Excellent video ❤ Been there, done that for sure. I'm delighted to say I've been out of a 27 narcissistic marriage for almost 8 years now. I'm still repairing myself in certain areas. Loving you is thee most powerful and important love there is. Thank you for sharing this in such a straightforward way for everyone, no matter what stage anyone is in. I'm also a shaman and am sharing this with my clients. Thank you dear brother! ❤❤❤ From Ontario 🫂
Wow, literally speaking about my experience. I never would have thought I would fall for someone like that, yet it happened. Shed that relationship about 2 years ago, and I'm still trying to get myself back.
I spent all of my life trying to figure out this dynamic. I started reading textbooks at the age of 8 on psychology. What I found is ultimately it's the dynamic of the patriarch vs the matriarch or mothering vs fathering which doesn't mean male or female just the ideology or belief systems since within our self we have both principles. I found in life all family systems to be that same largely driven by war or aggression vs nurturing (passive). I had from 2 parents 5 uncle's in Vietnam war (drafted) which created MANY problems with this dynamic as well as it did with others from different families. Another common theme is pure religious or spiritual (mothering) beliefs. I've processed many past lives as a female it's the same thing over and over...a man rises convinces others it's in their best interest to engage in aggression and aggression must be taught to children to continue the multi generational system for the good of a few and the suffering of the MANY. Most of the women I've known are either gone or had to run from it ? It's a time of reestablishing the system again or changing it which is why people are going through these changes as they make a choice on which way humanity will go.
So true..all of this ....if nothing is acceptable then you go on with your life in a distorted manner, and you keep following down that line of energy. When one is narcissistic they keep pressuring you to go their way or you are shamed or made to feel flawed, your way is never okay and they remind you over and over and over. So much wisdom, more people should be listening.
Grew up with that crap as the family scapegoat and had those romantic relationships. Learned the hard way, but I did learn and went no contact with the lot of them. It's hard to do but necessary for healing, imo. You've done a great breakdown of the dynamics involved. This will help others understand what's happening and how to heal and become free of this narcissistic and/or toxic dynamic. Very needed.
My late parents ridiculed me and questioned my choices. Sometimes insulting me, belittling me. I wasn't able to bring my friends home in case they embarrassed me in front of them.
I can sympathize with this as the same happened to me, mom got out the bible and lectured everyone, and the town I lived in was 90% jewish...imagine that, embarrassing is an understatement
This is brilliant 👏 Your explanation is perfectly precise! 👌 I am a spiritual teacher/healer which I too have been educating my clients on the narcassistic people in their life to which most are reclaiming their power back. Healing from being a victom of narcassistic abuse can be long and challenging BUT it is possible 🙌 I survived a narcassistic marriage by seeing a spiritual psychotherapist which helped me heal emmensly ❤
Wow this is where I am at the moment and been here for 15 years … I feel stuck because of children… I don’t want to hurt him so I suffer myself… I have nowhere to go I can’t afford to go to provide for my kids as I would like to so I’m still here … I hope one day it will change and I will find a way which will allow me to choose and follow what my soul is screaming for … hopefully soon 🙏🏻
I have been there, done that. Empaths take care, please
Excellent video ❤ Been there, done that for sure. I'm delighted to say I've been out of a 27 narcissistic marriage for almost 8 years now. I'm still repairing myself in certain areas. Loving you is thee most powerful and important love there is. Thank you for sharing this in such a straightforward way for everyone, no matter what stage anyone is in.
I'm also a shaman and am sharing this with my clients.
Thank you dear brother! ❤❤❤
From Ontario 🫂
Wow, literally speaking about my experience. I never would have thought I would fall for someone like that, yet it happened. Shed that relationship about 2 years ago, and I'm still trying to get myself back.
I spent all of my life trying to figure out this dynamic. I started reading textbooks at the age of 8 on psychology. What I found is ultimately it's the dynamic of the patriarch vs the matriarch or mothering vs fathering which doesn't mean male or female just the ideology or belief systems since within our self we have both principles. I found in life all family systems to be that same largely driven by war or aggression vs nurturing (passive). I had from 2 parents 5 uncle's in Vietnam war (drafted) which created MANY problems with this dynamic as well as it did with others from different families. Another common theme is pure religious or spiritual (mothering) beliefs. I've processed many past lives as a female it's the same thing over and over...a man rises convinces others it's in their best interest to engage in aggression and aggression must be taught to children to continue the multi generational system for the good of a few and the suffering of the MANY. Most of the women I've known are either gone or had to run from it ? It's a time of reestablishing the system again or changing it which is why people are going through these changes as they make a choice on which way humanity will go.
Thank You from heart 🤍🖤☯️✨💞🌍🌱🫂🙏
So true..all of this ....if nothing is acceptable then you go on with your life in a distorted manner, and you keep following down that line of energy. When one is narcissistic they keep pressuring you to go their way or you are shamed or made to feel flawed, your way is never okay and they remind you over and over and over. So much wisdom, more people should be listening.
Grew up with that crap as the family scapegoat and had those romantic relationships. Learned the hard way, but I did learn and went no contact with the lot of them. It's hard to do but necessary for healing, imo.
You've done a great breakdown of the dynamics involved. This will help others understand what's happening and how to heal and become free of this narcissistic and/or toxic dynamic. Very needed.
My late parents ridiculed me and questioned my choices. Sometimes insulting me, belittling me.
I wasn't able to bring my friends home in case they embarrassed me in front of them.
I can sympathize with this as the same happened to me, mom got out the bible and lectured everyone, and the town I lived in was 90% jewish...imagine that, embarrassing is an understatement
This is brilliant 👏 Your explanation is perfectly precise! 👌 I am a spiritual teacher/healer which I too have been educating my clients on the narcassistic people in their life to which most are reclaiming their power back. Healing from being a victom of narcassistic abuse can be long and challenging BUT it is possible 🙌 I survived a narcassistic marriage by seeing a spiritual psychotherapist which helped me heal emmensly ❤
Wow this is where I am at the moment and been here for 15 years … I feel stuck because of children… I don’t want to hurt him so I suffer myself… I have nowhere to go I can’t afford to go to provide for my kids as I would like to so I’m still here … I hope one day it will change and I will find a way which will allow me to choose and follow what my soul is screaming for … hopefully soon 🙏🏻
I hear you. Find help. You are worth it... Lisa Romano course showned me why I got in mess. Crawling out.