YES. precisely! i just shared about my boyfriend's experience with 22 year old women making extremely sexual remarks and touching him inappropriately at work, and some asshole told me to get over it and that he should have spoken up himself. lmao when it comes to boys being sexually harassed, theres always a double standard which discredits them. i find it sad really.
Thats not what the courts/society usually says.. I was sexually abused by a female teacher when i was a few years younger in highschool. Instead of being like my dad and hiding it and saying I liked it etc i came out about it, there was no proof sono one believed me and whoever believed me thought i was just trying to play a victim for something i enjoyed..
@@CrumCringle Then that is not guilty, it is confusion, now I'm worried about you, how are you? idk about the US but there is the age of consent in most countries if you are not over it you and the person can get in really trouble.
As a Christian, it makes me sick to my stomach to see trusted people, whether in church or regular life, act so vile. I swear, attackers are sick in the head and should never be trusted. I pray victims get proper treatment and support.
I got harassd by an entire group of cathoIic priests. I think they speak to eachother and share "easy targets" or something. Because it only started with one, and then suddenly a whole group of them started creeping on me. And I was a young woman, not a boy
As a woman who doesn’t see a lot of male victims a lot, I’m glad to see one here. People always think that woman are so weak and think that they need to be protected, but what about males? Any person no matter what gender can be groomed or sexually abused. I met a nice male who has been sexually abused by another male, even though he isn’t gay. I used to be groomed and sexually abused when I was 10, but now that I am 14, I have learned to detect a parent, or defend myself. Woman can be creeps too, and males can be sexually abused as well. To those who think that you don’t belong, you do. You are valid and heard. You all have my heart.
If a woman is a victim it’s “she was asking for it” but if a man is the victim it’s “he should like it”, why do people try so hard to invalidate victims. It’s assault no matter what
As a gay man this is extremely important, it's pretty common for homophobic people to think we are predators though. Both of those problems need tackling
@@Homophobic_racist_sexist_pdf Damn let's get your grandma to fuck your 4 yo male cousin! It doesn't happen right and if it does then they would enjoy it right? I just hope you'll never have children, adopted or biological.
Exactly! It boils my blood when people say its a woman's problem or say "what if it was your sister or mom?". It completely shuts out the enormous number of male victims. No wonder theres so little reports of it happening, society teaches them to be ashamed because "it cant happen to them". ugh!
You mean it’s shut down by other men ,,,,, like if a guy is being sexually harassed by a attractive women . Some men be like “wished that were me 😍😍😍” it’s disgusting
Very Odd yeah but it’s usually by men and when it’s happen by a woman ( which is pretty rare) the victim get called a pussy by other MEN, for not enjoying it.
@@Piedhiper its shut down by women too. Dont put all blame on men. Ive seen females laugh at men. Ive had friends that confront the female who drugged them and the female answered, "who you gonna tell? Nobody will believe you" and ive seen guys post it on twitter like many females do now a days and a female told him "if you got hard you liked it lol"
• c i n n a m o n • Because they're too busy telling young women to not trust young men when the road goes both ways. A health teacher literally told us at some point that we'd abuse a girl and to this day, the shit he said disgusts me
@Kiwi Kiwi bruh why did he even say that like- does he not have self respect? Did he just admit that he’s an offender since he’s a man right? And the dude just said that men abuse a girl at one point 👁👄👁
@@N0rth_Star Absolutely. There are sick fucks among children too. I'm not including the ages between 0-10, by the way. But there are so many 15-years-old rapists. Trust noone.
My whole life my mom told me that when I was a small child, she just assumed everyone was a pedophile by default. That always seemed so extreme to me until I realized what she meant as I got older: these things happen because people say "Oh he would never do that! Oh she's not that kind of person!" And at that point it's too late. Not everyone is a pedophile, and most people would never harm a child. But don't ever convince yourself that someone is incapable of doing so, because that's what allows abuse to happen right in front of you, in school, in public, or in your very home.
Absolute facts. I’m surprised I could find you here, perhaps after your Paul brother series you can make a video revolving around sexual assault awareness and how to protect yourself? You’re very smart and I think you could handle a conversation covering that topic very well.
I told my brothers and my dad about a story I heard where a young boy, 10-12 years old, was raped by his 20-something year old babysitter and she got pregnant. Their reaction? "Go, little man!" It disgusted me. It STILL disgusts me. This mindset of "oh men can’t be sexually assaulted, by women especially" or "dang, how lucky" is freaking hideous. I hate it. What is wrong with our society?
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Right? Because much like irl grooming, online grooming can be disguised as friendship for a long time and can creep up on you from there. I was groom online from 14-18 by a group of older guys. I was vulnerable, since I'd been picked on severely at school and didn't realise how much I needed some reassurance/praise/affection. I did block them shortly after my 18th birthday, when I realised enough was enough and plucked up the courage to run, but once a groomer is in your head they have many ways of dissuading you from blocking them, by getting you to depend on them or feel like you owe them a favour or such.
I was groomed once and now is when I start to realize that happened. 10 years ago, i was doing an internship at a recreation center when one of the older male employees was being extra "nice" to me. He bought me food, asked me if I liked going to the movies or if I was seeing anyone, hugged me really tightly once. Dude was a weirdo for sure. Luckily, some of my other co-workers warned me about him and told me to say I was in a relationship. I remember feeling very uncomfortable 🤦♂️
This is animated very well. This is the sort of things schools should show. They always show only women in these situations and the videos are always such a poor quality.
Sometimes you can have no idea what’s happening for a long time. Sometimes you can realise what’s happening right from the get-go, but even then you still don’t know how to escape. There are so many different kinds of situations where sexual abuse can happen, and it can happen to anyone. Males, females, children, adults. It can happen in a workplace, in a school, in your own home. I can’t believe this still happens. It’s really not okay. I’m glad we have people like you raising awareness about these kinds of things.
I hate when people say that boys can’t be sexually assaulted/abused, no matter who you are it’s not your fault and you have the right to get support and help from others. Stay safe and don’t be afraid to speak up, it’s never your fault❤️❤️❤️
I agree sadly a lot of people think that oh because This person is doctors police religion leaders That rules don’t matter as much as everyone but it’s does wrong and abuse is never ok doesn’t matter who it is
Finally, a well animated story time channel that doesn’t make fake stories about 6 year old kids getting impregnated by their dog. But in all seriousness, this really shows that men can get groomed and abused by woman. Abuse is never ok and I’m glad to see that this video shows that even men can get assaulted and not just woman. Abuse is never ok, and if you are a victim of it, please tell someone you trust. Even if it seems like no one will believe you, there’s always someone holding you back. Edit: how and why did this get attention?
As a person who was groomed and sexually assaulted in boyscouts by an older troop member. Im glad I got out of it and pushed away before anything worse happened
I’m really appreciative that this video is focusing more on grooming more rather than indirectly implying other untrue things like “gay people are predators” or “men are less likely to be abused”, unlike some other videos.
this. but it’s also important not to paint everyone of these groups as abusers. there are members of every group who are abusers, and members of every group who aren’t
I had an abusive stepmom last year who would sexually harass me whenever she drank. My father didn’t do anything about it so I eventually I stood up to her on my own and now she’s out of my life. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman, abuse is abuse and it shouldn’t be accepted no matter who commits it. Thanks for showing that men can be victims as well as women can.
I hate how male victims of female abusers are ignored or called lucky it’s disgusting and cruel to treat abuse victims that way, I’m so sorry for those who went through that only to be invalidated after the abuse
You know what happens a lot? When a man gets touched in a way that makes them uncomfortable, people call it seduction. When it happens to a woman, its sexual harassment. Double standards are the worst, it’s sexual harassment no matter who you are and who its from.
For real. I hate when i go to hang out with my friends in a bar, and some woman starts to touch my upperbody, just cause "i'm a guy and i don't have anything to touch there". Or when they are open to sex but kind of 'forcing it' on me. Like what the actual fuck. Then when i'm uncomfortable and tell them to stop or i don't want it, they call me gay(as if it would be a bad thing anyways lmao🤷🏻♂️). They would say i'm not a real man too. Fucked up as hell.
Yeah it sucks how easily a woman can get away with it. The media would just say "oh he liked it" or "oh he didn't care until he was found out". That shit grinds my gears.
Yep my step dad who was catholic & then changed to Baptist and attends the church wanted to have sex with me. Me, my mom & brother are Evangelicals. I asked to borrow money to finish my pays for school & he said he would let me if I have sex with him. I always knew I never felt right around him & I’m 22. When I told my mom she was surprised. When my family heard either half believed me or half thought I was making it up. Idk why they are attached to him like why just because he’s baptist like y’all & my family like a different part of Christianity?
