The Value of Your Absence: A Motivational Speech for Growth

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  • @AngelinaKaul
    @AngelinaKaul 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +94

    It's also important to recognize that some people will never change. Even after you're gone. That's why focus on yourself.

    • @stanfen
      @stanfen 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ✅️

    • @Joyce-uw3rv
      @Joyce-uw3rv 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Very true!

    • @zencoaching1932
      @zencoaching1932 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yes I never go back because I'm king, if someone don't value my worth I skip, I'm the best person that a person can meet, not replaceable, I'm a high value man and not afraid being alone, I attract not chasing anything, I understand it recently after a switch in my mindset. I became someone who all women want to be friend but never become my queen because like a celebrity, a king, a politician, a married man... I became unreachable, untouchable that is the best mindset I ever found to protect myself.

    • @AngelinaKaul
      @AngelinaKaul 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @zencoaching1932 I'm very proud of you and happy for you. I'm in the same space. Keep it up! 🙏🙂

    • @kellymarroquin541
      @kellymarroquin541 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Trying to focus on myself but my ex bf stalked me & ended up coming to my church service I was scared I was in shock when I saw him I’m doing no contact but when I saw him my stomach went in knots I just had to leave he didn’t go genuinely he went just to give me a gift box

  • @jamiewilliams829
    @jamiewilliams829 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    In many cases a person who abandons you for no good reason will never move on and find inner peace,they will forever be soul searching.

    • @markour-parkour1918
      @markour-parkour1918 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Sounds like a avoidant, no reason to break up but just to leave…never again. I gave them numerous chances.

  • @Texmex-7
    @Texmex-7 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Separation is elevation..love yourself and only allow God to enter that sacred zone, your heart and soul..

    • @rBPmKt5
      @rBPmKt5 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    • @leahburdick1
      @leahburdick1 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Such wise advice

    • @TammySegraves
      @TammySegraves 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It gets lonely even when you love yourself fully. Human touch is needed for healthy mental emotional stability.

    • @ronandoherty1295
      @ronandoherty1295 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TammySegraves true

  • @sadieflint1994
    @sadieflint1994 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    This showed up at the right time. 💯

  • @Magicallotus333
    @Magicallotus333 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Focus on yourself, and release them. Be grateful for your time together, and de attachment is needed. I loved you unconditionally, but I gained self-love ❤️ I am happy, and I hope you are doing amazing! If you are seeing this video or reading my message! It's not by accident.

    • @numbakatiba
      @numbakatiba 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for giving me energy to move on❤

    • @Chachi21
      @Chachi21 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      They aren’t because they don’t care and never did. That’s the truth of this world and how people work.

    • @natherahkarim7146
      @natherahkarim7146 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Apa masalah Kau org.akutakcampur Hal org lain.jaditakpayahnakkecoh Hal aku

    • @timberwolf8818
      @timberwolf8818 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Your comment got me bawling my eyes out. Take care of yourself. ❤

  • @positivepilot-at
    @positivepilot-at 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    i’ve made mistakes in my marriage and lost my wife, myself and thought about my mistakes and kept myself in that mindset! there is a reason why i ran into this video and needed to hear this and say to myself that my mistakes from my past are not who defines me now and keep pushing forward and learn from it!

    • @staylowstaylow6543
      @staylowstaylow6543 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too I officially lost my wife today and I’ve been crying it hurts I literally can’t believe it. She apparently has been feeling out of love for months told me she wanted to separate and fucked some guy the day after. It hurts so fast she moved on I can’t see myself with anybody but her. She did it so effortlessly I’m so broken. She told me to find hobbies and do stuff that I like but I can’t.

  • @arlenelovelace18
    @arlenelovelace18 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This message was so good for me, that I plan on listening to it again!

  • @JQue-n5n
    @JQue-n5n 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    This is so true and resonates so well. I’m on day 47 of silence and it’s working really well as my love and friendship was taken for granted for so long and it’s time to reclaim my time and energy and focus on myself. Patty Smyth & Don Henley’s song, “ There is Danger in Loving Somebody Too Much” is so true! When you do, they take that love for granted!

  • @vixter28
    @vixter28 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    ❤❤💯💯💯!!!!
    It was never about me !

