Oh my goodness! Preach it! I cannot believe what I am hearing here. So much of what I am feeling and going through right now to the point I have established Mothers Against Abuse (on Facebook and in the grassroots efforts) to help victims of court abuse. I always felt our 'helpers' in our case were biased. I can't even reveal too much because it is all about seeking recovery of attorney fees and how much of this is one-sided because a parent who paid for an attorney seems to be the one getting the most 'fair' treatment. And how the other parent just gets ignored due to handling the case pro se. It is obvious lack of respect and complete manipulation!Thank you so much for this video.
I discovered custody being sold. I am starting Used And Abused Now Loved to help mothers whose children are being sold to their abuser. Sometimes these child also commit suicide.
In my direct experience, when required, a custody evaluation by a highly regarded forensic psychologist is a valuable tool to be used in court. I would agree a custody evaluation can be expensive. Often a custody evaluation is part of a team including coparent, reunification, child and ordered parent counseling.
What happens when cps doesn't want to provide anything to the mother who wanted to protect her children from dv from the father and they gave my child to him ?!!
I feel like you put into words EXACTLY how I feel. We're trapped in the system and it is so destructive. At this point I don't know how to extricate our family from the courts.
Thank you. My ex convinced the court to have me evaluated. They have me paying for my evaluation. I have paid money that I don't have. I thought they are the ones that should pay for it. It's not fair
This can backfire on a person making a false charge. The wife of a friend demanded 100-percent custody and a shitload of alimony and child supprt, and she claimed that my friend "Mike" had "mentally and emotionally abused" their children. A psychologist interviewed the children and reported that no abuse existed. The judge decided that "Mike's" wife was lying to gain leverage and ruled more favorably toward "Mike." But, because Mike was initially restricted from seeing his children for several weeks it was a bad situation for everyone, especially the children.
I'm devastated I did not hear your video prior to having used an unethical custody expert to submit a report full of lies of my mental health. I lost custody to a pedophile and narcissist due to this woman's outlandish lies. Now what can I do? I filed a notice of appeal, but due to 2 1/2 yrs of trying to get divorced I'm out of money.
A parent who has been subjected to abuse and or have had their children subjected to abuse (either directly or indirectly by another parent who clearly exhibits behavioral deficits) should absolutely solicit for an order from a judge to have an EC done by a qualified forensic Psychologist. They exist for a very specific purpose and I thank God that our family law statutes provision for these professionals within the framework.
Agree with the fact that this is the starting gun to further conflict but if one parent has been manipulating the system, operates unilaterally and refuses to accept a 50 50 custody solution theres no choice.
Does your organization offer service solutions for two parents trying to work together? We are having problems with ex mother in law and wondering if TPR would be safest but I haven't seen any way of applying for that without a mandatory custody evaluation. Do you know of another way?
Nice thought except when extreme parental alienation involved. Best advice - do not divorce just figure out how to live separate lives - save kids and thousands of dollars.
What should a father do if the mother is coaching the child? His 7 year old daughter suddenly stopped calling him "daddy" and does not ask him questions or show affection, which is out of the child's character.
I thank u for the advice, but we understand this is a scam that people need to learn how to combat...this is the money maker for most states amd they are not willing to go down without a fight...
Thank you so much for the information. I've been researching forensic evaluator's in Massachusetts and they are not easy to come by. We have a GAL who I think is doing a very good job and I am pro se. My ex is a cluster B personality disorder who has a paper trail from hell and my hands are clean other than moments of engaging and being triggered, not in front of my children. Do you have any advice for me? Thank you so much.
I know this is old. How did your case go. This sounds exactly like my case. I have a paper trail on my ex as well. Also alleged statement of child abuse by one of his older children. I am interested in seeking an evaluation because I truly believe that he is dangerous. Will an evaluation be beneficial in this matter? He has also threatened my life.
As true as this is when people get divorced 9/10 times its because someone is a narcissist or a psychopath and there will never be an amicable solution with those character-disturbed individuals
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I agree with you 100 % " A child is not a price or trophy to be own for self, but a Blessing from God to share and enjoy "
Oh my goodness! Preach it! I cannot believe what I am hearing here. So much of what I am feeling and going through right now to the point I have established Mothers Against Abuse (on Facebook and in the grassroots efforts) to help victims of court abuse. I always felt our 'helpers' in our case were biased. I can't even reveal too much because it is all about seeking recovery of attorney fees and how much of this is one-sided because a parent who paid for an attorney seems to be the one getting the most 'fair' treatment. And how the other parent just gets ignored due to handling the case pro se. It is obvious lack of respect and complete manipulation!Thank you so much for this video.
