20 Something Diaries | preparing to leave nyc, spotify layoffs, emotional week

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  • Hello friends,
    I've been really struggling with life these days. In this vlog, I talk a bit about the Spotify layoffs. As always, I'm always not sure how much I should/can share. However, over the past few months, I've been trying to be more transparent with you about both the ups and downs of my job and I hope to continue doing so. Hope you're keeping warm and taking care of yourself. Sending a big virtual hug your way 🤗
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  • @waggermama
    @waggermama 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I’m sorry you’re going through this, I hope seeing your family gives you some much needed comfort ❤

  • @tokikani
    @tokikani 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Julia what a tough time this is, sounds like there’s more going on in the background as well. Thank you for sharing both the ups and downs of your life, I hope you have a lovely and restorative time with your family!

  • @haleyfranker
    @haleyfranker 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I'm so sorry you've been dealing with the stress of layoffs and how it effects your friends and coworkers. Such a scary time, especially so close to the holidays. I hope you're able to take a breath and enjoy your vacation and family time, and not worry too much about work. ❤

  • @alanrutherford5724
    @alanrutherford5724 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your vlog, for your honesty and vulnerability. Your photography is beautiful, your filmed and printed thoughts are like an intimate conversation. It feels as if you pulling us closer so you can whisper in our ear, telling us your innermost hopes and aspirations, your fears and worries. And we all want only the best for you.

  • @judys7207
    @judys7207 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry you’re going through tough times at the moment. It’s good you’ll be spending time with family. Being around them is so important. Have a wonderful time with family and try not to worry. You are a young and talented person, you’ll bounce back from anything.

  • @chioma6332
    @chioma6332 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I just love your content so much! It’s so relatable and a breath of fresh air especially when I feel like I’m going through a similar feeling or situation. Your trip couldn’t be more perfect in timing with all that’s going on on your side. Enjoy! And can’t wait for the China content!✨

  • @kaskahea1274
    @kaskahea1274 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep healthy and strong Julia. Glad you’ll be spending the holidays away from work & NYC environment. 🤍 🙏🏽

  • @haruvlogs_
    @haruvlogs_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Hope you’re doing better it must have been tough going through everything🙌

  • @carolinehenson5505
    @carolinehenson5505 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hi julia, i’m so sorry that you’re going through a tough time at work. so glad to hear that you weren’t laid off. i hope that you get to spend some wonderful time with family 💛💛💛💛 sending you hugs

  • @hkcharmer
    @hkcharmer 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sending good vibes your way! Really glad you decided to post the vlog anyways though it wasn’t as “content creator happy and exciting,” there are also lows in life that folks often forget.

  • @umgirassol
    @umgirassol 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm sorry for the difficult time you're going through, Júlia. I hope everything gets better, it's just a phase, believe it. Enjoy your family and get strong with them. A virtual hug for you too S2

  • @TheMisschrisaz
    @TheMisschrisaz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was worried for you when the news came out about the layoffs. I’m so happy to hear your job was not affected. I’m looking forward to your China vlogs 🙂 I’m sorry you’re going through some sadness and struggles right now so hopefully this trip will help just what you need. 🥰

  • @bday3406
    @bday3406 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Take care of yourself! Bad days/hard feelings are bound to occur. That's what being human is all about! Your videos are very authentic 😊 thanks for sharing your life. And i sooo enjoy your videos. ❤ thanks J!

  • @JSH1994
    @JSH1994 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love your vlogs! :) I feel like a have a friend in the city that I have never met in person. I live in the East Village area and I always see places that I walk by in your vlogs. My family also lives abroad so I can relate to your feelings. Have a good time with your family!!!

  • @user-fb6nq1me2v
    @user-fb6nq1me2v 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very sad and troubling but your emotions are real and the situation out of your control. One step at a time, you can only work with what’s at hand and for now that is being with your family, their love and support will get you through and bring balance. Your TH-cam community and dear friends will be rooting for you, praying for you. You are a young, talented and resourceful young lady…the best is yet to come. Blessings & safe travels. Enjoy your time off. Sending a truckload of hugs your way 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @TwoOnlyChildrenxoxox
    @TwoOnlyChildrenxoxox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Not you saying “like sardines” as I was eating sardines on toast.
    I’m so sorry the layoffs were so stressful. I can only imagine. You are brilliant at your job.
    Spotify is literally what saves me. It’s the only bill I pay every month where I think, “Yep. With every penny.” I joined in 2010, and my listening time was 48,609 minutes in 2023 (more now since the wrap-up). Seems low. ♥️ All day every day, in the car/at home/at work.