@@shaunibabe1 religion was and still is an escape from reality, biologically we are an animal like any other, and people are too afraid to accept that, and so people create gods that supposedly will take you to an afterlife, because accepting we are all fleshy machines for being born, reproducing and dying is just too hard i don't expect to be agreed with, but the truth is right here in your face
Grooming can happen to adults. It happened to me at my last job(I was 31/32 at the time).This 55 year old man who worked in the deli told me that he saw me as more than a friend, after having friendly conversations and giving me little gifts or money. I told my bosses who told him to stay away from me, but he didn't listen. I told my dad, who's a 6' 4" grizzly bear of a trucker, and he came to my work one day(I was on my lunch break when he came). When the guy came in for his shift, he immediately came to me and tried to give me money, but I insisted that he keep it. When he got to the backroom, my boss took him back where my dad was waiting, and he told my dad that he was a "Christian man who believed in marriage before sex", which made my dad furious and he tried to play dumb and said he was "a little slow" when my dad told him I had said I didn't see him the way he saw me and that the gifts and money giving made me uncomfortable. He warned him that if he didn't stay away from me, period, that the law would get involved. He pretty much quit his job in the deli after that. But about a month later, he showed up at church one Sunday, and my mom and I sat as far away from him as we could get. He testified in church saying that he wanted to thank his "Good friend Lauren" for encouraging him to go to church again and said that he'd been sick for a while and asked the church to pray for him to get better. After the service, my mom and I were going to a baptism later that afternoon and we were waiting on our friends to finish up so we could all hang out until it was time to go to the baptism. Well, old Herbert the pervert came up behind me while I was talking to my friends and placed a hand on my shoulder, asking how I was and acting like he never confessed his feelings to me a month ago. I tensed up, but I never said a word and kept my back to him. He said he was ready to talk whenever I was and walked off. My friends noticed how tense I was and my face was almost paper white and I was shaking(he came to church the Sunday before he told me that he loved me and when we were getting ready to leave, he told my mom and I that he didn't want any of the kids near his van because he had "weapons of self defense" in there). My mama told my friend's dad what was going on and asked if he could distract him while we made our way to the car. He tried to follow us, but my friend's dad insisted that they go out the other door. Thankfully my mama and I were in her car, doors locked, etc., when he stepped outside and looked around like he was looking for us. After that we filed for an order of protection and we came to the agreement that he he would not be allowed at our church, the grocery store where I was working, or anywhere near me. I've changed jobs since then, but the whole thing scared me so bad, that I never leave my house without my pepper spray or pocket knife. Thankfully I haven't seen hide or tail or him, and I hope it stays that way
My school has to show videos about stuff like this every year. But, it had a VERY negative effect on the actual point. Everyone was making jokes like “your gonna be my next victim” “COACH IS THAT YOU?” and I just wish they showed these videos instead. As the characters don’t look funny nor the voices. I just really needed to get this out. Great work with these videos.
I hate that straight men are supposed to “be happy” about getting touched. Or supposed to “enjoy it”. I’m not straight, but that sounds really uncomfortable.
I really though men like being touched like that because of all those meme but I started to interact with many male friends of mine, and I came to understand they are also very uncomfortable and don't like it. Those meme make me very uncomfortable now.
Exactlyyy, it’s like straight people have self control and the capacity to feel uncomfortable is certain sexual situation, they shouldn’t feel forced to enjoy something they don’t.
>supposed to “be happy” wrong. you can choose to be happy that you're getting laid and you can choose to say no and smack the person who is trying to *ehssooolt* you
i remember the days of '19 when i was last a straight male... but in all seriousness, since im not out to much people i will very likely get this and i hope noone else does
The abusers looked hurt about why the person they were coaxing would suddenly turn on them when they were going so long without saying anything. It's a minor detail, but one I greatly appreciated that was included. Sometimes that final breaking point can make you seem like you were over reacting and being rude or it may even seem like it's your fault for leading them on in the first place. It's a guilt wrenching and confusing experience for victims, but the thing is no one should ever go along with something they're not comfortable with.
Because of it before seeing this I am happy that I have perminantly left those kind of groups who were literally on purpose sending porn stickers and gifs to the group chats and I have never ever ever ever ever watched it and will never watch it it is disgusting I think that they were trying to make me and other people who never watched these kind of stuff try to make us be like them like a bunch of wild animals who have never seen women's and men's before and I am never going back there cause those people literally crossed my boundaries multiple times and tried to groom me into them. 😒🤢
@@Brunette_2005 I get your argument about some men saying that stuff and its absolutely wrong, especially since most of them probably haven't veen through it. But these experiences deserve to be talked about for both genders. It doesn't do anyone justice to put victims down or try to argue who has it worse. So its a good thing both are being talked about here.
They are especially not as much to talked about like women are because people think that men can't be assaulted or get raped or attacked by a woman but I think it's possible whatever the gender of the person is anyone is capable of harming someone else
Yeah because even though more often than not it's a woman experiencing abuse or being assaulted men get abused and manipulated and assaulted as well And it's really sad when people say that you're either supposed to man up or if a woman is doing it that's just her flirting with you and you're just "supposed to like it" It's the double standard for me
I’m glad the female abuser just looks like an average woman and not a gross monster. Never understood why in these situations in fiction women had to be inhumanly ugly or else you couldn’t justify a man not enjoying their advances. Her approach also isn’t overly creepy, just a tender kiss, but he is still completely justified in not liking it.
Everyone can be an abuser and everyone can be a victim. No boundary can negate. Gender, race, religion, etc. does not have any weight in the situation when it comes down to sexual abuse or rape. It is the same of course for other variety of situations but since it’s on the topic of sexual assault and grooming, that’s the situation I’m emphasizing.
I unfortunately was groomed when I was 11 to 12 by a 20 something year old man on discord.. He gained trust and manipulated and talked about..explicit stuff with me and all that stuff..I knew it was wrong and I was so scared. But I didn’t tell anyone because at the same time I cared about him.. I *trusted* him. One day when I turned 12 I finally had enough of what he was doing to me and so I left a server he put me in , unfriended him and blocked him. I’m so glad I could get myself out of that situation and I’m glad nothing happened to me physically..though the disgusting shit he talked about and said to me and asked me to do (obvi refused) still sticks with me.. Though I’m free now :))
You did good,some people gets in things like that for years ..the 20 something category Is usually the manipulator one ..i had a chat friend like that , a girl ..so involved , sweet and supportive ( and needy but you know , She seemed so pure and sweet )and all but It was fake , She gradually showed herself as narcissist ,putting sexual stuff i didnt want to talk about in chat , like A LOT, and was gross stuff ..then i became depressed and She said She would not care of my problems ( i wanted to talk you know ..) ..i ignored her for two years then She texted , i replied something cold and generic but She had blocked me ( tricking me into thinking She was in danger , i checked and She werent ) .some people want a friend , others want a pet
I like the mention of the “every guy’s dream, right?” idea. So many sexual abuse victims that are male are told that it’s a boy’s fantasy, especially when a male student is abused by a female teacher. Not only are they downplaying the seriousness of the abuse, but they’re also glorifying it, which is truly awful.
@@memesdear2323 Bro look at the comment section there are idiots saying that the boys were lucky and they want to have that happen to them too I swear.
My dad works a 11pm to 7am work shift and he always is trying to catch up on sleep. When me and my brother were little there was a lady who worked for our school that always asked my dad if she could baby sit us. My dad mentioned her being very insistant and rather uncomfortable in her constant asking, so my dad never agreed to let her take care of us because of that off vibe she gave. We recently saw on the news that this women was now being sentenced to prison for multiple child abuse crimes. Kinda makes me wonder what could of happened.
Your dad has ultra instinct and you’re lucky for that. I’m glad you dodged a bullet there. It’s terrible what she did and I’m glad those victims got at least some justice.
It’s similar to using gods name in vain witch is different than saying Jesus Christ or what people usually say it means using god to your bad or evil advantage just like churches in the mideval times where they say if you give me Thai much amount of money I will forgive all your sins
Same. Im catholic and their is a huge problem with pedophilia in the catholic. Church it really sucks that people can call themselves fearful of god and still do this kind of shit.
As a male victim of child sex trafficking I appreciate the message this sends. Some demons refuse to let you escape. But with knowledge and preparation and the comfort to know someone understands comes the strength to resist. Sometimes resistance is impossible. It's forgiveness of one's self that can allow for healing. Anyone who has been abused...you are wonderful and beautiful and it's going to be ok. Never blame yourself and always know there is a second chance....feeling lost is natural, we all walk down roads that are filled with many surprises, both good and bad. Sometimes you will reach a tree fallen on the road and not know where to go. Turn back? Climb over? Take a turn? It's confusing ..no one path is perfect for everyone ..but don't ever give up. Seek comfort In family, friends, and compatriots. Those who love you will stay those who don't will leave. Most importantly of all don't let anyone make you lose sight of your true self...losing yourself and becoming someone else to suit another's whimsy is a true hell forgetting who you are.....it can be a lifelong journey to rediscover your true self ...just never lose sight of who you are. We love you. The whole internet 100s of thousands of people we got your back so yeah. Abuse victims...you never give up. Never ever ever.
