STORYTIME: My first experience with a Nigerian man🫣|| spoils. South African YouTuber
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As a Nigerian, I think the guy genuinely had feels for you.. And by the way the money he was giving was a show of affection.. I guess you shouldn't have ghosted him.
He’ll find the right lady for him
Another jollof
Biggest mistake is giving away your phone number.
@@dikolizaskk5847do you even know what jollof is? That's senegambian/Senegal kingdom the wolofs/lebou people...
@SHANNY13_96 okay
To be honest you wasted that guy’s time and took advantage of his kindness. You knew very well that you had no intentions of ever exploring a relationship or anything for that matter yet you strung him along.
You can’t treat people like that hey
So much xenophobia in one vid 😢
this is my first time of commenting on any TH-cam channel. I'm going to be honest with you100%. half of Nigerian girls will die for what you think is stupid, why do you all south African girls think or say Nigerian men are bad people or they sell drugs. I was really sad and disappointed from the story you just said. the reason he was shy just like you have said is because he loved you from the moment he set he's eye on you I'm glad you mentioned he was the one that requested for your number from that lady. trust me you don't know what love is. haven't you ever had a crush on some one before? that same feeling you have when ever you see that boy or guy that's the same feeling he has towards you when ever he see's you. I'm not jugging for him but because I'm also a shy person so I understand him very well. you won't even believe some times he might be doing rehearsal on what to say to you when he's alone trust me. one thing about Nigerian men is spending money and making their woman happy is their nature.( I'm not saying all Nigerian men are like that but 80% of them will do just as he did to you even if they are poor they would do their best to make sure they make you happy but I don't know about south Africa men) they believe love is not just expressing your feeling but at the same time you will have to proved and take good care of her. no woman on earth would want to be in a relationship were she's not been taking good care of. PLEASE TO THOSE OF YOU THAT THINK NIGERIAN MEN ARE BAD PEOPLE THEY ARE NOT. DON'T JUGE SOMEONE BEFORE KNOWING THEM. the same goes to when you see a person then some beside you tells you that person is bad and evil without you know that for your self. now when ever you see that person you will try to stay away from that person as much as you can without even knowing if the person is not bad or not. if you are reading this message from any part of Africa I believe you have a mobile phone and you must have seen few Nigerians boy/girls online making videos. Now I want you to be honest with your self do they look bad and evil? most time when watching their videos you laugh a lot, yes I'm right about that because they are the most funniest people in Africa. they make fun of everything. MY POINT IS PLEASE DON'T JUGE PEOPLE BEFORE KNOW THEM I'M A NIGERIAN AND I'M PROUD OF IT, I LIVE IN NIGERIA IF WE WHERE BAD PEOPLE I WILL TELL YOU WE ARE.
Thank you for the comment, it is very informative.❤️
@@TshwaneloZee You are welcome. if I have said anything that offends you in any way I'm so sorry.
@@TshwaneloZee I feel like you came back and re-read my comment. well I'm glad you find it very informative I didn't even realized that my self. by the way you are very beautiful 😁
Be proudly Nigerian all you want girl, truth ramain that majority of Nigerians in South Africa are drug and scam pushers, watch show called Sizokthola and see for yourself, I apologize to the decent honest Nigerians who get painted with the same brush, the whole world is jailing Nigerians left right and centre for drugs n scams, just face n admit truth, we accept that some minority people are Xenophobic but not all of us are Xenophobic and currently our men are killing us like flies. So please Nigerians admit your problems n maybe find ways to solve them n stop denying it's pathetic
The good Nigerians stay in Nigeria but the bad ones come to South Africa, what a shame
I don't like story times but this one Miss, this specific one is top tier. You've just gained a subbie😍🥰❤
Welcome to the fam❤️❤️
"Oga" means Boss
You have gorgeous skin🥺🔥
Thank you my sweetie
That guy probably would have married you if you didn't ghost him shame he sounds like such a nice guy🤣
Lol you think? I wouldn’t want to marry a guy who can’t hold a conversation for five minutes.
She's a fool, he deserves better than her and he will soon find his queen, she will regret her decision because God may have brought her her soulmate but because of ignorance, and pride, she will end up with someone that will treat her less than human, unless she changes her negative behavior.
😂😂why ole better Nono?
@@blackafrikansoulja9093 exactly, I felt so disgusted listening to her story .
@@TshwaneloZee Then you should have broken it off right from the onset. It is not nice stringing him along. He probably now has a very negative opinion of SA ladies because of the way you treated and ghosted him, all because you allowed yourself to be influenced by a documentary that you watched. It definitely is not fair on him.
