Well goodness Danish. I've been on my recovery journey for 2 years now. 1st with Dr Ramani and then the both of you. I have healed so much and understand things that I had no idea about before. I was such an ignorant impath. My story is much like yours (parent wise) but I was slow on the get out. I'm 62 now. But #5 of this list. Well now. You must be spying on me. Those points hit home. But overall God has guarded me this whole time. The narc demons will not win. None of the demons will win. I blessed that I learned to stop giving them power. Thank you for all you do. May God continue to Bless and Guide you.
God took me out of an abusive marriage and helped me to find a new life...at 70 years old. God is the way the truth and the life. He alone has truly been my savior from a horrible marriage. Saved my life really.
Love. IF you do not KNOW it's there, for you, and you deserve more; move YOUR Love along where it is acknowledged, AND reciprocal. Or, move it along, where it is adored. 🎉
Me too. I have been blinded by my empath for the past 17 years dealing with a narcissistic husband. I have cried my life out and still cry when I remember all the horrible things he has been doing. Thanks to God for letting me see this video
God removed that dark poison from my life several times. Beyond several times.... Now, I accept God's interventions. NO CONTACT. LIFETIME. HEALING and MOVING FORWARD. ❤
God removed a narcissistic man out of my life. I saw the grace of god after I start beginning praying to god to show me his real face. God kept me safe all the time. He tried to physically harm me, but god gave me the courage to fight back.
Hey don't take this personally please but when you start applying labels such as man or woman to a narcissist you are contributing to the confusion and the demonization of people who do not deserve it I am a man I suffered under a narcissistic abuse all my life I'm 55 years old and just finding this out for you to somehow try to make it look like men or the issue that is wrong in my opinion I wish you would take a look at that
The one thing i have learned in my relationship with God, when He feels distant, it’s because I was distant. I still find it amazing all I see in God when I’m near Him.
My mother was a malignant narcissist, my dad a vulnerable narcissist, and I married a covert noblenarc. After 31 years, I finally got out, returned to school to immerse myself in narcissism education. It led me to working with problematic dogs, which gave me confidence and fed my spirituality. The animals seemed to bring me signs of healing and showed my empathic gifts were alive. I also started helping people experiencing narcissistic abuse. Spirit showed me I was growing & healing. I also have visions in early am in between sleep/awakeness that guide me. It took a few years, but I now see how to turn my suffering into a beautiful tool. Thank you for all you do to help people.
Yes, there is divine power inside of us. When trauma increases we become more spiritual people. and in a miraculous way GOD gives us strength to repair our mental wound's
...and please don't get discouraged when it takes a while to sort yourself out after leaving all those people behind - You might be all by yourself for a longer period of time and perhaps you doubt that it was the right decision, because to the outside world you may seem to be the weird anti- social one when you go no contact...But please trust the process, you need that time and space to truly understand and see those toxic patterns for what they are , and you learn to wiggle yourself out of them...and bit by bit you are starting to get a feel for who you truly are and how to engage honestly and authentically with the world, and all the effort and alone - time are paying off...💮
Honestly I feel like this is the best birthday where im not stressed I'm not worried and none of this garbage people are around. It makes me feel at ease.
Living with a naccissist husband for 57 years I am 81 yrs old now I am still living with his abusive behaviour I have become v strong with the help of the Divine Presence I do get visions and I know God is leading me to the right path Thank u God has chosen u to help all those going through naccissist abuse Bless u son🙏❤️
I left my family home in February 2022, and I put myself into a recovery program. I did not have an addiction, but I needed a place to recover from the narc abuse at my home and from an ex-boyfriend. I stayed there for almost a year, and then the next year, God moved me into a hotel where all of my expenses were paid (during the pandemic) for clothing, food, and maid service for my sheets, in a 4-star hotel by the harbor. At the same time, my narc mother sold the family house, and she and my narc sister bought a home together, so there was nowhere for me to return to. I had thought when I ventured out to the recovery program that I might return home after a year, but God made that impossible,I was essentially abandoned by them. Now in 2025, I am about to get an apartment from the state, glory to God due to disablities. However, I have been so broken that I do not find the strength to do anything more than meet my immediate physical needs. I hope and pray that the rest of the steps will follow at some point. Thank you for this video, it was very encouraging.
Right now, all you have to do is meet your physical needs...in time, other needs will be met. As you start healing, God will put you on a path...some how He makes things work out. I signed up for a writing platform with the intention to read about other people's experiences and now I write about my own experiences and help others as a light to find their way out of the dark of Narcissism Abuse. May God be the light at your feet and guide you. God bless you.❤
YES!!! This year, at the tender age of 53, God finally removed my narcissistic so-called best friend from my life. I began the long process of healing from being raised by a broken, narcissistic mother. Praise the Lord! He has set this captive free. He lifted the heavy garment of shame on me which was placed by the enemy so many years ago. In its place, Jesus been faithful to restore my marriage, repair my relationship with my young son, and now give me the confidence to become the healer He created me to be. I am utterly changed! Hallelujah!!!
Thank you for sharing your story, Danish! 💖 I'm in the middle of the (discard) storm at the moment, but there's so much light in the darkness! It's comforting to know we're not alone in this battle (and I'm speaking from experience 🙏🕊️).
I realized my wife was one, then shortly after realized my Dad was one. Then my brother and sister. It was truly eye opening.. I try to be cautious and not label others. I just say there's toxic and there's me not needing it around me. Currently new to all this. November 2024 was when I first even learned what a narcissist is. Now it's Jan 3 2025 and I have My own apartment and have gone full no contact with the people I mentioned. I took the dog and left. Left everything.