Well, for me it's more of the prossess of waiting. I heard from some documentary that your cells die out and grow in new ones so that in seven years, it'll technically be a body that your abuser never touched.
I love this channel, it shows others what people think while they r being harassed, and unfortunately i have been harased like this before. People just say" oh. Its just the past, get over it"but i cant, everyday i think about it, its hard to let go of something that really traumatized you, it stresses me out alot.
Here’s a quote i found from someone “If you found a church that isn’t for you, a church that seems to be corrupted, a church that allows these stuff that is clearly against the word of God, a church that is blasphemy, a church that has leaders who aren’t they are supposed to be… You are allowed to walk away from that church, you can freely leave, But one thing.. *Don’t walk away from Christ/God :)*
People complaing this is getting recommended to them, but honestly this is a really good video and I'm glad it got recommended to me, it deserves to be shared and known
For all those who are questioning why this is in their recommendations the answer is yes, it is due to TH-cam algorithm but that doesn’t necessarily make it meaningless. During this pandemic children are at home far more than usual due to the quarantine and as you know, child abuse tends to happen at home and in private places more than anything else leaving children victim to abuse exposed to 10 times more abuse than usual. This recommendation is also being sent to a certain range of ages, estimated to be from ages 12-17 years old.
As a male victim of grooming this really hit home and has me in legitimate tears. Thank you so much for spreading such a important message and increasing awareness
I saw a video talking about a manga wich was about a boy that was abused by woman and he had PTSD and that things, AND THE COMMENT SECTION WAS COMPLETLY FULL OF PEOPLE SAYIN "it should been me, not him", so im glad they have put woman abusers in this video.
I myself was a groomed girl who was sexually abused I was only 10 and was already going through all of this and I didn’t even know what was happening to me until finally I found out and cut all contact with him now that I’m free from him I feel better but I still feel like people are gonna hurt me.( thank you for those of you have been giving so much love in the comments i love you all and wish you guys the best)
Thank you so much for making this video, after all that grooming and abuse from my hostel warden I still think it was my mistake, but after watching this video I just felt some relief or maybe the sense that it wasn't my fault, but still I get ptsd often 😭😭, I think I will never come out of that feeling, I still can't hug my friends rather than just some handshakes
Doesn't matter about what gender you are, female, male, or other. Anybody can be a sexual abuser so the only one you have to look out for yourself, it's really hard to think everyone is a good person. And I'm glad this channel we address what kind of abusers they are and what genders this is a real good channel.
@@omransaeed1988 mmh, yeah maybe because there's still too much people that think that only women can be abused?? And that if a woman abuses a male then its a privilege??... and that's why we're commenting about it more than 8,000+ times??? So we can change the mind of people like that?
So glad, SO glad they acknowledged that men can also be victims, 99% of these videos have girls as the victim, while the man is downplayed when they’e a victim.
This shows that ANYONE yes, I said ANYONE can be a sex offender. No matter a priest, your siblings or even your parents, you can never know their true identity. Also why is this recommended to everyone right now
@@elantipelotudo8281 lmao yeah, nobody can trust anyone but all I can say is that sex offenders are extremely disgusting, they torture such young and innocent children. I have learned about this not long ago, that's why I'm shocked about how many things I haven't learned, considering I'm 13. All I'm saying is you guys need to stay safe in this world. Everyone cannot trust anyone 100%.
Love this video! Got groomed online, had an online friend I joked around with. He had more ’dirty humor’ but other then that no real red flag. So saw him as an aquintance. Then he send me nude without my consent. Told him What the f and he Said sorry. But I blocked him shortly after. I was 14. Thanks for making this video and explaining so good both stories
I was sexually abused by my girlfriend and it really helps to see stories about how men were sexually abused. A lot of people don’t believe me whenever I talk about it because I’m a guy. Even my own parents were skeptical of what happened when I told them. Please respect all sexual abuse victims! It’s really important.
I'm so sorry for you dude, a lot of men get sexually abused and don't get enough attention. People don't realize that men also get sexually abused or raped and it's really sad. Hope you're ok dude 👍
@@Harlem55 Do you feel comfortable writing this comment? Especially on people talking about their abuse? You're okay with that? Just saying people's trauma is their own fault? You haven't gone through their exact experience and cannot say what isnt and what is true even if you've gone through something similar.
So glad that you guys established a female abusers, not many people believe females can be predators/pedophiles too and I'm glad your educating people!
@@CybrV-1 yes you'd be suprised at the amount of people who believe that, I dont have any form of a link but based on American data of police reports of sexual assault (men reporting there female abusers) cops dont believe them. If u want u can check more in that.
Bmgyu. Look at the comment section of any news story of a female teacher that’s been arrested for statutory rape. You will find plenty of men and women who say that the kid should consider himself lucky.
It's a question of power. Power corrupts, no matter how people in charge will call themselves and on base of what will consider themselves more powerful- be it political or commerctial hierarchy, money, age or gender/race
@@loospylinda465 I think what they are trying to say is people take the notion of power to their heads and that it corrupts people to doing things into manipulating others. Or at least thats how I took it.
Grace T because it’s worlds less common. But it does happen. and there has to be some significant power difference: in this instance she was his boss and much older.
@@AvacadoChan is it tho ? I mean, there are a lot of way to abuse someone, and women are more likely to be believed contrary to the men. I sometimes hear how the abusives women threaten to tell the police that the men abuse them if they fight back. I don't really know how many men are abused, but the number is probably higher than what we know.
This video is so good. It’s so rare to see videos that acknowledge men can be groomed and taken advantage of. Not only that, but the fact that they also shared that pastors can be predators too was incredibly important.
@Ghost The Clyde wth that’s not how it works. Sometimes adult don’t have a say because it’s their boss or someone important to them, they don’t want to lose their job or a loved one.
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never say a specific gender, religion, or sexuality cant be sexually abused. it can happen any time anywhere
No shit
Yes, this is why I have trust issues. But I try not to let it get to me. Just stay safe wherever and whenever :) 👍
@@NostalgicHearts yeah because toxic masculinity is a problem
YES. precisely! i just shared about my boyfriend's experience with 22 year old women making extremely sexual remarks and touching him inappropriately at work, and some asshole told me to get over it and that he should have spoken up himself. lmao when it comes to boys being sexually harassed, theres always a double standard which discredits them. i find it sad really.
Thats not what the courts/society usually says.. I was sexually abused by a female teacher when i was a few years younger in highschool. Instead of being like my dad and hiding it and saying I liked it etc i came out about it, there was no proof sono one believed me and whoever believed me thought i was just trying to play a victim for something i enjoyed..
The worse feeling is not being able to tell if it’s grooming or not.
If you begin to feel uncomfortable that is definitely a sign that something is happening and you should think it through
Yeah always trust your guts.
@@CrumCringle hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@@CrumCringle well if u like it and is what you want, just tell then already. If you are an adult of course
@@CrumCringle Then that is not guilty, it is confusion, now I'm worried about you, how are you? idk about the US but there is the age of consent in most countries if you are not over it you and the person can get in really trouble.
Gender doesn’t clarify what or what isn’t abuse.
Very true Yes men more but women can too anyone human can be good or bad
PREACH
Very well said my guy!! (Or girl) 💚💚
when a girl hits you thinking she's going off fine
EXACTLY
As a Christian, it makes me sick to my stomach to see trusted people, whether in church or regular life, act so vile. I swear, attackers are sick in the head and should never be trusted. I pray victims get proper treatment and support.
Finally a Christian in this comment section that understands anyone can SA and isn’t crying about the priest part
Womp Womp
My dad was molested by a priest when he was 10 and it was the reason he didn’t like Christianity
@@Buzzword_1787gacha fan invalidated opinion
I got harassd by an entire group of cathoIic priests. I think they speak to eachother and share "easy targets" or something. Because it only started with one, and then suddenly a whole group of them started creeping on me. And I was a young woman, not a boy
Abuse is abuse, no matter what color anyone tries to paint over it.
This video was very inspiring
Or gender
Ephesians 5:15-16
Cheems Corner damn bro you got the whole squad laughing
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I'm really glad this channel addresses the issue of female sexual abusers and male victims.
Same.
