End of last year I decided to take a break from dating.9months celibate best decision I’ve made in my life. my skin is glowing,my hairline is back😆and until I find that healthy solid love imma stay securing that bag.
So scared of dating to the point I'm not sure what it will look and feel like if it eventually happens. I'm saying if because angikho sure if I want it anymore. Sembi 🥴
I love this chat! Dating today is basically a game, and as someone who loves hard I’m scared of being hurt and played with. People really be out here breaking hearts
This is definitely a chat I needed to hear. And honestly , you spoke facts. It boogles me , how gents honestly like to fetch us , and disturb our peace , siyihlalele. You legit give him a chance , then eventually , his problems with his ex become yours. Yooh ay shame. As much as we love love. It's honestly so important to be self aware , and to just prioritize your peace and happiness over everything else. Because wow. Amadoda are the bottom shame 😂
I relate to this so much. I've decided not to date until a healthy man who attends a therapy comes my way. I'm done hurting myself. Ke grand. Thank you once again for a beautiful video.
I am scared of dating😭 like SCARED! I think it's not only from past relationships but it's also this thing of not knowing what the true intentions of someone else are. Also this era has made this love thing such a joke, like we have popeyeism, dribbling, the streets, the ain't eish community and the F$*! boy tendencies. Its so scary as you never know a person's heart like that. Another thing I am scared of is not being loved for me wholesomely. It's tough.😂
Comrades, my Suggestion is that we establish a Mjolo Insurance Fund. You pay a premium (calculated by your couples aggregate risk profile) and you shall be compensated for the Patrimonial and Non-Patrimonial Loss arising from the results of the Relationships trajectory. Mjolo Insurance fund. At your Service. (Presumed to be a Registered Financial Services Provider. Terms and Conditions Apply)
Thoroughly enjoyed this video from start to finish!!! Dating is such a gowi subject for me and I really just think that the main problem for me is that a lot of people I like are just not in the same head space as me and are not willing to meet me halfway - a major problem!!
Yhooo😭😂 Nana’s story about the guy who she gave a chance only to find out that he had a whole other girlfriend is so triggering💔🤣 haiii norrr. Amanigga neh
The subtweeting chat is the ONLY reason I am very skeptical to be with someone with a big twitter / IG following. Scenes when they do a live airing your stuff, Yoh scary w
The video really could've ended after you said, "We can't accept everything that comes our way" 🔥this needs to sink in much deeper for a lot of people! 🙌🏾
True, Therapy is needed which equally applies to all 3 of you who are eqyally broken with trust issues.. Remember trust issues breeds fear which is toxic to any relationship.. Great Topic!!
Personally, I want people to find out about my person after we get married. I just feel like people are just rude and have a lot to say and I don’t want negative energy all around my mjolo. I want us to enjoy each other without people in our business
Sho Genge ! Thank you ladies ... it is like you know what I am going through 😭, single by choice. Some Gents need to sort out themselves nje, why fetch a lady sipping on some tea with a great view in front of her ... and take her to a scrap yard 😭😭😭😭
Thank you for this, i really loved it ❤🙏 although i'm a Gee i can truly say i relate to y'all 💯 and I've also learnt alot .. Soo once again thank you Came here for the bars but stayed for the life lessons, that at times as guys we fail to understand time to time 🙏 this doesn't mean i agree to everything though 😂😂😂✌ In a nutshell we want more .. Phof i want more !!!!!!!!!!!! 😊
I loved this, subscribed about a week ago after discovering your channel Gugulethu..you keep elevating! These discussions are very much needed.. I could relate to this sooo much💜💜 more subbies are on their way Queen!
I think at the moment I'm scared of someone hating the very same things they said they liked about me. Like for example, a gent will say he likes how I am such a calm person and handle conflicts like such an adult and then later switching up wanting me to act psycho. Telling me I'm too calm
I’m with Nana , I don’t think I would post my mans . Ako need actually 😹😹. Most guys get offended when they’re not posted because they assume that they are not the only one & it’s mostly never the case . - I don’t understand, I don’t need to post you to validate my love for you .
Guys I've even tapped out and I feel nothing, which worries me sometimes 🥴 someone's son was texting his ex on the phone that I got him...hehhhhh guys keep this game 😂 I'm good.
Literally a gent will fetch you only to go on and act like YOU FETCHED HIM
Russ said it perfectly, "don't disturb my peace if you're at war with yourself, you could have left me alone, YOU SHOULD HAVE LEFT ME ALONE!!"
Duuude I’ve been waiting for a song that says it perfectly😭👋🏾and of course Russ out here saying the truest shit
Getting ready to relate❤️.
Literally 😂
Same😂
End of last year I decided to take a break from dating.9months celibate best decision I’ve made in my life. my skin is glowing,my hairline is back😆and until I find that healthy solid love imma stay securing that bag.
