RISE of the TRADWIFE: Gen Z is BRINGING BACK Gender Roles, FALSE PROMISE Of Feminism?
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- Research associate at The Heritage Foundation Emma Waters weighs in on the 'girl boss' vs. 'trad wife' on social media. #girlboss #women #feminism
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How does a woman wanting to be a housewife, get conflated to "returning to the 1950's"
I guess the alternative is to work a full time career and then work every waking hour you aren’t at your job taking care of your children. That model is not sustainable for anyone that’s a life of slavery imo
Raising a family is probably THE most important job in all of humanity.
Because feminists have an absolute hatred of the nuclear family and always have. The 1950s is their version of the holocaust.
Because there are people in positions of power that want to destroy the nuclear family so they can destroy Western Civilization. This was all talked about many many decades ago. It was all planned.
Because that era conservative romanticize the most, the good old days….
I've had a trad wife for 20 yrs. I'm blue collar. We built our lives together. She runs the inside of the house. I work and take care of the outside. She's been my support as I worked on bringing home the bacon. Her time with the kids helped them be on honor role and deans list at their schools. Worth every struggle.
It's a proven formula for success. No need to fix a functional system. But some want to fix things until they're broken.
@@alexbarnett8541It's not broken if you get to go outside, meet new people, have adventures, have your own money, make decisions, enjoy life. Now, when all you are in life is "the mom", you may start seeing problems that the "the dad" doesn't see. Try putting yourself in other people's shoes every now and then.
Building together...what a foreign concept. No wonder we have to import immigrants.
@@ZombieTomatoI’ve yet to meet a couple where the husband demands his wife not go outside and have friends….
My wife is also a homemaker. She has a great relationship with our kids and helps me to focus both on my job and on my family. Because she’s the biggest influence to our kids, she is also a very positive reminder for me to spend time with the kids. That’s the thing feminists will never understand; it’s about the family and both spouses make sacrifices for the family unit. My wife likes being a homemaker, but she doesn’t want to do certain chores around the house. I definitely wouldn’t hold down a full time job if I didn’t have to. My wife went on a 6 week trip with one of our kids and I had to work and be fully engaged in my other several children’s lives. It was the best time of my life.
You are living the dream!
They make it sound like homemaking and child rearing isn’t “meaningful”
Women have done that for centuries..they weren't valued,but were exploited,abused,used and dumped ,replaced easily...
Women will only be respected,will have a say in the house only of she brings in money, otherwise will have to be dependent and tolerate some abuser forever
Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
Being a stay at home cat mom doesn't count.
thatw what they are brainwashed into, that is the agenda, thats why society is collapsing and thats why there are 80% divorce rate
Only if the child turns out great anything less doesn't count.
I’m all for women wanting to be traditional wives as long as it’s something they truly desire and they’re not playing the part for clout. Being a housewife/mother is a lot of hard work that requires a tremendous amount of patience and sacrifice.
Here we go again modernity at work. Not re-directing your goals for the good of the family and your children but only if you "truly desire" it will you consider it. "Oh geez it takes patience"🤦♂ The modern woman is spoiled beyond repair
@@michaelbarbarossa7438 nobody asked ur dumb opinion
@@michaelbarbarossa7438let the undefeated wall teach them all a lesson 😂
Any job you can do in your pajamas isn't that hard. Trying working construction. Then tell me what hard work is.
You think they are doing it for clout? No.... Maybe partly, but the most major reason is they are lazy and just want a soft easy life
I was a hardcore entrepreneur for 7 years before I had kids. I WAS the feminist gold standard. I always felt like “aren’t I supposed to be fulfilled now? Maybe when my company get a little bigger” I felt like I worked hard and my lifestyle looked super cool. Fast forward to today Im a “Domestic Executive” I stay at home and run the house, my kids are well fed, well loved and great humans, my husband is the most inspired and in the best shape he has ever been and so am I. I get like zero sleep and am often covered in food from sticky hands but I feel a deep sense of accomplishment and worthy-ness I never had before, I feel like an adult. Its funny to say it like that. I’m so glad I made the sacrifice to SAHM, we lost ⅓ of our income but we gained 10x the wealth of having a healthy happy family.
Get zero sleep?
How sad for you Sounds like a miserable existence
Sounds like drudgery.
These women here mocking you are just bitter jealous cat-moms😂
@@alisonschmitt9533you look like drudgery...is that mugshot?😂
I'm a 36 year old stay at home mom with a 4 year old. I'm not going to call it "trad-wife" like it's some unnatural, passing trend. I thank The Lord that I'm able to wake up, make a healthy breakfast and lunch for my child, walk him to school and back home again and be able to immediately be with him after being apart for 6 hours. You'll never regret on your death bed, oh I wish I "worked" more. Before having a child I was a front line worker for an alzheimer drop in center. Being a stay at home mom is the hardest and most rewarding job. You are part of creating a new society, a new generation. Your role is an invaluable one. You're like a new generational trainer. If you are able, do it- you won't regret it.
It's true. I'd anything I battled my desire for being at home vs having to go to work. And felt guilty either way. My husband was my saving grace. He ensured me that we would be fine and to stop worrying and to go ahead and stay home and work on any side projects I wanted to do.
Very True! Many Men Are Getting Passports for Foreign Wives.
Interesting there is never really a comment as to what men prefer.... yet men are expected to cope with the consequences either way.
How were you guys able to adjust financially? How did you make this work? Any advice?
You will never regret it. Your kids will be glad one day. I stayed home to raise my kids. When they got older I worked in a daycare and my son ended up working there with me when he was 16. The very first day he came to me after work and said..."thank you for not putting me in daycare"
My wife is educated and has a great degree, she is a stay at home wife and homeschooling our 3 girls. I work in the industry as a trade welder, i work a load of hours every week and not home all the time. I tell her anytime she wants to go back to work im all on board with it. She instantly says, being a homeschooling stay at home mom cant have a price on it and she loves her decisions and i see it through our kids. She is brave because no way i could do it.
You're an amazing husband and your wife is an amazing woman! 💕
HORRAY FOR YOU MOM!!!!! I agree 1000%! If we don't teach them the world WILL and we see how thats working.....ITS NOT!!!!!
W for this man and his family !!!👏👏👏
I was so glad to see this. When I was raising my son who is now 30 and I didn't work, oh the looks other women would give me. The complete look of I was lazy, I was a loser, it was like you had to explain why you didn't want your child in daycare 50 hours a week. I realized then at some point that you can't tax a housewife. I still believe that whole push was to get more tax dollars out of the individual. Being a mom, wife, and taking care of the home is a full time job and it was so worth it. I have had a career now in high end travel for 12 years but I don't regret the years at home at all.
You are right, taking the wife out of the home was for two purposes 1. for more taxes and 2. to break up the nuclear family.
Children need their Mother at home full time. I used to think the exact opposite.
Why does it have to be their mother? Why not father? Full time is a massive sacrifice so it’s very acceptable to get some time out via part time work or voluntary community work or social life etc. Having no outlet being cooked up isn’t good
@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij Women were designed to be the caretakers. Is there any other animal on earth where the mother gives her offspring to the father? No one said a mom has to be locked up like Rapunzel.
@@FrankskinOrweed-ep4ij Is the answer to your own question not obvious to you, after perhaps even 10 minutes of reflection?
And is it really a "sacrifice" to raise one's own children? What exactly are you 'sacrificing' in exchange for the 'privalege(?)-what some would call a 'duty'- of nurturing your familiy's replacements?
**serious questions
@@leroyj3627 Oh I liked OP’s comment but Patricia’s specified it’s the mother who MUST stay home, so my question is does it really matter so long as strangers aren’t raising their kids&one parent is at home?
I think it’s fantastic and wonderful to be a parent and enjoy this. Many people get immense joy from it, but others don’t do well not having an outlet as I said even few hours community work while kids at school.
By sacrifice, I guess I mean the wife& SAHM does give all her time and energy & perhaps puts her career goals aside etc or even just the freedom of being able to go out to dinner with friends etc, it’s tough if you’re glued to the kids! Yes it’s an important, beautiful &invaluable role to have, but so is fatherhood& they also work?! Jw is staying at home exclusive to the woman only?