How else would we learn the insidiousness of Evil without the experience of narcissistic abuse? Many of us here have endured various stages of learning to identify, cope, navigate and finally extricate ourselves from the abuse by remaining still, mindful, observant, and in silent prayer. Once the narc abuse dissipates to nothing, we are free! It's the freedom that gives us the courage to move forward and navigate our new life without stress nor guilt. Danish, you listened to God and saved hundreds of thousands of desperate lives as a Chosen One! God knew you would uniquely resonate with others like no one else could. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your help these past few years,, and for reconnecting us to the eternal goodness of almighty God. We love you!. ❤
This message is for me... I believe I'm at this stage in my life, after 25+ years of marriage. It's been over a year now that I've finally put a finger on what I've been dealing with all these years! 😭 Thank you Sir, for all the inspiring and motivating videos... I'm quietly planning my exit. YAH bless you! 🙏🏾💜
You're simply BRILLIANT, Danish. You sharing your story about narcissistic abuse with your family and what you were guided to do is most inspiring. You are clearly very committed to your own healing and to guiding others in their path to do so as well. Thank you for who you are.
I’m working on healing. I picked up being an over giver, and people pleasing which was keeping me in a place of not feeling empowered, and attracting the very people, places, things.. and keeping me from really being who I AM.. so now I am finding out what brings me joy, what I want, what I need. Understanding that the feelings of abandonment are normal, more I say no to others, and yes to me is my path. I have learned so many lessons.. especially about saying NO, and understanding that disappointing other people by saying no is giving them the opportunity to take responsibility for themselves.. 😊
Everyone died that was abusing me. I was forced to find my own path.so scarey not to be told what to do after all those years. Had to use Google and you tube.
For the longest time, I thought my mom was a codependent empath stuck in an abusive relationship, but now I’m not so sure. Lately, her abusive behavior has been escalating, and it’s starting to feel more like she might actually be a covert narcissist. It’s like she’s showing sides of herself she’s been hiding very well for years.
When a person does not heal they give that pain to others which will never be satisfied then. What is a narc then and a covert narc? The only thing we do wrong is not healing. At least one thought of my experience.
@@mariad3431 Yes, you get tired of it… The utter disrespect, the absence of true caring, the meanness, the threats Not to mention never being accountable for any of it… Instead always flip and blame and try and escalate the drama.
So much truth in this. Describes my healing very well. People don't understand my time of needing to be alone. I am healing, and at peace . . . finally. God is guiding me, re-setting me. I am alone, but not lonely. It's actually been an amazing journey, and I'm most grateful. Peace and love to all who are in pain.❤ thank you, Danish. You really describe the process so well!
I really wish I will be free from this bondage soon,my children are greatly affected by the toxic environment! Thanks Danish, because of you,now I know what I am dealing with.
I have experienced so many simmilar situations and divine inspirations Danish ❤ I can relate in many ways and I thank God ❤for that. We are growing in numbers and I pray that Love and Light guide us. Thank you. God bless you ❤
Jesus can live within all of us, but He is a gentleman. He doesn't force his way in, or come into someone's heart without being asked. A person has to ask Him in first. ❤ God bless you.
Had a very short Convo with a narco family member and for once I could see it so clearly how I didn't answer according to her wishes. Asking strange questions about my health and all.....I kept quiet and chose to listen. Eventually she started acting edgy and quickly made some excuse and hung up the phone. It's crazy that they think we don't know what's going on. Trust me ...their absence is a GIFT from the divine
I can resonate with 3 of your experiences,but especially with "the divine presence."" This is more profound when I wake up at midnight to pray. During this time, I get what I have termed "downloads." It feels like God is showing or telling me the positive side of all the pain n abuse I've been through in this life, n it feels awesome. It's like God is talking face to face with me. I can't fully explain. One has got to experience it to fully comprehend it.
My relationship and gratitude towards God grows exponentially as He guides me through life’s encounters with toxic people and situations, towards my greater purpose that He has set before me. God truly has our back and best interests at heart when we lean on Him.
This was timely Danish thanks for letting God use you 🙏❤my life is now on the 5th sign now God Is giving me revelation, instructions and ideas at this stage of my life mostly when am about to sleep or immediately after waking up just before i leave my bed this happens, much love
I feel like at 38 I realized how much BS I’ve put up with not just from members of my family but also the folks I’ve allowed in my life. My last relationship I thought was the one but I’ll be honest, it lasted probably two years longer than it should’ve but I thankfully never put a ring on it even after I let her back in my life a second time. My ex’s parents were thankfully a blessing during the break up, they’re amazing people and helped me get their daughter out of my life. Even with all of the BS she put me through I really hope she finds her way, I have no ill thoughts towards her!
Yes I can relate early morning just as I'm starting to wake up is when I get prompts and insights. Thanks for sharing as it's confirmed for me that God is guiding my path ❤
I so appreciate your sharing your story. I went through the same thing with my mother, alone and without helpful, illuminating videos. But then I found so many videos and cemented my narcissist education, now I am refining my understanding and growing leaps and bounds, finally free from this indescribable, confusing nightmare. 🎉❤🎉❤🎉 cheers and thank you!
I am a subscriber of your TH-cam channel. I thank you for making all of your helpful videos! Wishing you a Happy New Year, filled with peace and continued healing!