Why do I feel like you’re talking about Nigerian men with a lot of disgust? Anyways that was a good man and you lost him , not his lose but yours.
It really doesn’t matter hey
@@TshwaneloZee it matters, learn to respect people. It’s cute or rather it will make you cuter
It doesn’t matter if it was a loss to me, if it matters to you then okay.
I did not disrespect anyone but if you think I did then that’s really your problem. I don’t care about looking cute to people FYI people will always complain and find negatives about people so honestly people opinions about me are just that, opinions.
You use a phase “Nigerian man with disgust” and yet I’m the disrespectful one? Girl bye🙄
They really overrate themselves.
Though to be fair, it's their country.
That guy wouldn't look at her twice outside South Africa.
If that’s the case he shouldn’t have looked in the first place. It’s not like there are no nigerian woman in SA if that was his preference he’d definitely go for them. When you comment at least make sure you make sense😊
Our South African girls like quick cash. Her story nothing new or catchy. No informative content on her story. No lesson learned. My Sister start taking Chess game lessons then you will understand the UNDERWORLD LIFE.
My channel is not about informative content. Keep it moving
Prostitution alert
So are comfortable with taking a man's money but you dont want to surrender the cookie???
You are unfair
Welele
Kante wena what was your intentions with this guy?
You kept saying you weren't comfortable but you were taking his money.
Why would I stop taking his money though
Exactly she was using him she's not the Angel she portrays herself to be she's full of shit.
Please I like you🤣🤣🤣🤣🔥what?
Thank you sweetie ❤️
you have complex and you suspect what is not there.
Ok.
THAT NIGERIA GUY REALY LOVE U , AS A NIGERIA MAN FOR US TO BEEN WIT A WOMAN 4 MONTHS WITOUT ASKING U 4 S$X IS MEAN THAT GUY REALY LOVE U BUT ANYWAY JUST FELLOW WAT UR HART TELLS U, STAY BLESS
Thanks for the comment
She's a fool she doesn't deserve him she should go and be with her stupid Zulu men that will beat her ass every day if she disrespects him the audacity of these mindless people
Shame it won’t happen just because you said it, you not God darling. Anyway heal
you lost a good man there, maybe you think your smart
Ska kwata mahn dodo
you've never loved him and you were not willing to, you kept exploring reasons not to love him. you should have kept away from him and his resources, taking from him shows approval, I believe the young man would have felt scammed, though you were young I thought you were not quite an honest girl cos what you did was wrong in any culture, this story would have presented you as an upright girl if you were a bit remorseful for what you have done to him. as a man I felt so bad because you didn't blame him for any wrongdoing but you handle him this way simply bcos he is a Nigerian Unfortunately.
Ma'am was he cute though?😅
No ma’am but he wasn’t ugly. He’s just an okay guy
I hope someday we can be in contact when I do come again to South Africa 🇿🇦 it's a beautiful country looking 👌 ❤️ great 😀 👌 👍 colonel Jamal from dubai 😀 ❤️ 💙
Your intuition defz helped you cause you did not know this guys intentions.🤍
Exactly
If youre not ready for a relationship, do not waste the others precious time. Avoid taking monies and gifts as that would mean concent or acceptance in his mind. Doing that is the reason some men would do anything to get back at you.
You have a point
I like your eyes. I also have eyes like yours😭😭 I used to be so insecure
I’m glad you overcame that insecurity❤️
The fact that I said Oga before you even said it😭🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
Same Same Cabanga 😭🤣🤣
I think he loved you. He was quite shy. At the end of the day, it depends on the girl
Depends on the girl how?
Your man is an unusual. I doubt if he is a Nigerian. We are loud and boisterous. We dont wait for that long to get a cookie that we have spent that much on.
