Could u plz mention sir... That dont confuse spiritual narcissists with genuine empaths who have extra sensory perceptions intuitive clairvoyant abilities..... Who actually can channel messages from spirit guides..
@@obscurum6 there are narcs who fake spirituality... But twinflames clairvoyants lightworkers are real... N it is so sad to see this.. Just as narcs make victims feel crazy unheard unseen same way in this video danish sir did to actual twinflames Or psychics.. We exist.. We are rare... Many claim to be one of us but truth is there are some twinflames psychics clairvoyants
Same happened to me. Nearly destroyed me, but I came out better and stronger after I healed. We can win this spiritual battle, but it takes everything we’ve got.
Narcissists are MORE religious than normal people because they're terrified of death and dying. Plus they like to feel special and religion gives them that.
When I was in a narcissistic relationships I used to think that person is my twin flame and he is not treating me the way I deserved because he has some past wounds, he Is a runner and I have to heal my past and wounds in order to come in a reunion. The immense pain I felt because of the emotional abuse and trauma bond. In so called "Twin flame" journey they label it as a 'Twin Flame' separation pain. I mean Wtfuck is this, Thank God saved me from that monster! 🙏🙏 Beware of such "Twin Flame' stories that will never help you to heal. Infact believing these fake fairy tales that would get you stuck in your abuse for forever.
But its a part of ascension journey .....some people dnt wan to hear truth they say Ur not on a true twinflame journey just to satisfy their ego n b in the loop.....🙏🏻🤣
Coz its spelll of demonic energy ....so it seems hard but when u clease ur aura n connect with The most high .....that spell is nothing but atrash then to u❤
As a narc survivor who turned to spirituality, if you do turn to spirituality don't go to any guru. Read as much on your own and meditate as much and practise mindfulness. Your worth was taken from you and now you must learn to become your own master
Needed this video!! I have just escaped a spiritual narcissist who tried to destroy me psychologically (dark empath and perhaps even psychopathy). I was minding my own business, enjoying their content (warning they are a (very) minor public figure), and she randomly saw me as a threat and her jealousy led her to try and terrify me by recreating my coercive control trauma by trying to program me away from my dreams through invalidation, 'don't you know that's not what spirituality is about', 'oh how repressed you are with all that reactive anger' (because they feel they lack what my goals consist in-developing compassion). They also tried to spiritually attack me, invade my dreams, they corded me, tried to do black magic on me, drain my energy. It's difficult to describe this because most people don't believe in the esoteric stuff, but that was the worst part, they are completely evil and they really do hide behind the mask of of 'enlightened person'.
I trust you. There a whole lot bunch of different kinds of nasty persons out there. We can never know until we get in too close to them and see their true side.
@@beingcreative3750 Thank you 🙏Yeah I'm trying to forgive myself for getting involved, because 'appearances can be deceiving' is definitely the lesson I learned very harshly here.
@@R.P.-hw2rq Thank you 🙏 Yes, I had to learn all of this through the experience to get through it. Ironically or not so ironically this experience has strengthened my personal spirituality a lot.
@@R.P.-hw2rq Yes, exactly! My experience with the type that Danish describes led me to discover all about Narcissism and how it had affected my whole life. Only through this knowledge could I break free from that. It's spooky, because even the dream part happened just like he said! It's sometimes called the "love-bite". Maybe demons are setting us up for this, if we are already vulnerable to it?
When you encounter a spiritual narcisists like the ones you have Sp well described Danish the question: „ What the hell?” Is the only one to be asked. You can hear the snake’s hissing when they speak.
Danish, I would deeply appreciate if you would consider doing a video on “artistic” narcissists. My father was a minor celebrity and is obsessed with not feeling “ordinary”. He’s now old and desperate. I am older (he does not like older women in general), have failed to bring an artistic “hit” to lay at his feet now he’s thrown his obsession into my younger sister who is pursuing the celebrity life. He treats servers/working people people terribly. If he’s not being dismissive of them, then he’s lecturing them with his great Wisdom. His whole effing life revolves around feeling special. It’s taken me 49 years throw off the shackles of this man.
I should add that I am not totally free of beating myself up for not having created something great or good or notable. I wonder if I have narcissistic tendencies too. I have an autoimmune disease and multiplying health problems. I am pretty sure I have Asperger’s at least and the question I always wanted to ask my dad after he threw me away is this: “God forbid you ever had a child with a real disability, one who’d be unable to deliver success for you to vicariously live by. They’d have zero worth to you and probably would have committed suicide by now. After all, what other basis for self-esteem would have been instilled in them by their parents?”
@@natcheztracefan Sounds like you've been gaslighted. Narcissists transfer their insecurities and failures to everyone around them. Perhaps this has happened to you. Reject the guilt trip. You are not in this world to live up to your father's unrealistic expectations. You and your sister are here to fulfill your own life goals. Sounds like he failed in his own grandiose aspirations. Maybe he wasn't that talented or whatever. He can't now expect to live vicariously through you or demand that you fulfil HIS fantasy. It isn't up to daughters (or sons) to do that. Perhaps taking your issues to a trained counselor can help you separate the sources of your discomfort. Videos such as this one can help to reject gaslighting. It's sad when a narcissistic parent causes such pain and confusion. I hope you and your sibling can find answers and peace.
My "enlightenment" was the realisation that such a type person could exist. The greatest lesson of my life. She can "nama-stay the f*** away". Thank you once again Danish
Thank you Danish 🙏This is much needed content in today's day and age... "Twin flame" relationships end up glorifying narcissistic abuse with concepts like Devine masculine being able to do whatever they want and the Devine feminine needing to chase them! (Sounds more like devaluing and discarding) and the abuse victim justifying their abuse there after. I'm very glad that there's finally awareness around this space. 🙌
Hey, this twin-flame craziness is alarming thing sadly. Twin-flame connection is real but it's very very rare. And even if it real romantizing this is the issue. Twin-flame journey is not about finding one true love it's a inner journey. And justifying any behaviour in the name of Twin-flame shouldn't be accepted. Sadly those who know nothing about is journey is becoming coach now a days and taking them in very wrong direction.
Very true. I remember watching a video on what a twin flame is like and hearing terms like “karmic” and I’m like okay so basically the karmic is the narcissist.
Hope n relationship ......I am sooo much grateful towards Divine ...u r awake ...Twinflame journey is nothing but its a soul tie n Divine guided me to release it its a very nasty toxic n they r somatic sexual narcissits seperation is divine is seperating coz they r toxic ur kundalini rises coz of ur safety its a weapon against demon n chanelling messege songs r nothing but fake facade of demon tarot readers r nothing they r being traped by lower dimensional energies yes it resonate if ur on the same vibration ..its a toxic tie should hav to b releasse past lives toxic they come as a pasionate lover traped u n leave revengeful energy they r .....Every 1 is fantasicing ths twinflame but its its totally wrong its all kaliyuga Narcissits ...they r so much manupulative plz i request dont watch alll this Kaliyuga illusion its a looop ur dm df is coming they say allll nonsense plz pray they never ever come they r Demooons.....Coz soul never get burn split its already complete ....n Twinflame is Covert sexual somatic narcissists relationship n empath light vs dark...Thank you .....plz dnt beleive ths words but try to listen n red flags are imp thank you🙏🏻♥️
You have just described a connection I recently went through. He was helping me until I was able to take my power back and see through his BS. He didn’t like that though, as I was no longer submissive (his words) he wanted full control over me. Our last two conversations he was deliberately trying to energetically overpower me, I was able to hold my own which really triggered his ego, not heard from him since. Trust your intuition, stand in your power, they are vampires that prey on individuals not fully understanding their own power, to attach and drain your energy dry.
False light teachings can mess with minds, emotions and destroy lives. We need to stay discerning, sentient, sovereign, humble and kind. I've experienced this and steer clear by knowing myself well enough, thanks for going there Danish. 💖
Was looking for this term. False light is a real thing. People who try to be in charge of a person's growth and what they are supposed to learn at the pace set by them. It's belittling. Everyone is free to make choices. You can't be super condescending and say you love someone. That's not love, that's toying with their spirit. People's minds are really a sacred thing for real. Leading someone down a path that is hurtful cannot possibly feel good to someone who actually cares about you. I've met some false lights and it's pretty infuriating to see it happen in real time. Taking advantage of people who are looking for answers, making them pay money, not caring that they are crying etc. It's so messed up. It's a big part of why the spiritual community gets made fun of. There's been countless "gurus" that have straight up turned into cult leaders. It's insane
I’d like to see a video on religious narcissism. I have an inkling I was raised by one. It’s very hard to wrap my head around because in many ways I’m thankful for the knowledge I got about the Bible but I actually have a lot of traumatic memories of how the religion was used as a control mechanism, love was conditional on doing things the way that particular religion said, and I was often gaslighted to believe I was crazy or over sensitive when it came to some of the bad treatment I received by others in the religion because it was like anything they did was excused because they proclaimed to be part of that religion. So if I expressed that I didn’t like how someone treated me I was reprimanded and told there was nothing wrong with what they did or said.
