The dudes that say things like "male friends are just friendzoned guys waiting for the opportunity to strike" are just telling on themselves that they don't find value in getting to know women and only have girl "friends" as conquests
@@doid4354 as a woman in her 40s...who doesn't play stupid games anymore....I wouldn't hide it. If they are like any other friend to ne, then that's what they are, gender means nothing. If he has a problem with that then he isn't the right one for me. Because I can be trusted, and that's what needs to matter. But I would rather be alone than with someone that I have to fear their reaction to something, that's not a healthy situation to be in.
@@doid4354 imo it's okay to tell your partner that you chose to stop being friends with someone because they made you uncomfortable by flirting. I've done the same before. If he's not a toxic weirdo he'll probably appreciate the info and may comfort you if it happened recently.
As a woman, you have no idea though. As a man, I've known and seen how guys act. Even if they can't admit it to themselves, I have seen many friendships that were just waiting. Not most and def not all, but still many are there for their shot
@@doid4354No, you're good, if he's suspicious of you, that's on him, and he needs to learn to trust you, if he's suspicious of them, it doesn't even matter as long as he trusts you. And that trust should not only be there, but would have been reinforced since you already cut off people that you felt were acting inappropriately, and were making you uncomfortable.
If these alpha bros expect “their women” to completely alter their lives to be with them, then yes they should be paying $900 a date… this shouldn’t be an issue for the aLpHaS.
For real, I don't understand how half of these videos are "women should center their entire lives around a single man if they want to so much as talk with him" but when asked to do something exuberant in return its "these crazy women these days man." Cut off literally everyone in her life that doesn't have the 'correct' genitalia and forfeit privacy and agency as an adult to please him and she can't even get a filet mignon? Who works so hard to downgrade like that?
lmao and they get all up in arms about hypothetical gold diggers. What else could you have worth uprooting their life over? Personality? lol no, if you want a girl who treats you like her career you better pay her like one
@@scapegoatmiller9110I love how a high value women is a sugar baby with talent for acting according to their standards. Yeah I guess if you pay someone enough money they'll play pretend with you, but it won't ever be genuine. And then they complain about the loveless predicament they put themselves in by just throwing money around like a customer. That's like if someone covered themselves in blood then jumped into the ocean and complained that sharks are biting them. These ppl are jokes because they don't own up to anything that comes out of their mouth.
the fact that so many men genuinely can’t fathom the idea of seeing women as anything other than potential partners is terrifying. they just do not see us as people
Considering the dudes who ask those kinds of questions seem to share some level of a belief that men and women can't be friends, and it's either "current or potential romantic relationship" material, they probably would!
I feel like they might pull out the "Well, men are biologically inclined to cheat, it's in our nature" argument or some other dumbass logic that doesn't really make any sense and they would probably eventually go on to justify cheating somehow like those fresh & fit dudes did iirc 😅
@@Dev-qs2yb sure dude it hurts me so much that men have to come up with insane reasons to justify their shitty behaviour lmaoo yea this is why I don't date at all
It's a telltale sign of toxic/ insecure people to accuse their partners of cheating everytime a person of the opposite sex is around. In most cases, the guilty party's doing the accusing.
No actually having friends is bad its actually a bad thing to be a social person ive been living in a cave with no social contact for 27 years and im doing great because i dont have uhj you know the old ball and chain 😅😅😅 women who are bad because what if they like shot me with a gun yknow just something that could happen yknoq im not crazy!!! I am acrually a sigma who always has his guard up and i dont shower 😊😊😊😊👍👍👍👍😎
To anyone who needs to hear this: If your partner is going to cheat, they will cheat. No amount controlling is going to change that. It just makes both of you miserable. If you feel the need to guard your partner, you are better just splitting and looking for something more stable.
I think more people need to hear this, because this is exactly the way I operate. If my partner is going to cheat, that is an active decision. No amount of me meddling will keep them from making the active decision to be unfaithful, it's 100% on them. Literally nothing you do will impact that in either direction, doesn't matter how good you are to them, dosen't matter how on top of them you are, if they want to do it they will find a way.
I think oftentimes it's not really about suspecting their partner, but projection. These men think that, if they had female friends, they would want to have sex with them (cheat on their girlfriend), so their girlfriend must be same with potential male friends. And, of course, the other way around. But I'm just speculating, I'm queer so stuff like this doesn't even cross my mind haha
The same men who complain about being friendzoned also believe that women cannot have guy friends..... Bizarre how those two things can coexist in their minds.
That is a really good point, obviously men and women can be friends it's common sense, I can't believe we've gotten to a point where this is even a discussion.
@@BeanCasserole-wg7wu I know! I’m asexual so I get a lot of accusations of ‘friendzoning’ from men and I’m like dudes, if friendzoning is even a thing, my attraction type has friendzoned the entire world. Funny enough I haven't had this accusation with lesbians, so ever think this friend zone is just a you thing?
@@MekareP the irony being that in my observations of relationships among friends and family, the most happy and stable ones are with men who have actual female friends and the most tumultuous where divorce is constantly in question are the ones where none of the female friends group likes the husband.
@@ookamiblade6318 The Friendzone is a weird concept because having a friend is a good thing, yet some men treat it as a consolation prize because they felt entitled to romantic feelings a woman just happened not to have for them.
As someone who is bi, the argument of "men can't be friends with women" when referring to straight people, instantly implies that I'm not allowed to have any friends at all and I think that's fucking hilarious💀💀💀
Fr. Like I have a ton of friends that are girls and I have never crushed on them because I see them as friends. Just because I can potentially be attracted to them doesn't mean I will be
That first guy being interviewed was so based tbh, and it’s terrible that the toxic “alpha male” space dunked on him for refusing to be insecure and jealous. Props to him for not letting that interviewer get an inch on him.
@AutisticTea watch more of his questions. If he said he had a problem with her having male friends he would ask why do you believe man and woman can't be friends. So I first saw his shorts and I judged him like Jarvis and you and many commentors on this video but he just dig deeper to your answers. He might have problematic beliefs but he can separate them from his content
He made the interviewer look like an absolute child. It was like watching a school psychologist talk to a troubled 13 year old. So calm, mature, and self possessed…true qualities that attract a good partner. These “alpha” men, in the other hand, are an embarrassment to themselves.
hearing someone say that men have a "biological urge" to be "territorial with our women" made me want to tear my hair out. i did not get a DEGREE IN BIOLOGY just to hear people say that kind of nonsense to justify their shitty behaviour
@@anti-consumerism6178Nope, protective is protective, territorial is not protective, it's possessive and controlling. You definitely needs to get your words straight. 😊
I used to know a guy in college who was very jealous and possessive with his girlfriends, not allowing them to have male friends, not letting them go out to clubs or social events by themselves, checking up on them, etc. Oh, he also cheated on them multiple times. I'm guessing he thought all guys were the same as him, that's why he was so jealous and controlling. His reasoning was that he's the man and he's allowed to do whatever he wants. These guys remind me of him.
well he didn't justify cheating in the video did he? ofc the person you've talked about was doing something extremely immoral. but now you've characterised him like that based on what?
To be fair most guys that go to clubs are like that. I dont worry about my girlfriend going out with her friends without me because she isnt into creeps but a lot of people cheat in clubs just sayin
Do you not see the connection buddy? That the dude in their comment and some of the men in the video are very insecure about their girl talking to other men?
Soon Alpha Male is going to he like the MAGA hat in Curb Your Enthusiasm. Want people to stop talking to you? Just talk about how alpha and high value you are. Want to get quick service from people who want to get you out as quickly as possible? Start talking about the matrix and the "sexual marketplace" and how Andrew Tate is somehow innocent, etc. Make everyone think you're an asshole so they avoid your shit, while really just trying to avoid theirs.
Sprint away! They lecture women about the "science" of things like pair bonding while ignoring the fact that the scientists who invented the concept of "alpha, beta, etc." died while begging pop psychology to stop using his false and misguided theory.
The woman who was ready with the "If a woman is an analogy to you, then you're not ready to talk to a woman" had me flabbergasted, that's some powerful stuff
That's not powerful. She doesn't understand what an analogy is. The lock is an analogy *to* a woman. A woman can't be an analogy to a woman. No one at any time tried to make it other way around and say that a bad lock is like a woman that had many partners (so a woman being an analogy to a lock). What she said had absolutely no sense. But even if the point was "if you make analogies to women, you can't talk to any women" is a bad point. Anything can have an analogy to it. The Fox in Little Prince was an analogy to a friend. Are she and you saying that the author can't have any friends just because he made an analogy to them? Or is it just women who are so priviledged? Makes no sense, there is nothing deep or powerful about a nonsense.
@@Halo_Legend Exactly, these women are so NPC and basic, they literally say that about anything as long as it goes against men. She thinks saying "get fucked" is a rebuttal to the discussion. It's all typical women talk, bunch of nonsense.
@@Halo_Legend lmao someone got hurt; she's saying that if you compare women to objects with the purpose of trying to force them to feel like objects (and just in general if you compare women to objects, there's NO good scenario when you can compare a living person to an object) you shouldn't be talking to women, why do you feel so pressed about that? touched some strings didn't it?
@@xylophone_888ironically enough with the lock and key metaphor, you are also objectifying the man as the key, but I guess you didn't see that it was objectifying to both genders. Funny how you couldn't see that
as a lesbian it is SO funny to me when men say they don’t believe in platonic friendships between men and women, because for me that either means that I can’t have any male friend despite not being attracted to him at all, or it means that I can’t have any female friends at all, despite us both being the same sex. Or you know, I just can’t have any friends at all regardless of gender and that seems a little depressing
It’s wild that these people either just, don’t believe in bisexuality, or think that they have to hide out in a dungeon unless asked out because any contact with humans is flirtation
Back when I presented feminine, the only man I'd ever liked well enough to date long term had very little money, but a huge heart. Value is subjective, guys. Maybe six figures is a big deal to you, and sure you'll find women out there who think that way too, but it's far from universal. My ex blows all these misogynists out of the water because he's actually pleasant to be around. We broke up after six years, but we still have a great friendship and talk often. If your "value" in the dating game is your money alone, aren't you worried your girlfriend is just using you as a meal ticket?
i'm a queer woman, and EVERY time i get asked why i don't like men i respond with "why don't you?" most of the time they shut up after that, but one dude got really defensive and said it wasn't the same thing. misogynists and homophobes never fail to astound me with how dense they can be.
Hate people like this, I haven't had to deal with this since I'm living in a house with my mother (who is homophobic and transphobic) so I decided to not say anything, but quite a few of my friends dealt with people like this, and kids grow up seeing people act like this and act the same way
@@Zaido4211depends on context. Shes either a homophobe or just kinda tired of misogyny among gay men (the queer community struggles. Really hard with misogyny so a lot of us are wary about queer men). Based on what you said it sounds like its not based on any specific event so its just homophobia
@@Zaido4211if the person “dislike LGBTQIA+” for no good reason, that would be internalized homophobia or transphobia, or just regular old homophobia/transphobia, depending on how close that queer person is to the identities they hate. For example, a trans person like Blair White hating trans women who don’t follow the exact transition journey she did? That’s internalized transphobia. A gay guy like George Santos hating on trans women? That’s just regular transphobia. But squidgirl made a great point too; someone who “dislikes LGBTQIA+” because some queer people are awful to other queer people isn’t a phobia or prejudice at all, it’s just some queer people being tired of oppression from our own people. Plenty of gay people hate trans people, plenty of queer men hate queer women, plenty of queer people are racists or ableists or some other kind of awful person. It’s normal for other queer people to be upset about those members of the community, especially because they should no better than to discriminate against others when they know how bad discrimination is when it’s done to them.
