Why I'm Coming Out As Gay
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Behind the scenes of Eugene Lee Yang's coming out video, "I'm Gay:" a never-before-seen look inside the mind of a young artist and his complex, dark struggles with his identity, his work, his public persona, and his private life.
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Mordomo Sá Mayhem
Asha Maggie then
"I was a very depressed kid."
"Until what age?"
"33?"
*i felt that in my bones*
I want to hug him so bad right now :( I am very sensitive too and admire him for being able to harden his shell so much. I was and still am a crybaby and depressed. i dont want to feel others this way because it's horrible.
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shahid k 8:02 🙂
@@starone10 8:01
When Eugene talks about his childhood, how he used to cry a lot and was sensitive, but after gave himself a shell so he doesn't cry anymore, and how he always felt he was bad etc. I was literally shouting in my head, me too, man, me too! I am not American, or Korean, or gay, or a man, but that is just like I was and nowadays I am a perfectionist. I never knew I could relate to Eugene so much!
Omg, I just wrote the above in the beginning of watching this video. But that letter he wrote himself as a younger, where he asked, are you happy? I freaking wrote that when it was a little school project actually in lukio in Finland, I guess high school in the Americas. We had to write a little letter to ourselves for when we are 25, and I wrote that have you became over your depression yet and are you happy? I guess I have a little Eugene in my heart ♥
Mirja Ilona Korhonen That’s sweet, there will always be more people who go through the same things you do. That’s going for everyone
@@Ilonah83 you make me cry 😭😭😭
This is really beautiful ❤
am i the only one pausing the video to read all the docs? -- it's so clear the Eugene and his team spent so much time dedicated to every little detail of the film so that each shot and each little thing has meaning -- and i also feel so blessed that he's sharing his art w/ the world and letting us see the artistic process of the film
Me too, also the time stamp: 4:18 - 4:30 (if anyone is curious)
I do it too
Yes it was so interesting to read it all
I did too
I did to and went and paused and watched the original video in each piece
Dear Eugenes future bf, if you make him cry you got four grown men, 2 wine wives, 1 baby, and a whole lotta family coming after you.
And a whole fandom
Period
He has had a boyfriend since like 2014/15 😂👌🏻
And a future wine wife
Or everyone can be adults and stop with the ridiculous bullshit... "If you make x cry, I'm gonna fuck you up" - because that's incredibly mature. Shut up, fucking brats.
Ned: You need a crane?
Eugene: This is the most important thing I will ever do.
Ned: You can have 2 cranes.
Gotta love ned and all these people thar eugene loves and trusts.
This is the most beautiful thing. I cried when Ned said so
Timestamps?
Ananya Sahay thank you
and that is what friends are for..
Eugene, I am 57yo - my name is Tim - I did not formally come out to my family but quite a few know now - I wish I had the braveness to tell my Dad and Mom while they were still alive - thank you for sharing your journey
❤️🙏
Awww I hope all goes well in life for you, Tim! 💕
@@Z0EY49 Thank you - the support has been very positive so far. :D
It's different for everyone. Time and place make a big difference too. Hollywood 2020 = Music video fanfare. Most other places and/or other times = Stilted acceptance, rejection or feigned obliviousness.
You are so strong and braver than you know. Wishing you the best tim🤎
Finding out that Eugene was the creator of what I consider Buzzfeed's best videos (generations throughout history, is your life average, historically accurate disney princesses) is just so mindblowing. That all of those were so artistically pushed while also being educational/informative is just so beautiful. All my love Eugene! You've inspired me so much as a future artist!
I thought they left buzzfeed when they created this video
@@blvdurocher3255 they were talking about the videos mentioned in the parentheses that eugene produced while he was still in buzzfeed
I loved historically accurate disney princesses(i like history) finding out he was the one who created it was crazy
I had no idea either and wanna go watch those now
Zach: A CRANE?
Ned: Son, you can have 2...
Eugene: Dad I can?
Keith:NONONONONONONONONO
It’s like they are actually a family😂
Zach-bewildered younger child
Ned-rich dad who spoils his kids rotten
Eugene-older child who is loved more
Keith-mum who doesn’t want to splash out money
What’s a crane?
@@sofiagabriellesantillan3921 a construction vehicle or a bird. Your pick 🤣🤣🤣
There’s also paper cranes, there’s this amazing story about this girl and them that I could share if wanted ^v^
CyberSkiesサイバー when it comes to filming a crane is a machine that will hold the camera so that the camera can still move around a set without the room for human error ie camera shake or something
The saddest part is when eugene tell us the letter that he read from the lil him..
