NPD Series |Ep 58| : Narcissist and Infidelity
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- NPD Series: Narcissist and Infidelity
Language: Manglish (a combination of Malayalam & English)
Dr Susan shares the wisdom from her therapeutic experience working with narcissistic personalities and Narcissistic victims through her NPD vlog series.
One of the key behaviour traits of a narcissist is cheating especially in a marriage. Narcissists are those who feel no guilt or shame in cheating on their life partner. Not all narcissists cheat, but those who cheat are truly skilled in managing it hidden from their partner and keeping both the lawful and unlawful relationships balanced. Even if they are caught they have special skills to handle the situation in their favour. Watch the video to learn more.
Dr Susan Koruthu is a multifaceted life psychologist and mind wellness coach. She brings 28 years of professional experience in the field. She speaks wisdom from the experiences she had working with individuals, businesses and over 40 nationalities.
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Disclaimer: The information shared in this video is for educational purposes only. You are encouraged to seek professional help for guidance on your specific issues. This video provides general information about narcissistic personality disorder. This does not refer to any specific person or group and should not be used to refer to anyone specific to prove having narcissistic traits or related disorders. Permission is not granted to prove any allegation that a specific person is a narcissist by using this video and related videos.
Mam താങ്കളുടെ videos എത്രമാത്രം സത്യമായതും ഉപകാരപ്രദവുമാണെന്നോ... ഒന്നിൽ കൂടുതൽ പ്രണയസന്ധങ്ങൾ ഒരുമിച്ചു കൊണ്ടു പോവുന്ന വ്യക്തിയാണ് എൻ്റെ ഭർത്താവ് 19 കൊല്ലത്തെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ അയാൾ ഇതുതന്നെയായിരുന്നു ഞാനിത് മനസിലാക്കിയത് നാല് വർഷം മുൻപ് മാത്രം. മൂന്ന് മക്കൾ ടെ അമ്മയായി എന്നതു മാത്രമാണ് അയാളിൽ നിന്ന് എനിക്ക് കിട്ടിയത്. ഇപ്പൊ സ്വന്തം കാലിൽ നിക്കാൻ പഠിച്ചു... ഞാനും മക്കളും സന്തോഷമായിരിയ്ക്കുന്നു
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ഈ പറഞ്ഞതെല്ലാം സത്യം. ഏതൊ ഒരുത്തന് വേണ്ടി എന്റെ ജീവിതമാണ് ഇല്ലാണ്ടായത്. അയാൾ സന്തോഷമായി സുഖിച്ച് നടക്കുന്നു. victims വിഷമിച്ചും ദുഖിച്ചും നടന്ന് ജീവിതം തീർക്കുന്നു. ഇതിലും ഭേദം വല്ല മിണ്ടാ മഠം ത്തിലും പോ ചേരുന്നതായിരുന്നു. ഇനി ഇതൊന്നും പറയുന്നതിൽ കാര്യമില്ലാ . മാഡം പറഞ്ഞതു പോലെ maximum independent ആയി ജീവിക്കാൻ ശ്രമിക്കാ. പിന്നെ ബൈബിളിൽ പറഞ്ഞ പോലെ നമ്മുടെ സഹനത്തില്ലൂടെ ഒരാത്മാവിനെ വിശുദ്ധീകരിച്ചെടുക്കുക.
Madam... ഒരുപാട് കാര്യങ്ങൾ ജീവിതത്തിൽ ചെയ്യാൻ ബാക്കി ഉണ്ട്... അത് നിങ്ങൾ കാണാത്തത് കൊണ്ടാണ്... ഇതേ അവസ്ഥ എനിക്ക് വന്നിട്ടുണ്ട് നല്ല ഒന്നാം ക്ലാസ്സ്‌ തേപ്പ് ആയിരുന്നു എനിക്ക് കിട്ടിയത്... സ്വയം സ്നേഹിച്ചു സ്വയം ബഹുമാനിച്ചു ഒന്ന് ജീവിച്ചു നോക്കു... അഹങ്കാരം കാണിക്കുന്നു എന്ന് മറ്റുള്ളവർ പറയും... അങ്ങനെ കേട്ടു തുടങ്ങിയാൽ മനസിലാക്കിക്കോ you changed.... നമ്മൾ കൊടുക്കുന്ന സ്നേഹം നമ്മളെ ചവിട്ടി തേക്കാൻ ഉള്ള ലൈസൻസ് ആക്കി എടുക്കുന്നവരെ.... കടക്ക് പുറത്ത് style എടുക്കുക 👍
@@shameerabdulbasheer1988njmmal ethra snahathode parumaariyalum avar marilla epol njan nallavannam pradikarikum...kshamak oru adirille...