You are amazing. Thank you for your helpful insight. I have left my relationship with my mother. I'm 51. Surprisingly she had gone one session of counseling wanting to do another however I bowed out. 5 min in no transparency, stories flipped and gaslighting continued. Realized that continued counseling will be spent on her being victimized and never on our issues together. I did not get heard nor have I ever been. Its tough. I have been spending a lot of time not doing much thinking I'm depressed. I now am realizing I'm just working things out with my soul. Having mercy on it. I am a very driven person. My feet are back on the ground and my dreams are awaiting for me. I will not be abused or confused not one more min. I pray for her well-being everyday but our chapters our book is complete. Goodbye mom. Keep up the videos! So healing 💓
Amazing how they switch things around to deflect blame for one, but also to frustrate and make us angry for another. I make sure not to make them my authority anymore. I found if I think for myself, I won't fall for their mind games.
I realized only some month's ago that my family is toxic, I had to realize and accept thing's fromy childhood, what amd why happend, who I am and why..but first 10 years ago a started to practice and listen more tó my inner voice and belive that everything happen for a reason..I'll found a solution, just be ín relax and wait, be contact with yourself. Thank you Danish! ❤🙏😇
I still have my narcissistic father, 86 years old I pray and ask God to plesse spare me from taking care of him for any length of time, just enough time at the end to bring him to the Lord so he'll repent get saved and wont burn in hell for eternity.
Yes, nowadays I feel that nobody is there to help me or at least understand my painful feelings, of course nobody from my narcissistic husband’s family but also nobody from my brother or sister or my mom, it’s very painful that nobody is for you to share, I every time pray to the God, and many time I felt that I was depressed,but now I realise as Danish make us understand that we are actually praying to the God and The God is there , please help me 🙏🏻
Devine timing. I have a blood relative that did me many wrongs. I'm pretty much forced to attend family gatherings. Said person can't even look me in the eye now. I was a little proud of myself because I came through it just fine. Blessings 🙌 🙌 🙌. 💛💛💛💛💛
Danish my ex and my roomate abused me.. i had a rought childhood.. it lead to my spiritual awakening.. you played major role in that process.. i started watching your videos since 2023 for the first time in my life i felt someone understood what i had gone through... its was like somebody sucked my life out of my body... thankyou so much your videos gave me a lot of strength to fight this silent inner battel.
The messages we get from God that you mentioned are uncanny and extremely life changing. I respectfully bow down for your courage on saying it like it is and staying on the righteous path. ❤
Thank you for your videos, Danish. I came across one of them in the fall of 2023. My life has improved SO MUCH since coming to the understanding of the narcissistic abusive situation I was in. I gaslighted for so long, but the truth has allowed me to free myself. And yes, things happened so that I was able to leave. The narcissist tries to make you afraid to leave. Looking back.... it was like the Wizard of Oz. Little man behind the green curtain, I'm on to you now. LOL!
Thank Danish I just read a comment about a woman who God opened doors for her to leave at 70 years old. I am 67 and have been in this covert narcissistic relationship for 32 years. Now I am believe and am ready to go through that opened door from God. Amen thank you.
2023 God removed all 3 of my best friends. They all did something God knew I wouldn’t put up with, so I had to remove them. They all went in the same month. I have felt so peaceful since they went. Everything you have just said has resonated. All of it 💯
Your story resonates with me. God always finds a way to remove things or people that are not good for us so that we can fulfil our higher purpose in this life. Great videos. You're blessed and are being a true blessing to so many. ❤
Danish, I’d just like to say that I can see you’ve taken a physical transformation as well and are looking great! So many things resonated to me as an adult child of a narc mother. The clarity always comes when I am away from her. I also get that inspiration right in that half awake state as you mentioned. The longer I stay away the less heavy (spiritually) I feel.
God led me to follow you and be educated and equipped to get out of my 30year long abuse .i can totally relate to what your saying about the divine intervention… I’m a Christian… I feel proud that you boldly bring God into your work .. because in this day and age professionals shy away from talking about God … and For this reason your work will be blessed … you have helped me a great deal …
Yes, I have been experiencing the same help from God that you have. It is guidance along with a warm melting blanket of love. It gives me strength, clarity and my faith continues to grow and grow. Last night the Lord told me to lean on him, as I am pulling away from toxic abuse in my family. Your post means a lot to me and thank you for sharing your learning and your experiences. God did not put us here to be kickballs for bullies.
Same story. I also went to college and much was revealed from a distance. Exiting was difficult and I experienced grief. Why so many narcs in one family? Is it genetic?? Thanks for having courage to share. Your mother is classic!!😢😮😊
The Peace TRULY passes UNDERSTANDING!!! Once we reach Acceptance...THE HEALING!!! ✨️💖✨️ Thank You Sooo Very Much!!! I'm Sooo Proud of You!!! AND it's Sooo Nice to hear You Share!!!🤗
Thank you so much Danish. 💕🙏🏻 God is really with me and guiding me. Its just a matter of time. God is justice. God is relief. God is salvation. Om Tat Sat.
So true.. i am experiencing it now.. thank you for helping me through my tough times.. hopefully i too can help others like you .. once again Thank you Danish.. God bless you !
I have the same experience of feeling healed and free! And seeing God in my life like I never had before! He talks with, He walks with me! And that’s an extraordinary experience after leaving 2 narcissistic marriages! Thanks for clarifying in a way that made me even more confident of God’s path!
Yes Danish thank you 🙏. Like you, I’m surrounded by narcs everywhere. I’m sure that’s a function of “what I know” but also circumstances beyond my control. Now that I’m older, I can recognize the BS instantly and immediately reject the initial love bombing.
