ELV #5 | We Lost the Pregnancy | Whitney Port

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  • @scperry2012
    @scperry2012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    you guys are the rare depiction of a healthy, fun-loving, supportive relationship. Thank you for being so vulnerable and being a great example of what it means to be partners in life.

    • @AbiCroCro
      @AbiCroCro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right, they reassure and inspire me to be so much better.

    • @sandygonzalezz9160
      @sandygonzalezz9160 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      💯

  • @Evelyn476
    @Evelyn476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +646

    "you can be whatever you wanna be" without missing a beat or losing the smile.

    • @alannaddict
      @alannaddict 3 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@ariamontgomery8475 it's actually great parenting, and actually we shouldn't be even commenting on their parenting in the first place unless they ask.

    • @Evelyn476
      @Evelyn476 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@ariamontgomery8475 its actually not. Side note; Isn't aria Montgomery also that one chick that slept with her high school teacher as a teen bop?

    • @raynuh138
      @raynuh138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@ariamontgomery8475 judging your children for what they say or what they want to be is bad parenting darling.

    • @raynuh138
      @raynuh138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@ariamontgomery8475 he can if he wants to.

    • @alannaddict
      @alannaddict 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@ariamontgomery8475 Your question is irrelevant and doesn't belong in this discussion. We're talking about humanity and gender. If you don't understand gender is a fluid spectrum then this probably isn't the community for you.

  • @shaynabay7227
    @shaynabay7227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    As I have watched these 5 videos, I am in complete awe of how strong you are Whit. The filming, the life changing news, the way you handle yourself taking it in and explaining it to us. Its just incredible how vulnerable and honest and confident you are. You are such a huge inspiration to so many women and I thank you for letting me be a very small part in your life. Much love Whit, Timmy and Sonny!

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Shayna

    • @shaynabay7227
      @shaynabay7227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bibiznatch Hi Beth!! Man, I'm really missing the community this week. Hope you have had a great 2021 so far!

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      eh....so.....um.....yeh....I am here again today, so...bonus....lol. good morning good afternoon good evening lol

    • @ritatorrez552
      @ritatorrez552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agreed!!

    • @vancarbonneau6063
      @vancarbonneau6063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She really is such an inspiration! And she is well surrounded

  • @26DaysToWorkWith
    @26DaysToWorkWith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    when Whitney said "I'm sorry for you too" to Timmy :( so painful but y'all are such a great team

    • @lm1416
      @lm1416 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ugh heart breaking

    • @davrolla
      @davrolla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true .. it’s important that the Dads have their feelings acknowledged as well

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously! Wonderful team 😭😭❤️❤️

  • @michellefg792
    @michellefg792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    “This will be behind us at some point” was great advice

  • @katherinehurt
    @katherinehurt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I just feel so badly thinking back to every Live when you guys would be bombarded with questions about baby #2 and were going through this!!! such a reminder to be kind and gentle, as we never know what people are going through!!! as always, sending soooo much love!!

    • @Kinsugi
      @Kinsugi 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      So very true x

    • @jt12388
      @jt12388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yess.. I hate when people ask couples when are going to start a family. Or ask a woman she is pregnant. It can be so hurtful if the are struggling to conceive.

    • @elliepumpkin1
      @elliepumpkin1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jt12388 it’s the worst!!!! 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @milolovesam4452
      @milolovesam4452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This 🙌Having gone through many miscarriages myself. I never ask someone when or if they are planning to have children or more children. It’s actually rude to ask - it’s very personal.

    • @jt12388
      @jt12388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@milolovesam4452 same I remember the feeling while I was going through my miscarriages. It the reason I never ask anyone couple. When they are ready they will let people know.

  • @TheSnowReport28
    @TheSnowReport28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I’m so sorry, Whitney. I’ve been there several times and I know this isn’t your first miscarriage. I’m sending you all my love and good thoughts for your family.

  • @TheSnowReport28
    @TheSnowReport28 3 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Whitney your courage and strength during all of this is commendable.

