Name that Cue - Understanding What Your Newborn is “Saying”

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  • If you wonder ‘why is my baby crying?’ or ‘how will I know what my baby needs?’, it may help you to know about newborn cues - the universal language of babies. Newborn infants display instinctive behaviors that help to communicate whether they are ready to play (engagement cues), ready to eat (hunger cues), or they're full, gassy, working on a bowel movement (poop cues), sleepy (tired cues), overstimulated (disengagement cues), in light or in deep sleep. Learning about cues, and responding to them promptly can help to reduce infant crying and help you feel like a more confident parent.
    For lots more information on caring for a newborn baby, listen to my 20 minute podcast episode on the Transition To Parenthood podcast, or read the transcript at www.transitiontoparenthood.com.

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  • @inge1993
    @inge1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +628

    This video, might be simple in design, yet it was the most memorable source of info I came across before having my baby. It helped me a lot as it's highly accurate. I still giggle when my baby has the 'mysteries of the universe' face

    • @jimsteinway695
      @jimsteinway695 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree. My kids just had their first baby and they’re overwhelmed, stuff like this really helps

    • @niharikasingh7681
      @niharikasingh7681 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think it was full of efforts

    • @umkulsumhussain
      @umkulsumhussain ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Àà

    • @reginamaina4784
      @reginamaina4784 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@jimsteinway695😊

    • @Steve-ir4jg
      @Steve-ir4jg 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      1q87.

  • @cobblecattt
    @cobblecattt ปีที่แล้ว +238

    This video should be mandatory for every parent with a newborn! So good, thank you

  • @binabina4445
    @binabina4445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    Interesting that all the overstimulation examples had the TV on

    • @topkek7675
      @topkek7675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      you're right, good observation

  • @willd.4808
    @willd.4808 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Not a parent but infant development is sooo fascinating to me, babies are just little humans figuring out the world...I love that

    • @connorjohn5013
      @connorjohn5013 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      For me it’s the overall similarities of behaviour for basicly all kinds of babies all over the world! Amazing.

  • @GizelleSchaffnerr
    @GizelleSchaffnerr ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Im a first time mom and I have a 2 month baby. I learned all these cues in these past 2 months by myself. I think I saw this video a little late, but is nice for reassurance.

  • @sugmanots
    @sugmanots หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm suprised how straightforward these all are! Babies are surprisingly easy to understand.

  • @joshuaj.aguero2225
    @joshuaj.aguero2225 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    My little dude is just hungry and gassy, hungry and gassy all day and then sleeps like a rock a night (knock on wood), although he wakes up pretty early. We’re figerin’ it out tho, day by day, nap by nap. He’s growin like mad too, way ahead of the doctors’ schedule. They say we’re doing everything all right but it’s damn hard keeping up with him. I don’t understand how everyone does it. But I’m told it only gets easier, than goodness. 😅

    • @catholicfemininity2126
      @catholicfemininity2126 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Eep, after learning about where 'knock on wood' comes from, I'm creeped out.

    • @fayscreations
      @fayscreations 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@catholicfemininity2126where does it come from?

  • @AlejoEremita
    @AlejoEremita ปีที่แล้ว +73

    My baby is now 4 months old but I remember finding this video when she was born and I can't even begin to explain how useful and comforting it was, not only confirmed things I suspected from my interactions with my baby as well as teaching new stuff

    • @ashleyi.3768
      @ashleyi.3768 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same!!

  • @SpaceMango
    @SpaceMango 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    My daughter was born 8 weeks early and has finally been better at telling us what she wants. I’m proud that i already knew the hunger cues even as a first time mom. We are still practicing breastfeeding every day and she is getting so good at it. After almost 6 weeks at the hospital we can soon go home :) can’t wait!

