Jamie…I love that you shared vulnerability today because you felt like it was the right thing to do. That type of bravery takes a lot of strength! I love you for it! So happy that you are finding happiness and peace within. All 7 of your children are very blessed to have you as their mother! You are truly an Angel mother! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m admire your grace and simplicity. And I admire Skyler’s fun and adventure. Life happens! You’re both doing it well 💜. Thanks for letting us peak in on your journey!
People grow apart sometimes. That does not make it a bad thing. It’s just that they choose things where the other one is not comfortable or does not fit. What you have done very well is make sure there are no bad feelings that would be difficult for the children to deal with. I really admire you for that. Both of you.
Thank you for taking those steps on sharing with everyone on how things have been, and are currently going! You are doing an amazing job with the care of yourself and your family! Keep on walking as much as you can-The sunrise is beautiful!🏜🤗💗
Jamie, thank you for being transparent. You are an amazing mom! Loved the five suggestions your counselor gave you. Exercise is such a calming, joy filled time. It really clears our head. You are a strong and well centered women. Praying you will find your sparkle each day on your journey. ♥️🏃🏽♀️♥️
If I could add a 6th thing to that list- at the end of each day, writing down a few specific things you were thankful for that day! It helps me to be mindful of the good things in my life.
Bless you Jamie, when considering divorce it is not an easy step, it’s beyond challenging and emotionally draining. The 5 steps all sound so helpful. I am quiet and I really do not do well in overly stimulating circumstances. Your children will thank you later,in life to see that both of their parents are thriving, happy and confident
You are such a beautiful person inside and out Jamie. You probably don’t remember but I told you that you had weathered the storm and were ready for a rainbow. I see your rainbow just over the horizon and making this video puts you closer to seeing your rainbow. ❤️❤️
Well done you Jamie for sharing this! So open and raw! Can only imagine the 65 tabs open in your head and you don’t know where the music’s 🎶 coming from, trying to keep up appearances yet also trying to make sense of everything while battling with your self! Didn’t want to post here but Please ask your doctor for a blood test to check if you’re in starting/entering perimenopause! It’s took me over 8yrs to finally get blood tested and confirmed literally the following day which in hindsight and researching after diagnosis made so much sense and understanding to what was happening to myself and was advised I was depressed! Depression however is a horrible illness and still stigmatised! So thank you again for sharing this! Can’t have been easy and I hope you stay 💪 sending love and hugs 🤗 💛💛from 🏴🦄💕 Lou x
Thank you so much for opening up! I m homeschooling my one child, I could not imagine doing this with 6 kids! Plus homesteading, nope, thank you very much! I would think you have enough on your plate, wishing you all the best of luck and health.
I feel like there is way way more to the story then buying land in waco texas and homeschooling. Those are differences of opinions and issues to work through not reasons to divorce. He left the Mormon Faith and you didn't. No one is stupid.
I haven't watched your channel for a few years. I admit that most of what I enjoyed in the past was watching the miracle of you all raising your many children together and seeing how that worked! I am sorry to see the big changes that have happened in your lives, and sorry you've had to live through those publicly. I rediscovered your channel again today and even though you don't need the opinion of strangers, I still want to tell you that you're doing a great job and you are a beautiful human being. I hope you follow your gut as you move forward and don't worry about what your followers think or say, including me. Blessings to all of you!
I was told to "find joy in something each day also". I know you will be able to. Thanks for sharing. Your striving for making you complete will for sure instill so many good qualities in your kids growth also. Have a great day!
So many of us needed this. I wish every couple couple respect one another the way you two have. I will be honest 20 years ago I was so mean and cruel to my x but now we are friends and get along.
Depression is very common around the holidays. Please everyone reach out to someone if you are getting depressed, especially if you are thinking about hurting yourself. Just know, you are loved and matrer. God is available 24/7
After watching both of their vlogs i feel that there is more to the story than she gives. I love Jamie but she is definitely holding back. It seems that they grew apart because Skylar started questioning the Mormon faith more openly once his sister came out as Trans and also left the mormon church. And if thats the case fine, but be honest about it rather than making it seem like Skylar was trying to uphevel their life. In skylars vlogs he always gives Jamie praise despite their differences and supports her faith. Never once does he blame her in his vlogs for what happened. People change and they do grow apart and thats okay, but i feel like she could be either more transparent or just not describe it like this that made it sound like Skylar was trying to ruin their family.
I think it's also that she probably won't admit on camera how she truly feels about gay and trans people. she's also very into her faith so she probably doesn't want to shed a bad light to her religion.
I totally agree with you! I understand that it's really no one's business, however, when you put yourself out there in social media your fans do expect an honest explanation of why things happen in your life. Disappointed in her response!
She cannot even say his name. Shame after all they went through together. I believe you there is more. I think she relies a lot on what her Mom and Dad say as they are always there.
I've been watching since the quints were babies and your family has brought many hours of joy to me. I so admire the values that you base your life and your new channel on. Also, thank you for broaching the subject of mental health. So many of us struggle with depression and it was great to hear some useful tips. Hugs and prayers.💜
This is putting your children first, you are able to be focused and present, it's like a parent and child on an a plane, suddenly the oxygen mask drops down and the adult must place the mask on themself first and then the child. Depression is common with all the worries of what if's and not addressing your own needs (think of the oxygen mask), and I'm really impressed you addressed it quickly with a soft place to fall professionally and personally. Jamie you are doing an incredible job, you and Skylar are so supportive of one another putting the kids in a mindset where they feel safe and loved, it's amazing! So proud of you, and thanks for sharing.
Thanks for sharing how you feel Jamie, you're both raising your 7 kids with love and respect and you're here for them. The fact that you're now divorced or who decided that to me is not important and the journey of going through this just should make you both stronger. As always all my love to you all 🌟
I have loved watching you blossom and find your own voice in your youtube journey. One thing I would add that I learned from one of my mental health professionals - when you push yourself outside of your window of tolerance (kind of the what to say yes to and what to say no to) it takes twice as long to recover.