So scared of dating to the point I'm not sure what it will look and feel like if it eventually happens. I'm saying if because angikho sure if I want it anymore. Sembi 🥴
Lebo!!! I hear you sis xx
Same sis 👏🏾
I love this chat! Dating today is basically a game, and as someone who loves hard I’m scared of being hurt and played with. People really be out here breaking hearts
This is definitely a chat I needed to hear. And honestly , you spoke facts. It boogles me , how gents honestly like to fetch us , and disturb our peace , siyihlalele. You legit give him a chance , then eventually , his problems with his ex become yours. Yooh ay shame. As much as we love love. It's honestly so important to be self aware , and to just prioritize your peace and happiness over everything else. Because wow. Amadoda are the bottom shame 😂
I relate to this so much. I've decided not to date until a healthy man who attends a therapy comes my way. I'm done hurting myself. Ke grand. Thank you once again for a beautiful video.
I love how your videos are short and straight to the point 🔥🤞🏾
Somebody finally said it 🔥🔥❤️❤️
I am scared of dating😭 like SCARED! I think it's not only from past relationships but it's also this thing of not knowing what the true intentions of someone else are. Also this era has made this love thing such a joke, like we have popeyeism, dribbling, the streets, the ain't eish community and the F$*! boy tendencies. Its so scary as you never know a person's heart like that. Another thing I am scared of is not being loved for me wholesomely. It's tough.😂
Same. 💔
It’s the switch up for me. That’s my biggest fear
“Matlakala fela maan” 😂😂Kat is really fed up!
5:15 it's the "you come big boy , big boy , mhmmh" for me 😂😂
Comrades, my Suggestion is that we establish a Mjolo Insurance Fund. You pay a premium (calculated by your couples aggregate risk profile) and you shall be compensated for the Patrimonial and Non-Patrimonial Loss arising from the results of the Relationships trajectory. Mjolo Insurance fund. At your Service. (Presumed to be a Registered Financial Services Provider. Terms and Conditions Apply)
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 dead
😅😅😅😅😅
I also think there should be a paid heartbreak leave as a employee benefit at work. This is serious.
😂😂😂Leadership
this was honestly a real chat!!!All facts.
Never settle for “not your type” they will prove WHY they are not your type🙃
Umjolo uyanyisa yoh😹😹 - I’m terrified of umjolo & I will probably be ready to unpack that fear in 3/4 years time 🤞🏽
Nana is sooooo beautiful whew.. 😍 😍 😍
Thoroughly enjoyed this video from start to finish!!! Dating is such a gowi subject for me and I really just think that the main problem for me is that a lot of people I like are just not in the same head space as me and are not willing to meet me halfway - a major problem!!
May God bless me with such a beautiful group of friends. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Relates . Relates and relates . Love is a beautiful thing but one is still healing ...
Side note : Singleness is a necessary season.
“It’s the thing of feeling like what i may say may make me lose that person, so ima keep quiet to keep them.” - Gugulethu, 2020.
I love the vibe in this group 😍 so amazing 💃💃
Watch me run in the opposite direction as soon as I start liking someone 😏
You guys just summarized everything I've been going through these past few months. I'm convinced that dating in your early twenties is a scam. 😩
Y’all are literally preaching 👏🏽😩❤️
Three beautiful shades🔥🔥🔥😭💕
"Nobody says exactly what they want" - Thank you somebody finally said it! #GiveThatWomanABells
Yhooo😭😂 Nana’s story about the guy who she gave a chance only to find out that he had a whole other girlfriend is so triggering💔🤣 haiii norrr. Amanigga neh
Amanigga’s are not the one 😭💔💔
The subtweeting chat is the ONLY reason I am very skeptical to be with someone with a big twitter / IG following. Scenes when they do a live airing your stuff, Yoh scary w
The video really could've ended after you said, "We can't accept everything that comes our way" 🔥this needs to sink in much deeper for a lot of people! 🙌🏾
Yohhhh and they really do fetch from your place of peace then just mess everything up😤😤
😍🔥 I WANT THAT COOCHI TSHIRT
True, Therapy is needed which equally applies to all 3 of you who are eqyally broken with trust issues.. Remember trust issues breeds fear which is toxic to any relationship.. Great Topic!!
This channel has reinvented me in a space of 3 hours 🥺🥺🥺
Sho notification genge!!!!!!!!!