    • @FJ-rh6io
      @FJ-rh6io 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      omg it's so sweet how you talk about her. all the best to you and your family mama

  • @francescacolella4789
    @francescacolella4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Thank you for mentioning the option to hold baby bare bottomed over a toilet or sink. We do elimination communication so he poops either in his little potty or over the sink. I find it so counterintuitive to know your baby is about to poop or pee and just sit there and let them mess their diaper. Why not just put them over a potty to let them do it like that and save a diaper, reduce diaper rash, and save time? It’s so much more hygienic

    • @lindarichardson1106
      @lindarichardson1106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😆 lol

    • @francescacolella4789
      @francescacolella4789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@lindarichardson1106 What's funny?🤔

    • @KlaudiaAF
      @KlaudiaAF 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I’m the sink? That’s gross 🤢

    • @francescacolella4789
      @francescacolella4789 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@KlaudiaAF Not really... I clean my bathroom sink regularly. We spit into it and wash our dirty hands in it. Nothing wrong with holding an infant over the sink and rinse it down, especially if you've ever seen an infant's poop.

    • @marial2382
      @marial2382 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@francescacolella4789 to eliminate all those things you said I use reusable diapers that I wash in a washing mashine. No rash, no trash :)

  • @lisemartino1995
    @lisemartino1995 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    As a doula (and mother), I can that this is SO on point! Thank you for this video, there are so many “bad” ones out there!
    Your baby is learning to poo, they’re not necessarily constipated!
    Mammas out there, second babies are there to make you question what you know - they are uniquely different, but you can work this one out too! Learning wind is particularly hard for breastfed babies, because it’s far less of an issue - but it’s still a possible issue!
    Overstimulation is the most distressing cry from your baby, but the hardest to spot as a new parent.

  • @mdshariquemobinansar
    @mdshariquemobinansar ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Just 22 days old, and I started to learn my baby girl's cue. Thanks for making this much informative video. I can now communicate with her even better. 🙏

  • @chelseasmith8644
    @chelseasmith8644 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    For the past few days. I have been worried that my baby hasn't been getting enough to eat. This video helped me confirm that I am doing fine because after she eats. She does get milk drunk and happy.
    Thank you!

  • @llz1379
    @llz1379 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Very useful with real examples. Now three months into parenthood, I wish I had seen this video earlier.

  • @lllllllll1150
    @lllllllll1150 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am not a parent, but I remember vividly seeing my nephew growing up and I am so glad that I was part of that journey. We shared such a strong bond and One thing I remembered so well that, his sleeping schedule was a bit off, but whenever I held him, he slept right on my arms. not only him, but mostly when I hold any baby, they sleep right on my arm. I wish I knew what makes them do that so. Also very informative video, hopefully one day I will need it for my own baby 😅

  • @umiluv
    @umiluv 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Wish I had this video with my first baby! This video has been so helpful with our second. He’s a much happier baby because we can read his cues better. We’re also happier because we can understand what he needs.

  • @FirstnameLastname-qc3xx
    @FirstnameLastname-qc3xx ปีที่แล้ว +32

    This is by the far the hardest week I’ve had so far. The almost no sleep is driving me insane. I’m one and done absolutely.

    • @justdoinmything
      @justdoinmything ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey brother and or sister, my wife and I are also going to the same thing it's so rough but I know that we can make it and I'll make it I just wanted to encourage you. I know it's hard and trust me our baby is currently non-stop screaming if he's not being fed we have to call the pediatrician about it today but the little guy is breaking her heart because of it and we have enough sleep I just I feel your pain but I hope this makes you feel a little better knowing you're not alone

    • @bl4cklife173
      @bl4cklife173 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same 🤣 my baby is 6 weeks but just came home last week. I was not prepared to lose so much sleep 🥺 stay strong!

    • @FirstnameLastname-qc3xx
      @FirstnameLastname-qc3xx ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@justdoinmything thank you! Same to you. It’s crazy how people who have kids never really emphasized how much of a stresser all this is. Next time I hear someone say it’s the best thing blah blah I’m going to freak out lol. I know in the long run it’s worth it but man I feel like no one gives advice or preparation for this lol.

    • @justdoinmything
      @justdoinmything ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@FirstnameLastname-qc3xx you have to figure out what works for you for sure right now we've been taking car rides at bedtime and that helps a lot but I don't know it'll work for you.

    • @umiluv
      @umiluv ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I thought I had a colicky baby but it turned out that I wasn’t pumping the hind milk only fore milk. His poop was green colored instead of yellow. He wasn’t getting enough nutrition and he was super gassy. Once I fixed the fat content in the milk, then he settled down and stopped crying.
      It really depends on what works for each family but this helped the most for us.