Thank you for making yourself vulnerable and sharing your reasons for your divorce. I pray your 5 things you have been instructed to do daily help you through your depression.
Always remember to continue to take care of yourself Ms. Jamie. Share what you are comfortable sharing. Stay quiet when you feel you need to. Remember, if it feels right to you (whatever it is), it IS right for you.
You are doing an awsome job and so is Skyler. There are no judgements here. In fact, I never felt like I just needed to know yall s reason for divoce. God bless and you are all in my prayers.
Appreciate you sharing the five steps so much! You have to do what is best for you and your kids. And, I think it must be so difficult dealing w the whole thing playing out on social media. You have handled it beautifully. Blessings to you and your family.🙏
Soo brave of you Jaimie to open up to the world. That’s huge and you didn’t have to. Well done 👍🏻 Like many, & as a granny myself, one can see your commitment & love for your family and it’s beautiful to watch your parents involved with helping out with your special little ones. Keep up the great work you are achieving Jaimie, you are a wonderful beautiful person & so inspiring for everyone. Look after yourself & everything will be just fine. Sending much love from Australia ❤️🇦🇺❤️😗
Hi Jamie, I am so happy you are doing something for yourself. Yes your symptoms do sound like you may be experiencing some level of depression, however, these symptoms are also very typical of perimenopause/menopause. Perimenopause can start in your 30/40's and go on for years. I think most people just think it happens when you are 50 and bang it's over but that is not the case with many women. Anyway, I thought it was worth a mention. There are several safe treatments available to help alleviate hormonal fluctuations. Hoping the 5 tips will work well. I think they are fabulous tips for everyone even if you are not experiencing any symptoms. Getting regular exercise, socialising, getting involved in your community and expressing your feelings are all very good for your health and longevity. Much love and God bless x
We love you jamie you’ve always brought the sparkle in me. You have always inspired me in so many beautiful ways and made me see the beautiful in the little things in life. Thank you jamie.
Sending you lots of love Jamie. I fully understand the decision you have had to make. You and Skyler are wonderful parents and your kids are just a joy. 🥰🥰🥰
I appreciate you being so transparent. I too was married very young (19), and we have 2 sons. A lot of things I mistook for love. 1 major regret I have in life was not finishing my degree in college. I believe this kept me from having a career of my choice and being able to take of myself as a single mom. (Basically, I was stuck )My ex-husband is a narcissist and boy did he have control over me, along with complete control over our money.Long story short, after 48 years of marriage (I know what many of you are thinking-you made it this long , can’t you just stick it out? ( I said those same words to some of my parent’s friends that divorced) But now I understand, they had been sticking it out for over 25 years and had enough just like me!) Here I am 71 years old. My son and DIL asked me to move in with them (my son is a home builder-he built our dream home and they built there house next door to us. So 4 years ago, I moved in with them and 3 out of the 5 grandkids I have. I’m so thankful for them. We help one another. Do I regret getting married? No, I wouldn’t have had my 2 wonderful sons. Should I have left earlier, yes. I will be praying for you as you navigate your new normal. You will make it, even though some days you don’t think you will. You are young enough and beautiful and I’m sure you will find love again. At my age, I have no desire to date, much less marry again. Having to learn 70 years of history on a partner -no thank you!
Thank you for sharing, and I wish you all the luck in the world. All though I,m not a religious person, I,m glad you find comfort in that. Take care Jamie, you can do it ♥
Thanks for this Jaime xx I felt a little bit closer to you today and I appreciate that you put yourself out there. You are doing a wonderful job and helping more people than you can imagine with your loving words and ways.
Thank you for speaking your truth. It was time. I hope it gives you relief from holding it in and helps with your depression. Let it out and let it go. Take care of you!! ♥️🙏🏻
Jamie very brave putting yourself out there(maybe it will help someone take steps to get help) . Being there for your children is important, but first you need to take care of yourself. God bless you and your family as you go on this journey. Long island Kathy
Wow thats great advice you got from your counselor! One of the best pieces of advice I got when going through my divorce came from my relief society president. She said "you don't owe anyone an explanation" and I think especially when you're such a public figure you could really benefit by taking that to heart too! There will always be curious people but you don't owe them an explanation!
Wishing you well on your journey. I got a divorce a long time ago after 28 years together. It WAS the best thing for me... but I sort of went down your path of depression. My consistent piece of advice to add to your list is.... before your feet hit the ground every morning, think of 5 good things in your life.... and add them to your list of things to be grateful for... it'll help turn your thoughts to positive in no time. Love and hugs from California.
Thanks for sharing. I know you are a reserved person, and please do not feel you have to share anything that makes you uncomfortable. The tips are really helpful and you were so brave to step out if you felt that was what you needed. Takes a lot of courage. Love to both of you, you are both wonderful people and I wish you the best.
People who post vlogs are putting themselves in a vulnerable position. I can't imagine the pressure you have on a daily basis. Your family is beautiful and I enjoy seeing your children grow and develop. Quintuplets have their own challenges. I admire you for your openness. I praise God for His lovely gift of your family. Blessings to you and your kids
Thank you. I didn't feel you needed to share but you may have needed to share. You said it in a very kind way. You are a wonderful mom and a wonderful family. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. Glad you are on the road to healing.
Jamie one thing I see as s strength of yours is your beauty you share of yourself and outside the house. Wanted to share that with you. I suffer from depression to.
Wishing nothing but the best for all of you! I’m sorry that everyone has such huge opinions about your life. It’s truly none of our business whatsoever & saying “ it just didn’t work out” should be enough for anybody bold enough to ask. ❤
It’s a public platform and everyone will have a different opinion and unfortunately some are not so kind. But it’s really important to keep some personal stuff private. It’s crazy to me that influencers will air everything out of their private lives on this forum.
Some of the symptoms also sound like perimenopause. Being in my 40s, all kinds of stuff is happening. Changes in midlife are common in both men and women. I am seeing marriages being impacted at this time. I love my husband and family, but notice burnout and lower tolerance for stress and that I get overwhelmed and overstimulated more readily. We still have younger kids too, and though we are so blessed, it is difficult to feel pulled in so many directions and to have so many needs to meet.