"Are you finally happy?"
Time stamp? Please
Sydney Winters 23:55
rin gal when he made his speech for the Human Rights Campaign I started crying because it was so meaningful. And beautiful.
I'm literally showing his coming out video to my class for PSCHE because it is so well done and so emotional
Aw that's great
PSCHE? I only know PSHE
@@sherlxck-221b9 sm
How’d it go? Or have you not done it yet?
@@truhanfangirl 😔 the presentation I was supposed to submit was cancelled bc of online school and covid, it's getting pushed back to next pride month and I'm not promised anything which is 😤😤😤😤😤 annoying
1:29 this is so sad to hear now. even though some people were like “eugene always hated him” you have to realize they actually cared about each other
Yeah. I would like to believe that they had a beautiful and amazing period where everyone is who they are on the internet. I have no doubt that they (used to) be best friends.
It's sad that the one of them have to go, but I am proud of the tri - try guys for pushing through and keeping true to themselves.
this
"Son you can have two cranes.."
-Ned 2019
@Um, I never went to ovoo javer 1:35
tell that to wes at 12
23:16
Fingerless Sassy Gee 1:30
I love how supporting the guys are of each other unlike some of my 'friends'
This was more than Eugene coming out as gay...
This was Eugene coming out as Eugene
Jess B that is so true!!!!
Agreed! Now he’s truly himself, with wings to fly into his freedom.
YES!!!
Jess B True but that comment made me cringe
For god's sake, this comment made me cry all over again! 😭❤️
Eugene describing himself as "bad" and "wrong" breaks my *heart*
But as an LGBT+ person it's such a mood
i’m a lesbian so i just wanted to come on here & tell you that he’s probably mocking people who actually call him that
Right! Like the amount of water works I’m having is unbelievable
When my mom came out to me, she sat 8 y/o me down on my bed and asked, “How would you feel if I was together with a woman?”
I simply replied, “If it makes you happy, I’ll be happy too.”
One of my favorite memories with my mother.
she must have raised you to be very open and accepting. when i was 8 that concept wouldnt have made sense to me at all. i wouldnt have known it was an option. and i wouldnt have known its okay until many years later. i wish more kids were raised to be open minded and accepting
@@emmousseau2663 same with me
@SoldierofGod121 and youre an idiot
@SoldierofGod121 you are such a clown smh
Ned: hmmmm do you need the crane?
*Eugine calls him dad,*
Ned: have two
I for real thought you called him *Engine* .😂
@@IushIy so did I-
@@snorf4730 *engine lee yang*
"Why don't you cry?"
"Well, I cried a lot as a kid...I was a very depressed kid."
"Until what age?"
"..33"
I FEEL you Eugene. So many people feel you.
Yup....you got that right
Please stop touching Eugene 😂 jkjk I get it
what time was that at
@@esther2256 u right u right, shoulda remembered he hates being touched! 😂😂 lmfao
@@Taort647 I paraphrased him a bit, so it starts at 7:47 he actually says the "33" part at 8:01
26:56 seeing Eugene crying alone really spoke to me. i am so proud of him for pushing through and having such amazing people to support him!
I'm rewatching this video and just seeing that little bit at the end is so emotional. As heartbreaking as the "are you finally happy" note was, the emotion that you can see behind that last scene was so overwhelming, you can see all the weight he was feeling and that sort of relief now that he is done with the filming of the video. He's so strong and so amazing, full support to him and full support to you to with whatever you might be going through. Much love ❤️
I'm straight, but a very dear friend of mine is gay. He's known he was gay since a very early age. We met our freshman year of HS (over 20 years ago). I didn't know he was gay. I don't really know at that age if I even understood what gay or straight meant. It wasn't something I remember ever thinking about. A few years after HS, he came out to me. I don't think I understood the importance of him telling me at the time. For me, it wasn't a big deal. By that I mean, he was still the same person I had known, I just knew more about him now. Years later, I visited him on vacation and for whatever reason this moment in time came up. He told me that he had lost a lot of people he considered good friends because he came out. I still have mixed emotions about that. In my mind, he's still the same goofy, caring person I known and grown to love. Why should him being gay change any of that? In September, we will have known each other for 36 years. I was honored and blessed to attend his wedding six years ago, which is literally the only wedding I've ever bawled my eyes out at. He is still a very dear friend to me and will be until the day we leave this Earth. After seeing your Coming Out video, I was devastated. While I believe it will help many in the LGBT+ community, I think it will also help those that are not, but who may have friends or loved ones who are. It gives us an insight to their world and why our acceptance of who they are is so important.
this is so true
@@cavs6663 ??
