💯 *10 Important Lessons:* ◾ *1) Stop Living for Other People.* ◾ *2) Stop skipping the gym.* ◾ *3) Stop trying to be cool -> be yourself.* ◾ *4) Stop chasing relationships -> find yourself.* ◾ *5) Focus on your personal growth.* ◾ *6) Stop keeping yourself in your comfort zone.* ◾ *7) Don't waste your precious time.* ◾ *8) Have a spiritual practice.* ◾ *9) Make mistakes and learn from them.* ◾ *10) Start investing in yourself...*
Absolutely , nothing more cool than being yourself. Fake isn’t cool. Being your authentic self , even if you’re goofy is very attractive to others. Especially for the guys out there.
I have lived in fear for years about what I should do, mainly about retaliation, as know exactly what happened, why & how deadly dangerous all was. Involves many in high places & know how NOT going to live in fear again as don't have to as haven't done anything wrong. I am not keeping what I know to myself as too much. I feel need to share it all as it is the right thing to do for me my family & others as should concern all. I want peace, freedom & justice.
"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy." --Dale Carnegie
*3 Quotes to Live By:* 🔥 *1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."* 🔥 *2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”* 🔥 *3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."*
Marisa just thank you. Whatever you teach is like troubleshooting, it so works, and makes me feel on purpose calm and great. You are indeed the most transformational therapist
How interesting!!! I love your voice - it's very soothing! What's even more interesting than the fact that different people can have totally different opinions on a subject matter is the fact that I can have totally different opinions on a subject matter!!! I used to dislike certain foods and now love them. I used to beat up on myself all the time, and I'm more and more aware of when I do that now, which allows me to redirect my focus. Thank you so much for your work!!!!!!!!💖
How can you answer back toxic people who seem to enjoy putting you down? From the cruel and rude relatives who tell a child they'd forget their head if it wasn't attached to a supposedly loving mother with a love/hate relationship to her child to a spouse who never appreciates all the marvelous things you do for him/her, self esteem can been seriously damaged! This leads to negative internal self talk no matter what you try to do about it. This also leads to withdrawal and fear of other people. I agree that you need to praise yourself and love yourself no matter what.
Thanks for reaching out. I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below: rapidtransformationaltherapy.com/findaspecialisttherapist/bookingform/ Sending you love and support - Marisa Peer Team
You don’t answer them. Just make their voice and their comments far away, inaudible, detached, their own opinion, etc. Best to do therapy for toxic relationships because there are several issues to be tackled, apart from this voice
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Thank you Marisa! You opened my eyes to all that I have been doing to sabotage myself all these years that made me just break down in tears. I have been feeling hopeless seeing no light at the end of my tunnel, until now. I am so excited to positively change my mind frame thanks to you. You're a blessed Angel.
@@MarisaPeer Thank you so much , just reprogramming this old stuff from years ,,, I am going to persist though as I want my mind to be reprogrammed x 💖
I watch most of your videos and love them all and try to apply many principles that you teach to my life. However, I would love to see something regarding attachment and abandonment: something I personally struggle with 💖
I love this, I always thought I would loose weight after kids and I did 4 months after giving birth to both of them I was back to size 4 and still am even though my kids are 17 and 14
I’m stuck in fight or flight mode after years of mold toxicity and living in isolation whilst I heal. I’m trying to implement all of this. Thank you for your expertise. Ps, you rocked those skinny jeans girl! Lol. You exude professionalism and confidence!
I suffer frim deppression and yes often I am negative but I agree with you, if you are in bad situations and you only complain, those situations will get worse not better. best be positive allways
Ya I said to myself I would like a month or so off work.. i wasn’t clear how I would like that to happen..so I ended up in the hospital for a week to start then home recovering from stent surgery.. ❤ not what I had in mind.. but then again I didn’t have anything in mind…just knew I wanted a month or so off work..I wasn’t clear on how I was going to make it happen.. I believe this mind stuff to be true..
Always be the best that you can be! Always. I ran into some estranged family members today... even though I had only gone out for a supermarket shop and car servicing, I looked my best, with my new posture and inner glow and I came through it with flying colours. It's not so much what I was wearing, it was that I am the best I can be and proud of it. I had nothing whatsoever to be ashamed of, and wasn't. The first of many victories :)
body follows the mind - very true. but it does work the other around. the mind absolutely does follow the body as well, it's just that our body intelligence is not cultivatedas we go from childhood to our teenage years. if you watch small children moving to music, it's their body that is guiding them. they don't have to think about it. knowing how to work with our beliefs/our brains is essential AND just as important is cultivating our somatic and physical intelligence.
