LESSONS I HAVE LEARNT IN DATING
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- What lessons have you learnt in dating and in your relationships?
here i talk about the lessons i have learnt in dating.
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It's better to adjust to someone's absence than to adjust your boundaries to accommodate their lack of concern and respect. Be strong, walk away. It will not be easy. But it will definitely be worth it. ❣️
Lovely
"We date so that we can see if we are compatible for long term", this is strong. Thank you.
This is soooo enlightening✨
Build yourself and don't lower your standards for any one
A quote said,,,,".....don't be a needy woman,,be the woman he needs" and for the men,still applies
Thank you so much
Hey mso thanks for the encouraging words,,,actually you gave me the courage to end my relationship today and it hurts but for me its for the best
Sending hugs to you Beatrice 🤗. I wish you all the best. Read books and watch the episode i talk about how to get over a breakup. ❤
Shiro i like that quote. 🙌
Am Starting all Over again got my divorce in January, and it's ok to be single ❤️💯
Yes dear. It is very okay to be single.
Hi msooo thanks so much for yr content am learning to love myself n stand again n say No to anything undeserving of me
Those giving the video a thumbs down, what is your take. Do you think people should just stay in a disrespectful relationship. Ama you are the ones who mistreat people's children and you still think they should stand it?
Dated twice, my last relationship was in 2012. I'm 39 and life goes on as usual. No babies either. ✌
God sees your sorrows, may He bless you dear
True,,my last guy has been abusing me verbally,and puts the blame on alcohol,,he used to call me names aki i had to call it a quit,,he's still trying to reach out and nimefika mwisho😥😥
Am early 20,I have never date . I thank you so much coz now I know what to do and what not to do when it come to date... Actually am learning something positive from you
Am new to this channel and I already love it... Taking notes of everything. Thank you Muthoni, keep educating, enlighting and inspiring us.
Muthoni,please address this issue of intercultural relationships and the fear of dating someone outside their tribe and culture.
Nice one. Are you dating or have you dated someone out of your culture?
Please do talk about this .
Seconded!! 🙌
I second this,, like my mother told us that never to bring home a person from another tribe,,you know what they call them(wakabira😂😂😂),,,so its like we are only suppose to be married to our tribe,, and do we make our parent understand this
Never take dating advice from no one. Thank yourself later.
Facts!! Like when she said, "someone who love you cannot sleep with another woman"... My 39 year old self just smiled. No comment, I know the truth.
Thanks muthoni 💕💕💕💞 yeah i rather be single than be in a toxic relationship 💞💞💞💞💞💕✨ that's so powerful 💕💕💕💞we should vaule our single nesss in. Bulding our selfes
Very true, seeing red flags is enough reason to quit before it's too late. Picked 26k from me and after asking waaaah! It was enough reason to end everything
Thank you for being a good adviser to us..you are forever cherished sweetie....next time try and talk about ego and tempers....we love you msooh😘😘
Thanks for watching 😊
U never know you are in a toxic relationship until u decide to walk that when u realise wee kwani where on earth was i its not easily but its get easier with time choosing yourself over and over again learning from the best! Thanks muthoni
This channel is helpful to me with what am going through, God is good you came to save us
Oh dear. Thank you. Am Sending love your way. Things will be okay eventually. Hugs
Muthoni I love how u are happy in ur current relationship. You mention him in all your vedios...kudos gyal
Who's that
It is true when you are single you have time for yourself. You even improve on your personality.I dated a certain guy I didn't even have time for myself and family...and since we parted my life has really changed
I wish I had heard this in my early 20s n hope girls watch n listen to you.
Hapo kwa ask for what you want is very true, it's at this point that your expectations disappoint you
Yah sure be that person you're looking for...... Coz you will always attract who you are.....its like buying a shoe, some may look so good but not your shoe size, find your chosen soulmate and during dating you will be able to discern whether to cope with their weaknesses or not.
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Wow!!! This is one of the best topic I have loved deeply it has loudly spoken to me and I'll be taking notes, Am glad it's never too late and it will never be too late for me.It's my like so, I won't let anyone tell me otherwise about About being I know myself I know what I want. I will work on myself up until I get the my right one
Yes Steve. Work on yourself. The journey of self discovery is so beautiful. You will find someone on your level. All the best
@@muthonismission thanks
This awesome.....learning how to be happy independently
Thanks a lot my woman...#Muthoni was mukiri love you sana mamii
Continue with the good work..God bless you..