@@peppapigstrashtwin3902 oh. I never knew that.
even male can be victim as well, it's not just always female
Same!
Peppa Pig's trash twin IT’S OVER 9000!!!!
No matter what religion, age, sexuality or gender. Abuse is so wrong
Yes
Amen 🙏
@@9uun amém 🙏
THIS
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As a woman who doesn’t see a lot of male victims a lot, I’m glad to see one here. People always think that woman are so weak and think that they need to be protected, but what about males? Any person no matter what gender can be groomed or sexually abused. I met a nice male who has been sexually abused by another male, even though he isn’t gay. I used to be groomed and sexually abused when I was 10, but now that I am 14, I have learned to detect a parent, or defend myself. Woman can be creeps too, and males can be sexually abused as well. To those who think that you don’t belong, you do. You are valid and heard. You all have my heart.
I'm gay, and I'd be creeped out by some old guy touching me...
bah women aint shit were the real danger lol
@@decriper1097 shut the f*ck up :) Get off of youtube and hug your parents
@@decriper1097 misogynist
If a woman is a victim it’s “she was asking for it” but if a man is the victim it’s “he should like it”, why do people try so hard to invalidate victims. It’s assault no matter what
@@otb4443 im gay so not rlly
Richu chan no
@@Ivannnnnnmmd
No on what?
Johny Marcial I don’t think any guy wants to get groomed
@@Ivannnnnnmmd
Agreed
I don't care if a male of female abuser is gay. Sexual abuse if not okay
Totally!
That's common sense. I WANT EVERYONE TO WRITE THAT DOWN!
My brother was harassed and it just makes me SICK it's so messed up
I think what you meant to say is "I don't care if a male or female is gay OR straight..."
As a gay man this is extremely important, it's pretty common for homophobic people to think we are predators though. Both of those problems need tackling
Any type of abuse is never ok
Sonic Says 😤
Agreed.
@@descendantgaming5410 mhm
poopity scoopity
Rukia Kuchiki mh,
Not everyday awareness for male victims is talked about, especially when the groomer is a woman. More people need to see this.
@@Homophobic_racist_sexist_pdf seriously incorrect...
@@coralyeo8834 lmao its a troll just ignore
@@Homophobic_racist_sexist_pdf Damn let's get your grandma to fuck your 4 yo male cousin! It doesn't happen right and if it does then they would enjoy it right? I just hope you'll never have children, adopted or biological.
@@zeehow8998”its gonna be fun!!”.....
@@Homophobic_racist_sexist_pdfnot true. Anyone can groom someone. Kid
It doesn’t matter if the abused is a man or a woman, abuse is abuse and it’s not okay
i agree with your comment it’s just your name LMAO
The conflict between your name, comment, and the added spice of your pfp... great
Exactly
@@snailofkale HHAHSHSHD, i see your a person of culture
YOUR NAME IS STRANGE FUCK
Thank you for acknowledging that men can be victims of abuse I feel like that's something society tends to forget at times.
Exactly! It boils my blood when people say its a woman's problem or say "what if it was your sister or mom?". It completely shuts out the enormous number of male victims. No wonder theres so little reports of it happening, society teaches them to be ashamed because "it cant happen to them". ugh!
You mean it’s shut down by other men ,,,,, like if a guy is being sexually harassed by a attractive women . Some men be like “wished that were me 😍😍😍” it’s disgusting
Its kinda scary too that men can get abused as much as woman
Very Odd yeah but it’s usually by men and when it’s happen by a woman ( which is pretty rare) the victim get called a pussy by other MEN, for not enjoying it.
@@Piedhiper its shut down by women too. Dont put all blame on men. Ive seen females laugh at men. Ive had friends that confront the female who drugged them and the female answered, "who you gonna tell? Nobody will believe you" and ive seen guys post it on twitter like many females do now a days and a female told him "if you got hard you liked it lol"
Why aren’t these being shown in schools why isn’t this everyone needs to focus on
true.
Because schools don’t like talking about shit that needs to be dealt with. Excuse my French but it makes me sick🤬
• c i n n a m o n • Because they're too busy telling young women to not trust young men when the road goes both ways. A health teacher literally told us at some point that we'd abuse a girl and to this day, the shit he said disgusts me
@@kiwikiwi2483 k
@Kiwi Kiwi bruh why did he even say that like- does he not have self respect? Did he just admit that he’s an offender since he’s a man right? And the dude just said that men abuse a girl at one point
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Abuse has no gender
Hmmm
I agree.
Abuse has no gender, relation, moment, ocassion or proposit, it's just wrong.
Also has no age. idk why people think you magically can't get groomed anymore at 18
@@N0rth_Star Absolutely. There are sick fucks among children too. I'm not including the ages between 0-10, by the way. But there are so many 15-years-old rapists. Trust noone.
Literally anyone can be an abuser. Everyone has to be careful
your right it’s sad to think because people like religion leaders and teacher and nurses can’t be mean and nasty people but anyone can
Especially people you know well. You may never know.
Evenn u
@Oscar
*Don’t trust anyone, not even yourself*
@yumii It’s not about being careful.. that’s ignorance.. it’s never the victims fault..
My whole life my mom told me that when I was a small child, she just assumed everyone was a pedophile by default. That always seemed so extreme to me until I realized what she meant as I got older: these things happen because people say "Oh he would never do that! Oh she's not that kind of person!" And at that point it's too late.
Not everyone is a pedophile, and most people would never harm a child. But don't ever convince yourself that someone is incapable of doing so, because that's what allows abuse to happen right in front of you, in school, in public, or in your very home.
well said, d'angelo
yes. you spoke well d'angelo. a man of true culture.
hello there
Absolute facts. I’m surprised I could find you here, perhaps after your Paul brother series you can make a video revolving around sexual assault awareness and how to protect yourself? You’re very smart and I think you could handle a conversation covering that topic very well.
preach dude
Sexual abuse isn’t about sexuality, it’s about having power over people.
Facts
Exactly
Ikr
True
this
I told my brothers and my dad about a story I heard where a young boy, 10-12 years old, was raped by his 20-something year old babysitter and she got pregnant.
Their reaction? "Go, little man!"
It disgusted me. It STILL disgusts me. This mindset of "oh men can’t be sexually assaulted, by women especially" or "dang, how lucky" is freaking hideous. I hate it. What is wrong with our society?
That is sick I’m so sorry you had to go through that :(
@@Have_a_fabulous_dayIt was a story the OP heard, not the experience OP had to go through.
@@ryanp7546 oh ok but still that poor boy 😞
I would vomit hearing that, is so disgusting, literally DISGUSTING. I am sorry for you.
what the fuck is wrong with your dad and brothers?????
It's so good that they mentioned that being a Man of god doesn't mean he won't do something wrong or forbbiden
That's no good🦔
@@Hayami-Masaki yes it is because it does happen if you ignore it then you contribute the issue
Yes and the fact that it's a clear show how Males can be victims of sexual abuse as well and that Females can be sexual predators too
People are still people independent of what it does, even if it claims to be a man of holiness. I hope the church is ready to fight back these abuses.
Jade Kaneshiro it’s a joke from an old sonic show
I'm so glad you guys added older people and elaborated on other types of abusers.
Yeah.
Im also glad that they added a female because not all predators are men.
@@matadorjesusfan6914 true.
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We all have kids at home. Child abuse or molestation has become so frequent these days.
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“She was asking for it”
“He should stand up for himself”
No matter what, if *anyone* sexually abuses *anybody* it’s wrong
Thanks Obama
Yes Obama 🙌🏻
Obama whyd you raisd our taxes when you were president
Preach Obama
Thanks Obama
I hate when people disregard online grooming or say to “just block them”
Yeah don’t block them send the messages to the authorities
Right? Because much like irl grooming, online grooming can be disguised as friendship for a long time and can creep up on you from there. I was groom online from 14-18 by a group of older guys. I was vulnerable, since I'd been picked on severely at school and didn't realise how much I needed some reassurance/praise/affection. I did block them shortly after my 18th birthday, when I realised enough was enough and plucked up the courage to run, but once a groomer is in your head they have many ways of dissuading you from blocking them, by getting you to depend on them or feel like you owe them a favour or such.
Womp Womp
@@Buzzword_1787⚡️👨🏿⚡️
I was groomed once and now is when I start to realize that happened. 10 years ago, i was doing an internship at a recreation center when one of the older male employees was being extra "nice" to me. He bought me food, asked me if I liked going to the movies or if I was seeing anyone, hugged me really tightly once. Dude was a weirdo for sure. Luckily, some of my other co-workers warned me about him and told me to say I was in a relationship. I remember feeling very uncomfortable 🤦♂️
Holy shit, not only does this bring attention to abuse like this, it’s a genuinely good story time animation.