I would love to see Marissa put out new content like she did with the interview with Jack..all the current videos are ..are the sames ones she uses over and over and just repackages the title
I am setting up some very exciting interviews with fascinating people they will be up very soon so you have some new and fresh material. thanks for your very valued feedback xxx
Hi. Several different attempts at different things have not worked for over 45 years. Age 67. Degrees that didn’t work for me and careers that were close to blooming then died or bounced. Please address. Love and appreciation. Thanks
1:31:52 I was actually immediately rejected after the first round of auditions to the "best" drama school in my country specifically because I was _too interesting and extraordinary_ for them to mold into the kind of actor they know how to train! (relatable, malleable, everyday man/woman unless a role specifically requires them not to act average, natural and quite normalized instead of theatrical and unique, a bit of a blank slate honestly even). It's probably a good thing though because I can barely think of any actors or actresses of my birth country who truly inspire me and neither does much of our live-action fiction. I find most of our movies and series to be awfully plain. Theatre is a bit better here in comparison to the national output of films and series. But still: not many creatives here I find go really against the grain or do something unexpected, new, refreshing and unique that manages to deeply excite me. I'm glad that there are a few noteworthy outliers though who really do break with rules and expectation because they've got something new, different and exciting to say that requires them to break out of the mold and that every now and again I do still discover new creative artists even from my own country who do that for me!
I don't want to be seen(?) // I want to be seen(!) (I always wanted to be a famous performer but I was bullied and thus attention came to mean emotional, psychological and social danger) Thank you once again @Marisa Peer! ...now for how to find the right person to work with me on this 😆
...at the same time I've always had star quality stage presence though and the ability to captivate an audience! And I would generally be already thought of more as a star amongst the people than accepted or understood with the status quo and professionals of the arts and performance world, especially in my initial main disciplines.
Here's another one of mine: I'm not actively doing good things that optimize my life at all. // I'm doing great things that optimize my life all the time!
Sometimes I'm honestly just too shy. // I'm always self-confident to meet, run into or encounter people because I love, accept, cherish and appreciate myself for who I am!
Hello, Thanks for reaching out. If you wish to book an RTT session, I would recommend connecting with one of our certified and trained RTT professionals. We have a directory of our practicing Therapists, Practitioners, and Coaches here: professionals.rtt.com/ You can search by location, issue, language, and more to connect with the most suitable Therapist, Practitioner, or Coach. If you cannot find a suitable Professional in your area, many also offer their services online. As RTT is a closed-eye therapy, you are just as supported online as you would in person. You must liaise directly with the professional to know their availability and costs. They will also be happy to answer any questions you have about the structure of the sessions and follow-ups. Kind Regards, Marisa Peer Team
Hello, For more info on the RTT method see: rtt.com/whatisrtt/ Here's a link for you to download a copy of our RTT course prospectus: bit.ly/RTT-brochure-download and another to an article on becoming a hypnotherapist: bit.ly/Become-a-Therapist-AH We also have a masterclass for those interested in training in the RTT method, which can be found here: bit.ly/AH-RTT-BreakthroughTips. If you wanted to book a call with an Application Support Advisor you can do so via this link & pick a time suitable for your schedule: bit.ly/RTT-book-call Let me know if you have any other questions :) Marisa Peer Team
*_Incomplete Music List to this Video:_* Celine Dion - *My Heart Will Go On* Gloria Gaynor - *I will Survive* Destiny's Child - *Survivor* Bob Marley - *Everything's Gonna Be Allright* Aaliyah - *Try Again*
Give clear instructions to your brain . The words you say should be very very positive. Don't say It's hell, I am going to die. Instead tell I can do this in a proper way.
Just wondering...not to criticize or condemn...but isn't it typically British to exaggerate in their language? With every British documentary I often hear a very exaggerated use of language. For example, in my life and environment I never hear about disasters, or that something can kill you with ordinary everyday things like being in a traffic jam or hungry for food... I come from a down-to-earth area in the Netherlands and unfortunately I can't identify at all with the negative language examples that Marisa uses in her videos. I don't like it when I'm in a traffic jam either, but all I think is... too bad. When I'm hungry I never say: I can eat a horse or I'll starve to death, but only simple I'm very hungry.