  • @claraperry8718
    @claraperry8718 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    4:21 😢 Thankyou I still hurt but this has consoled me alot this has taught me a lesson, such beautiful words.

  • @AnthonyG-wn2vq
    @AnthonyG-wn2vq 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Great video. Screw them. Their loss. They’ll regret

  • @RrishitaSSaha
    @RrishitaSSaha 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Inspite of you giving love to them, its true that some will only blame you because they can't realise...
    Let them Goooooo. And never ever let them in your life again, just silent forgive them because you worth alot more...

  • @Averil2
    @Averil2 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +58

    AI or not , it was spot on for me 😂

  • @annamarietaljaard1193
    @annamarietaljaard1193 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Awesome godly teaching! Very mitivational!!! Praise God!!

  • @almamoore2802
    @almamoore2802 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Awesome message

  • @BeckyLigon
    @BeckyLigon 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very inspiring and feeling motivated and letting us know this is reality

  • @ViddyStyle
    @ViddyStyle 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I really needed to hear this, thank you! 🙏

  • @oljavas9050
    @oljavas9050 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Damn. I needed to hear this. Left my husband and lost a friend..... I was hurt during this time but man, this is gold.

  • @genasoriano559
    @genasoriano559 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Very powerful message thank you for sharing it. This message gives me strength to keep moving forward and only focus on myself growth and as you said “I Got This”yes indeed I will rise above and I am irrreplaceble!!! I am strong 💪 mentally, physically and, emotionally above all spiritually. ❤

  • @yeseniaalvarenga3331
    @yeseniaalvarenga3331 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Beautiful motivation ♥️

  • @JudyDykema-h4j
    @JudyDykema-h4j 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen

  • @LisaRonquillo-pi5bz
    @LisaRonquillo-pi5bz 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    They slowly remove the loyalty, love and peace!

  • @rani1634
    @rani1634 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Love this message so much ❤very inspirational message

  • @whokNews8888
    @whokNews8888 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you!❤️ I needed this more than you’ll ever know.

  • @lmfislb
    @lmfislb 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im so glad i saw this when I did, if i had seen this a month ago I wouldn't have been ready to take it in, i feel completely invigorated by the fact that i am me

  • @nicholasdukat2995
    @nicholasdukat2995 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Amazing speech. Thank you

  • @lachesiagreer5809
    @lachesiagreer5809 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amen 😇🙏♥️💯

  • @jullin8230
    @jullin8230 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Luvin this truth ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @TouchLight-m6w
    @TouchLight-m6w 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you! Blessings and greetings from Berlin Germany 🇩🇪

    • @mekailramjee8838
      @mekailramjee8838 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@TouchLight-m6w greetings from South Africa

  • @LRomero-tt6hg
    @LRomero-tt6hg 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you Tony 😊 🙏

  • @clarisagrundhoefer3935
    @clarisagrundhoefer3935 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you Tony!!! I needed this reminder today!! ❤

  • @ralphie0224
    @ralphie0224 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I want to believe this so much. Seems like mine just doesn't care. I hope one day she realizes all these words. I hope she feels everything in this video. Until then, I'll just do me.

    • @DesiredRealitySeeker
      @DesiredRealitySeeker 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Decide to believe this. No matter what. This videos message speaks so directly to my situation as well. Give it time, try and consistently redirect the focus on yourself when you start externalizing your focus on her actions defining your emotional state going forward.
      You got this.
      We got this.

  • @nele350c7
    @nele350c7 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed to hear this thank you! I'm not perfect, i take accountability for my actions. She left me because she thought I was the problem.

  • @BrendaDouglas-wu7bm
    @BrendaDouglas-wu7bm 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the beautiful inspiration it's so true

  • @DevilLos
    @DevilLos 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This guy is awesome. Like somebody in the comments said, I needed to hear this.

  • @Xxx-vx1pi
    @Xxx-vx1pi 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    wow… i have to listen to this often

  • @lc4018
    @lc4018 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    O agree with you thank you 🙏🏼 for sharing this message with me I am unique and God is with me ✝️✝️✝️

  • @KimVarner9
    @KimVarner9 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I needed this. Thank you!