  • @nikks34
    @nikks34 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Thank you its been 15 years since my 1st child and pregnancy and my newborn is 1 week and 2 days old and im relearning things and getting confirmation on what i thought I forgot

    • @vegasmiri1810
      @vegasmiri1810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm in the same boat as you. Mine isn't due for a few more months but everything is so different then 15 years ago!

    • @saphire9823
      @saphire9823 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too!

    • @suew4609
      @suew4609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was in your position a couple of times. 5 years between 2 of mine, the 7 years between my last 2. I was 43 for the last and it was much more tiring than when I had the first of my 6 babies at age 21.

  • @empain_
    @empain_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My baby is 2 weeks old today and I’m still trying to figure out what she wants. This has been helpful! I think I don’t wait long enough before putting her in the bassinet, she wakes up almost every time! Will soothe her for longer before putting her in (unless it’s night time and she’s swaddled then she falls asleep quickly)

  • @DrArchanaTurimella
    @DrArchanaTurimella ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Iam a mother of 20 days old baby...this video is Gold.. thank you so much!

  • @solmanJapan
    @solmanJapan ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Honestly the best video I've ever seen on reading my baby's cues. Everything I've seen over the last week lines up with what's in the video. Thank you so much!

  • @jamiajoyjohnson4818
    @jamiajoyjohnson4818 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Got all the cues right, except the "overstimulated." I said the music was too loud, or he was irritated, lol!
    I'm not a parent, but I used to work with young children and babies 🥰🥰🥰🥰 I miss it, so I really enjoy baby videos - plus, I'm hoping to get married and have kids of my own one day, but that's all in God's hands 😊

  • @priyankap5098
    @priyankap5098 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Guess I already became an expert in handling the baby. I was able to guess most of them just right. I am a new mom with 6 weeks old baby. I came across all these cues before finding out this video. We just have to observe our baby to learn about them while they learn about us. 😊

  • @agnesfabok1682
    @agnesfabok1682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    This is the most useful video of all in this topic. I loved it. And it's not just useful, but funny too. Thank you!

  • @rostyawanaldy2402
    @rostyawanaldy2402 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    thank you for the video, as a new parent whom still trying to figure out what my baby wants, this helps me and my wife getting through so many things at once

  • @thackerybinx2637
    @thackerybinx2637 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    At 10 minutes. Perfect example of babies don’t want to soil themselves if they don’t have to. They give you these cues so that you know the same for them to go so that you can take their diaper off and let them go and not have it get all over them. Just like any other animal they don’t want to soil themselves. It’s only when they get older and you’ve trained them to go in their diaper that they don’t hesitate.

  • @meredithmarcil8127
    @meredithmarcil8127 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I am an aspiring doula, beginning on my journey. As someone coming into this profession with no prior experience (i almost feel like a new parent lol) this video provides excellent information and explanations. Thank you so much!

    • @tarrynthedoula
      @tarrynthedoula ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Best wishes on your Doula Journey, Meredith!

  • @sarahcarey4319
    @sarahcarey4319 2 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    As a new parent this video is such an awesome resource! Thank your so much!

  • @landokool3889
    @landokool3889 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Glad you mixed it with both parents....thank you

  • @kaitdid1992
    @kaitdid1992 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    this video is extremely well made. Super easy to understand and includes so much helpful information. Thank you! I feel more confident that I will learn my babies cues.

  • @maryamalmutawaa6764
    @maryamalmutawaa6764 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great source. Thanks for sharing! It’s really helpful esp. the part where baby is disengaged

  • @anitaa.6074
    @anitaa.6074 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is such an excellent resource. Thank you so much for posting!

  • @2024prakash
    @2024prakash หลายเดือนก่อน

    Must watch video for any new parent. The beauty of simplicity and clarity ❤
    As mentioned in the last part, my 2 week old son gives mixed signals most times! Good luck to me 😢

  • @t.r.s.5129
    @t.r.s.5129 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some of them I got right and that was so comforting as a new mom of a four week old. Some I didn't get right, but I learned so much.

  • @marbell7081
    @marbell7081 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg this dude is freaking clueless about baby's head- I am glad she pointed it out.