I have a guy friend I’ve known for 3+ years and he is in no way “friendzoned”. We literally call each other cousins (it was his idea) and people still have the audacity to say he’s “waiting for his chance to strike” like an I piece of meat or something?? Their logic is so confusing and gross
It's so fucking sexist towards men too, like they're all hypersexual with no self control and will go after any woman at the smallest opportunity. It really doesn't help anyone...
As a gay dude with mostly female friends, the fact that they don’t even acknowledge other sexualities when they say “men and women can never be friends 100% of the time” is very revealing. Like are they just forgetting about gay people or do they just not consider us men?
Not only is it so easy to be just friends when sexualities don't match, but also you never see a gay man say "two gay men cannot be friends". That'd be such a sad sad way to live, passing by so many important friendships. Also those men who say men and women can't be friends really never have a good understanding of women, maybe you need a female friend for perspective, weird!
That's the right answer. I would have probably said something much weaker in terms of the impact it would make. You can't engage in that stuff. But it's like, if you make an analogy we're a woman is an object. You're not in the right. End of story. Lol
its interesting that when the lady told him she was a lesbian he asked her “what made you realize you dont like men” specifically. not “what made you realize you like women” like how are you gonna make being a lesbian about men as well edit: replies really dont get it huh edit 2: thanks for the likes anyway, he inserted men into a matter that does not concern men. this is like if someone said "i like the colour orange" and you asked "oh what made you realize you dont like blue?" blue had nothing to do with this and its weird that you brought it up. it would be easier AND it would make more sense to ask "oh what made you realize you like orange?" hope this helps someone. edit 3: sexuality isn’t a choice by the way 👍
Oh sweet summer child. Everything is about men don't you know? We don't wear makeup or jewellery because we like it, we do it for men. The clothes we wear aren't for comfort or self expression it's for men. We don't have education or careers to improve our lives, it's to spite men. In fact according to these bozos the only thing we don't do for men is marry or have kids. It makes no sense to me, it makes no sense to you. It makes no sense to most people, but it makes sense to them 🤷🏾
"A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock." 🙄 Counter point. A pencil sharpener that sharpens many pencils is a high quality sharpener. A pencil that has been sharpened by many sharpeners is useless.
4:27 when straight men ask me this question i ALWAYS hit them with the "why don't you like men?" and wait until they respond to say "exactly, me too." because its such a dumb question 🤦🏻♀️
She didn't tear down anything, she just engaged in a nonsensical thought-terminating cliche, a tirade against the concept of analogy if it involves people, a crusade against rethorical devices. "There is this manager at work, we call him The Hammer because of how blunt he is" "oh wow if a manager is an analogy to you then you shouldn't talk to a manager". Her argument is purely against form and not content. Most men can't sleep with a lot of women even if they wanted to, men who can are rare and exceptional. Women who could sleep with a lot of men if they wanted to are a lot more common. You don't like analogies, we can just not use them. Conclusion remains the same.
Yeaaaahhhhh 90% of the time they are just friends but there are some little weirdos out there just biding their time. Couldn’t be me, inherently pitiful position to be in.
@@zw6980Thank you. Women are never in the expected physically protective responsible role over the relationship so they don't see the propensity of that "male friend" to be a snake, biding his time, whispering sabatoge in her ear. Women ain't stupid but they are suggestive ...its a real issue. 10% is enough to be concerned.
As a grown ass adult, you should be able to have a conversation with another human being without thinking about sex, PERIOD. If sex is the ONLY thing on your mind when communicating with other humans, that's a YOU problem. People can appreciate other people's beauty WITHOUT wanting to sleep with them. In the same way that you can admire a painting without wanting to take that painting home and fuck it.
I always tell them that analogy with key doesn't work because keys don't collect bacteria and other biological material. What can collect it? Tampon. Can tampon be used by several women? Ew, absolutely not. They shut up pretty quickly after that.
@@Zepher0987how about this one then: A pencil sharpener that sharpens a lot of pencils is very useful. A pencil that is sharpened a lot of times is short, stumpy and useless
These “Alpha Males” would be so upset to know that I as a married woman went out with my sisters boyfriend to help him pick out gifts for her lol. I feel like these people totally threw the concept of personal responsibility out the window.
Exactly. That's really what it is...."It's not my fault I cheated, what did you expect, I was around women" it's also being so self-centered that they think everyone thinks like them.
@@SoManyRandomRamblingskind of reminds me of one of the American Pie sequels and Stiffler was afraid of getting hit on in a gay bar and then one dude is just like "get over yourself man, not every gay guy wants to have sex with you"
@@SoManyRandomRamblings That's really what it is...."It's not my fault I cheated, what did you expect, I was around women" People like that basically admit they shouldn't be around people because they can't control their instincts. They're essentially animals.
There's much scarier things in the world than a Man wanting his woman safe. Women who have men that look af3er them are pretty pleasant to be around. You should rethink the male hating programming society has gaslit you into believing. Most dudes could care less about "oppression" know why? Mom's Aunts Sisters Nieces Cousins Friends Teammates All women that men care about...Men like protecting and providing. Women like being protected and provided for...the only cost is Loyalty, Honesty, Appreciation and Support Don't make it harder than it has to be. Maybe you should change your Mindset on men and the Environment that made you hate them...Women can be shitty too. It's a human thing not a gender thing..
@@lesbianbat8420 What that means is that if another dude starts flexing on you and flirting with your woman in front of you then you tell him to piss off
I hate when people use their "boundaries" to justify controlling other people's behavior. If you're really so insecure about it and it is genuinely a deal breaker for you, you don't accommodate that by telling the other person that they can't do something. You say "Hey, I don't think this is going to work out. I wish you the best." And you leave. You don't use it as an ultimatum either, you just leave. If you are truly so insecure that your girlfriend can't have male friends, then you might just have to accept that you'll be alone until you can work through that insecurity. It is not _her_ responsibility to change because _you_ have a problem.
Just to piggyback off your comment, I've heard boundaries described as something you can do yourself, not to others. Your own boundaries cannot directly control other people, only yourself. So yes you're totally correct, it's just interesting to me how often the concept of boundaries gets misconstrued.
Frrr I had a friend who tried to tell me that I crossed a boundary by making them talk to me over voice call (not in-person like I wanted or behind a keyboard or not at all like they wanted) like an adult after they said and did some really messed up stuff to me without giving any kind of reason or warning. Those aren't boundaries, they're dictations so you can abuse people. That's people pretending you're hurting them to control you and prevent you from calling them out when they do things
@@fruitymcfruitcake9674no bud, uh, that is still very much a boundary. like I don't know the specifics about your relationship with that person or why you absolutely NEEDED to talk to them face to face, they could have done some heinous shit to you that demanded answers ASAP, but I have friends who have debilitating social anxiety around making any kind of calls (phone, voice chat, anything), and any time I've had to have a serious conversation with them I've always worked with them around those boundaries. should your ex-friend use those boundaries for the purpose of emotional manipulation like I think you're suggesting? absolutely not. but let's not pretend that phone anxiety isn't a real thing that actually happens to and affects the lives of real people.
@@yeahokaycoolcoolthat's pretty wild given how you literally just misinterpreted the meaning of the word "boundary" in the worst possible way lmao Like "ah yes boundaries, the things you make that only ever affect you, which is why the prime example people use for setting a boundary is asking people not to touch you without permission. Which definitely does not at all affect the actions of other people. Yknow, the people who would otherwise be touching you. If not for the, yknow. Boundary. That you set. The one that directly affects their actions towards you. That boundary." Like either you're just repeating something you read somewhere without having given any thought to it beforehand, you've explained it VERY poorly, or you literally think that people are being manipulative when they're just... asking for people not to touch them.
The first guy was AMAZING! I love to see men express healthy views on relationships in that setting. If what he said struck a chord with even one of the red pilled chodes watching these types of videos, he has left a net positive influence in the world
@@ghoulishgoober3122which is crazy because a ton of homophobic straight morons constantly talk about how gay people apparently sexualize everything when it's in fact often so called straight men and women that actually are sexualizing everything.
The "men and women can't be friends" guys are telling on themselves so hard. Those men are essentially admitting that they'd struggle to not cheat on their partner if they had women friends.
Alot of the time yes but not always, some people are just really untrusting which is another big problem. However I have a friend who has a hard time trusting because he got really unlucky and had 2 girlfriends cheat on him in a row, and he's a really good guy so it's not like it was his fault, so it's a little more understandable he has trust issues but still something to work on.
@@BeanCasserole-wg7wu That sucks, all he has to do in future relationships is explain that past trauma and if they don't "agree" with his situation. They can go
Reminds me of that guy I said I was asexual and not attracted to anyone but still has sex and he was surprised when I said i'm fine with women our men, cuz it's the same lack of interest, because "he thought i wasn't into women". And just later got shocked and confused when I said I'm queer and not straight because I'm not into men. Like does he think "not attracted to anyone" excludes men ? Or is it that he understands in theory but can literally not conceptualize non-het stuff ? It's been years I'm still confused about it. Some dudes clearly just never thought about sexual orientation for more than 2 seconds in their entire life and it shows.
he said bisexual and straight, but not lesbian. it feels like, to him, it would make more sense for a straight girl to date a woman than a lesbian to exist.
@@ArturGlass.Cmen just genuinely don’t understand people who aren’t attracted to them. I’ve had men tell me I can’t be a lesbian because I have to/should be attracted to men. They just don’t get it
Yeah, when the guy said "create a bridge," I thought, "No, because that would be a good and healthy thing in a secure relationship, so that's definitely not what you mean..."
@@MrMysterious420 The manosphere, despite being very "facts don't care about your feelings", is almost entirely run through how emotional they are and make the viewer feel. Too bad the only emotion they see as valid is anger and hatred.
@@fahrenheit2101 no, sorry, as I said it is objectively true, you do have freedom every second of your life, I personally think you'd be convinced otherwise.
@@asheneal6511 well of course you technically have freedom yes (well, up to how you define free will) I was taking the normal interpretation of the sentence, i.e. "free to do whatever they like" as in the person saying it is ok with the person doing what they like. And there definitely are limits to that...
"A key that opens many locks-" A sharpener that can sharpen any pencil is a great sharpener. A pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes short and useless.
Interesting that people are copying and spamming the pencil sharpner analogy even though it doesn't make sense. Also, if you're agreeing with her, that means using an analogy is saying that you shouldn't talk to people?
@@jadecoolness101 anime profile pic. What are you, "lmfao" at? Choosing a terrible analogy, or that she said people who use analogies shouldn't talk to people?
Oh shit...was my roommate just a figment of my imagination all those years? If platonic relationships don't exist, that ghost came up with half the bills each month. What a benevolent spirit
I think their point (which is wrong) is that even if one side isn't interested, the other side wants to get some action but isnt getting any so they keep trying... it's just dumb
A man trying to isolate his partner socially, by denying them social interaction outside the relationship, is usually a sign of a pyschologically abusive personality.
No one said you can’t have social interaction with the same sex… I am a woman and I do not talk to men my age unless it is necessary because I am in a relationship.
Its so insecure and embarrassing that these dudes think their girlfriend would cheat on them so fast that they aren't even allowed to speak to a man that isnt in their family. You're obviously not that much of a 'high value man' if your girl would leave you in .1 seconds.
@@zooweellamaif your partner wants to cheat they will. No amount of being controlling will stop them. If you feel your partner is going to cheat on you, you need to communicate about it
@@zooweellama So then they...stay in those relationships? To what end? Why remain in a relationship where you don't respect your partner and you know they don't have any respect for you, as opposed to just like...I don't know, leaving?
"No men, unless its a coworker, a cop, a doctor but only general practice not gynecology, firefighter if the buildings on fire, but not if you're choking." Guy has more regulations than the FDAA
He wants his girlfriend chained in a basement and thinks those feelings are normal. Also, coworkers are a major dating pool for people, but don't tell him or he'll never let her work either.