Dealing with narcissistic brother.... 3 years horrible experience.... Now I am keeping distance from him for last 2 months.... I feel better and relaxed....
These covert naracissit have 💯 percent infidelity, and they are betrayers too. Grandiose are open about the heir relationship, wheras coverts hide and deny their relationships, they act without the knowledge of their spouses. Love your videos madam you gave an excellent speech on coverts about their betrayl and infedility. Coverts are the ones who betrays and have infidelity in nature, it is inborn to them unlike grandiose.
I have been listening to ur videos since 3 wks. Every word you say is 💯% true. My close friend for 5 yrs was like this. So adamant, Cruel, secretive, sarcastic, insulting, cheating, dominating, illtreating, abusing, beating, infedility and above all making others submissive. I suffered this nonsense for 60m. Whenever he was caught for his hidden, sly, crooked, cunning ways I finally being fed-up, parted ways, he never admitted it. He never once said a word "SORRY". It is not in his dictionary. He never REGRETTED anything he did. Whatever he said or did he believes is correct. Puts all blame on us .
I have been seeing ur videos just 3 weeks ago. But I said bye to him two and a half yrs ago. If only I saw ur videos some yrs ago I wouldn't have been in a mess, trauma, dejected.!!! Sad, really Sad 😢
22 വർഷമായി ഞാൻ ഇതെല്ലാം അനുഭവിച്ചുകൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നു സമാധാനമുള്ള ജീവിതത്തിനുവേണ്ടി ഒരു തീരുമാനം എടുത്തിട്ടുണ്ട്
They mostly body shame the spouse, show no interest in the spouse other than their own sexual needs met and then discard, they deny always their faults and they always say that spouse is having trust issues, even though the narc directly even tells on various situations that they have been unfaithful
"Aanungalkk enthu veno aavam Anju ., Men are like that., I cannot be in a marrage slavary "Getting separated 😑
Thank you Dr for this topic. They do mistake and expect us to feel regret and apologize.
ente ex husbandinte avihitham chatingaayum mattum kandappol aal e nnod venel veetil povaan paranju...aalk glufil vechulla realtions aaayirunnu...avidethe arabi pennungalodum mattum....naatil valya prblm onnum illa....oru communal narccist aayirunnu...arinj kayinjappol Silent treatmentum sometime Over reactionum aayirunnu...oru rejction aayirunnu...divorce timil polum aalk no feeling...always cool aayirunnu.....Image povunna kaaryathil aalk kurach pediyundaayirunnu....enthaayalum Before mrg aal such a charming Personality aayirunnu...after mrg love and caring kuravaayirunnu....aa Personality thanne Maari...enthayalum glfil pennungalodu touchingum mattum kandappol njan ing ponnu...aal arinj kayinjappol manassarinj oru sorry polum paraynilla..cool Mind ...Arh enne ange attam shocke aaaki...kaarnam namukk avarde aa Great persinalitye aryooo
എന്റെ ഭർത്താവ് കല്യാണം കൈക്കുമ്പോ ലൈംകിക പ്രശ്നം മറച്ചു വെച്ചു.... ഞാൻ അറിഞ്ഞു ന്ന് മനസ്സിലാക്കിയപ്പോ മാനസിക രോഗം, inferiority complex എന്നൊക്കെ പറഞ്ഞു... ഞാൻ പറഞ്ഞു.. First you should do introspection എന്ന് പറഞ്ഞപ്പോ ആള് പിന്നെ hero zero ആയി
Its all very much true.. ഞാൻ അനുഭവിക്കുന്നു ഇപ്പോളും.... അറിയാൻ കഴിയുന്നില്ല എന്തു ചെയ്യണമെന്ന്....