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agree so so so much!!!! 🙌🏽

  • @clafletcher
    @clafletcher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I just have to say how much I appreciate you guys choosing to share this. I feel like the whole process of going through a miscarriage can be so secretive (even when parents don’t want to to be!) and you guys choosing to share will help so many people feel less alone. I don’t have kids and haven’t been pregnant before but this has helped me understand the pain family and friends have gone through. Love you guys! Sending you positive thoughts today and always ❤️

  • @rachelvinchi7175
    @rachelvinchi7175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “Loving deeply is part of living a full life”.... Everything anyone ever needs to know in one sentence Timmy. X

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jt12388
    @jt12388 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Oh I remember this feeling all so well. Wish I had someone tell me “this will be behind us at some point” these words are so true. I had three miscarriages after having my daughter and remember feeling horrible. I finally was able to get pregnant again and look back when I thought I was never gonna get over that part of my life but I did. Thank you for speaking about it and how common it can be. Years ago when I was going through it it was not so common to talk about.

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Jenesis

    • @jt12388
      @jt12388 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bibiznatch hey Beth 👋 miss our live chats

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeh. Mi tambien

    • @Airinmo
      @Airinmo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jenesis what do you think help? Both physically and mentally to get pregnant after 3 failed attempts. Any words would be much appreciated

    • @jt12388
      @jt12388 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Airinmo well I got pregnant the first time at 17. So when I was actually ready and trying i was able to get pregnant I just couldn’t stay pregnant. After my last and third miscarriage I just had the conversation with my husband and asked if having a step-daughter would be enough for him. He said yes that he loved us and he was fine that, and I let just let go of the stress and stopped trying. In way I gave up let it go at the time I was still so young I figured I’d throw myself back to school and continue my education and focus on that and then It just happened I got pregnant without really trying and without hoping every month that something would happen. Now I have three kids but my last pregnancy was horrible I developed placenta perrcreta and needed life saving surgery to survive. I lost my uterus needed a full bladder repair so im pretty sure my uterus was probably the issue this whole time.

  • @thepurplepalace85
    @thepurplepalace85 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    wow this was so powerful. Thanks for sharing your story. We love you Whitney and Timmy!

  • @floatingvibez
    @floatingvibez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “Loving deeply is part of living fully”, that hit me right in the feels.

  • @RaidingRainbow
    @RaidingRainbow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Sonny in the backseat genuinely concerned about you possibly getting a pinch .... my heart 😂😭🥰 he is so incredibly precious

  • @thankgodfrey
    @thankgodfrey 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    You guys have such a loving supportive relationship, trying to manifest this in my life 💞

    • @IcePrincess619
      @IcePrincess619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True love is had by putting in hard work and it takes years.

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s so beautiful 👏🏽

  • @mohummus3235
    @mohummus3235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    "she's a woman?"
    "i am a woman."
    "oh, no i'm a woman!"
    "you can be whatever you want to be"
    my heart

  • @MarleeCM
    @MarleeCM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I’m overwhelmed by how loving this family is. It’s such a gift you guys sharing all this. I want the best for all of you ❤️
    Thank you, again and again, for sharing

  • @CarrieDayton
    @CarrieDayton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Thank you for sharing this so vulnerably and honestly. You're so lucky to have one another. Sending you both so much love. ❤️

  • @literallyferal1
    @literallyferal1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have miscarried more than once and wish someone, anyone would have been candid and open like this. Thank you. Sending you well wishes and a peaceful road ahead. 🌻

  • @Geepadriack
    @Geepadriack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I completely understand your feeling of "its happened to me before the universe wouldn't put me through that again" and then it does exactly just that. Its heartbreaking and also isolating. Sending all the love I have left in me

  • @bigpaul4450
    @bigpaul4450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Hearing Whitney talk about the pregnancy towards the beginning honestly breaks my heart

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love the name

  • @thethrowawaythatstayed7055
    @thethrowawaythatstayed7055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    “You can be whatever you want to be” such a beautiful family.

    • @IcePrincess619
      @IcePrincess619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lies 😂 u can't choose ur age or ur sexuality or ur race ETC.. U can choose to denounce your true gender but that doesn't mean your picked gender is your true gender. Women can have babies and a man can never have a baby . 💯 Lying to people to make them feel better is not loving at all. A male can never be a women. Obviously

  • @sisi5444
    @sisi5444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    your son is so lucky to have you guys as parents. i was emotionally neglected by my mother and from a broken family. seeing how sweet and communicative you are with each other - it's beautiful.