Women were definitely taxed & break nuclear family agreed. In fact, they should pay SAHM wages as an incentive, I know Ann witicombe said this. But the elites won’t like this because it’ll supper healthy families.. disgusting.
As a man married to a stay at home mom, I find it ironically hilarious to hear 3 women talking about the tradwife movement without acknowledging that being a stay at home wife IS A JOB until the very end of the clip. It's a full time job taking care of a family.
It’s true. However, I remember in the 70’s ( yeah I’m that old) that stay at home moms were depicted as being parasites on men’s salaries!! So the stay at home mom was seen as being lazy and unproductive.😮or ignorant! “I’m just a housewife but I know value!” And so on. It became stigmatized. If someone asked what do you do? And all you could say was “ I’m just a stay at home mom” people’s faces would fall. “Ohhh…”. Then you are boring and ignorant.
It’s multiple part time jobs, that add up to way more than one full time job. It’s a lot of work, yes, but since they don’t draw a pay check for it, society doesn’t value it.
@@ohthankg-dforthebourgeoisi9800 yeah, people should just do what works for them and not listen to society arguing about what they should and shouldn't be doing. Especially when people's opinions can change so easily.
Obviously it makes more sense for mother to raise their own children.
This requires sacrifices, some cannot, some don't want to.
Job?
Why is it so bad that a woman wants to work in their household FOR THEIR FAMILY. Instead of work for someone that doesn't love them, overworks them and takes them away from their children.
Blows my mind 🤯
Because it is a delusion too.years a go what u are led to believe was reality it was a proper Ganda ploy to force women out of WW2 lcerative jobs . And originally the home was where money was made it's a ploy to still impoverish separate women from their money
This is spot on. I work a few days a week by choice, just 3, and there is no way I'd have rather put my babies with a sitter when they were growing up to deal with the workplace.
We have 1 child left at home and he homeschools 4 days a week. The other 3 days he spends following dad around (his off days) learning how to do all kinds of stuff. I get out of the house because I don't have enough to keep me busy at this stage and my son isn't with a sitter- majorly important to me.
Some of us don't trust a stranger with our kids, and rightfully so. Daycare centers have always scared me to death. I consider it a blessing from God to have never had to put my children in day care.
SAH mom's have higher rates of burn out since their jobs are 24/7 and not 9-5. They also pop more pills.
Here’s my experience. My first husband one day came home and told me he was not in love with me anymore and wanted a divorce. I had a part time job, but he was the one who did more money. I was homeless for several months. Financial independence is extremely important for a women just in case something goes wrong. I’m married again with a wonderful husband, and I only work on weekends, don’t love my job, but I want to make sure I’m not in a position where if something goes wrong I don’t have a backup plan. Stay home moms don’t get paid and you can’t add that to your resume. Also, the country economy is not like 1950’s one income can’t do much. Either side is not perfect. Finding a middle ground is important. I stay home during the week with the kids, my husband helps on the weekend while I’m at work.
Satan wants the family destroyed!
Feminists: *WE CHOOSE WHAT WE WANT TO DO*
TradWife: "I like to help my man and organize our home and family."
Feminists: *HEY....YOU CAN'T DO THAT*
That's not accurate. Feminism isn't against women choosing to stay home. It's against women being TRAPPED in abusive relationships where they must obey the master because they have no income.(And no job skills other than child care, cooking, and cleaning which are not highly valued in terms of pay.)
@@3namechangezalowdevry90day7 What OP said is very accurate.
@@Halfort57no its not.
@@3namechangezalowdevry90day7soooo working in a sometimes hostile corporate environment with a boss who tells you what to do is ok because….you’re at least paid for it ?
Many women have jobs that are awesome and they do very well, I’m not against women working, it’s the thought process of not wanting to be “bossed around” that I find interesting because if you work for someone then you will obviously have a boss who will tell you what to do and there is usually a very good chance that it will be a man. AND please know that I am not against a woman choosing to have a career, just something I find interesting
Feminism is a construct of the globalist family that is the Rockefellers, as they sought to destroy the American family unit. Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
As a single dad, who balanced a full time job and then doing traditional domestic duties that my mom had once done for me, I can understand a real sense of skill with what that entails. I would certainly rather be in charge of that, than as just some number in a mid level career. My time spent being the Mr. Mom to kids part time, turned out to be one of the most enriching things I could have done. Better yet is, my kids still talk about all I can do. There are more creative and elite level skills involved with being a domestic champion than most pro careers take. Hat's off to all the women who choose to do this, and to all the men who realize it's worth.
Yeah! Spending time with the babies will help in so many ways. The most rewarding feelings you can get
Good for you. I was the opposite, had to be both mom and dad when my husband decided to spend more time with his drinking pals than his children.
Why arent you telling more dads to be MR. MOMS, since it so great.
@@angellover02171 I was born and raised in the US Millitary in a family that has been one since 1942 when dad joined with a permission slip of his mother. As far as I am concerned, MY FATHER was more Mr Mom that the female called my mother. Fast forward to now, my son who was born and raised in the military and IS career military, same as my father, is raising his son. Neither one was told by anyone to raise their children. They just did. Good fathers simply raise their children with or without a woman.
I agree that there is nothing wrong with asking a man to stay at home and I agree that there is nothing wrong with telling a woman to stay at home. As long as we have the right to choose I dont think there should be a conversation about who should stay home
I am a trad wife and I made the conscious choice to come home after 15 years of a career. My marriage is much happier because we don't bicker over household chores, our home atmosphere is calmer because the laundry is clean and put away, dinner is made and the house is clean. Trad wives add a lot of value to the household.
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Yes maam. Men are expected to be good providers, good workers, emotionally intelligent, and demonstrating leadership in their families. Women always look for that value in men. Men deserve to find someone who will also bring value to the family. It is only fair.
Bingo! I'm blessed my gf/future wife also wants to be a trad wife/stay at home mom :)
Not an easy job to do well (especially for a full time Mom as well) but a very important and valuable one. Respect darlin’ ❤
Good 4 u😊 but that is my nightmare I hate all domestic duties.
The narrative writes itself.
Militant Feminists: "You're your own person; you can be whoever you want!"
Tradwife: "I'd like to stay home and raise me and my husband's children."
Feminists: “Nooooo you can’t choose that! You have to go get a worthless studies degree and go work as a cog in a corporate machine and commute and pay taxes and have strangers raise your kids!”
You beat me too it. Be well.@@JohnnyAmerique
@JohnnyAmerique
What are the prerequisites for Worthless Studies?
Gender Studies, and really any degree that puts you in a huge amount of debt that is super hard to pay off.
@@gpower9572 Seriously, with a gender studies degree, what else can you be other than a DIE stooge?
My wife of 21 years has never had a paying job! She chooses to stay at home, myself and the kids will be forever grateful to her for that
Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
To conflate staying home and raising your kids to wanting to go “back to the 50’s” is SO ridiculous! I’ve been a stay at home mom for 25 years. I worked when we first got married, then my husband started his own business and I HAD to work. However, the goal was always for me to stay home, run the household and for him to work outside the home. With a lot of hard work and sacrifice - on BOTH our parts - his business started to bring in money and I was an able to eventually stay home. I haven’t missed the “corporate life” for a minute. I was there for my children, at 27 & 23 were still extremely close and I couldn’t be happier.
Its not a dichotomy between tradlife and corporate
Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
Tell that to a feminist, she will immediatly bash you lecturing about you sustaining the patriarchy and some BS.
Exactly. Which is why these Trad-wive influencers romanticising the 1950s aren't representative of house-wives in the general population. These trad-wives are just grifters
@@argusy3866 Don't lie-
Sincerely, a feminist that wants to be a house-wife after marriage.