One and a half year ago, i randomly came across your video and felt as if you were narrating my story. You made me understand what i was going through for 25 years in my marriage, that i was continuously and sincerely trying to make work. You were introduced to me by Divine, to prepare me for the dark reality. And yes, toxic people were removed in one swift move of Divine, people showed up from everywhere to help, finances improved of their own and yes, my intuition sharpened- every morning, before i opened my eyes, a voice in my head told me to do this, that and such and it was precisely what had to be done at that time !! Fully resonate, Danish .🙏
This is a very comforting message. I will be starting a new job next month and this will give me the ability to leave him because I will be able to afford my own place. I hope I will be able to see God along the way like you are saying.
Definitely experiencing the sings of God now. Its absolutely mind blowing. Healing from narcissistic abuse which I never knew what is was before. Thank you for helping on the healing journey
Thank you for all that you have helped me with my narcissistic socialpath marriage. I learned from our doctor that my husband was a narcissistic socialpath and when I started reading about this disorder, everything started making sense from the first day that I met him up to now. Everything that you are talking about is and has happened to me. God bless you for helping so many people like me.❤❤❤
Doctor Danish thanks for this message, this is exactly what am going through right now from uganda i have gone through this Narcissistic relationship for 20 years but its just fews days back that i have started saying No to his behaviors,discovering my own siblings behaviors towards me.And most of all i can see ALLAH is to close to me these days like never before.May Allah continues to bless u Insha-Allah .
Because of your videos i was guided well and im able to speak against narcissists. I know you are one of the ingredients God provided for healing and restoration
One of the really good things about leaving my violent ex was how my mother reacted She put all her hatred and vitriol into writing She could no longer pretend that it had not happened It was there in black and white in her affidavit supporting my violent ex stating that everything was my fault and he should have custody of the children He was a loving caring father
DANISH. YOU HELP US, AND IT'S SO OBVIOUS WHAT AN EVOLVED SOUL YOU ARE. MY OWN TRAUMA HAS BEEN MUCH LIKE YOURS. I LIKE WHEN YOU SHARE YOUR OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. MUCH THE SAME AS MINE. AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU. I will be 83 this year. And I am determined now to begin life again. I wish I had more time and better health. I recently had life-saving surgery and am beginning to heal. I am so humbly grateful. Danish, you have been a major part of my healing these last few weeks. Thankyouu for being there. You are an angel on earth. So grateful for your support. I was feeling so abandoned and alone Much love from a grandma admirer in Montana who is beginning again. Bless you with all you need Danish. Much love from Margie in Montana. It is zero degrees F on this very cold morning high in the Rocky mountains on the great Continental Divide.
The year 2021 was my breakthrough i discovered my family was narcissistic and the same year i exposed my fiance i had an on/off "relationship for 7 years"as a covert narcissist! I went in no contact with all of them for the first time in my life !! Sometimes when I look back i feel joy 😊 and happiness but mostly I'm proud of myself and I'm greatful to God for my Empath gift that has saved me so many times 😇❤
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Well goodness Danish. I've been on my recovery journey for 2 years now. 1st with Dr Ramani and then the both of you. I have healed so much and understand things that I had no idea about before. I was such an ignorant impath. My story is much like yours (parent wise) but I was slow on the get out. I'm 62 now. But #5 of this list. Well now. You must be spying on me. Those points hit home.
But overall God has guarded me this whole time. The narc demons will not win. None of the demons will win. I blessed that I learned to stop giving them power. Thank you for all you do. May God continue to Bless and Guide you.
God took me out of an abusive marriage and helped me to find a new life...at 70 years old. God is the way the truth and the life. He alone has truly been my savior from a horrible marriage. Saved my life really.
So happy for you.
AMEN. I'm so happy for you. He did the exact same for me twice, He is the Savior and rescuer of ALL time...thank you Lord Jesus ❤
Love. IF you do not KNOW it's there, for you, and you deserve more; move YOUR Love along where it is acknowledged, AND reciprocal. Or, move it along, where it is adored. 🎉
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I'm 64.....got OUT in 2001 and have been alone since..... it's just me and Jesus.....God is FAITHFUL...😊❤
Even your voice is very comforting..
Yes, his voice is so comforting. 😊
GOD led me to your videos when I was going through narcissistic abuse and didn’t realize it at that time until I came across your videos randomly!!
Bless you!👼
Me too. Suddenly, appeared in my feed until I started reading them and eventually went wow, that's what's happening. Yikes!
Me too. I have been blinded by my empath for the past 17 years dealing with a narcissistic husband. I have cried my life out and still cry when I remember all the horrible things he has been doing. Thanks to God for letting me see this video
Same!! Amazing!! It is GODS WORK!!
This gives me chills, and Tears!! Simply Beautiful!
Once immersed in Narc videos, i find myself skipping them now…except for yours. This is graduate work. Thank you.
God removed that dark poison from my life several times. Beyond several times....
Now, I accept God's interventions.
NO CONTACT. LIFETIME. HEALING and MOVING FORWARD. ❤
God removed a narcissistic man out of my life. I saw the grace of god after I start beginning praying to god to show me his real face. God kept me safe all the time. He tried to physically harm me, but god gave me the courage to fight back.
How did you fight back? I feel so weak.
Hey don't take this personally please but when you start applying labels such as man or woman to a narcissist you are contributing to the confusion and the demonization of people who do not deserve it I am a man I suffered under a narcissistic abuse all my life I'm 55 years old and just finding this out for you to somehow try to make it look like men or the issue that is wrong in my opinion I wish you would take a look at that
A Narc is neither, man or woman ,They are monsters posing as a human...
I could have written this myself. God is good all the time.