Like ya msoo
When someone tells you they need a break, it's a dignified way of breaking up with you
This is so honest coming from a guy .
Dignified? I think it's cowardly but hey🤷♀️
Not dignified bytha just cowardly. They know you are a jewel so they don't wanna be direct to the point.They wanna be able to still get you when they need you just in case.
Really great channel, forwarded to my single friends, I am married and it is worth the wait to marry a quality man. Do not marry someone you can live with, marry someone you can't live without
Actually since I started watching your videos I have seen where I go wrong for I was that kind of person who keeps things for a long time you are such a helpful person in my life
The channel is helpful I am victim of alot of breakups that hurt till I decided to remain single until the right time comes but u helping me and inspiring when the right time comes I will help myself due to ur help thankyou
Are you sure you're not shooting too high? Sounds like a 7 going for 9's or 10's. Be realistic with who will value you longest
This is soo encouraging gal..i love it and thank you for your good and sweet work muthoni..i admire your work and i really love it.huku siwezi toka.💕💕
Thank you so much!
@@muthonismission you're welcome my dear 😘
Awsome ... enyewe dating is a project ...thank you for the episode am learning something about dating and knowing each other
Hello Muthoni,
Please can you make a video, on what to share and what not to share with girlfriends about relationships or marriages, and even family members.In other words, how well is it to keep lanes,I have come to realize that not everyone wishes someone well
Will do
Watching this on my brothers phone since I lost mine ..and am loving the advice ...I am even taking notes .God bless you muthoni my mum is also muthoni BTW 🤩
@ Muthoni this is such good content. Be blessed. Kindly address that "late 20s " group. There's lots of pressure from everywhere including parents and workmates. Everybody has a baby and keep nagging what we are waiting for while working.The narrative about biological clock hits one pretty hard especially coming from people who seem to have already figured out their lives. At some point we are labelled as "being choosy" and keep asking whether we want men who fall directly from heaven. There's also this issue of seeing your young ones being in good relationships and one keeps on second guessing wondering what it is that we are not doing right. People think it is a matter of pride and all but we have a society that does not like getting to the bottom of things and not asking where the problem is.
Muthoni.. Kindly give me your email address. I need to write to you something personal. Thank you.
Great content cc may you please add subtitles when you switch languages some of miss out as we don't understand you home languages ,I relate so much to you content much love from Swaziland🇸🇿😘
All your videos are good, but this one is for me ,I thought its too late ,now I know you don't have to die inside ,it'd never too late.Keep on that spirit you are helping pole.
Yur have been a blessing too many pple💕💕💕💕✨🙏💕💞😻😍
Thank you my mentor and my role model.... God's blessings ....i like how you teaches us
Thenks soo much this was very helpful to me... for have been going through those red frags when am about to say enough I find myself forgiving out of any explanations 🤷♀️
Muthoni these is nice. I am married but these are great lessons for both married and unmarried. Girls follow this and you will be good to go.
I needed to hear this..I'm in my 30s and I'm about to start all over again.Thank you.
Same here..
Lets keep on soldiering on.I love her episodes,they are so educative and an eye opener.
My ex boyfriend wanted me to give him a break very times and i used to feel i don't wanna lose him,,, at least av known where i was going wrong
You don't know it Muthoni Mukiri but your words are brewing my courage. Thankyou.
You have taught me how to love myself more....you're such a blessing to many.💝💝
Muthoni you are intellectually smart
I felt you at vile mtu hujipanga poa akiwa solo. Esp for holiday you have 30 days someone is just dragging arround and you end up changing you leave days for them. Wah aki my first holiday after my breakup was the best. Kujipanga aki.
Thanks gal. I learn alot from you, God bless u as u continue to enlighten us.❤
Wow great lessons... I just love it
HAVING HEAR YOU SAY YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, I CAN CONFIDENTLY LISTEN TO YOUR THOUGHTS NOW
I feel like you are directly talking to me. Thank you so much.