  • @MelissaAlfonso-w2t
    @MelissaAlfonso-w2t 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Ty. I needed this. ❤️

  • @Smartlawstudy
    @Smartlawstudy 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for this..needed 1

  • @StaceyDEVINEE
    @StaceyDEVINEE 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you so much for the messages. This hit hard .

  • @Rainadorosario
    @Rainadorosario หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    💎

  • @LifeWithPunky
    @LifeWithPunky 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Who the Heck are You???❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤You Are Amazing...Thank you for You And This Video 💞

    • @ms.miarenniks4413
      @ms.miarenniks4413 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The voice and face is tony robbins! He is amazing!

  • @keeyonass5127
    @keeyonass5127 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amem

  • @asiaquick1687
    @asiaquick1687 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All of THIs 💡

  • @babybluefm
    @babybluefm 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It feels this video was made specially for me 🙌🏼

  • @PdxLoveee
    @PdxLoveee 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    💯💯🙌🏻🙌🏻👑♥️✨✨

  • @muthonikinyanjui3542
    @muthonikinyanjui3542 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Roxanacookingsu
    @Roxanacookingsu 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Just broken up and i’ve beeing dumped after 5,5 years, I did everything for him and his family. He is living his life now, going om vacation and leave me. I am depressed,

    • @numbakatiba
      @numbakatiba 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Take heart, you are complete alone, move on. You are not alone God is watching - preparing something better for you

    • @suzannecermy3700
      @suzannecermy3700 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I am feeling your pain but we gonna be ok

    • @mekailramjee8838
      @mekailramjee8838 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @Roxanacookingsu you going to be ok, I know it doesn't seem so. But you got this. Don't make contact

  • @sansasteph
    @sansasteph 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    i was called peace

  • @Love37768
    @Love37768 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤🙌🏼🙏🏼

  • @nancynieves5015
    @nancynieves5015 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    so true I was abandon from my husband over a misunderstanding for nonsence he hates me he blocked me and til this day he hasn't humble nor forgive me but I let go let god

  • @indupradeep5288
    @indupradeep5288 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    🙏👌👌👌👌💐💯❤👍

  • @melissa30m
    @melissa30m 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @heureux4653
    @heureux4653 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank u❤

  • @alisoncaddy307
    @alisoncaddy307 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My children rejected years ago. I must have failed as a mother. They don't feel like they have lost anything.

  • @Captaintripps1
    @Captaintripps1 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She left me and I dont think she cares and I went above and beyond for her showed her I absolutely loved her

    • @mekailramjee8838
      @mekailramjee8838 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm sorry friend . Here for you

    • @mekailramjee8838
      @mekailramjee8838 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Captaintripps1 same boat . I went crazy , nothing I do stopped tears. But today I have not shed a tear, so that's positive

    • @Captaintripps1
      @Captaintripps1 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @mekailramjee8838 that's good I'm trying to do the same it's hard hopefully i can over come in due time

    • @suzannecermy3700
      @suzannecermy3700 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sane here loved him unconditional I get ghosted cause I feel asleep on the phone

    • @Captaintripps1
      @Captaintripps1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @suzannecermy3700 wow that's messed up

  • @Truth-matters-v2z
    @Truth-matters-v2z 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He's not looking for connection; he's self serving and only looking for supply, validation, sex not intimacy, etc.

  • @AlwaysHope2019
    @AlwaysHope2019 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had an ex that told me these exact things.
    He said he was trying to find me again in another person,but he couldn’t .

  • @unclesmooth9718
    @unclesmooth9718 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Ai or not it's truue story this. Is life

  • @梅良芝
    @梅良芝 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can't trust what he says.i only trust my words

  • @capet5593
    @capet5593 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    No need to be afraid of more Luigi’s. Be afraid of the criminal CEOs who continue their killing denying claims

    • @czill4603
      @czill4603 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You’re in the wrong place with that comment

  • @DesiredRealitySeeker
    @DesiredRealitySeeker 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Set Playback speed to 0.8-0.9x - Trust me Lol.

  • @ShiIoh27
    @ShiIoh27 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good clip but slow down with the talking and the captioning. It goes way too fast that it feels stressful to keep up.
    So the message is to know your own worth and that THEY will miss out, etc. well this message is for them too...to know their own worth and you will miss out. Which means nothing happens from it.
    And if someone didnt see your value and what you had to offer, then they cant miss anything when its no longer there. They didnt lose anything.