  • @Nichole84
    @Nichole84 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sister, I appreciate your vulnerability in this video. I have been there with miscarriages and then when my husband and I finally had our baby boy miracle he was kidnapped from us. Almost 5 years later I still cry everyday and have yet to move on. I feel for every compassionate mother who loves their child and can't hold them.

  • @nancygandrud
    @nancygandrud 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Beautiful. Turning heartbreak into wisdom. “Loving deeply is part of living fully.”

  • @MackenzieGMusic
    @MackenzieGMusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Oh man.. your talk about living your life to the fullest and loving and being vulnerable and not letting the world to make you cold really struck deep

  • @danielle3063
    @danielle3063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Last week I went through the same thing at 12 weeks pregnant, and having watched these videos previously made me feel much less scared and alone, especially about the D&C. Thank you so much for sharing them.

  • @paulawillmore6299
    @paulawillmore6299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing this. I’m in the midst of a miscarriage following IVF at the moment, 7 weeks a heartbeat, 8 weeks no longer a heartbeat. Somehow it helps to watch and talk to other women who have gone through something similar. We still have hope and we will move forward but we will never forget x

  • @kellgg
    @kellgg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    "over the pants BJ" SENT me. These vlogs are amazing thank you for sharing all of it

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Kelley....can't wait for the shirt.

    • @kellgg
      @kellgg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bibiznatch thanks Beth! Me neither!

  • @shannonswartsman8047
    @shannonswartsman8047 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I just had my 4th miscarriage yesterday. I didn’t realize you were going through this. You are not alone. I love you guys so much. You make me laugh so hard

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm so sorry Shannon 😥

    • @marshajulessa2995
      @marshajulessa2995 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm sorry stay strong

  • @kristinkrauss5610
    @kristinkrauss5610 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I also lost my dad at 23 years old, and went on to struggle to get pregnant and then suffered a miscarriage, but then had a happy, healthy baby. Such an emotional rollercoaster of grief and joy! You all seem to be handling this all well and not stuffing any feelings. Praying for a healthy baby soon!

  • @TimandCeleste
    @TimandCeleste 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so sorry for your loss... having endured 6 losses myself, and still trying for our first baby after 7 years, I feel your pain. Losing a baby, no matter what stage, is incredibly painful. My heart goes out to you guys. Thinking of you and sending love ♥️

    • @BH-el4rs
      @BH-el4rs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Celeste...you are an angel of a person. May God give you what your heart so much desires. It takes a special person to feel empathy for someone else when your heartache has been so great.

  • @1986hannahs
    @1986hannahs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sonny is such a ray of sunshine. I'm really sorry for your loss ❤️

  • @katierodgers8580
    @katierodgers8580 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your such a loving couple, I love your honesty, I’ve had 2 miscarriages and an ectopic, I was lucky to have 2 boys before all of that. It doesn’t make it any easier but I’m so grateful for them, and realise I am lucky, some don’t get that chance. I pray for all the women out there trying for that miracle rainbow baby xx

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ugh I’m so sorry momma! Praying for their perfect little miracle to come too 😭😭😭🤍🤍🤍

  • @jessicalee6631
    @jessicalee6631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lay here so close to giving birth to my second son, having gone through the same experience you guys are going through now. You two are so very brave for documenting and putting this out there. At the time I had no one or nothing to confide the heartbreak I felt. My husband and I felt very alone in that journey. Thank you so much for sharing. I know your family will grow one day. Xoxo

  • @alishaballesteros1292
    @alishaballesteros1292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow Whitney thank you for sharing. We have so much in common I lost my dad when I was 17, I have a son the same age as Sonny and I also had a miscarriage summer of 2018. I was so excited to be pregnant again and I was in such a happier place but about a month in I woke up with cramps and didn't think much of it but then I started spotting. My husband took me to the emergency room and while we were waiting I was cramping up and stood up to go to the bathroom, and lost it right then and there. I was only 26 years old and was healthy. I never thought it would happen to me but I find it is more and more common. I can relate with the grief and how as soon as you feel it it just brings everything back that you had learned to deal with and repress to just get through your day and it all comes rushing back.
    You and I will have the opportunity to have another baby someday if it is the universe's will. It is all in Gods timing.
    Love you guys and please don't stop sharing and spreading the love!!!