  • @ievadaugelaite6734
    @ievadaugelaite6734 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending love and support, Julia. ❤️ every difficulty is for us to grow stronger.

  • @joyfullencounters
    @joyfullencounters 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hope you have a restful holiday! Layoffs are tough i hope you feel better ❤️

  • @pacianegumbi9771
    @pacianegumbi9771 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Thank you for sharing such a vulnerable moment in your life. I can't imagine it being easy. Good thing you will be able to spend some time with family for a bit. Keep well🌻

  • @AbigailSmith
    @AbigailSmith 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    me and my friends looove pranakhon!! and soothr! hope your time at home is refreshing and you're able to fully soak in all the moments with your fam

  • @koysdo
    @koysdo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sending much love and strength Julia!

  • @thereversepolarbear
    @thereversepolarbear 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Have a wonderful time Julia - I think your approach to work is very healthy. Its so important to have second income streams and outside interests, and keeping sort of a distance from work. You going to Asia for a month is a perfect example.

  • @rmoorefla
    @rmoorefla 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Perfect timing for travel and to reconnect with family in China. Although you're still quite mysterious regarding your boyfriend, hopefully he's making the journey with you. So looking forward to the travel content. Merry Christmas and all the best for 2024!

  • @letianyu798
    @letianyu798 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing all these. Hope things get better soon & enjoy your time with family :)

  • @hilsbeasley539
    @hilsbeasley539 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Have a lovely time with your family, and hopefully you'll soon begin to relax. xx

  • @HeatherBellez
    @HeatherBellez 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    The layoffs are so scary to hear about because I am a tech student trying to just get my foot internet eh door. I did apply for a few jobs at Spotify and was pushed through referral but I am not holding my breath on that now :(

    • @wilsonjevin
      @wilsonjevin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. I’m worried about layoffs and longevity with how advanced AI has been getting.

  • @Tassie85
    @Tassie85 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have had days, weeks, months like this and it is very hard to keep going. I am sure a month in Asia with your family will be recuperative and, hopefully, fun. Happy Holidays from Toronto!

  • @sunshinemindset8497
    @sunshinemindset8497 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sending you lots of love, Julia ❤

  • @Phantomstories1831
    @Phantomstories1831 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Safe travels im so glad u still got ur job hang in there

  • @barbaraheckkonig5809
    @barbaraheckkonig5809 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sending love to you and your family!

  • @mariacelikoz5023
    @mariacelikoz5023 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good insights into the current situation. Have a great trip.

  • @janetruong9284
    @janetruong9284 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amongst all the chaos and turmoil i hope you know that red dress was a slay

  • @jennifergraham9679
    @jennifergraham9679 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Enjoy your trip and enjoy your family time.

  • @warmbreeze43
    @warmbreeze43 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can’t wait for China vlogs. Be safe and Merry Christmas

  • @amyfaurote1488
    @amyfaurote1488 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hard. Hang in there 💪 peace 🕊️

  • @theresacolosimo3523
    @theresacolosimo3523 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have a wonderful and safe trip. Happy holidays to you and your family. So sorry for all of the work trauma, it is difficult to see friends leaving the workplace where we all spend so much of our lives.

  • @sophial.4488
    @sophial.4488 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where did you get the second silky dress? I love that one!

  • @lt5466
    @lt5466 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i can’t wait for your China vlogs

  • @richardottley4611
    @richardottley4611 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sorry for all of this sad news.. it really is sad to be laid off around this time of the year.. 😔😔

  • @naturalliving2011
    @naturalliving2011 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I know the feeling.

  • @kathyabdo5837
    @kathyabdo5837 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Did you name the Thai place that you love? I missed it.

  • @jennacalandramusic
    @jennacalandramusic 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i was laid off from a marketing agency that was a brand new startup. i was their marketing manager for only a week and a half and i kept thinking i did something wrong. they were just on a budget and they were trying to keep a goal of budgets for paychecks for every employee. they couldn’t afford to pay newer employees which is the most kind of ridiculous thing i’ve heard. i understand their business and policies, but i was laid off and i had to find another marketing agency job for marketing management.