That is abuse! I've also been harassed by a religious fanatic narcissist who uses religion as her excuse and recruits her brother in her campaign of slander and torment. The brother is a covert narcissist who sees her as an ally rather than the malignant narcissist she is. She uses religion and the Bible to support her behavior. It's a unique situation where a narcissist gaslights another narcissist! I don't know which one is more evil, him or her. She's cruel to other family members too. I can't leave. Other family members see this. I have tried to stop her but she flies into a rage attacking each one. Cluster B narcissistic and histrionic. I have no idea how to cope with it.
Religious husband is a narc It's crazy how they use beautiful religion and use it against u to have more power and take advantage of this and forget u have rights aswell. These types of people make u forget ur religion. If my faith was weak I would have believed everything and left my religion long time ago.. Their crazy
Yes, my brother is one of these. He says that I'm not going to heaven because I don't go to church. He told my niece that, and since she didn't want to get in trouble for telling me, I haven't been able to explain that it's the relationship, not the works that get you into heaven. He's going to be very surprised when he gets to his final destination. It's very sad, because, my granddaughter, who lives with him thinks that religion is just a front. Why wouldn't she think that when she's living with him? He's VERY active in his church.
Please Danish, could you make a video for children who are still dependent on their narcissistic parents to help them protect themselves until they can leave? Young people are watching your channel too! Your videos are so amazingly helpful!
I agree 💯 Have seen and thought it was a friendly competition, but there was NO peace or spiritual grace, only DISHARMONY and eventually disengagement after the narc's spiritual defeat.
Very accurate! I had found so many of these NARCS in search for spiritual growth, I found them in all tradition and sects, evangelist, new age, Catholic etc..
Thank you for sharing this. I was married to a grandiose narcissist, and heavily traumatised for many years. Then i went on my spiritual journey to find answers and heal myself. On my journey i met this insightful person, we had so much in common. As i was now more diligent in spotting NPD. i was experiencing the criticism, lack of empathy, constant unsolicited advice and trying to fix me. When i raised that i didn't like this behaviour and my boundaries were crossed, he would get annoyed at me. I eventually realised he was an unaware covert narcissist. I am still on my journey of healing and removing these narcissists in my life. Thank you for sharing your videos they are healing and validating ❤
oh god, this. this was my dad. he convinced me that he was deeply connected to god, that his was the only guidance i'd ever need. i spent decades locked in his grasp convinced that everything he said and did was from god himself, and if i disagreed with him then i was disrespecting god. only after he died did i realize how manipulative, cold and selfish he truely was.
My father told me the world would end soon my whole life citing so-called prophets. We were homeschooled in the woods and we had little contact with the outside world. I am 33 and still can't look people in the eyes without cringing and feeling a sense of dread. Me and my 9 siblings were told the world is wholly evil and everyone is evil and out to get you, the family home is the only safe place.
That’s the name of my book “spiritual narcissism”…. 5 years in the making and every time I think I’m ready to compile my content. I experience more narcissism.
Hmmm. wolves in sheep's clothing is all I can say. my mother was a narcissist (when I didn't know any such thing existed) and while I did search out God and look to heal from within (changing me), my mother was espousing being, a "born again" and telling (or rather, trying to prove) to others how "evil" I really was, what a pagan I was, and how deviant she insisted I was in reality, to others. I of course, never had a clue. I was sooooo naive but I had been raised by her to "pretend" what I believed wasn't real and to just, "pretend" it didn't exist. To never trust what I was feeling, because I had no value, of course. So I did that, to try to get her love and approval. She did put on the act of going to church (a "born again" church, wherein you "just say this sentence and you are saved!") for a little while but soon found fault and blamed the church for her not feeling welcomed (okay) but tried to tell everyone how evil I was behind my back. I guess the forces impelling her, which influenced her, were greatly upset by my having God in my life because it was actually helping me and evil just wants you to die.
Excellent topic, Danish. Two times at two different places. I was approached by someone who could "help" Me gain my true self. Those people scare Me. Yes they are very dangerous. Jim Jones Heavens Gate Waco
😂😂😂 OMG you are amazing Danish 😻 so spot on and funny as hell 🤣 yes i had just one like that last time. But i can see through this BS so i can say i gave her some significant narcissistic injuries in a few months and dumped her without any chance for her to try and get back at me. What pieces of shit they are. Disgusting
Thank you for your wisdom on this subject Danish. The worse ones are the ones who claim to love God's moral principles. I call them faith fakers. They want you to suffer in their spiritual hell.
Holy moly this is my father to a t. I really needed this. When my father blamed me for not believing in god enough even though I was so devout. It crushed me, I thought I knew myself I thought I was very spiritual.
Sounds like a lot of christians. My therapist was the most dangerous creature I have ever known. Therapy abuse and exploitation has destroyed our lives, and nearly killed us. Her mixed bag of religious jargon and messages of how people normally handle things, and what other societies determine as natural, and telling me, "No pain, no gain. You can't walk around it. You have to walk through it." Her message to me, "God won't give you more than you can handle", a horrific abuse to me. My therapist gave me more than I could handle. Her exploitation and abuses had nothing to do with God.😢
These are fake Christians, not real, those who do not belong to Jesus, are what you are describing here, unfortunately. True Christians will manifest the love of Jesus, which is a winsome and healthy thing. Christ himself said that many would come in his name, whom he would disown, and for good reason too. :(
For me, this type of narcissist is the most blatantly obvious: they speak words that are so disingenuous that if you show them any look of disbelief or mistrust, they immediately notice and suddenly disappear. For them, it might be their creepy, lecherous and fake behavior and voice that makes them so transparent. Many spiritual gurus and yoga instructors fall neatly into this group. Euwww. Good impression, Danish, but not creepy enough LOL. 😀😉
They intrude and steal from you your most sacred aspect. It's a truly cruel invasion, taking advantage of someone's hope & soul-seeking, and often in their darkest hour. If you manage to extradite yourself you run the risk of turning away from spirituality altogether.
Yes this is exactly what I went through. I could not ask any questions of the doctrinal teachings’ validity especially if anyone else was in the room. Then I was “trying to confuse people and lead them astray”. He would rage at me in private for doubting him and trying to make him look stupid. If it was really true he should have been able to answer my questions! I’m so glad I went no contact.
how ironic. narcissists think they are saints doing you a favor, when they are really the devil's disciples seeking to destroy your life LMFAOOO 🙃 cheers 🍻 from southern ontario, canada 🍁
I worked as an admin assistant at an Evangelical Christian church. While there were many wonderful church members, there's way too many of these people in leadership.
Wow! This video was powerful and 100% accurate with what i went through. I thought he was the sweetest person ever but he was the worst. He did black magic on me to bind me to him, made a voodoo doll of me, did spells so i could lose my mind and everything i owned but i eventually caught on, thanks to Spirit warning me with my intuition and protecting me through it all. I took all that negative energy and transmuted for my good and became better than ever. He thought he would break me but God used him to show me how to love myself so much to never tolerate that behavior from anyone ever again. He triggered my spiritual awakening through the pain. He continued to do magic on me and wondered why i kept getting better instead of worse, little did he know i transmuted it all for my good. Now he's suffering the way he wanted me to.
It’s the spirit that inhabits them. We all have a spirit within us. We make a choice to allow another spirit/spirits of negative energy to take over the moral/positive energy spirit within us.
Then there was a guy who presented himself as this wonderful, acomlishment guy. He would put me down. He wanted me to feel like a fat, ugly, stupid loser. Also, he would imply that I was going to Hell for not being Christian. Fortunately, there were lovely people at my job who pretty much saved me.