  • @caygirl03
    @caygirl03 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you so much for sharing your raw feelings in the moment. I too had a miscarriage over the holidays, my 4th. Everything you have said in this vlog series I have resonated with so much and I am so thankful to have watched this during this time as I heal. So much love to you and Timmy as you both heal as well. Your losses matter

  • @jordinreynolds2384
    @jordinreynolds2384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Are you going to get a pinch?" So adorable 🥰😭

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The cutest little voice too 😭😭

  • @melky01
    @melky01 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No words to describe how much this raw, unfiltered video of your miscarriage story meant. My miscarriage was profoundly traumatic and at a time when I was feeling so lost and not whole anymore your representation of the process made me feel seen and validated. Every miscarriage is unique but knowing others have a story to tell as well is reassuring. we will get through this.

  • @sarahknechtel1549
    @sarahknechtel1549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are both so brave for sharing such a heartbreaking loss and such heavy emotions. My heart aches for you both and sonny. Thank you for being so vulnerable to share your story. I am so sorry you lost your baby.

  • @emv188
    @emv188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much for being vulnerable with all of us out on the internet. It helps so many people to know they’re not alone. Sending you lots of love x

  • @annekahn395
    @annekahn395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So sorry that you had to go through this :( after My son, I had two miscarriages and then got pregnant immediately after the second, and now I am almost 7 months pregnant with a little girl, and now I appreciate it so much more than the first time around❤️
    It is so damn hard, but you guys are such a great team❤️

    • @victoria.galvin
      @victoria.galvin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations ♥️ I hope everything goes well for you!

  • @shannonbush5817
    @shannonbush5817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whitney and Tim I hope you guys are doing ok ❤️ I admire your guys communication skills SO MUCH, I can tell you both work really hard at doing that for each other. Honestly it’s so healing to watch if that makes sense xx

  • @mollypro22
    @mollypro22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved with Sonny said " I'm a woman" and Whit said "you can be anything you want to be" Warmed my heart

  • @Lozza2301
    @Lozza2301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    OG watcher, first time commenter! Seeing you guys go through this has been like watching people i know go through it and im sending nothing but good vibes your way.

  • @Calebbb98837
    @Calebbb98837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Where do I get a Tim in my life? Genuinely curious. Just found you guys and your relationship is goals.

  • @kristymurphy9046
    @kristymurphy9046 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing. I had a miscarriage years ago and it was absolutely devastating. But I now have two kids, 3 and a 1 year old. While the miscarriage was hard on us, I think of that little baby in the arms of my mom (who passed away when I was young) and I know she’s smiling, telling me it’s okay. They’re both in the other side in joy and peace. For me, that brings me comfort. May you and your family be comforted too.

  • @wl_pma
    @wl_pma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whitney. I am so sorry you went through that. This year I too had a miscarriage at almost 6 weeks. It broke me and I am still healing. They thought I needed a D&C and wound up not having to. I feel your pain and all my love to you & Tim. 🙏❤

  • @Jewelznme
    @Jewelznme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I Timmy isn’t perfect but seems like he always knows what to say and do. You get five ⭐️’s Timmy. - “ Loving deeply is part of life even though it makes you vulnerable”

  • @erikaharrar4728
    @erikaharrar4728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    these videos are my favorite content you guys have ever put out. it is so so vulnerable and incredible what you guys are doing. thank you xx

  • @heyjay8384
    @heyjay8384 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I had 3 back to back miscarriages then had my son a year later unexpectedly. It's a hard time mama and know you aren't alone and cry if you need to 💕💙💕

  • @xomandix3
    @xomandix3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing your story. It’s not easy being vulnerable and talking about loss. My 1st pregnancy was lost due to a chromosomal abnormality (the baby lived until 22 wks) and over a year later it still has a huge impact on me.
    On a positive note, I am due in 3 weeks with a healthy baby girl. Hearing others experiences really helped me cope. Sending you love & positivity ❤️

  • @hollystewart4859
    @hollystewart4859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Can we talk about how freaking amazing Whitney's skin looks?!! I'm just sitting here hoping to manifest that kind of beauty into my life.

