I’ve been sitting on a podcast series for over a year now, paralysed in inertia about publishing it for fear that it isn’t of the production quality and content standard I listen to. This conversation has nudged me over the line to push it out in the world. Thank you!
This may have given me a huge lightbulb breakthrough and question! Thomas was speaking about how it all comes down to love, to feeling loved and seen! I’ve been in my relationship for 16 years and we are not married. I still desire to be married! This past weekend we were at his daughters engagement party. It caused me so much pain to be introduced as The Girlfriend. 16 years and I feel like that label reduces my role in every aspect, I felt insignificant so deeply. Oh she’s just the girlfriend. And I’ve been such a huge supporter and pained a huge role in her life. But I felt so deeply less than, not a part of the family. So, is this me putting too much emphasis on what others think, allowing myself to feel I don’t matter(enough)? Is it all my own story and old stories? Or am I valid for this perspective? Obviously I feel this way in our relationship in other instances and this one was huge for me!
❤embrace imperfection-a belief in Islam since humans aren’t perfect only god is and I didn’t know it’s a Japanese belief too-interesting thanks 🙏 bro 😎 and embrace imperfection is now my favorite mantra for life ❤very good podcast ❤
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I’ve been sitting on a podcast series for over a year now, paralysed in inertia about publishing it for fear that it isn’t of the production quality and content standard I listen to. This conversation has nudged me over the line to push it out in the world. Thank you!
Wonderful and valuable ideas! Thank you!
I personally needed to hear this video, cheers for putting this together!
This may have given me a huge lightbulb breakthrough and question!
Thomas was speaking about how it all comes down to love, to feeling loved and seen! I’ve been in my relationship for 16 years and we are not married. I still desire to be married! This past weekend we were at his daughters engagement party. It caused me so much pain to be introduced as The Girlfriend. 16 years and I feel like that label reduces my role in every aspect, I felt insignificant so deeply. Oh she’s just the girlfriend. And I’ve been such a huge supporter and pained a huge role in her life. But I felt so deeply less than, not a part of the family. So, is this me putting too much emphasis on what others think, allowing myself to feel I don’t matter(enough)? Is it all my own story and old stories? Or am I valid for this perspective? Obviously I feel this way in our relationship in other instances and this one was huge for me!
Great conversation - thank you for the insight.
❤embrace imperfection-a belief in Islam since humans aren’t perfect only god is and I didn’t know it’s a Japanese belief too-interesting thanks 🙏 bro 😎 and embrace imperfection is now my favorite mantra for life ❤very good podcast ❤
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