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as an aromantic asexual, videos like these make me wonder what world these people are living in where they think every human is motivated exclusively by relationships, and that men and women may as well be different species. like. do you have hobbies? what do you do for fun? have you ever had a real friend? are you okay? edit: legitimately cannot believe i have to put a disclaimer on my silly relatable youtube comment, but this isn't me trying to insult anyone for wanting a relationship. i literally don't care if you want to date or not, i care if you make a complete embarrassment of yourself like the people this video is about. do not reply to this comment acting like i said "anyone who wants to date is stupid and weird". i didn't.
Homoromantic asexual here: no they don't and they can't. The cishetallos and cishomoallos fear being alone too much to have self reflection until something traumatic happens. I've had this discussion with MANY of my friends and family. You don't NEED a relationship, you fear being alone. You don't WANT a baby, you want unconditional love. It's a weird thing to witness.
Like seriously, "the male friend is just waiting to pounce" stop right there, YOU sir. YOU are waiting to pounce of your friends. Projection at it's finest.
I have a friend who calls himself "alpha" But he uses the fact that "alpha" wolves are actually the parents It's basically calling himself caring. When he talks about being "alpha" he's talking about looking after the people he cares about, showing them affection, being kind and compassionate, showing respect, etc Honestly I prefer his interpretation so much. He's an awesome guy lol, if his definition of an "alpha male" was how it was generally interpreted it'd be an awesome movement tbh
Also truest probably, the updated research literally said it wasn't a thing but the 'alpha' was basically the parent leading at the time. So alpha is probably closest to meaning parent or being the parent friend, love that
i love that so much. as someone else said, the research talking about the whole alpha/beta/whatever tf in wolf packs turned out to basically just be a family of wolves, with the “alpha” being the parents of the pack. the guy who discovered this i believe rescinded his original research to make this adjustment but sad that toxic misogynistic dudes co-opted outdated terminology that never applied to humans to justify their hatred and anger. happy to see your friend decided to make a twist on the term for something good, that’s actually wholesome af
@@sorryoutlandish Yes exactly! I really hope more guys start to do a similar take on it tbh. Imagine if we could take the term "alpha" collectively and turn it into something wholesome. The current "alpha male" guys would throw a fit haha
@@reedsylvier5250alpha animals in packs/herds whatever definitely exist. Just look at the behaviour of monkeys, there’s almost always one strong monkey who holds more authority than any other monkey.
I like how every video of someone agreeing with him feels so faked meanwhile the ones disagreeing dunked him so fucking hard that it cant possibly be staged
Its so crazy cause when these videos reach a female audience they immediately start clowning on the guy asking. But so many other guys still listen to them 💀
"Should I listen to the women saying what they want? No, this dude that constantly gets clowned on by women must know best!" Also daybreak pfp, opinion validated.
It’s so true, and they’ll fight with you, defending these incel influencers tooth and nail! It’s like they’re more into the podcast hosts than into women.
i just got out of a relationship with a guy with beliefs like this. Its actually so draining and constantly feeling like you’re trapped and can’t do anything.. :(
I will say it again: The Lock Analogy doesn’t work, because the lock only has one function in life, and that is to keep everything out. A woman has many varied and individualized purposes in life other than sex and stopping men from having it with her. Just like the Flower Analogy doesn’t work: You don’t remove her purpose by sleeping with her. A flower’s petals have one purpose: To attract and be pretty. She doesn’t lose her beauty just because she had sex with you. It all comes down to one thing: You think a woman is worse off because she had sex with you. That says infinitely more about you.
Same with the chewed gum analogy. After a gum is open and done being chewed it literally is functionless. It has fufilled its one purpose. Someone else used a tea bag analogy. After a tea bag has been steeped in tea, it is literally finished. You can’t use it again. Sexual behavior is not a one time or finite resource. And even if it was it should be applied to both genders. And it’s just not. We overwhelmingly dictate and attempt to control female sexuality.
The first one is sadly not an alpha male thing, but a "the straights are not okay" thing. I saw a video yesterday of a bride showing that she had a man in her bride maids group and her husband had a girl with his groom mates (her brother and his sister), to show the color coordination, and the comments were filled with women saying that he was going to cheat on her with this woman (his sister, but they didn't care reading the description), how it was a red flag, ect... And once, I saw a woman explaining how she ended her friendship with her best friend when he found a girlfriend, so he would only have one woman in his life, and women were praising her for it. She wasn't ask, she just vanished from his life. Straight people have a sad life
That's a really shitty thing to do to someone. I would especially hate to start a relationship at the same tume someone I cared about just decided to vanish without a word as if I meant nothing.
it’s so sad when i see women do this. i’m a woman in a long-term relationship and i’ve NEVER had an issue with my partner being around other women or even being friends with women. idgaf he has a life outside of being with me and i trust him completely. the saddest thing to me is that i have an idea that this all comes from this toxic af belief that men are just uncontrollable sex goblins and that men and women just can’t be friends without something sexual/romantic occurring. it’s like you view the opposite sex as nothing more than a potential conquest instead of people that you could get to know and be friends with
The first young man is such a treasure... As a woman of 36 i would always advise to never get into a relationship that isn't based on trust and respect...i did learn this lesson the very hard way it can make the relationship hell and i don't wish that on anyone
I was LOVING that girl in the first video was checking her phone while her partner explained that he's just a decent human being, she need to pat his back for doing what's expected just because he's a man.
If you think having se x is similar to opening a door you are doing it wrong or you open doors in very weird ways. Never opened a door doggy style and I truly hope nobody has done a rusty trombone when they are opening a door.
As a pansexual, I wonder if these types of guys would be upset if I hung out with any friend alone ever 😅 like am I not supposed to hang out with anyone but my partner???
Nah since you're pansexual they'd be confused as fuck. They wouldn't know if they want you in the kitchen near the pans or not. They'd be like shit. She's a woman so she belongs in the kitchen but I'm really insecure she's getting close to all those pans
These men are projecting. *They* could never be just friends with a woman they find attractive, so they're assuming that all men are wired the same. There is some truth to this assertion though, I've never been close friends with a guy-even though I would love that-because, the few guy "friends" that I've had in the past *did* want something more, and they eventually let that be known. But, to say that every guy wants to hook up with his female friends is ridiculous.
the guy who was like "you can't talk to a man if you're not related to/work with him" is giving "you're the most jealous man i know" "you know other men?" energy
Its actually like, deeply and utterly sad that people cant seem to operate outside of sexual urges, like how can you not even fathom the idea of a loving caring emotional friendship between two people just because their the opposite gender? Like why can i not like someone for their humor and passion and personality and the comfort they bring to my life and the experiences we have together? Why cant you see women as someone with all those things? If any of these guys friends turned into a women one day magically, would he dump them? After maybe YEARS of friendship? Its insane
Because men are big horny. Have I answered your qeustion? Its not that we dont want emotional connection, its just, well, you have nice curves, you know?
My mother dated a woman when I was a child. Funny now she is marrying a man. Almost like it’s a choice. But hey if you wanna find out for yourself go ahead. Just don’t bring children into your world.
Honestly a lot of these people are just self projecting " Guy friends and just friend zoned guys waiting for an opportunity to STRIKE" seems like you do this my man
The problem with men not seeing women as people also hinders friendships. I have had so many good friendships with men go sour as soon as they find out I'm gay and they just immediatly tap out of our friendship. I'm hestitant to befriend non-gay men now because I don't want to form a deep friendship only to find out they were just waiting to make a move the whole time and only saw me as a potential girlfriend :(
Don’t have male friends simple. Comment like this proves women who have male friends know that their male friends want to have sex with them but these women be friends with them anyway. You women may fooled these dummy simps but men like me use their brain.
Because maybe, just maybe, all the interactions between men and women have a romantic undertone, im not saying its right or fair im saying its biology.
@@sea509all of them? you’re telling me that biologically speaking, every interaction I have with someone of the opposite sex has a “romantic undertone”? you’re saying that me, as a hetero man, wants to have sex with every woman I lay my eyes on?
@@sea509but we are saying it doesn't have to have a romantic undertone have you seen how men hate on women they are not attracted to and treat them so horrifically and violently,,men hate older women with a burning passion it boggles the mind they are only nice to women they are attracted to
Whenever I hear the "master key" analogy I can't help but laugh because it's like people who have master keys are not trustworthy because they can sneak & break into people's private spaces when they're not there or enter without permission or knowledge. I swear Miami & Atlanta seem to be the worse 2 places to date because the men (not all) are just🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
From an 18 yr old woman, bro you’re not low value in any way… Whoever bases a human’s(in this case man’s) value purely on money is a greedy demon at best… I’d be with a guy like you and i am sure most normal young women would prefer you over an obnoxious, superficial and selfish rich guy… I bet you that you have 10 times more of a chance to meet a genuinely amazing girl that will love you for you and stick by you, than these guys who primarily lead with their money… What happens to their relationships when a man with more money comes if they’re dating gold diggers?? It’s all idiocy.. God bless you and you genuinely have more chances of being in a happy relationship than any of these guys
If you aren’t like them then you are a high value for most women. they think most women cares about money but they don’t. You just have to be motivated and hard worker.
The most insane shit about these redpill street interviews is that the presenter basically throws a fit if you're not on the same insecure bullshit that he's on. He thinks that every relationship should abide by his own personal standards which is actually unhinged when you think about it.
At the “dark chocolate is my favorite” line I really started walking away from the screen, not remembering I’m on a treadmill, and almost fell to my death 😂😂😂
I'm actually glad that people are starting to counter all the interviews leaving the guys dumbfounded But it seems that he realized his mistake and started staging them
The first guy and how smug he looks knowing he's making that 'alpha male' squirm with his super secure king responses... I want to give his girlfriend and her awesome red pants a high five because she's winning.
@@CorporationSKYbecause he wanted to get a "men and women can't be friends" response but, he didn't get one, so he kept asking questions. He wanted to introduce the fear of cheating into a stable relationship because he's insecure about his own.
@nevaeh9125 Fear wasn't the goal. Watch the whole interaction and his other content. If the people answer wisely with valid Grounded reasons, he leaves it alone, buy if he detects that they are being disingenuous, he...digs. But honestly, this is Miami and looking for faithfulness in Miami is like asking a 4 yrold to explain Matcus Aurelius or Socrates, Plato or Niestche lol Going to the jungle looking for polar bears. These people are pure Impulse and 0 morality...its the environment. Don't go to IHOP expecting Michelin star. Lastly, this is the internet...deep fake, ai voices, editing...you can't trust shit. Get out and actually interact with folks.
@@CorporationSKY Because I don't want to just repeat what Nevaeh said, I'd like to ask, what would be your answer? I mostly ask because it seems like you have one ready, of course, so feel free to correct me if I misread
I don't remember where I heard this but when I hear the key analogy I remember a counter argument that a pencil sharper that sharpers all pencil is great but a pencil thats constantly being sharpered is going to be a bad pencil. Honestly makes as much sense!
Imagine their gfs or wives saying "My husband/bf goes around the streets asking couples questions about relationship and girls about body count" when their friends ask what their bfs/husband do for living.
When so many men (young me included) think of sharing emotional vulnerability as a thing strictly for men to receive from their romantic partner, it's no surprise they can't see women with male friends as acceptable. It's also part of why so many men have no outlet for mental health problems. I really hope the next generations are better at men being emotionally supportive of each other and therefore open to everyone being that.
I started cluing into this recently and it really makes me feel for men, y'all are taught to feel so limited and it's so unhealthy. hopefully the newer generations will clue in and start tp change it 🫠
I swear after reading this kind of comments I talked to my brothers about their romantic life, fears, mental health. It helped them. At least that's what they said.