  • @Camillewm
    @Camillewm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You two are amazing in every way. I love watching your relationship 💕

  • @nicoled8671
    @nicoled8671 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve gone back and forth on leaving a comment because what do you say to two people that you don’t know at all, but who you feel like you know because they’ve let you into their lives? My husband and I experienced infertility for over 3 years- with multiple failed IUIs and failed IVF attempts. Losing a child that you never got to hold or see is a unique kind of grief. I am so sorry to you both for experiencing this again. I’m not sure if this is the right place to say this but watching your videos over the last 10 months has been a source of happy for me- the dynamic you two have is incredible, your laughter is contagious! Thank you for sharing your lives❤️

  • @Kenasba
    @Kenasba 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mama died January 1, 2022 and February I found out I was pregnant with my 1st. I work in OBGYN so I know all the statistics. I lost my baby girl at 10 weeks. I just couldn't believe that I would lose my mother and baby back to back. But what really surprised me was knowing that this happens to 1 in 4 but I only know of one other friend. Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability and letting others like me know that we are not alone.

  • @TheOzzyLover
    @TheOzzyLover 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    All the feels! Please more vlogs! I need Whits heart in my life!!!

  • @Nikita-cx6sd
    @Nikita-cx6sd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It’s kinda funny how I can see aspects of Timmys personality in Sonny already 🤣

  • @emilyharris2682
    @emilyharris2682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    sending both you and timmy all the love and hugs. you guys are some of the only “celebrity” personalities i follow and it’s because you are so genuine and authentic. thank you for sharing your story. we all cried right along with you and will be here to support you as well.

  • @J-B-P
    @J-B-P 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aw guys... I’m so sorry. I feel as though I’ve become so attached to you through watching all of your videos these past few months, and so my heart just went out to you when I saw this. I hope you are hanging in there. ♥️

  • @stephanieaikens9622
    @stephanieaikens9622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ugh Whitney, I don’t know you personally, but I just wanted to extend my sincere love and compassion to you. I have had seven miscarriages between my 2nd and 3rd child. 3 D&C’s, one fetal demise(20 weeks). If you EVER need to talk/message someone who knows what you’re going through, just know you can reach out to me. Again, my sincere and heartfelt thoughts to you and Timmy.

  • @sophh1585
    @sophh1585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So heartbreaking for you both xx
    On another note your partnership is so wonderful and you will get through this together. Hugs xx

  • @Yourethebossapplesauce
    @Yourethebossapplesauce 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so sorry. While I was going through my miscarriage I watched your videos of your first miscarriage and it really helped me and got me through. There will be a light at the end of the tunnel for both of us x

  • @jenmiller2208
    @jenmiller2208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whitney had incredible courage to go into the D&C by herself with such a brave face. Pandemics are so hard on the health care community and people needing health care services. I had a D&E and NEEDED my husband there, as we were both heartbroken over the loss. I can’t imagine being made to do that alone. Whit, you’re brave and a strong woman. Timmy, you’re a good hubby and a kind man. God (or whom ever) bless you both.

  • @carolinearmijo9
    @carolinearmijo9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I too wear “Full Butt Underwear” at night 😂😂😂

    • @kelleyryanvlogs
      @kelleyryanvlogs 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao who doesn’t?! Crazy people?!

  • @beckimeinhold
    @beckimeinhold 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love these videos so much, you two are so precious. Thank you for sharing with us!

  • @shannonlivergood6515
    @shannonlivergood6515 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whitney, I have watched you since I was a teenager and just love you and your little family! I have never commented on a TH-cam video but compelled to comment on this one. I have also lost my dad and have had two miscarriages myself. It feels very lonely when you’re going through it and you don’t realize actually how many other people have experienced it as well. I wanted to thank you for sharing your story with me and others. It always comforting to know you’re not alone. Sending you love and baby dust as you continue your journey❤️

  • @LiLGouda.
    @LiLGouda. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for being so open and vulnerable, you are helping so many ❤
    I'm 30 years old and I just now found out my mom suffered through 3 miscarriages when she raised me and my sister.. I feel like prior generations before we're not open at all about this, that left my mom isolated and she felt as something was "wrong" with her body. The more we bring this to light the better we know how to navigate and allow the healing process to flourish. ❤ much love ans respect for sharing

  • @TheChelseaanicolee
    @TheChelseaanicolee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loooove this series!!! You should really consider vlogging more :)

  • @gracemay3651
    @gracemay3651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "Over the pants BJs" quality entertainment. Sending lots of love to you guys!