  • @Avigailish
    @Avigailish 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💙

  • @liliansmeenge3297
    @liliansmeenge3297 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Julia, I’ve followed you for quite some while now and I notice you quite often have hard/stressful times with your job. I know the career and money are cool but is it really worth it? Does it make you happy? There are jobs that give much more peace and less stress… just what I think to notice through the screen…
    Enjoy your holiday!

  • @boaxiong9162
    @boaxiong9162 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who does your opening edit?

  • @richardottley4611
    @richardottley4611 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    However, I'm hopeful that life will get better for you 😊🙏

  • @sabrinahe9050
    @sabrinahe9050 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sending support and hug

  • @bebeerin
    @bebeerin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +261

    really clickbait-y titling since you weren't actually one of the ones that got laid off at spotify and aren't leaving nyc permanently just for a vacation. not a cool first introduction to new viewers that you tried to reach like me. when you click on a video based on the title, you don't expect to be totally misled. not a good way to get new viewers to stick around. you should've left out the "preparing to leave nyc" or wrote that differently. you knew what you were doing

    • @jassyyy_56
      @jassyyy_56 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      does not getting laid off mean you can’t talk about it? also if you care to watch her other videos she does a lot of cleaning around the house so essentially she is prepping her place to leave. there are so many other TH-camrs who use even more click baity titles. if you don’t like her video you don’t have to watch it

    • @bebeerin
      @bebeerin 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@jassyyy_56 don't be dense. i said what i said and clearly others agree which is why 20+ people liked my comment

    • @jassyyy_56
      @jassyyy_56 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      ⁠@@bebeerinwhy are you so mad lmfao congrats on your 20 likes 😂 I hope criticizing her during a hard time in her life made you feel better!

    • @jassyyy_56
      @jassyyy_56 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@bebeerinsorry, 20+ likes

    • @rahimah2309
      @rahimah2309 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      She is preparing to leave nyc? Facts. And she didnt say she was laid off by spotify? The title clearly states spotify layoffs, which is exactly what happened. The title is not “LAID OFF BY SPOTIFY”

  • @suzyq3746
    @suzyq3746 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just found her and subscribed. You said what made you feel righteous and now just move on and leave her channel. Not hard duh

  • @nickyfinn7909
    @nickyfinn7909 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Did you say 70% or 17%?

    • @ungravity9344
      @ungravity9344 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      according to the news on the internet, they said 17%

    • @NaturallyTeeCee
      @NaturallyTeeCee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She said 17%

    • @nickyfinn7909
      @nickyfinn7909 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ungravity9344 thank you! 70 sounded crazy.

  • @pinkhope84
    @pinkhope84 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sorry i did not understand, what happend at work? Poeple got fired? Or choose to leave?

    • @Turtle22124
      @Turtle22124 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      they had another round of layoffs at her company. She is still working but had to say goodbye to some of her friends and coworkers

  • @maddscientist3170
    @maddscientist3170 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    wow 17%.......problem is unfortunately...more layoffs coming in MORE companies...especially NYC...big changes in 2024..Bon Voyage

  • @haruvlogs_
    @haruvlogs_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First WOOO

    • @haruvlogs_
      @haruvlogs_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly don’t know why I commented this HAHAHA

  • @lilsheba1
    @lilsheba1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ok being let go is NOT the same as being laid off, it's two separate things. On that note I am amazed spotify lays off anyone, they are making so much money and we already know they don't pay hardly anything to the artists for streaming. This is nuts.

    • @jdp486
      @jdp486 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They're the same.

    • @digupherbon3s
      @digupherbon3s 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s the same

    • @newgwala
      @newgwala 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      i think u mean being fired is not the same as being laid off

    • @lilsheba1
      @lilsheba1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@newgwala Being let go equals being fired does NOT equal being laid off, that's how that works.

    • @lilsheba1
      @lilsheba1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@digupherbon3s Being let go equals being fired does NOT equal being laid off, that's how that works.

  • @nopenopenopenopenopers
    @nopenopenopenopenopers 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You didn't get laid off. You need to keep perspective here.

  • @lche165
    @lche165 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hey, this title was clickbait-y. Generally like your content, but dont appreciate this title.