@@JennSafari I went through menopause early and thought I was losing it. Thankfully I had a great Primary Care doctor who knew right away what the problem was and did some testing and sure enough my hormone levels showed that I was definitely in the midst of menopause.
I don't blame you for not wanting to move away from family and everything you are familiar with. Having family around is so important. Thank you for opening up. Life is so short, and being around family and those we love is so important. It appears you live in an area where you get a lot of support and family and friends interactions. I just love your parents and little Grandma. That was a nice way of putting it, that you both were on different paths. Seeing you both apart, You can tell why it was the right thing to do, for all of you. I was super sad when I heard you were separated and then getting a divorce, but I think you made the healthiest decision for all of your happiness for everyone involved. I think the children have adjusted very well. This way, the children are getting the best of you both. You both are still partners in co-parenting. If anything comes up where you need extra help, you both have so many friends and family around for support.
Thank you for sharing! God is giving you the strength you need to continue with your life now as a single mom. I truly believe that you have made the right choice for you; that’s ALL it matters. ❤
Jamie, know you are Loved. You connected to your inner self and realized your truth and most people continue to live their lives in a relationship that prohibit them from growing. Our thoughts create how we feel. Continue to think beautiful thoughts.
Thank you for those very helpful words, for it resonates with me. Glad that you recognize where you require help & put it into action young lady. Miss Jamie, you’re a charm💐🍎💞
I can understand what you are saying and why you chose to divorce. But I guess you won since Skyler will not leave his children and is staying in Utah and not moving to TX. Not sure why you decided to go along with buying land in TX if you were not planning to move there.
Yeah Skylar really won being stuck in a state full of beliefs and community he doesn’t align with anymore. Full of hatful people wanting to tear his sister down. Watching his children suffer the same way he did through the church… no wonder he wanted out of Utah….
Jamie, Thank you for being vulnerable. It sucks when people talk for us. You had different life paths and that's okay. You seem so happy in this vlog, bright and cheery.
I, respectfully, found it a bit confusing that you said that you decided to divorce because you grew apart and away from each other. Him wanting to change the dynamic by moving and restructuring the way the family was managed and you not wanting that. But then you said that you felt it was the compassionate thing by letting your husband go. These are two very different different connotations.
Divorcing a husband who is loving and not abusive is not a loving thing to do. Maybe he was abusive though but the reason she gave for divorce in this video is sad.
@@ashleydanielson3222it can be when the dynamic is very different from all the things in life you know,home teaching and homesteading isn’t for everyone!
You're correct it's not for everyone, but they could have worked out a compromise however long that may have taken. Marriage is always 100/ 100 partnership, not a 50/50 situation.
THE quints are going to school in any case so clearly that was not an honest reason to get a divorce .There's 2 reasons for God to get a divorce1 When your husband is a disbeliever 2 .When he cheats .Those are the only reasons and I guess God wont want you to be married to an abuser .But Jamie I think to be honest you fell out of love with your husband .I picked up on it long becore the divorce and there are practical ways one can work on it .
Thank you for sharing ❤It's hard to put yourself out there. You got this your a strong person and your relationship with the Lord God will give you the strength you need ❤🙏
Jamie, I totally understand where you are coming from. I left my husband after 16 1/2 years. Our son was almost 16. My ex and I had grown apart and and our ideals/goals had taken different paths about where we should be. It’s been just over 12 years since divorced, and I can easily say, it was for the better. Our son is now 28, has a home of his own, and is getting married in 6 weeks! My prayers are with you as you and your family continue on this journey.
Hi Jamie! I remember how the news about your breakup with Skyler struck me to the core. I was very shocked and upset when I saw the title of that video. In addition, this video came out when the war began in my country and I was in double shock... But I’m glad that you were able to separate peacefully and without harm to the children. You are both great guys and wonderful parents!❤
Came across your five two love years ago and thankful that you video vlogged. It’s beautiful to see your munchkins grow into little creative productive humans beings doing things and exploring life. It’s courageous and important to live your life the best way for you and your family. Keep up the great work for your health and wellness. Your mission is so important and wonderful because most light workers have to go through this process. Being a light worker is painful! Be compassionate to yourself is imperative, and if you can eat foods that are high vibration it can help tremendously. Look into eating more raw foods this is not to say stop eating cooked meals. However one food that many people fail to acknowledge is that wheat and processed foods can create inflammation in the body in certain people and create havoc which in turn can create depression in the body. Less processed foods and more raw. You will go through changes and cleansing however it can help tremendously release toxins and illness from your body. You will get your sparkle back it’s God’s way of preparing you to let go of things that do not serve you so that you can better serve in the next phase of your life.
I have to admit , you have really open up to us more and look so much happier. You both are amazing parents and I wish you all the very best and a happy and healthy future ❤️. Sending love and hugs from Florida 😎🩷
take care of yourself first, your babies do need you...I also dealing with depression, I agree on what you said to do to maintain, but I still struggle with finding motivation, but at least my two kids are adults (24 and 21), but I would still do what I can for them
Jamie, anyone who has followed you for any period of time knows your deep faith and love for the Lord. Please know what a light you are to so many people.
My cousin and her husband separated after over 30 years. I have never asked her and she has never told me the reasons. Their reasons are no one's business and I fully respect that. I wish I had had that same understanding and respect when my first husband and I separated and then divorced. My dad was so mad at me he didn't speak to me for a few months. Share what you want and keep to yourself what you want, and keep seeing your therapist.
I left mine after 16 years together and I am so much happier now. The Man always acts as if they didn’t want it and they are the victim. I am so happy to finally here from you. ❤❤❤❤
It is so sad when I see older vlogs of you and your husband struggling to raise those precious quints together. You worked as a team . It would never have been possible if you were not together. Skyler developed the YT channel to share that journey. Would never have heard of you without his initiative. Have much respect for him as a father and influencer. He is genuine.
Again I keep saying he felt betrayed not only by his wife but his faith they had her she tells us she had the back up of her faith so where did that leave him ?????