Right’
But the boy in the grocery store was he underage tho if not he a bitch
Meh
I love all the effort put into the small details, such as body posture and facial expressions, two key components of conveying emotion.
@@dummythickdemon4295 ???? abuse is abuse
did anyone have this randomly appear in their recommnendations? like, i was expecting a meme-y, over-the-top thing but this seems good enough.
Same tbh
Yes
Same, but I'm glad it's not a meme cause this can be helpful in schools
Me watching this was kind of a Ok FINE ILL WATCH IT
Yea
This is animated very well.
This is the sort of things schools should show. They always show only women in these situations and the videos are always such a poor quality.
Exactly also is hard to relate if you are not a woman
Boring and ignorant lel 😔
agreed
Yeah they show the terrible, cringe ones and I hate them and also what you said too
@@bulbasaur8446 stfu no body fucking cares
Sometimes you can have no idea what’s happening for a long time. Sometimes you can realise what’s happening right from the get-go, but even then you still don’t know how to escape. There are so many different kinds of situations where sexual abuse can happen, and it can happen to anyone. Males, females, children, adults. It can happen in a workplace, in a school, in your own home. I can’t believe this still happens. It’s really not okay. I’m glad we have people like you raising awareness about these kinds of things.
I hate when people say that boys can’t be sexually assaulted/abused, no matter who you are it’s not your fault and you have the right to get support and help from others. Stay safe and don’t be afraid to speak up, it’s never your fault❤️❤️❤️
Bella DR yeah. Just because you’re a man, does not mean you can’t get sexually assaulted/abused.
*Judgemental* *Soldier* EXACTLY! I fucking hate when people say men can’t get assaulted, it’s annoying.
But who said that? I'm just asking, sorry if I sound rude.
Zaria The TH-camr Alot of tik tok cis woman :/
Little Animations so idiots?
I’m glad you guys included guys in this, not all abuse victims are women and not all predators are men
Je to pravda
So very true.
@@Zaynersyy you mean your private area? Bro you need to tell her to fuck off 😃
@@Zaynersyy have you let your parents know about it ?
we know but most are tho-
I’m so glad you added women sexually abusing men. Some people think that, that can’t happen.
Yeah. That can happen.
Me I know it’s more common with men but it can be anyone
Can a woman abuse an another woman?!
It happens but men are usually the ones telling the victimes that they should have enjoyed it.
artista the neko yas
I’m so glad that they included harassment through church! It is so common for it to happen, and for people to constantly be gaslit.
Yes and this type of grooming and abuse happened to me in church by a trusted pastor
This is why you need to do background checks on all priests consalers and teachers
Do background checks really work?
@@karlkhai51 depends
@@jeremiahbriney4899 Depends on what, if they already committed something and got caught or reported.
I agree sadly a lot of people think that oh because This person is doctors police religion leaders That rules don’t matter as much as everyone but it’s does wrong and abuse is never ok doesn’t matter who it is
They do for teachers. But like obviously they don't ever get caught in the first place
Finally, a well animated story time channel that doesn’t make fake stories about 6 year old kids getting impregnated by their dog.
But in all seriousness, this really shows that men can get groomed and abused by woman. Abuse is never ok and I’m glad to see that this video shows that even men can get assaulted and not just woman. Abuse is never ok, and if you are a victim of it, please tell someone you trust. Even if it seems like no one will believe you, there’s always someone holding you back.
Edit: how and why did this get attention?
You had me in the first sentence bro 😂😂😭😭😂💯
Also I agree with you
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The first sentence I---
Damn this got way more attention than it needed-
That first sentence...
Cue Nicki Manaj screaming "Die I lie?!"
As a person who was groomed and sexually assaulted in boyscouts by an older troop member. Im glad I got out of it and pushed away before anything worse happened
I'm so sorry to hear that. The same thing happened to my brother.
I’m quite worried for my cousin- he’s in boyscouts
@@-cattt its a fairly rare occurrence. Especially in my circumstance as it was a fellow member of my troop
You poor thing
@@-cattt oof
Hope nth happens to him
I’m really appreciative that this video is focusing more on grooming more rather than indirectly implying other untrue things like “gay people are predators” or “men are less likely to be abused”, unlike some other videos.
"If they're making you uncomfortable, THEY'RE in the wrong."
*In a sexual way
I agree with that, but in the 2nd situation I would like that tbh a girlfriend, a raise, and an easier time
Sounds great to me!
I’ve felt uncomfortable with someone who has done nothing wrong though.
I saw this right as he said it
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Whether you are a female or male, lesbian or gay, young or old, sexual abuse is still wrong.
Very true.
this. but it’s also important not to paint everyone of these groups as abusers. there are members of every group who are abusers, and members of every group who aren’t
@@radandsad3245 obviously thats what she said that anyone can be sexual abusers she never said the everyone in a certain community is a groomer😋
Exactly
Yea!
I had an abusive stepmom last year who would sexually harass me whenever she drank. My father didn’t do anything about it so I eventually I stood up to her on my own and now she’s out of my life. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or a woman, abuse is abuse and it shouldn’t be accepted no matter who commits it. Thanks for showing that men can be victims as well as women can.
PERIODT
i’m happy you’re free ❤️
Im sorry to hear that:( i hope u get better now🙏
So sorry to hear that, hope you're ok
Hope you feel better..!
I think I've been experiencing this too..but he's change :)
I hate how male victims of female abusers are ignored or called lucky it’s disgusting and cruel to treat abuse victims that way, I’m so sorry for those who went through that only to be invalidated after the abuse
Yeah, you're right. In fact, I once roasted a guy online for calling another guy who was raped by a woman a lucky one.
You know what happens a lot? When a man gets touched in a way that makes them uncomfortable, people call it seduction. When it happens to a woman, its sexual harassment. Double standards are the worst, it’s sexual harassment no matter who you are and who its from.
For real. I hate when i go to hang out with my friends in a bar, and some woman starts to touch my upperbody, just cause "i'm a guy and i don't have anything to touch there". Or when they are open to sex but kind of 'forcing it' on me. Like what the actual fuck. Then when i'm uncomfortable and tell them to stop or i don't want it, they call me gay(as if it would be a bad thing anyways lmao🤷🏻♂️). They would say i'm not a real man too. Fucked up as hell.
@@ko1619 Damn, can't believe they actually think that's okay. That's messed up.
feminist and female, and i strongly agree!
(prefacing it w that bc some ppl think women and feminists are b**ches)
EXACTLYYY.
I’m a girl and I agree. Stuff like that makes me mad.
I hate how some people ignore the fact that there are women sexual assaulters too
They can get away with it easier too.
@Me E th
Exactly, as a feminist it really makes me upset :/
A ACTUAL FEMINIST? MOM GET THE CAMERA, WE GOTTA PUT HTIS ON THE NEWS
Yeah it sucks how easily a woman can get away with it. The media would just say "oh he liked it" or "oh he didn't care until he was found out". That shit grinds my gears.
As a Christians I glad that you show how sick people use religion to his/her dark desires.
Well religion manipulates people, and so do religious people themselves
Yep my step dad who was catholic & then changed to Baptist and attends the church wanted to have sex with me. Me, my mom & brother are Evangelicals. I asked to borrow money to finish my pays for school & he said he would let me if I have sex with him. I always knew I never felt right around him & I’m 22. When I told my mom she was surprised. When my family heard either half believed me or half thought I was making it up. Idk why they are attached to him like why just because he’s baptist like y’all & my family like a different part of Christianity?
@@necro8840 nah people manipulate religion to fit their agenda
@@shaunibabe1 religion was and still is an escape from reality, biologically we are an animal like any other, and people are too afraid to accept that, and so people create gods that supposedly will take you to an afterlife, because accepting we are all fleshy machines for being born, reproducing and dying is just too hard
i don't expect to be agreed with, but the truth is right here in your face
Most priest at my catholic school paid for prostitutes with the school money.