Same here, so much to go into detail... every step unfortunately.🙏
Thank for being honest with your personal experience ❤ It really helped.❤
For decades I have thought God has abandoned me but now it seems He hasnt...
And He never will
@@eden7440or any of us! Amen! ✝️🙏❤️
‘For I will never leave you nor forsake you.’
It feels like He hasnt forgiven me completely yet though
The one thing i have learned in my relationship with God, when He feels distant, it’s because I was distant.
I still find it amazing all I see in God when I’m near Him.
Dear Danish sir thank you for saving us with the knowledge you give 😭😭😭😭 we are praying for you 🙏🏼💖
Definitely ❤
My mother was a malignant narcissist, my dad a vulnerable narcissist, and I married a covert noblenarc. After 31 years, I finally got out, returned to school to immerse myself in narcissism education. It led me to working with problematic dogs, which gave me confidence and fed my spirituality. The animals seemed to bring me signs of healing and showed my empathic gifts were alive. I also started helping people experiencing narcissistic abuse. Spirit showed me I was growing & healing. I also have visions in early am in between sleep/awakeness that guide me. It took a few years, but I now see how to turn my suffering into a beautiful tool. Thank you for all you do to help people.
🙏🏼🔥❤️ very inspiring
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Yes, there is divine power inside of us. When trauma increases we become more spiritual people. and in a miraculous way GOD gives us strength to repair our mental wound's
...and please don't get discouraged when it takes a while to sort yourself out after leaving all those people behind - You might be all by yourself for a longer period of time and perhaps you doubt that it was the right decision, because to the outside world you may seem to be the weird anti- social one when you go no contact...But please trust the process, you need that time and space to truly understand and see those toxic patterns for what they are , and you learn
to wiggle yourself out of them...and bit by bit you are starting to get a feel for who you truly are and how to engage honestly and authentically with the world, and all the effort and alone - time are paying off...💮
Thanks for this. I'm still stuck unable to dive deep in improvement but I understand the need to have.a new life
@farzanaahmed8322 you are ok , exactly as you are now .
Honestly I feel like this is the best birthday where im not stressed I'm not worried and none of this garbage people are around. It makes me feel at ease.
Happy Birthday stranger!
Happy Birthday !💐🎂👋
Mine too! It’s my first birthday without the narc!
@Ruthlan25 Happy Belated Birthday. And Christmas. And New Years.
Living with a naccissist husband for 57 years I am 81 yrs old now I am still living with his abusive behaviour I have become v strong with the help of the Divine Presence I do get visions and I know God is leading me to the right path Thank u God has chosen u to help all those going through naccissist abuse Bless u son🙏❤️
Danish. I thank you and God very, very much.
I left my family home in February 2022, and I put myself into a recovery program. I did not have an addiction, but I needed a place to recover from the narc abuse at my home and from an ex-boyfriend. I stayed there for almost a year, and then the next year, God moved me into a hotel where all of my expenses were paid (during the pandemic) for clothing, food, and maid service for my sheets, in a 4-star hotel by the harbor. At the same time, my narc mother sold the family house, and she and my narc sister bought a home together, so there was nowhere for me to return to. I had thought when I ventured out to the recovery program that I might return home after a year, but God made that impossible,I was essentially abandoned by them. Now in 2025, I am about to get an apartment from the state, glory to God due to disablities. However, I have been so broken that I do not find the strength to do anything more than meet my immediate physical needs. I hope and pray that the rest of the steps will follow at some point. Thank you for this video, it was very encouraging.
You can make it!
Love ❤and prayers your way, May Allah Ta'ala save you guide you give you ease and success Ameen 🤲 ✨
Right now, all you have to do is meet your physical needs...in time, other needs will be met. As you start healing, God will put you on a path...some how He makes things work out.
I signed up for a writing platform with the intention to read about other people's experiences and now I write about my own experiences and help others as a light to find their way out of the dark of Narcissism Abuse.
May God be the light at your feet and guide you. God bless you.❤
YES!!! This year, at the tender age of 53, God finally removed my narcissistic so-called best friend from my life. I began the long process of healing from being raised by a broken, narcissistic mother. Praise the Lord! He has set this captive free. He lifted the heavy garment of shame on me which was placed by the enemy so many years ago. In its place, Jesus been faithful to restore my marriage, repair my relationship with my young son, and now give me the confidence to become the healer He created me to be. I am utterly changed! Hallelujah!!!
Thank you for sharing your story, Danish! 💖 I'm in the middle of the (discard) storm at the moment, but there's so much light in the darkness! It's comforting to know we're not alone in this battle (and I'm speaking from experience 🙏🕊️).
You are gods chosen one Danish keep it up🎉 god bless you .
He truly is ❤
I realized my wife was one, then shortly after realized my Dad was one. Then my brother and sister. It was truly eye opening.. I try to be cautious and not label others. I just say there's toxic and there's me not needing it around me. Currently new to all this. November 2024 was when I first even learned what a narcissist is. Now it's Jan 3 2025 and I have My own apartment and have gone full no contact with the people I mentioned. I took the dog and left. Left everything.
God bless and guide your peaceful, purposeful journey.
How else would we learn the insidiousness of Evil without the experience of narcissistic abuse? Many of us here have endured various stages of learning to identify, cope, navigate and finally extricate ourselves from the abuse by remaining still, mindful, observant, and in silent prayer. Once the narc abuse dissipates to nothing, we are free! It's the freedom that gives us the courage to move forward and navigate our new life without stress nor guilt. Danish, you listened to God and saved hundreds of thousands of desperate lives as a Chosen One! God knew you would uniquely resonate with others like no one else could. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your help these past few years,, and for reconnecting us to the eternal goodness of almighty God. We love you!. ❤
This message is for me... I believe I'm at this stage in my life, after 25+ years of marriage.
