These are all great points! Ive veen guilty of all of them im sure, but I have made it a pint to actively listen and allow my curiosity to take the lead, which helps keep the conversation flowing and interesting.
For sure rebuttal for me. Preparing the next part before their part is even out. Always reminding myself stop and just listen! Such a great topic. You are making the world a better place with this topic… now if only people would listen to it 😬
I saw three of your videos except the comprehensive one😅, because i felt it wasnt of much use to me, might be wrong. I do feel like asking them if 'they want advice or do I just need to listen' might give off the wrong impression that we might be annoyed by them or that we are busy and need to get back, to what we were doing after solving their problem or listening to them, it feels to me that question indirectly says that listening/solving is a just a task to me which i need to finish. What do you think about this? Love from India❤
I am a great listener however I struggle with time. I’m learning to be a life coach and I have an hour with the client. I get clients who talk too much and I go over the time. I don’t want to be rude but I do have to control the time. And we don’t get to accomplish what we need to do
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These four listening videos are very practical reminders. Thank you.
These are all great points! Ive veen guilty of all of them im sure, but I have made it a pint to actively listen and allow my curiosity to take the lead, which helps keep the conversation flowing and interesting.
Commit to listening-Wow, that alone is so valuable! thank you...
I appreciate the tip on the boring or someone who goes on and on about a subject, etc.
For sure rebuttal for me. Preparing the next part before their part is even out. Always reminding myself stop and just listen! Such a great topic. You are making the world a better place with this topic… now if only people would listen to it 😬
Thank you, brother. Hey, you broke 3k!!! Fantastic.
I watched all 4 and learned a lot! Thanks for the free lessons.
Congratulations ❤️
very useful talk. thank you.
Wow these videos are so helpful!
Very useful. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful.
Watched all four videos
Congratulations! You earned a heart! ❤
super helpful
Mine is Drift, boring topics and in meetings, l have the rebuttal tendencies 😢
Thank you so much 🙏🏽
I saw three of your videos except the comprehensive one😅, because i felt it wasnt of much use to me, might be wrong. I do feel like asking them if 'they want advice or do I just need to listen' might give off the wrong impression that we might be annoyed by them or that we are busy and need to get back, to what we were doing after solving their problem or listening to them, it feels to me that question indirectly says that listening/solving is a just a task to me which i need to finish. What do you think about this? Love from India❤
People really appreciate that question. It you ask it with the right motivation, which is the motivation to be helpful.
So it's all about the genuine intent with which you ask the question, Thank you so much.
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My mental thoughts go towards one's judgment to provide security
I am a great listener however I struggle with time. I’m learning to be a life coach and I have an hour with the client. I get clients who talk too much and I go over the time. I don’t want to be rude but I do have to control the time. And we don’t get to accomplish what we need to do
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