Wow ! Shocked ! I would have thought you were more of the homesteader , with chickens and an older home to redo with Skyler living in a newer like home . I would have guessed that wrong . Good luck with all that you do ❤
Why are there so many rabidly opinionated commenters who are too blind to see that this poor woman is choosing to stay with her faith, putting it and her children first? While ex-husband is leaving the faith and his wish to go homesteading and homeschooling far away from their homebase is his way to solve the problem to keep the family together while evading their church he can no longer live with? Why do you blame her for making an apparently horrible choice that she never wanted to make? Why do you blame her for tearing the family apart? While she still has the grace to not blame anyone in this story? The homestading/homeschooling is the tip of the iceberg of this LDS story. I can see why her ex-husband chose to leave this faith. I can see why she can't and doesn't want to. People are so incredibly nasty and Jamie gets bashed and blamed for making a sincere choice, trying to be open and vulnerable at the same time, without blaming anyone. What, please, should she WORK on if her husband loses his faith, totally unrelated to her? This conundrum is unsolvable beyond how she solved it. Unless you mean she should have left her faith, too, to keep the family together? Please delete this, if I said way too much. It hurts me that she gets attacked by so many "well-meaning" and apparently righteous people who don't know what they are looking at.
Thank you for your openness. By continuing to share your life, you are helping so many others, wether it’s child or self care. God bless you & your family ❤
Wow. First of all, I respect you Jamie, and I respect your former husband. And I'm proud of you both and inspired by your online respect for one another and one another's privacy. I'm very saddened to learn that so many people have felt it appropriate to comment on your very personal decisions. Private relationships between people are just that - private. I'm also shocked that people have commented on your relationship with your creator. That's another very private relationship! I know this happens, but I wish it didn't. I send you strength and I thank you for inspiring me with your grace and honesty. Hugs!
I have loved watching you love your children and build you life. I just want you to be healthy and happy. God first and I see that in you. Your an amazing Mom.
I always thought when you were bringing up the babies/ toddlers/ children that you were homeschooling them in the best way. Social education, crafts, singing, logic, speaking, science, books, observation, you were really giving them a 24/7 learning environment. I really anticipated that you would continue to home school them, so what a shock to me to hear you say you didn’t know anything about home schooling. You know everything there is to know. This is from a retired teacher. Actually the way the school system is now, I wouldn’t want my kids exposed to it.
@@JennSafariI have never seen children receive as much guidance and teaching as those children. To me, it was extraordinary and admirable. Homeschooling is a continuation of that kind of activity, plus other age appropriate arrangements. My comment was a compliment to Jamie if you didn’t catch that.
@@JennSafari You still don’t get what I was saying. The quints did not have a common experience as pre school age kids. If their education were continued as it was, they would have been probably more informed and developed than spending time in a regular class room. But what I was responding to primarily was Jamie’s comment that she didn’t know anything about homeschooling and I am saying is that she actually did know about it instinctively even though that may not be label she or you agree with, and she was doing it, whether she knew it or not. I get it that she didn’t want to continue and wanted the kids to be in a structured school. I get it.
Don't mind jensafari, she has had other names here that have been deleted from the group already. She feels she knows exactly everything about this family. She will say and make snark remarks even when you have a decent comment like this one ! You said nothing wrong, and instead of just letting Jamie read your response, she will jump all over you. TH-cam deleted a comment already yesterday, so please if she gets too bad, please report her post to TH-cam.
I was Divorced after being married for 23 years. Very painful, but I made it through.
Jamie…I love that you shared vulnerability today because you felt like it was the right thing to do. That type of bravery takes a lot of strength! I love you for it! So happy that you are finding happiness and peace within. All 7 of your children are very blessed to have you as their mother! You are truly an Angel mother! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m admire your grace and simplicity. And I admire Skyler’s fun and adventure. Life happens! You’re both doing it well 💜. Thanks for letting us peak in on your journey!
I love that you are addressing mental health. It is so important and I don’t think it’s talked enough about.
People grow apart sometimes. That does not make it a bad thing. It’s just that they choose things where the other one is not comfortable or does not fit. What you have done very well is make sure there are no bad feelings that would be difficult for the children to deal with. I really admire you for that. Both of you.
There is still definitely a lot for the children to deal with.
Thank you for taking those steps on sharing with everyone on how things have been, and are currently going! You are doing an amazing job with the care of yourself and your family! Keep on walking as much as you can-The sunrise is beautiful!🏜🤗💗
Jamie, thank you for being transparent. You are an amazing mom!
Loved the five suggestions your counselor gave you. Exercise is such a calming, joy filled time. It really clears our head. You are a strong and well centered women. Praying you will find your sparkle each day on your journey. ♥️🏃🏽♀️♥️
Transparent?!?!?! There’s something she’s not!
If I could add a 6th thing to that list- at the end of each day, writing down a few specific things you were thankful for that day! It helps me to be mindful of the good things in my life.
I agree. That really helps me when I'm experiencing depression.
Totally agree 👌🏻😍
Bless you Jamie, when considering divorce it is not an easy step, it’s beyond challenging and emotionally draining. The 5 steps all sound so helpful. I am quiet and I really do not do well in overly stimulating circumstances. Your children will thank you later,in life to see that both of their parents are thriving, happy and confident
You are such a beautiful person inside and out Jamie. You probably don’t remember but I told you that you had weathered the storm and were ready for a rainbow. I see your rainbow just over the horizon and making this video puts you closer to seeing your rainbow. ❤️❤️
Thanks for sharing! I'm going to incorporate these steps in my day to hopefully feel better!
What I don’t understand is why people think that your personal life is their business.
Because it’s on line and is a business to a certain extent.
