Can We Heal an Anxious Attachment Style? | Eckhart Answers

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  • In this video, Eckhart shares that non-attachment is not the goal; aim instead for a love that goes beyond the emotional and physical.
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  • @Gaurav.P0
    @Gaurav.P0 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    One Eckhart's video a day keeps the EGO away 😍

  • @RebelGoatFPV
    @RebelGoatFPV ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Having studied and practiced Buddhism for many years, I understand that nothing is permanent and grasping onto expectations to the contrary can lead to suffering. However, I've had a few big losses as of recent and the timing of this message couldn't have been better as a reminder of the nature of impermanence. I am so grateful to have found Eckhart. 🙏

  • @SerenityPeaceTree
    @SerenityPeaceTree ปีที่แล้ว +152

    You just explained my relationship with my late husband perfectly. We were 2 peas in a pod. When he died of Huntington's Disease, I was content knowing he was free of a nasty disease that took away everything from him. But I miss him terribly. My grief ebbs and flows. I will laugh at something that I know he'd appreciate. Or cry when I hear a song we enjoyed together. Paradoxical for sure. ❤️

  • @Livfree33
    @Livfree33 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    The worst is getting anxiously attached to an illusion & projection of who you wish someone were. Falling in love with someone you basically entirely imagined is an absolute embarrassing mind eff every darn time😂

  • @lisa12345ism
    @lisa12345ism ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Love you all

  • @yourcalmplace
    @yourcalmplace ปีที่แล้ว +45

    - I just want to let anyone who’s reading this, and going through a tough time know that it’s going to be okay. You’ll get through it! ✨

  • @anthonyw6488
    @anthonyw6488 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As much as I love Eckhart this was not a talk about Anxious Attachment Style or any other attachment style. I suspect whoever runs this channel has no idea of the differences and has labelled it incorrectly.

  • @quantumfieldsforever
    @quantumfieldsforever ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Unconditional LOVE is free of attachment or expectation. I love you, if you choose to receive it's joyful uplifting intent. Peace to the collective, joy to all sentient beings. 💞

  • @alexmontilla5731
    @alexmontilla5731 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Peace I leave you, my peace I give you; I do not give it to you as the world gives it. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor be afraid.

  • @DihelsonMendonca

    ⚠️ Most of the time I feel no necessity to have a second life, or having an eternal life. For what ? Isn't this life sufficient ? Why human beings have this urge to be eternal ? What's the problem into becoming nothing ? You won't feel anything. We were nothing for billions of years. Indeed we are already nothing. We have a day, an appointment to become nothing again. I can't see why this isn't pointless. Everything is ultimately pointless. Accept that, and it's fine. 🎉🎉❤

  • @thegamingrelish9272
    @thegamingrelish9272 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Love watching Eckhart take a deep breath before spitting absolutely facts haha

  • @oO2Pro4UOo
    @oO2Pro4UOo ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Nobody can actually die or ever died. We are eternal <3 Thank you Eckhart! :)

  • @h2_kumar
    @h2_kumar ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you so much, Eckhart. I recently said goodbye to my dog, and miss him terribly. This teaching really helped. Peace, and love.🙏

  • @Json-with-a-Kay
    @Json-with-a-Kay ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I think this may be helpful to someone. We struggle with the same issue and the most primary issue:- attachment.

  • @TheMediumChannel
    @TheMediumChannel ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes, takes time and reprogramming but “non-attachment” is not about not caring about loved-ones. It’s about cultivating presence and the frequencies of the heart to recognize who you are as Spirit which actually enhances your ability to love and care about others. Attachment diminishes your ability to open the heart and connect with the divine..

  • @divinelightawakening
    @divinelightawakening ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Greetings all, We must become aware of our attachment styles. Awareness is for our healing process. good day ❤❤

  • @lissacablerware8475
    @lissacablerware8475 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This came at the perfect moment! Synchronous as I was going to bed and this popped up on my screen in Australia. I had been concerned about my adult daughter in a dangerous relationship.

  • @mehmetbakan7312
    @mehmetbakan7312 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Eckhart, greetings from germany :))

  • @micha_el0815
    @micha_el0815 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I do the same with my car and all my posessions for years now! 🤭❤️

  • @cynthiastinson7059

    Gratitude is very helpful.