@@TheSuperappelflap yeah we want men to have emotional vulnerability with their bros. instead of using their gf as a therapist. what's the point of ur comment
I like how the reason one of the guys doesn’t want his girl having male friends is because “when we breakup she might get with him” like excuse me why does it matter, if your broken up is doesn’t matter who she gets with. There’s a lot of people I might consider going on a date with if I wasn’t currently in a relationship but because I’m in a relationship I don’t, if that relationship ends I now no longer have a reason to not try a relationship with someone I’m close to. These “alpha males” seem to think they not only “own” woman in relationships with them but even if they break up it’s crazy
This is my introduction to your channel and I was terrified at first, based on the caption. I did not search "alpha" anything and was scared I was going to see more women getting hurt. It was extremely satisfying seeing these douche bags get handled and body-count gal is my sister from another mister. Your commentary was refreshing and funny, thank you!
this is so stupid bc i feel like this kind of thinking only “works” if the girl is in a relationship and the guy friend isn’t. i don’t think my guy friend who has happily had a girlfriend for 2 years is just being my friend to get with me?? 😭
These guys get me good…. There’s a whole cognitive dissonance over ‘I trust my woman just not other guys because I know how they think’ essentially implying all men are predators. Then get all upset when women generalise about them even a little bit. It’s pretty impressive tbh
I think the argument about friends sounds even weirder for those in lgbtq+ community. Like, if 2 guys or 2 girls get together are they no longer allowed to have friends of the same gender? Or if a bi person gets a partner can they no longer hang out with anyone? Just bizarre toxic relationship logic
As someone that’s in a gay relationship, with a partner with all female friends, I will never understand this. My gf is 6’4, fit, and extremely attractive- she gets hit on all the time, and my gf will tell people hitting on her to their face that she has a gf (me) and isn’t interested. It’s happened infront of me, infront of her friends who told me what happened bc they thought it was funny, etc. if you have a good and secure partner, it doesn’t matter who their friends are. My gf could move across the country- and I’d still know nothing would happen. I cannot stand all this “alpha” stuff😭
these type of dudes will also say things like "Why are you friends with your exes?" like it isn't a massive red flag that they are mortal enemies with EVERYONE they ever dated
Well, there are at least two different types of exes: ones that you leave amicably and ones that are toxic and need to be cut out of your life. These types of guys fall into the latter category and probably blame it on their ex-girlfriends even if they're the ones who were being shitty.
Same as an aroace enby person My closest friend is someone I would've dated if I was into that like isn't the best romantic relationship one where you're friends too?From what I've gathered
I lost a very close male friend because his wife was so insecure and forced him to cut me off. side note: I am also married and my husband was fine with our friendship.
Yeah!! I have met a female at my friend’s party who I thought was my friend. She then told her partner to unfollow me on all social media & she did the same to me. Yet we had so many things in common. It’s just so sad that females don’t want their partners being friends with other females
It's annoying but it happens. It's understandable, not everybody is on the same maturity level, you as the more mature one have to be compliant. It's not insecure or evil..It's just how it goes. I'm a single straight Man and hate dealing with married couples ... The wives get jealous, The Men are suspicious...its annoying.
The last guy literally finds a woman who is like "I have a thing for you" and absolutely drives the conversation into a concrete wall at 200mph. I've never seen someone so unequipped to talk to a woman who is flirting with them. Just wow.
@@avinashreji60 not being able to flirt well while pretending you are an expert at picking up women is like... Very very stupid. He acts all high an mighty calling himself am alpha and then just crumbles immediately. We all struggle when talking to people we find attractive, that's totally okay and normal. Lying however, is not.
The only fear you should ever have with your gf hanging out with a guy friend is the guy friend being interested in her and not taking no for an answer.
The dudes that say things like "male friends are just friendzoned guys waiting for the opportunity to strike" are just telling on themselves that they don't find value in getting to know women and only have girl "friends" as conquests
Exactly. And they think that every male in existence thinks just like them
@@doid4354 as a woman in her 40s...who doesn't play stupid games anymore....I wouldn't hide it. If they are like any other friend to ne, then that's what they are, gender means nothing. If he has a problem with that then he isn't the right one for me. Because I can be trusted, and that's what needs to matter. But I would rather be alone than with someone that I have to fear their reaction to something, that's not a healthy situation to be in.
@@doid4354 imo it's okay to tell your partner that you chose to stop being friends with someone because they made you uncomfortable by flirting. I've done the same before. If he's not a toxic weirdo he'll probably appreciate the info and may comfort you if it happened recently.
As a woman, you have no idea though. As a man, I've known and seen how guys act. Even if they can't admit it to themselves, I have seen many friendships that were just waiting. Not most and def not all, but still many are there for their shot
@@doid4354No, you're good, if he's suspicious of you, that's on him, and he needs to learn to trust you, if he's suspicious of them, it doesn't even matter as long as he trusts you.
And that trust should not only be there, but would have been reinforced since you already cut off people that you felt were acting inappropriately, and were making you uncomfortable.
If these alpha bros expect “their women” to completely alter their lives to be with them, then yes they should be paying $900 a date… this shouldn’t be an issue for the aLpHaS.
For real, I don't understand how half of these videos are "women should center their entire lives around a single man if they want to so much as talk with him" but when asked to do something exuberant in return its "these crazy women these days man." Cut off literally everyone in her life that doesn't have the 'correct' genitalia and forfeit privacy and agency as an adult to please him and she can't even get a filet mignon? Who works so hard to downgrade like that?
Right, they’re completely contradictory
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lmao and they get all up in arms about hypothetical gold diggers. What else could you have worth uprooting their life over? Personality? lol no, if you want a girl who treats you like her career you better pay her like one
@@scapegoatmiller9110I love how a high value women is a sugar baby with talent for acting according to their standards. Yeah I guess if you pay someone enough money they'll play pretend with you, but it won't ever be genuine. And then they complain about the loveless predicament they put themselves in by just throwing money around like a customer. That's like if someone covered themselves in blood then jumped into the ocean and complained that sharks are biting them. These ppl are jokes because they don't own up to anything that comes out of their mouth.
the fact that so many men genuinely can’t fathom the idea of seeing women as anything other than potential partners is terrifying. they just do not see us as people
just like the bible taught them to do
not partners, objects for sexual gratification
Lolll
The bible does not teach that
@@ona512 Which part of the bible are you referencing exactly
My question is, would _they_ cheat on their girlfriend if they were left 1 on 1 with another woman? Because this feels like projection
It 100% is projection and misogyny
Considering the dudes who ask those kinds of questions seem to share some level of a belief that men and women can't be friends, and it's either "current or potential romantic relationship" material, they probably would!
I feel like they might pull out the "Well, men are biologically inclined to cheat, it's in our nature" argument or some other dumbass logic that doesn't really make any sense and they would probably eventually go on to justify cheating somehow like those fresh & fit dudes did iirc 😅
@@Dev-qs2yb found the braindead males in the chat
@@Dev-qs2yb sure dude it hurts me so much that men have to come up with insane reasons to justify their shitty behaviour lmaoo yea this is why I don't date at all
I’m sorry. But Jarvis with this moustache finally looks like a Jarvis. This exactly how I picture a Jarvis to look like.
Jarvis is entering his Jarvis era
it fits him so well!!!
Bro chewin on those mustache hairs though
You must be newer. He often didn't have one in his old videos that were archived.
@@lowwastehighmelanin??
Do men not realize that their partner’s male friends can also become their friends? You can like double your friends by just not being weird.
That happened with my friend. Her boyfriend's friends are now her friends as awell even though the relationship is over.
But then what if now these men cheat on their partner because they have new friends????????????
It's a telltale sign of toxic/ insecure people to accuse their partners of cheating everytime a person of the opposite sex is around.
In most cases, the guilty party's doing the accusing.
No actually having friends is bad its actually a bad thing to be a social person ive been living in a cave with no social contact for 27 years and im doing great because i dont have uhj you know the old ball and chain 😅😅😅 women who are bad because what if they like shot me with a gun yknow just something that could happen yknoq im not crazy!!! I am acrually a sigma who always has his guard up and i dont shower 😊😊😊😊👍👍👍👍😎
@@evilrobert8339 gotta get on that gggrind sigma chad muscle emoji muscle emoji 100 emoji crown emoji
To anyone who needs to hear this: If your partner is going to cheat, they will cheat. No amount controlling is going to change that. It just makes both of you miserable. If you feel the need to guard your partner, you are better just splitting and looking for something more stable.
I think more people need to hear this, because this is exactly the way I operate. If my partner is going to cheat, that is an active decision. No amount of me meddling will keep them from making the active decision to be unfaithful, it's 100% on them. Literally nothing you do will impact that in either direction, doesn't matter how good you are to them, dosen't matter how on top of them you are, if they want to do it they will find a way.
I think oftentimes it's not really about suspecting their partner, but projection. These men think that, if they had female friends, they would want to have sex with them (cheat on their girlfriend), so their girlfriend must be same with potential male friends.
And, of course, the other way around.
But I'm just speculating, I'm queer so stuff like this doesn't even cross my mind haha
@ville__ these bots are getting real weird
@@anzaia2164 not me, I would get rid of my female friends if a woman decides to get rid of her male friends.
People forget all about trustworthiness.
@@easylife6348 I just don't think people should get rid of their friends, completely arbitrarily, just because they entered a romantic relationship...
The same men who complain about being friendzoned also believe that women cannot have guy friends..... Bizarre how those two things can coexist in their minds.
That is a really good point, obviously men and women can be friends it's common sense, I can't believe we've gotten to a point where this is even a discussion.
@@BeanCasserole-wg7wu I know! I’m asexual so I get a lot of accusations of ‘friendzoning’ from men and I’m like dudes, if friendzoning is even a thing, my attraction type has friendzoned the entire world. Funny enough I haven't had this accusation with lesbians, so ever think this friend zone is just a you thing?
It's the same viewpoint for them. They know how they act with a woman friend so they don't trust other men to behave.
@@MekareP the irony being that in my observations of relationships among friends and family, the most happy and stable ones are with men who have actual female friends and the most tumultuous where divorce is constantly in question are the ones where none of the female friends group likes the husband.
@@ookamiblade6318 The Friendzone is a weird concept because having a friend is a good thing, yet some men treat it as a consolation prize because they felt entitled to romantic feelings a woman just happened not to have for them.
As someone who is bi, the argument of "men can't be friends with women" when referring to straight people, instantly implies that I'm not allowed to have any friends at all and I think that's fucking hilarious💀💀💀
You're allowed to have non-binary friends then!
SAME!!!! also bi and I always was confused by that logic LOL
Fr. Like I have a ton of friends that are girls and I have never crushed on them because I see them as friends. Just because I can potentially be attracted to them doesn't mean I will be
Bisexuals and pansexuals are limited to befriending ROCKS and INANIMATE OBJECTS ONLY
and if we play devil's advocate, straighties like these forget about the concept of fwbs starts with the word "friends"
That first guy being interviewed was so based tbh, and it’s terrible that the toxic “alpha male” space dunked on him for refusing to be insecure and jealous. Props to him for not letting that interviewer get an inch on him.
The fact he posted it is so funny too. He was totally owned and just posted it anyway
@AutisticTea watch more of his questions. If he said he had a problem with her having male friends he would ask why do you believe man and woman can't be friends. So I first saw his shorts and I judged him like Jarvis and you and many commentors on this video but he just dig deeper to your answers. He might have problematic beliefs but he can separate them from his content
@@kd5626 nobody asked ur opinion unfortunately 😇
@@AutisticTea it's a good strategy for engagement, because he knew for sure his followers would rush to the comments to talk trash about the guy
He made the interviewer look like an absolute child. It was like watching a school psychologist talk to a troubled 13 year old. So calm, mature, and self possessed…true qualities that attract a good partner. These “alpha” men, in the other hand, are an embarrassment to themselves.
hearing someone say that men have a "biological urge" to be "territorial with our women" made me want to tear my hair out. i did not get a DEGREE IN BIOLOGY just to hear people say that kind of nonsense to justify their shitty behaviour
Lol territorial in a protective way is sweet though. He wants you for him and him only. And I hold my boyfriend to that standard as well.