@@cavs6663 can you explain that? I’m confused what that means
@@fancyfangcrossing2781 im talking about his friend
@@cavs6663 why would you knock him out though? I got the friend part but not the meaning of the sentence
when he said
“are you finally happy”
i literally stared crying
I cried too that was so powerful
Oooff same
I can't find that bit, wait :(
Nasty shit
SOY BOY
“I was a very depressed kid”
“til what age?”
“33”
lmao i felt that
@@ziadifrancesco7946 they're joking about it because that's the way they cope with depression
Spooky Filmz Ent. Can you stop trying to spread hate for your own gain? This is a huge thing for Eugene, stop ruining it
Same and I’m 22
@@ziadifrancesco7946 True if it's about someone else, but people are free to joke about their own depression if it helps them cope. What else are you supposed to do, just cry about it?
“Laugh my ass off, I felt that.”
- Kyle Marie 2019
This wasn’t just a coming out video, this was Eugene telling the world that this is him and no one can change that. This was such a beautiful video and I’ll always come back to it and I’ll always be so proud of Eugene for having the bravery that he has.
I grew up in a traditional Asian family, the men were always the leaders of the house and the women had to do everything the man said and everyone had to do everything the man of the house, whether that be the dad or the grandfather etc, said. I was born as a female and for my entire life, up until I came out a year ago, I had to pretend that I was just a cis, straight girl. During the time that my parents were divorcing I picked up the courage to come out to my mum, who started crying and telling me that I couldn’t be a boy or even think about being gay because she was scared of what my dad would do to me.
For the time that I was still living with my dad, I was beaten almost daily because of something I can’t control until the day my dad eventually had enough and made my sister, my mum and I move to England to live with my grandparents.
That was the worst day of my entire life. I packed up most of my belongings, leaving behind my whole childhood and the friends I have known for years and years.
I’m glad that Eugene is here for LGBTQ+ people, not only kids but also adults, who think they’re alone in this but we’re not alone. There’s hundreds and thousands of people just like us, maybe not with the same stories or coming out experiences but no one is alone.
Ben Hakim is that all you can say? i mean at least say why you dont like them, plus, why are you even watching this video then?
Ben Hakim shut up, breeder
Ben Hakim make me, fucking hetero lmao. Being straight is a sin
Ben Hakim you must feel a lot better now that you’ve said those horrible things to innocent people online. I understand that it might be easy to just say whatever you want behind the screen and you may think that it’s nothing, that what you’re saying won’t affect anyone but it does. These comments could potentially really hurt someone. You could be the cause of someone’s death, the cause of someone’s suffering. Do you really want that? Tell me, from the bottom of your heart, do you actually want that? Do you want someone to hurt themselves because of one of your nasty comments? Do you want someone to kill themselves because of you?
Ben Hakim You don’t give a fuck because you can’t say it to my face. If you actually don’t care about making someone kill themself then I think you should go to a therapist or mental hospital since you’re probably a psycho. And maybe try using that negativity to do something productive and stop acting like a prick 😂😂😂
The people who told him he was less of a role model to talk about his struggle with self hate, emotional moments and self doubt have absolutely no clue why people like Eugene are the best role models. So many kids can look at Eugene, find an aspect of him they identify with, and see his success & see they can be successful also. They can see his inner dialog has been always going but he's gotten through and and is continuing to grow and evolve.
it very much fits into the "toxic positivity" thing. Pretending a problem or a hurt doesn't exist doesn't somehow magic them away. It just lets that wound fester.
i feel like he was talking about buzzfeed... he has said they wanted him to be more "digestible"
me: tells parents im gay then buys a kfc bucket
eugene: DIRECTS A MOVIE
“hey mom, dad, I’m gay. anyway want anything from KFC”
I didnt even do that. I went "mum, dad, I'm gay." And then took a tub of ice cream and ate it all.
Mine was mum I'm bi while sunbathing in my neighbours pool with my sisters boyfriend 😂 her reply was it's just a phase although dont think she meant it in that way and she is totally cool with it
you are if Keith had to come out
I told my dad and he didn’t give a single shit 💀 I never got to tell my mom though :(
1:28
Eugene: "And dad, that involves a crane."
Ned: "Son... You can have two cranes."
My heart!!!!
What did that line mean?
Mitali Sharma yeh, what did that line mean?