![35 Years of Therapy Knowledge in 22 Minutes [LIFE CHANGING] Marisa Peer](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Pg_eQJiAE_Y/mqdefault.jpg)
This lady is sheer brilliance! Her material should be included in school curriculums everywhere for improving learning and self esteem in children.❤
💯 *10 Important Lessons:*
◾ *1) Stop Living for Other People.*
◾ *2) Stop skipping the gym.*
◾ *3) Stop trying to be cool -> be yourself.*
◾ *4) Stop chasing relationships -> find yourself.*
◾ *5) Focus on your personal growth.*
◾ *6) Stop keeping yourself in your comfort zone.*
◾ *7) Don't waste your precious time.*
◾ *8) Have a spiritual practice.*
◾ *9) Make mistakes and learn from them.*
◾ *10) Start investing in yourself...*
Agree 💯
Best list of life lessons I've ever read - thank you!
Absolutely , nothing more cool than being yourself. Fake isn’t cool. Being your authentic self , even if you’re goofy is very attractive to others. Especially for the guys out there.
Things with Stop/don't this or that don't motivate a rebel, quite the opposite.can't make great changes with negative reinforcement.
Everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear🔥🔥🔥
Life begins where fear ends🙏
💯🎯 My life doesn't end where other peoples' fears start either! I am a free sovereign being! 💖🌈 XXX
I have lived in fear for years about what I should do, mainly about retaliation, as know exactly what happened, why & how deadly dangerous all was. Involves many in high places & know how NOT going to live in fear again as don't have to as haven't done anything wrong. I am not keeping what I know to myself as too much. I feel need to share it all as it is the right thing to do for me my family & others as should concern all. I want peace, freedom & justice.
"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy."
--Dale Carnegie
*3 Quotes to Live By:*
🔥 *1) "Don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to your yesterday's self."*
🔥 *2) “You can't go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending”*
🔥 *3) "Once you decide your lifes purpose, you will only have to pack one thing: "Your Heart."*
Ty for sharing your wisdom. You have a spirit of an Elder for a young man ,keep it up 😇
@@matuuenergy7845 🙏🙏🙏
Everything is a mindset 😇
Marisa just thank you. Whatever you teach is like troubleshooting, it so works, and makes me feel on purpose calm and great. You are indeed the most transformational therapist
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
I'm so blessed that I stumbled upon your videos this weekend! The universe knew you were just what I needed! Thank you for just being you!
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️ And welcome.
How interesting!!! I love your voice - it's very soothing! What's even more interesting than the fact that different people can have totally different opinions on a subject matter is the fact that I can have totally different opinions on a subject matter!!! I used to dislike certain foods and now love them. I used to beat up on myself all the time, and I'm more and more aware of when I do that now, which allows me to redirect my focus. Thank you so much for your work!!!!!!!!💖
Love from India 🙏❤️
Dear Marisa, can you please make a video on how to overcome abandonment fear caused by being an adult child of narcissistic parents? Thanks!!
listen to upgrading your child video by Marissa Peer💟.
Divine speaker.
Thank you
How can you answer back toxic people who seem to enjoy putting you down? From the cruel and rude relatives who tell a child they'd forget their head if it wasn't attached to a supposedly loving mother with a love/hate relationship to her child to a spouse who never appreciates all the marvelous things you do for him/her, self esteem can been seriously damaged! This leads to negative internal self talk no matter what you try to do about it. This also leads to withdrawal and fear of other people. I agree that you need to praise yourself and love yourself no matter what.
Thanks for reaching out. I would advise booking an RTT session with one of our specialist therapists who can discuss your concerns further. You can book this using the link below:
rapidtransformationaltherapy.com/findaspecialisttherapist/bookingform/
Sending you love and support - Marisa Peer Team
You don’t answer them. Just make their voice and their comments far away, inaudible, detached, their own opinion, etc. Best to do therapy for toxic relationships because there are several issues to be tackled, apart from this voice
Thank you Marisa. I needed to hear this today. BTW, I love your voice! It’s so soothing ❤️
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
Comment seen, thank you man and keep that mindset!
And how do you manage to insert Bold text in a comment. Neat.