    • @kitty1215
      @kitty1215 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What does this mean?

  • @TaylorWilkz
    @TaylorWilkz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a very beautiful series. Seeing how people act under pressure and pain shows their true hearts. You guys present as being transparent, vulnerable, and willing to find the lesson in the mess. I'm glad you guys took pause and shared this when yall were ready 💕 peace in the streets

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi TT

    • @TaylorWilkz
      @TaylorWilkz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Bethhhhhh~

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      m.th-cam.com/video/SH9MAhDvNjo/w-d-xo.html

  • @cws0227
    @cws0227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    From a fellow mom who's been there, thank you so much for sharing and being so vulnerable, Whitney. Even years after our own loss and having our rainbow baby, seeing your experience took me back to ours, but in a calm, reflective sort of way. We really are all so connected even when we're strangers. And Timmy, seeing how supportive and open you were reminded me of how my husband was during our experience. It makes all the difference to have that kind of love around you. Thank you both for this little collection of vlogs. Sending love from Toronto!

  • @JessBoulter
    @JessBoulter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sending you guys so much love. Also are Timmy’s counselling services available for everyone? Always giving out sound advice

  • @beckywiththegoodhair8687
    @beckywiththegoodhair8687 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you both for being so open and honest with us! Love you so much! Peace in the streets ✌🏻💕

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your name rocks. We were called the hair family.

    • @beckywiththegoodhair8687
      @beckywiththegoodhair8687 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bibiznatch Thank you so much ; that’s so cool too, the hair family. Love that! 💕

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeh. A hair dresser actually yanked a hair out of my head one time and said, "look how thick this is."

    • @Bibiznatch
      @Bibiznatch 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My hair looked like Sonny's in my twenties

    • @beckywiththegoodhair8687
      @beckywiththegoodhair8687 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Bibiznatch omg that’s horrible; I’m a hairstylist and that’s not okay..

  • @kandip1973
    @kandip1973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You three are a great example of healthy relationships. So sorry for your loss and wishing you the best of the best in 2021! xo

  • @Stacuh
    @Stacuh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Whitney I am so sorry for your loss. You are so blessed to have such a supportive husband to go through this with you.♥️

  • @stephaniemikesh9689
    @stephaniemikesh9689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This just breaks my heart 💔😭

  • @michellefg792
    @michellefg792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Clicked so fast! Loving this series! But you shamed my packing game..

  • @sisiASMR
    @sisiASMR 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “You can be whatever you wanna be” 🥰

  • @jenniferhughes203
    @jenniferhughes203 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing this, I’m in the middle of a miscarriage and this has been a comfort to watch. Sending lots of love

  • @taylorjuricic9992
    @taylorjuricic9992 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sending you and Timmy lots of love. Thank you for sharing your journey. Even if it can help one person it’s worth it. I’ve been following along all the lives and videos this past year as a #silentregular and it’s been such a fun escape.

  • @blackclouds909
    @blackclouds909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Okay, that inn looks effing sweet!

    • @timcollins5901
      @timcollins5901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is beautiful. It's in San Luis Obispo and for anyone assuming or wondering? It has nothing to do with "that" Madonna It was built by Alex Madonna a highly successful construction entrepreneur in the 1950's. I stayed there in a similar cabin as I recall? It was over 300 bucks but totally worth it!

  • @rainbow-or3qr
    @rainbow-or3qr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This also happened to me twice. I saw the heartbeats then it was gone and I had to have a d&c twice. I now have my 2 babies and feel I can close the door on it all and move on. Your outlook on everything is so amazing and true. Good luck for the future x

  • @gretchenmanresa4435
    @gretchenmanresa4435 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m very sorry for your pain. I know the feeling I had 3 miscarriages but I also have 2 beautiful kids. Don’t lose hope! These things just happens and we will never know why. Stay strong! 💗

  • @imakeyourcoffee
    @imakeyourcoffee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First one here :)

    • @Camillewm
      @Camillewm 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Second :)

  • @Hanavannin
    @Hanavannin 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing with us. So important to hear people talk about miscarriage and baby loss in an open way. I lost my 4 year old son almost 9 years ago and although the loss is different I can understand your pain. I'm so sorry for you both and wish you nothing but peace, love and happiness 💜

  • @__porter
    @__porter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That 'We will try again' ending in the description is brilliant and I hope you get what you so deserve.!