Jsprye _ - it meant that Ned was willing to fund whatever Eugene needed and wanted.
@@joisu162 Cranes are very expensive, but the only way to achieve certain camera shots. Ned was saying they were 100% behind him and would fund whatever he needed for it to be perfect. Offering twice what he asked of them.
Eugene is so capable. He’s intelligent and intuitive and articulate.
And brave.
Even though Eugene is gay, I will still love him and he is still attractive in my eyes 💜
"He eventually embraces his friend and ally before running off with the boy" made me burst into tears.
The moment Ned said “Son, you can have two cranes.” It was a joke with so much love and meaning
Ned really lifts Eugene up.... like a crane.
That begining almost make me cry ❤️❤️
*octo laugh*
I enjoyed this. I knew Eugene was gay when I saw a video that was straight vs gay on buzzfeed and I was, oh, he’s lgbt but I didn’t realize this was going on.
It really made me cry with love
"...and dad, that involves a crane."
"son... you can have two cranes"
*overlapping disputes*
You know he's the favorite son😂
My brain was more along the lines of "OH MY GOD EUGENE CALLED NED DAD!!!!" LMFAO
@Kevin Morales Gomez same
but dad i just need one crane
I dont get this comment. I feel dumb
Eugene shouldn’t have to explain why he’s coming out, we will accept him and if anyone doesn’t, I refuse to accept them as a Try Guys fan.
It’s also a really good way to explain the intricacies of what a marginalized society could feel like so I like that he explained it because as much as it should be super simple to understand you love who you love a lot of the times there is an a lot of deeper understanding that comes along with that you lose a lot of the intricacies as much as he shouldn’t have to explain himself I’m glad that he got to for himself.
So we're not gonna talk about the part where Eugene said "get zach this is sad"? BRUH ZACH IS SUCH A POSITIVE FORCE IN EUGENE'S LIFE ITS SO PRECIOUS!
I think he said, "Kathleen, don't get sad cause this is really sad," not "get Zach." Don't get me wrong, Zach's a real positive person, but I think you misheard it.
time stamp?
@@jacquemillion2335 kathlle go get Zack this is really sad is what he said
@@yusufnawaz3793 Seriously, you could just turn on English captions and it'll show you exactly what he said
@@jacquemillion2335 sometimes the English caps are wrong
zach: ‘I just wish I were there to give you a hug right now’
eugene : *slightly impressed*
*HOW DOES THIS HAVE 0 COMMENTS.*
Eugene actually hugged someone and looked happy!!!
Me too 😂
Well Zack got a hug!!
Eugene dont go back in korea
Korean dont like gay dey will criticism u
Ned: a crane?! Do you actually need a crane??
Eugene: *gets real and meaningful*
Ned: you can have 2 cranes ❤️
I love how much the other Try Guys support Eugene in this. Non toxic loving brotherhood. It’s beautiful.
Ned so sweet when it comes to emotions
Omg I read this at the exact time they said it😂
Favorite moment of the whole video tbh ♥
@@EmphaticNod ikr
Me:
From a southern state
Is Korean
Has divorced parents
Thinks I’m a bad child
Wait a minute-
You are in no way, whatsoever, a bad child.
Well I hope you can take some inspiration from eugene and start to love yourself💖
This explains a lot of why he always wins everything in try guy challenges...he feels so much pressure about being the Asian guy amidst all the white guys and puts immense pressure on doing good, if not better...
"I was a really depressed kid."
"Until what age?"
"...thirty-three..."
(same, Eugene
Honestly same
Hee hee I'm not 33 yet
How old is he tho?
I mean, I'm 34 now, out for half my life, still depressed, still here.
I could tell he was depressed
The amount of symbolism and detail on the video is so genius. The blood and bruises on his face being turned into makeup?? That's so smart. I can't even imagine being so creative.
True art
And the colours of the clothes progressively changing from one rainbow colour to another for every phase
Red: Nature
Orange: Nurture
Yellow: Love
Green: Community
Blue: Hate
Purple: Pride
I almost started to cry When he said " You're all the wonderful things you are and you're gay"
Not only did Eugene made the community proud of him, but the members proud of themselves as well.
No I still hate me
“Son you can have two cranes” - Keith laughs uncomfortably
Adnan Kadri That was cute, though 😊
Ikr adorable!
And I think Ned said that
@@4ng3lic4 Ned said it, but Keith laughed nervously in response 😋
I'm the only one keeping it from the devils number
As a Christian, I’m so sorry you felt unwelcome or wrong. I’m sorry that “Christians” made you feel like that. I’m so sorry, Eugene. I’m so proud of you and I love your video. Thank you for being you.