Absolutely excellent advice.. thank you friend.. Blessings ❤🙌
Thank you Marisa! You opened my eyes to all that I have been doing to sabotage myself all these years that made me just break down in tears. I have been feeling hopeless seeing no light at the end of my tunnel, until now. I am so excited to positively change my mind frame thanks to you. You're a blessed Angel.
Mind BLOWING!! so grateful to have found this video!
Your comment made our day.
Regards,
Team Marisa
I appreciate you so much. You're a great teacher. I love listening to you speak Marisa, thank you.
You are excellent!
I love this woman! So many takeaway ❤
Thanks Marisa for all you do. Much love.🤗❤
You’re welcome ❤️
I am so grateful to you Marisa all the joy you give to us Thankyou ❤️ your gifts are truly life changing
Oh Marisa ,,, I’m so happy to see this , I am struggling with self love at present,,, so Thank you , Thank you , Thank you 😊 xxx
Sending you love and support. 💖
@@MarisaPeer Thank you so much , just reprogramming this old stuff from years ,,, I am going to persist though as I want my mind to be reprogrammed x 💖
The truth... Nothing but the truth here ❣️
God bless you ❤️Marissa🙏
Marisa is amazing!
I could listen to you all day! I love your voice and everything you have to say! Your videos are such a gift to all of us!
That’s really kind of you to say ❤️
I Love Marisa’s voice too☺️
I watch most of your videos and love them all and try to apply many principles that you teach to my life. However, I would love to see something regarding attachment and abandonment: something I personally struggle with 💖
Hi, thank you so much for the lovely comment and for your suggestion. I will make sure that I pass it on to Marisa and the team 💖 Marisa Peer Team
I love this, I always thought I would loose weight after kids and I did 4 months after giving birth to both of them I was back to size 4 and still am even though my kids are 17 and 14
I’m stuck in fight or flight mode after years of mold toxicity and living in isolation whilst I heal. I’m trying to implement all of this. Thank you for your expertise. Ps, you rocked those skinny jeans girl! Lol. You exude professionalism and confidence!
Best. Public. Speaker. EVER!!! 🤩
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
Really great content
I suffer frim deppression and yes often I am negative but I agree with you, if you are in bad situations and you only complain, those situations will get worse not better. best be positive allways
Thank you for your lovely comment ❤️
Ya I said to myself I would like a month or so off work.. i wasn’t clear how I would like that to happen..so I ended up in the hospital for a week to start then home recovering from stent surgery.. ❤ not what I had in mind.. but then again I didn’t have anything in mind…just knew I wanted a month or so off work..I wasn’t clear on how I was going to make it happen.. I believe this mind stuff to be true..
Always be the best that you can be! Always. I ran into some estranged family members today... even though I had only gone out for a supermarket shop and car servicing, I looked my best, with my new posture and inner glow and I came through it with flying colours. It's not so much what I was wearing, it was that I am the best I can be and proud of it. I had nothing whatsoever to be ashamed of, and wasn't. The first of many victories :)
💚
You are a great person ❤
So uplifting. I laughed. And learned good tips.
Glad you enjoyed it!
body follows the mind - very true. but it does work the other around. the mind absolutely does follow the body as well, it's just that our body intelligence is not cultivatedas we go from childhood to our teenage years. if you watch small children moving to music, it's their body that is guiding them. they don't have to think about it. knowing how to work with our beliefs/our brains is essential AND just as important is cultivating our somatic and physical intelligence.
You're saving my life 🎉🎉🎉
God blessing to you and your family 🌹 ❤️
You are seriously FKN smart for a woman or a man - Thankyou!
thanks Marisa I needed to hear this
Awesome Marisa ❤
I LOVE your voice! ❤
May god bless you
I would love to see Marissa put out new content like she did with the interview with Jack..all the current videos are ..are the sames ones she uses over and over and just repackages the title
I am setting up some very exciting interviews with fascinating people they will be up very soon so you have some new and fresh material. thanks for your very valued feedback xxx
Unbelievable! Love this. I wish I could meet you.