“I’m lonely but am I really THAT lonely “✅
Sending love, peace, joy and blessings to everyone reading this❤️
Ho shota Sibu and me (in my head I'm the 5th friend lol). You ladies are gorgeous jeez
Personally, I want people to find out about my person after we get married. I just feel like people are just rude and have a lot to say and I don’t want negative energy all around my mjolo. I want us to enjoy each other without people in our business
Me and you both
My chat!! Even when I’m married, nobody is going to know about my person. They will know I’m married but to who? Lol privacy is so peaceful
The only problem with this video is that it ends ☹️
Yuhhhh😭😭😭 No man... This video.. "Why would you fetch me?" I didn't know I needed this channel 😭😭
Sho Genge ! Thank you ladies ... it is like you know what I am going through 😭, single by choice. Some Gents need to sort out themselves nje, why fetch a lady sipping on some tea with a great view in front of her ... and take her to a scrap yard 😭😭😭😭
Thank you for this, i really loved it ❤🙏 although i'm a Gee i can truly say i relate to y'all 💯 and I've also learnt alot .. Soo once again thank you
Came here for the bars but stayed for the life lessons, that at times as guys we fail to understand time to time 🙏 this doesn't mean i agree to everything though 😂😂😂✌
In a nutshell we want more .. Phof i want more !!!!!!!!!!!! 😊
Haven't watched kodwa I already know I relate 😂😂
I loved this, subscribed about a week ago after discovering your channel Gugulethu..you keep elevating! These discussions are very much needed.. I could relate to this sooo much💜💜 more subbies are on their way Queen!
THE SQUAD PULLLED THROUGH 💓💓💓💓💓💓💓
This friend group>> 🔝
The big sisters we didnt know we needed
Firstly your skin girl 😍😍😍 I’m literally at that point too . Dating is spooky .
I'm saying 23k subies by her 23rd birthday. 🗣️🗣️🗣️
LETS GOOOO 🗣
@@UncomfortableGrowth Jordan year or what.
I was thinking the exact thing😂✅
🕯🕯🕯Manifesting 🕯🕯🕯
Bathong I am here for this content 😍Gugu I love this uncomfortable growth because I feel it😍
i LOVE these wholesome chats
Just facts from A to Z!!!!!
Recently found this channel, I'm loving it. #NotificationGang❤
This dropped just as I started feeling this wow
I think at the moment I'm scared of someone hating the very same things they said they liked about me. Like for example, a gent will say he likes how I am such a calm person and handle conflicts like such an adult and then later switching up wanting me to act psycho. Telling me I'm too calm
liking before watching cause I know this is about to be GREAT😊❤
Love you guys Soo muchh🔥🔥😂 you keep on coming with the great content🙏🏽🔥
I’m with Nana , I don’t think I would post my mans . Ako need actually 😹😹. Most guys get offended when they’re not posted because they assume that they are not the only one & it’s mostly never the case . - I don’t understand, I don’t need to post you to validate my love for you .
Most girls also want to be posted as validation of being loved though...
Akhoneed nyani bethuna
No like I have a genuine fear 😪☹️
I felt the privacy thing whew
Notification genge🤪💃🏽🤘🏽
Y’all never ever misssss omg 😭😭😭😭😭
You guys are all so stunning yho 😻🔥
Y’all summed up my fear of relationships pretty nicely💀
Enjoyed this conversation thank you Kweens❤🌼
Being a gone girl is so nice sometimes kodwa genge
Loovveedd this !!!!😭❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️
It’s always a fun time with you girls
Gents don’t tell the truth because of your feelings they don’t tell you the truth because they afraid of losing the hold they have on you
Angifuni umjolo shem, ngiright💔💔😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
new subbie & i must day i’m staying forever , i enjoyed this chat 🤍
Honestly my current favs 🥺❤
Unrelated but the fact that you were on #roadto6k just a month ago now you’re almost on 20k is just- 🥺
Thank you for listening to my tweet and making the video this was so insightful
Loved this!
100% Relatable😤.Soyiki.
“Amadoda Azosi bulala!”🥺😭
"but at the moment we scared" 😭😭
Yho relatable content😬
You could've just said you're gonna speak my mind🥴💀
Guys I've even tapped out and I feel nothing, which worries me sometimes 🥴 someone's son was texting his ex on the phone that I got him...hehhhhh guys keep this game 😂 I'm good.
SHO GENGE 💓💓💓💓💓
this channel is growing massively i think your friend was right to call you miss pandemic😂😂❤
Sho genge🤘❤
Lol I love Kat ❤
Gugu, do you think your life partner is someone you know/have already met or are you still yet to meet them?
Sho genge!!
Relation💯💯
Can definitely relate😅😅
Always profound
Notification Gang!!!!
Genge! ✌
Nana💕Nana💕Nana💕
I love✌
There is a guy rn literally planning to do what u guys are talking bwt to you😂😂😂dating can be the pits sometimes
I’m also not going public with anyone 🤣
Ska jola Le nna if you’re not over your ex!!! What are you doing???
Yaaaaaaa sengifikile
Relate!!!!
Nanas skin. Nanas voice. Fan girling af