Grooming can happen to adults. It happened to me at my last job(I was 31/32 at the time).This 55 year old man who worked in the deli told me that he saw me as more than a friend, after having friendly conversations and giving me little gifts or money. I told my bosses who told him to stay away from me, but he didn't listen. I told my dad, who's a 6' 4" grizzly bear of a trucker, and he came to my work one day(I was on my lunch break when he came). When the guy came in for his shift, he immediately came to me and tried to give me money, but I insisted that he keep it. When he got to the backroom, my boss took him back where my dad was waiting, and he told my dad that he was a "Christian man who believed in marriage before sex", which made my dad furious and he tried to play dumb and said he was "a little slow" when my dad told him I had said I didn't see him the way he saw me and that the gifts and money giving made me uncomfortable. He warned him that if he didn't stay away from me, period, that the law would get involved. He pretty much quit his job in the deli after that. But about a month later, he showed up at church one Sunday, and my mom and I sat as far away from him as we could get. He testified in church saying that he wanted to thank his "Good friend Lauren" for encouraging him to go to church again and said that he'd been sick for a while and asked the church to pray for him to get better. After the service, my mom and I were going to a baptism later that afternoon and we were waiting on our friends to finish up so we could all hang out until it was time to go to the baptism. Well, old Herbert the pervert came up behind me while I was talking to my friends and placed a hand on my shoulder, asking how I was and acting like he never confessed his feelings to me a month ago. I tensed up, but I never said a word and kept my back to him. He said he was ready to talk whenever I was and walked off. My friends noticed how tense I was and my face was almost paper white and I was shaking(he came to church the Sunday before he told me that he loved me and when we were getting ready to leave, he told my mom and I that he didn't want any of the kids near his van because he had "weapons of self defense" in there). My mama told my friend's dad what was going on and asked if he could distract him while we made our way to the car. He tried to follow us, but my friend's dad insisted that they go out the other door. Thankfully my mama and I were in her car, doors locked, etc., when he stepped outside and looked around like he was looking for us. After that we filed for an order of protection and we came to the agreement that he he would not be allowed at our church, the grocery store where I was working, or anywhere near me. I've changed jobs since then, but the whole thing scared me so bad, that I never leave my house without my pepper spray or pocket knife. Thankfully I haven't seen hide or tail or him, and I hope it stays that way
i didnt rwad this beacuwe im lazy 13 yo but i am recovering from talking... and metting a pedophile and i know how much it hurts hope u are okay❤
@@bambiidu3880are you okay??
I’m so sorry man you didn’t deserve that I hope it gets better
@@bambiidu3880yoo your spelling everything so good
@@Cobras-asmr thanks lol also Jesus loves you. ❤️
abuse is abuse,no matter sexuality,gender,age,someone will aways be a victim.
Or Race.'
@@deannamarin318 exactly
Silence kpop pfp
@@uninspiredhaven7893 yeah,I like K-pop, so what?
uninspired Haven we like Kpop stfu if u dun like it
No one should ever have to face through any type of abuse :(
Ronald McFart damn calm down if you need to let anger out at someone get a therapist
Benjamin Goodman I agree with you , no one ever should go through that
@@DonkEssb get some help
@@DonkEssb your stupid bruh get a life
heh, i deserve abuse. i’m so dumb & too sensitive, i just deserve to die.
It's kinda sad this video has to exist, but it's not a perfect world.
This world is no where near perfect, yet we have people who say "The world is a good place". 😐
@@seanthechallenger577 some parts it is not everything's messed up
Sean the Challenger yes and we also have dummies who say make the world great again when in reality it was never great.
People are not perfect too
@@seanthechallenger577 lmao what, I've never heard that
My school has to show videos about stuff like this every year. But, it had a VERY negative effect on the actual point. Everyone was making jokes like “your gonna be my next victim” “COACH IS THAT YOU?” and I just wish they showed these videos instead. As the characters don’t look funny nor the voices. I just really needed to get this out. Great work with these videos.
LMOA yeah that is funny. But maybe they just dont know what they really feel
am I the only one who got recommended this video for no reason
Yes
Depressed Italian No
@@skylovermc2146 yeah my reccomended is about 98% memes or shitpost
me too
no
I hate that straight men are supposed to “be happy” about getting touched. Or supposed to “enjoy it”. I’m not straight, but that sounds really uncomfortable.
I really though men like being touched like that because of all those meme but I started to interact with many male friends of mine, and I came to understand they are also very uncomfortable and don't like it. Those meme make me very uncomfortable now.
Exactlyyy, it’s like straight people have self control and the capacity to feel uncomfortable is certain sexual situation, they shouldn’t feel forced to enjoy something they don’t.
>supposed to “be happy”
wrong. you can choose to be happy that you're getting laid and you can choose to say no and smack the person who is trying to *ehssooolt* you
i remember the days of '19 when i was last a straight male...
but in all seriousness, since im not out to much people i will very likely get this and i hope noone else does
Keerthi Bushan they’re happy if a girl touches them not a man.
The abusers looked hurt about why the person they were coaxing would suddenly turn on them when they were going so long without saying anything. It's a minor detail, but one I greatly appreciated that was included. Sometimes that final breaking point can make you seem like you were over reacting and being rude or it may even seem like it's your fault for leading them on in the first place. It's a guilt wrenching and confusing experience for victims, but the thing is no one should ever go along with something they're not comfortable with.
Because of it before seeing this I am happy that I have perminantly left those kind of groups who were literally on purpose sending porn stickers and gifs to the group chats and I have never ever ever ever ever watched it and will never watch it it is disgusting I think that they were trying to make me and other people who never watched these kind of stuff try to make us be like them like a bunch of wild animals who have never seen women's and men's before and I am never going back there cause those people literally crossed my boundaries multiple times and tried to groom me into them. 😒🤢
thank u for showing male victims!!! as a woman they r always overlooked its sick :(((
Real
Idk man, absolutely any content spreading awareness about female victims is absolutely flooded with "NOT ALL MEN" and “MEN GET SA'D TOO".
@@Brunette_2005 I get your argument about some men saying that stuff and its absolutely wrong, especially since most of them probably haven't veen through it. But these experiences deserve to be talked about for both genders. It doesn't do anyone justice to put victims down or try to argue who has it worse. So its a good thing both are being talked about here.
Honestly I appreciate them showing male victims because for some reason they are treated like a joke
Yeah, that's messed up. Not only women can be sexually harassed, okay?
They are especially not as much to talked about like women are because people think that men can't be assaulted or get raped or attacked by a woman but I think it's possible whatever the gender of the person is anyone is capable of harming someone else
i know right, and its so upsetting. anyone could become a victim of abuse, no matter the age gender race etc.
unfortunately, even clinician still hold negative stigmas about male sexual abuse. I appreciate this video too!
Yeah because even though more often than not it's a woman experiencing abuse or being assaulted men get abused and manipulated and assaulted as well
And it's really sad when people say that you're either supposed to man up or if a woman is doing it that's just her flirting with you and you're just "supposed to like it"
It's the double standard for me
I’m glad the female abuser just looks like an average woman and not a gross monster. Never understood why in these situations in fiction women had to be inhumanly ugly or else you couldn’t justify a man not enjoying their advances. Her approach also isn’t overly creepy, just a tender kiss, but he is still completely justified in not liking it.
This
TRUE
Exactly! We need more people like you in our world. 💜
My own brother groomed me not for sex just t make me look worse
@@BREAKCORE-DISSOCIATE what
Everyone can be an abuser and everyone can be a victim. No boundary can negate. Gender, race, religion, etc. does not have any weight in the situation when it comes down to sexual abuse or rape. It is the same of course for other variety of situations but since it’s on the topic of sexual assault and grooming, that’s the situation I’m emphasizing.
What if he/she's God?
CheatblueVII welp...ur fucked... XD
@@cheatbluevii9123 That would be Zeus.
Vang Le La depends on what you believe in
@@noemers6916 nah literally if you read Greek mythology, Zeus is a fucking weirdo
I unfortunately was groomed when I was 11 to 12 by a 20 something year old man on discord..
He gained trust and manipulated and talked about..explicit stuff with me and all that stuff..I knew it was wrong and I was so scared. But I didn’t tell anyone because at the same time I cared about him.. I *trusted* him.
One day when I turned 12 I finally had enough of what he was doing to me and so I left a server he put me in , unfriended him and blocked him.
I’m so glad I could get myself out of that situation and I’m glad nothing happened to me physically..though the disgusting shit he talked about and said to me and asked me to do (obvi refused) still sticks with me..
Though I’m free now :))
You did good,some people gets in things like that for years ..the 20 something category Is usually the manipulator one ..i had a chat friend like that , a girl ..so involved , sweet and supportive ( and needy but you know , She seemed so pure and sweet )and all but It was fake , She gradually showed herself as narcissist ,putting sexual stuff i didnt want to talk about in chat , like A LOT, and was gross stuff ..then i became depressed and She said She would not care of my problems ( i wanted to talk you know ..) ..i ignored her for two years then She texted , i replied something cold and generic but She had blocked me ( tricking me into thinking She was in danger , i checked and She werent ) .some people want a friend , others want a pet
Sorry for venting , it's not bad as yours It does not compare , just saying it's ok not to care of they dont in the First Place ..
I hope you’re okay!
ok lets just say that men can be victims too and be abused by women and that sexual abuse needs to STAHP
Yep
Yes
Yes
777
I'm sorry I understand you're comment but not that last word at the end :(
I’m glad they talked about assault from a woman, assault from women is often overlooked, and it’s great that they touched up on it :)
Ngl I know what about say seem stupid but I will let a cute women take advantage of me
Cj Ball you should be so lonely and ugly to said that, right?