Why "Christians"?
@@calemx1637 Good question! We can’t judge others or their relationship with Christ; we don’t know the content of someone’s heart. However, based on Matthew 12:34, those with an evil heart will say and do evil things. A Christian can’t say and do evil things; we’re supposed to love others as Jesus would, and the Holy Spirit automatically compels us to love others. So, hating on someone for their sexuality, regardless of personal beliefs, is evil and wrong. Based on that verse, saying and doing evil things is evidence of someone not being a Christian. That’s why I put it in quotations. Again, it’s not up to Christians to judge others, but when people are claiming Christianity and then hating/being evil to others, it’s incredibly damaging and can lead to misconceptions about our faith. Thank you for asking and I hope that makes sense!
@@hopeadkins6291 thank you for explaining this, i wish could you tell this to every person who says it goes against the bible.
Truely i find so many contradictory christians. They preach love and togetherness that this set of gospel tales and values are to bring people together but people judge everyone. We are all supposedly a product of god’s love. I believe any god worth their weight in gold should judge how we enjoyed our lives and how we affect those around them. The help to hurt ratio
It's usually Christians and other Abrahamic faith followers and this is because the Bible straight up says it's wrong. God spends the entire old testament being violent, manipulative, and full of hate. Nothing can change that. Someday people will stop turning to mam made religions. Then the world will be a fsr better place because people would practical actual love, empathy and compassion.
Not gonna lie, his directing was really good, the cinematography, the choreography, the concepts, all of them are perfect
Imagining little Eugene asking his older self "Are you finally happy..?"
I broke.
Aaaaahhh, the FEELS
Same. In that moment i felt a little bit of my heart break. Gosh he deserves so much better.
I cried.
Stfu dont make me cry jwjsjsjwjsj
The feel of crying is close but my brother is coming home so I'ma hold it in.
“I need a crane”
“You can have two cranes!”
“Really?!”
“Nah. It’s too expensive”
Olivia Flores you missed the best part where they called eachother son and dad 😂😂
Olivia Flores yup
I was raised in a place where “I” was wrong with everything I did, so when I was questioned my sexually, I didn’t know if I was doing it for attention or that I am Pansexual and Demigirl, as well as depressed and insecure about myself. Even now when I am proud to be how I am, I sometimes still think that I I am straight and I am just doing all of this for attention.
GOSH I'm bi and regularly go thro the same thing. "Maybe I'm straight and just doing it for attention". I've found out a lot of ppl go through that but at least we can know we're not alone :)
Hope you're doing well!
I remember hearing something along the lines of "If you were faking it, you wouldn't have any doubts that you were faking it." Hope this helps.
This video has really hit me. I'm not gay, but I recently found out I'm autistic at 33. I always thought I was broken and something was wrong with me. I believed I deserved to be hated for being different. So even though my story is different from yours Eugene, this still really touched me in a unique way. Coming out as Autistic at 33 was also not great. This was beautifully done and I am very amazed by all that you have accomplished. You definitely inspire me.
I found out when I was 4, I learned to mask and never had any friends and now the first time I have a big friend group covid happens.
Oh I'm sorry. I know that feel. All my friends are on discord.
Thanks There's always times we're I want to say something in the comments but I get nervous and back off
how did you figure out you were autistic? I think i might be autistic myself but I'm not sure... how would I go about figuring that out? I'm already a physically disabled woman (which is obvious when you look at me irl) with depression and anxiety - would another label help? What drove you to get a diagnosis and did it help? Not trying to be offensive, just genuinely curious. Thanks!
@@Karishma_Unspecified my parents got me tested because I used to be really severe. But what makes you think you might be, I'm pretty good at being able to tell if it's autism or not.
Melted when Zach actually came and hugged Eugene
Hey Can Everyone Comment On This Video For Me & Dislike It 🏳️🌈🙏🏽😂 th-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/w-d-xo.html
Ramen Noodles ikr like ugh i love them
Can we just also briefly mention that suit he came in wearing? DAMN
I was so surprise
time stamp?
"Why don't you cry?"
"Well, I cried a lot as a kid.."
Same Eugene, Same! :(
other way around for me, I was forbidden to cry (weakness) and now I'm like crying all the time, every day.
I'm actually the opposite, I try to let myself cry more now. It's cathartic and if you let yourself cry you can get over it faster than trying to hold it in...
