It hurts to imagine life without my man. I never thought it would come to this point where I might have to let go. I know this may not be the right place to share this, but I feel like I’m gradually losing myself, and I don’t know what to do. I’m holding tightly to the beautiful moments we shared, and I sincerely hope he finds happiness.
I completely understand how you feel. I went through something similar when my long term relationship ended. It felt like my heart was shattered, and no matter how much time passed, I couldn’t let go of the memories. I tried everything to get him back talking to friends for advice, even writing letters I never sent. Eventually, I found help through fatherabulu, who came through for me and helped me get my man back.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
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If your ex has left you three times, it suggests that you're in a somewhat addictive "push-pull" situation that can feel very intoxicating but is ultimately a very toxic dynamic to remain in... ... it might be time to set some boundaries -- and ask yourself the question "how many times is too many times". If you're wanting to move forward, as you said, then you need to recognise and break free from this loop -- as my assumption is there's a lot of chasing going on in this scenario (potentially from both parties)... ... but, how much energy is that draining -- and how much do you wish to keep going around in circles. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is to break free from that circular dynamic -- focus on your own life -- and, then, if you wish to come back together, do so, from a more grounded place... ... otherwise, you're just going to keep running into the same patterns and problems -- have some time out. "Walking away" doesn't mean you're gone forever -- it just means you're taking some (much needed) time for yourself, to heal, so that you break free from this circular pattern. The picture that comes to mind is that of someone sat on a merry-go-round.. they're kinda stuck, in that place, not really moving forwards. It's time to get off the merry-go-round... and if you do wish to reconnect -- do so, in a few months time, and in that period of time; work on developing yourself so that you raise your standards and expectations... ... as, the more confident and secure version of yourself -- that you can very easily become (but it's like a muscle that requires exercise to build) -- is unlikely to put up with someone breaking up with them three times. It seems to me, that it's time to stop being a passenger on their rollercoaster -- and reconnect with your own sense of "personal power". I hope that helps. Thanks for your comment!
It's not so much that your ex girlfriend will come back to you if you "let her go"... ... there's a lot of crap advice about using things like "no contact" as a tactic to win an ex back -- and if this is done from a strategic place, it rarely works, and often backfires. The point is that whilst someone is in in a state of clinging onto their attachment to a person (or a particular outcome) - this tends to have a feeling of despair and desperation to it. This sense of desperation is not an attractive energy -- for you, your ex, or the world... ... the only true way for an ex to come back to you -- is because there has been an internal shift within you (rather than a manipulative tactic) so try not to see it as "if I let my ex go then they will come back to me". See it more, as, refocusing your energy on you -- on releasing your attachment to her and refocusing on rebuilding yourself and your life... ... so that, then, a relationship with you feels more authentically attractive to your ex. It's not a magical tactic whereby you "let her go and she'll come back" -- it's that your attachment to her is getting in the way of your own healing and that healing needs to take place before she will come back to you -- in a stable and reliable way. A lot of ex's come back when their partner does "no contact" (and it appears they have "let them go" -- but this is for all the wrong reasons and tends to lead to a dysfunctional "yo-yo" dynamic that can also be described as a "push-pull" relationship. If you want to re-attract your ex... the thing to focus on is YOU, YOUR healing, YOUR growth, and this will make the prospect of having a relationship with you more tempting. I hope that helps! All the best, David
It hurts to imagine life without my man. I never thought it would come to this point where I might have to let go. I know this may not be the right place to share this, but I feel like I’m gradually losing myself, and I don’t know what to do. I’m holding tightly to the beautiful moments we shared, and I sincerely hope he finds happiness.
I completely understand how you feel. I went through something similar when my long term relationship ended. It felt like my heart was shattered, and no matter how much time passed, I couldn’t let go of the memories. I tried everything to get him back talking to friends for advice, even writing letters I never sent. Eventually, I found help through fatherabulu, who came through for me and helped me get my man back.
Wow, this really gives me hope. How can I get in touch with him?
It’s super easy! His handle is, Fatherabulu. Just reach out and explain your situation to him. He’s a great listener and offers helpful advice too.
Thank you so much! 🙏 You’re right sharing really does bring solutions. I’m so grateful.
Trying everyday but the pain still lingers
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.
Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
Sometimes rejection is the blessing ❤
I'm going through this now as I watch this video.Afraid to let go and been alone.
The Man im dating online bid goodbye today. Sadly. Heartbreaking.. but i know ill surpass this. I have to be strong. God be with me 🙏❤️
Hes left me 3 times. I cant seem to move forward. Thank you for your wisdom
If your ex has left you three times, it suggests that you're in a somewhat addictive "push-pull" situation that can feel very intoxicating but is ultimately a very toxic dynamic to remain in...
... it might be time to set some boundaries -- and ask yourself the question "how many times is too many times".
If you're wanting to move forward, as you said, then you need to recognise and break free from this loop -- as my assumption is there's a lot of chasing going on in this scenario (potentially from both parties)...
... but, how much energy is that draining -- and how much do you wish to keep going around in circles.
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is to break free from that circular dynamic -- focus on your own life -- and, then, if you wish to come back together, do so, from a more grounded place...
... otherwise, you're just going to keep running into the same patterns and problems -- have some time out.
"Walking away" doesn't mean you're gone forever -- it just means you're taking some (much needed) time for yourself, to heal, so that you break free from this circular pattern.
The picture that comes to mind is that of someone sat on a merry-go-round.. they're kinda stuck, in that place, not really moving forwards.
It's time to get off the merry-go-round... and if you do wish to reconnect -- do so, in a few months time, and in that period of time; work on developing yourself so that you raise your standards and expectations...
... as, the more confident and secure version of yourself -- that you can very easily become (but it's like a muscle that requires exercise to build) -- is unlikely to put up with someone breaking up with them three times.
It seems to me, that it's time to stop being a passenger on their rollercoaster -- and reconnect with your own sense of "personal power".
I hope that helps. Thanks for your comment!
This is very true.
Amen
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This is good advice, but I'll add something..it's more important to break up with the older version of yourself that was codependent.
I'm ready to leave!
So am I ❤ Jesus loves you 😊❤
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Why ex girlfriend come back me I let it go
It's not so much that your ex girlfriend will come back to you if you "let her go"...
... there's a lot of crap advice about using things like "no contact" as a tactic to win an ex back -- and if this is done from a strategic place, it rarely works, and often backfires.
The point is that whilst someone is in in a state of clinging onto their attachment to a person (or a particular outcome) - this tends to have a feeling of despair and desperation to it.
This sense of desperation is not an attractive energy -- for you, your ex, or the world...
... the only true way for an ex to come back to you -- is because there has been an internal shift within you (rather than a manipulative tactic) so try not to see it as "if I let my ex go then they will come back to me".
See it more, as, refocusing your energy on you -- on releasing your attachment to her and refocusing on rebuilding yourself and your life...
... so that, then, a relationship with you feels more authentically attractive to your ex.
It's not a magical tactic whereby you "let her go and she'll come back" -- it's that your attachment to her is getting in the way of your own healing and that healing needs to take place before she will come back to you -- in a stable and reliable way.
A lot of ex's come back when their partner does "no contact" (and it appears they have "let them go" -- but this is for all the wrong reasons and tends to lead to a dysfunctional "yo-yo" dynamic that can also be described as a "push-pull" relationship.
If you want to re-attract your ex... the thing to focus on is YOU, YOUR healing, YOUR growth, and this will make the prospect of having a relationship with you more tempting.
I hope that helps!
All the best,
David
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