It's been over a year now that I've finally put a finger on what I've been dealing with all these years! 😭
Thank you Sir, for all the inspiring and motivating videos... I'm quietly planning my exit.
YAH bless you! 🙏🏾💜
You're simply BRILLIANT, Danish. You sharing your story about narcissistic abuse with your family and what you were guided to do is most inspiring. You are clearly very committed to your own healing and to guiding others in their path to do so as well. Thank you for who you are.
I’m working on healing. I picked up being an over giver, and people pleasing which was keeping me in a place of not feeling empowered, and attracting the very people, places, things.. and keeping me from really being who I AM.. so now I am finding out what brings me joy, what I want, what I need. Understanding that the feelings of abandonment are normal, more I say no to others, and yes to me is my path.
I have learned so many lessons.. especially about saying NO, and understanding that disappointing other people by saying no is giving them the opportunity to take responsibility for themselves.. 😊
Everyone died that was abusing me. I was forced to find my own path.so scarey not to be told what to do after all those years. Had to use Google and you tube.
For the longest time, I thought my mom was a codependent empath stuck in an abusive relationship, but now I’m not so sure. Lately, her abusive behavior has been escalating, and it’s starting to feel more like she might actually be a covert narcissist. It’s like she’s showing sides of herself she’s been hiding very well for years.
When a person does not heal they give that pain to others which will never be satisfied then. What is a narc then and a covert narc? The only thing we do wrong is not healing. At least one thought of my experience.
Traumatized people get very nasty after so much abuse. It's a horrible cycle.
@@mariad3431 Yes, you get tired of it… The utter disrespect, the absence of true caring, the meanness, the threats
Not to mention never being accountable for any of it… Instead always flip and blame and try and escalate the drama.
So much truth in this. Describes my healing very well. People don't understand my time of needing to be alone. I am healing, and at peace . . . finally. God is guiding me, re-setting me. I am alone, but not lonely. It's actually been an amazing journey, and I'm most grateful. Peace and love to all who are in pain.❤ thank you, Danish. You really describe the process so well!
❤ thank you Danish for always talk about narcissism including God
I really wish I will be free from this bondage soon,my children are greatly affected by the toxic environment! Thanks Danish, because of you,now I know what I am dealing with.
I have been guided to write poems about narcissistic abuse and healing as well as leading others to write poetry about trauma as a healing journey.
I have experienced so many simmilar situations and divine inspirations Danish ❤ I can relate in many ways and I thank God ❤for that. We are growing in numbers and I pray that Love and Light guide us. Thank you. God bless you ❤
I'm going through this right now ❤️ thank God for you Danish
Jesus LIVES WITHIN ALL of us ... THAT'S the strength within....😊❤
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Jesus can live within all of us, but He is a gentleman. He doesn't force his way in, or come into someone's heart without being asked. A person has to ask Him in first. ❤ God bless you.
It is God not jesus or any other beings
Had a very short Convo with a narco family member and for once I could see it so clearly how I didn't answer according to her wishes. Asking strange questions about my health and all.....I kept quiet and chose to listen. Eventually she started acting edgy and quickly made some excuse and hung up the phone. It's crazy that they think we don't know what's going on. Trust me ...their absence is a GIFT from the divine
2 Tim 3
(Paraphrase)
"....Stay away from them..."
Paul's warning about the personality disorders that will walk the earth in the latter days.
I can resonate with 3 of your experiences,but especially with "the divine presence."" This is more profound when I wake up at midnight to pray. During this time, I get what I have termed "downloads." It feels like God is showing or telling me the positive side of all the pain n abuse I've been through in this life, n it feels awesome. It's like God is talking face to face with me. I can't fully explain. One has got to experience it to fully comprehend it.
My relationship and gratitude towards God grows exponentially as He guides me through life’s encounters with toxic people and situations, towards my greater purpose that He has set before me. God truly has our back and best interests at heart when we lean on Him.
❤❤❤Classic holy spirituality! Tears dear Danish. You're so competent and humble. You're genuine. This mama loves you. May God bless you 🙏 always! 😊❤
This was timely Danish thanks for letting God use you 🙏❤my life is now on the 5th sign now God Is giving me revelation, instructions and ideas at this stage of my life mostly when am about to sleep or immediately after waking up just before i leave my bed this happens, much love
I feel like at 38 I realized how much BS I’ve put up with not just from members of my family but also the folks I’ve allowed in my life. My last relationship I thought was the one but I’ll be honest, it lasted probably two years longer than it should’ve but I thankfully never put a ring on it even after I let her back in my life a second time. My ex’s parents were thankfully a blessing during the break up, they’re amazing people and helped me get their daughter out of my life. Even with all of the BS she put me through I really hope she finds her way, I have no ill thoughts towards her!
Yes I can relate early morning just as I'm starting to wake up is when I get prompts and insights. Thanks for sharing as it's confirmed for me that God is guiding my path ❤
God is so good to us!!❤ I ove you Lord Jesus the savior!
I so appreciate your sharing your story. I went through the same thing with my mother, alone and without helpful, illuminating videos. But then I found so many videos and cemented my narcissist education, now I am refining my understanding and growing leaps and bounds, finally free from this indescribable, confusing nightmare. 🎉❤🎉❤🎉 cheers and thank you!