Damn, big mood
That's definitely a mood
I'm not crying.
We all are crying.
Eugene, I love you.
Eugene : I need a Crain. Ned: you do?
Eugene : yea this is the most important thing I’ll ever do dad...
Ned: I’ll get you 2 crains son.
"...and dad, that involves the crane."
"son, you can have two cranes."
THE SUPPORT. I LOVE IT.
Same
be you and only you
@Yuridia Osorno Cabrera THANK YOU & YES WE STAN BRENDON URIE ILY 💖
Ned is truly the best dad 😄❤️
@@SamsClassy DEFINITELY
"It takes a moment to hate who you are, and a lifetime to learn to love yourself again, that is the most important war."
What's the timer for that quote?
@@lookitsdebby That is not a part of the video. It's a quote from elsewhere.
Wow thats a great quote
I cried the moment I read this. Been on the journey to love myself again for more than a decade, still on the journey but full with hope that it'll be better and better. Hope everyone who needs the love could felt it! 💜
Grammar
Leave it to Eugene Lee Yang to come out in the most extra, elaborate, meaningful way.
Me: being my depressed self
Eugene: Maybe the answer is no ones ever happy
Me: at least I'm not the only one who is miserable
I feel so bad now for being like “why hasn’t Eugene been in the videos :((“ cause I realize now that he’s been working so HARD for this project and I’m so proud of him
@@YoungAlienBoy Don't u mean like...or
“Dad that involves a crane “
“You can have 2 cranes “
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yes
L pool
Dad: How many cranes do you need
Son: YES
Best dad
I get it, the pressure of being everything at once. I'm arab, Muslim, American, and asexual-aromantic
We support you. I am an Arab Muslim too, and I am still discovering myself. Everyday is a conflict of a choir screaming right or wrong. No matter what they tell you, no matter how much they try to gaslight you, don't let them discourage you from who you are. It's hard, you'll be in positions where you have to please them by shutting yourself out. However, remember this, you shouldn't be ashamed or feel guilty for being the person you were born as.
Sorry if this was cheesy 😅
omg wait, i just realized his outfits were in a rainbow order :O
thats the point
Same-
Can we give zach a medal for dramatic entrances because that was like a movie
hes such a leo 😂
He's such a leo lol
Lizzie Dizzie and damn did he look good!
In what minute?
Karen Moreno 2:18
When Zach was saying that he wanted to hug Eugene I started to tear up
LOL. Why? What possible reason could you have to tear up over something as silly as this? This is so stupid.
Spin It Like A Chicken stop being rude. Everyone has different reactions to certain things. Stop wasting your time trying to call it stupid for someone to have an opinion.
@@nindie don't succumb to the false pretense that an opinion is void of error or idiocy, because an opinion can certainly be wrong and they can be stupid.
This ENTIRE thing is so fucking dumb and, as much as I like the Try Guys, Eugene is making some selfish self-fulfilling bullshit. I don't care if someone is gay, or does drag, but don't pretend like this is some huge dilemma he faced and don't act like people need a modern role-model for this stuff.
Crying over THIS is pathetic. That's an objective truth.
@@spin.chicken are you sure if you don't 'care if someone is gay, or does drag'? you sure sound like anything but that. also, you do realise that coming out is something many, many people still struggle with because of social, religious and cultural constraints, right? being gay still isn't mainstream, darling. people still struggle with it in several places, one being Asia. and for all those who are closeted, Eugene's coming out video did a lot more than just being special and vividly intense. it has every right to receive the credit it does. just like how every person who sees it has every right to be emotional.
@@spin.chicken we share the same way of thinking bruh
cannot express enough how amazing, encouraging, and inspiring this is. Eugene is so vulnerable here, and we know it's difficult for him. As a bisexual closeted woman, this is equally encouraging and heartbreaking. so proud of Eugene .
This is not about him being gay. This is about him experiencing rejection from his childhood to adulthood. This is him crying out loud for acceptance and love for who he is, and not being told there is something wrong with him or he is different in a bad way. I'm straight but watching his coming out video... There's so much passion in it that my heart is crying for him. Eugene, I pray for your happiness and I hope you will find the love and acceptance.
"I wish I could just ride an Asian rainbow into the distance"
- Eugene 2019
Victoria Shalrak right as I read that he said it
It really is a perfect saying that is his. He owns it.
He needs that printed on a wall with glittered letters. Someone make it and mail it to him.