Fed up and depressed. Escape from them, no other option.
From childhood itself victim of narscists and it has become a series..I was wondering, why me ..from almost all dear n near..n now experience is at it's peek..
കുടതൽ മലയാളത്തിൽ പറഞ്ഞാൽ വളരെ ഉപകാരമാകും
ദൈവമേ..njan theerumanam eduthu mam.. Thank you so much.. Sankadamund ennalum .. Iniyenkilum nalla theerumanathil jeevikanam 🙏
Thanks mam...very good information
ഈ personality ഉള്ള famous ആയ ചില ആളുകൾ ഉണ്ട്.
Engane relationship undakunnavante kode jevikunnathinekal nallath jail anu..konnukalayanam
We can and should just walk out. Confidently.
My husband got disease , took treatment and continued his dirty things. Aids vannu marikatte .
വളരെ പ്രയോജനപ്രദമായ വീഡിയോ .നന്ദി മേഡം.
Mam paranjath oru wife nteyo husbandnteyo casil alle? ith secret relationshipinu vendi select cheytha oru vykthiyude bagath ninn verumpol,ee narccistic aaya person avarod engne aanu behave cheyyunnath? Angne oru video cheyyavo?
Love to watch your videos on grandiose and coverts. Thank you madam.
When u find out ur partner is having other sexual activity just go in 4 a divorce n live ur life....never give up....besides if u have male children they'll definitely stand with father....after all men r men.....🤨🤨
Good going Madam . I really like your videos👏👏👏👏 . Ma’am , Give a talk on how does a narcissist react to being exposed with proofs and evidences ?
Sure, I will. they normally deny and manipulate where ever possible. blame you, create guilt in you. If nothing works fake crying, apology dramas and fake future promises will start. All these to convince others to give them another chance to prove them as better individuals but in fact they want to escape from that difficult situation. They will mostly use the word human error.
Instant stories will be developed.They will blame the third person too...like the third person seduced me, there was no other way to get out of it... suitation demanded...they black mailed me....atlast confessions will be like " I'm not an angel"!!!
mam ഒരു പാട് സഹിച്ചു. ഇപ്പോൾ സ്വയം പര്യാപ്തി നേടി. ഒരു മിച്ചു തന്നെ ജീവിക്കുന്നു.
Hi എനിക്കൊന്നു ഫോൺ നമ്പർ തരുമോ..... Helpnu vendiyitta
How u r tolerating together
It’s good,like learning to live with an elephant in our room .
Engane orumich jeevikkunnu
Attackinonnum varatha alano
Ente husband ingane arunnu....last najn kandpidichu.but pulli sammathichilla .najn wait cheithu last husband nte salyam sahikathe ayalde lover case koduthu... Ella kallangalum purath vannnu.....epo mam paranjapole najn anganeya venel ninnal mathi ennaparayunnu...najn ipo change ayiii... independent aaaayi....
Athe ee 2 infedility ulla ahlkarum koodi aayal athil vellathum paryaano cheyyano pattumo?
They plan everything...and hit you all of a sudden..they discard you when you least expect it...she was happy 2 days before she left..she left with all her gold, her property papers ( which I didnt ask for), if she left for a fight, why did she take everything before she left? I have head stories of wife leave their loving husband for another man...such people are mostly NPDs...let them go..you are better off without them...
Very informative video👍♥
Thank u so much for ur nice information
Suggest some boundaries to keep with
True in every word
Super video dear mam 👏
Thanks a lot
Thank u so much dear doctor....njn paranja topic cheithathinu thanks ❤️
12 yr aayi oru narcissists koode jeevikunnu...maranam vare ithinu oru samadhanam indagumo
If you learn how to live peacefully and happy, then only. If you think your NPD partner to give it then it will like a never ending one.
