4 UPDATES: SIL & Brother Sit Me Down And Tell Me They Want Me To Do THIS For The Sake Of Their Futur
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- 4 UPDATES: SIL & Brother Sit Me Down And Tell Me They Want Me To Do THIS For The Sake Of Their Future… I Laugh I Won’t Be The Scapegoat For Their Foolish Experiment & They Got Even More Shocked When I Told Them THIS
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I (28M) have an older brother (30M) and we were pretty close growing up. Then, five years back, he got married to my SIL (29F) and we sort of grew apart. As a matter of fact, it wasn't just me but he started distancing himself from our family as a whole after he got married. He'd spend his birthdays with his in-laws and would celebrate with us only a day after and of course, all the holidays and stuff would be spent with his in-laws without a question. My parents and I found it a little sad that he wouldn't visit us anymore but then there wasn't much we could say or do so we just accepted it. His in-laws didn't really like us so we couldn't exactly just join in either.
Anyone willing to scam their family like that can't be trusted ever.
It's not always like that. Sometimes the devil talks in your ear and makes you do things, but sanity can come in later.
@@Straightastheycome 8-billion people in tbe world and people think the devil will whisper in one person mind..When even God didnt know Eve ate the apple and give a piece to Adam.The looked down on humans, why wud he whisper when the entire war was he demanded we obey
The next update will be how I gave my brother another chance and hired him to work for my company but he embezzled company funds now I'm bankrupt.
Not if he is hired as a janitor
@@StraightastheycomeJanitors have the keys to EVERYTHING and they work after hours, unbothered by the daytime white collar people. Do not underestimate the cleaning crews.
So basically the family caved. Gave the guy exactly what he wanted. Stupid move because the wife is still in the picture and they are laughing all the way to the bank.
And the brother who was supposedly so angry is the one that actually went and together with their doormat mom beg to the father to hear him...I hope the brother take them to the cleaners
Agreed. I would have asked the guy to leave his wife first
@@StraightastheycomeNah. He obviously knows this woman is a problem. And if he wants to stick around long enough for her to waste his entire inheritance on herself that's his issue.
This whole family are enabling doormats who are going to be ruined by the spoiled brat and his hag.
Well, not exactly what he wanted.
Now he is more resentful. And when the fear of losing the inheritance will wear out, the vengence and resentment will come over, will be confirmed, fueled by the wife.
Looking foreward for an update in some years!
The stupidest thing is to let that terrible brother work for OP. The father never should’ve said anything like that because it puts so much responsibility on OP. That shouldn’t be his in the first place.
He can work as a janitor
My thoughts exactly. What if he tries to sabotage the company or turn the employees against OP, or pretends to be good for the long haul, gets what he wants, then goes scorched earth? Or worse, if he used this to build rapport with clients and then steal them from under OP, and then goes scorched earth on OP.
"He can work as a janitor"
OMG, people keep saying that! Have you never worked in a moderate to large business? The janitorial staff has the keys and access to everything, and they work after hours, without the owners and execs breathing down their necks. Do NOT underestimate someone because their job description does not require a college degree. Unless you do deep vetting you do not know who you are hiring as cleaners (who are usually contracted by an outside service nowadays anyway).
The brother was the one who had made the choice for the college, NOT OP. As such, it’s not his fault.
If OP's brother had good business acumen he could get a better job that pays more.
Even if the brother had been accepted into his choice college, it's not inappropriate for parents to say "We have this much money, enough to send both of you to more reasonably priced schools". Oldest kid doesn't get to have all the money at the expense of the younger one, just because he is older. He'd basically, be doing what he was accusing OP of doing. No reason for OP to feel guilty.
Also what was stopping the brother going to his dream college, and working and taking out loans to make up the difference in costs involved.
@@Flakey101 He didn't get accepted.
OP's brother has business acumen?
Good grades don't always translate into ability.
That whole college thing was some fantastic mental gymnastics 😂
Thank you!
He should've spoken to his parents first instead of stressing out for those 3 days.
HELL TO THE NO!!
Such a bad decision by op’s father. Op should in no way have any responsibility for his brother, that’s a recipe for disaster and a total cop-out by op’s father. I hope the father is prepared to accept any financial burden if the “bad” son sabotages op’s business out of spite. Op should nope out of that situation immediately, even if it means losing the “seed money” from his parents.
I would worry that the brother would embezzle from the company.
Hun , if he is prepared to lie to your parents , he wouldn't have any second thoughts about lying to you
If op brother was so much trouble then he should man up and ask his parents and not try to get op to ruining his relationship with mom and dad story1
the parent did not wrong, sometimes you get a child who can be called a bad seed
OP should have told brother to pound sand from the beginning and never look back.
I’ve been in a similar situation. Some people bring out the best in others. Some bring out the worse. I’ve seen both happen with family and friends. Your SIL seem to be the second type.