You know who’s not a narcissist! Jesus Christ! In Him I am strong. If you actually read the Bible you’ll see God does not condone the actions of narcissists and warns us to be careful and avoid people that have a described list of characteristics. So combined with the strength and power God gives me and the knowledge and wisdom of the scriptures and yes from you guys on TH-cam spreading information and awareness I have been able to disconnect from my husband’s abuse in a way I had never thought possible. Information is one thing but actively doing is another and I couldn’t do this without God taking my ability to have emotions towards my husband like He did. I’d still be scared, but with more information. What good what that have done.
Im pick up other peoples vibes/energies very easily but the 1st time i had physical contact with my now ex..(toxic individual) I felt like I'd had a strong electric shock!!! It was a hug and i swear I was completely thrown off kilter. My heart beated so fast i couldn't catch my breath until we broke contact and even then it was another hour or so before i could even speak coherently. I had brain fog. I felt shaky and off balance 😮. Interestingly the friend i was with commented that something about me had changed and if i was OK. I admitted i didnt feel good. Fortunately we prayed together and she has been weary of him since. She said his vibe was not right! And how right she turned out to be😅
one sign is their calling out what they deem are, "fake Christians", i.e., meaning, that only "they" are really the "good" ones (they may even "prove it" by "being generous" but it's always with a string attached, it's called, "control") and they like to point out that others are really up to no good when in reality, it's them. at least I have known two and other narcissists are all about believing how great they are when in actuality they are manipulators and thieves, or worse, at least the ones I have met and have dealt with. It's "the other person" who is evil, never, ever them. So just beware. just make sure your own house is clean, don't cast stones and concentrate too much on their evil, just make sure you are doing what you know you should and get away from evil soon as you can. of course they entertain evil.
God is love and he sent his son Jesus to teach us the truth 😊 Jesus said stop judging also the Bible tells us that there would be wolves in sheep's clothing God is love Jesus is the example to follow kindness 💙 love forgiveness humility Also God is an eyewitness to all things Pursue peace and patience keep moving forward in healing thanks 😊💙❤️🙏🙏🍀
I learned something important in my spiritual life. Don’t always turn to anyone spiritually to help you with your problems. It is better to learn the scripture(your scripture) and seek to understand what the creator is saying and seek to understand. The creator is accessible to anyone and everyone.
I dont consider myself a survivor yet, but omg you just explained my relationship in detail... Thank you for this video, it released a heavy rock from my heart and its a little easier to breath.
Christians are never supposed to divorce is always used. But, they break their vows by abusing you. After twenty eight years, I'm done. I left him fourteen years ago but never divorced him nor dated anyone else. He finally filed for divorce. And the lightbulb finally came on for me. I've been watching narc videos for other reasons for a few months. Then I finally came across this topic. Now my divorce can't come final soon enough. Run, Forest, run!
Hi Danish, I have aprticipated in a selfawareness group therapy session for half a year. I always had the feeling that something was wrong there... the leader was kind of always mentioning himself like him being equal to Jesus and like he would know everything about life and about everyone. He thinks about himself as being a mirror.. He always told us to keep it in secret what is happening in the group between us and never ever mention anything to a therapist other then him. After I quit, I had a lot of dreams with him where he tried to convince me to go back to the group, but I always find ways to trick him in my dreams and to reject him. Of course I went back to my therapist and just told a few stories how he humiliated me and the other members of the group in the name of love, and my therapist immediately knew, this is a narcissist. My question would be, what do you think would be the best thing to do now. I always replay the traumatic events in my head that happened there.. I know that it takes a lot of time to heal from such things, but would be just curious about your thoughts.
The worship leader where I worked and had to interact with regularly was a covert spiritual narcissist. At some point in the relationship he revealed himself and I fully pulled back from him. He tried to traumatize me a few more times, but the day I told him I don’t talk to him because I don’t trust him, then he avoided me and never made eye contact with me. It’s taken me so long to heal from it. Thankfully my job was protected since he was never my boss, which he also couldn’t stand. My personality is confident and I teach others and help others with truth, which he also hated. He does such a good job with his fake personality that he keeps moving up at the church.
I have been through so much of this that it has wrecked my brain… I now have so much more self shame I am having to unravel and undo so much more. I live in a very ‘spiritual’ part of the UK. With so many teachings and getting involved I completely lost my self…. But I am on the journey to repair. So many ‘spiritual gaslighters’ here and so many lost. Thank you ❤
He offered to "help" with hypnosis yet had blown up and flipped out and stormed away twice. When I tried to resolve it, He ignored me. Then didnt show up for a meeting where i needed him which he said hed attend..and..didnt do what he said hed do, and when i called him out on not showing up, which put my back out for 3 days and i coudlnt move, and cut the connection, i was gaslit and HE accussed me of what i assume he did which was study narcissism So I could do it to others?😮 what insanity..never imagined such a thing....this was after he learned all about me during many of my hypnosis sessions!!! After i cut him off..i even tried to make up with him..but he saw he couldnt control me and i blocked and ignored him. After that, i had a dream he was trying to kill me and realized he was a real narcissist...
Omg this is so true. Every time I would think of him he would dream of me and call me. We had such an intense spiritual connection or so I thought that it was extremely difficult to believe that he was a narcissist. It took me 12 years. Plus he does loads and loads of vipassana and eats vegetarian food etc. Man seriously I am finally free of him.
This video saved my life, it feels like. I finally can relax because I am not crazy. I was hoping that this person is unique but it seems it happens to a lot of people, which is absurd in my mind... He kept telling me he was "protecting me from demons, because I was so vulnerable" so "he had to connect our crown chakras" and since this happened I felt like I was energetically dependent on him. According to him, that was a good thing, because I was the Moon and he was the Sun and I was the "perfect reflector". Eventually, months after I realized that all my energy was going to him (and I was voluntarily giving it away). I started looking older and exhausted. I went to a healer because it was impossible for me to break the bond alone. During the session, she said that he had an organ attached to my crown chakra that he was feeding off of me. This is just a piece of how crazy this story was. It's been months and I am still recovering from this experience, but God knows that I have never felt stronger and more secure in my skin. I wish luck to everyone dealing with such a difficult lesson, I wish them to have compassion towards themselves and cherish their pure hearts.
Yes, there is someone like this in my life that I know very well. I once got a "healing" with this person, and I understand that sometimes old stuff and emotions come up in a healing session. But I felt like there was so much emphasis on my past wrongs, like they said, "I was right!" or "I am vindicated!" It also felt very preachy to me. I left the healing feeling like this was a huge mistake. And this person is very grandiose, just received a doctorate, and always feels the need to "one-up" everyone.
Thank you Danish for this video, it removed the fog in my mind and uncovered the true face of an old couple (pastors) who promised me and dumped me the way you said. It's shocking but true 😮😮😮😢😢
I met a buddhist narcissist who was an academic, drug addicted, shockingly hedonistic women and who pretendend to be spiritual into buddish meditation and mindfulness. But hung out with the worst criminals of society.. horrible experience needless to say, not only was I targeted by her but her friends too. Couldn't take a iota of criticism, lashed out like she was bipolar and could also be incredibly kind and thoughtful and listen to your problems at first. It made me vulnerable, and then when she felt like it she threw the most hurtful words that felt like they stabbed me in the chest. The most contradictory person I've ever seen in my life. Highly Intelligent in a few subjects but make stupid ignorant remarks about others, kind but also cruel and abusive, spiritual but also hedonistic, speaks of human rights but also authoritarian and racist as well as hangs out with literal criminals who abused people and children in front of me online. Don't you ever dare point it out or she'll shred you with her words. I'm trying to recover, been years, some good days some bad days. I've been isolated for years, struggling with my language abilities whereas before my english was pretty good. I will recover but I literally walked into a den of the worst kinds of people on the internet unknowingly. Ugh.
I was raised by a narcist demon mom, then I screwed up and married one, then I had one, what one didn't complete the other finished the Lord was the only thing that kept me alive there was torment and death it was horrible.
This was what happened to me. We were both in recovery for 10 years. I met him at an Adult Children's of Alcoholics, so we knew the same language. I assumed he was as evolved spiritually as myself. I was fooled. I was trying to trust my gut. There were 2 doves who were mated who landed in my backyard right after I asked God if he was my soulmate. I can only guess that this person & I had a lot of similarities & he would thus reflect my flaws. He did. But he wouldn't take responsibility for his stuff. Now, I am truly limping. I've gotten dependent on a narcissist for help. This is not good.