It reminds me of when a man once said to me r*ape was basically just lust. I also wanted to tear my hair out.
hunny that's everyone who is monogamous@@anti-consumerism6178
@@anti-consumerism6178Nope, protective is protective, territorial is not protective, it's possessive and controlling.
You definitely needs to get your words straight.
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@@anti-consumerism6178Your words were just fine ignore them.
I used to know a guy in college who was very jealous and possessive with his girlfriends, not allowing them to have male friends, not letting them go out to clubs or social events by themselves, checking up on them, etc. Oh, he also cheated on them multiple times. I'm guessing he thought all guys were the same as him, that's why he was so jealous and controlling. His reasoning was that he's the man and he's allowed to do whatever he wants. These guys remind me of him.
well he didn't justify cheating in the video did he? ofc the person you've talked about was doing something extremely immoral. but now you've characterised him like that based on what?
To be fair most guys that go to clubs are like that. I dont worry about my girlfriend going out with her friends without me because she isnt into creeps but a lot of people cheat in clubs just sayin
@@TheSuperappelflap yes they are. you still haven't explained why you charatcerised that guy like that.
Let me guess: that guy you refer to was an arab muslim, right?
Do you not see the connection buddy? That the dude in their comment and some of the men in the video are very insecure about their girl talking to other men?
If anyone calls themselves an "alpha male" run away
Soon Alpha Male is going to he like the MAGA hat in Curb Your Enthusiasm. Want people to stop talking to you? Just talk about how alpha and high value you are. Want to get quick service from people who want to get you out as quickly as possible? Start talking about the matrix and the "sexual marketplace" and how Andrew Tate is somehow innocent, etc.
Make everyone think you're an asshole so they avoid your shit, while really just trying to avoid theirs.
Sprint away! They lecture women about the "science" of things like pair bonding while ignoring the fact that the scientists who invented the concept of "alpha, beta, etc." died while begging pop psychology to stop using his false and misguided theory.
The only people allowed to call themselves that are fanfic protagonists
@@akiraeatsguitarpicks491LMAOO
@@akiraeatsguitarpicks491
Plot twist: All these "alpha males" are actually just fanfic protags.
The woman who was ready with the "If a woman is an analogy to you, then you're not ready to talk to a woman" had me flabbergasted, that's some powerful stuff
That's not powerful. She doesn't understand what an analogy is.
The lock is an analogy *to* a woman. A woman can't be an analogy to a woman. No one at any time tried to make it other way around and say that a bad lock is like a woman that had many partners (so a woman being an analogy to a lock).
What she said had absolutely no sense.
But even if the point was "if you make analogies to women, you can't talk to any women" is a bad point. Anything can have an analogy to it. The Fox in Little Prince was an analogy to a friend. Are she and you saying that the author can't have any friends just because he made an analogy to them?
Or is it just women who are so priviledged?
Makes no sense, there is nothing deep or powerful about a nonsense.
@@Halo_Legend Exactly, these women are so NPC and basic, they literally say that about anything as long as it goes against men. She thinks saying "get fucked" is a rebuttal to the discussion. It's all typical women talk, bunch of nonsense.
@@Halo_Legend lmao someone got hurt; she's saying that if you compare women to objects with the purpose of trying to force them to feel like objects (and just in general if you compare women to objects, there's NO good scenario when you can compare a living person to an object) you shouldn't be talking to women, why do you feel so pressed about that? touched some strings didn't it?
Ah yes because the top 5% of men who have high body counts definitely do not objectify women
@@xylophone_888ironically enough with the lock and key metaphor, you are also objectifying the man as the key, but I guess you didn't see that it was objectifying to both genders.
Funny how you couldn't see that
as a lesbian it is SO funny to me when men say they don’t believe in platonic friendships between men and women, because for me that either means that I can’t have any male friend despite not being attracted to him at all, or it means that I can’t have any female friends at all, despite us both being the same sex. Or you know, I just can’t have any friends at all regardless of gender and that seems a little depressing
This though!!!
Istg it’s almost as if lesbians and gay men don’t exist 😭
It’s wild that these people either just, don’t believe in bisexuality, or think that they have to hide out in a dungeon unless asked out because any contact with humans is flirtation
I dont think lesbians were being accounted for in that argument
Mom says its my turn with the friend.
“A MALE AND A MAN????” I lost it
I had male friends before my husband and he had female friends before me. Guess what happened? We both got MORE FRIENDS. Its great. Highly recommend.
The math mathed, wonderful!
The thing is if you have slept with your friends and when we have an argument y'all go back to your friends and cheat on guys that's why
Had me in the first half ngl 👌
BIG BRAIN!!!!
Are your friends married to each other’s friends?
The whole "high value man" thing is kind of amazing to me. We've seriously got men out there objectifying *themselves*.
I'm a low value man, but if you wait until post-christmas price cuts to get two for the price of what one costs now.
It's also very close to the brand name Walmart uses for their generic products so there's that.
@@bigbearkat2010these are definitely some Great Value(tm) men
@@billbill6094are you saying after Christmas you’re gonna perform mitosis of yourself?
Back when I presented feminine, the only man I'd ever liked well enough to date long term had very little money, but a huge heart. Value is subjective, guys. Maybe six figures is a big deal to you, and sure you'll find women out there who think that way too, but it's far from universal. My ex blows all these misogynists out of the water because he's actually pleasant to be around. We broke up after six years, but we still have a great friendship and talk often. If your "value" in the dating game is your money alone, aren't you worried your girlfriend is just using you as a meal ticket?
i'm a queer woman, and EVERY time i get asked why i don't like men i respond with "why don't you?" most of the time they shut up after that, but one dude got really defensive and said it wasn't the same thing. misogynists and homophobes never fail to astound me with how dense they can be.
Hate people like this, I haven't had to deal with this since I'm living in a house with my mother (who is homophobic and transphobic) so I decided to not say anything, but quite a few of my friends dealt with people like this, and kids grow up seeing people act like this and act the same way
Also, what is it called when someone is apart of LGBTQIA and they also dislike LGBTQIA (someone in my family is a lesbian but she hates gay men)
@@Zaido4211internalized homophobia/transphobia
@@Zaido4211depends on context. Shes either a homophobe or just kinda tired of misogyny among gay men (the queer community struggles. Really hard with misogyny so a lot of us are wary about queer men). Based on what you said it sounds like its not based on any specific event so its just homophobia
@@Zaido4211if the person “dislike LGBTQIA+” for no good reason, that would be internalized homophobia or transphobia, or just regular old homophobia/transphobia, depending on how close that queer person is to the identities they hate.
For example, a trans person like Blair White hating trans women who don’t follow the exact transition journey she did? That’s internalized transphobia. A gay guy like George Santos hating on trans women? That’s just regular transphobia.
But squidgirl made a great point too; someone who “dislikes LGBTQIA+” because some queer people are awful to other queer people isn’t a phobia or prejudice at all, it’s just some queer people being tired of oppression from our own people.
Plenty of gay people hate trans people, plenty of queer men hate queer women, plenty of queer people are racists or ableists or some other kind of awful person. It’s normal for other queer people to be upset about those members of the community, especially because they should no better than to discriminate against others when they know how bad discrimination is when it’s done to them.
Bruhhhhh some men can’t even comprehend that women are people who have their own lives and rights 💀
Real💀
It’s creeeeepyyyyyy 😐
They clearly never sat down and talk to their aunts, mother and sisters..
It's not ''men and women" thing. Just some people are trash, despite their gender.
@@BashaerB-h2c what makes you think those people wanted to talk to them. Men aren't entitled to talking to women
I have a guy friend I’ve known for 3+ years and he is in no way “friendzoned”. We literally call each other cousins (it was his idea) and people still have the audacity to say he’s “waiting for his chance to strike” like an I piece of meat or something?? Their logic is so confusing and gross
It's so fucking sexist towards men too, like they're all hypersexual with no self control and will go after any woman at the smallest opportunity. It really doesn't help anyone...
Tbh "waiting for his chance to strike" makes it sound like he's an enemy spy
Can you guarantee that he's not?
Even worse than any piece of mear, like *prey* 🤨
Sweet Lord these people make men and relationships seem even scarier
Also assuming that you're vulnerable enough that having a male friend puts you in a position to be taken advantage of
Predatory men believe every man is a predator.
It makes me depressed that misogynistic men like this not only exist but have enough influence to amass a 600k person following online
It's mostly children, however there are grown dudes that think like this and that's sad
The only upside is that this flavor of misogyny can't help but reveal itself promptly in a great many situations.
@@guitubagrips9719its sad cuz this children will grow up with this mentality
I don't get it. I heavily curate my timeline so I just decided to block every street Interview account lol
@@guitubagrips9719 that's horrifying. children are so impressionable
As a gay dude with mostly female friends, the fact that they don’t even acknowledge other sexualities when they say “men and women can never be friends 100% of the time” is very revealing. Like are they just forgetting about gay people or do they just not consider us men?
It's the latter, we just get tokenized as "one of the girls!". It's pretty darn nasty.
Neither, they think you're faking being gay to take their partner. Genuinely insane shit.
@@BeakerButch420 classic haha, we love delusional gamers.
Not only is it so easy to be just friends when sexualities don't match, but also you never see a gay man say "two gay men cannot be friends".
That'd be such a sad sad way to live, passing by so many important friendships.
Also those men who say men and women can't be friends really never have a good understanding of women, maybe you need a female friend for perspective, weird!
The answer is yes
The lady at 11:25 feels super staged because no woman is attracted to Elon Musk. He's only the ideal man to a very specific type of straight guy.
So true lmao
Grimes was ☹️😔 R.I.P grimes
WOMEN ARE NOT A MONOLITH YOU SILLY SKET
@@DeadToTh3World is it tho? Is it true? Or do you just want to believe that because it doesn't challenge your worldview
Yeah, Elon is a hard no
“if a woman is an analogy to you, you’re probably not ready to be talking to a woman.” Mic DROPPED 🎤
it's definitely a new one for me. she invented a new saying right there, tipsy and her mind expanded
@ville__go away
@ville__ pee pee poo poo
@ville__dude doesn’t have any content lmao
That's the right answer. I would have probably said something much weaker in terms of the impact it would make. You can't engage in that stuff. But it's like, if you make an analogy we're a woman is an object. You're not in the right. End of story. Lol
5:41 “IF A WOMAN IS AN ANALOGY TO YOU THEN YOURE NOT READY TO HE TALKING TO WOMEN” PERIOD!! I love her i stan her i wish i could tip her
its interesting that when the lady told him she was a lesbian he asked her “what made you realize you dont like men” specifically. not “what made you realize you like women” like how are you gonna make being a lesbian about men as well
edit: replies really dont get it huh
edit 2: thanks for the likes
anyway,
he inserted men into a matter that does not concern men.
this is like if someone said "i like the colour orange"
and you asked "oh what made you realize you dont like blue?"
blue had nothing to do with this and its weird that you brought it up.
it would be easier AND it would make more sense to ask "oh what made you realize you like orange?" hope this helps someone.
edit 3: sexuality isn’t a choice by the way 👍
Oh sweet summer child. Everything is about men don't you know?
We don't wear makeup or jewellery because we like it, we do it for men.
The clothes we wear aren't for comfort or self expression it's for men.
We don't have education or careers to improve our lives, it's to spite men.
In fact according to these bozos the only thing we don't do for men is marry or have kids.
It makes no sense to me, it makes no sense to you. It makes no sense to most people, but it makes sense to them 🤷🏾
LMFAO ur right
@@kd5626 id say so :)
@@kd5626 if your str8 ass is just gonna keep making fun of gay women in the comment section, grow tf up
What does it matter do it’s literally carry picking at point. Those two question are the same thing and if you can’t see that then you have a problem
"A key that opens many locks is a master key. A lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock." 🙄
Counter point. A pencil sharpener that sharpens many pencils is a high quality sharpener. A pencil that has been sharpened by many sharpeners is useless.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Iam copying this
@@bloodwargaming3662 go ahead. Truth be told, I got from somewhere else. I just don't remember where.