  • @meredithbush5460
    @meredithbush5460 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so incredibly moving. Although I am single and no children (just fur-babies) I cried with you, was moved by your words, and felt the love you have for each other just watching along - so so SO beautiful. Thank you both for sharing ...so much love

  • @brandichenoweth607
    @brandichenoweth607 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing Whitney and Tim. As someone has had a miscarriage too that I mostly faced alone, this made me feel less alone. There are so many emotions around miscarriage and society doesn’t make it any easier for us. Sending you guys love and healing.

  • @dashviper2345
    @dashviper2345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Was watching a vid where you ask Timmy 9 tough questions. Loss is always hard and even harder when its unexpected or unfair. I lost my father to suicide and I went years expecting the worst of everything. It took me a while with the help of Buddhism and a youtube channel that talked about positivity that brought me full circle. For everyone their journey is different because for me I approach every negative situation looking for positivity in it. My father's loss was not a positive one; however, he is no longer in pain and I have become a stronger person because of his passing. I have moments of depression and anxiety, but I know that each storm will pass. Humans are resilient and with our inner fire we can survive so much.

  • @shannonwildish3237
    @shannonwildish3237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Stay strong! My husband and I lost 3, but we didn’t give up! We now have 2 beautiful daughters. Sometimes, things just happen for a reason ❤️ keep trying and best of luck to your little family 🥰

  • @KtotheB1218
    @KtotheB1218 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    When whit waved at the hospital doors, I cried. Such a sweet gentle soul.

  • @suzettetorres607
    @suzettetorres607 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Timmy and Whit I just wanted to say I clicked like because of your courage to share a story that will touch so many and not because I like what you are going through. Not sure why I felt the need to say that. Prayers for you all.

  • @kimmycupreacts
    @kimmycupreacts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm so sorry for both of your loss. You're so strong to share your story!

  • @KitchenTableChatsENM
    @KitchenTableChatsENM 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Whit for sharing your loss with us. It’s so important for those in the public eye to show the realities of life that it seems the majority of women go through. It’s always so sad to me to hear about women dealing with their miscarriages and having to act like nothing happened because they were told to keep the pregnancy secret just in case it doesn’t take. We don’t tell people to keep the death of other loved ones secret!

  • @eka707
    @eka707 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was dumbfounded at the raw expression of honesty and vulnerability while watching this. Can't tell you both (Whit & Tim) what a gift you give to the world by sharing all parts of your story-- the good, the bad, and the ugly. Thank you so much for making the decision to let the world into the bubble of your life. To both of you: I am so sorry for your loss. I am keeping your family in my thoughts.

  • @ariannacoburn2148
    @ariannacoburn2148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My heart goes out to you Whitney. I had a miscarriage at 14 weeks in November and it still is hard for me to think/talk about. I had an ultrasound the day before and everything seemed fine and less than 7 hours later it happened. I will say that the amount of women I have talked to and met that have had miscarriages is insane. I am trying to talk about it a bit more to help myself heal. But sending you lots of baby dust for a healthy pregnancy soon!

  • @oliviasilarski7107
    @oliviasilarski7107 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Major ups to Timmy for being an empathetic and supportive partner. The way you’re handling this as a team-in recognizing and accepting each others feelings is something to be so proud of. As someone who hasn’t been pregnant or experienced a miscarriage, the prospect seems less “in-your-face” terrifying after watching this series (obviously everyone’s experience is different but you get the point).

  • @ragallylou
    @ragallylou 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think it's a really brave and a very good thing to share your story, everyone is so disconnected in a real way, especially these days and it's important to hear someone else's experiences if you've recently been through this or maybe one day might go through something like this and be able to find some form of comfort in hearing your words. Yours are the most powerful vlogs I've ever watched and exactly the sort that people need right now. Lots of love to you Whit, Timmy and Sonny x

  • @amytimson3422
    @amytimson3422 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whitney, this was so real. I feel like you were telling my story, and I haven’t been able to speak of my miscarriage. Love to you both, this too shall pass ❤️