Cj Ball depending on the girl the situation ya
Why does this remind me of the meat canyon McDonald's video
Cj Ball you feel that way until it happens to you. if you aren’t attracted to the person then unwanted attention starts to be uncomfortable.
I like the mention of the “every guy’s dream, right?” idea. So many sexual abuse victims that are male are told that it’s a boy’s fantasy, especially when a male student is abused by a female teacher. Not only are they downplaying the seriousness of the abuse, but they’re also glorifying it, which is truly awful.
I've never heard that stereotype before? Interesting but mostly disgusting
right^^
They did this in stranger things with Karen Wheeler and Billy Hargrove.
@@memesdear2323 Bro look at the comment section there are idiots saying that the boys were lucky and they want to have that happen to them too I swear.
@@ram3n161 Bro, if I had a boss like that, I'd be fucking happy. And he'll buy you a beer, and something else. This is a dream job! (YES I'm a guy)
To anyone who has been through this I feel horrible for you. No one deserves this, and it was never your fault!
As a victim of SA thank you. No one ever told me this really. You made my day
My dad works a 11pm to 7am work shift and he always is trying to catch up on sleep. When me and my brother were little there was a lady who worked for our school that always asked my dad if she could baby sit us. My dad mentioned her being very insistant and rather uncomfortable in her constant asking, so my dad never agreed to let her take care of us because of that off vibe she gave. We recently saw on the news that this women was now being sentenced to prison for multiple child abuse crimes. Kinda makes me wonder what could of happened.
You have a good father
Your dad has ultra instinct and you’re lucky for that. I’m glad you dodged a bullet there. It’s terrible what she did and I’m glad those victims got at least some justice.
Ur dad is a great man.
you have a good father
sorry to be that person, but could've*
Evil people that hide behind God sicken me
It’s similar to using gods name in vain witch is different than saying Jesus Christ or what people usually say it means using god to your bad or evil advantage just like churches in the mideval times where they say if you give me Thai much amount of money I will forgive all your sins
Same. Im catholic and their is a huge problem with pedophilia in the catholic. Church it really sucks that people can call themselves fearful of god and still do this kind of shit.
I don’t believe in god so I won’t apply this to situations
Pure Viking it’s so frustrating and stains the image of the God they claim to represent
Big Noob they take advantage of people that do knowing full well that what they’re doing is fcked up
As a male victim of child sex trafficking I appreciate the message this sends. Some demons refuse to let you escape. But with knowledge and preparation and the comfort to know someone understands comes the strength to resist. Sometimes resistance is impossible. It's forgiveness of one's self that can allow for healing. Anyone who has been abused...you are wonderful and beautiful and it's going to be ok. Never blame yourself and always know there is a second chance....feeling lost is natural, we all walk down roads that are filled with many surprises, both good and bad. Sometimes you will reach a tree fallen on the road and not know where to go. Turn back? Climb over? Take a turn? It's confusing ..no one path is perfect for everyone ..but don't ever give up. Seek comfort In family, friends, and compatriots. Those who love you will stay those who don't will leave. Most importantly of all don't let anyone make you lose sight of your true self...losing yourself and becoming someone else to suit another's whimsy is a true hell forgetting who you are.....it can be a lifelong journey to rediscover your true self ...just never lose sight of who you are. We love you. The whole internet 100s of thousands of people we got your back so yeah. Abuse victims...you never give up. Never ever ever.
Such a true message! The past is the past, and they can become wonderful 💖
Much love man 💓
☹️Keep yourself safe lovely💕 I’m sorry you went through that- head up! Stay strong willed!! 💕💕
@@ZephOccult Yes, stay strong! 🥰🥰😙😙 And always know you have someone, no matter how far or close they are, that supports and helps you! 😁😁😊😊😉😉
Well, for me it's more of the prossess of waiting. I heard from some documentary that your cells die out and grow in new ones so that in seven years, it'll technically be a body that your abuser never touched.
I love this channel, it shows others what people think while they r being harassed, and unfortunately i have been harased like this before. People just say" oh. Its just the past, get over it"but i cant, everyday i think about it, its hard to let go of something that really traumatized you, it stresses me out alot.
I’m Christian and that priest shouldn’t be a priest
I'm not Christian and I agree
I agree😞
I'm an atheist and I 100% agree
I am an athiest and maybe he was just hiding it so nobody knows about it?
I'm a Christian and I agree with you, that priest is an evil person, a wolf in sheep's clothing. Those kind of people are the enemy.
Men can get harassed and sexually. Not just women and that has to get out in the world.
Yup
For real
True
but most women
AGGR3SSIV3 When a man gets harassed or sexually, no one cares and that has to get out in the world not just women.
Here’s a quote i found from someone
“If you found a church that isn’t for you, a church that seems to be corrupted, a church that allows these stuff that is clearly against the word of God, a church that is blasphemy, a church that has leaders who aren’t they are supposed to be… You are allowed to walk away from that church, you can freely leave, But one thing.. *Don’t walk away from Christ/God :)*
Thank you! There are corrupt churches because people are corrupt. That doesn’t mean God is.
Why do most churches seem corrupted then?
This is a great message, and it's honestly better than those clickbait animated stories all over youtube
Yeah it's really well produced. The voice acting and animation are respectable. Helps the message get across effectively.
Thank god there’s a normal animated stories channel
🍇
Great or grape
@@J0kers. this is a strong message noone will have carrot 😈
I was expecting some meme or some clickbait but i was wrong this was actually educational
The Djebate got djebated
The weird thing is... I was thinking the same thing as you because I always have memes on my recommendation page lmao
Same here
@Dont go to my channel i realized at the last minute only
Ikr xD
People complaing this is getting recommended to them, but honestly this is a really good video and I'm glad it got recommended to me, it deserves to be shared and known
This comment deserves more likes
True
My favorite comment🤓🤓🤓😍
Me who just watches jojo roblox videos
Exactly
thank you for raising awareness about grooming, and especially with male representation. Males are often depicted as the abusers and not the abused.
For all those who are questioning why this is in their recommendations the answer is yes, it is due to TH-cam algorithm but that doesn’t necessarily make it meaningless. During this pandemic children are at home far more than usual due to the quarantine and as you know, child abuse tends to happen at home and in private places more than anything else leaving children victim to abuse exposed to 10 times more abuse than usual. This recommendation is also being sent to a certain range of ages, estimated to be from ages 12-17 years old.
yeah
ty
Ty
Nah it's meaningless to me first I have no problem with a girl coming on to me as long as I know her and second we scraping at the first sign
Kayz even if she’s 40?
Men can be victims too! 👏
And women can be creeps too! 👏
Ty for this message!
Exactly, some people just don’t get it and it’s sickening
True all genders can be creeps and victims
Shut up man
They always can.
@@daye__kimmostly because its rare
As a male victim of grooming this really hit home and has me in legitimate tears. Thank you so much for spreading such a important message and increasing awareness
I hope that you are doing better now!
i hope ur ok, ur rlly strong 🥺❤️
What is grooming
Albedo it’s when someone cuts your hair with pet clippers
Jahseh Chilton HAHHAA I KNOW IM NOT SUPPOSED TO LAUGH ON A VID LIKE THIS BUT THAT IS FUNNY HAHAHAHA
I saw a video talking about a manga wich was about a boy that was abused by woman and he had PTSD and that things, AND THE COMMENT SECTION WAS COMPLETLY FULL OF PEOPLE SAYIN "it should been me, not him", so im glad they have put woman abusers in this video.
I'm happy you guys added different genders ages and people of colour. Anyone can do things like this.
Egg
@@poopsock48 egg
@@kat9130 e g g 👩🏻🦲
@@poopsock48 _E G G_
@@kat9130 yeah ❤️
Grooming and sexual assault are disgusting and gross.
You should never touch someone sexually unless it's a mutual feeling and you're both ok with it.
Also if you are both consenting adults
Grooming and sexual abuse o que significa isso em português?
@@甘い子猫 true
@@joseliadiassousa4586 I can't read spanish
no espanhol is português, Portugues is Brasil
I myself was a groomed girl who was sexually abused I was only 10 and was already going through all of this and I didn’t even know what was happening to me until finally I found out and cut all contact with him now that I’m free from him I feel better but I still feel like people are gonna hurt me.( thank you for those of you have been giving so much love in the comments i love you all and wish you guys the best)
That was so brave of you to share that 💕💕💕
Akiko Fukuwara 福原 秋子 thank you
I believe you
I'm so sorry that happened to you, but you are strong, and brave for sharing your experience
Loveeby Amore thank you
Thank you so much for making this video, after all that grooming and abuse from my hostel warden I still think it was my mistake, but after watching this video I just felt some relief or maybe the sense that it wasn't my fault, but still I get ptsd often 😭😭, I think I will never come out of that feeling, I still can't hug my friends rather than just some handshakes
Doesn't matter about what gender you are, female, male, or other. Anybody can be a sexual abuser so the only one you have to look out for yourself, it's really hard to think everyone is a good person. And I'm glad this channel we address what kind of abusers they are and what genders this is a real good channel.