Our PASTOR! I was awake: I saw Pastor Rick standing shirtless in the spot in his house where he does his healings He had a pitchfork in his right hand, and a scepter in his left Two horns 2” ling coming out of his head. Demon , Anti-Christ, or Satan of Today! I told my family. I told Rick. Rick said I had seen what I wanted to see… “ a projection “ It was NOT! I was shocked. Kept seeking clarification from my guides. Verified five times by Heavenly signs, a record for me!
Wow, fantastic episode! I'm still putting myself back together after a relationship with what I consider a covert spiritual narcissist. We were both in spiritual community, but she wasn't grandiose about it. Just like you said - early on I had a visionary, dreamlike experience that seemed to confirm that this was the partner I'd been waiting for - the one that had God's blessing for me. So confusing, when that turns out to be illusion/delusion. What can I trust now? My judgement or discernment failed me in identifying the predator that was feeding on me for over a year. WTF?! So I don't trust myself or others, but now I call into question any dreams, visions, or other mystical or other-worldly things that appear. It doesn't leave one with very much to work with. Thank you for this content, it really helps to know that I was dealing with a very high-level predator, and wasn't taken down by any old scrubby demon-kin. I think the worst casualty for me has been my meditation practice. After the initial discard, I was piecing it back together again, getting stable, and renewing my inner light. Man, she swept right back in to give it just "one more try", and she wrecked me in a matter of weeks. Now, months after the discard and me going fully no-contact, I still can't bring myself to meditate. It's all razor blades in there now, and I just don't wanna feel that. I know I have to..maybe tomorrow.
Spiritual Narcissist are ALL OVER UTUBE~~ claiming to HEAR GOD MORE THAN ANYONE, and they demand your tithes so GOD WILL BLESSED YOU~~ and how dare anyone question them~~
After a lot of self contemplation, I am posting this as I have little to no chance that you would read and reply to the same. I watch all of your videos and have understood so much that whenever you mention the signs I feel like throwing up,suffocated etc. The worst part is that I am unable to do anything bout it as I am a child and am dependent on my grandiose narcissist parent. Can you please make a video for survival tips for children to just how to try our best to survive in the living hell. Would be an extreme help. Love your videos. Keep posting for us.
I feel for you and I'm glad you are getting this information so early in your life. At least now you know that there is nothing wrong with you, but only with your parent, which makes you gaslighting-proof. And you can use "radical acceptance" to get out of the trauma-bonding and cognitive dissonance (which is not wanting to see the truth). And there are tricks you can use to protect yourself. There are many techniques for handling toxic people in your life. I will ask this too in a comment, so Danish will notice the request better! Bless you, I pray for you buddy! Stay strong and much Love to you!
Thank you Dana h for this video yes when I used to go to church and I used to go to church with my ex dark we was doing great or beginning nice and everything and after a while after six months it went soured it was gaslighting me and everything and telling people in his family I was the problem and when I came I told you know that we could talk and he didn't want to talk he was talking to his other supply in and she knew me to in church so young lady and I say to myself wow that was his plan I hope for the best
You are 💯 right. I have been in some religious places, and yes they're are demons 😈. And you. leave worse than when you came in, and very confused and alone, because by this time you have already lost all your money and friends and family 😢. Thanks for the video. God bless you 😊
Wow, so accurate. He even told me that I was his partner for many lifetimes and he was looking for me again in this one (he told this to all his girlfriends and wife as he admitted, he believed it was me he found). But he did haved psychic powers and was able to see stuff about me and my family. 🤦Purely using the powers for his benefit. I told him there is a dark entity working trough him and then distance no contact from my side. 🙏
Thankyou Danish. Your videos have been very helpful and insightful after a very toxic situation over the last year's.. I appreciate your commitment to helping and guiding others from the darkness
a narcissist can take anything n mkae it abusive... the worst part is that ppl seek solace in spirituality... it is supposed to be a sacred space, based on truth, not lies n gaslighting
Hello Danish, both my mother, who is 94 years old and brother are narcissists. I am the outsider! My mother, besides being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, OCD, manipulation, she has been diagnosed covert/overt narcissist. My younger brother, I know, has been diagnosed bi-polar. He has not shared any other mental disabilities with me. Recently, both my mother and brother got into a heated arguement. My brother blaming my mother for something she has done with the family trust. He is angry. He yelled at her. Blamed her, and she felt terrible. Crying and shaking. Now, I find this very interesting. After the argument, he want "no contact" for 8 days with my mother. What I saw play out.... My narcissist mother and narcissist brother not talking. My mother did not know what to do! My girlfriend truly believes my mother "needs" my brother in her life to help abuse, manipuate, and especially "triangulate" against me. My question to you, can two narcissists gain up to work against a person? It's like a game to them. I am the ping pong ball. This is hard for me to believe. I love your blog!
My God gave me a vivid vision of a petrified cadaver trying to enter my apt ,when I opened the front door I pushed away and in revolt and panic I closed the door and took a peek thru the kitchen window .I saw a mimic standing very straight and it had a mouth and lips like a clown .In panic I went running to my bedroom to tell the Narcissist but she was sitting back turned to the bedroom door,I entered and she turned her head and to my amaze she had the same mouth and lips as the mime 😱 if that’s not GOD warning me what else.
My father pretends to be spiritual and to have all the spiritual knowledge. He also expects me to watch and read anything he recommends and gets mad if I don't, saying that I am not worthy of his advice.
As for demons, all people, other than one who is Enlightened, have an inner demon. You also have Inner Light. Life’s purpose is to know both Light and dark. Inner Light is of the Stars. Love. Inner demon is of the black hole, or hell. Hate. I know not of hate within, only in others. It, the devil, did appear before me after my enlightenment though. All it said? ‘How could you do this to me again’ then disappeared. Darkness trying to guilt trip and blame shift the Light. The Light will not be blame shifted for the darkness. Black hole used to be a Star. Used to know Gods Love. Became disconnected from Spirit. Now it tries to take the Light from the Stars. It cannot have it, ever. Spirit is Unbreakable. Black hole jealous of the Light. Wants it for itself though it knows not what to do with it. A psychopath. I am sad for the black hole.
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NARCs are everywhere it's like a CULT..esp. their Spiritual tone...
P.S. There are true Teachers as not all are Chameleons. Amen.
Namaste
Could u plz mention sir... That dont confuse spiritual narcissists with genuine empaths who have extra sensory perceptions intuitive clairvoyant abilities..... Who actually can channel messages from spirit guides..
@@obscurum6 there are narcs who fake spirituality... But twinflames clairvoyants lightworkers are real... N it is so sad to see this.. Just as narcs make victims feel crazy unheard unseen same way in this video danish sir did to actual twinflames Or psychics.. We exist.. We are rare... Many claim to be one of us but truth is there are some twinflames psychics clairvoyants
I dated a spiritual covert narcissist a few years back. It was the darkest period of my life.
Yes i live with my narcisstic brother for the last two years, which were hell. I am leaving soon and cannot wait day after day
i'm on two courts with mine
Same happened to me. Nearly destroyed me, but I came out better and stronger after I healed.
We can win this spiritual battle, but it takes everything we’ve got.
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I know... its horrible. Thanks God we made it
Narcissists are MORE religious than normal people because they're terrified of death and dying. Plus they like to feel special and religion gives them that.
WOAH. this makes so much sense
@@catd8929i seriously second that also !!!!!!!!!!
Makes absolute sense to me!
When I was in a narcissistic relationships I used to think that person is my twin flame and he is not treating me the way I deserved because he has some past wounds, he Is a runner and I have to heal my past and wounds in order to come in a reunion. The immense pain I felt because of the emotional abuse and trauma bond. In so called "Twin flame" journey they label it as a 'Twin Flame' separation pain. I mean Wtfuck is this, Thank God saved me from that monster! 🙏🙏
Beware of such "Twin Flame' stories that will never help you to heal. Infact believing these fake fairy tales that would get you stuck in your abuse for forever.
Waoow grateful u are awake ...its a nothig but hellll a loop neverending.....❤
If you think you have a twin flame you’ve got big problems.
But its a part of ascension journey .....some people dnt wan to hear truth they say Ur not on a true twinflame journey just to satisfy their ego n b in the loop.....🙏🏻🤣
I thought she had past wounds too, I still don't know but holy the abuse was real.
I need to be reminded repeatedly of the truth of this person by this video because addiction to the love bombing is hard to break.