@@tbhzhomer192 you are a gawd
Yeah this doesn’t make any sense
4:27 when straight men ask me this question i ALWAYS hit them with the "why don't you like men?" and wait until they respond to say "exactly, me too." because its such a dumb question 🤦🏻♀️
I was waiting for that to happen, it's such an easy, valid answer. It's empathy too
The body count girl is my hero. The way she just looked directly into the camera and tore down every single thing the guy was saying? Iconic
She didn't tear down anything, she just engaged in a nonsensical thought-terminating cliche, a tirade against the concept of analogy if it involves people, a crusade against rethorical devices. "There is this manager at work, we call him The Hammer because of how blunt he is" "oh wow if a manager is an analogy to you then you shouldn't talk to a manager". Her argument is purely against form and not content.
Most men can't sleep with a lot of women even if they wanted to, men who can are rare and exceptional. Women who could sleep with a lot of men if they wanted to are a lot more common. You don't like analogies, we can just not use them. Conclusion remains the same.
@@Jorge-np3tq lol
@@freakette555 I'm glad you find it funny. But this kind of non-thought is, ironically, the same thing that enables incels, fascists and so on.
@@Jorge-np3tq enables incels, how's it feel to be so enabled
@@Jorge-np3tq??
When they say "They're waiting in the friendzone to STRIKE" they're just self-reporting.
They're THAT guy... lol
Yeah, by strike do they literally mean *assault*, or...
Shit good point. These guys work 100% by projecting
Yeaaaahhhhh 90% of the time they are just friends but there are some little weirdos out there just biding their time. Couldn’t be me, inherently pitiful position to be in.
@@zw6980Thank you. Women are never in the expected physically protective responsible role over the relationship so they don't see the propensity of that "male friend" to be a snake, biding his time, whispering sabatoge in her ear.
Women ain't stupid but they are suggestive ...its a real issue. 10% is enough to be concerned.
@@zw6980Pitiful to YOU.
As a grown ass adult, you should be able to have a conversation with another human being without thinking about sex, PERIOD.
If sex is the ONLY thing on your mind when communicating with other humans, that's a YOU problem.
People can appreciate other people's beauty WITHOUT wanting to sleep with them.
In the same way that you can admire a painting without wanting to take that painting home and fuck it.
“Taking the painting home to fuck it” 🤣🤣
Great comment!
A guy once asked me that "master key" question and I told him the analogy doesn't work because a lock can't fake being opened.
Best response I've ever heard 💯 👏👏
I always tell them that analogy with key doesn't work because keys don't collect bacteria and other biological material. What can collect it? Tampon. Can tampon be used by several women? Ew, absolutely not.
They shut up pretty quickly after that.
You opened your legs. That's the analogy. It's not a difficult one.
@@ana-nim And you don't know what an analogy is.
@@Zepher0987how about this one then:
A pencil sharpener that sharpens a lot of pencils is very useful.
A pencil that is sharpened a lot of times is short, stumpy and useless
These “Alpha Males” would be so upset to know that I as a married woman went out with my sisters boyfriend to help him pick out gifts for her lol. I feel like these people totally threw the concept of personal responsibility out the window.
Exactly. That's really what it is...."It's not my fault I cheated, what did you expect, I was around women" it's also being so self-centered that they think everyone thinks like them.
Shout out to dope inlaws.
@@SoManyRandomRamblingskind of reminds me of one of the American Pie sequels and Stiffler was afraid of getting hit on in a gay bar and then one dude is just like "get over yourself man, not every gay guy wants to have sex with you"
@@bigbearkat2010 apt comparison
@@SoManyRandomRamblings That's really what it is...."It's not my fault I cheated, what did you expect, I was around women"
People like that basically admit they shouldn't be around people because they can't control their instincts. They're essentially animals.
The phrase “territorial with my woman” made me physically flinch while I was cooking dinner.
@@kd5626 get laid 🤓
SAME LIKE WHAT YOU MEAN
There's much scarier things in the world than a Man wanting his woman safe. Women who have men that look af3er them are pretty pleasant to be around.
You should rethink the male hating programming society has gaslit you into believing. Most dudes could care less about "oppression" know why?
Mom's
Aunts
Sisters
Nieces
Cousins
Friends
Teammates
All women that men care about...Men like protecting and providing. Women like being protected and provided for...the only cost is Loyalty, Honesty, Appreciation and Support
Don't make it harder than it has to be. Maybe you should change your Mindset on men and the Environment that made you hate them...Women can be shitty too. It's a human thing not a gender thing..
@@lesbianbat8420 What that means is that if another dude starts flexing on you and flirting with your woman in front of you then you tell him to piss off
@@TheSuperappelflap they meant like, why use the word territorial bro, we're not some land you own
Tbh people like this make me scared of dating 💀
Me too
Same y'all, same🫂🗣️
Don't worry, these are just a certain sub set of men and if you live in a relatively modern city, most of them should be normal
@@ChappalMarungi phew thank god. Thought I was gonna have to go celibate there 💀
5:20
Just avoid the woman who yell, curse, have wide eyes, grab things aggressively, and freak out over analogies and you'll probably be fine.
I hate when people use their "boundaries" to justify controlling other people's behavior. If you're really so insecure about it and it is genuinely a deal breaker for you, you don't accommodate that by telling the other person that they can't do something. You say "Hey, I don't think this is going to work out. I wish you the best." And you leave. You don't use it as an ultimatum either, you just leave. If you are truly so insecure that your girlfriend can't have male friends, then you might just have to accept that you'll be alone until you can work through that insecurity. It is not _her_ responsibility to change because _you_ have a problem.
My boundaries in friendship is that my friends give me $1000 every week. Just a boundary of course 😊 /j
Just to piggyback off your comment, I've heard boundaries described as something you can do yourself, not to others. Your own boundaries cannot directly control other people, only yourself. So yes you're totally correct, it's just interesting to me how often the concept of boundaries gets misconstrued.
Frrr I had a friend who tried to tell me that I crossed a boundary by making them talk to me over voice call (not in-person like I wanted or behind a keyboard or not at all like they wanted) like an adult after they said and did some really messed up stuff to me without giving any kind of reason or warning. Those aren't boundaries, they're dictations so you can abuse people. That's people pretending you're hurting them to control you and prevent you from calling them out when they do things
@@fruitymcfruitcake9674no bud, uh, that is still very much a boundary.
like I don't know the specifics about your relationship with that person or why you absolutely NEEDED to talk to them face to face, they could have done some heinous shit to you that demanded answers ASAP, but I have friends who have debilitating social anxiety around making any kind of calls (phone, voice chat, anything), and any time I've had to have a serious conversation with them I've always worked with them around those boundaries.
should your ex-friend use those boundaries for the purpose of emotional manipulation like I think you're suggesting? absolutely not. but let's not pretend that phone anxiety isn't a real thing that actually happens to and affects the lives of real people.
@@yeahokaycoolcoolthat's pretty wild given how you literally just misinterpreted the meaning of the word "boundary" in the worst possible way lmao
Like "ah yes boundaries, the things you make that only ever affect you, which is why the prime example people use for setting a boundary is asking people not to touch you without permission.
Which definitely does not at all affect the actions of other people.
Yknow, the people who would otherwise be touching you. If not for the, yknow.
Boundary.
That you set.
The one that directly affects their actions towards you.
That boundary."
Like either you're just repeating something you read somewhere without having given any thought to it beforehand, you've explained it VERY poorly, or you literally think that people are being manipulative when they're just... asking for people not to touch them.
The first guy was AMAZING! I love to see men express healthy views on relationships in that setting. If what he said struck a chord with even one of the red pilled chodes watching these types of videos, he has left a net positive influence in the world
I miss the term chode. People need to use it more often again.
There's truly nothing hotter than that man's attitude and healthy relationship expectations
And he was one of the few dudes to even have a woman WITH him.
the whole "men and women can't be friends" is such an insecure hetero notion
It shows how sexual some straight people look at their relationships
Which is ironic given the people that make these demands are the most self-proclaimed with how secure they are
@@ghoulishgoober3122which is crazy because a ton of homophobic straight morons constantly talk about how gay people apparently sexualize everything when it's in fact often so called straight men and women that actually are sexualizing everything.
fr like, you're telling me your partner is not your bestest buddy in the whole wide world??? your pal, your chum, your lil chappie???????
@@starophie I wish to be your platonic chappie for a moment because your comment was so true. 😝
The "men and women can't be friends" guys are telling on themselves so hard. Those men are essentially admitting that they'd struggle to not cheat on their partner if they had women friends.
Alot of the time yes but not always, some people are just really untrusting which is another big problem. However I have a friend who has a hard time trusting because he got really unlucky and had 2 girlfriends cheat on him in a row, and he's a really good guy so it's not like it was his fault, so it's a little more understandable he has trust issues but still something to work on.
@@BeanCasserole-wg7wu That sucks, all he has to do in future relationships is explain that past trauma and if they don't "agree" with his situation. They can go
Gaslighting
Woman: I have a girlfriend
Street interviewer: so are you straight...?
Reminds me of that guy I said I was asexual and not attracted to anyone but still has sex and he was surprised when I said i'm fine with women our men, cuz it's the same lack of interest, because "he thought i wasn't into women".
And just later got shocked and confused when I said I'm queer and not straight because I'm not into men.
Like does he think "not attracted to anyone" excludes men ? Or is it that he understands in theory but can literally not conceptualize non-het stuff ?
It's been years I'm still confused about it. Some dudes clearly just never thought about sexual orientation for more than 2 seconds in their entire life and it shows.
LMFAO
he said bisexual and straight, but not lesbian.
it feels like, to him, it would make more sense for a straight girl to date a woman than a lesbian to exist.
@@ArturGlass.Cmen just genuinely don’t understand people who aren’t attracted to them. I’ve had men tell me I can’t be a lesbian because I have to/should be attracted to men. They just don’t get it
These the same dudes who think they can turn lesbians straight. And that they just haven’t experienced a “real man” so they’re confused.
Dude said "create a bridge" when he meant to say "burn a bridge" and I can't let that go unnoticed
OMG not Myron "a lock that opens any key." The Manosphere is not sending their best.
Yeah, when the guy said "create a bridge," I thought, "No, because that would be a good and healthy thing in a secure relationship, so that's definitely not what you mean..."
@@MrMysterious420 The manosphere, despite being very "facts don't care about your feelings", is almost entirely run through how emotional they are and make the viewer feel. Too bad the only emotion they see as valid is anger and hatred.
I noticed it too but thought maybe he meant to say "create a breach"
"They can feel free to do whatever they like" is an objectively true statement.
Um.... no. It isn't. In this context it is, but in a vacuum hell no.
"They can feel free to do whatever they like" (but I won't *let* them do whatever they like) ~aLpHa man
@@fahrenheit2101 no, sorry, as I said it is objectively true, you do have freedom every second of your life, I personally think you'd be convinced otherwise.
@@asheneal6511 well of course you technically have freedom yes (well, up to how you define free will)
I was taking the normal interpretation of the sentence, i.e. "free to do whatever they like" as in the person saying it is ok with the person doing what they like.
And there definitely are limits to that...
@@fahrenheit2101 they "can" is actually the stress of that sentence, it is actually just referring to the capability, not to moral permissibility.
"A key that opens many locks-"
A sharpener that can sharpen any pencil is a great sharpener. A pencil that has been sharpened many times becomes short and useless.
Interesting that people are copying and spamming the pencil sharpner analogy even though it doesn't make sense.
Also, if you're agreeing with her, that means using an analogy is saying that you shouldn't talk to people?
