Honestly this was me, staying because I feared there wasn't better even though I knew I had to leave, I stayed all because I was waiting for the person I fell in love with to resurface and hey I'm single now but Ndonwabile is so many dimensions and overall I Moved on and up.❤👏 This Video was a must🤞🌺 Thank you.
I think it was Aristotle who came up with the concept of soul mates being "one soul inhabiting two bodies" Romanticists ran with that idea and purported the notion of each human having one God ordained soul mate. Which sounds adorable, kodwa life isn't adorable, not in the slightest. Two be one soul inhabiting two bodies isn't something God designs for you. That would make love boring. I think Aristotle meant, it's when two souls meet and mutually agree to care for each other the way they'd care for themselves. Tiny example, when you get up to the fridge because ubawel' ijuice, and while you're pouring, you take out a second glass and ask if she wants some juicr too. Sounds insignificant, but that's what it is like being a soul mate. But you can take it to a bigger example. Gugulethu is approached by TH-cam to create a YT Original with an Australian TH-camr but Gugulethu would have to move to Brisbane. Gugulethu goes "Thanks YT, I'll get back to you" and she goes to her mans so they can decide it together. Why? Because as much as we're individual bodies, when we're in a relationship, we forfeit the luxury of being individual souls on individual trajectories. We always have to think for the Relationships Soul. What does the Relationship get out of this YT deal? What does the Relationship lose from this YT deal? Etc. We live, breathe, eat, sleep as if we're on soul, in two bodies. But Ndumiso, I'd never put my relationship before my career. Which is okay. Men do it all the time. It shows that you value the career more than the relationship. Which is ok. It's totally ok to choose who and when your soul mate is. Soul mate, is when you choose to forget your individual soul and start thinking about the combined soul. Ask your mother about how she thinks now vs before she had kids. It's another version of the soul mate concept. Your mothers decisions will always, always always factor you while you're still in her care. She stopped thinking as an individual soul when found out she was pregnant. After that she started thinking for two bodies, as one soul. Qha we need to be mature enough to be willing to do that with a complete stranger. And set our priorities.
I truly needed this 🥺❤, your channel honestly has always been there to just remind a girl that she just needs to take a step back and focus on herself. Thank you for this ❤
I just realized Journey and Journal sound like they have the same etymology, so I googled it and it's true. Both words stem from the same latin concept of "Daily Events" or "Daily Travels" which makes me appreciate Journaling even more. From about age 14 (10 years ago) I have been obsessed with writing down everything, even the minutia of my most boring moments in life like deciding which socks to wear that day. To the life altering thoughts and idea, like me being estranged from my father and how that will shape the man I become. Journaling is the intentional examination of one's life (read Journey) and like some famous Caucasian man once said - and I'm paraphrasing - the unexamined life ain't worth shit. I have no idea where I was going with this comment. I just know it started with the tiny realization of the similarity between the words Journey and Journal. I'll go continue this in my diary. Ps. Love your channel.
I just saw Katlego on TV, I'm soo excited for her I didn't know what to do with my excitement and where to go sprinkle love on the girl and just say Lady I am soooooo happy for you ♥️♥️♥️🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊yasssssss Queen 👑
How is it that when we listen to women having these types of conversations, I go "women are just like us" but then when we're face to face with the lady, it feels like we're two completely different species.
As soon as I saw your comment I wanted to change my answer because I think I know what you were going to say and I agree 😭😂. I am definitely shooting a pt 2 with you when this is all over 🤞🏽
Alright I'd like to challenge that cause i know someone who doesn't care what people think , actually he said he stopped caring and looking at him now he has gained alot of weight he doesn't even want to admit it but u can even see it he doesn't go out anymore, doesn't take pictures anymore so i feel like caring about what people think makes us better
If we would define love according to 1 Corinthians 13 then I think love makes you fight for the relationship. Relationships are a give and take but love is give give give. Otherwise, John Legend said it best that, "...everybody knows, that nobody really knows , How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt. We've heard it all before, that everybody knows. How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try..." So hey...
SIBU SAID IT !!!! “The key to life is not to give a DAMN forget about abantu “!!!
These Queens are gorgeous !! Kat's smile 😔❤️ I haven't even gotten to the accents ! I love love love to see it 😚💘
Honestly this was me, staying because I feared there wasn't better even though I knew I had to leave, I stayed all because I was waiting for the person I fell in love with to resurface and hey I'm single now but Ndonwabile is so many dimensions and overall I Moved on and up.❤👏 This Video was a must🤞🌺 Thank you.
To being single and happy 🥂
Akamhle uSibu😍😍
I'm legit ALWAYS starring at her 🔥
@@carolinesethojane4033 Nami yoh
I think it was Aristotle who came up with the concept of soul mates being "one soul inhabiting two bodies"
Romanticists ran with that idea and purported the notion of each human having one God ordained soul mate. Which sounds adorable, kodwa life isn't adorable, not in the slightest.