Lol, 🙄 “Mom, dad…. Brother & sister-in-law asked me to _______
______…. & they said to ask you for double.” 🤦🏻♀️ sheesh!
Going into business with him may require a forensic accountant to go over the books each month.
Brother should be awkward and humiliated for dumping his family.
I would never hire own brother, because major BS!
Oh, what a wicked web we weave
When first we practice to deceive.
Good luck with him. I wouldn't even let him park near my business. I would still be NO CONTACT.
"He lied about his college" Surprised Pikachu.
the brother never made a sacrifice. he could of still gone to his ideal collage and just worked at the same time.
I have an uncle like this. He was so affectionate to our family until he got married. Suddenly he changed, from the way he thinks to the way he behaves. He just become like his wife, unsociable and acts like they are above everyone else. Whenever there is family gathering, that pair always bring unnecessary topics only to highlight their family. Everyone else just like, is that so? Then go away from them who keep managing to ruin the vibe. We just wanna spend time together, not gather for competition who is better. Their achievement actually, just moderate which everyone else also achieve. So I still don't get the idea of my uncle saying we are jealous of his family 😂
Its just sad a kind uncle has gone and become a bitter person instead.
Correction Op, your brother's wife didn't turn him against his family. She was just going off what he told her about them. HE was the one trying to get his father to commit fraud by suggesting he bribe the college officials to let him in to the school.
And the father has made a BIG mistake allowing the brother anywhere near their businesses in any role whatsoever, even a peripheral role like housekeeping or maintenance, and especially not security.
Sounds like your brother was never as smart as he thought he was, so he wasn't going to be getting some big degree, and not decent enough to fend off the woman he married that twisted him further.
What a horrible suggestion. Having that older brother work for OP in his new business will bring nothing but trouble and then OP will have the trauma if firing him.
I seriously doubt that he's going to honor the agreement and definitely try something to get more money. His entitled wife is going to throw tantrums and I wouldn't be surprised if she divorces or threaten divorce over the deal. Plus try to do something after how she kept up the lies and everything.
wow. ops brother really bite down on that manipulative lure his wife and her family are fishing with. the lil devil to encourage his already budding level of entitlement. geez smh
Op, his fiancé/wife & Op’s parents need to make sure their wills are up to date. Parents should have their estate overseen by legal people so brother won’t be able to just take over, steal, manipulate or bribe anyone. They should change their locks & everyone should have very good security installed.
Makes me wonder who he owes money to.
Feel bad for OP’s parents. Basically ordering their own elder son to keep a relation with them for the sake of money. They are at a loss on both ends.
They also threw OP under the bus because he'll have to deal with this pile of crap and hope he doesn't destroy OP's business.
@mbyerly9680 to be fair he is an employee of op, not a partner or anything. That said can op fire his brother if he needs to. Honestly unsure. Hopefully op's brother takes this as a come to Jesus moment and fixes himself. Though his wife does deserve blame as well. Never underestimate the wrong person entering someone's life at the right time and how much they can screw it up.
Isn’t it pathetic that the older brother that is supposed to be a role model for the younger, can’t man up and ask his family for assistance. He knows he’s been wrong for not visiting or checking on his parents, and only wanted help to benefit him. Plus if you have financial problems before having a child, maybe they are ready for a child or need to learn to budget.
I honestly don't understand why it didn't occur to OP to ask his parents immediately about his brother's so-called sacrifice. This whole story sounds stupid. It could have all been cleared up with one conversation in one afternoon. IMO.
Stories like this really emphasize the issue that I tend to have with people, and that's the inability or refusal to communicate with others about familial or financial situations, and the (selective) avoidance of confrontation to the extreme. For instance, the second the brother brought up that horrid plan about lying to the parents, OP should've not only cut him off then and there, he should've immediately had a discussion with his parents after he told the fiancé. Not only would this have cleared some of the air, he could've also warned them in case he tried other methods to hustle the parents out of money. Granted, he told them in a week, but only after learning his brother lied to his face and tried to guilt-trip him about the college story. Seriously, someone who does this doesn't have "shame"; it's so naive, how are people still this naive. I haven't been that naive since I was like 10.
It sucks that weak minded people just have money like that. Creating guilt is stupid.
OP annoyed me so much why even think about scamming your family or feeling guilty about your brother I just don't get it
Family ties are supposed to be strong with everyone helping each other. It works very well when it does. But when they don't it is hard to break them.
Oh yes because all the screaming shouting threatening swearing and name calling is supposed to convince me to actually give you money
I love this narrator!
If gone to that school they would never mint each other’s
yeah next update will be how OP's brother stole money from his business
Work for my lil bro? No prob, its about ability and I'm sure he'll have my back and I'd make sure to look out for troublemakers
Heart surgeon-father & journalist- mother & struggling NON-PROFESSIONALS CHILDREN?!🤨 Why are they financially challenged...?
