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I talk shit on his comments sometimes but this guy actually knows what he’s talking about. I used to be the same kid as he was. Loser with a capital L is how I see my younger self.
Cue the rocky theme….😂
Only thing that lets me down is my height…it’s a huge issue for women..I’m 5 foot 4 inches
I agree that it makes it harder, but if there's someone out there that's 5'4 that isn't struggling with women, believe that you can achieve the same 👊🏻
What you focus on can be your biggest downfall or greatest achievement. You have everything else but focus on the one thing you don't have and it will become impossible for you to be happy.
I'm at a strange point in my life, I'm in a long-term relationship with the best woman I know. But if I started focussing on something I don't have - loads of different women every month - then I could still be depressed. Sometimes I just talk to random women to get a kick out of it and see their reaction, their smiles when they are approached. But then I just end the conversation and move on without exchanging contacts or anything.
What I'm trying to say is: You control what makes you happy or unhappy. You control if it stays that way or not, too. But thinking "I'm depressed ONLY because I don't have success with women" is just not true. There will always be something. How many women can you actually be with and still be happy? It becomes boring at one point and you'll fall into another hole because there is always something you don't have. Accept it. Who told you you should be happy? That's what I say to myself while I keep moving in a positive direction.
You don't have to date loads of women, one that you really love and value is absolutely fine. Some men want to sleep around, some men want to find the one. Either way, cold approach can help you get there.
If you're in a committed relationship with a great woman, then I'm happy for you :)
Great video, very inspirational. I’m still at a low, due to the passing of my father about 4 maybe 5 years ago, the loss of my dog after that who I had for about 12 years and my breakup from my first girlfriend within the same year and I don’t think I truly healed from those events, (even though I try to keep going). I want to meet more girls, but it’s hard for me when I’m a full time caregiver for a parent. I just wish I had more people to talk to and open up.
damn Im sorry for your losses man.
@@grtf47 Thanks, it’s all good, and I’m getting by slowly. I just need more social interaction as physical contact with women, or I’ll go crazy, which I already am.
Sorry to hear that mate. Keep your head up
@@BartekSocial Thanks mate, I’m getting by slowly. I tear up sometimes when I see elderly people, makes me think of my father. Same goes when I hear certain songs or see certain movies, think of me and my ex; we were together for over 5 years. I just tell myself that there’s someone else out there who’s better looking and personality is better. I do, however miss the sex, it was always great! Was interesting, because after the breakup, I’ve had sex dreams about the two of us every night for about a month.
Brah, life goes on "2pac"@@ponokunishima1
From zero to hero
Yo Bartek, do you know Richard from former StreetAttraction (they were also based in UK), he's also Polish.
Hello
Quality
5:52 😂😂😂
Not a dig but is there a reason you only wear a black t shirt ?
most of my t-shirts are black as they're the most practical haha
Wait, weren't you retracting from pick up activty due to career chances?
I did retract for a month, but not for career chances. This is my career
Ok tbh I don't agree with this but I see what you getting at. I don't think I hate again I don't agree with this self blaming just for outisde factors. Im sure that there's some things that are easy to improve like speaking to people I.E speaking to people, public speaking and just having confidence to speak in a very good tone. Cos not having confidence in anything is going to be a problem going forward but apart from it getting rejected just cos of your looks or whatever reasons is not even your fault only a small fraction of it and how you say will determine a woman attraction towards you negative or postiive.
But, you see that appracoh might work with men that need tough man appraoch or street gang approach but for normal every day man that isn't going to work. What you will need to do is recongise each culture in every audience and try to tailor them in a normal manner in a way that everyone would understand and not having to resent to this tough man mindset just to get girls. Come on there are better ways to invest ourselves rather than saying it's my fault for everything when you just self blaming yourself and going to the gym just to hate yourself more is going to get worse for your mental health. I'm not doing this out of spite im doing this, because I know a bit more than you do when I was in the same position as you in terms of not approaching women at all.
See I still can't get dates yet cos of convicence factors but at least show some confidence and knowingly how to talk to females would be enough for you to take that confidence mindset to anywhere in the world.
You're making excuses for yourself because you don't know how to play the game. That's fine, you can learn. Robert Greene, Corey Wayne, David Deida. You're welcome.
@@narc0polo966 Why would I make excuses when the true reality is that not everyone wants to sleep around and hook up different bunch of women when you can just go to bunch of events or anywhere. Like if anything else check Jacked and stacked and Austin Holloman they are both making excuses not me. Im not on whatever pill im on real life mood not just some internet pill that I confide with you know.
How tall are you btw?
183cm/6ft
If you were truly honest and open you would say that cold approaching is the most low rated most low percentage method to meet women no matter how much you improve or already are improved but that doesn't sell any courses
How else would you exchange contacts with a stranger you randomly meet in public?
Oh and let me add something. You only get turned down because you speak to the wrong women at the wrong time. Once you get a feel for human behaviour, body language and non verbal communication it'll be so easy to understand who you should and should not approach. Very simple first exercise, everyone can do it: Look at her, smile, ready her face. She smiles back at you? Talk to her. She doesn't or doesn't even look at you? Not worth your time. You can't brute force attraction. It's either there or it is not.
@aceofbase7239
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If you were truly honest and open you would say that cold approaching is the most low rated most low percentage method to meet women no matter how much you improve or already are improved but that doesn't sell any courses
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I agree. But TH-cam is full of grifters plying their trade.
No one is forcing you to buy my program mate. Those that see the value in it will, and those that don't see the value don't. Personally, cold approach has been a life-changing skill to acquire, so just because you haven't had success with it, doesn't mean you should project that onto everybody else.
Also, I've never once said it's the only way you should meet women. Cold approach is just one of many tools to do so. You can still use apps if you want, or go clubbing etc., but you can also supplement it with cold approach if you see a woman you like as you're out and about.
@@BartekSocial I love cold approch..I'm doing it the last more than 20 years...I'm just saying the success rate is very low..and even many popular Pua's are telling the success rate is like 3%
"Want to become the guy who can approach ANY woman at ANY time" sounds like you need to be in jail. its creepy af. wtf is wrong with men these days .