I’ve been a stay at home mom for 12 years. When my babies were born we had very little money but even then I instinctively knew the importance of those crucial bonding years. It’s the best decision I made even in the midst of major feminist peer pressure. I was looked down upon for years. I do see a trend amongst all my friends who now have toddlers. They are all trying to figure out a way to work less so they can be home more. The problem is they rely so heavily on their paycheck that they can’t see a way out. I get work a part time business while my kids are at school. I’m thankful my husband and I decided early on that this was the life we wanted to lead.
raising one's own children vs letting strangers raise them is infinitely the better choice
I support what you do. It is a shame the media takes online skits and videos seriously. This tradwife thing is found on tiktok mostly with women posting short clips about baking for the men in their lives. There is no data that there is a rise is stay at home wives. This is all about pushing something.
I don't understand why women aren't just celebrated for doing what is right for them personally, be it house wife or work baron, we should have the choice and not be looked down on for that choice. We shouldn't all be stuffed into one single type of role, our individuality should be respected. Being pressured to all of us work as men do is not better than being pressured all of us to work as house wives. I personally prefer the work world but I have uber respect for those that want to stay home and raise kids, yours is a very important type of job that I'm not suited to but I am glad some are. We don't have to point fingers and get judgy just because some women make different choices than us, that's not freedom and it's not progressive at all.
@@OnceUponaTimelinethe best solution is both parents work less. This way there is still a stable income, but both parents can raise their children and bond with them. This is to prevent daddy issues and fathers cheating on their family with a co worker. Both parents care about their children, should be the norm
@@KayDejaVu Tiktok is always about screwing western cultures, it's their point of existence. It's China.
I love how they are making a trend for something that is totally normal as in being a wife
becasue the Marxist Left destroyed families. so functional families no longer exist in the majority.
normal like 50 yrs ago. we've moved beyond this for the most part
It's normal to be a wife, yes.
It's normal for children to be raised by their own mother, yes.
It's not normal, to be raised by their mothers alone.
@pa5730
I agree.
I was a girl boss who worked from home and I wish I could have dedicated ALL my time to my kids. We want to raise our own our children. Most childcare is 💩 besides being way too expensive. If you can afford a good nanny you’re probably wealthy as well. This world NEEDS more moms. We also need to go back to being more self sufficient. You can’t get that TIME back with your kids, ever. Our kids need their parents.
Couple of things. 1) how do you think the husband's feel?
2) we'll go ahead and just ignore fathers. Keep up that misandry, you're doing such a good job, that's the reason why men are the way they are now. I'm glad to know that you are a part of the problem.
3) I don't think you know what self-sufficient means
4) HOW DO YOU THINK MEN FEEL?
Answer to 1 and 4: You don't but you can continue talking about a woman's struggle even though being a trad wife results in the same for a man and men don't have the right to say anything right? They're just men, so no one cares, they don't have a right to speak, they're not going to work to provide an income, they don't wish they can be around their kids and their wife, they didn't help in making the kids, they didn't want kids.
Women☕️
I have a mom who is NOT a trad wife, she is a career woman, she is also the breadwinner in the family and takes care of most things, and yet she is the best mother ever. She is a caring and awesome parent. You CAN be both a working contributing individual and a good parent if you have the right support systems (ie a husband who also contributes to chores and taking care of children) financial independence for women always comes first. Considering how the economy is, if you have the luxury and really want to stay at home to take care of the children, do it by all means.
Feminism is a construct of the globalist family that is the Rockefellers, as they sought to destroy the American family unit. Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
The trad wife is not just a 1950's phenomenon! It's been the norm throughout the thousands of years of human history!
Stay at home moms have not been the norm throughout human history.
That would be incorrect. Prior to the industrial revolution almost everyone worked at home in farming. After the industrial revolution women tended to work in textile mills and men in heavier industry in urban settings, but there were many people still involved in farming. The destruction brought on by WW2 left most of the industrial world in shambles, and for a brief moment American industry was alone. Prior to that there was never a time when urban women stayed home and the totality of their labor was confined to a few household chores. By the 60's with renewed competition from a rebuilding industrial world, and the further industrialization of previous non-industrial countries, American wages were stagnating while costs grew. The housewife was never going to be sustainable.
Stay at home mom was the most luxurious state of a traditional wife. Traditional wives were the norm for thousands of years. They took care of the home, gave birth and helped out the husbands in their trades whenever they could. That is how the humanity survived very very adverse circumstances in the past. Both joint families and nuclear families ensured everyone had decent lives, if not wealth. The moment this was challenged and discarded, the society went into a mental health crisis. @@couchgrouches7667
Women being the primary caregivers for children goes back infinitum. The stay-at-home wife is more recent phenomenon. Much less recent than "wokeness," but not ancient.
You mean since the beginning of time. It's only recently that woman have been forced to be working like construction workers.
There is NOTHING wrong with women that want to be stay at home moms and wives!
And there’s nothing wrong with not wanting that. Having choices is valuable.
@@user-gx1sd5cw5q this is the correct answer. Feminism is and always has been about giving women the choice to live their lives with the same latitude that men enjoy.
Oh but there IS!
It shows an alternative to the widely praised career woman. It shows that family can be fulfillment.
And it shows that feminism NEVER really was about free choice for women. If it really was, then women wouldn't attack other women in almost disgusting ways if they chose to be a wife and mother.
"THATS RACIST!!!"
@@jasonstacymengovitz8801 I’d love to hear about the many choices men have in their lives when having a family. Women are hypergamous so the far majority of men must have a higher paying job, must be taller, stronger, lead, and protect the family will his life or he more than likely won’t find a wife. He also has to sign up for the draft in order to vote. What choices do men have that women don’t have? I think women are far more empowered than men to either be the stay a home mom or the boss chick or something in between. Men mostly just want children and are willing to compromise for the other things.
how can you ask for a housewife when you don't even own a house?
You never had to work in your life
The MOST meaningful work is staying home to raise your children and making your home look and feel clean and beautiful. I loved every minute of it!
cool story bro
I was a SAHM while my kids were growing up. It was a big financial sacrifice, but I don't think that I was deprived of a career experience. I learned many skills that fueled my creativity and now I use those skills to run two home businesses. And now that I'm a grandma I'm able to help out with child care so my daughter-in-law can go to her 9 to 5 job, which she enjoys. Two women doing what they want with their lives. That's my definition of feminism. How many men get that kind of freedom when they are young?
Bingo!
Fewer and fewer as the rich get richer and the poor get poorer.
Very few men if any ever do
If that was the definition of feminism, then I would support it, wholeheartedly. Unfortunately, it is not so.
It's crazy (and no accident) that something so simple and effective should need to be said. Thanks for sharing!
As a feminine woman I have always loved providing love care, meals, a clean well-prepared home etc. for myself, my children and husband. I'm appreciative that I went to college and have a career, but the thing that has brought me the most joy has ALWAYS been taking care of my home and family.
You're the best! Muchos respect. 🙏
I love that for you.
Goodluck with that if your husband suddenly kicks you to the curb!
Then you are not the modern day feminist
thank god for that. modern day feminists are parasites fighting for nothing except delusions. the real feminists of the 60's and 70's actually fought for something and achieved it.@@GGuru-Official
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I am so happy with my Tradwife whom is supportive in my outside work providing for the family, her willingness to help keep the home cleaned and organized and together sharing the fruits of our labors for a balanced way of life. My wife, formerly a teacher, has taken the time to homeschool our daughter and shown her the attention she needed and deserved for a balance in our daughter’s life too. Now she learned from three generations before how valuable a Tradwife is for a solid home and work life in balanced lifestyle. Our daughter is a labor delivery nurse about to get married and start her life, hopefully as balanced as the one she learned from us, her grandmother and great grandmother.
I will close by saying this. We can appreciate a mom who has chosen to stay home and keep the family happy, nourished and living with a solid purpose of the life she wants, what we all love for her and the benefits a family gains from it all being good, traditional and fulfilling. Many women, men and children would love to have this lifestyle again!
There is a great sacrifice for being an at-home person. Nowadays, we can't afford to live by ourselves. There are too many things to get done and services are more expensive.
Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
Whether you are a woman or man, happily raising children and helping them become loving, capable and responsible adults, is the single most important job in our society...
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It's definitely one of the most important jobs. Though I ask out of curiosity, what does this mean for those who self sterilize or simply focus on other things?