Thank you so much Marisa! I have a fear of mice. Not surprisingly, I see them all the time lol
You remind me of someone in " absolutely fabulous " especially the best therapist on the planet bluurb at the start! Tatler daaaahling 😅
Hi. Several different attempts at different things have not worked for over 45 years. Age 67. Degrees that didn’t work for me and careers that were close to blooming then died or bounced. Please address. Love and appreciation. Thanks
1:31:52 I was actually immediately rejected after the first round of auditions to the "best" drama school in my country specifically because I was _too interesting and extraordinary_ for them to mold into the kind of actor they know how to train! (relatable, malleable, everyday man/woman unless a role specifically requires them not to act average, natural and quite normalized instead of theatrical and unique, a bit of a blank slate honestly even).
It's probably a good thing though because I can barely think of any actors or actresses of my birth country who truly inspire me and neither does much of our live-action fiction. I find most of our movies and series to be awfully plain. Theatre is a bit better here in comparison to the national output of films and series. But still: not many creatives here I find go really against the grain or do something unexpected, new, refreshing and unique that manages to deeply excite me. I'm glad that there are a few noteworthy outliers though who really do break with rules and expectation because they've got something new, different and exciting to say that requires them to break out of the mold and that every now and again I do still discover new creative artists even from my own country who do that for me!
Can Anyone sum up 2 hours with just the 8 points?
I don't want to be seen(?) // I want to be seen(!)
(I always wanted to be a famous performer but I was bullied and thus attention came to mean emotional, psychological and social danger)
Thank you once again @Marisa Peer! ...now for how to find the right person to work with me on this 😆
...at the same time I've always had star quality stage presence though and the ability to captivate an audience! And I would generally be already thought of more as a star amongst the people than accepted or understood with the status quo and professionals of the arts and performance world, especially in my initial main disciplines.
Here's another one of mine:
I'm not actively doing good things that optimize my life at all. // I'm doing great things that optimize my life all the time!
Sometimes I'm honestly just too shy. // I'm always self-confident to meet, run into or encounter people because I love, accept, cherish and appreciate myself for who I am!
Hello,
Thanks for reaching out.
If you wish to book an RTT session, I would recommend connecting with one of our certified and trained RTT professionals.
We have a directory of our practicing Therapists, Practitioners, and Coaches here:
professionals.rtt.com/
You can search by location, issue, language, and more to connect with the most suitable Therapist, Practitioner, or Coach.
If you cannot find a suitable Professional in your area, many also offer their services online. As RTT is a closed-eye therapy, you are just as supported online as you would in person.
You must liaise directly with the professional to know their availability and costs. They will also be happy to answer any questions you have about the structure of the sessions and follow-ups.
Kind Regards,
Marisa Peer Team
How do i obtain the RTT programme? I live in London.
Hello,
For more info on the RTT method see: rtt.com/whatisrtt/
Here's a link for you to download a copy of our RTT course prospectus: bit.ly/RTT-brochure-download and another to an article on becoming a hypnotherapist: bit.ly/Become-a-Therapist-AH
We also have a masterclass for those interested in training in the RTT method, which can be found here: bit.ly/AH-RTT-BreakthroughTips.
If you wanted to book a call with an Application Support Advisor you can do so via this link & pick a time suitable for your schedule: bit.ly/RTT-book-call
Let me know if you have any other questions :)
Marisa Peer Team
53:13 my mother said the exact same to me repeatedly and now I am 31 and against my will never once been in a romantic relationship 🤡
*_Incomplete Music List to this Video:_*
Celine Dion - *My Heart Will Go On*
Gloria Gaynor - *I will Survive*
Destiny's Child - *Survivor*
Bob Marley - *Everything's Gonna Be Allright*
Aaliyah - *Try Again*
Love it :)
Give clear instructions to your brain . The words you say should be very very positive. Don't say It's hell, I am going to die. Instead tell I can do this in a proper way.
🤩🤩❤️❤️
"talk to your mind better" uncomfortable truth
Just wondering...not to criticize or condemn...but isn't it typically British to exaggerate in their language? With every British documentary I often hear a very exaggerated use of language.
For example, in my life and environment I never hear about disasters, or that something can kill you with ordinary everyday things like being in a traffic jam or hungry for food...
I come from a down-to-earth area in the Netherlands and unfortunately I can't identify at all with the negative language examples that Marisa uses in her videos.
I don't like it when I'm in a traffic jam either, but all I think is... too bad. When I'm hungry I never say: I can eat a horse or I'll starve to death, but only simple I'm very hungry.
But takes 2 hours to explain...
Your brain can give you flu 😂