Felt so satisfying to be the 1000th like
“ I need a crane “ eugene
“ Son you can have two cranes “ Ned
“ wait that’s too much “ Keith
Keith is stepping in for
Ariel XD
Literally said what I said well done mate
Omg i was just typing this exact comment but then i thought.. wait there has to be a person who already did this xD
Ned is the dad Keith is the mom
@@YoungAlienBoy I don't get it... why do you want people to dislike your own video?..just for more views?..I'm curious no hate:)
Eugene does this and I came out for a tenner and just yelled at my parents “IM GAY”
Thats just the British way. Anything for a tenner, mate.
We all know the most alpha way to come out is when your parents are teasing you about a girl, and you say "I am literally a homosexual" and then take a spoonful of food of your mums plate.
I literally almost cried, I greatly admire Eugene. I wrote a letter for my family to read after I die about me being pansexual and I am actually still even terrified to admit it to myself. This is actually the first time I've ever even said anything like this.
I don’t know if you’re saying that you were/are planning on dying, but I hope you don’t. I hope you have/will find people who love and accept you for who you are :)
Mate it's alright. Your life is precious as it is. Its alright to be afraid, and it's not easy to admit that even to yourself. I don't know what your exact thoughts on dying are, but know that world's a better place with you in it, than without. I'm sure you'll find a way to get that letter soon. Hang in there mate.
Thanks
That’s a beginning, and I’m soo proud of you. I really hope you learn to accept yourself for who you are because you 100% deserve it
Life can always be better, and when it feels hopeless, just hold on. For a minute, a day, an hour, a week. Life is precious, and we have to keep moving forward
“And dad, that involves a crane.”
“Son, you can have two cranes”
Spooky Filmz ent WE ALL Don’t like you
Ned is best dad.
Keith: wait nO
“YOU GOT A CRANE?!!!!?????!?”
“Son you can have 2 cranes.”
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Spooky Filmz Ent. No one can even understand what your saying in that. Get Away.
@@savannahwaterfall5308 it's spam. I just denounce a lot. If you se comments like this. Denounce
Report it
I watched the coming out video when this came out, I cried watching this. One of my girls I am 85 to 90 percent sure is gay she is almost 12, she is super into pride as I always have been. If she is lesbian as I think she is I hope she knows I will love her no matter what.
I feel like the ending with both sides fighting shows that the fights still going with our rights and freedom. I think it shows that no matter how open you are you’ll always have a little bit of eternalized homophobia. I love how it ends I really think it shows that we’re still fighting. And we won’t stop either.
“Dad.. that involves a crane”
“Son.. you can have two cranes”
I NEED THIS KIND OF POSITIVITY IN MY LIFE
Stormy Lovely We all do
Stormy Lovely it really be like that
Zach walked into the yard like he just got off his million dollar yacht
Mabye he did
For real
That coat over the shoulder BOSS
Zach is secretly rich
They are millionaires so probably lol
"Young me would think that current me is in a good place."
Yes
i decided to watch this to se Eugene's vision, being a director, a genius. i know he'll tell us why he came out but knowing the Eugene we know, it'll be very little, he don't like drama or anything. but this video is, DEEP, DARK and REAL. Props to the director, the cast, the crew his supports, the try guys and ofcourse to Eugene himself. This should be viewed and explained as a educational video.
and i cried, alot, mostly from the start.
I just love how Zach, Keith and Ned are so supportive of Eugene. That right there is a true friendship.
Yeah! The try guys are true friends too!!
Yes!
"You can have 2 cranes."
*Keith panics*
2.4k likes and no comments??
I think Eugene almost cried
"WE DID NOT DISCUSS THIS!!" Kieth at some point probably
I love turtle
@@lisagardiner7642 happy know ?
As a Latina and pansexual woman who come from a Christian household i can relate to you so much ! You touched my heart so much and are so inspiring ! Don't be afraid to show your pain, insecurities and beautiful soul ♥ its wonderful to see you be so open and honest . I for one applaud you and thank you !
this is just eugene at therapy and i love it
“Are you finally happy?”
“No.”
Too relatable.
You are human. It's enough. We're a work in progress.
Same ☹️
I know....
@@Miss_NatashaO That actually cheers me up a little.Thanks🙂
I wish someone would define happy???......does he mean happy with his self/life/accomplishments/ ???
Can we just take a moment of the last shot before it faded, 26:56, Eugene face seemed to slightly crumble as he was overwhelmed of his achievement and what he is finally doing, but he took a deep breath and touched his heart to calm himself. RESPECT.