I wish people would admit that schools are in capable of doing that. Putting them in school most the day away from the people who love them the most is just wrong.
Even if someone doesn't have or want children they still share the world with other people and so they should hope that parents are doing all they can to raise good people because those are the people you will be sharing the world with.
@@purpleglitter9596 Yep, they're going to be the ones sticking us with needles when we're old and in the hospital.
My wife is a trad wife. And she works HARD the whole day. While I work in the office full time. Trust me, if she was also working an office job, it would bring in more money, but it would also significantly balloon up our expenses while the responsibilities of taking care of the kids still remains. And I appreciate her a lot for that.
When you consider the cost of stress for the whole family and added expenses when both parents are working vs the better budget control and better care for the children overall, having a full time mother at home is the better choice in my opinion.
Of course, this is only valid when assuming that the relationship between the couple isn't abusive (and I don't mean the wokist "abuse").
100% correct, people need to go back to smaller homes, used cars, eating at home and less vacations so they can afford to have mom stay at home. Especially in these times with what is going on in the schools someone needs to have their eye on the ball to keep it in line with their family values.
@@workinonit9562 Homes are 1,000% the price they were. The used car market never recovered from cash for clunkers. 3 months ago until the prices magically got fixed for the holidays a bag of potatoes was $7 in my rural area that normally has good food prices. Vacations. Aahahahahahaha. I wonder if you're you over 50 or European? I didn't have the heart to tell a recent Chilean tourist how much better his life sounded then 99% of the people here. I know a millionaire too scared to take a vacation because his whole business would crumble in his mind.
I am a stay home mom. I absolutely love it. We are nowhere near rich. We make it work.
Feminism is a construct of the globalist family that is the Rockefellers, as they sought to destroy the American family unit. Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
Girlboss here. There is nothing wrong with a woman wanting to stay home and raise her kids. There’s nothing wrong with a man who wants to stay home and raise his kids. It’s wrong when the working partner uses their status or position to bully the other into doing what they say. Women (and men) should be free to choose, and be who they want to be, and that includes homemakers. I admire and respect parents who stay home to raise their kids while the other one works. It’s not easy to do!
My grandma was not allowed to have her own bank account unless her father signed off on it, which he did. He also pushed her to get a college education, which she did. I asked her why she chose to be a homemaker, and she told me that it’s who she always wanted to be. I grew up with parents who also valued education and hard work, and I got to choose to be a working professional. I still view feminism is the ability to choose who I want to be, regardless of what society’s current expectations are.
Girl boss is such a cringe term
Didn’t ask 🥱
What is a “girl boss”?
Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
@@raghuvenkatesan6792fr
Stay-at-home mum here for 22 years. It is the most rewarding job I've ever done. And the sweetest thing I heard was "thank you, mum for raising us well We've got the best parents in the world."
We didn't have that much luxury then, but we were provided with a little bit more than we needed by my hard working husband. We were all contented with what we have and we're all happy. 😊
You and your husband should be very proud of yourselves. Your children are fortunate to have such dedicated parents.
Don't forget you provided just as much as your husband. Just because raising children is unpaid labor doesn't make it NOT labor. Raising children is among the most valuable yet undervalued job in the world.
I've been a Stay-at-home-Mom for about the same amount of time, it's the most difficult and rewarding thing I've ever done. My 22 year old son told me he wants the same thing as my husband and I have, to work a good enough job that his future wife can stay home with their children😊 I love that so much, it means we did something right❤
This world would be a lot better off with more women like you! God Bless you and your family!
Ok…. Other people can be happy with different choices
When staying at home for your kids becomes a privlege, we're done as a society.
It is a privilege. Most people can barely afford their lifestyle with two incomes. In order to be a stay at home mother that requires a large enough income to sustain that from one person. The average salary for men in America is 50,000$. That is not a lot to work with. So yes it’s a privilege. But some people can resort to have very little to none and being okay with living close to or adjacent to property.
society has been done for a while now
Society has been done for sometime now. Just look at the people saying and believing that men can be women, or that men can get pregnant. Even better, if a man likes a trans woman, that is a straight relationship.
It's not a privilege so much as it is just something that most people don't want.
It's only a privilege in the sense that, in desirable areas, it is typically necessary to have two incomes to pay for a four bedroom condo (one room for parents, one room each for three kids).
I've always thought that the women who shame housewives are likely just secretly jealous of her
Being a traditional wife and mother is not a pipe dream. It takes some sacrifices and in the end your children benefit more. You save on child care but nobody said it would be easy. We live in a time where everyone wants what they want, now.
Exactly. The women in the video never mentioned sacrifice. She said she wants her big lifestyle and the government should pay for it!
Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
The worst thing modern feminism has done, has been to equate being a housewife with slavery.
As long as your husband is supportive, respectful and encouraging of you then being a housewife should not be demonised, it has given so many people the wrong idea.
It should be celebrated and regarded as noble, not something menial.
They control the narrative. Like when they say we aren’t your baby making factories. Like what women in the West is going through that today?
Wanting to be a stay-at-home mom or wife doesn’t mean women want to go back to the days where they weren’t allowed to have their own bank accounts, etc.. The jump to that conclusion is absolutely ridiculous and completely squanders the ART of full-time motherhood and being a homemaker. Stay-at-home moms/homemakers offer so much to society, and I’m tired of that not being recognized.
Amen! But who cares what the news says. We all know the truth.
Besides being untrue. That was not the 50's
Power to the stay at home moms 💪
She'll figure that out. . . after it's too late.
If you really want to be a submissive housewife then why would you need your own bank account etc?
I'm all for everyone making their own career choices. That said, I never thought I would see the day when the idea of women wanting to raise their own children would be in any way controversial.
World is full of demons, that's why.
Satan is the prince of this world.
Men don't want to raise their children either. So what?
@@GodSoLoved.Yeshua*Hail Satan!*
@chinaarlene7035 seems the demons are easy to spot
Men aren't nurturers by nature as women are, but they are definitely geared to being providers for their families (or can be if channelled for that - but men are under attack, so there's that problem).
It's profoundly obvious common sense to see that the nuclear familiy unit that's been around for thousands of years is oriented around specialization of labor (so to speak), which makes it far more effective and resilient. Its's the foundational building block of specialization that civilzation arises on, which too is entirely the product/outcome of specialization of labor (perhaps 'role' would be the more optimal term to use vs 'labor')
As a woman who is fiercely independent, I really would love nothing more than to stay home and be more detailed in housework and cooking and freezing food to save money. The American dream is to have it all. Family, career or good source of income, a good loyal spouse and a home. And it could be shared that's what makes life worth living. Being a boss girl who lives for herself and accomplishments and doesnt share it will make her miserable.
I don't really care about it that much but the backlash about it in the media is insane. It's only through very narrow and bigoted ideological lenses that someone could deem a modern stay-at-home mom as problematic. These are private matters that everyone should be able to decide for themselves. Live and let live kinda thing.
Running a household with kids is a full-time job. It's Running a business and it's time spent raising your children and not allowing the the world to raise them.
Im a man. I would agree to it if women get paid for it, if you say it's a work and it is, get paid either by the government or by their husband. There remain nevertheless a risk for the woman to be dependent of the man without income and it puts her into geopardy in case the relationship ends when she dedicated a big part of her life to free the man from these chores so he can dedicate his time to build wealth he controls ... and when women are dependent, their rights backwards but in the same time unavailable mothers or parents is not good for the equilibrium of kids so i don't know what the balance is frankly ...
A business where you don't need to work about being profitable, having cash flow, advertising, dealing with employees, etc. It's a much easier job than having a boss or a real business, so much so that these trad wives say they can't deal with work stress and would rather stay home raising their children because they have to justify not working.
You actually get to clock out from a job. SAHMs don't.
Being married is running a business. That's why most fail.
@@GodSoLoved.YeshuaExcept when kids are at school for several hours or playing at a friend's house, huh? Lots of people work at home, like teachers for example. What exactly do trad wives have to do outside normal work hours? Read stories to their kids? Bring them tea? Not a lot of hard work, it seems?