  • @acedee765
    @acedee765 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My babe is now 3 mos old. I learned some of these by observing my baby and some by searching google. I'd say they're accurate and I wish I saw this vid earlier. Really helpful.

  • @Tholius
    @Tholius 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for posting this. Excellent resource.

  • @connietalbot8758
    @connietalbot8758 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love your cues..maybe it would be good to teach in health class at school to teenager baby sitters..so they understand the baby cues..❤❤

  • @Rukz_Pathan
    @Rukz_Pathan ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Thank a ton for this video 😊
    One of the best videos to help new mums understand their baby cues 💕

  • @kylen6430
    @kylen6430 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I too have a thoughtful expression when I poo

  • @petrausie7917
    @petrausie7917 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omg the accuracy! I have a 1 month old and these are so familiar 🥲🥲 I’m still trying to effectively burp my gassy baby!

    • @suew4609
      @suew4609 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can lay them over your arm like a football for a few minutes and then upright and patting them firmly, but not hard on the back. Some people tap them way to soft. My husband used to pat them low and gradually move up their backs. Try sitting up holding their head up, like in the video. Even massaging their back or tummy laying across your lap, then upright and patting again. As they grow it gets easier and soon they won’t need you to help them! You wrote this 2 mos ago, so I hope you are doing much better. Enjoy your baby, as they’re only babies for a short time😊

  • @happywithdrawal
    @happywithdrawal ปีที่แล้ว +4

    this is such a useful video! i am no where near pregnant or even having a baby but this is such valuable information to use for later! thank you very much!

  • @donnatiberi112
    @donnatiberi112 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Had to learn this in the nursing school pediatric semester. We didn't have a lot of cell phone clips either.

  • @marqueldeaneee
    @marqueldeaneee ปีที่แล้ว +19

    So glad I came across this ! My sons due in October and this is much needed info !

    • @shelleylindquist9452
      @shelleylindquist9452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol just don't hold a pooping baby over a sink? Ewww lol

    • @ginnettelai5622
      @ginnettelai5622 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mine too is due in October 😍💖

    • @FlorMary95
      @FlorMary95 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine too is due in October 😍😍

  • @cocoa-cola
    @cocoa-cola ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for this educational video! I am not a new mom but still have a lot to learn 😊❤

  • @user-ru8xq7tq9o
    @user-ru8xq7tq9o ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much ♡
    God bless you!

  • @tanswithkare9973
    @tanswithkare9973 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This helped me with my crying newborn. Thank you so so much

  • @loodasanjarka09
    @loodasanjarka09 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Awesome and VERY helpful! Thank you ❤️

  • @fluffy00123x
    @fluffy00123x ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think I've talked and played and engaged with mine too much he is such a chatter box now 😂❤❤❤❤

  • @ccjcjididudu4960
    @ccjcjididudu4960 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just by looking at their faces I already know exactly funniest one it's so cute the pooping face all the little one have the exact same face so fun you adorable

  • @cleansetsandbaguettes5236
    @cleansetsandbaguettes5236 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    super helpful, thank you for making this video

  • @susannebukatz4457
    @susannebukatz4457 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you making this very informative and entertaining video! Can‘t wait to meet my baby girl so I can try to find the right cues.

  • @redshirts6393
    @redshirts6393 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video!

  • @suelamb5287
    @suelamb5287 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is wonderful!

  • @BitchBasss
    @BitchBasss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Poop faces are so my favorite expression of all!

  • @MitsAdventures
    @MitsAdventures ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very nice and informative thank you very much!!! I learned a lot 🥰

  • @bananasmatter1321
    @bananasmatter1321 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I have a one month old and I'm pretty happy that I was able to name all the cues :D

  • @salometlakula
    @salometlakula ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This helped a lot, thank you

  • @ajayviswanath2419
    @ajayviswanath2419 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    One of the best videos to help new Parents...thank you

  • @eileenchang2096
    @eileenchang2096 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The babies are so cute!

  • @maxkcng860729
    @maxkcng860729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great video! thanks for the tips!

  • @KH-uk2no
    @KH-uk2no 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is so informative, while still being easy to follow. Very well done

  • @milesmachon5606
    @milesmachon5606 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The actual video examples are fantastic, thank you!