I love your words Darlene. .
I discovered custody being sold. I am starting Used And Abused Now Loved to help mothers whose children are being sold to their abuser. Sometimes these child also commit suicide.
Can u help me? I'm a mom and cps is placing my child with him the abuser
In my direct experience, when required, a custody evaluation by a highly regarded forensic psychologist is a valuable tool to be used in court. I would agree a custody evaluation can be expensive. Often a custody evaluation is part of a team including coparent, reunification, child and ordered parent counseling.
What happens when cps doesn't want to provide anything to the mother who wanted to protect her children from dv from the father and they gave my child to him ?!!
It's all incredibly frustrating. This is good information as I'm researching the topic currently.
I feel like you put into words EXACTLY how I feel. We're trapped in the system and it is so destructive. At this point I don't know how to extricate our family from the courts.
Thank you. My ex convinced the court to have me evaluated. They have me paying for my evaluation. I have paid money that I don't have. I thought they are the ones that should pay for it. It's not fair
This can backfire on a person making a false charge. The wife of a friend demanded 100-percent custody and a shitload of alimony and child supprt, and she claimed that my friend "Mike" had "mentally and emotionally abused" their children. A psychologist interviewed the children and reported that no abuse existed. The judge decided that "Mike's" wife was lying to gain leverage and ruled more favorably toward "Mike." But, because Mike was initially restricted from seeing his children for several weeks it was a bad situation for everyone, especially the children.
Family court lawyers are like DUI lawyers. They know your done but they will take all your money.
You are totally Erin it does helps
I'm devastated I did not hear your video prior to having used an unethical custody expert to submit a report full of lies of my mental health. I lost custody to a pedophile and narcissist due to this woman's outlandish lies. Now what can I do? I filed a notice of appeal, but due to 2 1/2 yrs of trying to get divorced I'm out of money.
She can have them for 18 year's and then you get them for eternity.
A CCE is for high conflict cases. If you’re not eagerly running towards one, then you don’t need one.
Thank you sir. You should run the whole system.
A parent who has been subjected to abuse and or have had their children subjected to abuse (either directly or indirectly by another parent who clearly exhibits behavioral deficits) should absolutely solicit for an order from a judge to have an EC done by a qualified forensic Psychologist. They exist for a very specific purpose and I thank God that our family law statutes provision for these professionals within the framework.
Agree with the fact that this is the starting gun to further conflict but if one parent has been manipulating the system, operates unilaterally and refuses to accept a 50 50 custody solution theres no choice.
Does your organization offer service solutions for two parents trying to work together? We are having problems with ex mother in law and wondering if TPR would be safest but I haven't seen any way of applying for that without a mandatory custody evaluation. Do you know of another way?
Nice thought except when extreme parental alienation involved. Best advice - do not divorce just figure out how to live separate lives - save kids and thousands of dollars.
Was ordered by the judge to get one😑
What should a father do if the mother is coaching the child? His 7 year old daughter suddenly stopped calling him "daddy" and does not ask him questions or show affection, which is out of the child's character.
I thank u for the advice, but we understand this is a scam that people need to learn how to combat...this is the money maker for most states amd they are not willing to go down without a fight...
Thank you so much for the information. I've been researching forensic evaluator's in Massachusetts and they are not easy to come by. We have a GAL who I think is doing a very good job and I am pro se. My ex is a cluster B personality disorder who has a paper trail from hell and my hands are clean other than moments of engaging and being triggered, not in front of my children. Do you have any advice for me? Thank you so much.
I know this is old. How did your case go. This sounds exactly like my case. I have a paper trail on my ex as well. Also alleged statement of child abuse by one of his older children. I am interested in seeking an evaluation because I truly believe that he is dangerous. Will an evaluation be beneficial in this matter? He has also threatened my life.
Chapter 13...paid nothing to the courts...tell them to 💋 my......
As true as this is when people get divorced 9/10 times its because someone is a narcissist or a psychopath and there will never be an amicable solution with those character-disturbed individuals