Coz its spelll of demonic energy ....so it seems hard but when u clease ur aura n connect with The most high .....that spell is nothing but atrash then to u❤
As a narc survivor who turned to spirituality, if you do turn to spirituality don't go to any guru. Read as much on your own and meditate as much and practise mindfulness. Your worth was taken from you and now you must learn to become your own master
Divinity with all of us.
This is so true, I got rid of it VERY QUICKLY! And once you CLOSE THE DOOR ON THEM,DON'T EVER OPEN IT!!!
Needed this video!! I have just escaped a spiritual narcissist who tried to destroy me psychologically (dark empath and perhaps even psychopathy). I was minding my own business, enjoying their content (warning they are a (very) minor public figure), and she randomly saw me as a threat and her jealousy led her to try and terrify me by recreating my coercive control trauma by trying to program me away from my dreams through invalidation, 'don't you know that's not what spirituality is about', 'oh how repressed you are with all that reactive anger' (because they feel they lack what my goals consist in-developing compassion). They also tried to spiritually attack me, invade my dreams, they corded me, tried to do black magic on me, drain my energy. It's difficult to describe this because most people don't believe in the esoteric stuff, but that was the worst part, they are completely evil and they really do hide behind the mask of of 'enlightened person'.
I trust you. There a whole lot bunch of different kinds of nasty persons out there. We can never know until we get in too close to them and see their true side.
@@beingcreative3750 Thank you 🙏Yeah I'm trying to forgive myself for getting involved, because 'appearances can be deceiving' is definitely the lesson I learned very harshly here.
@@R.P.-hw2rq Thank you 🙏 Yes, I had to learn all of this through the experience to get through it. Ironically or not so ironically this experience has strengthened my personal spirituality a lot.
@@R.P.-hw2rq Yes, exactly! My experience with the type that Danish describes led me to discover all about Narcissism and how it had affected my whole life. Only through this knowledge could I break free from that. It's spooky, because even the dream part happened just like he said! It's sometimes called the "love-bite". Maybe demons are setting us up for this, if we are already vulnerable to it?
When you encounter a spiritual narcisists like the ones you have Sp well described Danish the question: „ What the hell?” Is the only one to be asked. You can hear the snake’s hissing when they speak.
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Danish, I would deeply appreciate if you would consider doing a video on “artistic” narcissists. My father was a minor celebrity and is obsessed with not feeling “ordinary”. He’s now old and desperate.
I am older (he does not like older women in general), have failed to bring an artistic “hit” to lay at his feet now he’s thrown his obsession into my younger sister who is pursuing the celebrity life.
He treats servers/working people people terribly. If he’s not being dismissive of them, then he’s lecturing them with his great Wisdom. His whole effing life revolves around feeling special.
It’s taken me 49 years throw off the shackles of this man.
I should add that I am not totally free of beating myself up for not having created something great or good or notable. I wonder if I have narcissistic tendencies too.
I have an autoimmune disease and multiplying health problems. I am pretty sure I have Asperger’s at least and the question I always wanted to ask my dad after he threw me away is this:
“God forbid you ever had a child with a real disability, one who’d be unable to deliver success for you to vicariously live by. They’d have zero worth to you and probably would have committed suicide by now. After all, what other basis for self-esteem would have been instilled in them by their parents?”
@@natcheztracefan Sounds like you've been gaslighted. Narcissists transfer their insecurities and failures to everyone around them. Perhaps this has happened to you. Reject the guilt trip. You are not in this world to live up to your father's unrealistic expectations. You and your sister are here to fulfill your own life goals. Sounds like he failed in his own grandiose aspirations. Maybe he wasn't that talented or whatever. He can't now expect to live vicariously through you or demand that you fulfil HIS fantasy. It isn't up to daughters (or sons) to do that. Perhaps taking your issues to a trained counselor can help you separate the sources of your discomfort. Videos such as this one can help to reject gaslighting. It's sad when a narcissistic parent causes such pain and confusion. I hope you and your sibling can find answers and peace.
My 45- year old daughter is just like your father.
Sadly BLOCKED!
I can’t take the negativity
They “ love” us…. trying to help.
Why not “ say yes to the Universe, and do as they so intensely “ recommend.
My "enlightenment" was the realisation that such a type person could exist. The greatest lesson of my life. She can "nama-stay the f*** away". Thank you once again Danish
Thank you Danish 🙏This is much needed content in today's day and age... "Twin flame" relationships end up glorifying narcissistic abuse with concepts like Devine masculine being able to do whatever they want and the Devine feminine needing to chase them! (Sounds more like devaluing and discarding) and the abuse victim justifying their abuse there after. I'm very glad that there's finally awareness around this space. 🙌
Hey, this twin-flame craziness is alarming thing sadly. Twin-flame connection is real but it's very very rare. And even if it real romantizing this is the issue. Twin-flame journey is not about finding one true love it's a inner journey. And justifying any behaviour in the name of Twin-flame shouldn't be accepted. Sadly those who know nothing about is journey is becoming coach now a days and taking them in very wrong direction.
Very true. I remember watching a video on what a twin flame is like and hearing terms like “karmic” and I’m like okay so basically the karmic is the narcissist.
Hope n relationship ......I am sooo much grateful towards Divine ...u r awake ...Twinflame journey is nothing but its a soul tie n Divine guided me to release it its a very nasty toxic n they r somatic sexual narcissits seperation is divine is seperating coz they r toxic ur kundalini rises coz of ur safety its a weapon against demon n chanelling messege songs r nothing but fake facade of demon tarot readers r nothing they r being traped by lower dimensional energies yes it resonate if ur on the same vibration ..its a toxic tie should hav to b releasse past lives toxic they come as a pasionate lover traped u n leave revengeful energy they r .....Every 1 is fantasicing ths twinflame but its its totally wrong its all kaliyuga Narcissits ...they r so much manupulative plz i request dont watch alll this Kaliyuga illusion its a looop ur dm df is coming they say allll nonsense plz pray they never ever come they r Demooons.....Coz soul never get burn split its already complete ....n Twinflame is Covert sexual somatic narcissists relationship n empath light vs dark...Thank you .....plz dnt beleive ths words but try to listen n red flags are imp thank you🙏🏻♥️
The whole thing is demonic. Glad I got saved.
There is nothing like twin flame relationships. If you have any spiritual/astral guides ask them. They aren't real things
You have just described a connection I recently went through. He was helping me until I was able to take my power back and see through his BS. He didn’t like that though, as I was no longer submissive (his words) he wanted full control over me. Our last two conversations he was deliberately trying to energetically overpower me, I was able to hold my own which really triggered his ego, not heard from him since. Trust your intuition, stand in your power, they are vampires that prey on individuals not fully understanding their own power, to attach and drain your energy dry.
False light teachings can mess with minds, emotions and destroy lives. We need to stay discerning, sentient, sovereign, humble and kind.
I've experienced this and steer clear by knowing myself well enough, thanks for going there Danish. 💖
Was looking for this term. False light is a real thing. People who try to be in charge of a person's growth and what they are supposed to learn at the pace set by them. It's belittling. Everyone is free to make choices. You can't be super condescending and say you love someone. That's not love, that's toying with their spirit. People's minds are really a sacred thing for real. Leading someone down a path that is hurtful cannot possibly feel good to someone who actually cares about you. I've met some false lights and it's pretty infuriating to see it happen in real time. Taking advantage of people who are looking for answers, making them pay money, not caring that they are crying etc. It's so messed up. It's a big part of why the spiritual community gets made fun of. There's been countless "gurus" that have straight up turned into cult leaders. It's insane
I’d like to see a video on religious narcissism. I have an inkling I was raised by one. It’s very hard to wrap my head around because in many ways I’m thankful for the knowledge I got about the Bible but I actually have a lot of traumatic memories of how the religion was used as a control mechanism, love was conditional on doing things the way that particular religion said, and I was often gaslighted to believe I was crazy or over sensitive when it came to some of the bad treatment I received by others in the religion because it was like anything they did was excused because they proclaimed to be part of that religion. So if I expressed that I didn’t like how someone treated me I was reprimanded and told there was nothing wrong with what they did or said.