Because they share their life on the internet
Eva use she makes it out business welcome to being a blogger or personality on you tube !!!! What a dumb question
Well done you Jamie for sharing this! So open and raw! Can only imagine the 65 tabs open in your head and you don’t know where the music’s 🎶 coming from, trying to keep up appearances yet also trying to make sense of everything while battling with your self! Didn’t want to post here but Please ask your doctor for a blood test to check if you’re in starting/entering perimenopause! It’s took me over 8yrs to finally get blood tested and confirmed literally the following day which in hindsight and researching after diagnosis made so much sense and understanding to what was happening to myself and was advised I was depressed! Depression however is a horrible illness and still stigmatised! So thank you again for sharing this! Can’t have been easy and I hope you stay 💪 sending love and hugs 🤗 💛💛from 🏴🦄💕 Lou x
Thank you so much for opening up! I m homeschooling my one child, I could not imagine doing this with 6 kids! Plus homesteading, nope, thank you very much! I would think you have enough on your plate, wishing you all the best of luck and health.
I’m so glad to hear you speak of this. Keep on keeping on. Having a list always helps me to accomplish daily tasks. Some are fun. Some not so fun. 😊
I feel like there is way way more to the story then buying land in waco texas and homeschooling. Those are differences of opinions and issues to work through not reasons to divorce. He left the Mormon Faith and you didn't. No one is stupid.
Also can you imagine being betrayed by both your faith and your wife they just took sides you don’t have to be a genius to see that
I haven't watched your channel for a few years. I admit that most of what I enjoyed in the past was watching the miracle of you all raising your many children together and seeing how that worked! I am sorry to see the big changes that have happened in your lives, and sorry you've had to live through those publicly.
I rediscovered your channel again today and even though you don't need the opinion of strangers, I still want to tell you that you're doing a great job and you are a beautiful human being. I hope you follow your gut as you move forward and don't worry about what your followers think or say, including me. Blessings to all of you!
I was told to "find joy in something each day also". I know you will be able to. Thanks for sharing. Your striving for making you complete will for sure instill so many good qualities in your kids growth also. Have a great day!
So many of us needed this. I wish every couple couple respect one another the way you two have. I will be honest 20 years ago I was so mean and cruel to my x but now we are friends and get along.
Depression is very common around the holidays. Please everyone reach out to someone if you are getting depressed, especially if you are thinking about hurting yourself. Just know, you are loved and matrer. God is available 24/7
After watching both of their vlogs i feel that there is more to the story than she gives. I love Jamie but she is definitely holding back. It seems that they grew apart because Skylar started questioning the Mormon faith more openly once his sister came out as Trans and also left the mormon church. And if thats the case fine, but be honest about it rather than making it seem like Skylar was trying to uphevel their life. In skylars vlogs he always gives Jamie praise despite their differences and supports her faith. Never once does he blame her in his vlogs for what happened. People change and they do grow apart and thats okay, but i feel like she could be either more transparent or just not describe it like this that made it sound like Skylar was trying to ruin their family.
She has boundaries and is observing the boundaries.
I think it's also that she probably won't admit on camera how she truly feels about gay and trans people. she's also very into her faith so she probably doesn't want to shed a bad light to her religion.
I totally agree with you! I understand that it's really no one's business, however, when you put yourself out there in social media your fans do expect an honest explanation of why things happen in your life. Disappointed in her response!
She cannot even say his name. Shame after all they went through together. I believe you there is more. I think she relies a lot on what her Mom and Dad say as they are always there.
She also implies she is alone and sounds like she has no help but seems like her parents are always there.
I started crying when you started sharing the five steps. I’ve really needed this. Thank you for sharing! ❤
Take magnesium it is so good and it’ll help you sleep. Three of them change my life also melatonin a stronger milligram.
It was NOT the best decision for your children or your husband. God hates divorce.
@@michelemoneywell8765 Speech is silver, silence is golden
God’s self-appointed rep is in the house.
I've been watching since the quints were babies and your family has brought many hours of joy to me. I so admire the values that you base your life and your new channel on. Also, thank you for broaching the subject of mental health. So many of us struggle with depression and it was great to hear some useful tips. Hugs and prayers.💜
Beautifully said!
This is putting your children first, you are able to be focused and present, it's like a parent and child on an a plane, suddenly the oxygen mask drops down and the adult must place the mask on themself first and then the child. Depression is common with all the worries of what if's and not addressing your own needs (think of the oxygen mask), and I'm really impressed you addressed it quickly with a soft place to fall professionally and personally. Jamie you are doing an incredible job, you and Skylar are so supportive of one another putting the kids in a mindset where they feel safe and loved, it's amazing! So proud of you, and thanks for sharing.
Beautifully written and I agree 💯!
I agree
Thanks for sharing how you feel Jamie, you're both raising your 7 kids with love and respect and you're here for them. The fact that you're now divorced or who decided that to me is not important and the journey of going through this just should make you both stronger. As always all my love to you all 🌟
Jamie , you are a rockstar, big hug’s ❤ prayers that all goes smoothly in your journey.
Lot’s of good luck 🍀 and good vibes to you and your family 💞
I have loved watching you blossom and find your own voice in your youtube journey. One thing I would add that I learned from one of my mental health professionals - when you push yourself outside of your window of tolerance (kind of the what to say yes to and what to say no to) it takes twice as long to recover.
Completely understand feeling low! I admire your willingness to share. Have a wonderful day.
Your relationship is no one's business, but what you are sharing will help many, so thank you. 💜🙏💜
Thank you for making yourself vulnerable and sharing your reasons for your divorce. I pray your 5 things you have been instructed to do daily help you through your depression.
Always remember to continue to take care of yourself Ms. Jamie. Share what you are comfortable sharing. Stay quiet when you feel you need to. Remember, if it feels right to you (whatever it is), it IS right for you.
Great vlog Jamie! I appreciate how genuine you are!
You are doing an awsome job and so is Skyler. There are no judgements here. In fact, I never felt like I just needed to know yall s reason for divoce. God bless and you are all in my prayers.