I am a subscriber of your TH-cam channel. I thank you for making all of your helpful videos! Wishing you a Happy New Year, filled with peace and continued healing!
You are amazing. Thank you for your helpful insight. I have left my relationship with my mother. I'm 51. Surprisingly she had gone one session of counseling wanting to do another however I bowed out. 5 min in no transparency, stories flipped and gaslighting continued. Realized that continued counseling will be spent on her being victimized and never on our issues together. I did not get heard nor have I ever been. Its tough. I have been spending a lot of time not doing much thinking I'm depressed. I now am realizing I'm just working things out with my soul. Having mercy on it. I am a very driven person. My feet are back on the ground and my dreams are awaiting for me. I will not be abused or confused not one more min. I pray for her well-being everyday but our chapters our book is complete. Goodbye mom.
Keep up the videos! So healing 💓
Amazing how they switch things around to deflect blame for one, but also to frustrate and make us angry for another. I make sure not to make them my authority anymore. I found if I think for myself, I won't fall for their mind games.
Take time for yourself, rest and you will find your way to yourself in time. Sending love ❤️
The meaning of name 'Danish' is knowledge, science and wisdom....this is what you are Sir....🙏🏻
I didn't know that You believe in God 🙏 God Bless You 🩷
Yes! All of that! Taking care of my disabled daughter the love of my life! Thank U!
I realized only some month's ago that my family is toxic, I had to realize and accept thing's fromy childhood, what amd why happend, who I am and why..but first 10 years ago a started to practice and listen more tó my inner voice and belive that everything happen for a reason..I'll found a solution, just be ín relax and wait, be contact with yourself. Thank you Danish! ❤🙏😇
This really resonates with my story. 🙏❤️
I'm so proud of you for being honest about your journey.
I still have my narcissistic father, 86 years old I pray and ask God to plesse spare me from taking care of him for any length of time, just enough time at the end to bring him to the Lord so he'll repent get saved and wont burn in hell for eternity.
Praying for him
Yes, nowadays I feel that nobody is there to help me or at least understand my painful feelings, of course nobody from my narcissistic husband’s family but also nobody from my brother or sister or my mom, it’s very painful that nobody is for you to share, I every time pray to the God, and many time I felt that I was depressed,but now I realise as Danish make us understand that we are actually praying to the God and The God is there , please help me 🙏🏻
Devine timing. I have a blood relative that did me many wrongs. I'm pretty much forced to attend family gatherings. Said person can't even look me in the eye now. I was a little proud of myself because I came through it just fine. Blessings 🙌 🙌 🙌. 💛💛💛💛💛
Danish, I’m so sorry you went through all of this, so many people can relate, myself included- Thank you for helping all of us in this journey ❤
Danish my ex and my roomate abused me.. i had a rought childhood.. it lead to my spiritual awakening.. you played major role in that process.. i started watching your videos since 2023 for the first time in my life i felt someone understood what i had gone through... its was like somebody sucked my life out of my body... thankyou so much your videos gave me a lot of strength to fight this silent inner battel.
In the deepest pain, I got an encounter and realized Jesus is LORD and healing came that same day.
they don’t want you to read the book 'Magnetic Aura' by Takeshi Mizuki because it says the stuff no one else is brave enough to say about attraction
The messages we get from God that you mentioned are uncanny and extremely life changing. I respectfully bow down for your courage on saying it like it is and staying on the righteous path. ❤
ALL PRAISES BE TO THE MOST HIGH ALAHAYAM!
It feels so good to finally say NO!
This video describes my experience. Thank you so much for sharing this
I have truly experienced this. ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for your videos, Danish. I came across one of them in the fall of 2023. My life has improved SO MUCH since coming to the understanding of the narcissistic abusive situation I was in. I gaslighted for so long, but the truth has allowed me to free myself. And yes, things happened so that I was able to leave. The narcissist tries to make you afraid to leave. Looking back.... it was like the Wizard of Oz. Little man behind the green curtain, I'm on to you now. LOL!
Thank you. I needed to hear it. I know God sees the truth and he is with me.God bless you
Thank Danish I just read a comment about a woman who God opened doors for her to leave at 70 years old. I am 67 and have been in this covert narcissistic relationship for 32 years. Now I am believe and am ready to go through that opened door from God. Amen thank you.
2023 God removed all 3 of my best friends. They all did something God knew I wouldn’t put up with, so I had to remove them.
They all went in the same month. I have felt so peaceful since they went.
Everything you have just said has resonated.
All of it 💯
True it has stated to happen i have witnessed it Anen I stayed stressd on this so long now more at ease but still alert .Amen! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Your story resonates with me. God always finds a way to remove things or people that are not good for us so that we can fulfil our higher purpose in this life. Great videos. You're blessed and are being a true blessing to so many. ❤
Danish, I’d just like to say that I can see you’ve taken a physical transformation as well and are looking great! So many things resonated to me as an adult child of a narc mother. The clarity always comes when I am away from her. I also get that inspiration right in that half awake state as you mentioned. The longer I stay away the less heavy (spiritually) I feel.
God led me to follow you and be educated and equipped to get out of my 30year long abuse .i can totally relate to what your saying about the divine intervention… I’m a Christian… I feel proud that you boldly bring God into your work .. because in this day and age professionals shy away from talking about God … and For this reason your work will be blessed … you have helped me a great deal …
Thank you Danish 🙏❤️
Yes, I have been experiencing the same help from God that you have. It is guidance along with a warm melting blanket of love. It gives me strength, clarity and my faith continues to grow and grow. Last night the Lord told me to lean on him, as I am pulling away from toxic abuse in my family. Your post means a lot to me and thank you for sharing your learning and your experiences. God did not put us here to be kickballs for bullies.