That is abuse! I've also been harassed by a religious fanatic narcissist who uses religion as her excuse and recruits her brother in her campaign of slander and torment. The brother is a covert narcissist who sees her as an ally rather than the malignant narcissist she is. She uses religion and the Bible to support her behavior. It's a unique situation where a narcissist gaslights another narcissist! I don't know which one is more evil, him or her. She's cruel to other family members too. I can't leave. Other family members see this. I have tried to stop her but she flies into a rage attacking each one. Cluster B narcissistic and histrionic. I have no idea how to cope with it.
Me TOO!
Religious husband is a narc
It's crazy how they use beautiful religion and use it against u to have more power and take advantage of this and forget u have rights aswell. These types of people make u forget ur religion. If my faith was weak I would have believed everything and left my religion long time ago.. Their crazy
Yes, my brother is one of these. He says that I'm not going to heaven because I don't go to church. He told my niece that, and since she didn't want to get in trouble for telling me, I haven't been able to explain that it's the relationship, not the works that get you into heaven. He's going to be very surprised when he gets to his final destination. It's very sad, because, my granddaughter, who lives with him thinks that religion is just a front. Why wouldn't she think that when she's living with him? He's VERY active in his church.
You described perfectly what happened when I hired a life coach.
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I was given "four chances" (I didn't know I was given chances, since I believed we had a friendship) I was "too stupid" to learn anything.
I don't have words to describe the depth and accuracy of your judgement. Thank you,🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Please Danish, could you make a video for children who are still dependent on their narcissistic parents to help them protect themselves until they can leave? Young people are watching your channel too! Your videos are so amazingly helpful!
I would really appreciate this too Danish.
I am a spiritual guide and I have gone through many narcissistic spiritual gurus mainly dark empaths
You just described my last 8 years. I can't even believe we escaped. It took a small community to help break my sons and I free.
I agree 💯 Have seen and thought it was a friendly competition, but there was NO peace or spiritual grace, only DISHARMONY and eventually disengagement after the narc's spiritual defeat.
Very accurate! I had found so many of these NARCS in search for spiritual growth, I found them in all tradition and sects, evangelist, new age, Catholic etc..
Thank you for sharing this. I was married to a grandiose narcissist, and heavily traumatised for many years. Then i went on my spiritual journey to find answers and heal myself. On my journey i met this insightful person, we had so much in common. As i was now more diligent in spotting NPD. i was experiencing the criticism, lack of empathy, constant unsolicited advice and trying to fix me. When i raised that i didn't like this behaviour and my boundaries were crossed, he would get annoyed at me. I eventually realised he was an unaware covert narcissist. I am still on my journey of healing and removing these narcissists in my life. Thank you for sharing your videos they are healing and validating ❤
oh god, this. this was my dad. he convinced me that he was deeply connected to god, that his was the only guidance i'd ever need. i spent decades locked in his grasp convinced that everything he said and did was from god himself, and if i disagreed with him then i was disrespecting god. only after he died did i realize how manipulative, cold and selfish he truely was.
Death surely brings relief from narcissistic abuse.
@@gracegwozdz8185 must fight
My father told me the world would end soon my whole life citing so-called prophets. We were homeschooled in the woods and we had little contact with the outside world. I am 33 and still can't look people in the eyes without cringing and feeling a sense of dread. Me and my 9 siblings were told the world is wholly evil and everyone is evil and out to get you, the family home is the only safe place.
That’s fascinating 😮 I’m glad you have internet
That’s the name of my book “spiritual narcissism”…. 5 years in the making and every time I think I’m ready to compile my content. I experience more narcissism.
Why do you think you keep attracting it?
Hmmm. wolves in sheep's clothing is all I can say. my mother was a narcissist (when I didn't know any such thing existed) and while I did search out God and look to heal from within (changing me), my mother was espousing being, a "born again" and telling (or rather, trying to prove) to others how "evil" I really was, what a pagan I was, and how deviant she insisted I was in reality, to others. I of course, never had a clue. I was sooooo naive but I had been raised by her to "pretend" what I believed wasn't real and to just, "pretend" it didn't exist. To never trust what I was feeling, because I had no value, of course.
So I did that, to try to get her love and approval. She did put on the act of going to church (a "born again" church, wherein you "just say this sentence and you are saved!") for a little while but soon found fault and blamed the church for her not feeling welcomed (okay) but tried to tell everyone how evil I was behind my back. I guess the forces impelling her, which influenced her, were greatly upset by my having God in my life because it was actually helping me and evil just wants you to die.
The Spiritual Warfare is Real heavy!
Stay safe and Blessed! 🙏
My narc spouse teaches tolerance but is not tolerant himself
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Excellent topic, Danish.
Two times at two different places. I was approached by someone who could "help" Me gain my true self.
Those people scare Me.
Yes they are very dangerous.
Jim Jones
Heavens Gate
Waco
😂😂😂 OMG you are amazing Danish 😻 so spot on and funny as hell 🤣 yes i had just one like that last time. But i can see through this BS so i can say i gave her some significant narcissistic injuries in a few months and dumped her without any chance for her to try and get back at me. What pieces of shit they are. Disgusting
Thank you for your wisdom on this subject Danish. The worse ones are the ones who claim to love God's moral principles. I call them faith fakers. They want you to suffer in their spiritual hell.
Holy moly this is my father to a t. I really needed this. When my father blamed me for not believing in god enough even though I was so devout. It crushed me, I thought I knew myself I thought I was very spiritual.
Sounds like a lot of christians. My therapist was the most dangerous creature I have ever known. Therapy abuse and exploitation has destroyed our lives, and nearly killed us. Her mixed bag of religious jargon and messages of how people normally handle things, and what other societies determine as natural, and telling me, "No pain, no gain. You can't walk around it. You have to walk through it." Her message to me, "God won't give you more than you can handle", a horrific abuse to me. My therapist gave me more than I could handle. Her exploitation and abuses had nothing to do with God.😢
These are fake Christians, not real, those who do not belong to Jesus, are what you are describing here, unfortunately. True Christians will manifest the love of Jesus, which is a winsome and healthy thing. Christ himself said that many would come in his name, whom he would disown, and for good reason too. :(
For me, this type of narcissist is the most blatantly obvious: they speak words that are so disingenuous that if you show them any look of disbelief or mistrust, they immediately notice and suddenly disappear. For them, it might be their creepy, lecherous and fake behavior and voice that makes them so transparent. Many spiritual gurus and yoga instructors fall neatly into this group. Euwww. Good impression, Danish, but not creepy enough LOL. 😀😉
They intrude and steal from you your most sacred aspect. It's a truly cruel invasion, taking advantage of someone's hope & soul-seeking, and often in their darkest hour. If you manage to extradite yourself you run the risk of turning away from spirituality altogether.
Yes this is exactly what I went through. I could not ask any questions of the doctrinal teachings’ validity especially if anyone else was in the room. Then I was “trying to confuse people and lead them astray”. He would rage at me in private for doubting him and trying to make him look stupid. If it was really true he should have been able to answer my questions! I’m so glad I went no contact.
how ironic. narcissists think they are saints doing you a favor, when they are really the devil's disciples seeking to destroy your life LMFAOOO 🙃
cheers 🍻 from southern ontario, canada 🍁
WOW!
I worked as an admin assistant at an Evangelical Christian church. While there were many wonderful church members, there's way too many of these people in leadership.
Particularly leadership.
Wow! This video was powerful and 100% accurate with what i went through. I thought he was the sweetest person ever but he was the worst. He did black magic on me to bind me to him, made a voodoo doll of me, did spells so i could lose my mind and everything i owned but i eventually caught on, thanks to Spirit warning me with my intuition and protecting me through it all. I took all that negative energy and transmuted for my good and became better than ever. He thought he would break me but God used him to show me how to love myself so much to never tolerate that behavior from anyone ever again. He triggered my spiritual awakening through the pain. He continued to do magic on me and wondered why i kept getting better instead of worse, little did he know i transmuted it all for my good. Now he's suffering the way he wanted me to.
I deeply believe that narcissists are so demonic exaktly as demons and I wonder how can a human being become a demon.
It’s the spirit that inhabits them. We all have a spirit within us. We make a choice to allow another spirit/spirits of negative energy to take over the moral/positive energy spirit within us.
Demons are often invited in through various occult practices including drugs.
Generational ...sins of the mother , sins of the father ...
This content should be spread out. Fortunately more, and more people became awere of fake spirituality.
Thank you for this vide 🙏
Thank you for calling this out - it's very important
Then there was a guy who presented himself as this wonderful, acomlishment guy. He would put me down. He wanted me to feel like a fat, ugly, stupid loser. Also, he would imply that I was going to Hell for not being Christian. Fortunately, there were lovely people at my job who pretty much saved me.