Super Felix Bloopers
other usually terms to people who don’t want a specific label so they stick with them/they
I go by them not he or she so thank you for wring “or any other”
Super Felix Bloopers yeah like non-binary people
Sonic from the early 2000’s: “THATS NO GOOD!”
*Laughs in Sonic fan*
That was the 90s bud
Remember, If someone touches you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, that's no good.
Great, now all I hear is Arin from Game Grumps doing that impression of Sonic. 🤣
You mean the 90's?
I like how this is addressing how males can be sexually abused
Same! I hate how society doesn't care when males are abused!
Mhm, yes thanks for telling us the same thing the other 8,000+ comments are telling us.
@@omransaeed1988 Mhm, get mad at a damn comment.
True it doesn't matter how you are young, old men, women
@@omransaeed1988 mmh, yeah maybe because there's still too much people that think that only women can be abused?? And that if a woman abuses a male then its a privilege??... and that's why we're commenting about it more than 8,000+ times??? So we can change the mind of people like that?
So glad, SO glad they acknowledged that men can also be victims, 99% of these videos have girls as the victim, while the man is downplayed when they’e a victim.
it is because girls tend to be more vulnerable due to social expectations and patriarchy, but I get what you want to say.
It's comments like you doing no justice. You care more about representation alone to the point that you speak degradingly about the other victims
This shows that ANYONE yes, I said ANYONE can be a sex offender. No matter a priest, your siblings or even your parents, you can never know their true identity.
Also why is this recommended to everyone right now
Since Corona the number of child abuse increased
Well yes that's the point of the video, they included everyone. You're saying what was already said
I was thinking the same thing but the message is clear and needs to be told and repeated sexual abuse is not okay and everyone can be affected.
you could be an abuser then
@@elantipelotudo8281 lmao yeah, nobody can trust anyone but all I can say is that sex offenders are extremely disgusting, they torture such young and innocent children.
I have learned about this not long ago, that's why I'm shocked about how many things I haven't learned, considering I'm 13.
All I'm saying is you guys need to stay safe in this world. Everyone cannot trust anyone 100%.
sexual abuse is wrong i dont get why there's dislikes
Bots
bots.
theyre bots xd youtube doesnt want to have a perfect youtube video with no dislikes
Not just sexual abuse, any abuse is wrong
cause they are sexual abuser obviously
This won't stop appearing in my recommended, I feel like TH-cam is trying to say something.
Are you okay? You can always talk.
That, or YOU need to talk to someone who needs to see this video.
@@thewatcherinthecloud Im fine. I've never been a victim, I was just joking about TH-cam predicting the future, Thanks for the concern tho
@@thewatcherinthecloud You sound like a sweet person. Kudos to you for your care and empathy.
Showed up in mine too I think they’re showing this to reduce the backlash of them having the cuties trailer on their website
I got this recomendation because i was watching wabbit season
Love this video! Got groomed online, had an online friend I joked around with. He had more ’dirty humor’ but other then that no real red flag. So saw him as an aquintance. Then he send me nude without my consent. Told him What the f and he Said sorry. But I blocked him shortly after. I was 14.
Thanks for making this video and explaining so good both stories
I was sexually abused by my girlfriend and it really helps to see stories about how men were sexually abused. A lot of people don’t believe me whenever I talk about it because I’m a guy. Even my own parents were skeptical of what happened when I told them.
Please respect all sexual abuse victims! It’s really important.
Hit her with a bag of marshmallows ( melted and in the head)
Revenge
Judith Llaguno YES YES YES YES lmao
I’m so sorry man. How did it happen?
I'm so sorry for you dude, a lot of men get sexually abused and don't get enough attention. People don't realize that men also get sexually abused or raped and it's really sad. Hope you're ok dude 👍
@@freeminecraft2003 ikr male rape victims needs to be acknowledge more. Still can’t believe there are so many people that believe men can’t be raped.
The worse feeling is nobody's believing you 😶
Fr 😟
I would always believe u
It's called quit lying your ass off. Buyers remorse is not rape. Similarly, it ain't sexual abuse of any kind of you go looking for it.
@@Harlem55 Do you feel comfortable writing this comment? Especially on people talking about their abuse? You're okay with that? Just saying people's trauma is their own fault? You haven't gone through their exact experience and cannot say what isnt and what is true even if you've gone through something similar.
@Anime Chan137 Can you possibly be any vaguer than typing "yes" as a response? You don't make any damn sense whatsoever.
So glad that you guys established a female abusers, not many people believe females can be predators/pedophiles too and I'm glad your educating people!
do many people actually think that?!?! i never met ANYONE ever say or think that... well except from the incel men on tiktok who prob want attention.
@@CybrV-1 Go on Twitter. It's horrid on there.
@@CybrV-1 yes you'd be suprised at the amount of people who believe that, I dont have any form of a link but based on American data of police reports of sexual assault (men reporting there female abusers) cops dont believe them. If u want u can check more in that.
@M33ble I find that very hard to believe. Are you telling me that somewhere in the world rape isn't considered a crime?
Bmgyu. Look at the comment section of any news story of a female teacher that’s been arrested for statutory rape. You will find plenty of men and women who say that the kid should consider himself lucky.
*Abuse is abuse.* doesn't matter what gender or reglion.
" *He* hit me."
" *She* hit me."
*It doesnt matter*
Abuse is abuse
A six minute video taught me more than my 12+ years of education
Same
Thats school. Wasting 5-7 hours of your existance for no reason when you could be doing something more productive
Doubt that
based
@ It's a 2-for-1 joke about how much of the stuff that is taught in schools is useless, and how this video is very informative and useful
this is just so disgusting- the way some people actually have the mindset to do things like this makes me sick :(
It's a question of power. Power corrupts, no matter how people in charge will call themselves and on base of what will consider themselves more powerful- be it political or commerctial hierarchy, money, age or gender/race
Everyone is sick if you think about it
@@loospylinda465 I think what they are trying to say is people take the notion of power to their heads and that it corrupts people to doing things into manipulating others. Or at least thats how I took it.
same dude :(
@@timothyparham5064 @Loospy Linda
thanks, that's what i meant. I've reread, what i've written there, truly, I could rephrase it better
abuse is wrong. no matter what kind of abuse it is.
Your basicly sonic from the eqrly 2000's
Agreed
Cynthia Torres what
Smore uncultured
Sitting Crowd ok?
Y did I find this at 12 am for no reason 💀💀💀
Same it’s 11pm and I’m going to watch some of this videos
The video is cool and everything, but can we talk about how good the animation is?
Homboll the thot slayer it looks like wild kratts
Its so much better then those ’aNiMaTeD sToRy TiMe’ Videos-
Yes it is
@@majora_03 facts
It really is tho lol
I have trust issues because I'm scared of this happening.
Meep Weep chances are low, but that does not mean it will never happen. Be careful
*Judgemental* *Soldier* :)
dead channel some victims conquer they’re their trauma and some just keep it coming sadly..
I have trust issues because it happened
local asshole me too
I’m glad u added a woman abuser. Everyone is always focused on men. And this is such a good video the animation and voice acting is perfect.
Grace T because it’s worlds less common. But it does happen. and there has to be some significant power difference: in this instance she was his boss and much older.
@@AvacadoChan is it tho ?
I mean, there are a lot of way to abuse someone, and women are more likely to be believed contrary to the men.
I sometimes hear how the abusives women threaten to tell the police that the men abuse them if they fight back.
I don't really know how many men are abused, but the number is probably higher than what we know.
I’ve heard it’s about 45 - 47% of men victims that are/have been abused, raped, etc.
Ikr
This video is so good. It’s so rare to see videos that acknowledge men can be groomed and taken advantage of. Not only that, but the fact that they also shared that pastors can be predators too was incredibly important.
Grooming can still happen to young adults even when they're in their 20s.
@Ghost The Clyde wth that’s not how it works. Sometimes adult don’t have a say because it’s their boss or someone important to them, they don’t want to lose their job or a loved one.
@Ghost The Clyde right tryna make a d@mb excuse
@@gwynzynoodles2553 what did he say?
No it can't
No, that's not grooming. That's sexual harrassment