Two be one soul inhabiting two bodies isn't something God designs for you. That would make love boring. I think Aristotle meant, it's when two souls meet and mutually agree to care for each other the way they'd care for themselves. Tiny example, when you get up to the fridge because ubawel' ijuice, and while you're pouring, you take out a second glass and ask if she wants some juicr too. Sounds insignificant, but that's what it is like being a soul mate. But you can take it to a bigger example. Gugulethu is approached by TH-cam to create a YT Original with an Australian TH-camr but Gugulethu would have to move to Brisbane. Gugulethu goes "Thanks YT, I'll get back to you" and she goes to her mans so they can decide it together. Why? Because as much as we're individual bodies, when we're in a relationship, we forfeit the luxury of being individual souls on individual trajectories. We always have to think for the Relationships Soul. What does the Relationship get out of this YT deal? What does the Relationship lose from this YT deal? Etc. We live, breathe, eat, sleep as if we're on soul, in two bodies.
But Ndumiso, I'd never put my relationship before my career. Which is okay. Men do it all the time. It shows that you value the career more than the relationship. Which is ok. It's totally ok to choose who and when your soul mate is.
Soul mate, is when you choose to forget your individual soul and start thinking about the combined soul.
Ask your mother about how she thinks now vs before she had kids. It's another version of the soul mate concept. Your mothers decisions will always, always always factor you while you're still in her care. She stopped thinking as an individual soul when found out she was pregnant. After that she started thinking for two bodies, as one soul.
Qha we need to be mature enough to be willing to do that with a complete stranger. And set our priorities.
Yoh, you said a mouthful. Very insightful I must say.
Damnnnnnn I love your brain @ndumiso
Yoh 🥺♥️👌🏾
these women , this sisterhood tjeeeeerrrrrrrr 😪😻♥️🔥 love you guys !
We love you ❤️
The key to life is to not give a damn- felt that 😭♥️
I just found this channel 🌸 and I’m in seventh heaven ✨ I love this friendship and the energy 😁
Landa the Yoda welcome 🥰! I’m so happy you’re enjoying the content x
This video made me laugh then cry then laugh then cry again.
Wholesome in every sense, thank you.
I truly needed this 🥺❤, your channel honestly has always been there to just remind a girl that she just needs to take a step back and focus on herself. Thank you for this ❤
We all need a reminder from time to time. You are most welcome ❤️
Actual gems dropped on here.
Y’all are just so beautiful 😭 I can’t deal ❤️🔥
The intro already had me liking as usual💌👏🤗💕
I just realized Journey and Journal sound like they have the same etymology, so I googled it and it's true. Both words stem from the same latin concept of "Daily Events" or "Daily Travels" which makes me appreciate Journaling even more.
From about age 14 (10 years ago) I have been obsessed with writing down everything, even the minutia of my most boring moments in life like deciding which socks to wear that day. To the life altering thoughts and idea, like me being estranged from my father and how that will shape the man I become. Journaling is the intentional examination of one's life (read Journey) and like some famous Caucasian man once said - and I'm paraphrasing - the unexamined life ain't worth shit.
I have no idea where I was going with this comment. I just know it started with the tiny realization of the similarity between the words Journey and Journal. I'll go continue this in my diary.
Ps. Love your channel.
Lol haha I love this . Cause I digress all time ♥️ I got what you were headed
underrated content !🥱
Everyone goes through something life changing, it's really great for character building. This was a beautiful video , thank you guys ❤
“This long distance is killing me” yhuu I am dead 😭😂😂😂
Sibu is such a realist, I want to hear more from her.
Just clicked the video. 2 seconds into it, I clicked the subscribe button 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Sold! PERIODT! I like it here
Thank you for subscribing ❤️❤️!
Jus like me, I subbed in less than a minute 😁
Thanks for the video some of us learned things about your future it’s great to have you guys
I just saw Katlego on TV, I'm soo excited for her I didn't know what to do with my excitement and where to go sprinkle love on the girl and just say Lady I am soooooo happy for you ♥️♥️♥️🎊🎊🎊🎊🎊yasssssss Queen 👑
You all are soo beautiful!
Thank you so much 🥺
why am I finding this channel now?😭😭 I’ve been binging on y’all videos the whole day😂😂. I love the energy so so much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️!
Sibu you Beaut!! 😍😍
Bolwetse ba batho ba tla reng is too real, thanks for this
Officially my fave!!!
Sibbbbuuuuuu SPEAK🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥
Your energy mara guys🔥🔥🔥💕💕💕🥵🥵🥵🙌🙌🙌
When Gugu mentioned the part about giving one nigga that much power, I FELT THAT!!!