Someone needs to be home with the children, how many generations has it been? Women's rights are great, but we should also have the right to be home. The sad part is that a one income family has not cut it for a few generations now, we can see the effects of that.
There was always the right to "be home"... that never went away. But you have to be able to afford it (or be willing to make do with less).
There’s never not been the right to be home, it’s just the economics as you pointed out. I guess people forget that low income women have been obligated to have jobs for centuries, and before that they participated in farming so it’s not like that also isn’t a job. In the Victorian era women were working in factories just like the men, because it paid so little they had to. It’s always been a privilege to be a housewife
Agree 👍
My grandfather was a mechanic and only he worked in the household. this was back in the 50s. With that job he was able to buy a house and help raise 6 kids.
Times have really changed.
I agree but unfortunately we live in a society where both parents have to work unless the parents are well off. It's not right. It should always be one of the parents at home. Off course I believe it should be women, but I'm ok with a stay at home dad. I'd rather be at home with my kids than deal with the stress of work.
My wife wanted to stay home after my son was born. It was the best decision for us for many reasons. My son is now 13 and very well rounded, and he is doing very well in school. She is able to also care for her elderly mother. The most important thing for me is that I get to spend a lot more time with them.
Sounds like a wholesome lady
Imagine seeing a woman making bread in the comfort of her own home become national news. We are living in a crazy world
As a trad wife who stays home and just above poverty line with 3 kids this whole conversation is quite frustrating from these women who are clearly well off and have no children.
The lady depicted as being a Trad wife here is the wife of a billionaire trust fund baby. They pretend to be doing this all from scratch, not true. You are the real hero, making things work to be there for your kids and husband. Making sacrifices to do the right thing. Bravo!
women aren't slaves, however this horrible economy, fast paced commerce driven, materialistic life forced women to work. I'm a dude, but I'd guess any great mother would want to be a mother to her kids, help to support the house, her husband who financially supports the family. better mothers=better kids+husband's. less materialistic, happier, sustainable lifestyle. but do what makes you happy. God bless
@@noturbizz1the feminist movement was created to lower salaries and increase wealth for the global elite class. Salaries are now lower than they were in 1990. The feminist movement lowered male salaries under the guise of equal work for ewaul pay. Corporations just pay workers less now, as corporate profits have skyrocketed. Elon Musk is worth 230 billion dollars as the richest man in the world. In 2002 Bill Gates was the richest man in the world with 43 billion. This whole DEI thing is the next phase. They are brining in more people at lower salaries and disguising it as equality, but these people can't even do the work. How can anyone think this is anything other than a world plot for the rich to enslave us? Everywhere we look we see the gap between the rich and middle class increasing EXPONENTIALLY. Call me a conspiracy theorist, but look at the facts and it's plain as day. They want us back to the days of Game of Thrones. Again, I'll probably be labelled a conspiracy theorist for seeing this with my own eyes. Maybe I'm jaded, maybe it's true. Who actually knows? The elites do. World Economic Forum is not good for us. Build Back Better is a scam.
@@ejomara thank you
The presumption from your comment is wild! A teaspoon of judgement, I may say!
This is not a rejection of feminism. It is a rejection of the slavery of modern wage-earning life.
Nah mate, its feminism. 3rd and 4th wave has been nothing but garbage/militant, psyoped by the govt since its creation and what you see now is a result of that. Generational damage that at this point, and thanks to advances in technology is irreparable and will continue to be pushed as the main narrative to destroy future nuclear families. The rabbit hole goes even deeper.
So it’s a rejection of feminism
@@Rudebo No, point not only flew over your head it went into space.
@@Rudebo No, it’s a rejection of low wage labor
@@cavemancult1999 dito
My daughter-in-law is a traditional housewife and my son works and supports his family and they are not rich.
It is eye rolling listening to people equate traditional values with 1950. We can create a modern version of family values. But this was a very good debate.
I'm Gen Z. Only 25 years old. I've heard new mothers around my age make "half jokes" about how if society wasn't "ruined," they'd be able to actually take care of their kids AND not work. I think a lot of them are starting to realize that the push for women to join the work force and making it an expectation was mostly a corporate scam and not a form of "liberation" at all.
Some of them have even almost went into rants about feminism, but usually just stop while making a comment about how they're being too political or something... But yeah... I feel a cultural shift for sure and I'm in mf California for God's sake. I can only imagine how much harder other places are doubling down on this.
they need women in the workforce to make more money and collect more tax, it doesn't take a genius to understand that. Also women are the consumers of society, so if women make money corporations get richer
If you want to own a home and send kids to college, retire at 60-65, it's extremely difficult even with 2 incomes nevermind one
If all women leave workforce mens pay will go up and he will be able to support the family.
@@matusala8322 lol the economy will go down. After women officially joined the workforce after WW2, America was more pospures as ever. But go on and spit those lies. A women scarficing her money so that mens will increase. what a joke.
Money is power. Money bring shelter, food and clothes. Women joining the workforce is LIBERATION. I would not have the opportunities I do today without those women. Don't try to bog this down. WOmen have always worked, wheater in factories or farms. No society ever truly have a trad family for all.
I love being a traditional woman ❤️ I used to be a girl boss myself but found true love and joy isn’t from filling papers in an office, or climbing the corporate ladder but building a family with someone you love and raising your children on your own terms. God bless.
Ladder.....😬
Average lazy Loser woke
@@itsme3k Does it make you feel smart to correct peoples' spelling? That's kind of sad if you need that to feel smart.
@@Jeebus-un6zz No , but you lose credibility in your statement when you don't.
SAME HERE!!!!!
Trad wives equal better kids, closer families. My Mom was a trad wife. My greatest memory...coming home and mom being there. Nothing feels safer for a child. Also materialism is not needed to replace a missing family atmosphere. It also is cheaper because when you work. It costs more money gas car clothing food away from home it all adds up.
I’m a single twice divorced mom . I’ve always worked full time. I would’ve been happy to be stay at home mom if I had a provider that wasn’t abusive. In fact I feel like making me work to provide gave them a sense of pride. Not because they were proud of what I can do, it was more about controlling all of my time. I was killing myself at my physical job then going home to do everything there. They were benefiting most and my kids didn’t have me when they needed me. My job helped me get out which I’m grateful for but leaving my kids to go to work was so difficult. I envy the ladies that are able to stay home and have a good partner that appreciates all the work that goes into staying home for the family.
As a SAHM, who rejected feminism a LONG time ago, it's only sad that so many people got duped into believing women could have their cake and eat it too. I work part time and I absolutely hate every minute I'm away from my family and home.
I think there was a misconception that takes a nuanced eye. As the son of a tenured professor in women studies…..these women were literally vouching for their individual positions. My mom voiced before getting married to my dad that she wanted a beta man that would let her go as far as she could. She also admits it was selfish and she would do it again. I think there is some illusion that these women were looking out for average women when it was just staking their individual claim😊. My wife is a stay at home mom and would never marry someone like my mom but they have been married 40 years and both like it. Never forget the losers in this country are the ones who follow the lead.
I really don’t think feminism has to be about every woman choosing a career, I just think there became an implied narrative because of the explosion of women into the workforce, many of them who feel empowered and happy that they have the opportunity to do so. Truly, I’ve never once heard a feminist claim that women shouldn’t be SAHMs, rather just some immature career women out there who look down on women who choose to do so
You made the right choice. ❤
@@justsomenobody889The problem is that women who didn't work had a really hard time if they got divorced because they didn't have a source of income. Laws that force the man to give half of his salary to the woman were created to solve that problem. But it creates another problem: lazy women who become professional ex-wives, enslaving men to support them.
@@justsomenobody889 nah. It wasnt implied. The givernment saw an opportunity to collect more taxes, and they took it. Luke they always to.
I was a stay at home mom of 3 boys, and 1 girl. Me and my husband knew before we had children that i was going to be taking care of my children instead of daycare ,it was the best decision we made for our family. We did sacrifice not having 2 incomes, but we got by. My oldest is 31 my youngest is 16 , and i’m very lucky to have a wonderful family.