I was thinking the same thing! So happy for him though. He dud an absolutely amazing job, and it came out beautifully.
xxmxxpxx he was successful before this though....
Mike Russo But now he’s successful being 100% true to himself. Which is, I’m assuming, an overwhelmingly freeing but also scary at the same time experience.
@@THESLlCK why do you feel the need to comment on every positive thread with negativity?
Zan W.
The negative Nancy is probably one of those tumblr “being gay doesn’t change you! Treat them as you always do. Being extra proud of them and their achievements because they’re gay makes them feel insecure.” Or some shit.
So to the negative dude: You’re allowed to be proud of Eugene. Like, he literally put MONTHS of effort into making a video coming out as gay. This is something that took so much effort. He accomplished a lot, if not for others, but for his own well-being.
Kane did an absolutely AMAZING job with this documentary. His storytelling abilities and ability to let the audience /witness/ a moment never cease to amaze me. GREAT JOB KANE!!!
you don't know how much you helped me
I came out to my sister as bi :D
"Dad, that involves a crane."
-Eugene Lee Yang 6-17-19
“Son, you can have 2 cranes.” - Ned Fulmer 6-17-19
One of my fave moments
😂😂
😂😂😂
did he fuck a cane ?????
Eugene: I was a very depressed kid
Camera man: till what age?
Eugene: 33
IM DEAD
Lana Rob if u didnt know he is 33 rn
Wolfy Stats
I didn’t know. Thanks for clearing that up:)
kid 33
I'm.alive
@@adeelazcano4308 oh my gosh look another homophobe that literally has no life and chooses to be an asshole
Wolfy Stats wait he is 33? omg if I look like that at the age of 33 imma bless everything and anything
I wish little baby Eugene had more support and felt the unconditional love all kids deserve to feel. No child should ever ever ever even think about IF they'll be finally happy one day. It breaks my heart that there are kids like Eugene all over the world who feel like they have to keep this huge part of themselves a secret. I hope all of them will grow up to be as strong, confidant and beautiful as this man.
I will always come back to watch this video and the actual "I'm gay - Eugene Lee Yang" video
The fact that Eugene suffered so much, but is now in a better place mentally gives me hope that one day, when I'm older, I'll be able to work through my depression and anxiety and maybe find whatever is closest to happiness.
You will! I believe in you!💕
You will....we've got your back
Rooting for you and your happiness and I hope you are getting closer each day 🤍
same😭
@United Shame of America he’s not dead? Wtf?
Eugene: the only thing I wrote to myself, “are you finally happy”
Me: *sobs*
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@@YoungAlienBoy StOp
Literally
Same
Everyone report Spooky's comments for spam, get this idiot kicked out of these comments
2:19 I love how Zach sounded and looked sincerely emotional
Both this video and I’m Gay helped me comes to terms with my sexuality. I’m asexual and aromatic. Most people in my life that I’ve told that they don’t believe that asexuality is real. A few people were accepting but the vast majority didn’t even acknowledge that asexuality is real and brushed it off. It’s been a strange journey so far. I hope it gets better
Can we just have a moment to talk about how supportive and loving Ned, Zach and Keith are towards Eugene and his whole journey. 👏🏽😇
That's what I always loved about the Try Guys. They were always supporting towards the LGBT community and I think are pretty comfortable with their own and other sexuality.
Lolo Rella exactly 👏
Truly a brotherhood.
I hav a question are all of them like not straight
Ya bravo it didn’t bother me but how cares I’m just one person, let’s just celebrate this really planned out way of showing who he is
"You're all the wonderful things you are, and also you're gay" I love that sentiment so much :')
Poor eugnee. "I'm serious about the drink". This was phenomenal.
When he said that some people that he was close to might disown him for this I felt that for totally different reasons
Ned, Keith and Zach are proud dads and I couldn't be anymore prouder I AM CRYING 😭💛
supportive dads have joined the chat
"i kinda wish i was there to give you a hug right now, you know ?"
*walks in and hugs him*
omg:((( my heart
Eugene I wish I could be there to give you a hug
@@snehagavli5382 Honestly same
I was ok until then and then came the tears. So I didn’t last long.
me: tells my mum while walking the dog
eugene: *choreographs a beautiful dance and writes and direct a video to go with it*
Almost a year later, this video still brings me to tears. Thank you so much for being honest, genuine, and completely yourself with us. It really touches me on a personal level, especially the letter where you asked your future self "are you finally happy?" Because I wrote a very similar letter once. And I hope we're both moving forward to finding joy in our lives