You know who’s not a narcissist! Jesus Christ! In Him I am strong. If you actually read the Bible you’ll see God does not condone the actions of narcissists and warns us to be careful and avoid people that have a described list of characteristics. So combined with the strength and power God gives me and the knowledge and wisdom of the scriptures and yes from you guys on TH-cam spreading information and awareness I have been able to disconnect from my husband’s abuse in a way I had never thought possible. Information is one thing but actively doing is another and I couldn’t do this without God taking my ability to have emotions towards my husband like He did. I’d still be scared, but with more information. What good what that have done.
Im pick up other peoples vibes/energies very easily but the 1st time i had physical contact with my now ex..(toxic individual) I felt like I'd had a strong electric shock!!! It was a hug and i swear I was completely thrown off kilter. My heart beated so fast i couldn't catch my breath until we broke contact and even then it was another hour or so before i could even speak coherently. I had brain fog. I felt shaky and off balance 😮. Interestingly the friend i was with commented that something about me had changed and if i was OK. I admitted i didnt feel good. Fortunately we prayed together and she has been weary of him since. She said his vibe was not right! And how right she turned out to be😅
one sign is their calling out what they deem are, "fake Christians", i.e., meaning, that only "they" are really the "good" ones (they may even "prove it" by "being generous" but it's always with a string attached, it's called, "control") and they like to point out that others are really up to no good when in reality, it's them. at least I have known two and other narcissists are all about believing how great they are when in actuality they are manipulators and thieves, or worse, at least the ones I have met and have dealt with. It's "the other person" who is evil, never, ever them. So just beware. just make sure your own house is clean, don't cast stones and concentrate too much on their evil, just make sure you are doing what you know you should and get away from evil soon as you can. of course they entertain evil.
God is love and he sent his son Jesus to teach us the truth 😊 Jesus said stop judging also the Bible tells us that there would be wolves in sheep's clothing God is love Jesus is the example to follow kindness 💙 love forgiveness humility Also God is an eyewitness to all things Pursue peace and patience keep moving forward in healing thanks 😊💙❤️🙏🙏🍀
These kind of people are such monsters!
I wouldn’t say this if I hadn’t experienced it myself.
They will destroy everything about you that’s good.
I learned something important in my spiritual life. Don’t always turn to anyone spiritually to help you with your problems. It is better to learn the scripture(your scripture) and seek to understand what the creator is saying and seek to understand. The creator is accessible to anyone and everyone.
I dont consider myself a survivor yet, but omg you just explained my relationship in detail... Thank you for this video, it released a heavy rock from my heart and its a little easier to breath.
Christians are never supposed to divorce is always used. But, they break their vows by abusing you. After twenty eight years, I'm done. I left him fourteen years ago but never divorced him nor dated anyone else. He finally filed for divorce. And the lightbulb finally came on for me. I've been watching narc videos for other reasons for a few months. Then I finally came across this topic. Now my divorce can't come final soon enough.
Run, Forest, run!
This is spot on & so annoying. I regret just having a simple innocent chant with the narc , despite my gut feeling to flee.
Hi Danish, I have aprticipated in a selfawareness group therapy session for half a year. I always had the feeling that something was wrong there... the leader was kind of always mentioning himself like him being equal to Jesus and like he would know everything about life and about everyone. He thinks about himself as being a mirror.. He always told us to keep it in secret what is happening in the group between us and never ever mention anything to a therapist other then him. After I quit, I had a lot of dreams with him where he tried to convince me to go back to the group, but I always find ways to trick him in my dreams and to reject him. Of course I went back to my therapist and just told a few stories how he humiliated me and the other members of the group in the name of love, and my therapist immediately knew, this is a narcissist.
My question would be, what do you think would be the best thing to do now. I always replay the traumatic events in my head that happened there.. I know that it takes a lot of time to heal from such things, but would be just curious about your thoughts.
Embrace the ordinary! ✌️
The worship leader where I worked and had to interact with regularly was a covert spiritual narcissist. At some point in the relationship he revealed himself and I fully pulled back from him. He tried to traumatize me a few more times, but the day I told him I don’t talk to him because I don’t trust him, then he avoided me and never made eye contact with me. It’s taken me so long to heal from it. Thankfully my job was protected since he was never my boss, which he also couldn’t stand. My personality is confident and I teach others and help others with truth, which he also hated. He does such a good job with his fake personality that he keeps moving up at the church.
I have been with a spiritual Narcissist
I have been through so much of this that it has wrecked my brain… I now have so much more self shame I am having to unravel and undo so much more. I live in a very ‘spiritual’ part of the UK. With so many teachings and getting involved I completely lost my self…. But I am on the journey to repair. So many ‘spiritual gaslighters’ here and so many lost.
Thank you ❤
Yes. Spititual abuse is one if the narcs favourite ways of getting adoring, subservient fans.
He offered to "help" with hypnosis yet had blown up and flipped out and stormed away twice. When I tried to resolve it, He ignored me. Then didnt show up for a meeting where i needed him which he said hed attend..and..didnt do what he said hed do, and when i called him out on not showing up, which put my back out for 3 days and i coudlnt move, and cut the connection, i was gaslit and HE accussed me of what i assume he did which was study narcissism
So I could do it to others?😮 what insanity..never imagined such a thing....this was after he learned all about me during many of my hypnosis sessions!!! After i cut him off..i even tried to make up with him..but he saw he couldnt control me and i blocked and ignored him. After that, i had a dream he was trying to kill me and realized he was a real narcissist...
Omg this is so true. Every time I would think of him he would dream of me and call me. We had such an intense spiritual connection or so I thought that it was extremely difficult to believe that he was a narcissist. It took me 12 years. Plus he does loads and loads of vipassana and eats vegetarian food etc. Man seriously I am finally free of him.
This video saved my life, it feels like. I finally can relax because I am not crazy. I was hoping that this person is unique but it seems it happens to a lot of people, which is absurd in my mind...
He kept telling me he was "protecting me from demons, because I was so vulnerable" so "he had to connect our crown chakras" and since this happened I felt like I was energetically dependent on him. According to him, that was a good thing, because I was the Moon and he was the Sun and I was the "perfect reflector". Eventually, months after I realized that all my energy was going to him (and I was voluntarily giving it away). I started looking older and exhausted. I went to a healer because it was impossible for me to break the bond alone. During the session, she said that he had an organ attached to my crown chakra that he was feeding off of me. This is just a piece of how crazy this story was.
It's been months and I am still recovering from this experience, but God knows that I have never felt stronger and more secure in my skin. I wish luck to everyone dealing with such a difficult lesson, I wish them to have compassion towards themselves and cherish their pure hearts.
Yes, there is someone like this in my life that I know very well. I once got a "healing" with this person, and I understand that sometimes old stuff and emotions come up in a healing session. But I felt like there was so much emphasis on my past wrongs, like they said, "I was right!" or "I am vindicated!" It also felt very preachy to me. I left the healing feeling like this was a huge mistake. And this person is very grandiose, just received a doctorate, and always feels the need to "one-up" everyone.
Thank you Danish for this video, it removed the fog in my mind and uncovered the true face of an old couple (pastors) who promised me and dumped me the way you said.
It's shocking but true 😮😮😮😢😢
Most of time not want to face challenges by themselves and look for magical solution ... And pay the price ... Wisdom is within
I met a buddhist narcissist who was an academic, drug addicted, shockingly hedonistic women and who pretendend to be spiritual into buddish meditation and mindfulness. But hung out with the worst criminals of society.. horrible experience needless to say, not only was I targeted by her but her friends too. Couldn't take a iota of criticism, lashed out like she was bipolar and could also be incredibly kind and thoughtful and listen to your problems at first. It made me vulnerable, and then when she felt like it she threw the most hurtful words that felt like they stabbed me in the chest. The most contradictory person I've ever seen in my life. Highly Intelligent in a few subjects but make stupid ignorant remarks about others, kind but also cruel and abusive, spiritual but also hedonistic, speaks of human rights but also authoritarian and racist as well as hangs out with literal criminals who abused people and children in front of me online. Don't you ever dare point it out or she'll shred you with her words. I'm trying to recover, been years, some good days some bad days. I've been isolated for years, struggling with my language abilities whereas before my english was pretty good. I will recover but I literally walked into a den of the worst kinds of people on the internet unknowingly. Ugh.