Appreciate you sharing the five steps so much! You have to do what is best for you and your kids. And, I think it must be so difficult dealing w the whole thing playing out on social media. You have handled it beautifully. Blessings to you and your family.🙏
Thank you Jamie for sharing. Many of us are divorced and it is never easy, especially when you have children. Stay strong xx
Soo brave of you Jaimie to open up to the world. That’s huge and you didn’t have to. Well done 👍🏻 Like many, & as a granny myself, one can see your commitment & love for your family and it’s beautiful to watch your parents involved with helping out with your special little ones. Keep up the great work you are achieving Jaimie, you are a wonderful beautiful person & so inspiring for everyone. Look after yourself & everything will be just fine. Sending much love from Australia ❤️🇦🇺❤️😗
Hi Jamie, I am so happy you are doing something for yourself. Yes your symptoms do sound like you may be experiencing some level of depression, however, these symptoms are also very typical of perimenopause/menopause. Perimenopause can start in your 30/40's and go on for years. I think most people just think it happens when you are 50 and bang it's over but that is not the case with many women. Anyway, I thought it was worth a mention. There are several safe treatments available to help alleviate hormonal fluctuations. Hoping the 5 tips will work well. I think they are fabulous tips for everyone even if you are not experiencing any symptoms. Getting regular exercise, socialising, getting involved in your community and expressing your feelings are all very good for your health and longevity. Much love and God bless x
We love you jamie you’ve always brought the sparkle in me. You have always inspired me in so many beautiful ways and made me see the beautiful in the little things in life.
Thank you jamie.
Hugs prayers and good thoughts for you and the kids! Everyone chooses the path that’s right for them :)
Sending you lots of love Jamie. I fully understand the decision you have had to make. You and Skyler are wonderful parents and your kids are just a joy. 🥰🥰🥰
I appreciate you being so transparent. I too was married very young (19), and we have 2 sons. A lot of things I mistook for love. 1 major regret I have in life was not finishing my degree in college. I believe this kept me from having a career of my choice and being able to take of myself as a single mom. (Basically, I was stuck )My ex-husband is a narcissist and boy did he have control over me, along with complete control over our money.Long story short, after 48 years of marriage (I know what many of you are thinking-you made it this long , can’t you just stick it out? ( I said those same words to some of my parent’s friends that divorced) But now I understand, they had been sticking it out for over 25 years and had enough just like me!) Here I am 71 years old. My son and DIL asked me to move in with them (my son is a home builder-he built our dream home and they built there house next door to us. So 4 years ago, I moved in with them and 3 out of the 5 grandkids I have. I’m so thankful for them. We help one another. Do I regret getting married? No, I wouldn’t have had my 2 wonderful sons. Should I have left earlier, yes. I will be praying for you as you navigate your new normal. You will make it, even though some days you don’t think you will. You are young enough and beautiful and I’m sure you will find love again. At my age, I have no desire to date, much less marry again. Having to learn 70 years of history on a partner -no thank you!
Thank you for sharing, and I wish you all the luck in the world. All though I,m not a religious person, I,m glad you find comfort in that. Take care Jamie, you can do it ♥
Thanks for this Jaime xx I felt a little bit closer to you today and I appreciate that you put yourself out there. You are doing a wonderful job and helping more people than you can imagine with your loving words and ways.
Thank you for speaking your truth. It was time. I hope it gives you relief from holding it in and helps with your depression. Let it out and let it go. Take care of you!! ♥️🙏🏻
Jamie very brave putting yourself out there(maybe it will help someone take steps to get help) . Being there for your children is important, but first you need to take care of yourself. God bless you and your family as you go on this journey. Long island Kathy
Wow thats great advice you got from your counselor! One of the best pieces of advice I got when going through my divorce came from my relief society president. She said "you don't owe anyone an explanation" and I think especially when you're such a public figure you could really benefit by taking that to heart too! There will always be curious people but you don't owe them an explanation!
Wishing you well on your journey. I got a divorce a long time ago after 28 years together. It WAS the best thing for me... but I sort of went down your path of depression. My consistent piece of advice to add to your list is.... before your feet hit the ground every morning, think of 5 good things in your life.... and add them to your list of things to be grateful for... it'll help turn your thoughts to positive in no time. Love and hugs from California.
Thanks for sharing. I know you are a reserved person, and please do not feel you have to share anything that makes you uncomfortable. The tips are really helpful and you were so brave to step out if you felt that was what you needed. Takes a lot of courage. Love to both of you, you are both wonderful people and I wish you the best.
People who post vlogs are putting themselves in a vulnerable position. I can't imagine the pressure you have on a daily basis. Your family is beautiful and I enjoy seeing your children grow and develop. Quintuplets have their own challenges. I admire you for your openness. I praise God for His lovely gift of your family. Blessings to you and your kids
Bless your heart Jamie. I hope you know that an explanation wasn't necessary for most of us xx
Good for you, Jamie. Also the house looks great!
When people tell us we should stay married for God, I call bs. He knows I was an abused wife, and He gave me the strength to get out!
Thank you. I didn't feel you needed to share but you may have needed to share. You said it in a very kind way. You are a wonderful mom and a wonderful family. Thank you for sharing your life with all of us. Glad you are on the road to healing.
Thank you for sharing Jamie. I'm also going thru depression I'm going to try the 5 steps
Jamie one thing I see as s strength of yours is your beauty you share of yourself and outside the house. Wanted to share that with you. I suffer from depression to.
Thank you for those 5 things, ive been pretty depressed my self and have no one to talk to, thanks jamie. I really mean it.
Wishing nothing but the best for all of you! I’m sorry that everyone has such huge opinions about your life. It’s truly none of our business whatsoever & saying “ it just didn’t work out” should be enough for anybody bold enough to ask. ❤
It’s a public platform and everyone will have a different opinion and unfortunately some are not so kind. But it’s really important to keep some personal stuff private. It’s crazy to me that influencers will air everything out of their private lives on this forum.
Some of the symptoms also sound like perimenopause. Being in my 40s, all kinds of stuff is happening. Changes in midlife are common in both men and women. I am seeing marriages being impacted at this time. I love my husband and family, but notice burnout and lower tolerance for stress and that I get overwhelmed and overstimulated more readily. We still have younger kids too, and though we are so blessed, it is difficult to feel pulled in so many directions and to have so many needs to meet.
Absolutely agree! Perimenopause with fluctuating hormone levels and imbalances can absolutely affect mood.