WTF letting the brother work for you is insane. He'll find a way to steal from and sabotage the project in no time
How much do you want to bet the OP will be back with a *My brother embezzled from my company* story and the brother's wife will say it's OP's fault for not making her husband a partner he just took what is owed to him.
Greedy Brother- OP, YOU BETTER GIVE ME YOUR MONEY OR MAKE ME PARTNER OR ELSE….. wait give me a moment, what can I threaten him with? 🧐
Why can't you talk to your parents and ask them if this is true. I don't believe his lies.
Yep, just as I thought. There is always an idiot in every family.
wow. have a baby knowing you can't afford it. stupid choices on their part does not constitute an emergency on my part
Do not involve a liar in your business at all. Not even as a janitor. Relatives are often embezzling funds. Brother is going in under bad circumstances and bad attitude. As a CPA, I can tell so many horrible stories about relatives in business. This creep has already proven he is a liar and manipulator. It most likely will get worse not better.
IVF is expensive. Both my mom and my dad knew we had to do it and neither offered to help even one dime. We saved up the money ourselves.
Ah, no, why does OP have to do all the hard work?
the whole family is weak
OP needs to stop being such a sucker. His brother has repeatedly lied and manipulated him and he keeps opening the door to hear him out. SIL is obviously the catalyst for all this behavior and the brother won't change while he's still married to her. The worst idea is for OP to hire his brother, he's gonna rip him off somehow and then we'll hear how he can't understand why his brother did that to him when in all reality, a kid can see what's about to happen.
Why are you blaming SIL? She isn't the one who suggested to the father to commit fraud by bribing college officials. No, they are just two peas in a pod who found each other. Brother was already amoral when they met.
So sister-in-law did alienate husband from his family and now she wants money from them? F around and find out
Title be like: This SHOCKED those people because THAT did THIS into THERE
This is confusing.
Talk to your parents about his college offer. It might ask be BS. He may have failed to get into the college of his choice. See? I was way ahead of the story.
Sometimes Men get corrupted by street walkers... The SIL I mean
Bottom line , it's all about the wicked wife
It’s scam they are running
I think the dil was behind it but the older brother was too "p" whipped to see it.
Your brother is an AH he is laying a guilt trip
I have a feeling that OPs business is doomed for failure. Since OP is spineless and in doubt over everything. Not exactly good traits in a businessman.
Check with the parents to see if he actually made any such sacrifice.
Maybe they should stay childless.
He really is a terrible person and so self involved and your brother wants money in such a underhanded manner and he wife has not even shown your parents any respect he should know better and you are not duping your parents out of money
He is lying to you again ask your parents
OP. Go directly to your parents. Today if possible. Tell them everything including the part ab the college
No, your father tried giving you an out by saying that. You had already told your brother NO once, now your father has put him in his place in front of you after all you told your parents about his ways. That was your chance to reiterate that NO and be done with him like your father wants to be. How much ish you got on your nose from kissing your brothers rear even until the end?
Your brother is a con artist. Do not bring him into your business. First talk to your parents and ask if he is telling the truth.
Your brother would totally embezzle money from your company. Talk to your parents. It doesn’t make sense that a cardiac dr couldn’t have afforded better colleges
S1, YATI, you’ve misread the situation, your brother has been isolated by his Wife and manipulated to building her agenda, then manoeuvred into the begging mission. Plan on the brothers marriage folding in the next few years.
Did you forget the part about the brother insisting on his father committing fraud to get him into college? No, Brother was rotten from a long ways back, and he and his wife just found a commonality in each other.
Am I the only one thinking Op was actually the golden child but he never realized it because brother didn’t hold it against him and then Brother just distanced himself from family when he got married because of it…..
Wow talk to your parents and tell them everything .
Anyone consider that OP is coming from the standpoint of the golden child? His brothers wife may just be looking out and standing up for her husband. I would be very interested in hearing the other side of the story. The fact that the brother proposed that OP ask his father for help as opposed to asking directly and the fact that he rejected the family for a couple years before this point is a tell of favoritism. Those who are not in the golden child, may resort to extremes just to get what they need, because they’ve never been given what they need. OP may not recognize that he is the golden child. How we ended this story was a bit condescending to his brother. It may reflect how his family always perceived him.
What is with grown ups and celebrating bdays? 🙄
I hope it ends poorly for OP I hope the brothers start stealing money from the company and it goes under because guess what that's exactly what's going to happen because OP fell for all the bulshit sob story do they think that the brothers just going to turn into somebody completely different yet again know his wife is going to be there the whole fucking time in his ear telling him that they should be his company something's going to happen and I hope it ruins OP.
Thank You!!!
I mean really, the younger brother needs to make up his damn mind. He's mad and upset one minute and feeling sorry the next.
Those two vultures are going to eat him alive and leave him with nothing.
And then he'll be mad all over again right before he feels sorry for him again.