You are talking about me. I dont take craps. I would rather be single but with someone who robs me of peace
Great for all mariied ,dating etc couples. Let have this go viral
So inspiring msooo keep it up your encouraging many of us keeping give us content soon utafika 100 K subscribers
Wow good to see u msoo ur such an amazing woman I always admire u,you educate me a lot
Muthoni tafadhali address issue ya dating from different tribes and religion.. kindly🙏
Self despline and put God first and be yours self.
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wow wow learning a lot from you Msoo. wow
yo speaking the truth dr nimekupenda bure
What of those who never realised all these things while dating and now they are in a marriage wondering what to do coz the marriage now is toxic
Sending love and hugs😟💕💕i wish you the best
Muthoni I see you as my big sister.. thanks for the lessons.. I'm currently undergoing break up and really I'm healing well because of your lessons 😍.
All the best in your healing girl.
3) ask for want you what; this key...
Relatable because you are sharing mainly based on your experiences.
Thanks mummy, have learnt so much just bumped on this channel...woow..am gonna watch all your views and share them,baraka dear
Wow I am in my late 20s. I have definitely picked a thing or two. 💕
Muthoni a single
First time viewer and i agree with everything you say. I had to subscribe
Muthoni am always motivated and enlightened by your words,you are a blessing to many and God is taking you higher.
I like this particular hair, details on how to get myself one
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Teaching good baby gal much love from UAE wisdom right there
Thanks alot Muthoni this channel has been so much helpful for me .Thanks for reminding me that I deserve to be happy en it's never too late to start over.
What do you watch Muthoni? Please recommend me to something. I love your content
Im inlove with your content🥰
I hate breakup it's soo painful. Thanks mso this is so enlightening.
Thanks very much Muthoni for bringing this topic, this is my story...
Thank you
At this point in my life.... I don't want to here anything like dating.. Love.... Meeeen I won't say much
I'm a new subscriber and I love love your content.
Waiting to hear what you have learnt, I will add mine
Love does not heart
@@praizesjovial6470 love doesn't do what
@@hottest1 sorry love does not hurt the people are one
We all learn something somewhere. Loved this video. Learn to ask what you want *****
how insightful,lemme probe, how long did it take you to start over from the break up..that bit of the narrative u tell yourself I can totally relate when you tell yourself you've got no time to learn someone new all over again
Well said. It's never too late to start over
I have loved loved this session, u have amazing insight 😍😍😍😍
Reading makes get into the world of the person and u speak thru it
Amazing insight.....Looking forward having my own channel I Have the same dream as you ..and am Truly motivated By your amazing work.....God bless you continue being amazing😘😘
waiting always my role model,,,keep going girl
Waiting for girl your advice has help me so much, love you girl
One lesson I have learned is that you should not try to fix someone. If someone is dealing with childhood issues such as abandonment, for example, let them deal with it, because unresolved issues affect relationships considerably
I like this. and also you are not their therapist. Let them heal on their own first.
Quite enlightening. Thanks Muthoni
Very educative conversations you are having in your channel!!! Keep up!
And girl, you are gorgeous!
i guess I'm quite off topic but do anybody know a good place to stream new movies online ?
@Grayson Elliott I dunno atm I have been using Flixportal. Just google after it :P -gage
@Gage Jayce Thanks, signed up and it seems to work =) I appreciate it !
@Grayson Elliott glad I could help :D
I love you mamaa. wuee thanks for the advice
Mso you are a such amazing person,you content make me believe that one day I will see you, coz you have assisted me a lot, the fact is, you are my role model
Very educating msoo. Keep up.. am changing the narrative immediately
This channel is so helpful.. Tufikisheni mso 50k subs
So educative, be blessed Msoo
This's a good advice for those who are single.
So inspiring
There are a lot of things am loving about Muthoni's Mission.The content is just clear and simple. Keep soaring Muthoni. The topics are awesome.
Thank you dear 😊
Great... To be single is best life ever
Go girl!!always motivated....indeed it's never to late to start all over it feels new every time☺️
If you take a break with me,,, pls be gone.... i dnt beg,, eti wioyee
Just set boundaries when dating. It makes dating work since there's respect
@Ndirangu listen, you need boundaries
This is great stuff! I am encouraged.
So educative thanks gal