@@JennSafarinot really..everyone is different
@@judyivie4181 it can start in one's upper 30s, though more often in early to mid 40's.
@@JennSafari I went through menopause early and thought I was losing it. Thankfully I had a great Primary Care doctor who knew right away what the problem was and did some testing and sure enough my hormone levels showed that I was definitely in the midst of menopause.
@@JennSafari Peri men begins at 35
Love both you and Skyler ❤ your children are so blessed to have you ❤️Stay strong Jamie ❤
Thank-you Jamie for these extremely helpful words of advice. I plan to practice them and share them with others.
Well done for opening up Jamie. You are strong, God bless ❤
I don't blame you for not wanting to move away from family and everything you are familiar with. Having family around is so important. Thank you for opening up. Life is so short, and being around family and those we love is so important. It appears you live in an area where you get a lot of support and family and friends interactions. I just love your parents and little Grandma. That was a nice way of putting it, that you both were on different paths. Seeing you both apart, You can tell why it was the right thing to do, for all of you. I was super sad when I heard you were separated and then getting a divorce, but I think you made the healthiest decision for all of your happiness for everyone involved. I think the children have adjusted very well. This way, the children are getting the best of you both. You both are still partners in co-parenting. If anything comes up where you need extra help, you both have so many friends and family around for support.
I think it was more than just moving away from family.
Gosh, sure hope they didn't end their marriage over just homeschooling. I was so disappointed by their break up but now am even more.
I was impressed with how simplified you kept that. But still shared enough
Thank you for sharing! God is giving you the strength you need to continue with your life now as a single mom. I truly believe that you have made the right choice for you; that’s ALL it matters. ❤
Jamie, know you are Loved. You connected to your inner self and realized your truth and most people continue to live their lives in a relationship that prohibit them from growing. Our thoughts create how we feel. Continue to think beautiful thoughts.
Thank you for those very helpful words, for it resonates with me. Glad that you recognize where you require help & put it into action young lady. Miss Jamie, you’re a charm💐🍎💞
I can understand what you are saying and why you chose to divorce. But I guess you won since Skyler will not leave his children and is staying in Utah and not moving to TX. Not sure why you decided to go along with buying land in TX if you were not planning to move there.
I agree
Yeah Skylar really won being stuck in a state full of beliefs and community he doesn’t align with anymore. Full of hatful people wanting to tear his sister down. Watching his children suffer the same way he did through the church… no wonder he wanted out of Utah….
@@LJ13222 Apparently his sister is not experiencing negativity if you watch the clog from that family.
Jamie, Thank you for being vulnerable. It sucks when people talk for us. You had different life paths and that's okay. You seem so happy in this vlog, bright and cheery.
She SAID she is suffering from depression.
I guess people truly do see what they want to see
I, respectfully, found it a bit confusing that you said that you decided to divorce because you grew apart and away from each other. Him wanting to change the dynamic by moving and restructuring the way the family was managed and you not wanting that. But then you said that you felt it was the compassionate thing by letting your husband go. These are two very different different connotations.
Yeah no kidding! She REALLY changed the family dynamic!
Divorcing a husband who is loving and not abusive is not a loving thing to do. Maybe he was abusive though but the reason she gave for divorce in this video is sad.
@@ashleydanielson3222it can be when the dynamic is very different from all the things in life you know,home teaching and homesteading isn’t for everyone!
You're correct it's not for everyone, but they could have worked out a compromise however long that may have taken. Marriage is always 100/ 100 partnership, not a 50/50 situation.
THE quints are going to school in any case so clearly that was not an honest reason to get a divorce .There's 2 reasons for God to get a divorce1 When your husband is a disbeliever 2 .When he cheats .Those are the only reasons and I guess God wont want you to be married to an abuser .But Jamie I think to be honest you fell out of love with your husband .I picked up on it long becore the divorce and there are practical ways one can work on it .
Thank you for sharing ❤It's hard to put yourself out there. You got this your a strong person and your relationship with the Lord God will give you the strength you need ❤🙏
Thank you for sharing, Jamie. 😊
Jamie, I totally understand where you are coming from. I left my husband after 16 1/2 years. Our son was almost 16. My ex and I had grown apart and and our ideals/goals had taken different paths about where we should be. It’s been just over 12 years since divorced, and I can easily say, it was for the better. Our son is now 28, has a home of his own, and is getting married in 6 weeks! My prayers are with you as you and your family continue on this journey.
Hi Jamie! I remember how the news about your breakup with Skyler struck me to the core. I was very shocked and upset when I saw the title of that video. In addition, this video came out when the war began in my country and I was in double shock... But I’m glad that you were able to separate peacefully and without harm to the children. You are both great guys and wonderful parents!❤
Jaimie you didn't even need to say why you got divorced may God bless your family with Grace and Healing and love
Came across your five two love years ago and thankful that you video vlogged. It’s beautiful to see your munchkins grow into little creative productive humans beings doing things and exploring life. It’s courageous and important to live your life the best way for you and your family.
Keep up the great work for your health and wellness. Your mission is so important and wonderful because most light workers have to go through this process. Being a light worker is painful! Be compassionate to yourself is imperative, and if you can eat foods that are high vibration it can help tremendously. Look into eating more raw foods this is not to say stop eating cooked meals. However one food that many people fail to acknowledge is that wheat and processed foods can create inflammation in the body in certain people and create havoc which in turn can create depression in the body. Less processed foods and more raw. You will go through changes and cleansing however it can help tremendously release toxins and illness from your body. You will get your sparkle back it’s God’s way of preparing you to let go of things that do not serve you so that you can better serve in the next phase of your life.
Great suggestions for working your way out of depression!!!
I have to admit , you have really open up to us more and look so much happier. You both are amazing parents and I wish you all the very best and a happy and healthy future ❤️. Sending love and hugs from Florida 😎🩷
Thanks for sharing about everything.