  • @aganethashroeder
    @aganethashroeder 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Never Never the can't ever have pie's

  • @michaelhill2933
    @michaelhill2933 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    This isn't true, I've dumped someone I didn't care about who cared very much about me and it still didn't feel like I lost anything. If they don't care about u, it doesn't feel like they lost anything to them. Don't lie to yourself and act like they lost. They probably feel like they didn't. Just forgive them for not being able to see your value. It's not your fault. Fill that void with yourself and grieve, don't look for revenge or karma. Wish them the best and forgive them and be glad you're not in a one sided relationship anymore

    • @xernonawoods4201
      @xernonawoods4201 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      If you didn't care about them why did you want them in your life? What did you receive from them when they were in your presence? How long were you this person? And what exactly did you say to them when you broke up with them?

    • @JaniceMarie-s8m
      @JaniceMarie-s8m 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      It's because your heart less

    • @xxxOlgaRayxxx
      @xxxOlgaRayxxx 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      As***le

    • @sarai8083
      @sarai8083 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Galatians 6:7 says, “Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap”.

  • @wizardofaus2985
    @wizardofaus2985 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So whats the point of marrying or meeting a guy with exes? If they are always looking to replace their exes?
    Clealy means only your first love is genuine.

  • @mirjambarnercoaching
    @mirjambarnercoaching 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +52

    This is AI I believe! TH-cam should block all of this, who ever it is who uploaded this, the message is great, but show your own face, own your shi.!

    • @brandont4733
      @brandont4733 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      It definitely is AI. But it's still pretty motivational 🤷‍♂️

    • @Healingstar-b8i
      @Healingstar-b8i 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      People should have the freedom of privacy.It is a soulful and inspirational message, that's all that matters.Less of the low vibrational negativity please.

    • @anakalos5082
      @anakalos5082 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      It's the message that is important, because people forget those fundamentals and beat themselves up all the time about things that they could not control.

    • @JustinJacobs-nl7nz
      @JustinJacobs-nl7nz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      ❤ this is absolutely beautiful and very needed to hear the truth tell it like it is thanks for who so ever uploaded stuff like this ❤

    • @JustinJacobs-nl7nz
      @JustinJacobs-nl7nz 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      This is absolutely necessary a reality check the truth hurt them who loves to take people for granted and they don't want to be exposed by anyone... tell like it is ❤

  • @ElleMolinaChannel
    @ElleMolinaChannel 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ouch😢😢..that's not good

  • @terra2730
    @terra2730 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    😂slow down!

  • @Cleardelune
    @Cleardelune 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    For God sake 5 years

  • @tacotoezz
    @tacotoezz 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is this AI?

  • @梅良芝
    @梅良芝 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He keep nv want me to have peace but fortunately I keep depend on myself for the peace.yes he has admit he no intention of giving me peace when I keep gave him last time . He sle keep insist on taiwanese that is why our subjects alot about her 9 years .he chooses this kind that is why I stay away last time .he nv stop harassing.

  • @GaryKudalis
    @GaryKudalis 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    good info but you don’t need to talk so fast

  • @funkbros3141
    @funkbros3141 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thats assuming you had value in someones life in first place

  • @JoAnnMaddie-wh1ph
    @JoAnnMaddie-wh1ph 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are with the wrong person because you don’t want to mess with me!!!!!! You aren’t bringing no one in my house!!!!!!!! You and her and baby are not welcome here at my home! Got it!!!!!!!

  • @marioride2447
    @marioride2447 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Copy Paste from the great Alan Watts. 🍷

  •  27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Does the narcissist really ever realize your value?

  • @lucindapacker6510
    @lucindapacker6510 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Using AI Tony Robbins is so disappointing. It really looses it authenticity
    FAKE FAKE FAKE
    This channel needs to be blocked and reported

  • @godwinsboom
    @godwinsboom 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Stop

  • @teerav42psu
    @teerav42psu 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Cope

  • @aganethashroeder
    @aganethashroeder 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The don't like mi stop with that in he don't ever now abut pies

  • @DJSC5618
    @DJSC5618 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    ❤❤❤