Right. You are lucky. Had he upgraded to a younger model halfway through, you'd be in a tough spot with no work history and maybe no credit of your own nor savings or pension.
@snowbird6855 if you’re doing what you supposed be doing he would never think about new model.
Every action has reactions and when you start playing around he will do the same.
@@matusala8322 that is so naive. Men been cheating on their stay at home wives since the beginning of time
@snowbird6855 nothing is stopping you from getting all that sorted before you start having kids.
Thats exactly what im helping my wife with, getting her through college and helping her build her roth and emergency fund up.
@@snowbird6855 I never said i didn’t have a degree in something,to fall back on.
Gen Z male here raised with no traditional father thanks to feminist message: Good Luck bros! From a Rizzler.
When I was a stay a home mom, I was criticized. When I was a working mother, I was again criticized. WOMEN we need to stick together.
This.
There's an enormous difference between being a TRAD wife and wanting to be just another influencer, who's content is based on taking care of your kids.
100% this.
100% this
This feels a bit fake! I think the feminist movement went too far and trying to escape the backlash by back pedaling. It just seem so convenient all the sudden.
Yes exactly she is not 100% trad, rightwingers btfo
Feminist movement went "too far" already a century ago when they were classified as terrorists, for putting bombs into churches, etc. Then during the second wave, with all their cringy man-hating and attempts to destroy family.
Man... Bri is never here when they cover topics she'd freak out over.
Jessica hates it too, but we'll never get a good leftist tantrum out of her.
Both Bri and Jessica have chosen to forego the girl boss life and mostly stay at home. Look at their social media if you don't believe me. They don't even have children, imagine how much more time they'd spend at home if they did.
Actions speak louder than words, especially for leftist women.
Jessica has her leftist tantrums on twitter.
Shes not very bright but she is pretty. She'd make a great trad wife.
Yeah, the feminist lesbian does not like women knowing their place!
It’s because Robby is a libertarian and would not invite these guests and cover these topics like Amber would.
I’ve yet to meet a man or woman, or children, who later in life, say it would have been better for their mother to work instead of investing that time in the home and family.
To not have to go to work while I'm on my period would be such a huge blessing. I would love to stay home on those days and relax my cramping body while dinner is in the oven and the kids play. I would love to see society go back to this. I've recently become really interested in modest ankle length dresses as well as dress making. It just feels so feminine.
Feminism is a construct of the globalist family that is the Rockefellers, as they sought to destroy the American family unit. Women should have children, stay home and educate the children; the children should be taught God's Word and the Constitution, and be taught that the globalists are their enemies-this is truth! Their first priority should be to their husbands and children, to their bloodline and not the corporations or the globalist infiltrated government!
There's absolutely nothing stopping you from being house-wife. Find a husband and get going.
Society doesn't need to go back to this, because this is already very common.
What do you expect when we live in a society that thinks men can get pregnant 🤷
Is it the society though? Or just a minority of aggressive neo-marxists that squeal like pigs all the time? Listen to New Discourses podcast. James Lindsay talks about these weirdos all the time.
Huh? Who thinks men can get pregnant?
@@andym4695 Justin Trudeau probably
@@andym4695 Most woketoids do.
Bankrupt society 😮
I raised 3 kids as a single dad. Being a mother is the most important and most challenging job there is in this world. You can not do it well and work full time. I tried 😅
You were a single father, sir. An equally noble attempt, but one which can never be a mother any more than a mother can be a father. Men give strength, women give emotion.
@@kathycoleman4648 Even so, 2 parents working is primarily a TIME and logistics problem.
Just because you are incapable doesn’t mean we all are
@@kathycoleman4648 If it is about this kind of mindset, 'TradWoman' is a huge step back. It is not about gender, it is about caring for children. it is not about 'this is, what women do, this is, what men do', it is not about giving more value to this or that kind of work, but it is about bringing up your children properly. Generally it is a discussion about at least two completely different subjects: Being feminine or masculine and bringing up a new generation.
This I say as a father who has the luck to have a wife who actually enjoyed doing the mother job for a long stretch of time. I tried to spend as much time with my children as possible. It was never about 'you stay at home, I do the important work that brings the income.' All the work in a family is of equal importance. If 'money work' and 'home work' can be shared and combined it is ideal in my point of view.
@@zoenopere1172 Relax - the single father who made the comment NEVER said he failed at being a parent; he stated that it's "challenging...[and] you cannot do it well and work full time." MEN do better as single parenthood than women; most childhood outcomes are comparable to two-parent homes. Childhood outcomes are much worse for kids, when solely reared by women - look up data and studies for yourself...
As a Gen Z fella, I'd pick a trad wife a hundred times before a girlboss.
How much $$ you got? Tradwives perform a service, and the service costs money.
Give the phone back to mumma 😂
Staying at home doesn't mean NEEDING a man to sign for credit.
I work for a 9-5 and everyday I dread leaving my child to be taken care of by others. You deny your own maternal instinct and spend your day making someone else rich rather than enriching your own child’s life. People are simply waking up to the feminist lie that a career would fulfill you when it doesn’t. Some women want to stay home and care for the people who will be there for them and not a job that will terminate you any time. You’re not valued at work but your family will. I hope these women will see it one day.
Given the cost of childcare, after taxes, most of your money will go that. If you switch to a stay at home roll, you make less, but that moves you into a lower tax bracket, you save on childcare, save a ton by eating home almost exclusively, etc. You can make it work.
I am a retired carpenter. I remember remodeling a house for a working woman. She was spending a ton of money making her house more beautiful, but when she got home, after picking up her children from daycare, she cried when she was telling her husband about how the daycare worker got to see and hear her children's first steps/words. She felt like she was forced to work outside the home, but why couldn't she just not spend her income on the house, daycare, a second car, and just enjoy raising her own kids?
I feel this comment so much. I want to be a homemaker, but since infertility has kept us from having children, I feel a sense of guilt for not working and helping out financially. My husband said he would support me if I wanted to be at home. I just am struggling to get past the years of being sold the feminist lie. I always tell my sister who is obsessed with her career - when we die our graves are all the same. You never see on a tombstone "Here lies Gertrude. She was the best X employee ever." I always told her they all say "Beloved wife, mother, grandma, sister, friend" so she should look towards other ways (people) to fulfill her life. Especially because she complains about being lonely and it makes me sad.
@@Magdalene952 You should consider adoption. 17.5 years ago my wife and I adopted a boy from Korea. Now he's getting accepted to colleges for the fall. It's great!
@@adammckee3496 That is a route we are considering now. It's so new we are still getting our bearings on it. We definitely haven't ruled it out!!
No one is asking for the legal system to go back to the 60s Jessica 🙄🙄🙄
Much of our legal system should go back to the late 1800s. Not all of it though. . .but a lot of it. The Federal Government has become way too powerful.
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Jessica loves her strawman arguments.
Really? With one Supreme Court ruling they took us back to the 1970s. If you let them, they'll take it back to the 1920s.
Not the 60’s, but that one guy(can’t remember his name) at TPUSA was arguing for pre-suffrage, so…
Every year there is a "new" trend that "Gen Z" is creating. I especially liked the part where she suggested that the government should pay woman to stay home and be tradwives, of course, ignoring all the other tax breaks and credits they would already get. And who is going to pay for that?
While rediscovering gender roles and how it is making women happy, remember the men too.
9 Million people following and watching tells me that yes their are people who want the simple lifestyle.
Not everyone wants to be a boss and deal with that stress.
Seems like not everyone can afford not having a boss and can stay home relaxing with their kids.
She also has an AGA stove which costs about $10K
People want the fantasy that’s being sold to them, in this case it just happens to be a tradwife.
When you stay at home with your kids you ARE the boss!!!!
@@hannaheye Until your kids grow up and realize they can think for themselves and you're not actually right about EVERYTHING. Unless of course you shelter and brainwash them and make them so afraid to question anything that they never do. So make sure you do that okay?
My Grandmother had 12 kids. The way my Dad describes how she operated, she could have been a CEO. She was a True "GirlBoss". Her children went on to all be pretty successful.