Jamie, you are a beautiful person! I would love to be a friend of yours. You seem to be such a caring, and encouraging woman! 🤍
take care of yourself first, your babies do need you...I also dealing with depression, I agree on what you said to do to maintain, but I still struggle with finding motivation, but at least my two kids are adults (24 and 21), but I would still do what I can for them
Jamie, anyone who has followed you for any period of time knows your deep faith and love for the Lord. Please know what a light you are to so many people.
My cousin and her husband separated after over 30 years. I have never asked her and she has never told me the reasons. Their reasons are no one's business and I fully respect that. I wish I had had that same understanding and respect when my first husband and I separated and then divorced. My dad was so mad at me he didn't speak to me for a few months. Share what you want and keep to yourself what you want, and keep seeing your therapist.
I left mine after 16 years together and I am so much happier now. The
Man always acts as if they didn’t want it and they are the victim. I am so happy to finally here from you. ❤❤❤❤
You both are amazing parents and individuals!
It is so sad when I see older vlogs of you and your husband struggling to raise those precious quints together. You worked as a team . It would never have been possible if you were not together. Skyler developed the YT channel to share that journey. Would never have heard of you without his initiative. Have much respect for him as a father and influencer. He is genuine.
Again I keep saying he felt betrayed not only by his wife but his faith they had her she tells us she had the back up of her faith so where did that leave him ?????
Wow ! Shocked ! I would have thought you were more of the homesteader , with chickens and an older home to redo with Skyler living in a newer like home . I would have guessed that wrong . Good luck with all that you do ❤
I don’t buy that people “grow apart”. Marriage takes work. And if you aren’t willing to do that work then that’s a problem
Absolutely! Why the heck make a promise and a commitment to someone if you don't try when the going gets tough.
@@karmar8137 this whole homesteading and homeschooling should have been discussed BEFORE they had children. Not after! Or even before marriage
Why are there so many rabidly opinionated commenters who are too blind to see that this poor woman is choosing to stay with her faith, putting it and her children first? While ex-husband is leaving the faith and his wish to go homesteading and homeschooling far away from their homebase is his way to solve the problem to keep the family together while evading their church he can no longer live with? Why do you blame her for making an apparently horrible choice that she never wanted to make? Why do you blame her for tearing the family apart? While she still has the grace to not blame anyone in this story? The homestading/homeschooling is the tip of the iceberg of this LDS story. I can see why her ex-husband chose to leave this faith. I can see why she can't and doesn't want to. People are so incredibly nasty and Jamie gets bashed and blamed for making a sincere choice, trying to be open and vulnerable at the same time, without blaming anyone. What, please, should she WORK on if her husband loses his faith, totally unrelated to her? This conundrum is unsolvable beyond how she solved it. Unless you mean she should have left her faith, too, to keep the family together?
Please delete this, if I said way too much. It hurts me that she gets attacked by so many "well-meaning" and apparently righteous people who don't know what they are looking at.
Are you married ? Not all marriages are salvageable.
Great give things! Going to give them a try. I always get some seasonal depression this time of year.
great video to help others going thru divorce or depression. thank you for support for your viewers
you still are a family,this is good for everybody,so much love❤ride it like a wave😉
Thank you for your openness. By continuing to share your life, you are helping so many others, wether it’s child or self care. God bless you & your family ❤
Todays blog was very brave, well done. 😘
Wow. First of all, I respect you Jamie, and I respect your former husband. And I'm proud of you both and inspired by your online respect for one another and one another's privacy. I'm very saddened to learn that so many people have felt it appropriate to comment on your very personal decisions. Private relationships between people are just that - private. I'm also shocked that people have commented on your relationship with your creator. That's another very private relationship! I know this happens, but I wish it didn't. I send you strength and I thank you for inspiring me with your grace and honesty. Hugs!
This is the problem with putting your life and your children's lives online. People will comment.
People ask question’s and talk about this family, because they put their lives out in a very public forum. How could they not expect questions?
Thanks for sharing from your heart Jamie! Hugs and Prayers for you and your family! ❤🎉😊
If they don't want peoples comments, then they need to stop displaying their life for the world to watch on social media.
I have loved watching you love your children and build you life. I just want you to be healthy and happy. God first and I see that in you. Your an amazing Mom.
Such honest feedback. Good information about depression. Good tips. Thank you for your vulnerability.
My Daughter after 20 years of marriage, realized she needed to Divorce her husband for her mental health💔
Jamie thank you for being vulnerable. You got this!
Thank you Jamie so much for sharing your heart, and being transparent. Praying the Lord’s healing and renewal in you.🙏
I always thought when you were bringing up the babies/ toddlers/ children that you were homeschooling them in the best way. Social education, crafts, singing, logic, speaking, science, books, observation, you were really giving them a 24/7 learning environment. I really anticipated that you would continue to home school them, so what a shock to me to hear you say you didn’t know anything about home schooling. You know everything there is to know. This is from a retired teacher. Actually the way the school system is now, I wouldn’t want my kids exposed to it.
I totally agree with all you have said.
Thats what homeschooling is though
@@JennSafariI have never seen children receive as much guidance and teaching as those children. To me, it was extraordinary and admirable. Homeschooling is a continuation of that kind of activity, plus other age appropriate arrangements.
My comment was a compliment to Jamie if you didn’t catch that.
@@JennSafari You still don’t get what I was saying. The quints did not have a common experience as pre school age kids. If their education were continued as it was, they would have been probably more informed and developed than spending time in a regular class room. But what I was responding to primarily was Jamie’s comment that she didn’t know anything about homeschooling and I am saying is that she actually did know about it instinctively even though that may not be label she or you agree with, and she was doing it, whether she knew it or not. I get it that she didn’t want to continue and wanted the kids to be in a structured school. I get it.
Don't mind jensafari, she has had other names here that have been deleted from the group already.
She feels she knows exactly everything about this family. She will say and make snark remarks even when you have a decent comment like this one !
You said nothing wrong, and instead of just letting Jamie read your response, she will jump all over you.
TH-cam deleted a comment already yesterday, so please if she gets too bad, please report her post to TH-cam.
Thank you for the 5 things list. I am going to rewatch to write the 5 items down to keep them. ☺️