Yhuuu Sibu teach me how to stop please😂😭🙆🏽♀️
She needs to teach both of us because kubi 💀
Absolutely loved this!😍😍😍Congratulations on 3K❤️❤️❤️
😂😅”I want to fall in love ! Let’s go!!”
Really enjoyed watching this xx
Love it Here😍😂 I'm sooo like Gugu❤️❤️❤️
Would love for them to do an updated version of this video
3K SHO GENGE !
Really love this channel 💕🥺
When Sibu talked about iRatanga 😂😂😂❤️
A necessary conversation.
Gugu sisi your content 😣😘😘😘😘😘😍😍😍😍 its amazing andizuyitsalisa its simply amazing
You ladies are so beautiful 😍❤️
Yhooor I LOVE you guys so much 😭😭
😂 This video was so amusing #Sdenge, I felt that 💔😂😭
Looooved this 😂♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😭♥️
Guys Gugu is me 😭😂
its already hard as it is to find someone I "like" so when I do it's all systems go and I become a gone girl in the talking stage 😅
One day we will find people we are worth is being gone in the talking stage 🤞🏽😤
3k subscribers💃
Yessir!
The girl code here is so powerful 😂🤣😂🤣
Y'all are a vibe
Love love your intro 🥺😍
I loved this!
iGenge ifikile ku 3K 🔥🎉🎉
How is it that when we listen to women having these types of conversations, I go "women are just like us" but then when we're face to face with the lady, it feels like we're two completely different species.
I feel like people often confuse their opinions for facts, we really need to learn the difference.
Watching this now🥴but yes to being single and happy🥺❤️
Hello genge road to 4k 💃💃💃💃💃
YEZZIRRRRR 🗣🗣🗣🗣
This video was great lmaao
CONGRATS ON 3K GENEG!!
I really enjoyed ths ,and I like the fact that your contents are always legit, 💯real...
Ah wish I was there for that soulmate chat.. interesting stuff😍
As soon as I saw your comment I wanted to change my answer because I think I know what you were going to say and I agree 😭😂. I am definitely shooting a pt 2 with you when this is all over 🤞🏽
RULE 1: NEVER DROP YOUR HOES!! I enjoyed this video xx
Loved loved this video❣❣🥺🥺
I love you ladies ❤❤❤
Major Key Alert 🔥
I love this
I love this 🔥🥺
I definitely sang along with you guy in the beginning 😂🔥
Aibo sanithandi😍
Sibu’s voice sounds exactly like Kamo Modisakeng’s voice🤯
Thank you for your wise words 🤗
Katlego wa ntlatsa😂
Dating in this day and age is freaken hard
Notification gang
Calling Joburg the streets?? Ausi you don’t know Pta😭😭😭
Dudeee pretoria made the streets 😭😭💔😂😂
this was so ensightful.
20:40 onwards makes it seem like what we been thru moulded us in this babessss
“Oh nkosi yami”😂
Hella funny. Defs subbed.
Thank you for subscribing 🤪💛
Alright I'd like to challenge that cause i know someone who doesn't care what people think , actually he said he stopped caring and looking at him now he has gained alot of weight he doesn't even want to admit it but u can even see it he doesn't go out anymore, doesn't take pictures anymore so i feel like caring about what people think makes us better
Gugu is so cute😍😍😍😍😍😍
Congrats on the 3K subscribe
Thank you! 💛
I love y’all 🤣
Sipho just wants to be loved 😭😭
GREAT TALK LADIES
Sho Genge !!!! We Reached 3 k 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽😭😭😭😭😭 !!!!Thank you Gugu and the Ladies 🙏🏾 once again.
If we would define love according to 1 Corinthians 13 then I think love makes you fight for the relationship. Relationships are a give and take but love is give give give. Otherwise, John Legend said it best that, "...everybody knows, that nobody really knows
, How to make it work, or how to ease the hurt. We've heard it all before, that everybody knows. How to make it right, I wish we gave it one more try..." So hey...
Girl Power
Sho genge🥺🥵
We've reached 3K💃💃💃🤗🤗🙈😍😜Ke happy maarn!
#notificationgang
So am I 🥺 Road to 4K 😤
Cool
This very interesting I want start a TH-cam channel
Bathong I miss watching this trio
Plz do a natural hair video
Please add subtitles for the vernacular 😊
I’m working on it 😤🤞🏽
Subtittles please😔😔❤❤
Yes! I’m working on that ASAP
New Subbie 🎊
Welcome! ❤️❤️
What does BUC mean ps. I know y’all are gonna laugh at this😂😂
the streets and the sheisty characters...
😍 😍 😍 ♥ ♥ ♥
Feel like Gugu is a Leo
Ok Virgo
I’m a Virgo 😂❤️
Can we have your friend's social tags
I love your channel ❤️ content👌🏾.. I feel as if I grow with every video 😔👏