@@Freakazoid12345 because the key and lock analogy is so much better? lmfao
@@jadecoolness101 anime profile pic.
What are you, "lmfao" at?
Choosing a terrible analogy, or that she said people who use analogies shouldn't talk to people?
Oh shit...was my roommate just a figment of my imagination all those years? If platonic relationships don't exist, that ghost came up with half the bills each month. What a benevolent spirit
😂
Damn. It’s a shame that my brothers aren’t real :(
I knew it! They were my delusions all along
I wish the spirits in my house would help me pay the bills too😭
I think their point (which is wrong) is that even if one side isn't interested, the other side wants to get some action but isnt getting any so they keep trying... it's just dumb
A man trying to isolate his partner socially, by denying them social interaction outside the relationship, is usually a sign of a pyschologically abusive personality.
No one said you can’t have social interaction with the same sex… I am a woman and I do not talk to men my age unless it is necessary because I am in a relationship.
@@anti-consumerism6178 I need someone like you. You’re amazing
@@anti-consumerism6178but why though? The relationship won't disappear because you have a guy friend. You can do both. This is a false dichotomy
💯
I am worried for you @@anti-consumerism6178
Its so insecure and embarrassing that these dudes think their girlfriend would cheat on them so fast that they aren't even allowed to speak to a man that isnt in their family. You're obviously not that much of a 'high value man' if your girl would leave you in .1 seconds.
Honestly, these guys only think this way because they know they would cheat if given the opportunity. That’s all.
Nobody is, basically all men get cheated on
@@zooweellamaif your partner wants to cheat they will. No amount of being controlling will stop them. If you feel your partner is going to cheat on you, you need to communicate about it
@@bassekaman8315no they don’t. Men cheat more than women.
@@zooweellama So then they...stay in those relationships? To what end?
Why remain in a relationship where you don't respect your partner and you know they don't have any respect for you, as opposed to just like...I don't know, leaving?
"No men, unless its a coworker, a cop, a doctor but only general practice not gynecology, firefighter if the buildings on fire, but not if you're choking." Guy has more regulations than the FDAA
He wants his girlfriend chained in a basement and thinks those feelings are normal. Also, coworkers are a major dating pool for people, but don't tell him or he'll never let her work either.
As someone who has lived 40 minutes from Miami for 800 years, I can verify that this is exactly what the people on the streets are like
Vampire spotted
Gta 6 is gonna parody the hell out of those people
BEGONE, YE UNDEAD MONSTROSITY!
*Exsúrgat Deus et dissipéntur inimíci ejus: et fúgiant qui odérunt eum a fácie ejus!*
*Sicut déficit fumus defíciant; sicut fluit cera a fácie ígnis, sic péreant peccatóres a fácie Dei!*
No 100%. I can always tell how horrible the vibes are within minutes of being in the city
Especially since this is Brickell Miami I’ve seen weird people like this go around walking asking too.
as an aromantic asexual, videos like these make me wonder what world these people are living in where they think every human is motivated exclusively by relationships, and that men and women may as well be different species.
like. do you have hobbies? what do you do for fun? have you ever had a real friend? are you okay?
edit: legitimately cannot believe i have to put a disclaimer on my silly relatable youtube comment, but this isn't me trying to insult anyone for wanting a relationship. i literally don't care if you want to date or not, i care if you make a complete embarrassment of yourself like the people this video is about. do not reply to this comment acting like i said "anyone who wants to date is stupid and weird". i didn't.
Homoromantic asexual here: no they don't and they can't. The cishetallos and cishomoallos fear being alone too much to have self reflection until something traumatic happens. I've had this discussion with MANY of my friends and family. You don't NEED a relationship, you fear being alone. You don't WANT a baby, you want unconditional love. It's a weird thing to witness.
Amatonormativity makes people so boring frfr
Aromatic sounds nice. I bet you smell great
my thoughts exactly
Like seriously, "the male friend is just waiting to pounce" stop right there, YOU sir. YOU are waiting to pounce of your friends. Projection at it's finest.
I have a friend who calls himself "alpha"
But he uses the fact that "alpha" wolves are actually the parents
It's basically calling himself caring. When he talks about being "alpha" he's talking about looking after the people he cares about, showing them affection, being kind and compassionate, showing respect, etc
Honestly I prefer his interpretation so much. He's an awesome guy lol, if his definition of an "alpha male" was how it was generally interpreted it'd be an awesome movement tbh
Also truest probably, the updated research literally said it wasn't a thing but the 'alpha' was basically the parent leading at the time. So alpha is probably closest to meaning parent or being the parent friend, love that
i love that so much. as someone else said, the research talking about the whole alpha/beta/whatever tf in wolf packs turned out to basically just be a family of wolves, with the “alpha” being the parents of the pack. the guy who discovered this i believe rescinded his original research to make this adjustment but sad that toxic misogynistic dudes co-opted outdated terminology that never applied to humans to justify their hatred and anger. happy to see your friend decided to make a twist on the term for something good, that’s actually wholesome af
@@sorryoutlandish Yes exactly! I really hope more guys start to do a similar take on it tbh. Imagine if we could take the term "alpha" collectively and turn it into something wholesome. The current "alpha male" guys would throw a fit haha
I like this. It's both more accurate to how wolves actually work and also just really wholesome. THIS is what "boys will be boys" should mean lol
@@reedsylvier5250alpha animals in packs/herds whatever definitely exist. Just look at the behaviour of monkeys, there’s almost always one strong monkey who holds more authority than any other monkey.
I like how every video of someone agreeing with him feels so faked meanwhile the ones disagreeing dunked him so fucking hard that it cant possibly be staged
I can't watch a video without saying the intro with Jarvis
haha me too!!
Real!
You're premium
Wait what me too, but I always mess it up
same!
Its so crazy cause when these videos reach a female audience they immediately start clowning on the guy asking. But so many other guys still listen to them 💀
"Should I listen to the women saying what they want? No, this dude that constantly gets clowned on by women must know best!"
Also daybreak pfp, opinion validated.
I mean why would they care what women think, if they are not even people🙄🙄 (this is sarcasm)
It’s so true, and they’ll fight with you, defending these incel influencers tooth and nail! It’s like they’re more into the podcast hosts than into women.
@@crtfcd Hell yeah fellow Daybreak enjoyer!!!
@@PeachysMom Validation from men is greater than women's lived experience ig :///
"If a woman is an analogy to you, then you're not fucking ready to be talking to a woman."
Fucking fire.
5:20
A person who gets upset over analogies shouldn't talk to people in general.
i just got out of a relationship with a guy with beliefs like this. Its actually so draining and constantly feeling like you’re trapped and can’t do anything.. :(
I’m happy for u ❤
@@JuniperGal-ek2pu thank you darling ♡( ◡‿◡ )
I will say it again: The Lock Analogy doesn’t work, because the lock only has one function in life, and that is to keep everything out. A woman has many varied and individualized purposes in life other than sex and stopping men from having it with her. Just like the Flower Analogy doesn’t work: You don’t remove her purpose by sleeping with her. A flower’s petals have one purpose: To attract and be pretty. She doesn’t lose her beauty just because she had sex with you. It all comes down to one thing: You think a woman is worse off because she had sex with you. That says infinitely more about you.
Same with the chewed gum analogy. After a gum is open and done being chewed it literally is functionless. It has fufilled its one purpose. Someone else used a tea bag analogy. After a tea bag has been steeped in tea, it is literally finished. You can’t use it again. Sexual behavior is not a one time or finite resource. And even if it was it should be applied to both genders. And it’s just not. We overwhelmingly dictate and attempt to control female sexuality.
The first one is sadly not an alpha male thing, but a "the straights are not okay" thing. I saw a video yesterday of a bride showing that she had a man in her bride maids group and her husband had a girl with his groom mates (her brother and his sister), to show the color coordination, and the comments were filled with women saying that he was going to cheat on her with this woman (his sister, but they didn't care reading the description), how it was a red flag, ect... And once, I saw a woman explaining how she ended her friendship with her best friend when he found a girlfriend, so he would only have one woman in his life, and women were praising her for it. She wasn't ask, she just vanished from his life. Straight people have a sad life
Me and my boyfriend are both bisexual and since it's a hetero relationship people expect us to have all these weird rules that we don't have lol
That's a really shitty thing to do to someone. I would especially hate to start a relationship at the same tume someone I cared about just decided to vanish without a word as if I meant nothing.
@@Skoffxbc you can’t group all hetero relationships together just like you can’t group all straights or gays or lesbians etc together…
alpha male shit and hetero shit are far from mutually exclusive, more overlap than not. Spongebob's "imagination" but *Patriarchy*
it’s so sad when i see women do this. i’m a woman in a long-term relationship and i’ve NEVER had an issue with my partner being around other women or even being friends with women. idgaf he has a life outside of being with me and i trust him completely. the saddest thing to me is that i have an idea that this all comes from this toxic af belief that men are just uncontrollable sex goblins and that men and women just can’t be friends without something sexual/romantic occurring. it’s like you view the opposite sex as nothing more than a potential conquest instead of people that you could get to know and be friends with
The way I SPLUTTERED at, “you know what that means…NO GRANDPAS!” 😂😂😂 thank you I’ve never felt more premium in my life
The first young man is such a treasure... As a woman of 36 i would always advise to never get into a relationship that isn't based on trust and respect...i did learn this lesson the very hard way it can make the relationship hell and i don't wish that on anyone
I was LOVING that girl in the first video was checking her phone while her partner explained that he's just a decent human being, she need to pat his back for doing what's expected just because he's a man.
DIDN'T need to***
Same. I love her little smile too cuz she knew that was going to be his answer and was not worried at all.
If you think having se x is similar to opening a door you are doing it wrong or you open doors in very weird ways. Never opened a door doggy style and I truly hope nobody has done a rusty trombone when they are opening a door.
I'm scared to look up rusty trombone
As a pansexual, I wonder if these types of guys would be upset if I hung out with any friend alone ever 😅 like am I not supposed to hang out with anyone but my partner???
Oh don't worry they don't think women are full people, so you could still have female friends ❤️
Well thanks to this guy we know there are only there sexualities, bi, straight, and what.
Nah since you're pansexual they'd be confused as fuck. They wouldn't know if they want you in the kitchen near the pans or not. They'd be like shit. She's a woman so she belongs in the kitchen but I'm really insecure she's getting close to all those pans
@@AirLight1646 I love this 😂
I need the "What" flag immediately.
most of these guys probably don’t think we’re real lmao
These men are projecting. *They* could never be just friends with a woman they find attractive, so they're assuming that all men are wired the same.
There is some truth to this assertion though, I've never been close friends with a guy-even though I would love that-because, the few guy "friends" that I've had in the past *did* want something more, and they eventually let that be known. But, to say that every guy wants to hook up with his female friends is ridiculous.
the guy who was like "you can't talk to a man if you're not related to/work with him" is giving "you're the most jealous man i know" "you know other men?" energy
Its actually like, deeply and utterly sad that people cant seem to operate outside of sexual urges, like how can you not even fathom the idea of a loving caring emotional friendship between two people just because their the opposite gender? Like why can i not like someone for their humor and passion and personality and the comfort they bring to my life and the experiences we have together? Why cant you see women as someone with all those things? If any of these guys friends turned into a women one day magically, would he dump them? After maybe YEARS of friendship? Its insane
Because men are big horny. Have I answered your qeustion? Its not that we dont want emotional connection, its just, well, you have nice curves, you know?
I guess since I’m bi I’m not allowed to have any friends. It’s brutal out here 😔
Only non-binary ones. But pansexuals can't have any apparently.
I guess they expect all the bi, trans, and non-binary people to get together and cancel each other out! 🤣
I don't have friends anyway
bruh as a bi person, ”men and women can’t be just friends” is some immature bs
My mother dated a woman when I was a child. Funny now she is marrying a man. Almost like it’s a choice. But hey if you wanna find out for yourself go ahead. Just don’t bring children into your world.