Thanks Mam njan 40 years ayi suffer cheyunu. ellam manasilaki vazhakum prasnanglum. enne oru manasika rogiyaki othuki. makkale orthu jeevikunu ennal makkalku polum ithu manasilakunila.
ഞാനും ജീവിക്കുന്നു 21 yrs ആയി... കയ്യിൽ കിട്ടിയാൽ അവന്റെ ഏതെങ്കിലും ഒരു അവയവം അടിച്ചു പൊട്ടിക്കും ഞാൻ... അത്ര മേലെ അനുഭവിച്ചു കഴിഞ്ഞു.. ഇനി സഹിക്കാൻ വയ്യ എനിക്ക്...
I have something different experience, that I want to share with you ma'am
Thank you doctor
Emotional infidelity : the so called friends giving your husband all the attention and husband prioritising these desperate female friends who send their selfies , gifts , and secretive frequent calls .Shares all the private family details But no physical infidelity..once they tell you the girl is his friend. You will sound like a crazy fool. And they stop telling you this woman is still calling them as you will be tagged crazy and now they have the ticket to keep this woman ( often attractive and gf of many men in their circle .. often a pattern)
Narcissist nte Life aghanea aayirikkum madam?
Future life?
Old age aavumbo
As they wish it to be.
എനിക്ക് തോന്നുന്നത് പ്രായം കൂടും തോറും ഇവരുടെ സ്വഭാവം മൂത്തു വരും 😒
It will only get worse as the narc ages. Gets more difficult for them to keep up the act/mask.
Ma'am please do a vedio about OCD
ഇതും സഹിച്ചു.
Same experience madam🙏🏻
Mam engane appointment kittum mamnte
please visit website www.drsusankoruthu.com
Ella narcistum infedility cheyumo
Very true
Sathyam..
Dr...how to deal this situation...how to change their personalities..how to talk to them selves..
They will not change their personalities. You will possibly get frustrated and finally become a victim of complex PTSD.
Madam.nammal nammudea ishttangalum aagrahangalum identity m illaathaakkaan sammathikkyaathirunnaal poreaa.
Yes, but there are lots of people having hyper empathetic, dependent disorders, and addicted to their NPD partner etc etc. Your self confidence and mental toughness is tested only after you meet an NPD. As long as you have not met one you will never understand the victim's situation.
Ivare manasikamayi vishamippikkan enthu cheyyan pattum
They don't have such feelings. they are either apathetic or antipathic
Spoil their well developed fake image with proper evidence, that's the best revenge you can do. Share it with as much as ppl whom they give importance.
Thank you mam
Most welcome 😊
Same happened to me
Waiting
Hi madam
Hi madem
sexting infidelity l pedumo?
yes
Communal narcissistic ലാണോ ഇത്കൂടുതൽ കാണുന്നത്
Not necessary
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Ammayum achanum ingane aayal 😂
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Maam...enikku email address onnu tharumo?
You can contact me through my website www.drsusankoruthu.com or sending an email to drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
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You are saying Bible morality
If one live a life of this sort of atrocities does he hasn't got the right of choosing another life...
Your life is your responsibility. You have all the right to live as per your wish. However, stay away from abuses
Madom nammude kazhivukalonnu mattullavare vachu tharathamyam cheyyanda karyamilla pakshe avihitham ennathu kondu
Lokam muzhuvan thettudharichirikkunnu manushyarude vethyatha
Thalathilulla sex nte abhiruchi engane thallikalayanakum avihitham ennal vethasta thalathilulla oru laigiga abhinivesam anu athinu
Bharthavineyum oru strenger aya aleyum thirichariyilla thettum sariyum nirvachikkanavatha mekhalayanathu😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
Mam engane appointment kittum mamnte
Thank you Dr
very true
Waiting
Madathine contact cheyyan phone number tharamo
Please send me a message through my website www.drsusankoruthu.com or email drsusankoruthu@gmail.com
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