
We were astonished and grateful, when we got the money after he died of pancreatic cancer.
But would rather have him back!😢
R.I.P. uncle!
Go dad! You told it like it is! 😊
11:38 it doesn't matter if she does. They answered that question so quickly, with that answer
Story 1: I'm happy for you, OP. Sounds almost as MY family did when my Mom died. Good luck to you.
My own adult Daughter is entitled and very often makes stupid mistakes in her life and of course, nothing bad that happens to her is her fault. And when she was mad the last time she visited us, she said that she was just coming around as she is waiting for the "Inheritance". Glad I left her up in Indianapolis when me and the rest of us moved back to Texas. . Engagement? Buy her a cheap Dinner ring, large and filled with fake diamonds for her to wear around your family.
Story 3 op, if you rewrite your will, make sure to leave $1 to anyone you don’t want in your will. If they aren’t mentioned at all, they can contest the will and potentially have it thrown out. Also add a clause that anyone who contests the will is automatically receiving nothing
Wait, that's a thing? I really hope it is.
@@ShadowTaipan yes. If you leave a close family member, let’s say ‘mom’ for example, out of your will entirely, then mom can take the will to court and claim you just forgot to put her in. But if you put something ‘to mom I leave $1 and nothing else, and if she contests the will she forfeits all of her inheritance’ then she can’t make that claim. Plus, the more money you have and the more money you leave to other people, the more that $1 will sting lol
@@ShadowTaipanonly in some jurisdictions. Some states a simple "to the asshole that made my childhood miserable I leave nothing"
Or you know borrow a page from The Frantics and make arrangements to have someone on hand at the will reading "to my over emotional sister and her husband who have always admired my Rolls Royce I leave- a boot to the head"
Story 3, you hear the "oh shit he found out" in her words.
Not the ah, they’ve got no right to your money.
😂 op in the second story has the three stooges for step sons
I could never imagine wanting money over my family. I would rather have my parents then what they leave behind.
Money is everything to some people.
Story 3. OP should buy a ring with a big rock, just for show, and tell everyone that's his GF's engagement ring.
Story #6 - sounds to me like OP's mother and step-father are using the "you should share with your step-siblings" as an excuse to get money from OP without asking directly
If you have two relatives and one dollar, you need a will.
Story 2: after our father died suddenly, my brother accused me of something similar. I had gotten married the year before, and my father contributed around £5000 towards everything. My brother looked me square in the face and told me that there would have been more inheritance if I hadn't spent it all on my wedding. I don't understand some people's thinking...😶
All of these stories, even the ones I've heard on and off over the time gone by, have me shaking my head.
My kids would joke about inheriting my single younger brother estate. He came to my oldest’s high school graduation with a woman he was seriously dating (in his 40’s). My kids loved her so much immediately so they didn’t care about “losing an inheritance “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣 And they got two cousins out of the deal ♥️♥️
My father surprised me with a living inheritance. It wasn't the whole amount, but he did it (and for my three siblings) so that we could thank him to his FACE. No problem, Dad! (BTW he is still alive at 96. Wouldn't have it any other way).
I will never understand how people could ever want someone to die, just to get some money. I would trade in my whole inheritance and everything I have with it to get my parents back.
in some states, when a couple has been together for a certain length of time but not married, the state considers them married for legal purposes.