@@anti-consumerism6178 that's brutal
@@anti-consumerism6178LOL
Ur bi.. don't say anything bruh
Honestly a lot of these people are just self projecting
" Guy friends and just friend zoned guys waiting for an opportunity to STRIKE" seems like you do this my man
Exactly. And they just think that every man thinks like they do.
The problem with men not seeing women as people also hinders friendships. I have had so many good friendships with men go sour as soon as they find out I'm gay and they just immediatly tap out of our friendship. I'm hestitant to befriend non-gay men now because I don't want to form a deep friendship only to find out they were just waiting to make a move the whole time and only saw me as a potential girlfriend :(
Don’t have male friends simple. Comment like this proves women who have male friends know that their male friends want to have sex with them but these women be friends with them anyway.
You women may fooled these dummy simps but men like me use their brain.
Because maybe, just maybe, all the interactions between men and women have a romantic undertone, im not saying its right or fair im saying its biology.
Yes, I have had at least three creepy, failed friendships with men like that. They are so annoying lol
@@sea509all of them? you’re telling me that biologically speaking, every interaction I have with someone of the opposite sex has a “romantic undertone”? you’re saying that me, as a hetero man, wants to have sex with every woman I lay my eyes on?
@@sea509but we are saying it doesn't have to have a romantic undertone have you seen how men hate on women they are not attracted to and treat them so horrifically and violently,,men hate older women with a burning passion it boggles the mind they are only nice to women they are attracted to
"the correct answer is: who cares?" Jarvis is such a big brain he got only A+ at school
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Whenever I hear the "master key" analogy I can't help but laugh because it's like people who have master keys are not trustworthy because they can sneak & break into people's private spaces when they're not there or enter without permission or knowledge. I swear Miami & Atlanta seem to be the worse 2 places to date because the men (not all) are just🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
This is so embarrassing for that interviewer. He keep getting EATEN UP by these people on the street 😭. This man has no shame.
Bring back shame!
@@star0nyx can’t bring back shame when people use it to control other people. Let people be and let them learn on their own.
Except 5:20.
Made a total fool of herself.
i’m a low value man. i live with my parents, i make $30/hour, 0 girls in my DMs. but at least i’m not these guys
hey, 30 an hour is pretty impressive.
From an 18 yr old woman, bro you’re not low value in any way… Whoever bases a human’s(in this case man’s) value purely on money is a greedy demon at best… I’d be with a guy like you and i am sure most normal young women would prefer you over an obnoxious, superficial and selfish rich guy… I bet you that you have 10 times more of a chance to meet a genuinely amazing girl that will love you for you and stick by you, than these guys who primarily lead with their money… What happens to their relationships when a man with more money comes if they’re dating gold diggers?? It’s all idiocy.. God bless you and you genuinely have more chances of being in a happy relationship than any of these guys
@@pravoslavnibalkanci🙏🏾
If you aren’t like them then you are a high value for most women. they think most women cares about money but they don’t. You just have to be motivated and hard worker.
@@rose-yeah motivated and hard working leads to more money. So in actuality yall women do care about money but it has to be long term. lol
The most insane shit about these redpill street interviews is that the presenter basically throws a fit if you're not on the same insecure bullshit that he's on. He thinks that every relationship should abide by his own personal standards which is actually unhinged when you think about it.
No he doesn't, watxh a whole segment not cherry picked interviews
At the “dark chocolate is my favorite” line I really started walking away from the screen, not remembering I’m on a treadmill, and almost fell to my death 😂😂😂
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I'm actually glad that people are starting to counter all the interviews leaving the guys dumbfounded
But it seems that he realized his mistake and started staging them
The first guy and how smug he looks knowing he's making that 'alpha male' squirm with his super secure king responses... I want to give his girlfriend and her awesome red pants a high five because she's winning.
And being so chill and on her phone was such a mood.
You do know why he's asking those questions right?
@@CorporationSKYbecause he wanted to get a "men and women can't be friends" response but, he didn't get one, so he kept asking questions. He wanted to introduce the fear of cheating into a stable relationship because he's insecure about his own.
@nevaeh9125 Fear wasn't the goal. Watch the whole interaction and his other content. If the people answer wisely with valid Grounded reasons, he leaves it alone, buy if he detects that they are being disingenuous, he...digs.
But honestly, this is Miami and looking for faithfulness in Miami is like asking a 4 yrold to explain Matcus Aurelius or Socrates, Plato or Niestche lol
Going to the jungle looking for polar bears.
These people are pure Impulse and 0 morality...its the environment. Don't go to IHOP expecting Michelin star.
Lastly, this is the internet...deep fake, ai voices, editing...you can't trust shit.
Get out and actually interact with folks.
@@CorporationSKY Because I don't want to just repeat what Nevaeh said, I'd like to ask, what would be your answer? I mostly ask because it seems like you have one ready, of course, so feel free to correct me if I misread
I don't remember where I heard this but when I hear the key analogy I remember a counter argument that a pencil sharper that sharpers all pencil is great but a pencil thats constantly being sharpered is going to be a bad pencil. Honestly makes as much sense!
Good one
Another dumb counter argument is a toothbrush that is used by one person is good, a toothbrush used by multiple people is disgusting and useless
Imagine their gfs or wives saying "My husband/bf goes around the streets asking couples questions about relationship and girls about body count" when their friends ask what their bfs/husband do for living.
🤭😂 best case scenario yes. But most likely they have no wife or gfs 🤭
@@caroll9698 I hope they don't, but if they do then it's probably because most girls like walking red flags 😭
That’s assuming they have partners. Or have like, ever touched a woman.
When so many men (young me included) think of sharing emotional vulnerability as a thing strictly for men to receive from their romantic partner, it's no surprise they can't see women with male friends as acceptable. It's also part of why so many men have no outlet for mental health problems.
I really hope the next generations are better at men being emotionally supportive of each other and therefore open to everyone being that.
I started cluing into this recently and it really makes me feel for men, y'all are taught to feel so limited and it's so unhealthy. hopefully the newer generations will clue in and start tp change it 🫠
I swear after reading this kind of comments I talked to my brothers about their romantic life, fears, mental health. It helped them. At least that's what they said.
@@leightshine what's more sad us that no one is teaching them they doing it to themselves 😢
Emotional vulnerability is something you share with your partner, male friends and your family. Not random other women. They gossip.
@@TheSuperappelflap yeah we want men to have emotional vulnerability with their bros. instead of using their gf as a therapist. what's the point of ur comment
I like how the reason one of the guys doesn’t want his girl having male friends is because “when we breakup she might get with him” like excuse me why does it matter, if your broken up is doesn’t matter who she gets with. There’s a lot of people I might consider going on a date with if I wasn’t currently in a relationship but because I’m in a relationship I don’t, if that relationship ends I now no longer have a reason to not try a relationship with someone I’m close to. These “alpha males” seem to think they not only “own” woman in relationships with them but even if they break up it’s crazy
This is my introduction to your channel and I was terrified at first, based on the caption. I did not search "alpha" anything and was scared I was going to see more women getting hurt. It was extremely satisfying seeing these douche bags get handled and body-count gal is my sister from another mister. Your commentary was refreshing and funny, thank you!
this is so stupid bc i feel like this kind of thinking only “works” if the girl is in a relationship and the guy friend isn’t. i don’t think my guy friend who has happily had a girlfriend for 2 years is just being my friend to get with me?? 😭
This is true.
I can hear the interviewer's brain short circuiting when he gets these healthy answers from people.
19:22 bro having a rough time in the Alabama dating market, constantly getting potential girlfriends stolen by their cousins
I am crying and you made me laugh weird, congrats!
These guys get me good…. There’s a whole cognitive dissonance over ‘I trust my woman just not other guys because I know how they think’ essentially implying all men are predators. Then get all upset when women generalise about them even a little bit. It’s pretty impressive tbh
My mind is so dissapointed that we STILL have the discussion about men and women being friends 🙄
In my experience women do actually want to have sex with their male friend if he’s attractive enough.
I’m the good example.
this is some kindergarten stuff , adults acting like children
I absolutely love the girl roasting him and saying, "get fucked." I had to watch it again. 4:42
Ironically, he won't ever 'get fucked' lmao
I had to watch it again, in all that someone could disagree with something so strongly but not give a single logical reason as to why.
She would never say that to a woman asking a guy to be over 6tf tho.
You expect a logical response to a question like that?😂 grow up buddy. Can you give me the logical reasoning for why women find you repulsive?
@@views-kb6sv Most women don't care about that. Men do. And to short women, 6ft. is way too tall for them.
I think the argument about friends sounds even weirder for those in lgbtq+ community. Like, if 2 guys or 2 girls get together are they no longer allowed to have friends of the same gender? Or if a bi person gets a partner can they no longer hang out with anyone? Just bizarre toxic relationship logic
As someone that’s in a gay relationship, with a partner with all female friends, I will never understand this. My gf is 6’4, fit, and extremely attractive- she gets hit on all the time, and my gf will tell people hitting on her to their face that she has a gf (me) and isn’t interested. It’s happened infront of me, infront of her friends who told me what happened bc they thought it was funny, etc. if you have a good and secure partner, it doesn’t matter who their friends are. My gf could move across the country- and I’d still know nothing would happen.
I cannot stand all this “alpha” stuff😭
18:44 That guy turned into that slug lady from Monsters Inc.
these type of dudes will also say things like "Why are you friends with your exes?" like it isn't a massive red flag that they are mortal enemies with EVERYONE they ever dated
Well, there are at least two different types of exes: ones that you leave amicably and ones that are toxic and need to be cut out of your life.
These types of guys fall into the latter category and probably blame it on their ex-girlfriends even if they're the ones who were being shitty.
4:21 Umm....How is straight an option? She just said she has a girlfriend......The question should be "are you bi, lesbian, or what?".
1:55 The way she’s smiling is so cute 😭 She’s proud, as she should be
Me, an aromantic woman with a few guy friends, hearing that platonic relationships between women and men aren't real: 🤨
Same but as a Demi romantic
I read that as aromatic
Same as an aroace enby person
My closest friend is someone I would've dated if I was into that like isn't the best romantic relationship one where you're friends too?From what I've gathered
@@IbrahimDarCo So does autocorrect 😅
I lost a very close male friend because his wife was so insecure and forced him to cut me off. side note: I am also married and my husband was fine with our friendship.
Yeah!! I have met a female at my friend’s party who I thought was my friend. She then told her partner to unfollow me on all social media & she did the same to me. Yet we had so many things in common. It’s just so sad that females don’t want their partners being friends with other females
Hope he's gotten or gets away from her.
Good for her. I would have done the same for my husband.
It's annoying but it happens. It's understandable, not everybody is on the same maturity level, you as the more mature one have to be compliant.
It's not insecure or evil..It's just how it goes.
I'm a single straight Man and hate dealing with married couples ...
The wives get jealous, The Men are suspicious...its annoying.
Male friend was right to cut it off. Im not talking to strange woman .
The last guy literally finds a woman who is like "I have a thing for you" and absolutely drives the conversation into a concrete wall at 200mph.
I've never seen someone so unequipped to talk to a woman who is flirting with them. Just wow.
Is that bad? I personally don’t think I can flirt with women well, I don’t think that’s some knock on my character
@@avinashreji60 not being able to flirt well while pretending you are an expert at picking up women is like... Very very stupid.
He acts all high an mighty calling himself am alpha and then just crumbles immediately.
We all struggle when talking to people we find attractive, that's totally okay and normal.
Lying however, is not.
The only fear you should ever have with your gf hanging out with a guy friend is the guy friend being interested in her and not taking no for an answer.
thats when you get the glock out
@@v.xien.go the American way. Two guns.
13:58 I would’ve thought that a ‘high value man’ would be able to figure out how button a shirt properly... 😬
Hahaha this made me giggle