Successful at what? Successful will actually need to be defined. Where the children all boys , who are allowed to be successful in the regular terms we know...or is Successful defined as the boys went on to be successful with their chosen pursuits and the women went on to have children and stay home ?
My dream.
@ummadam9608 it takes a special human to do it. The term "God's Work" is over used. But having a huge family like that, it really is God's Work. I don't think there is anything more rewarding.
@@STak-ju7gxSuccessful simply means they made admirable goals and are on the path to accomplishing them. My sister is successful because she has accomplished every goal she has set for herself, including college, different types of home businesses, and raising children in a well running household and supporting a husband who is able to do well in his career in part because of her.
@@shurnbrendt7581Amen!
I’m 44, so I must have been way ahead of this curve. My wife (36) and I moved from a large Metro-area, to a rural town 8 years ago when our first child was 6 months old.
First and foremost, we were able to pay ca$h for our home…you heard correctly, NO MORTGAGE. Our “rent” consists of less than $2k in taxes every year.
I worked, mostly on the road for the first 4 years (before Covid) while my wife stayed home with our first daughter.
Our second daughter was born in summer 2020, and we started splitting time at home with both of them.
For 2 years my wife basically brought home the majority of our income, and I freelanced on the side.
As both our kids age into school, I can expand my business again, and play a little catch-up on the financial (savings) side.
To be clear, there is a financial trade-off to leave 1 parent at home…but the positive effects on your kids is so worth it. And your own piece of mind is a nice side note as well.
Call us Provincial, call us old-fashioned, call us whatever you want…my kids are more important to me than you are.
If women truly believe in equality then feminism should respect the trad wife life style!
the 50's was actually awful,not how movies portrayed it to be 🙄
My mom and grandma (we're Chinese) are very much traditional wives. My mom does the work of three people in our family. My dad worked from early morning till 2 am EVERY SINGLE DAY for many years of my youth. Coming from an immigrant family who worked so hard, helped me appreciate the older traditions and wisdom which modern kids foolishly reject.
A wife doesn't even need to be at home all the time. My mom even does the yard work and heavy lifting when the man isn't around. She doesn't complain nor does she prop herself up to be a 'strong wahman'. She's a bonafide strong independent woman who doesn't use weakness or mental health be an excuse for doing little to nothing or being lazy. Typically on vacation or off-days, she will do housework she had to put off due to her job, and feel absolutely satisfied. You can't find women like this anymore.
Always look at people better than you. Learn from them and take their skills so you can be better.
Never make excuses for yourself.
Unhappy about something about your life? CHANGE YOURSELF. Or else you stay in the same place and both you and everyone around you will stay unhappy.
As I always say.
I ain't from those times. But I miss those times.
I’m a stay home mom of two children they go to a private Christian school three days a week and I homeschool them two days a week there’s no more important job in the entire world than raising my children and taking care of my family. I thank God every day that he has provided this lifestyle for my family and we have made sacrifices to make sure we are able to do it.❤ the best decision sacrifice I ever made
@meganoleary584 Same here! We hybrid homeschool in a Christian school and it's the best of both worlds!
Maybe by 2044, kids will be normal again. We can only hope. About 10 years ago many Gen X women I grew up with started hitting the 40s "wall"; and more than a few said if they had it to do over again, they'd have been happier being a housewife. Spend lots of time with your babies, not just drop them off at daycare; go to PTA meetings, band/dance/cheer/sports, make hubby happy by having a steak cooked for him at 530pm, etc. They felt like that would have been easier and more rewarding than 20 of corporate climbing that all you have at age 45 is a big empty house, and a fancy leased car. No husband, kids (if you were lucky) that hate you, and no grand-babies.
Jessica's suggestion that Gen Z wants to rollback the laws is disingenuous. Nobody said that. The point is improving the quality of life for herself, her children, and her relationship. And nobody can argue with the idea that costs should be low enough for a single income to provide a confident lifestyle.
I like how they pick the one “trad wife” who married the son of a billionaire, but living a relatively modest lifestyle. There are tons of other people doing this that are just middle-class and blue-collar like my wife and I. Genzie (I’m 34) is just so fixated on influencer culture that they think this is a new thing. It’s not exactly a secret that my wife would rather be at home baking bread and raising babies, than doing concrete work in the Florida sun .😂
It’s hilarious isn’t it? But modern media outlets are primarily composed of women like this who are just shocked at the idea that anybody would choose differently than them outside their little bubble.
Yeah, a rich housewife is not the same as a trad wife. I’ve worked for a lot of rich couples over the years and most of the rich housewives don’t actually do much more than organize “the help.”
If you are 34 you are not Gen Z. You are a Millenial. Gen Z starts at 1997
I suspect you go back to the 50s, 99% of the families were pinching pennies just to have the essentials of a roof over their heads and 3 meals. There was only one car in a driveway, they never went out for dinner and nightly entertainment was reading a book or playing cards.
The problem today is people are trying to keep up with the Jones instead of just living.
Wouldn't it be nice if our economy actually allowed for more families to make ends meet on a single income?
The economy does allow for that. If women weren't unnecessarily flooding the labor force, then wages would rise. Another thing is, people are too consumeristic and want too many things, so they don't think they have enough money. The most important thing is a good family with kids that are raised right, and for that they need a mother who is home all the time.
@@christopherlees1134 see also... widespread fraudulent use of h1b visas, import of low-wage workers through fraudulent student visas, wage and hiring collusion in large companies, ...
It’s possible. But people don’t want to sacrifice for their families.
One income = sacrifice
@@christopherlees1134 yes it's true we are more consumeristic - but also that cost of housing or even rent has gone up so much that even if u get rid of the other things that alone would make it impossible to make ends meet on 1 income.
It does. If one has a career and one stays home it’s possible. Not possible if the breadwinner has no skills and has to work $20/hour.
But if one is an electrician or a manager at a large company etc… you save a lot of money when someone takes care of kids and food and cleaning etc.
My mom worked. She complained endlessly how she wanted to quit. Until she got sick. She’s an older woman. She been forced to quit. When you’ve got not retirement or money. It’s rough having the easy life.
I can't think of a better foundation for a community and country than a loving mother and a strong father. The family unit is unstoppable. It's time to return to a better way of life.
Only rich people can be traditional wives? This is so freaking ridiculous! The only difference is that she has the ability and time to document and edit videos for social media. There are millions of women around the world doing what she’s doing without influencer status.
Once Jessica becomes a mother maybe she’ll want to stay at home with her children rather than let some childcare facility raise her kids while she follows a career.
My father was a millionaire and I didn't know it....
You do not have to be rich but you definitely have to be making way more than most middle class people to be able to support a family on a single income. That’s just the reality of today’s America
It is very hard in modern America for a family to survive on one income. In order for the trad wife thing to work, the husband has to make enough money to support the family on his income.
@@alexislopez9355 I wonder what miracle people did in the 50's when the per capita GDP was half what is it today.
They only want to be "Trad Wifes" so they don't have to work, pay their own bills. They need to be alone forever as they wanted.
I’ve been a successful working woman for many years until my children were school age. Then somebody said to me one day, if you’re too busy working and not raising your children, somebody else will. That struck a cord with me, because it was true. I left the workforce. That was a few years ago and my husband , my children and I couldn’t be happier. Sometimes it’s not all about money. It’s about family and doing what’s right for your family. In leaving the workforce, I didn’t all of a sudden lose my right to vote or allow my husband to control me. We work as a team. I’m at home with the kids and him out in the workforce.
That happened to me!! My mom was a full time worker and so I ended up being raised by the wolves.
That’s great for you, however what financial security do you have of your husband leaves you without warning?
I can tell the girl on the left dint like that video 😆
@@angiedoe597that’s what these housewives don’t want to think about, they always think it won’t happen to them LOL. It’s a trend for older men to cheat with younger girls. Their housewife basically gets homeless after divorce because she has no money or retirement. Meanwhile the man has all the money and the young p’ssy. Happens A LOT. Or, the husband dies early. No employer wants a housewife to work for them, unless jobs as cleaning lady or babysitter. Love at young age is so innocent. Once older, the men get tired and they don’t feel a connection with their kids so they cheat. That’s why both parents should work less so they can both raise their children and get to know the children.