Lol you think
Pele oh, see stereotype. It's your type that gives Nigerians bad names 🙄🙄
@@nimichronicle exactly
You are loud, not all Nigerians tf
@@nimichronicle he might not be a Nigerian, it might be their men trolling
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I love it here.. you made my weekend, I’m glad you came into my recommendations.. sharing with my friends, I especially love how you do your subbies stories and comment giving your take❤️🇧🇼
Thank you my sweetie ❤️
I pray you get more subbies and likes cos you deserve them. More subbies more story times more interesting vlogs baby. 🥂❤️ You are my fav hle. Very funny as well. Keep it up
Thank you so much sweetie❤️❤️
He was giving you money 💸 bcz he want you to not see life without him actually he was trying to buy you by the way ke choice ya gago
That’s one way o looking at it
These are one of the things we missed. I did same for my ex-girl friend. We were in a distance relationship (Germany -Nigeria) forc3 yrs. I rented an apartment for her,bought her stuff Gave her money. Sponsor her yo Dubai. She said, i did that because i wanted something. I told her yes, you and not sex . I want your progress. I travelled home to Nigeria ,lodged in a hotel. She was there wrg me for like a week. I never touched her except short kisses. We eventually parted becshe was after my money
I’m sorry you experienced that when you really just cared for her and loved her. You will definitely meet the right woman for you.☺️
@@TshwaneloZee Yes. That's life 😁. I hope she finds her joy
@danfiesta1 lemme give you the love you deserve
@botlhalemogotsi3095 Thanks and more love for you as well
@@botlhalemogotsi3095 mhhhhhhh
He wanted to marry you since he never asked for kiss or a hug or sex he sees you as a wife and not for a fling you missed out TBH i am Nigerian and i can tell for a fact what we want when we do stuff and act right and honest with a lady
I fumbled a hubby🥹
@@TshwaneloZeeI think you really used him for your own benefit. Nigerians are good people and I only had a short relationship with one, but from the ones I met, I can tell you sincerely that he was being kind and honest towards you. You mentioned he sent you money for your toothache and then you said he never sent, only cash. Hmmm okay. But yes, you used the poor guy and messed up something that could've been great in the long run. I hope you are over your fear of Nigerian men now, in all honesty I'd marry one if he comes correct like this dude.
Yohh tshwanelo shem😹😹haike girl you’re a vibe shem, really enjoyed this🤭🤭🙈
Thank you ❤️
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I am nigerian living in Nigeria that man u just talk about love and cherish u for him shy mins he he love u dearly,not to ask for sex mins he love u and don't want to scare u away believe me,he try his best not to defend u in case of next time pray about it and embress love
Argg man I guess he was not for me, I hope he found someone who understands him and appreciates him just as much
Some south African there thinking is too poor.... how can you be afraid of someone because his a Nigeria 🤣🤣🤣...Nigerians are the most lovely and nicest people on this planet earth when they like you... if a Nigerian guy walked up to u and said he likes you believe me he truly does ....
Alright😊
Maybe you should come see what he Nigerians are doing to South Africa and you'll understand why we want their drug dealing nonsense out!!! They are looking our brothers with their drugs
Oga means boss
Lol really, I never would have thought
@@TshwaneloZee That's because you're ignorant when you don't know something you search for the meaning or ask. Is that so hard?
😂 relax obuti relax
Liked and subscribed. Fela kahoba o mosothoooooo😊
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I love you my sweetie ❤️❤️❤️
O bohlale ngwanana
Danko
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@@TshwaneloZee I can love u better, I am a nija man, will u give me a chance to love u like a baby n treat u like a lady?
Somefing 😂
How about inserting subtitles for your international viewers sis? Because I feel like I missed parts of the story when you were talking your vernacular language.
I will definitely look in to that
As to how to go about it
Thank you sweetie 🤍
You don't know what you are missing!
Nice video guys
Ncawww shame he seemed very very shy.😂🥹
Go girl
He didn't have a bank account that's probably why he gave you cash
Yah true eish I was young shame I didn’t even think of that
i enjoyed the story mntase sana😂😙😭
I’m glad😂❤️
New subbie here 🙂 your channel popped by while I was scrolling for something to watch. This story is quite hilarious, you think like me🤣🤣
Welcome to the fam my sweetie😂❤️
My darling it's like u can go down kancane talking to much is not u really u ao cute 😊
No
I like it here shem
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THAT GUY REALY LOVE U, AM A NIGERIA N I CAN TELL U THAT 4 A NIGERIA MAN TO B WIT U FOR MONTHS WITOUT ALWAYZ ASKING U FOR S$X IS MEAN HE REALLY DO LOVE U AM VERY SERIOUS ABOUT THAT BUT ANYWAY JUST FELLOW WAT UR HART TELL U
Hahaha!!! The fact that u r talking about him shows you kinda miss him. You allowed ur fears to cloud ur judgement of him. Ay least you knew one of his stores, you always know where to find him in case of any shady deals. The really bad guys are the one's girls like. Smh! Eell, I hope u with a better dude now?
You mad huh?😂
@@TshwaneloZee Mad!?!?!? Well, maybe @ur immature decision. Are u married now? If not all come marry you. What u think? 😉
Such an interesting story that ended in disappointment ,to be honest with you no Nigerian man would waste his time, money and energy on a woman he doesn't love, believe me if he were what you thought; it wouldn't have got to that extent before you notice he was just flexing with you, anyways that was a nice guy you missed, but of the fact maybe fate didn't want it that way but just note this: "Nigerians are good people'
Met me at the wrong time. I was very young at that time about 21 so yah. Now I know better