I was raised by a narcist demon mom, then I screwed up and married one, then I had one, what one didn't complete the other finished the Lord was the only thing that kept me alive there was torment and death it was horrible.
Oh how I hope you are so much happier now. Sounds horrible.❤
Very true video!!!! My mother is a spiritual Narcissist!
Hi 👋 Danish from here in ENGLAND U.K. Thank you for your wisdom & education 🙏
I got strung along and used for supply for years, by a narc preacher. What an evil rat.
This was what happened to me. We were both in recovery for 10 years. I met him at an Adult Children's of Alcoholics, so we knew the same language. I assumed he was as evolved spiritually as myself. I was fooled. I was trying to trust my gut. There were 2 doves who were mated who landed in my backyard right after I asked God if he was my soulmate. I can only guess that this person & I had a lot of similarities & he would thus reflect my flaws. He did. But he wouldn't take responsibility for his stuff. Now, I am truly limping. I've gotten dependent on a narcissist for help. This is not good.
Get out now.
Our PASTOR!
I was awake:
I saw Pastor Rick standing shirtless in the spot in his house where he does his healings
He had a pitchfork in his right hand, and a scepter in his left
Two horns 2” ling coming out of his head.
Demon , Anti-Christ, or Satan of Today!
I told my family.
I told Rick. Rick said I had seen what I wanted to see… “ a projection “
It was NOT!
I was shocked.
Kept seeking clarification from my guides.
Verified five times by Heavenly signs, a record for me!
Love it Danish!!! Yes! what are you supposed to do with such a response!!!🤣🤣☺☺☺
Wow, fantastic episode! I'm still putting myself back together after a relationship with what I consider a covert spiritual narcissist. We were both in spiritual community, but she wasn't grandiose about it. Just like you said - early on I had a visionary, dreamlike experience that seemed to confirm that this was the partner I'd been waiting for - the one that had God's blessing for me. So confusing, when that turns out to be illusion/delusion. What can I trust now? My judgement or discernment failed me in identifying the predator that was feeding on me for over a year. WTF?! So I don't trust myself or others, but now I call into question any dreams, visions, or other mystical or other-worldly things that appear. It doesn't leave one with very much to work with. Thank you for this content, it really helps to know that I was dealing with a very high-level predator, and wasn't taken down by any old scrubby demon-kin.
I think the worst casualty for me has been my meditation practice. After the initial discard, I was piecing it back together again, getting stable, and renewing my inner light. Man, she swept right back in to give it just "one more try", and she wrecked me in a matter of weeks. Now, months after the discard and me going fully no-contact, I still can't bring myself to meditate. It's all razor blades in there now, and I just don't wanna feel that. I know I have to..maybe tomorrow.
The witchcraft is REAL. So glad you are talking about this. I shall cover you in prayer. May God protect and empower you further!
Spiritual Narcissist are ALL OVER UTUBE~~ claiming to HEAR GOD MORE THAN ANYONE, and they demand your tithes so GOD WILL BLESSED YOU~~ and how dare anyone question them~~
you literally described one of my best friends(ex(,he was biggest piece of shit i have ever met
After a lot of self contemplation, I am posting this as I have little to no chance that you would read and reply to the same. I watch all of your videos and have understood so much that whenever you mention the signs I feel like throwing up,suffocated etc. The worst part is that I am unable to do anything bout it as I am a child and am dependent on my grandiose narcissist parent. Can you please make a video for survival tips for children to just how to try our best to survive in the living hell. Would be an extreme help.
Love your videos. Keep posting for us.
I feel for you and I'm glad you are getting this information so early in your life. At least now you know that there is nothing wrong with you, but only with your parent, which makes you gaslighting-proof. And you can use "radical acceptance" to get out of the trauma-bonding and cognitive dissonance (which is not wanting to see the truth). And there are tricks you can use to protect yourself. There are many techniques for handling toxic people in your life. I will ask this too in a comment, so Danish will notice the request better! Bless you, I pray for you buddy! Stay strong and much Love to you!
@@tshaika9165 Thank you so much
I had a spritual narc of 59 years, He used to read my mind.
Omg!
DON'T go to their church, don't deal with them unless you have to. PRAY.
Thank you Dana h for this video yes when I used to go to church and I used to go to church with my ex dark we was doing great or beginning nice and everything and after a while after six months it went soured it was gaslighting me and everything and telling people in his family I was the problem and when I came I told you know that we could talk and he didn't want to talk he was talking to his other supply in and she knew me to in church so young lady and I say to myself wow that was his plan I hope for the best
Very possessed individuals occupied by entities covered on dark energy
Let's skip all that and go straight to truating outselves.
They can say whatever they want. Their power stems from a lack of trust in yourself.
I just encountered one on your channel the other day. They are everywhere these days. What can we do
You are 💯 right. I have been in some religious places, and yes they're are demons 😈. And you. leave worse than when you came in, and very confused and alone, because by this time you have already lost all your money and friends and family 😢. Thanks for the video. God bless you 😊
Very "Dangerous Narc's!" Keep Very far away as Possible!🙏❤️🙏💜
Wow, so accurate. He even told me that I was his partner for many lifetimes and he was looking for me again in this one (he told this to all his girlfriends and wife as he admitted, he believed it was me he found). But he did haved psychic powers and was able to see stuff about me and my family. 🤦Purely using the powers for his benefit. I told him there is a dark entity working trough him and then distance no contact from my side.
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Thankyou Danish.
Your videos have been very helpful and insightful after a very toxic situation over the last year's..
I appreciate your commitment to helping and guiding others from the darkness
a narcissist can take anything n mkae it abusive... the worst part is that ppl seek solace in spirituality... it is supposed to be a sacred space, based on truth, not lies n gaslighting
They come in both ❤❤❤❤❤pay attention
RUSSEL BRAND‼️‼️❗️
As a survivor of a religious narc's abuse I can say "I have seen the devil and lived." Jesus is my strength. He has made me an overcomer.
Hello Danish, both my mother, who is 94 years old and brother are narcissists. I am the outsider!
My mother, besides being diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, OCD, manipulation, she has been diagnosed covert/overt narcissist.
My younger brother, I know, has been diagnosed bi-polar. He has not shared any other mental disabilities with me.
Recently, both my mother and brother got into a heated arguement. My brother blaming my mother for something she has done with the family trust. He is angry. He yelled at her. Blamed her, and she felt terrible. Crying and shaking.
Now, I find this very interesting. After the argument, he want "no contact" for 8 days with my mother. What I saw play out....
My narcissist mother and narcissist brother not talking. My mother did not know what to do!
My girlfriend truly believes my mother "needs" my brother in her life to help abuse, manipuate, and especially "triangulate" against me.
My question to you, can two narcissists gain up to work against a person? It's like a game to them. I am the ping pong ball. This is hard for me to believe.
I love your blog!
Be nothing to a narcissist.
My God gave me a vivid vision of a petrified cadaver trying to enter my apt ,when I opened the front door I pushed away and in revolt and panic I closed the door and took a peek thru the kitchen window .I saw a mimic standing very straight and it had a mouth and lips like a clown .In panic I went running to my bedroom to tell the Narcissist but she was sitting back turned to the bedroom door,I entered and she turned her head and to my amaze she had the same mouth and lips as the mime 😱 if that’s not GOD warning me what else.
My father pretends to be spiritual and to have all the spiritual knowledge. He also expects me to watch and read anything he recommends and gets mad if I don't, saying that I am not worthy of his advice.
Why do I have to encounter those itches!?
Thank You.........
Stick with Jesus people!!
As for demons, all people, other than one who is Enlightened, have an inner demon. You also have Inner Light. Life’s purpose is to know both Light and dark. Inner Light is of the Stars. Love. Inner demon is of the black hole, or hell. Hate. I know not of hate within, only in others. It, the devil, did appear before me after my enlightenment though. All it said? ‘How could you do this to me again’ then disappeared. Darkness trying to guilt trip and blame shift the Light. The Light will not be blame shifted for the darkness. Black hole used to be a Star. Used to know Gods Love. Became disconnected from Spirit. Now it tries to take the Light from the Stars. It cannot have it, ever. Spirit is Unbreakable. Black hole jealous of the Light. Wants it for itself though it knows not what to do with it. A psychopath. I am sad for the black hole.
Love when you do the voice of the “spiritual” narcissist 😂!