@@angiedoe597 That’s a great question…I guess I choose to not live in fear. My husband and I have a strong relationship and truly enjoy each other. We love raising our children as a team.
I am glad to hear of this trend. Now that I am middle-aged, my biggest sources of resentment and regret are going to college, having a career, and not having more children. What a waste of time college and career were! I've learned more from reading books than college ever taught me. What I don't get back are the years I missed with my children when they were little.
I'm thrilled to be a traditional wife! I grew up in the 60's and 70's and saw first hand how the feminists destroyed the way of life that was infinitely better than being a "boss". What did we "gain" from the feminist movement?? Nothing! Women now can work full time plus get to come home and do all the housework as well. Men were smart, they said you want to work-go ahead but we'll still expect all the rest to get done as well. We women were fed a lie and we've paid the price ever since.
So instead of blaming men for unfairly burdening women, you're going to blame women and you're going to call men smart for that?
You're not a traditional wife if you're not subservient to your husband without any independence of your own- because that's tradition.
What you are is a modern house-wife who isn't inferior to her husband and has independence- that's what you gained from feminism. Good for you.
Women were never truly traditional in the past. Women worked on farms and factories. Why pretend this is new? Why pretend feminism giving women more opportunities is destroying humanity? Femnism has been around for decades. I have yet to see this so called "destruction"
When you have boys being told by teaching staff that they're trans because they like to play with dolls, something like this is hardly surprising. The gender roles never disappeared: people just bs'd about transcending them.
Okay but your fantasy example never happened so 🤷♀️
Noen of this is true, stop lying
sorry where is this happening? nowhere? typical alarmist parent
Need to stop watching far right trash, honey.
Teachers predominantly are which gEnDeR?
Men don't care about a women's job or career. A lady that puts some effort into herself. embraces her feminine side, and is a home maker is far more attractive to men.
So?
@@triggered577make a point or don’t comment.
@@triggered577SO that's the truth. Your username fits you.
This fits with the research cited by Jordan Peterson. Whether you like JP or not, look at the science and read the research.
Yup, obviously true.
What has actually happened is so many of the families are now home schooling which means one parent need to leave work to educate their children.
Remove half the workforce and wages for the remaining workers will double, enabling that worker to support the family, as it was before feminism. Women have ALWAYS been the home maker and the family creator. It is genetically inherent after thousands of generations.
Precisely.
Oh no an era where one salary took care of everything and woman could actually be with their children... horrifying.
What about the men actually being able to be with their children?
Why don't men get to have that option?
And segregation.👍💪
@@jaegrant6441 they do. People just be saying things to say things
Men can stay with their kids, it just makes more sense for women.
Women get pregnant, they are vulnerable at this stage and can't lift super heavy. Men don't have to worry about this, at all.
Women also lactate, need some recovering time after birth. Again, men don't have to worry about this.
people like jessica equate SAHM to oppression so to them it’s a total regression. but in reality, majority of SAHM were not oppressed but rather provided for.
I was raised by a trad wife and became one. Its hard work to do it well, but incredibly satisfying and fulfilling. Raising little people to be awesome humans is so important. Making one's home inviting and hospitable for family and friends takes diligence. All of this would be impossible if you were gone all day i would think.
That's nice. I love that for you truly. But all women simply don't want that. The problem is when women are shamed and bullied because they don't want to acquiesce to that type of life. It's all about choices, and we should have a choice in how we want to live without scrutiny or judgement.
@@truthhurts...6574
Truth hurts doesn't it?
Good luck to you. 😅
@@truthhurts...6574 No judgement here. I was just sharing my experience and how much it was good for me. You should not feel scrutinized or judged; you are free to make the best choice for yourself.
@@truthhurts...6574maybe not all but most do.
@SartorialisticSavage65 No. Good luck to you. Because you will need it more than me in the coming years I guarantee.
Only five minutes in and I feel like I’m watching aliens cloned as human women, watching real human women.😂
Nobody said you have to go back to the 1950's, who better to raise children than their own mothers and fathers instead of a daycare center or nanny. I think the media paints everything in extremes instead of what works best for the family.
When women perceive raising children and building a shared legacy as "going back to the 50s" or even slavery, is it any wonder marriage is dying?
My wife has stayed home out of choice since our kids were born. She’s always busy! She is the heart and soul of our family. We are all the better for it and we can’t thank her enough.
I think for guys... it's obviously a huge risk to marry a "girl boss"... if she really is a good leader, she doesn't have to run around telling everyone she's a boss and acting like a victim. When any leader does those things, they're not a 'good boss'. A man is never going to be treated fairly, or like a human being, by one of these women. AND it's a huge risk to marry a trad-wife, because if she changes her mind, you're really on the hook where maybe 80% of your money is going to something like alimony and child support and her taking half of everything when she leaves. If a man is abusive, women have options and help and a system that could help them. Men have none of those resources.
The risk is that woman losses independence this way - she has no work experience, no profession and suddenly her husband finds a younger woman.
Looking at the divorce rate - the risk is quite real.
I’m a career gal through and through, and I have no problem with more ladies wanting to stay home. Just because I want to be allowed to be a “girlboss” if I want to, doesn’t mean I think everyone has to be like me. It’s probably better for the kids and probably less stressful and more fulfilling for a lot of women out there. I know at least three women in my family/friend group who have chosen this for themselves and I have the same respect for them as I have for any woman
girlboss, aka you sit in an uncomfortable office chair 9 hours a day looking at excel spreadsheets on a computer screen for a monthly pay check that leaves $10 left after you pay your rent and grocery bill. MEANWHILE the tech firms are working day and night to come up with an AI to review the excel sheets the same way you do so they can replace you or move your job to india.
This! You said it so perfectly! I am a sahm ands I feel the same as you do towards other career moms! Do what works best for you ands your family ands respect other women who choose a different path for themselves!!
As a SAHM, I appreciate that. I don't think everyone has to be like me either. Some women thrive at home. Others thrive outside the home. We all work and contribute in our own way.
@@imveryhungry112that’s the downside of “Girlboss” but the downside of being a SAHM is that you’re 100% relying on your husband to bring home the bacon. A lot of times that doesn’t quite work out. If it does that’s really great, but you should let ppl make their own choices. Feminism has always been about giving women freedom, not shackling them to be one type of thing.
Very well said. Support women, whatever their choice.
When my wife and I got married, we both worked and held off on having kids until we got ourselves into a financial position where she could stay home and have our children. We both loved the traditional life much better although it took me about a year to not feel the pressure of being the only income. Even during the first year I liked the new lifestyle much better.
It's not a return to the 1950's its a return to the last 10,000 years of roles and responsibilities divided between a man and a women - it's the balance that got us all the way through history until the last 40 years of chaos and confusion.
Ummmm, no, evidence shows that women did not stay home to look after the kids, cook, clean etc, they were out hunting because they were better at it than men! This "women must be in the domestic sphere" is only a 300 year phenomenon, earth is older than that and humans have been on it for as long as earth has been here,
what hasn't? Religion.
No? Prior to the 50s most women worked unskilled jobs like cleaners, maids, factory and farm labourers, tailoring, nannies, etc. These women also did domestic labour along with their work. Only upper-class women with financially stable husbands could afford being a house-wife.
Then came WW2, after which came the economic boom of the 1950s, which allowed one average man's salary to support a whole family- this is when house-wifery became a trend. That's why people keep mentioning the 1950s.
In the last 10,000 years of human history women have been working 90% of the time it's that their work was limited, underpaid and unappreciated.
@@i10i60 precisely
@@i10i60There are women who still work at factories, farms, tailor shops, etc.
~6:40 One problem is, in the 1950s, average wages were expected to be able to carry an entire family. Once women entered the workforce, companies used the extra availability of workers to push average wages down to the point where it's now required, in many cases, to have both partners working in order to make ends meet. So the skill required to run a household on a budget wasn't as strict back then.