  • @cheyenne1524
    @cheyenne1524 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My baby acts like she is always hungry when she just ate a lot

  • @Daaab89
    @Daaab89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Best "why my baby is crying" video on You Tube.

  • @Honestlylovely
    @Honestlylovely ปีที่แล้ว

    Awww I love newborn babies especially when they spit up

  • @redroselace9545
    @redroselace9545 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The most useful simple video and entertaining! So many videos over complicate with music and random baby google images.

  • @cakeules
    @cakeules 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for this video! I've been wondering what my baby wants me to do and just cycling between a few things to see what works the past few days 😅

  • @Ethnoviolence
    @Ethnoviolence ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative thank you!

  • @victoriarose1010
    @victoriarose1010 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you SO much!

  • @adelva5750
    @adelva5750 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this comprehensive video!🙏 learned some more again

  • @imzan3650
    @imzan3650 ปีที่แล้ว

    Simply the best.

  • @jacktrevis5400
    @jacktrevis5400 ปีที่แล้ว

    very helpful.... God bless you

  • @demitriwelling1348
    @demitriwelling1348 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video thanks.

  • @mimi_j
    @mimi_j ปีที่แล้ว +1

    16:54 lol so cute 🥰 couldn’t make their mind up on how to feel

  • @Thunderbussie123
    @Thunderbussie123 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Haha I love the “what not to do” one 😆 😂

  • @errinbald4168
    @errinbald4168 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this. So helpful. Thank you!

  • @SafsheraTV
    @SafsheraTV ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm so glad I came across this video. Very very useful

  • @Butyourhonor666
    @Butyourhonor666 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you from a FTM!

  • @vwright4792
    @vwright4792 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BEST VIDEO EVER! Thank you ❤

  • @josettebootsman9231
    @josettebootsman9231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so helpful! Thanks

  • @princesspaulabelle
    @princesspaulabelle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much very helpful with telling my babies cues

  • @santarajbishwakarma3303
    @santarajbishwakarma3303 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you so much for this important video.

  • @divyatitaniya7993
    @divyatitaniya7993 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for this video! It is very much helpful.

  • @RitaIronadi
    @RitaIronadi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This vid is really mind blowing. Thanks for making this. It helps me a lot as a new mom

  • @eberechukwuukachukwu7411
    @eberechukwuukachukwu7411 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for this video
    Very educative.

  • @martiedebeer1419
    @martiedebeer1419 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you very much. Very informative for a first parent.

  • @BeatzByMK
    @BeatzByMK 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I intuitively knew the cues ✨ I’m in my first trimester and I’m just gathering all the info I can ❤ I want to be the best mama possible, we tried for so long and I want to be as prepared as I can be

    • @peggyh3788
      @peggyh3788 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Best wishes in every aspect ❤❤

  • @clarelonghurst1711
    @clarelonghurst1711 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This is so helpful, thank you!

  • @hayaattube4110
    @hayaattube4110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this great and informative video! ❤👍

  • @tobydandelion
    @tobydandelion 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this video, it's so helpful and accessible!!!

  • @madamballiyilemanorogi1395
    @madamballiyilemanorogi1395 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video is a godsent! 😭😭 Thankyou, I was feeling so so helpless as a new parent 🙌

  • @itstheundisputedsagboo
    @itstheundisputedsagboo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much, I truly enjoyed this video ❤

  • @danielajanett1569
    @danielajanett1569 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This video is really well made and very helpful! Thank you ♥️👏

  • @petrab8373
    @petrab8373 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very helpful video, thank you 😊

  • @Moshito_m
    @Moshito_m 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really enjoyed the guess the cue video. I actually guessed most of them right but so that’s good. I’m so happy for the clarity and also the info I had no clue about

  • @marysifling279
    @marysifling279 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    DON’T let the baby’s head roll back and forth Hold it

  • @growinggenerationshomestea516
    @growinggenerationshomestea516 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow this is the best video I've seen. As a parenting educator and LC this is going in my arsenal

  • @Tahar89
    @Tahar89 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Isn't it fascinating that 80% of those little bundles of joy are cradled in the arms of their doting fathers?

  • @sohiamoltv0273
    @sohiamoltv0273 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    MASHA ALLAH BEAUTIFULL BABY