This is exactly what happened to me. Omg this resonated deeply. Thank you God!!
Same story. I also went to college and much was revealed from a distance. Exiting was difficult and I experienced grief.
Why so many narcs in one family? Is it genetic?? Thanks for having courage to share. Your mother is classic!!😢😮😊
Amen praise God
The Peace TRULY passes UNDERSTANDING!!! Once we reach Acceptance...THE HEALING!!!
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Thank You Sooo Very Much!!! I'm Sooo Proud of You!!! AND it's Sooo Nice to hear You Share!!!🤗
Thank you so much Danish. 💕🙏🏻 God is really with me and guiding me.
Its just a matter of time. God is justice. God is relief. God is salvation. Om Tat Sat.
So true.. i am experiencing it now.. thank you for helping me through my tough times.. hopefully i too can help others like you .. once again Thank you Danish.. God bless you !
I have the same experience of feeling healed and free! And seeing God in my life like I never had before! He talks with, He walks with me! And that’s an extraordinary experience after leaving 2 narcissistic marriages! Thanks for clarifying in a way that made me even more confident of God’s path!
Amen. Thank ago.gratitude is happiness ❤
After watching your videos - everything now makes sense. I'm crying, but good tears. I'm so thankful to God that I found your channel.
Danke!
Yes Danish thank you 🙏. Like you, I’m surrounded by narcs everywhere. I’m sure that’s a function of “what I know” but also circumstances beyond my control. Now that I’m older, I can recognize the BS instantly and immediately reject the initial love bombing.
One and a half year ago, i randomly came across your video and felt as if you were narrating my story. You made me understand what i was going through for 25 years in my marriage, that i was continuously and sincerely trying to make work. You were introduced to me by Divine, to prepare me for the dark reality. And yes, toxic people were removed in one swift move of Divine, people showed up from everywhere to help, finances improved of their own and yes, my intuition sharpened- every morning, before i opened my eyes, a voice in my head told me to do this, that and such and it was precisely what had to be done at that time !! Fully resonate, Danish .🙏
This is a very comforting message. I will be starting a new job next month and this will give me the ability to leave him because I will be able to afford my own place. I hope I will be able to see God along the way like you are saying.
So relatable, comforting and inspiring ❤
Definitely experiencing the sings of God now. Its absolutely mind blowing. Healing from narcissistic abuse which I never knew what is was before. Thank you for helping on the healing journey
Thank you for all that you have helped me with my narcissistic socialpath marriage. I learned from our doctor that my husband was a narcissistic socialpath and when I started reading about this disorder, everything started making sense from the first day that I met him up to now. Everything that you are talking about is and has happened to me. God bless you for helping so many people like me.❤❤❤
You hit the nail on the head. I can relate 100%, as if you were describing my road to healing post narcissistic abuse trauma.
Doctor Danish thanks for this message, this is exactly what am going through right now from uganda i have gone through this Narcissistic relationship for 20 years but its just fews days back that i have started saying No to his behaviors,discovering my own siblings behaviors towards me.And most of all i can see ALLAH is to close to me these days like never before.May Allah continues to bless u Insha-Allah .
Because of your videos i was guided well and im able to speak against narcissists. I know you are one of the ingredients God provided for healing and restoration
Gosh, yes most of this resonates. I’d never thought of it until I listened to you my friend. Thank you and god bless you Danish.
One of the really good things about leaving my violent ex was how my mother reacted She put all her hatred and vitriol into writing She could no longer pretend that it had not happened It was there in black and white in her affidavit supporting my violent ex stating that everything was my fault and he should have custody of the children He was a loving caring father
horrible
GOD has always been there for me. Behind the scenes for many years BUT when i was ready HE opened my eyes. ❤
Thank you for this! This has been starting to happen in my life, and to hear you verbalize it gives me even more hope! 🙏
DANISH. YOU HELP US, AND IT'S SO OBVIOUS WHAT AN EVOLVED SOUL YOU ARE. MY OWN TRAUMA HAS BEEN MUCH LIKE YOURS. I LIKE WHEN YOU SHARE YOUR OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. MUCH THE SAME AS MINE. AM SO GRATEFUL TO YOU. I will be 83 this year. And I am determined now to begin life again. I wish I had more time and better health. I recently had life-saving surgery and am beginning to heal. I am so humbly grateful. Danish, you have been a major part of my healing these last few weeks. Thankyouu for being there. You are an angel on earth. So grateful for your support. I was feeling so abandoned and alone Much love from a grandma admirer in Montana who is beginning again. Bless you with all you need Danish. Much love from Margie in Montana. It is zero degrees F on this very cold morning high in the Rocky mountains on the great Continental Divide.
On point exactly 💯 what I've been going through for years
God is supporting me. I am thankful ❤❤❤
Everything he said here was true before I saw this video. Thought I was just imaging things or going crazy. Truly is a spiritual experience.
Thank you
God showed me ypur recommendations and through your videos i distanced myself from my overt narc mom and now living a happy life abroad
Yes, I experienced everything you described. Thank you for sharing and validating my experiences ❤
The year 2021 was my breakthrough i discovered my family was narcissistic and the same year i exposed my fiance i had an on/off "relationship for 7 years"as a covert narcissist!
I went in no contact with all of them for the first time in my life !!
Sometimes when I look back i feel joy 😊 and happiness but mostly I'm proud of myself and I'm greatful to God for my Empath gift that has saved me so many times 😇❤